Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Friendsgiving Fight

Episode Date: November 26, 2018

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LASIK at evergreen.com. Moving 92.5. Rook and Jubal's Second Date Update You know, some people say you should never date your friends. And other people say you should always date your friends. Okay. All I know is you should definitely wear your friend's underwear when they're not around.

That's the only thing I know about friend relationships. That's not a good thing. Other than that, I'm kind of lost when it comes to friends and relationships. But we're going to learn a little bit from Lisa, who's on the phone right now, because apparently she wants to do a second date update with a friend of hers. Oh, really? Is that right, Lisa?

That's right. Are you currently wearing his underwear? No. Okay. Well, then you're not good enough friends to even really call yourself friends. So, yeah, your email was a bit confusing. So you went on a date with your friend? Well, then you're not good enough friends to even really call yourself friends. So, yeah, your email was a bit confusing. So you went on a date with your friend? Well, okay.

So we have this circle of friends, and we just kind of met a new guy, and he just recently joined. We've been hanging out for probably about a year, and I don't know. I've just kind of had a crush on him since the day I saw him. His name's Emilioio emilio he's really cool and we all get along really well you know and so i just kind of decided that i wanted to ask him out so did he know immediately that you were asking him out on a date or did he think it was just friendly backstory um we always do a friends giving and over, everybody brings something, and we do this big party.

Well, I figured because it was going to be his first Friendsgiving, why don't we go and have, like, a drink first, just he and I, and it could be kind of a date. And we could go to the party together, and not everybody would need to know or anything, but he and I would know. Okay, so it's like a secret date. Yeah, kind of to just, just like see how it felt. And did it feel good? Why do you say it like that? It was just a drink, Jubal. How did it feel?

Yeah, she wanted to see how it felt, so I'm just wondering how did it feel? She's kind of like test the waters. I'm blushing so hard right now, oh my God. So it felt good if you're blushing. No, but I think that that's a really smart idea because then you don't have the pressure of your friends also pushing a relationship on you if you guys find out that you don't actually click. Exactly. And I was like, I went back and forth on it for a couple of days.

I finally gave him a call and I was like, yo, what do you feel about this? And he was like, yeah, sure. Let's go have a drink. So we did. And it turned out great. Like we had great conversation and we didn't need the other people around us, you know, to have that conversation. Right. And did it feel like a date the whole time? Or was it just like two friends hanging out until you meet up with your other friends? Well, at first it kind of felt like the latter, the two friends. But then he totally, like, ordered my drink for me when he found out what I was getting. And he paid. Like, it was a date.

It was, I don't know, it felt like a date to me. Was there any outright flirting that was going on? Oh, yeah. I mean, there was definitely some, like, flirting or anything. But no, like, kiss or anything yet. You know, it was very, he was a gentleman. All right, you wanted to wait until you got to your Friendsgiving party so you guys could just start making out at the table and confuse everybody.

All over the pumpkin pie. Yeah, and just have the rest of your friends like, what just happened? We wanted to put on a show. So fast forward, the date went great. We got to Thanksgiving, and everything seemed to be fine. You know, nobody really knew. It wasn't anything that was super obvious, but the issue happened like when dinner was actually being served. Oh, there's an issue. Yes, there is an issue. Unfortunately, we're all sitting at dinner and

I guess some political crap was being talked about. I don't, I don't really know. It was kind of on the other side of me, But I guess it really upset Emilio. And one of our other friends, they were fighting and arguing. And all of a sudden, they both stood up from their chairs and were getting very puffed up. You know, like guys do when they're like, ah. So wait, this is Emilio and then one of your friends that was at the table? Yeah, it's one of our friends. It sounds like an awesome Friendsgiving. They look like they're about to beat the crap out of each other and and i'm sitting

there like whoa what happened emilio are you okay and everyone's trying to just calm everybody down because no one's like blaming anybody it's just a conversation that went awry so what happened did they fight well they start yelling and our other friend starts to, like, rear back to hit him in the face. And then one of the friends catches him, and Emilio just, like, leaves. He just rushes off. He's like, I'm sorry, I can't do this. This is ridiculous. And he just leaves.

And he won't return my calls. I've been trying to text and call, and I thought we had a good time. And I don't know if he's just embarrassed from what happened because he's, like's like the new friend or if there's something wrong with me I don't know yeah I mean even if something like that happened and you guys were cool you'd still think he'd respond to you right right like maybe we could gossip about our crazy friend and he hasn't said a word to you he hasn't and I've sent him like text messages like, hey, man, I'm so sorry about what happened. Do you want to talk? And I've even called and left messages. And my last message was basically, hey, I'm here if you need me. Things got heated. It'll blow over. And then nothing still. Wow. And have you heard from your circle of friends? He hasn't talked to anybody

like everybody. We kind of we have this group message, you know, and everyone's kind of like, question mark, question mark, Emilio. And the other guy, his name was Rob. They're all like, Rob's taking a few days to himself. It's always a Rob that starts a fight, isn't it? It's always Rob. Oh, Rob. But I'm just so confused and I'm so hesitant and I just feel awkward. Okay, well, we'll help you out and make

it even more awkward. We'll play a song and then we'll come back and get your second date update. All right. Thank you. Thank you. Yep. Hang on. You know, Lisa, if you didn't have friends, none of this would have happened. I know. I tell myself that every day. I, none of this would have happened. I know. I tell myself that every day. I think this whole thing is your fault. No friends. You don't have to worry about other people.

It's great. Trust me. Try it out. Anyway, unfortunately, you do have friends, and now you're on the phone for a second date update. If you're just joining us, Lisa wants to call her friend Emilio. They actually have been friends for a while. He's in the same friend group as her And before a Friendsgiving event They decided to get together early

Just the two of them and have a drink as a date To see how it went And apparently everything went great But then they went to the Friendsgiving And this dude Emilio ended up almost getting in a fight With another dude over some political argument And then stormed out And she hasn't talked to him since

So we're about to call him and find out One, if he likes Lisa, and two, if he's ever going to be back in that friend group again. And just to be clear, like, none of your other friends are pissed at Amelia or Rob, right? Everybody understands that. No, they just thought that, you know, politics are crazy right now, and people get in arguments, and everything's cooled down. Like, Rob's fine.

Again, he's just kind of taking a rob sabbatical is what we call it rob batical oh rob batical i like that so he's off for three days kind of being by himself and so everybody's fine but i just can't get emilio to answer back okay well i'm gonna call him right now and see if he'll pick up our phone and then find out if he enjoyed your date or not thank you all right here we go hello hey is this Emilio uh yeah this is Emilio who's this hey Emilio how are you man this is Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the Morning. Okay, what's that? It's a radio show.

Okay. Take it. You're a daily listener. He sounds avid. Super fan. No, sorry. What is it about? Emilio, I'm calling you because we do a segment on our show.

It's called The Second Date Update. Have you ever heard anything like that before? No. Okay, well, I'll explain. What it is is if you go on a date with somebody and then end up not calling them back after, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out what went wrong.

So we actually got an email about you into the show. About me? Yeah. Who is it from? Wouldn't you like to know? Yeah? Yeah, thought so Well, if you give me your credit card number

What? For easy payments, I can tell you who emailed the show Amelia, don't listen to him He's kidding Okay, no, I'm not going to give him my credit card number But like, seriously, who are you talking about? It was worth a shot I'm talking about Lisa

Lisa, like, like Lisa Lisa? you talking about? It was worth a shot. I'm talking about Lisa. Lisa, like Lisa Lisa? I don't know if that's her last name. But Lisa, who you probably know pretty well, she's a friend of yours and you guys actually went on like a little date before your friend's giving.

Yeah, yeah, we did. Yeah, is her last name Lisa? Is it Lisa Lisa? No, Jubal. No, no, it's not. Oh, okay. Yeah, she emailed us. She told us about your date and said that she had a great time with you and then also told us about what happened

at your Friendsgiving, how you almost got in a fight with another dude and stormed off. Yeah, the whole thing was kind of awkward. That sounds like it. Yeah. I mean, I don't even think she really cares about that, though. I mean, she knows politics can get heated.

I think she cares because you're not calling her back. No, I know. But, like, I don't know. I kind of just wanted to wait for, like, the whole thing to die down. And, honestly, like, it was stupid. Like, it's totally my fault. Okay. But from her description, it's all died down. Like, it's totally my fault. Okay. But from her description, it's all died down.

Like, it's dead. Yeah, and she said she really enjoyed going on a date with you and really wants to go out with you again. Yeah, I mean, like, honestly, I can't even believe she contacted you about this. Like, it's actually, like, super embarrassing for me. Really? I mean, it sounds like everybody understands that you just got in a fight, if that's what you're worried about.

Yeah, no, I mean, I'm stupid, and I put myself in a really, really bad spot. What'd you do, though? Hold up. It's from everything, from what she tells us, it sounds like you just got in an argument with your buddy. And you have to explain more than that, because what are we supposed to do? Go back to Lisa and be like, well, it's all his fault, and he made a huge, horrible decision, but we can't tell you what it is okay um maybe i'll just tell you guys and like

you guys can tell her because i don't think i'm probably going to talk to her after this yeah but like i'm seriously like i i shouldn't have even agreed to go out with her in the first place. Okay. We've been friends with, like, the same group of friends for a while, and she was like, do you want to go get a drink before this thing? And I can't say no, because then things would be, like, really awkward later, you know, that night. And so I said I would, because, like, I didn't want to hurt her feelings and stuff. And so at the bar, when we went out, I was starting to see that, like, oh, no, like, she, like, really likes me. And, like, I don't think I can turn back from this.

Like, this is, like, a date. Oh, no. So we go after to this thing, and, like, I kind of go hang out with like my friends and like I could start to tell the way she was like talking to her friends and looking over at us that like she wanted more to happen and so I was telling like my friends are like what's going on why is she like acting all weird with you and I was like yeah I told them like we went on this date and they were like okay well what are you gonna do and I was like I don't know I don't know how to like get out of this I don't know what I'm supposed to do and so they kind of gave me this idea.

It was so dumb. But at the time, like, we were drinking and, like, we were being dumb. And so they were like, we should just, like, pretend that we, like, got into a fight. What? Pretend we have a fight. And then you could, like, leave and be all mad. And then you don't have to deal with it anymore. staged the whole thing wow i did not see that yeah and i'm guessing you're in a tough spot now because you didn't think into the future how that's going to affect you

no i didn't think about anything it was like we were kind of drunk and like i was just thinking like in that moment i was like okay how do i get out of here right now without, like, making it about her? And so I was like, well, then she'll just think I'm mad at these dudes. And so, like, he stormed out after me. And then we just, like, I don't know, like, him and I just went down the street and, like, drank, you know, for the rest of the night. I see you two were probably drunk and cheersing, like, that was amazing, dude. I can't believe we pulled it off. I know you guys are laughing, but you are such an a-hole.

How is that easier than just being honest with someone and respectful of their feelings, especially if it's somebody who you consider to be a friend? I think Emilio knows that. He's saying that he was drunk and stupid. I think that's why he sounds like he's feeling bad about it. Is that right? Yeah. Yeah, no, seriously.

And now I don't know what to do. I don't know how I can ever tell her that or talk to her again even. Well, it's a good thing we did it for you because she's actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. Oh, my God. Yeah. Seriously? Lisa, are you there? Are you f***ing kidding me?

Lisa's definitely there. Are you telling me that Rob was in on this whole thing and you guys faking so I don't feel bad? Newsflash, now I feel even worse because now everybody knows and is laughing at me. How is this in any way a better solution, Emilio, than

saying, no, Lisa, I don't want to go out with you. Because I... Everybody was there. I didn't want to make you feel bad in front of everyone. So now I feel bad forever. I don't know. I mean, I told you it was dumb. It was a stupid thing.

It was a dumb thing that we all did. I'm awesome. Why can't we have a drink and it not be weird? That's right, Lisa. You tell him how awesome you are. No. You're just, like like not my type. What does that exactly mean, Emilio?

Because I've seen the girls that you have gone out with. Whoa, okay. We've known each other a year, and I've seen some questionable choices. Okay, well, fine. You know, if we're just going to like be all honest and upfront about it, then I'll just tell you the deal is you're not my type because I'm into girls who have bigger chests than you do. Okay.

It's just boobs? Like, literally boobs are the only reason you're not going out with someone. I have these. How much boobs do you need? Okay, well, yeah, that's not big enough for me. I like them bigger. What do you like? Enjoy not breathing ever again.

My God, Emilio. See, I told you. That's why I didn't want to tell you because you wouldn't understand. Like, I have a type of girl that I like, and they're bigger than you. Oh, my God. Just keep dating bimbos. Big, big-ass bimbos. Go enjoy.

Okay, yeah, no, I will. I will because they're going to be hotter than you. Oh, I doubt that. Enjoy your time. Well, before you guys come to that conclusion, I still have to ask. Emilio, would you like to go on a second date with Lisa? We'll pay for it. No.

Oh. Lisa, are you interested in a second date with Emilio, or am I picking up the wrong signal? Oh, yeah, you are. I honestly don't think I'd be able to fill out his bra, so no. All right, well, it's kind of at least you guys realize you don't want to date each other. Any chance of you guys being friends? No way. I mean, I don't see a problem if we're still in the same group of friends.

Like, if we were hanging out at the same place, I don't care. No, I do have a problem, because you just staged Ocean's 14 at our friend's giving. Alright, well, I'll let you two work out the rest, but Lisa, thank you for your email. I'm glad you got an answer to your question. And Emilio, I'll just text in right now, 78592, if you got some triple Z's.

Emilio is interested in you. That's what I'm talking about. Broken Jubal in the morning. I'm going to text in at 7858592 says, I don't know about them going on a second date, but I would not want to be friends with anybody in that friend group. Talking about today's second date update. If you missed it, Lisa wanted to call her

friend Emilio. They actually went out on a date before a Friendsgiving and then at the Friendsgiving Emilio got in a huge fight over something and then left and wasn't talking to her. And we got him on the phone and we found out that what really happened was he got a little drunk and really wasn't interested in dating her. He didn't know that they were actually going on like a real date beforehand.

And so he and his friends got together and staged a big argument so he could leave and wouldn't have to like be cornered to try to kiss her or something at the end of the night. And he left and wasn't talking to her. But then he felt bad because he realized he was drunk and made a mistake. And how's he going to get back in the friend group after he just staged that whole thing to get away from her? So elaborate. He also said that she's not his type

because she doesn't have boobs that are big enough. And he likes ridiculously big ones, I guess. Just even in the recap, they all need new friends. Yeah, they do. Just a big breakup. Too much drama. No second date for them. And we'll see if they can remain friends. Remember, if you want to do a second date update, just email the show, and we will call

the person who didn't call you back. Moving 92.5. Joel, the holidays are a blast, but the financial hangover, that can be a huge bummer. If you are out there and you're dreading the new statement email that reveals the massive balance that you may have racked up, well, you could use our help. That's right. I'm Joel. And I am Matt. And we're from the How To Money podcast. Our show is all about helping you make sense of your personal finances so you can ditch your pesky credit card debt once and for all, make real progress on other crucial financial goals that you've got, and just feel more in control of

your money in general. You know it. For money advice without the judgment and jargon, listen to How to Money on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show, and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition Podcast. Dive into Jon's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors.

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