Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - 2nd Date Update UPDATE PODCAST: Wrong Day Wrong Date

Episode Date: September 27, 2018

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on with them now are they still together are they not together did a third or we spoke to in the past to find out what's going on with them now. Are they still together? Are they not together? Did a third or fourth party join in the fun? You never know what could happen. And the people we have on the phone today had one of the most memorable calls of the year. And it's not because they had a very romantic story. In fact, it was kind of the opposite. And we were very surprised when they said that they had an update for us. So we'll play the audio of the original second date update for you, and then we'll talk to the couple immediately following that. It's your second date update update right now. Moving 92.5. Brooke and Jubal's Second Date Update.

A listener named Amanda is on the phone for a second date update today, and she's smart. Okay. Because she did what people normally don't do. She did her research. Like, not just on the date, the person she was going with, but the actual place. She showed up the day before, interviewed everybody at the restaurant, waited around, checked it out to make sure that it was the proper location to have a date. That was psycho.

Isn't that right, Amanda? No, that's not exactly what I did. Oh, my God. Thank God. I was trying to spin what you did and make it better, but I guess not. Yeah. Thank you for trying to make it better, but no, that's not exactly what I did. Yes, I did go to the restaurant the day before, but that was on accident.

Oh, okay. You didn't go to make sure that you had the best lighting at the table so that you looked fantastic no matter what happened on your date right no but that's a great idea no i totally screwed up i should have the restaurant and i was waiting uh for a really long time and i kept calling him and texting him until finally got a response and he wrote me back saying that we actually had planned a date the following night. Shut up. So he screwed up your schedule and showed up to the restaurant a day early. Where are you, jerk? That's true.

You should have kept blaming it on him and been like, no, I'm pretty sure it was tonight. I can't imagine the emotions you were going through, though. Yeah, after 30 minutes, I was pretty upset. Yeah. You're like hating this guy so much. And then you realize it's your own fault. Did you say anything rude to him when you texted him? You know, when I didn't hear from him, I kind of just wrote like, dude, are you showing

up or not? Because I'm going to leave. Yeah. Okay. That's not too bad. And so did you make it the next night? Yeah, we did. Okay.

Good. Everybody showed up the next night. Awesome. That's the plan. And it was a little weird when I showed up the second night in a row because all of the servers and the hostess remembered me. She's back. Yeah. It was awkward because the night before, I kept checking in with everyone wondering if they had seen this guy or if he was there.

Like, I have this picture of a police officer that shows up trying to track somebody down. Like, have you seen this man before in here ever? Exactly. Wait, how did you deal with that though? I mean, were you able to laugh or was it just weird? I mean, it was a little awkward but I had to laugh it off. I had no other choice. Okay. And was

he cool with it? Yeah, he made fun of me. Okay. As he should. As he should. Right. So how was the actual date? The actual date, I thought, went well. We had a lot of things in common, listened to the same music. A lot of our hobbies are the same. Conversation was good, but I haven't heard from him since. So when you were leaving the date, what was your thought? Like that you were for sure going to see him again? I don't know.

You know, I, to be honest, just dating is terrible and people ghost and you don't know what happens to them. Um, but yeah, I thought it went really well and we had a lot of chemistry,

but I don't know if he feels the same way because he's not calling me back. Or you've had plans with him for a while now, but you're not very good with your schedule. So you got it all screwed up. Yeah, he's waiting on you. Yeah, he's been waiting on your call. Yeah, maybe that's you. Oh, my God.

Did you guys kiss or anything? No. I wanted to kiss him to see if we had a deeper connection, but we just kind of hugged and said it was really nice to meet each other and thank you for a nice evening. And no plans to go out again? Like you guys didn't say, we should totally go out again. No, I didn't make any plans. I was kind of hoping that he would be the one to call me and plan another date. But I don't know.

Maybe he thought I was going to screw that one up too and then show up twice. Just like screw it. Okay, well, we'll play a song, come back, and then call him and get your second date update, okay? Okay. All right, we're going to do it next back, and then call him and get your second date update, okay? Okay. All right, we're going to do it next. Okay. Like, after the song.

Like, don't go anywhere. Don't show up somewhere else, okay? I promise. All right, hang on. Hey, Amanda, you there? Yes, I'm here. Hey, you know, at the end of the first part of the second date update, you made the comment that dating sucks. Totally.

Yeah. That's why I'm thinking when we call this guy and find out if he'll go on another date with you or not, if he says yes, just skip everything. Get married right away. That way you don't have to worry about dating anymore. Great idea. And then if he says no, just the next guy you go on a date with, just meet him at the courthouse, get married. Just stop with the dating. You know?

Okay, great. It's like arranging your own wedding. Yeah, great idea. I'll keep that in mind. Okay, cool. If you're just joining us for today's second date update, Amanda is on the phone. She wants to call a dude named Jacob. They went out to eat dinner together.

The problem at the beginning of the whole thing was that Amanda showed up on the wrong day to the restaurant and then blamed him for standing her up. But they worked it out. They ended up going there the wrong day to the restaurant and then blamed him for standing her up. But they worked it out. They ended up going there the next day to eat dinner. She says they had a great time, but now he's not getting back to her and she doesn't know why. I'm just worried that this is going to go poorly and you're just going to give up on dating altogether. Like, could this be the last straw for you? You know, I don't know. I've had such bad luck in the past that I might as well know the truth.

Marriage, marriage, marriage. If you give up on dating, just get married, Amanda. That's the way it works. Because marriage is so much easier than dating. Yeah, super easy. Yeah. Right, right. All right. I'm going to dial his phone number right now, see if we can get him on the phone. Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Jacob? This is Jacob. Hey, Jacob, how are you? My name is Jubal from a radio show called Brook and Jubal in the Morning. Okay, can I help you with something?

No, just calling for no reason, just to talk. Yeah. Word. All right. I'm a little confused here. Do you need a donation or something? We do need that. That's actually true. I'm calling you because we got an email

from one of our listeners and it was about you. About me? Yeah. How so? Well, her name is Amanda and you guys went out to dinner the other day. Yes, we did. Yes, we did. Yes, you did.

Okay. And she showed up to the restaurant on the wrong day and then started to blame you for it. You remember that? Yes, I do remember that. Okay. Well, Amanda told us a little bit about your date when you guys actually did go out, and now she's wondering why you won't call her back. Really?

Yep. So she contacted you and told you all about our date? Yes. It sounded like a lovely date from what she described. Well, if I'm being 100% honest, this is a huge surprise to me because she did not seem very interested in me. Really? Really.

She told us the opposite. She said that she was really interested in you, but she thought that you weren't feeling it. Really? She told us the opposite. She said that she was really interested in you, but she thought that you weren't feeling it. Really? Really. I mean, why would she try to contact you for another date if she wasn't interested? Well, this whole thing is news to me. I

did not know that, and that was not the impression I got. That's to be sure. Wait, you haven't gotten a text message or a voicemail or something from her? I think I got a text message from her, but based on kind of how things went, it sort of seemed more like a courtesy, you know, hey, thanks. That was great. But not like she was really serious about wanting to see me again, especially after what, you know. Well, this could be one of the easiest second date updates we've ever done then.

Yeah. Guys, we should just hook you up right now then, obviously, because you guys both like each other and didn't know it. Well, I'm not sure that I actually really want to go out again, to be honest. What was she doing that made you think she wasn't interested? Well, the first sign I got was when the waiter came to the table to take our drink orders. He walked away and she said, wow, that guy's jawline looks just like my ex's. And I kind of was like, did she just say that? And then she just launched into it.

And the day she was just talking about her ex and kind of going on and on in this way that made me feel like, I mean, it was actually kind of sweet. It just seemed like she was still kind of hung up on him and, you know, like she seemed like a good person, but just honestly not over him. Yeah, when you're making comments about the waiter's jawline being similar to your ex, it sounds to me like that's all she's thinking about. Yeah, well, not only that, she kind of said, like, you know, we were working a lot. He was going to night school, and then he had to move for a job.

And it wasn't anything bad that happened, but he moved. And so, you know, I think they still have a cat together. He has a cat or something. Oh, my gosh. She went into great detail about her ex. Oh, I learned it all. Yeah, I learned it all. It's almost like you're on a date with that dude.

Yeah, I might as well have been. He might as well have just pulled right up. Were you asking her questions about it, or was she just... I didn't ask her anything about the ex. That's for sure. I wouldn't. Like, that wouldn't have been my style. And, like, I don't know.

I guess I kind of left the date thinking, this girl's really not that into me, and she's got some history that she's not cleared up with. So I went home and uh i guess when i was home i was thinking about it some more and so i checked out this guy um her ex um on facebook just because i was curious and well yeah you've heard so much about him why not it's like you're pulling up a celebrity's facebook page you facebook stalked her ex? I know, I know. Even when I was doing it, I was like, this is a little, this is beyond. But I was curious, you know.

I feel like I should have just friended the guy and knew enough about him. He seemed like a nice guy, you know, good-looking guy. But nothing really special I thought. It wasn't like, I mean, he certainly didn't do it for me. Okay, so you didn't find him hot? You didn't friend request him then, huh? Yeah, I mean, good enough looking guy, but... But you're just not really

what you need. I can't believe that we've gone from talking about your date to analyzing the looks of her ex on Facebook. I don't get it. You know, it was a strange night, and this kind of happened, and I was ready to move on And this kind of happened And was ready to move on Well, we're not really ready to move on yet

Neither is Amanda Because she's actually on the other line listening And wants to talk to you What? She's on the phone Yes, she's on the phone And she wants to talk to you Hi

Hey Amanda How's it going? Wow. Okay. Uh, you looked up my, my ex, huh? Uh, yeah, I guess I did. I was, I did. Guilty. Yeah. Yeah. You know, I've actually resisted, uh, really been trying to avoid it. And I don you know, I've actually resisted, really been trying to avoid it. And I don't know, is he like, he had a picture of him fishing. Is that still what he's doing? What are you doing? Yeah, I don't really remember what the picture was. But I mean, do you kind of, do you hear yourself right now?

I can kind of does anyone else yeah we're just letting you have the conversation so um what do you mean do you honestly don't hear like hear what you're doing yeah no i'm just like i'm interested because i i just want to know what he's up to. Like, does he have a status update? You know, like, what is he up to? Amanda, you're clearly not over this guy. No, I am. I'm totally over him.

I just, look, I've been with him for a really long time, and I'm just curious to what he's doing. His profile picture had another girl in it, but I don't know if it was that sister. What? Did she have brown hair with like blonde highlights in the front? Oh my gosh. Oh no. Amanda, it doesn't matter. It's your ex.

It doesn't matter. Yeah, it does matter. I want to know because I want to know if it's his sister or if it's the girl he was dating before me. Oh my gosh, Amanda. Yeah, listen, I'm sorry. I should not have brought that up. No, I don't think you should have. Amanda, you do not need to be dating right now.

Yeah, look, you're not in charge of my life. I thought dating would be a really good thing for me. So, you know, I dated this guy and now I'm not and I'm trying to find someone new. Okay. Yeah, but you're still focusing quite a bit on the old dude, Amanda. Yeah. That's what we're trying to say. It's not fair to you, to the new dude.

It's not really fair to anybody until you heal whatever's going on there. If you were dating someone for over a year, and then you found out that some other girl was in his profile picture on Facebook, then you would be really upset, too, and probably want to know who it is. Okay? I agree with you completely, Amanda. I'm on your side. 100%. Probably not when

you have your date on the phone, too. I don't know. Like, maybe if you were talking to your best girlfriend. Look, I'm just curious, and I want to know. So, Jacob, could you please tell me more about what you saw on his Facebook profile? Yeah, you know, I'm going to... That's a hard

no, Amanda. You know what? I have a better idea. Jacob, how about this? Would you like to go on a second date with Amanda? We will pay for it and then you guys can talk all about it. You know what? As fun as that sounds, I'm going to decline. Thank you very much. Dude, you guys could gossip about the whole thing

the whole time. No, Jacob, you know what? You owe me for this. Okay okay i know that everyone is laughing about this right now but you were the one who looked and i think that you owe it to me to tell me what you found oh my gosh wow okay so why don't you just do yourself a favor and look at his facebook profile or are you are you blocked or something? That sounds a little... Yeah. Good idea. Yeah, why aren't you on there, Amanda? Good point.

I don't want to talk about that. I'm just curious about what you know. Okay. Well, Amanda, how about this? How about this? How about you just set up like a dummy account and then try to follow him? That's what most sane people do.

Yeah. I don't appreciate your lame advice. Thank you, but no thank you, Jacob. When we hang up on this radio station, I am going to contact you, and I am going to expect that you give me some answers about what you found. Oh, my God.

He opened the floodgate. Oh, you need some good girlfriends right now, Amanda. Shut up and stop telling me what to do. Oh, my God. Amanda, it's your life. Live it the way you see fit. And I guess you'll be reaching out to Jacob because there's nothing we can do about that. Yeah.

Yet. Yeah, I will be reaching out to him and he better answer the phone, Jacob. Oh. All right. I'm scared. That really makes me eager. I love a good threat. All right.

Well, Amanda, looks like no second date for you. Hopefully you can get the information that you want, though. And I guess we did find out that dating really does suck after all. Yeah, that's a problem. Broken Jubal in the morning. All right, that was a second date update from a few months ago. And apparently we actually have an update on the second date update. A second date update update.

I'm going to try to say update at least seven more times before I get into it. But Amanda and Jacob are actually on the phone with an update on their situation, I guess. Amanda, did you ever get over your ex or are you still stuck on him? And that's all you guys have been talking about. No, I am totally over my ex. I know that I sounded crazy. It's all right. We've all felt what you felt.

We'll do that to you. We get it. Thank you. Yeah. So you've moved on. Yes. Took some time off from really dating anyone and then reconnected with Jacob. Okay.

So you guys actually talked again after. I was wondering why you were both on the phone. Yeah. Yeah. You know, well, I reached out not too long ago and then we had like a little late night hangout. Oh, so Jacob, you didn't think when you saw her number call, like, oh, this crazy chick again.

Well, I was a little hesitant, but at the same time, she always had a place in my heart. So, you know, she called me kind of late, so I wanted to make sure everything was okay. Yeah, right. That's what every guy thinks. Sounds like a booty call. Thanks, Jacob.

Yeah. I mean, you know, things are good, and we're together now. Oh, you guys are dating? Oh, Jacob. Yeah. I mean, you know, things are good and we're together now. Oh, you guys are dating? Shut up. Congratulations, I guess. Thanks. Yeah. Wait.

How long have you guys been dating? Wait, wait, wait. We had fun. Yeah, but I didn't think that we were going to put like a label on it. Oh. It was? I thought that we were just supposed to come on here and tell them that we hung out again and that was the point of all of this well no i mean i think

it's more than that i remember we talked a lot and then agreed that we are going to make this official official that that's amanda that's a little it's a little fast i think i don't remember any conversation about it committing to a relationship. I'm sorry, guys. This is embarrassing. Jacob, we talked about this, and then we said that we were going to be exclusively with each other and not other people. No, we did not say that. I said if this was fun, we should do this again.

Wait, what? So wait, are you guys trying to figure out if you're together right now? No, I mean, we are. We definitely talked about it. And, like, this is frustrating because we came on here to do an update about our relationship. So I don't really understand what's going on right now. Amanda, you literally just called me yesterday to say that the radio people wanted to talk to us. And that was it.

I had no idea that you were going to try to announce a relationship in front of these people. Uh-oh. Okay. Well, this is really frustrating. And I'm shocked that you're acting like this because when you were at my place, you were acting very different. We definitely did not have this conversation like this. I don't know where you're making these leaps. Oh, my God.

We sat there and we said this is really fun. We should do this more often. So I don't really understand, Jacob, what you're trying to do right now. Honestly, Amanda, maybe we should just not be talking about this in front of everybody on the radio.

Well, this is, I think we need to like sort this out. Yeah. Yeah. Plus we're getting short on time. Well, it sounds like everything's great for you guys. Thanks for calling in with the update. I look forward to the update on this one.

Cute couple. Yeah, we'll do a second date update update update update update on this one. You guys make us believe in love all over again. Oh, man. Broken Jubal in the morning. Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show, and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast.

Dive into Jon's unique take on the biggest topics in politics entertainment sports and more joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors and with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, you guys, I'm Katherine Legg. I'm a racing driver who's literally driven everything with four wheels across the planet.

And I've got a new podcast. It's called Throttle Therapy. This season, I'm competing in some of the world's most notorious racing events. Tune into my new podcast, Throttle Therapy, with Catherine Legg, an iHeart Women's Sports production in partnership with Deep Blue Sports and Entertainment. You can find us on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Presented by Elf Beauty, founding partner of iHeart Women's Sports. I'm Dr. Laurie Santos, and to welcome the new year, my podcast, The Happiness Lab, is releasing a series of happiness how-to guides to help you in 2025. I'll distill the wisdom of world-class experts into easy-to-digest, actionable tips. Struggling with tough emotions? We have a how-to guide. Worried that you're not enough? We got you. Self-obsessed and want to get

over yourself there's a guide for that too the happiness labs how-to season starts january 1st listen on the iheart radio app apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts