Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update Classic: Hot Date Hijack

Episode Date: March 22, 2025

What started as a romantic one on one date ended with our listener sandwiched between three gorgeous women all night! He’ll explain how he did it coming up in your Second Date Update podcast! Get your 2nd Date Update Merch For A Cause HERE!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Okay. Hey. Is that single you? Look how excited she got single you? I know she fucked up. Are you happy finally? No, I love being married to my husband. I know. Let's say you're hanging out at the bar. Yup. You're the same age that you are right now. Oh, I don't want to say it out loud. Just keep that in mind. But again, you're single and you see a cute guy cross the room. Okay, very attractive Do you approach him or do you try to get him to notice you so that he walks over? I've never had any tact so I would definitely approach him. Brooke's an approach her first

What do you do? What do you do? Oh, I don't know is maybe buy him a drink Extra you're just like hi. I't know. Maybe buy him a drink? You don't do anything extra. You're just like, Hi, I'm Brooke. I think you're cute. Can I buy you a drink? You flash a bunch of money in his face and try to win him over like that. I've told many guys at bars when I was single, you're hot. That's kind of it. We love that.

No, I love that. Girls will finally tell you what you like to do. Told you. I don't have much shame or anything. Or a game at all. Well, no, not really. But it works. I'm telling you. Yeah, it works. Girls will finally tell you I don't have much shame or anything I'm telling you I do think you forgot. I said you're still your same age as now, but I'm gonna let you get away

But I bring it up cuz one of our listeners says that he got approached by not just one but two different women He thinks he knows the secret on how that happened So let's talk to him Tony welcome to the show. Hi, how you guys doing? We're my two twins at the bar She means look-alikes I know you went on a date recently who is it with her name is Gemma. We actually met on a dating app with? Her name is Gemma. We actually met on a dating app. Nice. I thought you said somebody approached you at the bar. You met on a dating app? Yeah. So I know. Sorry. That might have been a little confusing. So we went to this Mexican spot and it had these like giant long shared table things. Oh, yeah. Like community seating. Yeah, exactly. We're like sitting with different parties and stuff like that. And it's kind of social, you know, people are talking to each other and interacting. But I thought that I was being pretty clear to the rest of the restaurant that me and Gemma are not brother and sister. We were there on a date together. How do you, how do you be clear about that? Like t-shirts matching? This is my date. That would be brother sister

No, I don't think so but it was more like the way we got treated I guess cuz we were I mean we were flirting we were doing the whole date thing and Two girls were kind of across from us Okay like I said it was a social thing and Gemma at one point got up and she went to the bathroom and during that time these two girls came over and sat on either side of me and Just kind of inserted themselves into the situation Like, you know, I like two girls that are out together they're like, oh look at there on a first date Let's go mess. You know what? I mean? She thinks it's going bad. I think it's going great first date let's go mess you know what I mean she thinks it's going bad I think it's going great was it like I don't know I don't know what it was but when

Gemma came back to the table she kind of sat not in the seat that they were in but a little away from me like across from me almost the women were still there when she came back from the bathroom yeah they stayed there they were basically just paying attention to me. They were like laughing at jokes that I was trying to say and stuff like that. It was weird. Wait, is it good at all that maybe she saw

that they liked your vibe and she was like, oh, he's- No, no, not at all. Not even like a tiny bit. I was crying. It's one thing if they're like making it a joke, right? And they're including her and it feels like a group thing, but this sounds like she was really left out. Yeah.

It probably hurt. Yeah. I was trying to do everything I could to show her non-verbally that I am not interested in them. I'm trying to play footsie with her. I'm trying to engage with her and let her know, like, hey, I didn't ask these girls to come over here. They just did it on their own.

It's got nothing to do with me. You didn't do everything because you didn't move. Yeah. Or ask them to do with me in one time I pretended to fall asleep during a day to get the message across that I wasn't interested in your mind what do you think was happening there I kind of and I told her this too I think the only reason that they were even interested in me to begin with was because I was out with a really attractive girl. And that's the only time that that ever happened to me.

Did Gemma like that reason? Not at all. Were you able to salvage the date at all? Yeah, that's a good point. Like how long were they there? They were there for the rest of the date, but we didn't stay much longer. We, uh, awkwardly left and she wasn't really talking to me at the end. They were there for the rest of the date, but we didn't stay much longer we Awkwardly left and she wasn't really talking to me at the end and no kiss or anything. I would just kind of hugged and yeah

Did you bring it up with Gemma though about like sorry about those two girls like I wasn't interested He told her the whole reason he thought they were doing that after after the date or during yeah Well, the girls were right there, so it was hard for me to address it at the table. I just waited till we were in the car and I apologized for their behavior and said, look, I had nothing to do with me, I'm sorry, that was weird. What did she say?

Well, that's good. She said she understood, but there wasn't much after that. Yeah. Okay. Yeah, dang. What do you wish you would have done differently? It was a weird social situation. So, I mean, I guess I should have asked for a private table,

but that was kind of the whole experience of the spot was to do that with other people. Weird. I wonder. I wonder what her side is. Yeah. What does she see? Well, we'll get that from her when we reach out to her. But at least next time, probably need to avoid the shared long tables. Yeah, table for two. Or just accepting attention from other women.

Just the sandwiching of the two women I think is probably what you need to avoid. When you're with a girl, curb other chicks bro. Not that hard. A lot of lessons to be learned and hopefully we'll get some answers when we reach out to Gemma for you. Come back try to get your second date update right after this. when we reach out to Gemma for you and come back try to get your second date update right after this. Second date update. One of our listeners Tony went out on a one-on-one date that suddenly turned into a three-on-one date. Oh boy. And the person who got excluded was Gemma, the woman that he actually came to

the restaurant with. Because two random girls got up and sat down right next to Tony as soon as Gemma went off to the bathroom. So when she came back to the table, she was forced to sit across from everybody else. Oh my gosh. And the whole rest of the night was kind of awkward from there. He tried to play footsies. Uh.

Yeah. With Gemma. Just to show Gemma that I'm actually interested in you, I don't really care about these two new girls. But she was kind of out of reach. I think she was a little fat. Yeah. And Tony's-

It's probably just a table leg under there. It just happened. Yeah. Tony's thoughts on why this happened was actually pretty flattering towards Gemma, saying that she was so attractive that these other ladies must have been paying him attention, thinking, oh, wow, this guy's with this gorgeous woman. He must have something paying him attention thinking oh wow this guy's you know with this gorgeous woman

He must have something pretty special either downstairs or upstairs who knows? At least that's Tony's thoughts on the situation. We need to get Gemma's thoughts and see if we can recover Yeah, how you feeling Tony a little nervous, but I get I kind of am knowing what to expect I think okay. That's how you're feeling upstairs. How you feeling? Have you talked to her at all since the date oh no, I haven't gotten a response back from her Three women to zero now giving Tony attention so hopefully Well, yeah, I know did you we didn't ask oh no Asking for their numbers in front of her, but

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Let's do it. Let's do it. Let's do it. Let's do show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Oh Okay weird Why are you calling me? Well, we're doing a segment called a second date update Not sure if you're familiar with that But we're trying to help out one of our listeners get a hold of you after you went out on a date with him recently Got him Tony. Oh my god Did you just gag?

Listen I don't know what this guy told you, but it was a very very awkward and incredibly weird Yeah, we did hear about some of the events that occurred at the Mexican place with the the two girls Coming sit right next to Tony at the communal table while you went off to the bathroom Yeah Honestly that that's kind of a good sign Gemma cuz that means that you were disappointed You know what I mean? Well, I mean, I'm just saying like you liked them You might come back and be like, thank God. Thank you, ladies.

Yeah. Saved me. Now, okay. Yeah, that's putting a really nice spin on it. But yeah. Well, Tony says that he felt really bad about how it all went down. We're curious how you felt about the situation. Yeah, I'm sure he did.

Honestly, like at first when I came back and I was like what? And then I saw how Tony was like clearly a little uncomfortable so I was kind of I was kind of laughing like inside. Oh okay. Oh that's such a relief. What do you think their intentions were? Oh I know what their intentions were I'm clear. I'm pretty sure Tony by the way Is a really good-looking guy and they like they swarmed in like locusts or whatever. I don't know Okay, I think we're doing cicadas lately But you said that you didn't blame that on him I don't think he invited this necessarily

But I started to get kind of irritated with these girls These two girls I was like get the hand ladies He's with me so Tony was so like Flummoxed or whatever that he didn't even notice that I I called the waiter over and I was like tried attempted to bribe the waiter She's still salsa on these girls The waiters probably annoyed at them too if they're this type of person Salsa is like six dollars plus tips

I waved a 20 at him and he was like, I'm sorry, I can't do that. I hope you gave that restaurant a bad review I still understand that you're not blaming Tony. So why are you mad at him? Why did you go? I don't blame Tony in the beginning for not doing anything. But by the end this went on for so long He should have done more I think he feels that way too. Yeah, here's the deal. I think he feels that way too, honestly. Here's the deal. You actually sound pretty understanding about the whole situation. You're giving Tony a little bit of leeway on it, but we can maybe fix this because I do have to let you know Tony is currently listening to this conversation on the other line waiting

to talk to you. Oh my god are you kidding me? Tony you there? Hi yeah I am here. That's it that's very formal Tony. Hi Tony. Hi. Maybe you should say something to her. Yeah. Well, first off, I just want to apologize for what happened. I had nothing to do with them coming over. Obviously I didn't ask them, but I didn't know what to do to be honest with you. It was a weird, awkward, like just it was our first date. I don't know these people at all.

Okay. That was good, Tony. You can let her respond to that. Yeah Yeah, I gather and I appreciate the apology Tony, but you already apologized. You told me that on the card I'm not hearing anything new Okay, come up with a better apology Tony go ahead It does kind of sound like he's still blaming the women like he's not like you need to own up to like your own Non-action a little bit more. Are you just like a very non confrontational person brother like no I would consider myself a non confrontational person

Why it was a tough position to? Mean I don't want to guys like punching people in the face, but like you gotta be a little more forceful Yeah, I think he was just trying to be as respectful as he could You're not a confrontational guy either like you get where he's coming from. What are you saying Brooke? Put me in a corner Break Jeff Very smart! How dare you? He's compensating!

Did I just break Jeff? Let's not turn this into a situation with us. Gemma, clearly Tony is remorseful about what happened and how he behaved. I'm sure he's even told us next time he doesn't want to do communal tables. Yeah, he's like, I will reserve a table for two. So we'd like to help facilitate that second date and even pay for it if you're willing to give him another shot. What do you think, Jenna?

I appreciate that offer, but I have just made a decision since this incident that I just I don't want this to be my life going forward. I don't want to be going out and fighting off girl raping themselves all over my date. So I've made a couple of adjustments. What does that mean? Yeah, well, I'm going to date down. What? that mean? What the hell is that? Well, I'm gonna date down. What?

Hey! Oh! You're just gonna date the guys that you find less attractive? What does that mean? Last competition. I'm not gonna go after these, like, The hottest guy.

You know, the hottest guy and the dating profile because I just don't need this kind of headache. I mean, I like you, Tony, but you're just too attractive for what I'm looking for right now. I cannot deal with the conversation. I don't know if we've heard that one on the second date update before. Dating is so backward. This is the most ridiculous response.

I was not expecting that at all. Like, what? The good guys finished last, brother. Convince her that you're not as attractive as she thinks you are. Yeah, you have no idea Gemma by the way. This never happens to me. Like if I'm out with my friends, no girls are approaching me.

That's not a hot scratch. I usually repulse women. Yeah, it's your fault. Something's weird about you than you like me. I swear I'll stop brushing my teeth and washing my face. Ew. Somebody gave you that. I'm the girl magnet and your friends just repelled them. Okay, okay

So he hasn't convinced you that he's ugly enough I've been with him in person he's cute He knows he's cute and he's not gonna get any less cute Well, Tony you started with one woman on a date Well, Tony, you started with one woman on a date, landed two more, and now you've ended up with zero because you're too attractive. Now that's boy math. Ridiculous. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. I'm Emi Olaya, host of the podcast Crumbs. For years, I had to rely on other people to

tell me my story. And what I heard wasn't good. You really f***ed last night. It felt like I lived most of my life in a blackout. I was trapped in addiction. You had to grab the lamp and smashed it against the walls. And then I decided I wanted to tell my own story. Listen to Krumz on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Welcome to Pod of Rebellion, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Pod of Rebellion, our new Star Wars Rebels Rewatch Podcast. I'm Vanessa Marshall, voice of Harrison Dula Spectre 2. I'm Tia Zirkhar, Sabine Ren, Spectre 5. I'm Taylor Gray, Ezra Bridger, Spectre 6. And I'm John LeBrony, the Ghost Crew Stowaway moderator. Each week, we're going to Rewatch

and discuss an episode from the series and share some fun behind the scenes stories. Sometimes we'll be visited by special guests like Steve Bloom voices Zabarelio Spectre 4 or Dante Bosco voice of Jaiquel and many others. So hang on because it's gonna be a fun ride. Cue the music. ["Pomp and Circumstance"]

Listen to Potter Rebellion on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. From the producers who brought you Princess of South Beach comes a new podcast, The Setup. The Setup follows a lonely museum curator, but when the perfect man walks into his life, well I guess I'm saying I like you. You like me? He actually is too good to be true. This is a con and I'm back with a brand new season of your favorite podcast, Cheeky's, and I'm back with a brand new season of your favorite podcast, Cheeky's and Chill.

I'll be sharing even more personal stories with you guys, and as always, you'll get my exclusive take on topics like love, personal growth, health, family ties, and more. And don't forget, I'll also be dishing out my best advice to you on episodes of Dear Cheeky's. It's going to be an exciting year, and I hope that you can join me. Listen to Cheeky's and Chill, season four, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Are your ears bored?

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