Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update Classic: Scooby Dooby Eww A Honda Civic

Episode Date: April 19, 2025

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the math and the ever important creative spark, the magic. Listen to Math and Magic, stories from the frontiers of marketing on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. You found it, the Second Aid Update podcast. Thank you so much for being here. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, of course. And we do want to remind you that for the first time ever, we have Second Aid Update merch. Yes! Don't miss out on it. Yes, it's so cute. It's designed by legitimately, like,

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Go to Convoy of Hope, which is a fantastic organization, still trying to help people rebuild their lives after the LA wildfires. So, they're amazing. So much for being here. That link for the merch is in the show notes right now and hey enjoy a second date update. Second date update. Occasionally on this segment we get return callers who come back multiple times seeking our help and dare I say our wisdom? Yeah. Whoa.

What do they say about people who are psycho and they try the same thing over and over again expecting a different result? Yeah, that's the definition of insanity. That's saying it's too wise for me to know what it is. Funny thing is today's return listener only knows about us because we called him for a second date update. What?

What the heck? What do you mean? Did you go out with him, Jeff, and now he's not calling you back? Is that what's going on? No, I mean, he was on a second date update. What the heck? What do you mean? Did you go out with him, Jeff, and now he's not calling you back? Is that what's going on? No, I mean he was on a second date where we reached out to him. Oh, he was on the receiving end of the call and not surprisingly he instantly fell in love with us. Yeah, I just thought we were, I thought we were desperate. Well, that's not untrue. We're calling our old second date and going, hey, have you been on any new dates? Because we need content. His name is Chase, and I don't know if you'll remember him, but he was the guy who kept postponing his dates

because he said he was really, really focused on self-care and not over-stressing. Wait, this is the bathtub guy, right? Bathtub, yep. He was having too good of a time in the bath and decided, you know what, I'm going to stay in here and skip my date. And I will say, I love a man just has discovered the magic of a bath Chase we respect you and your self-care welcome back to the show man thanks good good to be back right now bro I'm not thinking about right now so you reached out to us

this time because apparently you went out with a different girl than the last time or is this the same one? No, this is a different girl. The girl's name is Kathy Where'd you meet her matter matter online? Okay. I was gonna say in the bathtub where I was so good She just popped up and I was like, okay All right, cool you you met her online. What'd you guys do? Yeah, honestly, we talked at first, and then eventually we found the time,

we were both free, and we went out to a restaurant. Okay, sounds pretty typical so far. Did you actually make it to this restaurant, or was self-care getting in the way? No, we made it to the restaurant. Believe it or not, you can take care of yourself and still make time for dates. Oh, look at you! Wow!

Learning lessons from your time on the show last time. Grown so much. OK, how did the restaurant go with Cassie? I thought we had a good time. We did that thing where you're looking at random strangers and you're like making up crazy backstories about them. Oh yeah. So I love that.

Okay. Yeah. Like we, we talked about her job. She's a nurse, which is really cool. So when we were telling backstories, we would come up with like crazy scenarios of ER injuries. Oh, that's what they got at the bar. What if he was impaled by a spear gun? What would you do? Oh, this definitely sounds like a very romantic topic of conversation to be having over dinner.

Hope you didn't spend all of your time on ER horror stories. No, of course we talked about other things. Like one of my favorite questions to ask on a first or second date is, what was your favorite cartoon as a kid? Oh, that's a great question. That's a hard question. Dude. If you say Looney Tunes, maybe you have a silly, fun attitude. Oh, you like use it to judge people's personality.

Interesting. Or their answers. Like if you say SpongeBob, you're... What was your answer? Well, funny enough, you like use it to judge people's personality What was your answer well funny enough he just said it mine was fun Okay Brooks is an a maniacs does that mean that she's sexually repressed and has a weird relationship with family members No, it's that I know all the capitals of the United States do not listen to Wacko's song. Clearly not. Okay, did she have a good answer for a cartoon show? Yeah, her favorite was Scooby-Doo. You know true crime shows. Or they're soon to that. Oh, that's funny. That's funny that that, like, transfers into adulthood. Or they're soon to be serial killers,

but that's probably not how I'm sure. Or a stoner if you're shaggy. That's true, okay. Don't speak for yourself. Well, this, okay, now the conversation sounds like it's more fun. How did the night end? Well, you know, I thought we were having

a really great time. I thought I was gonna get a kiss maybe. Ooh, okay. And that's happening. It to get a kiss, maybe. That didn't end up happening. It didn't. So no. Is that because you didn't make the move or what? Yeah. You know, I leaned in and she didn't reciprocate. I wasn't going to push it any farther.

Yeah, that's smart. That's a gentleman way to do it. Yeah. So I just got in my Honda Civic and drove home. That's the worst, bro. You slink away, you feel like crap. I've been there, bro. I love when you talk about that. Every single girl I've ever met. I just like hung up on the make and model of his car. Yeah.

Wait, what was it? What did I miss? Honda Civic. Oh, okay. Well, that's a nice brand. Very specific. You have pride in your car. I like that.

Yeah, sure. So what's happened since that date? Have you been able to stay in touch with Cassie? I've tried to make another date. The problem is I just I'm busy a lot with my company So it's been hard to find the time that worked and now I just kind of feel like she's ignoring me But you will make time for her. Yeah exactly No, but it's always like kind of a-off when people are like I'm really super That feels like maybe she thinks you don't like her honestly

Like is that always feels like an excuse in times like these I tend to ask myself What would spongebob do and what he would do is he would come back and you would call Cassie on the radio? Yeah, and try and get you a second date I feel like you'd go jellyfish hunting Once we're gonna attempt a few of them We're gonna do a second date update right after this second date update It's kind of interesting the question our listener Chase asks women on every first date. He likes to ask, what's your favorite childhood cartoon?

I love that question. I think everybody loves that question. I actually want to know yours, Jeff. Yeah, what's yours? You're never going to know that from me. We don't know each other that well. Oh, come on. How dare you ask something so deep and personal tonight. You know what? It's going to be DuckTales. It's got to be about a rich uncle There's no way

Okay, it's Arthur if you have to know the introverted art bark you Really sassy sister Now chase says he can tell a lot about a person based on their cartoon answer and his date Cassie said Scooby-Doo, which is a sign that she could be into true crime. Whereas he's a SpongeBob fan who's more silly and wacky and wears square shaped clothes. Yeah. But opposites do attract sometimes.

And Chase wants to see if we can make that happen for him today. Brooke, what's your take? I really think that she thinks that you don't like her because like he says, I mean, didn't you say chase like you kept Telling her God, I'm so busy, but I'll fit you in yeah, I get that it's just it's not what I meant to and I hope He doesn't see it It's a bad thing. I think that's what's happening. I think you can totally come back from it Yeah, and if it turns out that we can't get you a second date at the end of this is it okay if we blame it?

on those meddling kids? And the dog too? If me and Bea, I suppose that would be okay. How many masks are you wearing to take off, John, for this? We're gonna call that plan B, but for now let's just dial Cassie, see if she picks up and try to get this second date done. Here we go. Hello?

Hey, we're looking to talk with Cassie. This is she. Hey, Cassie. My name is Jeff from the radio show, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Hey, Cassie. Yeah, thank you, but I'm not interested though. Sorry Sorry We're not trying to sell you anything We're asked to call you by one of our listeners that went on a date with you recently What what is this? I don't I don't get it. No, this is a segment We do call the second date update and we're trying to help him figure out if something went wrong on your first meetup And hopefully get you two together for another one. Yeah, because it sounded like a pretty normal date.

Yeah, I mean, it wasn't that normal, Brooke. They were making up backstories about spear guns and what you would do as a nurse in the ER. Oh, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. You're talking about Chase. Yeah. Yeah. That's a friend.

So the reason that we're doing this call is because Chase told us this whole story said he had a great time with you now he's a little bit confused about why there hasn't been a second meetup because if we're being honest he says he feels like you're ignoring him. No, I mean I just kind of I just kind of felt like I was kind of duped by this guy Oh my gosh, that's interesting because we've had chase on the show before and he just seems like such a humble like nice Dude, well, yeah, I mean he is humble and nice But like when we like connected and I called him He said he was golfing at this golf course. And I looked it up and it's like a really nice private course. You have to be a member. Oh, nice.

I can't believe you looked it up. Yeah, that is smart. Normally, yeah. Yeah, well, I mean, it's nice to have someone that's financially established. Yeah, for sure. I mean, don't guys go golfing if they're not financially secure?

I don't know if that really is. But this course was a private course. Okay, this particular one really impressed you. Yeah. Okay. And then another time we were texting to meet up and he said he was at this auction and I'm like, auction? Buying stuff?

Like, poor people don't go to auctions. No. If he's buying art, like, come on. Yeah. I don't know, have you been to farm auctions? I haven't. I haven't know, have you been to farm auctions? I haven't. I haven't. Okay.

So yeah, so I figure, okay, this guy's established. And so we figured out a night to meet and he takes me to like a regular chain restaurant. Okay. And I was like, okay, that's not what I expected. And you know, the actual date went well, but then he, at the end of the night he drives off in a Honda Civic and I'm like, ew.

Did you just say ew to a Honda Civic? Yeah, I mean, I got the impression that he had money and he was, you know, well off. Oh my God. That is not fair. You did not get the impression. You made the assumption. Yeah. To a not get the impression you made the assumption Yeah, he could write to a friend of the golf course Cassie Did he tell you that he's well off with a lot of money or did you just assume that based on your conversations?

I mean, I guess I assumed it Cuz look it was based on the conversations. It sounds like based on her research. Yeah I know many many different personal assistants who attend art auctions on behalf of my family and my parents and they are Did your family really do that why am I being grilled That is jumping to assumptions here So Cassie, do you feel like maybe you are the one at fault here jumping to assumptions about who he really is Well, I'm just I'm not interested in beating a low-value guy Should get him on the phone and ask him that question because I need to let you know that he is

Listening to this call on the other line right now Chase are you there and are you a low value man? Yes or no? I mean apparently I am according to her. You're a good value man chase That's what you say well Why don't you have a discussion with Cassie about this because clearly she feels like you were giving her the impression That you were at a certain level financially and you didn't meet that in person No, I mean Sadly my plan worked What plan though, what are you talking about?

I actually am a member of that golf club and I did attend the art auction for myself You're rich rich then I'm comfortable I don't know how you got off my parents pay And the non-business like what's going on with the Civic and the non-booginess? Like what's happening? Yeah. Yeah, she said. I own a tech company and sometimes when girls hear that, they just end up wanting to date me for my money. So I purposely took you to a chain restaurant to see how you would react.

Oh, and you liked her still. That's so sad. And then she did. No, no, no. I didn't hate it. Look, and you liked her still. That's so sad. And then she did. No, no, no. I didn't hate it. Look, I didn't hate it. I never said I hated it. Get out of here with that. You failed the test.

Personally, I think that's very, very smart. I think you should try to do that to avoid gold digger women. I mean, seriously. Cassie, now you're super interested in him, and you think that he is awesome. So is the text board, weirdly. I mean, I don't know what you guys are referring, but I mean, seriously, I've always been interested.

Oh. Oh, really? You know we record these phone calls, we can play them back. Well, I mean, you might've missed that first part, cause I said, if this is him testing me, then you know, he's really smart. And I respect that, I really do.

Oh. I can't remember that, but I have a bad memory. I think she tried to say that right after he said oh, it's just a test Are you buying it chase look I can buy anything That's funny, it's not what I meant, but Do you believe her? I always want to thank the best of people Okay, if you want to send me a few If she wants to send you what if she wants to send me a few pics to show she's sorry Oh my god, you're so funny

How quickly he dropped his morals too. Oh yeah, now that you both want to hang out. You know what I'm saying? I have to see if both parties are actually still interested in another date here. I say so. Cassie, I mean, clearly it's 100% yes from you. She said yes. It's a big change from what you said five minutes ago, but apparently we misunderstood.

We heard you wrong. Yes, well you did. You did misunderstood me. I told you guys I was shocked I was a little surprised but I didn't hate the restaurant So chase are you guys gonna go out again cuz if you do you're probably gonna have to drop the IK mobile It's not Oh, the Honda Civic? The Honda Civic, it's not approved.

It's a Civic, I mean. You know, I mean, new stuff has been presented on this date, so I'm definitely a yes. You're a yes. You got a whole garage full of cars, don't you? Okay. I hate both of you somehow. I think we're jealous of both of you. Yeah, he's going to take her with a Ferrari next game.

Dang. Okay, well, congratulations. We did it! Why do we feel bad? I don't know. It feels wrong. It feels like there's some law that we just broke. Well, whatever. You two have fun, alright? Send some money if you're bored, bro.

Will do. Oh, God. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. I think with dates nowadays, if you have a certain expectation, like you want a guy who's well often established like Cassie did You just need to put the survey in front of them at the table Do you make this amount this amount or this amount circle it and we can be done with it? It's like that song and tick-tock right I want a guy in finance exactly

We can avoid simple misunderstandings like this one I don't know. I think what is funny is that they both ended up kind of meant for each other Fine I'll forgive you you forgive me. Let's just hang out But yeah, but we need to own our part of the misunderstanding, because we totally misheard her. Oh, so with me it's our bad. I don't think we did. When she said eww about the Honda Civic, she didn't mean the car's gross, she meant cute. Oh, I heard Civ Ick.

She also said Ick, too. Well, I'm sure we misunderstood that one, too. We don't make enough money to understand her. I feel bad for ever doubting her. And if you want to hear any of our second dates, you can go to wherever you get your podcasts. They're up right now at Brooke and Jeffrey. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. In 2020, a group of young women found themselves in an AI fueled nightmare. Someone was posting photos. It was just me naked. Well, not me, but me with someone else's body parts. This is Levertown, a new podcast from iHeart Podcasts, Bloomberg, and Kaleidoscope about

the rise of deepfake pornography and the battle to stop it. Listen to Levertown on Bloomberg's Big Take podcast. Find it on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Israel Gutierrez, and I'm hosting a new podcast, Dub Dynasty, the story of how the Golden State Warriors have dominated the NBA for over a decade. The Golden State Warriors once again are NBA champions! Today, the Warriors dynasty remains alive, in large part because of a scrawny 6'2 hooper who everyone seems to love for what Steph has done for

the game. He's certainly on that Mount Rushmore. Come revisit this magical Warriors ride. Listen to Dub Dynasty on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. From the producers who brought you Princess of South Beach comes a new podcast, The Setup. The Setup follows a lonely museum curator, but when the perfect man walks into his life, Well I guess I'm saying I like you.

You like me? He actually is too good to be true. This is a con. I'm conning you to get the Dilawah painting. We can do this together. Listen to The Setup on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I always had to be so good no one could ignore me. Carve my path with data and drive. But some people only see who I am on paper.

The paper ceiling. The limitations from degree screens to stereotypes that are holding back over 70 million stars. Workers skilled through alternative routes, rather than a bachelor's degree. It's time for skills to speak for themselves. Find resources for breaking through barriers at tearthepaperceiling.org, brought to you by Opportunity at Work and the Ad Council. Hi, I'm Bob Pitman, Chairman and CEO of iHeart Media. I'm excited to share my podcast with you, Math and Magic, stories from the frontiers of marketing.

This week, I'm talking to the CEO of Moderna, Stefan Bancel, about how he led his team through unprecedented times to create, test, and distribute a COVID vaccine all in less than a year. It becomes a human decision to decide to throw by the window your business strategy and to do what you think is the right thing for the world. Join me as we uncover innovations in data and analytics, the math, and the ever-important creative spark, the magic. Listen to Math & Magic, stories from the frontiers of marketing on the iHeart Radio app, Apple

Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.