Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update Classic: The Birthday Trick

Episode Date: May 17, 2025

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And that you're going to fill me in. Yes, but then you forgot about it. I completely forgot about it. Listen to Are You a Charlotte? on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to your Saturday podcast. It's a second date update classic with Brooke and Jeffrey

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You do need to click the link in the show notes. Remember, 100% of proceeds go to charity. So let's get this show started. Second date update. Every guy wants to know the secret for how to meet gorgeous women every time you go out everybody would want to know what that secret was. Oh, if there was a secret. Yeah. I'll find the gorgeous ladies, too. Where are we at? It's actually really easy.

Just be hot, rich, or foreign. Any one of those, preferably all three. But if you're just one, you shouldn't even have to try. Oh. You think it's that easy, huh? Well, the thing is, I get it. If you're not any of those, Alexis, don't say ew. Don't worry.

There's still hope. Because one of our listeners says he figured out a simple trick that allows any man to easily meet the hottest girls at the club every night. Okay. Says it works for him, but apparently, he might have to hang up his trick for good because he thinks he may have found

a really, really special lady. Oh, that's cute. That's why he needs our help. So let's talk to Wes. Wes, welcome to the show, man. Hey, hey, thanks for having me. OK. I love hearing these tricks from a guy perspective.

Really? I'm always, like, skeptical because it's like a club and there's tricks. Like, it feels. That's why she's saying that. It feels shady. I probably hate on it, but I want to hear it. OK.

And Wes, can you confirm you're not foreign, hot or rich? I mean, I can't read out hot, but you know what I'm saying? I wouldn't say I'm on the rich side. Okay. All right. So this would work for anybody. What's your secret you're going to share with us? Yeah. I'm gonna give a pointer out to folks. Okay. So let's do the thing. You got to think psychology, right? So I try and find a place where most women go. That's a good thing to do before you try to meet a woman. I like it so far Most women go to clubs so you see a lot of women in clubs, right? One go to the club

If you can find a club that's dudes. Tell me cuz I'll be there Well, it's probably they're probably not into you bro You're smoother than I thought you would be so keep going now you're at the club Alright, so at the club got tons of women there. What are all women want? You free drink but all women want. Free drinks. You? Free drinks. Yeah. Yay. But I thought you weren't rich, my man.

I'm going there. I got you, definitely not rich, but you gotta give some kind of incentive. So what I do is I go to the bar. I turn my back to the bartender, so I see all the women coming toward me. They're coming for me. So instead of me having to go and find them approach them. They're coming towards me In his mind they're coming towards

His mind they're coming towards me Mean that sounds funny, but I can see in like in a psychology way you're kind of tricking yourself into not being scared So how do you get the women to actually like engage with you and not push you out of the way to Without having to buy tend drinks. So this is the deal. I say that it's my birthday and I ask them if they like to do a shot with me. Oh, birthday shot. Birthday shot. Shot means that your interaction with them is usually about 25 seconds long. But your girl would say yes to you though because that's perfect.

Totally. I mean that's the opening line. Maybe we get into a conversation, you know, usually try you some kind of compliment. OK, so the trick is to lie to them and tell them it's your birthday. I mean, I'm a young old dude. You know what I'm saying? Like I do this everywhere I go.

And, you know, it works like 99 percent of the time it works. At least get a conversation going. Maybe that leads to a dance for dance for maybe that brings me over to the rest of the girlfriends. But once I'm in, I'm in. Okay. Who's the special one that you're in with? Yeah.

You said you met a special girl using this tactic. Yeah. So I met this girl named Tina. She had the birthday shot with me. She started asking me what I'm doing for the weekend. I'm celebrating, learned a little bit about her. She learned a little bit about me. There was a vibe we made out Again you're at a club Like I mean my days are over but like free shots and making out with randos on the dance

Yeah, okay, you're being kind of a hater Rando's on the dance floor. That basically summarizes my night. Yeah. Okay, you're being kind of a hater on his game. I'm not trying to hate. I'm just saying it's not that much different than it used to be Jeff. I think this is great It's working for you clearly you met this great girl Tina had a perfect connection with her So how did that night end? It was real authentic connection Like I said, we made out text a little bit the next day try to plan something, but she stopped returning my text. Okay. Do you have any idea why? I have no idea why.

Like I said, I've been doing this for a while. I'm ready to meet the one and I'll actually was genuinely interested in what she had to offer and what we talked about and whatnot. All right. We're going to give this all that we have right, Brooke. Oh, yeah. I mean true love of the club. You know have right Brooke. Oh, yeah, I mean

Actually, I'm rooting for you man, like I think it's sweet that you met somebody that you think is really special I just don't you to be disappointed if she wasn't taking it as seriously as you were and at least you have the trick Even if she doesn't like you you can you got the icebreaker trick. She gave you her number. That's a good sign And she kissed well again. Sorry forgot. That's not a big thing She gave you her number. That's a good sign. And she kissed well again. Sorry forgot. That's not a big thing I make out with a lot of women doing this like you have it happen But they're not a lot that I get into a good conversation And get a phone number with and like have a genuine vibe with like, you know quick and easy is one thing But quality is something different Well, let's call this quality woman Tina will come back and get you your second date update so you can retire this trick forever.

Wow. Or at least till next Friday. Okay. Whatever works. We're going to do it right after this. Second date update. It's not easy for the average guy to meet a woman nowadays on the apps or out in the wild. Yeah.

You got to be sneaky and kind of smart about it like our listener You don't surprise ladies by jumping up around tactical maybe that's a better word Our listener West said he uses a trick It's kind of a psychology hack when he goes out to the clubs where he puts his back to the bartender So it looks like the women are approaching him Instead of the bar come to me my beautiful ladies and when he sees one that meets his standards Just like a crouching tiger. He pounces and says hey, it's my birthday. You want to have a free shot to celebrate? Yeah, I mean the word free in there really helps yeah and says, hey, it's my birthday. You wanna have a free shot to celebrate? Okay.

Yeah, I mean the word free in there really helps that statement. And even though he's been using that trick for, who knows, maybe months or years. It sounds like years. Yeah, years. He says he finally found a special lady named Tina who he could see having maybe more

than just a dance floor make-up. He really likes her. He does. So Brooke, how are we going to help him pull this off today? Well, I don't think we're going to reveal that he's been trying to trick for years and that it finally worked on her. Yeah, it's probably good.

That's a good point, unless Wes wants us to bring that up with her. No, no. No, no, don't, Brooke. Yeah. I got you, Wes. I got your back, all right? OK, another tactical

move on our part. How are you feeling right now Wes? I mean you know like I said I'm at a point where I want to meet the one and I'm feeling a little vulnerable right now so I need y'all to help I'm ready to get this going. Okay well maybe this will help. I want you to picture yourself with your back to a virtual bar right now And let's pretend that it's your birthday today Yeah Chilled out a little bit. Let's call Tina here. See if she picks up. Hopefully we can get some answers from her. Here we go Hello, hey,, is this Tina? Smooth, Jeff. I know, that's what I was thinking of saying. He's going to help our guy? Yeah, I know.

I'm pushing Jeff aside to get to the bar. Sorry, hi. Hi, Tina. Hi, Tina. I had something in my throat. I was trying not to cough. Okay. Yeah, excuses.

That's all I hear. Sorry, Tina, are you there? Yeah, who is this? Sorry. It's a lot of us. Yeah, that's a lot of us. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. trying not to cough. Sorry Tina are you there? Yeah who is this? Sorry it's a lot of us. Yeah this is a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. It's who? What is this? We're Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning we're a radio show and you're on it right now on a segment called a second date update. Hey, which is awesome No She says okay So it's actually a really cool thing that we do where we try and help our listeners get back in touch with someone

After they went on a date or they met out somewhere and had a really nice time together And that was the case with you and a guy named Wes Oh Wes And that was the case with you and a guy named Wes Oh Wes yeah, yeah, you met each other out at the bars one night and It was Wes's birthday So you guys took like a celebratory shot together and ended up vibing and pretty much hanging out all night great time Well, I thought he was a good guy. He was that

moose kind of talker that I like and he dressed really nice and I like that. Yeah, I know the type. Keep going. Good talkers, good dressers. I'm looking at one. Do you remember how this conversation started? I love you too, know the type. Shh, shh, shh, shh, we're talking to Teemur now. All that sounds really positive. Yeah. What happened?

Well, I've got friends that have had really bad experiences with guys. Like you can never really tell what the deal is. You mean just women who date men? Yes. Yes. Yeah. That's what I mean. So I went on Facebook and I went to a page are we dating the same guy? I don't know if you can believe anything that's on there. Well for people that don't know what is that? It's a Facebook page that women go on and they post pictures of guys that other women should be suspect of No, like you don't know if these women have been like jolted or you know my cousin cousin dated him and

And it's cruel I see so so you're saying you went on there and saw Wes Somewhere. Yes, his picture was on there and there were comments. Oh, I took a shot with him on his birthday. Oh, the same thing. Oh yeah, the same exact thing. I guess he has more than one birthday. Oh no. Isn't that amazing?

Who can have more than one birthday? It's so cool. Impressive. Yeah. Technology nowadays, am I right? You didn't like that he was using that to meet you? Oh, hell no. I did not like that at all.

You know, and I'm still going out to the clubs, but I certainly am looking for a long-term relationship. I don't have time for games. Well, so is Wes. Wes said that he wants a long-term thing, too. At least that's the worst thing that was said about him. I've seen meaner stuff on there. Oh, my god.

And sometimes, some people, like, they take their birthday and they stretch it out for like a whole week. Or a whole month and it's like my birthday month maybe that's what was going on. Yeah I don't know. I don't know either. The only way to find out is to have you actually talk to Wes about it. Oh birthday tree. And wouldn't you know he's listening right now on the other phone line waiting to talk

to you. Oh no. Oh no. Hey no. Oh no. Hey Tina. Oh hi. Hey. Hey. I didn't know you were on the other line.

How are you doing? I mean it's been a bit. Yeah, listen, I just had to look into a little bit more West because you are a smooth moving guy, you know, so I went on this page and there are other women out there saying, Oh, I had a birthday shot with him to like two months ago. So you must have more than one birthday. I mean, busted is happening.

There's the truth. That's our other segment. But look, I am at a point in my life where I am trying to change things. I really enjoyed the time that we had. I really did. And that's what I told Rook and the crew that I enjoyed the time we had. And I was thinking, there's other things that you don't know about me that I would like you to know.

Like, oh, I like putting my business out there like that. But I'm actually a wealthy guy. Oh, wait, no. Hold on. Wait a second. Let's see where this goes. You're wealthy. I actually am doing well. I've got a car dealership that has been doing well. And sometimes I do own two of them. Yes. How do you only sometimes own a car dealership, Wes? He loans one and he owns the other one.

Just tell her what you told her is that you met this amazing woman, that you had this connection that you've never had with anybody else before and that you're so excited about it. Boo, talk more about the cars. Why can't both things be true? You know what? I don't know. Like I am, maybe I'm not at that place where I'm looking for a long term. Maybe I'm just looking for a guy who's got a buck or two and he's willing to take me out Are you saying that you don't believe him about the cars or you do? You know what I'm saying at this point is I don't care if he's willing to take me out on the second date Say was I'm rich and I sometimes own two car dealerships. I'm trying to understand where your mind is at

We don't you understand anything. We just need to go out Okay, I don't know how Officially we'd like to offer to send you two out on a date Birthday in a couple days. Yeah, all of this. This is perfect. No, it comes up every month, Brooke. No, it's today, it's today. Okay, well, in honor of his birthday today, would you like to meet up with Wes one more time and we would pay for the date?

Absolutely not. I just scammed him like he scammed me. Wait. Oh. Oh my god. I was like, that was really easy. Not I just am him like he scammed me I mean, did you not get it? Like I said, I'm rich Nobody believes that just like every girl on that Facebook page That's where it's gonna be. Hey! You just missed out on a billionaire. I'm really thrown right now. You know, like I said,

it's not every day that I'm vulnerable and put myself out there and actually try and... You're a great guy, dude. Oh, I think so. Bad things happen to good people. Okay, let's just remember you weren't totally honest with her So just because he wasn't rich at the start of the call and then he was rich by the end doesn't mean that he's not Being honest bro

Yes, ten million dollars can come and go into accounts all the time Yeah, I know. Do I owe three collar dealerships right now? You might, bro. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Yo, K-Pop fans, are you ready? It's your boy, Bom Han, and I'm bringing you the K-PAC-ter, the podcast that takes you straight into the heart of K-Pop. We're talking music, idols, exclusive interviews,

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This isn't just a podcast, it's a K-pop experience. Are you in? Let's go. I found out I was related to the guy that I was dating. I don't feel emotions correctly. I collect my roommates' toenails and fingernails. Those were some callers from my call-in podcast, Therapy Gecko. It's a show where I take phone calls from anonymous strangers as a fake gecko therapist and try to learn a little bit about their lives.

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So during Mental Health Awareness Month, tune into the podcast, focus on your emotional wellbeing, and then climb that mountain. You will never be able to change or grow through the thing that you refuse to identify. The thing that you refuse to say, hey, this is my mountain, this is the struggle.

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I remember some things about shooting the pilot. Right, I have some memories I can fill you in. And that you're gonna fill me in. Yes, but then you forgot about it? I completely forgot about it. That you're going to fill me in. Yes. But then you forgot about it in the very long time they took to pick us up. I completely forgot about it. Listen to Are You a Charlotte? on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I think it's a sign of great mental health to acknowledge the dark wolf inside you.

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