Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update Classic: Where Do I Know You From?

Episode Date: May 1, 2026

A weird little mix-up at the airport turned out to be a GOLDEN OPPORTUNITY FOR LOVE… You’ll hear about one of our listeners and his lucky accident in a Second Date Update!See omnystudio.c...om/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 2%. That's the number of people who take the stairs when there is also an escalator available. I'm Michael Easter. And on my podcast, 2%. I break down the signs of mental toughness, fitness, and building resilience in our strange modern world. Put yourself through some hardships and you will come out on the other side, a happier, more fulfilled, healthier person. Listen to 2%. That's TWO.% on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever. you get your podcasts. Hey, what's good, y'all? You're listening to Learn the Hardway
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Starting point is 00:02:33 unfills of conversations with athletes, creators, and voices that not only deserve to be heard, but celebrated. So let's get to it. Listen to the Clifford show on the IHeard Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. And for more behind the scenes, follow at Clifford and at TikTok podcast network on TikTok. Hey, welcome to the second date podcast. And a big thank you to everyone who popped over to our YouTube page this week, at Rick and Jeffrey and commented, watched, liked the first ever video version. Of a second date update. We're rolling them out slowly because it is a pretty big lift for us.
Starting point is 00:03:09 We have a small staff. But we're going to have another video, maybe awkward Tuesday next week. It's either going to be awkward Tuesday or another second date. I'm not sure which. So stick around for that. And right now we're going to go to your comments that are currently happening. Yeah. Hendrik Botha said, I love the new live updates.
Starting point is 00:03:28 I enjoy you guys a lot. I'm a South African working in the U.S. as a farm worker. All I do when I'm driving around at a tractor is listen to you guys. 15 hours of Brooke and Jeffrey. Wow. That is a lot of us. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:03:41 So I guess sit back and enjoy that tractor ride. Yeah. And here's a classic second date for you. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. This is a show first for us. And I don't know if it's a good thing. Uh-oh.
Starting point is 00:03:55 It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. We like not good things. So tell us, Jeff. Well, just a couple months ago, we did an update update with a guy named Daniel. who told us that he was still together with the girl from his original second date call, even though he did catch her making out with another woman at a bar. Oh, yeah, I do. Remember, she claimed it wasn't cheating because it's a girl on a girl thing.
Starting point is 00:04:19 He wasn't so sure, but they decided to stick it out. Well, that didn't last very long. Okay. Because now he's back out on the open market needing our help once again. Let me guess. She's in a relationship with a woman that she made out with. Who knows? But Daniel, I am so sorry to welcome you back to the show.
Starting point is 00:04:36 I was hoping we would never hear from you again, honestly. Yeah, it's a dubious honor, guys. What happened with the last woman that you were with? So, good news, bad news. Good news, she's not with the girls she made out with. Okay. Bad news is I saw her at a bar making out with two other guys. Oh.
Starting point is 00:04:58 She's like serious. It's not cheating when there's two of them. Yeah. That's just fun. You can't fall in love with both. Right? Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:05:07 Okay. She kisses a lot. That was finally the straw that broke it. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. If it wasn't, that would say more about me. So, yeah.
Starting point is 00:05:16 No, it's not how I roll, but we're still friends. She's very cool. She's very fun. Well, clearly. Yeah. It's even wrong to shame. Doesn't know how to respond. I mean, impressive that you can still be friends with her.
Starting point is 00:05:30 Good for you. That's an immature thing to do. And sounds like you've moved on to somebody else. Who's the new person? I have. So this new person I met in kind of a strange way. I was getting off a plane at the airport and I pulled up Uber and I wasn't really looking at what I was doing. And instead of ordering a regular Uber, I ordered an Uber pool.
Starting point is 00:05:53 Oh, yeah. Oh, my God. I've done that by accident. Sometimes it suggests the cheapest thing to you. Oh, I would have canceled that like immediately. Yeah, that one's usually good. Jeff is like, oh, my God. Conversations with another person, I don't know.
Starting point is 00:06:06 Yes, pay the $50. I'll walk home instead. Oh, my God. What are the chances you get a hot girl in your Uber pool? Was she hot? Well, she was because I was going to cancel it. But then it said Harper is on the way. And, you know, there's a tiny little bubble.
Starting point is 00:06:22 But I was like, well, let's roll the dice on life and see what happens. It was great. She was nice. It wasn't too awkward at the beginning. Did she accidentally also do the Uber pool and was confused when you got in? Yeah. No, she meant to do it. So, you know, frugality, I respect it.
Starting point is 00:06:39 Anywhere else outside of the airport, you're not getting a good looking person sharing that car with you. You really got lucky. Yeah. Yeah, airports are long drives. They're okay. Yeah. Okay. So, I mean, I gave you guys to connect and get to know each other then, right?
Starting point is 00:06:53 Yeah, and actually, like, the second she got in the car, I was like, I know you from somewhere. What? And she kind of laughed. I was like, no, no, no, I didn't request this Uber knowing I would see you. But I also couldn't figure out where I knew her from. Did she recognize you? No, she definitely does not know me. Let's wait.
Starting point is 00:07:16 Was that a line or did you really think you recognized her? No, I really did. And I kept saying, this isn't a pickup. But I feel like I know you from somewhere. And I kept lifting off the places. where I thought I could know her, you know. Okay, hold on. This is important.
Starting point is 00:07:33 Where did you say you may have known her? Because I'm hoping you were like, oh, it's fashion magazine or like something complimentary, right? I can't just be like a grocery store. Oh, no, you should compliment her. Be like, oh, I've seen you on a billboard, right? Not like for a mile. I'm pretty sure you work at the Dollar Tree. Yeah, that doesn't work for a lot.
Starting point is 00:07:49 I just listed off a couple of parties that I had been at. Like, maybe she was a friend of a friend. I threw out a couple of names. Did you happen to make out with a girl at a bar one time while I was? Oh my God. That would be, I didn't even think about that, Jeffrey. I was the way that your girlfriend made out with. Was it?
Starting point is 00:08:07 I would definitely remember that girl, but no. Now I know what you look familiar. How did you know her? I never figured it out. And I was going deep. I was going like maybe it was summer camp, like when I was a kid, nothing. Oh, my God. Did you spend 25 minutes listing off places?
Starting point is 00:08:26 Not 25, but yeah, sure 20. Oh, my. Did you actually go out with her on a real date? Or was the Uber ride the entire experience? No, so I used to think, I wound up finding a lot about her just because she would tell me what she actually did when I would ask, you know, guess a wrong one. And then when they were about to drop me off, I was like, I've got to figure this out. Is there like a bar we can go to? And she said, yeah, there's actually a bar around the corner.
Starting point is 00:08:53 Wait, she agreed to me. She asked her out. She wasn't tired of that. I know, I'm with you, Alexis. I would have been exhausted from all the clustering. We were actually, like, laughing about it. And it was really fun. It was really, like, really casual.
Starting point is 00:09:07 I wonder if she knew, because you feel like it'd be fun if you know the answer and the other person doesn't. That's the way I'd put up with it. Or maybe she, like, didn't want to admit that she knew from somewhere. And maybe that's why she's not calling you back after all of this. Yeah, but they went to a bar together, right? Yeah, we did, and we had a great time, and this is the question.
Starting point is 00:09:24 I don't understand why she hasn't responded to the text. I sent. Like, I get it. It's a weird meeting, but it was also Kiznit. Like, I turned the encounter into a date. Yeah, totally. It's amazing. And was like, oh, you're my ex-husband. And then remember, oh, yeah, I didn't work out before. And he doesn't recall that. And he doesn't
Starting point is 00:09:42 remember. Or maybe it was the 200 follow-up text about it here, was it there? Was it this? Was it that? Maybe it's, I'm your future husband. That sounds like a Dr. Seuss book. But we're going to find out, because we're going to call Harper for you here in just a minute. We'll try and figure out where you know her from if that's true and get you a second date update right after this.
Starting point is 00:09:59 Thank you. All right. Hold on, man. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. Today's second date update is sponsored by Uber Pool. Yay. Want to ride with a hot stranger?
Starting point is 00:10:13 You got a one in 10,000 chance that'll actually happen. But just make sure you're near an airport and then roll the dice with Uber Pool. Yeah. And I bring that up because that's exactly. what happened with our listener Daniel recently, who's actually been on with us before for a second date. He's back again, and this time he met a very pretty girl named Harper because they had a ride share together back from the airport.
Starting point is 00:10:39 The majority of their conversation was dominated by, hey, don't I know you from somewhere? Oh, my God. And then guessing how many places he could put her. For about 20 straight minutes that happened. But he said they were having fun with it and she was laughing. Otherwise, she wouldn't have agreed to go to drinks with him at the bar, right? Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:10:57 And ask more questions about where. So she knew what she was signing up for. So there was hope, but now there's nothing. And that's why we're stepping into hell. Brooke, what do you think? I don't know. Did you guys ever even get to the point of is she single? That's a good question.
Starting point is 00:11:12 Did you ask that? Oh, my gosh. Okay. So she's married and now we get it. Okay, guys, no need to call. These are important questions that we need to ask. But nobody asked, not even him. They were more important questions.
Starting point is 00:11:31 Yeah. You're just trying to find out how you know. And honestly, she probably never would have gone out with you to the bar if she was with somebody else. That wouldn't be a good look for her. Unless he's friends with her husband. That's how they know. You're my husband's boss. I have to do that.
Starting point is 00:11:46 Okay. Well, now we have some guesses. Let's get some definitive answers when we call her right now. You ready to do this, Daniel? Yeah. And, you know, I'd never really thought of that. So that could be the truth. Anything's possible at this point.
Starting point is 00:11:57 That is true. Anything is possible with Uber Pool. Again, we're actually not getting paid for this. Get your discount code with somebody else's name. Uber pool. If it were not advertised, do they not advertise regular? No, no. Just the pool part.
Starting point is 00:12:12 No, no, anyway. We got to call Harper here. Here we go. Hi, we're looking for Harper. This is she. Hey, Harper. This is your lucky day because you're talking to Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning right now. Hey, Harper.
Starting point is 00:12:35 Hey. Hi. I feel like I know you, Harper. Don't start that. We're a radio show. Sounds familiar, right, Brooke? We're on in the mornings. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey, and we're doing something called a second date update.
Starting point is 00:12:50 We're trying to hook you back up with one of our listeners that you met recently named Daniel. Oh, okay. Yeah, Daniel. This Daniel that you met riding home in an Uber pool together. Yeah. Oh, my God. Were you shocked when? attractive guy got in the car?
Starting point is 00:13:10 Yeah, sure. Yeah, I guess, yeah. Yeah, sure. Whatever you say. I don't know. It's always the question, what are you doing in an river pool, right? Who are you going to get stuck with? But yeah.
Starting point is 00:13:21 No, I'm sorry to, like, bombard you with all these questions. But what we're trying to do is, like, help Daniel figure out if you guys had a connection because he felt like there was something going on between you two in the Uber ride and at the bar that night. Did you feel that at all? Um, yeah, yeah, I did. I don't believe her. I know it may have been hard to get that because he was asking you a lot of questions about if he knew you from somewhere before. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:13:50 And I really genuinely didn't know you what he was talking about. Like we were, I mean, ran through like the full list of all of the potential. So you didn't know him? I did know him and I didn't realize it until I got home. What? Oh. Like unpacking and then it hit me. You figured it out.
Starting point is 00:14:07 You figured it out. We've been dying to know because he said he spent like 20 minutes just questioning you over and over again. And I don't think he ever figured it out. Clearly he wasn't even asking for any questions. It clicked for you? You didn't tell him? No, I didn't because it was back in college, so it's been a while. Oh, that's interesting.
Starting point is 00:14:29 No wonder he had a hard time. Yeah. He was a student. I was a TA. A TA. That's not a big deal Like TAs are like grad students I want to hear what happened
Starting point is 00:14:41 Okay sorry Like it's not what you think It's not like we hooked up or anything Like I I caught him cheating on a test Oh And I brought it to the professor And got him like
Starting point is 00:14:54 Failed out of the class And Oh my God Oh no So you're not calling him back Because you're still upset about him cheating Yeah No I just
Starting point is 00:15:05 Like I just feel so awkward. You ended his college career. No, that's just one class. You're not kicked out of college for that. No, but he did get suspended. Like, that's a big deal. You snitch.
Starting point is 00:15:17 But what do you feel bad? My thought here is, if you remembered him after all this, why wouldn't you at least call him back or text him back to tell him that? I don't know. I just don't want to, like, deal. Like, oh, my God, that's so uncomfortable. Yeah, it's awkward. Like, hey, remember that horrible thing that happened to you?
Starting point is 00:15:33 Like, I was in charge of that. I initiated it. Well, he initiated it. Let's remember. He's the one that cheated. He is cheating. That's true. Just to be clear, the reason is not because he's a cheater.
Starting point is 00:15:43 It's because you feel uncomfortable revealing that you were the one that caught him. I mean, I didn't even think about him being a cheater. I just figured it was awkward. But yeah, you're right. Maybe he's that type of person. I don't know. Well, no, I'm not trying to plant that. I'm just, I'm sorry.
Starting point is 00:15:59 I was trying to get clarification. Just tell her. Yeah. We need to just tell you that Daniel is not a cheater. and he's actually on the other line listening right now. He's sneaky, though. Yeah. Oh.
Starting point is 00:16:10 Yeah. Thank you guys for planning that in her mind, first of all. No, that was my bad. Daniel, I was trying to get clarification. So now he knows he heard it all. Oh. Funny, right, Daniel? Oh, God.
Starting point is 00:16:21 Okay. Well, hi. Hi. Sorry. Yeah. You know, it's not every day you get to meet your own stool pigeon. That's a big deal for me. It's like an insult, but I don't know what that means.
Starting point is 00:16:37 A stool pigeon is like a turn that they used to use in the mob when someone would snitch on somebody, like a rat. Okay. I guess you have to be a criminal. You have to have a criminal mind to understand what it is. Now you're evading taxes or what are you doing now? We're straying away. Let's get off the crime talk and back on to the relationship that you guys were starting to form. Yeah, I'm embarrassed for sure.
Starting point is 00:17:04 Oh, okay. I'll let you know that they let me retake the course and I took like a no pass, which I guess is less bad than a fail. Okay. Yeah, okay. N.P. saves everything. Yeah. You're kind of putting all of that on her, though. Were you cheating on that test or not?
Starting point is 00:17:22 Yeah, I was definitely cheating on that test. So she shouldn't feel bad is what you're trying to say. Yeah, it's a bad to say. Like, in a way you saved me, I never cheated on a test ever again. Hey. She's been improving you as a man for a long time. Yeah. How does that make you feel, Harper?
Starting point is 00:17:44 This is so awkward. I don't know. I'm glad that you learned your lesson. I don't know. So that's interesting, though. But he's not upset or mad or anything. He's also embarrassed by it, Harper. You guys are experiencing the same thing right now.
Starting point is 00:17:58 I guess. I feel so weird. I'm sorry. This is not weird. Well, let's take all this awkwardness. ball it up and move it to the side. We have all the awkwardness out of the way. Now let's just...
Starting point is 00:18:09 Is that how it works? Yeah. Pure chemistry. Just snap the fingers, boom, awkward gone. Okay. Smooth sailing from here on out. So Daniel, go ahead, start again. Where do I know you from?
Starting point is 00:18:19 That is not the question we want to leave. Oh, you're going to meet here for a party. No, it was a joke. Don't answer. I remember you. You gnarled on me in home. No, Daniel. You say you're the hot T.A.
Starting point is 00:18:34 I'm not glad I thought. Yeah, you're that snitch I hate. This is why I didn't text you back. This is better than the text back. It's actually pretty cute. And we could keep this good energy rolling into a second date of like a real meetup where you guys can create all new memories for yourself. We would pay for that date. College cafeteria date.
Starting point is 00:18:55 But it's up to you, Harper. You get to say yes or no to this. I mean, if you like the guy to go to a bar enough after he peppered you with questions for 20 minutes, you have to give him another chance. Or she just really needed a free drink. and with like airplane hair. You're right. You're right. That's true.
Starting point is 00:19:08 What do you think, Harper? I mean, Daniel, if you're, I don't know who was like moving past it or whatever. I did have fun with you. Like, you're cute. You're funny. Yeah. I, I am well beyond it. That was not the peak of the bottom of my life.
Starting point is 00:19:25 So I would love to go on another day. His life got worse later. His last girlfriend made out with many, people. Oh, no. Don't worry, they're still friends. Yeah. I can tell you definitively I'm not a cheater, so.
Starting point is 00:19:43 So you guys are going out officially and we're paying for it. Congratulations. Thank you. Oh, thanks. All right. This is a lot better than the last time he called it. Yeah. That's what has hope.
Starting point is 00:19:55 Cheating in college may not have helped him academically, but romantically, but romantically, years later, it's finally paying off. It's a really good point. Cheating works, everyone. That's not the message. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. So this is a podcast about video games.
Starting point is 00:20:13 Kind of. It's also about friendship. Definitely. And chaos. Unavoidably. Welcome to It's Dangerous to Go Alone. A podcast where we talk games, culture, and nostalgia, and immediately go off topic. There is no gatekeeping.
Starting point is 00:20:23 There is no skill check. If you win a game on easy mode, we support you. If you've never touched a controller, honestly, same energy for some of us. It's fun. It's chaotic. It's friendship with a loose gaming theme. And somehow we keep getting away with it. You should listen.
Starting point is 00:20:37 Stream it's dangerous to go alone on the free IHeartRadio app. Or wherever you get your podcasts. 2%. That is the number of people who take the stairs when there is also an escalator available. I'm Michael Easter. And on my podcast, 2%, I break down the science of mental toughness, fitness, and building resilience in our strange modern world. I'll be speaking with writers, researchers, and other health and fitness experts, and more. to look past the impractical and way too complex pseudoscience that dominates the wellness industry.
Starting point is 00:21:10 We really believe that seed oils were inherently inflammatory. We got it wrong. Many of the problems that we are freaked out about in the world are the result of stress. Put yourself through some hardships, and you will come out on the other side a happier, more fulfilled, healthier person. Listen to 2%. That's T-W-O-P-Cent on the I-Hart Radio app. Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. Well, another successful second date for Daniel. I mean, I'd say a more successful second date for Daniel.
Starting point is 00:21:48 Yeah, but wait until the update update when Daniel tells us he caught this girl making up with the college mascot. Oh, boy. I mean, if they don't have a human face, does it count? It's not really cheating if you're just making up with the mascot head. Is he just the most cheat-onable person ever? No, I think they're really cute. I think this could actually. work out. Yeah. I mean, they have
Starting point is 00:22:07 a history already. They have a fun how you met story. Totally. They're all set up for success here. I mean, it would be a great wedding reception. Story. And then the radio's involved. You don't think so? Yeah. She's the reason I didn't... Well, I guess didn't get out of college. He did. Yeah, no, it worked out, man.
Starting point is 00:22:24 Your mom almost failed me. It could be cute. And you could be our next cute couple that we set up on our show. All you got to do is email us first. We'll call that person who's not calling you back. Go check all of our second date updates, including that last one with Daniel, where we get your podcast at Brooke and Jeffrey. 2%.
Starting point is 00:22:41 That's the number of people who take the stairs when there is also an escalator available. I'm Michael Easter. I'm on my podcast, 2%. I break down the signs of mental toughness, fitness, and building resilience in our strange modern world. Put yourself through some hardships, and you will come out on the other side a happier, more fulfilled, healthier person. Listen to 2%.
Starting point is 00:23:04 That's TWO percent on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, what's good, y'all? You're listening to Learn the Hardway with your favorite therapist and host Kear Games. This space is about black men's experiences, having honest conversations that it's really not safe to have anywhere, but you're having them with a licensed professional who knows what he's doing. How many men carry a suit or armor? It signals to the world that you're not to be played with. And just because you have the capability that does not mean that you need to. Listen and learn the hard way on the AHA radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast.
Starting point is 00:23:45 In 2023, Bachelor star Clayton Eckerd was accused of fathering twins. But the pregnancy appeared to be a hoax. You doctored this particular test twice, Ms. Owens, correct? I doctored the test ones. It took an army of internet detectives to uncover a disturbing pattern. Two more men who'd been through the same thing. Greg Gillespie and Michael Mancini. My mind was blown.
Starting point is 00:24:08 I'm Stephanie Young. This is Love Trapped. Laura, Scottsdale Police. As the season continues, Laura Owens finally faces consequences. Listen to Love Trapped podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. When a group of women discover they've all dated the same prolific con artist, they take matters into their own hands. I vowed. I will be his last target. He is not going to get away with this. He's going get what he deserves. We always say that trust your girlfriends. Listen to the girlfriends. Trust me,
Starting point is 00:24:46 babe, on the Iheart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. A win is a win. A win. A win is a win. I don't care which I'm saying. Yep, that's me. Clifford Taylor the fourth. You might have seen the skits. You might have seen the skits. my basketball and college football journey or my career in sports media. Well now I'm bringing all of that excitement to my brand new podcast, The Clifford Show. This is a place for raw, unfilled conversations with athletes,
Starting point is 00:25:16 creators, and voices that not only deserve to be heard, but celebrated. So let's get to it. Listen to The Clifford show on the Iheart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. And for more behind the scenes, follow at Clifford and at TikTok Podcast Network on TikTok.

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