Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update Classics: Italian Surprise + Mid Hookup

Episode Date: September 20, 2025

Part 1  One of our listeners said she met a guy the other night who almost got her ARRESTED. So why does she want another date with him?? Time to find out! Part 2 The woman on the phone says both she AND her date were asked to leave bar trivia over the most ridiculous reason, but it bonded them together. Now she wants our help putting it over the finish line in a Second Date Update!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Hey, welcome to your Saturday show. It's Brick and Jeffrey in the morning. And I was just looking at our stats, not to start with something boring like stats. Oh, wow, that'll get people's attention. But I thought it was so crazy that this Saturday double classics episode that we're about to start right now. Out of the last three months has been

five of the top ten most downloaded. Yeah. The classic. Do you guys like the longer format? Like, what do you like so much? I think it's people are just discovering us and then got to go find the old stuff. Let us know.

Are you here because the length is so great for you? Are you just binging and catching up? Or is it on mute and you don't even realize it's plain? That's right. Or is it a Saturday and you have nothing else and you're like, I guess, this is what I'll do. We'll take all the truth. It doesn't matter, really.

We're happy. Let us know in the comment section, because we love to read those. What do you see, Alexa? Yeah, one comment says, My primary care physician recently ghosted me after I asked him to inject this podcast into my veins. I love you all. What the heck? Not even eye drops?

No, no. You dropped? Straight in. It goes hard, you know. We're injecting it right now. Yep. Enjoy. Your back-to-back classics.

I heard something the other day where having a little bit of drama or mystery or danger even, when you first meet someone, isn't necessarily a bad thing. Oh, okay. Like Alexis's past two boyfriends who are both on the no-fly list. Hey, hey, I think one got deported even. Oh, he's a conversation starter. Wow. Is that an aerosol can, liquid, or gel in a container over three ounces in your pocket?

Or are you just happy to see you? What a bad boy. Wow. Well, one of our listeners says she met a guy the other night who almost got her arrested. What? Hey. And her response to that, I need to date that man. You're going to find out what happened in your second date update right after this.

Second date update. Brooke, how many times have you been in a concert and thought, forget the band? I want to get backstage with that security guard. Show him how to really use that flashlight. I did have a security guard usher me into a concert for free once. What did you have to do to get that? Yeah, he, like, let me jump in the van and go into the back.

Whoa, that's what I just had to look really pathetic in the parking lot because my boyfriend left me there because he had a ticket and I did it. Oh, so he's like, you could have in my band if you're by yourself. So you just had to be yourself, basically. That's what one of our listeners says happened to her the other night. Her name is Claire, and apparently she met a concert security guard. Oh, what's up, Claire. It's an honor and a privilege to have you on this morning show. Welcome.

Yeah. Hi, your morning. Claire, did he have a van for you to hop in as well? Every good security guard should have a van, you know? Tell us about the security guard. Who is he? His name's Kevin. Okay.

Okay. Did you meet him at a concert, or is this just what he does for work? He was working, and I was at the concert, yeah. Oh. Oh, okay. Okay. Did he catch your eye immediately, or how did that happen? Well, he came up to me, actually, to ask me to get off a chair that I was on.

Oh. You were in trouble? To reprimand you. Okay. I thought it was going to be some romantic line. Yeah. No, but he did catch my eye. I thought he was really cute.

I was kind of tipsy and probably being a little annoying. But I was like, you know, he was like, this is a safety hazard. I'm just trying to get a better of you. I'm short, please. You're a safety hazard, Mr. Big Biceps. Jeff, you'd be good at flirting. Did you say that you asked him to lift you up so you could see? Is that what you just said?

No, I should have. That would have been good. I was just like, let me stand here. so I can see. Put me on your shoulders. So he asked you to get down from the chair. Yeah. So he eventually got me down.

But, I mean, I thought he was pretty cute. And so I actually, like, took, like, a cocktail napkin and, like, wrote my number down on it. Oh, my God. And I, like, put it in his shirt pocket and was, like, if you need to yell at me or, like, teach me any more about concert safety later, like, text me. Yeah. I like, I like, putting it in his shirt. That's, like, a little bit of, like, here you go. Yeah.

Oh, my God. I like it. I can't believe he actually called you. And I don't mean, like, you're not cute or anything. Yeah, no, no, no. How many drunk people does he come across that are? I must be special. Yeah.

Totally. Well, that's cool. So he reached out? Yeah, the next day, actually, he texted me. And we were kind of laughing at it. I had saved him as concert police in my phone because that's what I was, like, calling him all night. Oh, wait, you were drunk dialing him that night? No, just like at the show.

I was like, okay, concert police. It's your cute pet name for him Yeah I get it I get it And what did it call you An annoying short girl Yeah

A annoying short chair girl Leave me a lot But you know I apologize For whatever being drunk And how I acted You know we had a good laugh about it And then we

Yeah And so we eventually like Decided to meet up for dinner And have like an official date Oh my gosh Were you nervous Are you like Oh is you gonna be as cute as I remember

I mean a little bit You never know How it's gonna be after Great. And it's like dark. The music's loud. You've been drinking. Beer goggles. And he's in a uniform. Yeah. So where did you guys end up going for a date? We got Italian, which is like my favorite thorough. Perfect. What did you think when you saw him?

Yeah, I still thought he was cute. But I was like, oh, well, I wish you were so wearing your security uniform because you look so cute on it. Like, you look good in that. And I mean, you laughed, whatever. Like, it was fine. It was a good. We started off well. You sound like a really good flurter. So at least it sounds like, You put the vibe out on your end for sure. Yeah, I try. Good. So we ended up, like, we decided we just wanted to try a bunch of stuff, so we just split a bunch of food on the menu, which is fun.

Yeah. And, like, yeah, and the food was good. We were having a good time. Like, we were having fun. It's an Italian restaurant, so did you try the lady in the tramp move? Did you try to set a nap, at least? We didn't. We actually did not do that.

Yeah. They got maybe the tour in Italy. Smart. Yeah. Three different things on it. I mean, besides the food and sharing the food, like, what were some of the highlight? for you with him. I don't know.

We just took around. He told me about other drunk girls he's met at concerts. Made me feel better about myself. I would not be worse. Oh, I bet he has some good stories. Worst stories. Yeah.

You didn't make the top five worst girls, so we're in the clear. Thank goodness. And it was going really well, but everything kind of changed at the end when the bill came. Why? Uh-oh.

So Kevin noticed on it there were like some discrepancies, like some stuff on the bill, like didn't seem right. Yeah. We like split a salad, but then they charged those for two salads. instead. Oh, yeah. So, I mean, it was justified. Like, he wasn't being, like, a total Karen, but, you know, he asked to talk to a manager and stuff about it.

And they took care of it, I assume. Yeah. So he had to go into the back and, like, talk to someone. And it did take, like, a little while. Like, it was, you know, a good, like, 10 or 15 minutes or so. That's kind of weird. Wait a minute. I feel like you went back and beat somebody up now. I mean, typically your server would just be like, oh, my God, I'm so sorry. Let me change. Yeah. And so after that, like, his mood just kind of changed. And so after that, like, his mood just kind of changed for the rest of the night. He just kind of felt off. Like, it ruined his whole night? Weird. It kind of felt like it did.

Like, he just didn't seem the same. And then after that, he hasn't really been talking to me. At first, I was like, maybe he just felt like that was a weird ending. So he just wanted to give me a couple days or he just felt weird about it. But that's been, like, over a week. And so I'm like, was there something else? Was there another issue

I didn't know about? Jeffrey, you've been in a lot of back rooms at Italian restaurants. What goes down back there? Well, usually I'm paying extra for what happens. I'm not trying to pay less. Okay. That's the off menu things. At least we can pinpoint the

moment that everything changed, right? But it doesn't sound like it's your fault, whatever it is. Exactly. I mean, awkward on a date. Yeah. So maybe he just left him with a bad taste and that's why he hasn't. Maybe. Yeah. Were there any other weird moments from the day besides the bill?

Not that I can think of. Everything else was pretty normal. You know, I was having fun. I didn't really clock anything. Like, he didn't seem weird to me. but I don't know his mood just totally changed after the bill problem Okay

We're going to come back We're going to call Kevin for you And we're going to try and get you A second date update right after this, all right? Hey, awesome. Thank you Second date update Whenever we do these calls

And there's a problem with the bill Usually that's an issue over who should pay Right Does the guy handle it? Should the girl offer? Which exit door should we dine and dash out of? Those are the types of things that go through your mind. But with Claire and her date, Kevin, they had a different problem.

They noticed that they were getting overcharged on their bill. And that's why Kevin went to the back to talk to a manager about it for a while, a few minutes. And while Claire thought that was totally justified, kind of ruined his mood for the rest of the night. And that could be why he hasn't reached out yet for another date. Maybe he's mad that they didn't give him a free dessert. I mean, usually when they mess up the bill, you get a free dessert. He's like, we're in an Italian restaurant. Where's my tiramisu?

You know what I'm saying? Is that right? Claire, no free dessert at the Italian place? No free dessert. Oh. See? I got to the bottom of it. We don't even need to call them.

Or maybe he found an even smaller, even more obnoxious girl at another concert that he was doing security at. That's his type. He wants his thumbalina. Hey, it doesn't sound. Yeah. Who has a stand on the tallest chair to see anything. Yeah. I mean, I feel you, though.

Yeah. Concerts suck for short people. Thank you. Yeah. But there's got to be some sort of. sort of logical explanation for this we're going to call him right now you ready to do this yeah i'm ready all right here we go hello hey is this kevin uh yeah this is kevin who's this sorry did i catch you in the bathroom or something it's a little bit echoey uh no i was actually

cooking something but that's that's fine oh nice interesting hi kevin what you're cooking I'm making some pasta Oh Nice A nice morning pasta I love Italian It's to prep for work You are so friendly

I don't know that we've ever Just launched into a full conversation With somebody You haven't even asked who we are yet You know we're a radio station I feel like he's gonna invite us over Oh Okay

We're doing a segment called a second date update Where we're trying to help out One of our listeners You took out to actually an Italian place the other night And Claire? Claire? Rings a bell?

Yeah, I think so. Rings a bell. You went to a whole dinner with her. Didn't you have a really nice night with her? Because her description sounds like you guys really connected. Well, if I'm not mistaken, is this a girl that I met at the concert? Because I work at security at some concerts and I do a... Yes.

Yeah. That's right. Sounds like you're going out with a lot of different women, if you can't tell. I'm not going to lie. I'm single, so I'm dating. Yeah. Claire's the one that kept calling you concert police. Like, apparently that was her, like, funny nickname for you.

I mean, it is my job. Okay. Well, our job is to call people like you and try to figure out why you're not going out with some of our listeners. Radio police, open up. That's what Claire is wondering. Well, okay, so if I'm not mistaken, I remember we went out to dinner. We went and had it to tell me in. Yeah, no, you don't have to run us through the whole story.

We've actually heard it before. I think we just need the part where, like, you're not calling her back anymore and she's confused because it seems like you guys had a good connection. Okay, yeah, I'm trying to recap a little bit. So I remember that when the bill came, I went to the back to talk to the manager and then when I'm coming back, I see something weird. You know how they put this olive oil kind of dishes there? Yeah, for your bread. So she was putting her fingers inside the bowl and rubbing the olive oil. oil on her.

On her, like on her fingers or body? Yeah. Okay, so she was dipping her fingers in it and then rubbing it against her shirt and then a little bit on like on her belly and then on her body. Wait, are you talking about you saw Claire or just some random woman in the restaurant rubbing olive oil all over herself? I saw Claire. I mean, I saw it from far.

I saw from far. That would stain her shirt. I was going to say that's the worst. Yeah. Unless she was going inside her shirt. I mean, honestly, the only thing I could see is like. Like, if you have, like, dry skin with a cracked knuckles. I'm sorry, Kevin.

You're saying that a girl rubbing oil all over herself is a bad thing because I think most guys would be into that. No, no, I didn't say it was bad. I thought it was weird. I don't know what she thought that was going to happen afterwards. I don't know if she thought that was, like, an uprodeziac or something. No. Why wouldn't you ask her if you think you saw that? She deserves the right to explain.

Now, let me ask you. How do you bring that up to a girl, you know, sit down and after, like, why are you rubbing oil? By taking your shirt off and being like a ply right here, ma'am. Or you just go to kiss her neck and go, ooh, is that a little bit of balsamic vinaigretic? I didn't want to sound like a cream because you know how girls are always, you know. That's true. Hey, I was watching you from across the restaurant.

Was that oil? I think, like, what were you doing with the oil is a fair question. And I can understand if you were uncomfortable asking her in the moment, but now that it's been a while, you can ask her over the phone. because she's actually been listening on the other line this entire time wanting to talk to you. Are you serious? Yeah. Possibly rubbing herself down.

Claire, are you there? Hi, Kevin. Oh, God. In all seriousness, I doubt she was even doing that. But Claire... I don't know. Oil slick Claire over here. Maybe.

Yeah. Claire, what was going on? Okay, what was going on? What were you doing? Were you actually rubbing the oil or something? First of all, I had no idea you saw that. Oh. So you do know.

what he's talking about. Here we go. Yeah. Claire, please explain in very, very, very a lot of detail. What's a thing? There's no thing. Olive oil, like,

you rub it on your chest that helps keep everything quirky. Like, I don't want saggy breasts when I'm older. Like, admittedly, like, it's a TikTok hack I've adopted, but I mean, like,

it's a thing. Like, it gets the blood flow and it keeps you moisturized. I never knew that. Not in a restaurant. No, it's not. Like, don't you do that in the privacy. It's totally normal.

She thought it was a privacy. He wasn't there. You're at a restaurant, girl. You're not putting your hand down your shirt. With your bread in the oil before your fingers? It wasn't like I was pouring the bottle on me. I just do it stabbing a little. Like, okay, I have faced olive oil before.

But like it's from a beauty brand. It's not, I don't. It's like refined, I would assume, the different way. Or at least I pay for it as if it's refined a different way. You're going to have to excuse, Brooke. This is the part of the show where she tells our listeners how to live their lives. No, I just like, so. You think it's.

normal for her to stick her hands down to her? I don't know what's normal. People do their own things, their own different ways. They try beauty hacks. They do and don't work. Can I ask a question now? Yeah. Of course. Claire, I mean, now that you explained it, I actually really liked you,

and I'm sorry for not calling back. Would you go out with me again on a second day? She said perky, and now the guy's like, yeah, let's go. Claire, did this whole experience change your mind with him not communicating with you earlier? I mean, maybe yeah, a little. Like, I thought we were having a good

time I'm an open person obviously like obviously yeah I would have talked to him about it if he had asked me about a moment like I'm not embarrassed about it but now I think it's a little weird he's coming around come on Claire if the tables were turned and you you're walking to the table and you see some dude put in oil on his body you would be a little man we use butter okay I would have said something though like he didn't do that like I would have confronted I would have asked a question. Yeah. I can see that. I could see that.

I wouldn't just stop communicating. It was the first date, and I don't know if you were to have been okay with that or not, so now I know maybe on a second date, we could fix it. Oh. Oh. Oh. He wants to be the one to apply the oil onto you. Hey.

Is that the meaning you took? Well, that's what I'm visualizing. All right. Now it's getting weird. You're making it weird. It says olive oil. It's a TikTok hack. Okay.

All right. Okay. Well, at this point, Claire, Kevin has already said yes to another day. He's apologized for not being more communicative. And third, you don't even have to pay for this next one because it's on us. Even better, clear. I mean, I can get from the visuals, I get that it was kind of weird in how some people might not want to approach that. Yeah.

I'll give you a second chance. Let's go. What are we doing Italian then? I don't know. He did say that there's a lot of concert, Girl, so you just got to get in line first, Claire. Oh, that's true. But if you oil yourself up, you can slide faster to the front of the line.

Security's not tackling you then. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Hey, everybody, this is Matt Rogers. And Bowen Yang. And you're never going to guess who's our guest on Los Culturistas. It is Bradley Jackson, L. Woods, Tracy Flick, herself. Reese Witherspoon. It must go in a girl's trip.

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No, on the Q rating as I get it. My resiliency score is down to adequate because we were on a red eye. My resiliency score. My grit. I got to get my grit score up. Now, don't think. that you're going to come out Las Culturistas the podcast

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on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. And that usually never happens where even before I offer to pay for the date, the guy is jumping in, ready to go out. Yeah, you're right. It was almost like a light bulb went off and it said, And he's like, what am I thinking? She's rubbing oil on her body to make it perky. I eat it.

Those two words in combination, oil and perky, put together, that's an instant, like, yes. It makes me oily and perky. I just hope that nobody ate any more bread after. Do you know what I mean? Like, this is so unsanitary. Oh, yeah. From that same container, they change them out in between people, right? But even still, like, her and her date had been, like, eating bread and dipping it with their mouth.

Crumbs on her body. I was curious as my co-host are going to be adopting that beauty hat coming up here. Oh, Brooke said she's tried special oil. No, not you, Brooke. I don't care about you. Jose. You getting in on that action? Oh, dude, I'm doing all the oil.

Give you some motor oil. I'll rub it everywhere the same, baby. I feel like he's just going to come to our greasy. Yeah. I'm glad we were able to get them to go out. Yeah. There we go. Greasy and perky, by the way.

Remember, if you want to get greasy and perky, try listening to our second date updates. That'll do the trick. You can find all of them up on our podcast wherever you get yours at Brooke and Jeffrey. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. When you hear somebody got kicked out of a bar, you would assume it's for fighting or disorderly conduct or passive aggressive licking. Oh, I was going to say just going with Alexis. So what I puked a few times on the floor. She's 86 from both parts of the city.

Well, one of our listeners says both her and her date were asked to leave. bar trivia night over the most ridiculous reason. And it only bonded them closer. Did they bring their own booze? No, but the question is, how did she end up here asking for our help? You're going to find out

in a second date update right after this. Second date update. Brook out of all the men that you've lured and seduced. How many of them have gotten up and walked away mid hookup? Oh my God. Or did they all suffer through it to the bitter end? They all suffered through it.

One did dump me right after midnight on New Year's Eve. Oh. That would hurt because I was too drunk to drive home, so I had to sleep on the couch until the next morning, which was embarrassing because he lived also with his brother. It was just, it wasn't good. Embarrassing, but responsible. Yeah.

Thank you. And I'm sure you hooked up again when you woke up. It's a little bit. No, we didn't. This is way too much information and too deep of a dive into Brooke's sad past. So I only was asking because our listener, today, Lindsay said in her email, she's feeling confused after her date

ended awkwardly, just as things were starting to heat up romantically. And I bet she feels better after hearing my pathetic story. Yeah, probably. Lindsay, welcome to the show. Hi. I do feel about her, but also like, oh gosh, this is so weird and embarrassing

and confusing. Well, don't feel bad about it. All the words people love to use in dating these days. Yeah. And after we hear your story, I'm sure Brooke will share some of her real life advice, then probably even have some video evidence of guys sprinting away from her house. So that way you'll feel really good about yourself. Now, tell us about this guy that you hung out with the other day. Okay. So I met this guy on a dating app. His name is Damon.

Okay. And we totally hit it off on our banter. He had a great sense of humor. And I was really happy because we didn't text for like a crazy amount of time. It was just like, okay, why don't we meet up and we ended up meeting at a bar just as simple like a drink at a bar it was it was great yeah this all sounds fantastic what was it like when you first saw him it was good he looked like his pictures and then it was actually kind of fun because literally like 15 minutes after we get to this bar the staff starts handing us whiteboards and dry erasers and it turns out that it was trivia night oh oh my whiteboard style random I haven't done that one I actually had that happen to me once me and my buddies were at a bar and all of a sudden, like, people kind of come in with pencils and we're like, oh, I feel like that's how I've ended up at every tournament night.

Oh, really? Okay. That's weird. The bar's always really busy. Yeah, well, we decided to stay. I mean, I, in my mind, I was like, oh, this is kind of a nice little, like, icebreaker, something of fun to do. And then it turned out that the questions were very hard. Oh, they always are. Yeah, they are. Where we drew the line, it was like, the square root of 16. And both of us were like, we're so horrible at math. I don't even remember. It's pretty basic. I mean, not did math shame you. But at least you guys were on the same page, I suppose. Yeah, just stick to relationship shaming her.

So keep going. We were on the same page because neither of us knew it. So instead, he just threw a square around the number. Oh, square? Yeah. Well, did they accept that as a correct answer? That's funny. No, not only did they not accept it.

They took our whiteboards away because they thought we weren't taking it seriously. Oh, I like that. Dude, you got trivia shamed. But you guys were being silly, you were having fun with it, and you got kicked out together. That is way better than ending up on a date with someone who takes trivia too serious. Yeah, yeah, exactly. Totally, that's fun. Yeah, so where'd you guys go after that?

Well, yeah, then obviously we had to pivot a little bit, and he very casually basically said, well, look, I live really close to here. If you want, you can just come to my place, and maybe we can just watch a movie or something. Okay. Did he wink when he said movie? Oh, no, but I God, I hope not. Would that have worked on you, Brooke? No, but everybody knows what movie means.

Let's be honest. Don't ask Brooke more questions. Nobody's watching anything. That was on me. Okay. Yeah, we get to his place. We watch a movie. It was some action movie that I don't even remember the name.

I don't know. I had a couple drinks. And then I was really feeling it. So I actually initiated things. Okay. What's your move to go in for it? Oh, gosh. I mean...

Just throw yourself, Adam. Just like that on top of. Good old yawn and stretch. Oh, man. It's really late 7 p.m. I think she probably just kissed him. Okay. I think that that's all women do.

Women don't really need a move. Okay. Yes, I was just, we were just, okay? We were just kissing, okay? All right. Yeah. Nobody here's judging you no matter what. No, we're in the right space.

We're looking for advice, is also. So how to... But anyway, things did start heating up. And then the second that they got a lot, little bit hotter his mood completely changed and things just sort of stopped interesting do you know why at all no idea so much so that i asked him like hey are you okay is everything okay he's like yeah yeah everything's fine and then he started crying that's just what you do jeff is that just me post took up no honestly the first thing that comes to my mind is that he's cheating oh do what i mean he's

Honestly, like... You're saying, Brooke, that he felt guilty mid-act and had some remorse, so do you give him credit for at least stopping? No. Oh, absolutely not. Well, he should have gone through with it then. I was thinking he wasn't ready, like, if I don't shave my legs

and then, like, something, you know... Maybe he didn't... That stops you? No, but I think about it. Okay, that's good. Lindsay, did you get that vibe from Damon that maybe he felt guilty about another woman? To be honest, I didn't even think about that.

his place didn't give me the vibe that there was someone else like living there with him I don't know at that point I could tell something shifted I don't know he's like oh it's fine

I'm thinking in my head like fine what I mean you have a girl like making out with you like and things are going so great okay so that was was at the end of the night then yeah I basically just finished my drink and I left and now

ever since then I haven't heard from him and I don't want to seem like the needy one to be texting him. No, let us be the needy ones that are calling him on the radio. Thank you. We'll take all the blame for you when we come back. We'll call Damon and try and get you a second date update

and finish what you two started on the couch that night. Right here on the radio. Thanks. I mean, it sounds kind of weird the way you say it, but okay. Okay, we promise not to listen. Hold on. What? Second date update. Two dummies walk into a bar on trivia night. Sounds like the setup to a joke,

but it's what actually happened. And I'm not the one calling them dummies. Lindsay said herself, the trivia that night was just way too hard. So hard that they decided to ditch the bar and went back to Damon's place instead. There is definitely some math teachers listening that are shaming you on the text board. The square root of 16. That is a hard one, I think. But just when things were about to get hot and heavy, Damon put the brink. breaks on and that's where things kind of ended awkwardly which is the big mystery we still don't

know why he did that it's been floated around that maybe he could be a cheater and felt really guilty halfway through because they're starting the kissing and maybe he forgot to hit record on the camera and decided it wasn't worth going through with it I'm just saying it's happened

to me before but our goal today is figure this out why did he stop it so that she can either get another day or at least get closure on what happened that night. And the thing is, Lindsay, you sound really hopeful about this guy. Yeah, I really, really

liked him. We had a great time on it. To be honest with you, before that happened, that was probably one of the best first dates I've had. Like, truly. Wow. See, we gotta get, we gotta fix it. That's all there is to it. I'm, like, really kind of running it through my mind about what

you said about him. Oh, you're fine. I'm sure whatever the real reason is, is 10 times worse and whatever you're thinking. Yeah, it's always good to overthink it. No, no, no. Definitely. There's poor girl's anxiety. I know you're joking, but it's still.

Well, let's get an answer or put you out of your misery, whatever it is. I'm going to dial his phone number right now, so hopefully he picks up. Here we go. All right. Hello? Hey, we're looking to talk with Damon. Yeah, who was this? No.

Hey, we're a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Welcome to the show, man. We're doing. What's your calling me for? Radio show. What's up? Yeah, we do a segment on our show. It's called a second date update. And that's where we try to help out listeners who've gone out with someone recently. They had a really good time, but they aren't getting that second meetup. And this woman is trying to figure out why that happened. Do you have any ideas who are referring to?

I don't really play games with the radio or nothing like that But I have no clue Who you're talking about It's not a game We do have we do games And we can have you on for that later If you'd like

He doesn't do it No I don't think he's good at trivia Remember Square root of 16 Yeah we heard that trivia is in your strong thing But this is more just about Helping out our listener Lindsay Uh

Okay Yeah so she called us And she told us About your guys's hangout the other night It sounds awesome It sounds like it was a great night You guys got kicked out of a bar together That's like a bonding experience

Yeah Okay yeah I mean we we hung out I mean I don't know everything that she told you But I mean we heard about the bar trivia She said that you were one of the funniest guys That she's been out within a long time Yeah But afterwards she left your place

Having kind of more questions in her mind than answers Oh really I got questions too right? Oh, you do? Well, that's interesting. We don't normally hear that. Okay. She was really into you.

Well, we had fun playing trivia and all that, but she started kissing me, you know, we were watching a movie, and she started kissing on me, like, doing one of the best scenes, bad boys. The Will. The original bad boys? The Will Smith's bad boys, the original bad boys, okay? It was the first movie, it was the first movie where there were two black lead actors and Hollywood thought it would never work,

and it was one of the best ever. It's a great film. But you were watching a movie to actually watch the movie. You were watching a movie to lead to the kissing part, right? Like, that's what you do on it. Listen, it was the good part of the movie. It was a really good part of the movie. And that's supposed to watch a movie that you've seen a million times

and you don't care about it. You know, a pause button exists if you really want. Well, that's true, too. That's why you stop the makeout session? This an action-pack movie, and here she is trying to get action with me. You are the first man that I think I've ever heard Has been upset about something like that I'm just saying like she just had an opportunity

To get to know me But listen, why didn't you just tell her Like she needs to know that Like if you said To me is what he's saying Is this something that you discussed with her Before putting the movie on That this is a really important film

And that you really want her to watch it No I mean I didn't I didn't say that But like during the part of the movie In the middle of the movie I was like Yo this was really good You have to really pay attention to this part Oh, you talked in the middle of the movie? No, no, yeah.

I mean, she was kissing out all upon me, you know what I mean? And these are not regular kisses. These are French kisses. These are, you know what I mean? Okay. Some ladies just don't know that eyes need to stay on the screen during this time. I don't know you emphasize French kisses, too. Like, that's a bigger deal.

Okay. Look, I don't think it was malicious. I don't think that Lindsay was trying to, like, shove something in your face and say she doesn't care about your movies. She just really liked you. And you can let Lindsay tell you that because she's on the other line right now wanting to talk to you. Don't end up the good part. Okay, just listen. No, yeah.

I mean, she is actually on the other line right now. Yeah. Hi. Hey. I didn't know you was listening, but I mean, you get my feeling, though. You know what we talked about and how I kept trying to talk to you about it. I mean, you hear. I just want to make sure.

So you're really, like, ghosting me. Yep. Let her finish. Wait, I'm just trying to figure this out. You, you, we had such a great date. And then the reason why now you've decided to leave me hanging is because I started making out with you in your favorite part of the movie. You know what? It's not a movie.

It's bad boys. It's Will Smith and Martin Lawrence. It's bad boys. And here you are trying to just make out with me and not really pay attention to the movie. Like, really? I mean, listen, I was really into you. and I wasn't quite focused on anything else, but you.

I thought you would be like over the moon with that. We can watch bad boys anytime we want. To get into me, it's to get into the movie. If you really liked him, you would take an interest in the things that he is interested in. I mean, isn't this like a refreshing flip? It is. Honestly, doesn't this feel good to have a worst problem?

A man say that he really wants to share his passion with you? That's all I want. I mean, if that's really what you wanted, you could have said so. And then we could have saved. I tried to tell you. Right now. Like, you know, I wasn't giving you tongue back. I was trying to watch the movie.

Oh, my gosh. I've never had a date like this ever before in my life. Wow. And I think you mean that in a good way because most guys aren't like Damon. He's one of a kind. That's true. He's kind of the opposite of a bad boy. He's a good one.

He's a man of sin. But it was that bad that that took precedence. over how much fun we had before that? Listen, we had fun, but I want to get to know you too, but you need to get to know me. And you're not listening, Lindsay. It wasn't bad at all. It just was part of it.

No matter how weird or unusual that might sound, that's from the heart. It is a great movie if you pay attention. It is. Lindsay, is there any way that you could see past this miscommunication that happened? Damon, he wants to be intimate with you. Just pause the movie or wait until it's done. No, no, no.

You're not pausing a movie. You watch it all the way through. Okay. Well, once the credits roll, then the clothes can come off. So that's it. Okay. Is that something that you could see yourself being open to, Lindsay? I mean, if I haven't already offended him enough, I don't know.

I just did such a bad job getting to know him. That's a fair point. That's fair. Are you being sarcastic right now? Of course. Oh. Are you kidding me? Well, sounds like that's a yes from Lindsay for another day.

date. I don't think that's it. I'm just reading in between the lines of what she said at Damon. Are you willing to look past all of her flaws and give her one more chance to watch Bad Boys all the way through without interruption? You know what? That's going to be a no for me because she still don't even know the name of the movie. What's the name of the movie? What's the name of the movie? What's the movie? I've heard it now, Bad Boys, One, Two, and Three. But who's it starring? Will Smith. And? And? And? And? Yeah My point exactly Damon, you're right, let's ditch this girl We're bad boys for life

Where are the respectful women in this society And boys come out and play Yeah, this goes out to you, Damon The best movie trilogy of all time Get her out of here Will Smith and Martin Lawrence Remember the name, Wendy Oh my gosh

I mean a happy I know you know what to say Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Hey everybody, this is Matt Rogers And Bowen Yang And you're never going to guess Who's our guest on Lost Cultureistas It is Bradley Jackson

Elle Woods, Tracy Flick herself Reese Witherspoon It must go in a girls' trip I have to have a tequila We must Oh The Q rating When they run diagnostic

We can run it on you guys I'd be scared Run the Q rating. No, on the Q rating on us. My resiliency score is down to adequate because we were on a red eye. My resiliency score. My grit. I got to get my grit score up.

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Good on you all. I'm curious. You're evolving. Women just don't understand that men don't want cheap, easy hookups. They want a lady who appreciates their Netflix action movie watch list. Wait, wait. They want the hookups just in it there. It's timing.

No. No. No. That's all we care about it. is our Netflix watch list. And if a woman isn't willing to do that and take that journey with us, then hit the bricks. Oh, really? What's your movie?

Yeah. Okay. I don't care if you've got a perfect 10 body in the face of a Disney princess. If you don't know who Martin Lawrence is, then you are not right with us. Okay. Is that for you too? Because I feel like yours is going to be more like West Side Story or something. Yeah.

That's it. I'm snapping my way out of the room. Don't you dare musical shame me, okay? But I will say Lindsay was right. Damon was actually really funny. He was great. And I hope that we talked to him. him again in a future second day.

I think it still could have worked out if she would have just been like, I'm sorry. Yeah. I'm so sorry. No, she had to double down and not appreciate bad boys for the genius that it was. I mean, honestly, it was not knowing Martin Lawrence's name that did her in. I think all of us were pretty disappointed there. And don't disappoint us any further.

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