Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update Classics: Ride of Shame + Incriminating News at 11

Episode Date: March 21, 2026

Part 1 How can you parlay one night of fun with a person you met at the club into something more meaningful? We're going to help one of our listeners try to do exactly that. Part 2 One of our listener...s got their 15 seconds of fame DURING A DATE and it included tv cameras recording EVERYTHING he said…See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:03:48 You know what, you bury your grandma quickly and get a Big Mac at the same time. Yeah, I feel like there's all... Oh, she loved McNuggets. There's all sorts of strange situations that people end up in, but is there anything more risky than having a guy come out and meet all of your friends the very first time you're meeting him to. Are they at the funeral? No.
Starting point is 00:04:09 We're not at the funeral anymore. It actually happened to one of our listeners. A group of ladies at a club met her Tinder date. And I'm just assuming that must have had an effect on why he's not calling her back. We're going to find out in your second date update. Next. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update.
Starting point is 00:04:29 When you have that option to spend the night over at your date's place the first time you hang out, how do you make that decision? Wait, people say no? Well, yeah. I mean, do you pull a brook and just consult your bottle of wine until you say yes? It's funny. Give me 10 minutes. I'll reply.
Starting point is 00:04:48 Do you pull a Jose and check their fridge to make sure they have good breakfast options for the next morning? Or do you pull a Batman villain move like Two-Face and flip a double. headed coin. Oh, wait. That's again the same answer that I always come to. Heads again? Yeah. I didn't see that coming.
Starting point is 00:05:06 Guess I'm staying the night with you. Or the other way, Jeff. Imagine telling a girl, I got to go. The coin doesn't lie. I'm sorry. I didn't think of that. But I only asked because one of our listeners had to make that decision wondering,
Starting point is 00:05:17 do I stay over? What? Or do I go home right now? Now I'm back with Brooke, though. Like, is this a really difficult way to decision? You always pack a bag of extra clothes and leave it in your car. Yeah, thank you. Oh, is that a trick?
Starting point is 00:05:28 You guys have to have. You guys have a trick. much more of a game plan than I realize. We are so easy on this show. Clearly. Let's talk to our listener and see how she feels. Jackie, welcome to the show. Hi, you guys.
Starting point is 00:05:40 Hi, Jackie. Are you better at playing harder to get than we are? Yeah, Jackie, stop hitting on us. I don't know. Okay. How did you make your bedtime decision? Well, it was really spur of the moment, I guess. So you didn't pack a bag like Alexis, is what you're saying?
Starting point is 00:05:58 No. Okay, okay. Who did you go out with? His name is Miguel. Okay. Okay. You like the Latin boys. I like that. He's a little bit. I mean, it doesn't mean he is for sure, but most likely. I don't want to assume anything about him. He's probably like a super white guy.
Starting point is 00:06:14 Yeah. No, he is Latin. Nice. Okay. Okay. Now I don't feel bad. Jose's excited. I already like him. Yeah. What was the lead up before that decision? Well, I met him on Tinder, so we had been like communicating for a while.
Starting point is 00:06:28 and I was out with my girlfriend, and we were, like, taking, like, you know, cute girl snaps. It's Friday night. My home girl was like, you should sit in this snap. You look so cute. And, like, invite him out. I'm like, oh, my God, right? Oh, your girls gasped you up, and they're the ones I told you to invite him over? Dude, I've been out with a single girlfriend before where we're like, yeah, have them come.
Starting point is 00:06:47 And they meet for the first time while we're all there. No way. As a guy, they'd be a little bit intimidated. Yeah. I know, but that's the test, right? He's a guy up for it. So how did it go? It went great. He showed up. It was like a bar club. They played music. So he actually did dance. And when I tell you, he can move.
Starting point is 00:07:07 Oh, boy's got rhythm. Okay. I can really dance. You are a giddy right now. I love it. Well, he just, I don't know. It was a good date, right? I have fun. Can I ask how much alcohol was consumed at this point? A lot. Okay. How much before he got there? Like, did he show up and you were already in? I wasn't like gone. I was, like, everybody at the bar getting tipsy.
Starting point is 00:07:29 Like, you know. Okay. You weren't broken in it on the first day. That's fun. I'm never going. The key is a glass of water after every drink. That sounds way too responsible. We're going to edit that out.
Starting point is 00:07:40 Okay. So, Jackie, keep going. What happens after that? So then, like, the lights come on and everyone's gone. Like, my friends are gone. What? They left you? The bars are, like, cleaning up.
Starting point is 00:07:51 Yes. They left me. But isn't that a good sign? Like, when the girls feel like you're safe enough to be on your own with this person, they're like, okay, she's got it. No, you don't ever leave a girlfriend without checking in with her first ever. Remember, I was drinking, like, a lot. So there's a high percentage chance that I told them that I was okay.
Starting point is 00:08:10 Okay, okay, okay. And you felt safe with this guy. So the lights came on, they're shutting the bar down, and your friends aren't there. What happens next? We were hungry because, you know, we've been drinking. So we got, like, yeah, some hot dogs and, like, Todd. I like how you're trying to make this sound all very. classy.
Starting point is 00:08:30 We talked, I mean, we made out. I mean, you were making out at this point, right? I mean, yeah, in between bites. What? In between hot dog bites? Yeah, sure. Oh. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:08:43 Okay. So obviously this ends up over back at Miguel's place somehow. Yeah. He said that his place was like up the street and it's not normally something I would do. Yeah, we all say that. You don't need to, though. Yeah. But I said yes.
Starting point is 00:09:03 Okay. And we had a good time. I mean, the description of this, though, just sounds like, I don't know. I feel like he was maybe under the understanding this was one night of fun. Yeah. It sounds like it is. Brooke, how dare you? It's Tinder.
Starting point is 00:09:18 And are you not remembering the hot makeout session in between Wiener Bites? Also true. I just, I don't know if your expectations are. matching maybe what his work. Well, I kind of wanted to continue to get to know him. Like, I didn't see this as a one-off. Did you tell him that? I felt like it was implied for my profile.
Starting point is 00:09:40 No, that's good. You do not want to be on the first day. Like, by the way, I see this going long term. That's not a good thing to say to a guy. In the middle of her wiener hook up with a hot dog? By the way, I could die like this with you. You guys, there's a next morning. They could obviously talk about how she hopes this isn't the last time she
Starting point is 00:09:56 sees them and that she sees something more with him. Ugh, clingy. I'm just saying. Like, what was that like? So we didn't have like a ton of time to talk because I got picked up, but I did text him later. Okay. Did you respond?
Starting point is 00:10:13 See, that's why he needs help because when I read it sounds like he's just being polite. Like it's a different tone to his text now. Rather, when we were snapping the night before, it was very. he was more into me. That's weird. When I text super drunk and super sober, I sound exactly the same. Both ways. But she had talked to him sober.
Starting point is 00:10:36 You know, like you said you had been talking to him for a couple weeks on TikTok. So you can tell a vibe show. That is true. It's not like you woke up and you're like, oh, you don't look like what I remember. And the lights went on at the bar. So he saw her in full light. Bar lights, yeah. That is bad lighting.
Starting point is 00:10:50 It's not great. But clearly something is off here and you deserve some answers. So let's come back and call me. And hopefully he picks up and gives us a little bit of insight when we do your second date update right after this. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. If you missed Jackie's first date, let's quickly go down the checklist of her hangout with Miguel. Okay.
Starting point is 00:11:14 So is he a good dancer? Yes. Check. Did her friends approve? Check. Those are two good things. Yeah. Could he make out while also eating a street meat dog?
Starting point is 00:11:26 at the same time. Check and check. Oh my gosh. I may have the same type of men in mine. Seriously. No wonder. Brooks like, hmm, spicy. No wonder it ended with a little sleepover
Starting point is 00:11:39 back at his place. But Jackie's hoping it wasn't just a one-night stand thing. For sure. The thing is she can't deny that Miguel's been acting differently towards her, at least over text. He's being more polite now than he is being flirty. Right. And we just want to help her figure out the reason why.
Starting point is 00:11:55 We just think he's sober now. The one thing I'm concerned about is that you were sounds like pretty drunk that night, and he may share a story that could be embarrassing. Did you consider that, Jackie? I don't think there was anything embarrassing that happened. Okay. Okay. So you're willing to hear whatever it is.
Starting point is 00:12:17 I mean, yeah, but that's why I'm calling because I like this guy. I thought we had a good connection on Tinder, and we had fun with my friends. friends. Even my friends are like, well, where's Miguel? And I'm like, I don't know. Oh, man. Here's the thing. If it does happen to be something embarrassing that you don't remember, the good news is Brooke has done something 10 times more embarrassing. Oh, for sure. Sober probably even. Yeah. In fact, we all have. That makes me feel better. Okay, good. The comparison bar is very low. So we're always here. Wait, real quick, do we want to go around the room and give awful examples of how we embarrass ourselves?
Starting point is 00:12:55 Maybe we should save that for once we hear what the issue is. Got it. Okay. Let's see if Miguel answers the phone. I'm going to dial his number right now. Here we go. Hey, is this Miguel? Yeah, who's this?
Starting point is 00:13:15 Hey, man. We're a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. There's more than this, Jeff. Hi, Miguel. How can I help you guys? We're calling because we're in the middle of a segment right now. That's called a second date update.
Starting point is 00:13:32 Sorry, I'm just confused What does that have to do with me? Great question, Miguel. Yeah, if you don't know what it is, it's where we have a listener who has gone out with you and had a really nice time was hoping to meet up again,
Starting point is 00:13:46 but that hasn't been happening and she's not really sure why. Who is it? I don't know if you're seeing multiple people, but the girl who reached out to us about you today, her name is Jackie. Jackie.
Starting point is 00:14:01 Okay. Jackie from Tinder. Yeah. Is that how you have her saved in the phone? Probably. Yeah. Sounds like her name. You guys met up?
Starting point is 00:14:11 Yeah, we decided I met her and her friends of the club. Right. We heard the story from her and it sounded like a really fun night. Oh, and the stuff at the club. And it ended up back at your place after some street food hot dogs. She said her friends even liked you. Yeah. She's fun.
Starting point is 00:14:29 Okay. All right. Were you going in? to the night just expecting to just have fun for one night. Like you weren't thinking of her maybe as a multi-night type of lady. I don't know how to put it. I don't want to say relationship because I don't know that that's what she's looking for. No, we had a situation the next morning.
Starting point is 00:14:51 What? A situation? What happened? She says that she had to hurry out because the car was waiting for her. Well, yeah. So I heard her get up and call somebody to pick her up. And I told her like, you know, I can call you Nibu or whatever. And she said, no, no, no, it's okay.
Starting point is 00:15:10 It's okay. So then she jumps in the shower. And about five minutes later, there's a knock at the door. And I open up and it's her mom. What? Oh, no. Her mother is standing at your door? Yeah, apparently she was her right.
Starting point is 00:15:29 Oh, my God. Wow. I cannot imagine calling my mother after a night like that. Yeah, she was unhappy. Unhappy? What? Yeah, she was not happy. Oh.
Starting point is 00:15:42 Wait, what did she say? Uh-oh. She started grilling me, like, did you have fun last night? She said, how many partners have you been with? Oh, no. It was really, really awkward. Yeah, that totally explains it, actually. I wouldn't be calling people back either.
Starting point is 00:15:58 So wait, did Jackie ever come and interfere? know that this was happening? It took her a while to get out of shower and get her stuff on and everything. So in my mind, before that whole awkward situation with her mom, I was probably going to hang out with her again. But to meet her mom on the first day like that where she's grilling me. Oh, yeah. And you can't never recover from that.
Starting point is 00:16:20 And it's the morning after. Like, her mom will always think of you as that guy. But it could be a funny story if you're able to spin it the right way. Oh, depending on she's a cool mom. Why would Jackie call her mother? That's a good question, Brooke. And actually, we should find out because I have to tell you, Miguel, that Jackie is on the other line right now listening to this phone call. Not her mom.
Starting point is 00:16:40 Yeah. Oh. Is her mom on the line, too? No. I don't know. Not that we know of. Jackie, talk to Miguel here. Geez.
Starting point is 00:16:51 Hi, Miguel. I'm so sorry. You heard all that. I'm just, I don't know. Like, it's weird because, like, I was waiting for you to, like, call me back. You know, just, like, text me back or something. Jackie. Did you hear the stuff of, like, why didn't you take up his offer on getting an Uber instead of calling your mom?
Starting point is 00:17:12 Okay, well, no, I get that because you're in your, you look like the morning after. It's tough an Uber. But it's better than with your mom. I'm just saying. Yeah, but what if the Uber driver's cute? Yeah. I get where Alexis is coming from. No, but you do have all your friends you went out with.
Starting point is 00:17:24 Okay. But, like, my mom, she was, like, nearby. she was leaving church and it's like she's been money on a Uber. She came from church to pick her daughter up after a one-night stand? Maybe she's not. She was upset. Wow.
Starting point is 00:17:40 Did you know that she was so upset? She had to have lectured you in the car. Said something to you. My mom usually picks me up from my one-night stands. What? Oh, wait. She's used to this behavior. Mom knows the rundown.
Starting point is 00:17:54 Okay. It's another Sunday. You know what to do after that. This is probably why they're all one night and not more. Yeah. It's a good point. I mean, she doesn't need everybody. I just happen to be in the shower.
Starting point is 00:18:08 I didn't know she was going to grill you, Miguel. I'm so sorry. I didn't, I had no idea she was going to do that. I mean, my mom is my best friend. She's my favorite person in the whole world. And I really didn't see anything wrong with her coming to pick me up after church. I mean, she was in the area. I didn't want you to have to send money on.
Starting point is 00:18:27 Uber. I didn't want to inconvenience to anybody. I mean, Miguel, what do you think? I, listen, I get it. Like, I'm super close with my mom, too. And I've had my mom pick me up from some really sticky situations. But, like, I was under 18 at the time. And, you know, I'm an adult. It's been a while.
Starting point is 00:18:44 It was just really off-putting for you to feel like your mom doesn't like me already, you know? Like, that was really weird. No, she loves you. She was just asking about me, like, the other day. Wait, she was asking about Miguel? Yeah. She was asking, like, have you heard from him? You seem like a nice guy.
Starting point is 00:19:00 Oh, look at that. Sometimes moms come in really, really hot. They just want to, like, make sure that he's a good guy. They're not actually angry. And you already ripped the Band-Aid off with her. Like, there's no way you could get lower. And she knows where you live for the next time. Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 00:19:15 I mean, she did say that she would pick me up if it ever did happen again. Okay. Man, this is so weird. Like, I've never dealt with anything like this before. Well, we'd like to let you deal with it one more time and send you on another date with Jackie and we'd pay for it. I bet Jackie could even promise that her mom won't come or pick her up or have any interaction with you. No, she'll have her grandma come and get her this time. I mean, Miguel, I thought that we had like a really great time.
Starting point is 00:19:47 I think that it's going to be better. Like, mom doesn't have to come. But I also just want to say, like, isn't my mom really hot? Like, that's how I'm going to look in, like, the next 20 years. Like, she looks amazing. So if you pick me, if you pick me, Miguel, like, I'm going to be hot for the rest of my life. Not a lot of people come on the show and try to sell themselves by saying how hot their mom is. I should try this, though.
Starting point is 00:20:11 Maybe. But it's up to you, Miguel. We're running out of time here, so we need an answer. Honestly, that was the weirdest pitch I ever heard, but Jackie, I'm down for it. Oh, she's got. Hey! Hey, you got those good jeans. Yay!
Starting point is 00:20:26 Oh, my gosh. Yes. You know the first person she's calling after this is her mom. Oh, yeah. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Getting ready for a game means being ready for anything. Like packing a spare stick. I like to be prepared.
Starting point is 00:20:47 That's why remember, 988 Canada's suicide crisis helpline. It's good to know just in case. Anyone can call or text for free confidential support from a trainer's ponder anytime. 988 suicide crisis helpline is funded by the government in Canada. I'm Bailey Taylor and this is it girl. You may know me from my it girl series I've done on the streets of New York over the years. Well, I've got good news. I am bringing those interviews and many more to this podcast. Yes, we will talk about the style and the success, but we are also talking about the pressure, the expectations, and the real work with the women's shaping culture right now.
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Starting point is 00:22:03 is important. Listen to It Girl with Bailey Taylor on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Before I say anything about this, I just want to say, make sure if you miss any of our second date updates, you go to our YouTube page at Brooke and Jeffrey. Yeah, they're all up there. We put them up every week, along with our awkward Tuesday calls. And maybe this should have been an awkward Tuesday phone call. Having your mom come from church to pick you up after your one-night stand.
Starting point is 00:22:34 Oh, and then lecture the one-night stand. Like that was the part that how did she go from like lecturing him to I like him. Where is Miguel? Mom came in with a tough love after every one night stand apparently. That is going to be one mother-in-law to handle for somebody. Oh, yeah. Man, why didn't we ask though? We should have specifically asked who picked her up after the date?
Starting point is 00:22:54 Because who would have been a million years thought it would be her mother? Well, whose job is it to ask that question? Alexis, we need to put you on this, okay? From now on, anytime we do a second date, you are asking the driver's name, a physical. physical description, license plate number, and relationship status. It's not going to give me, like, flagged or anything for asking all that info. It's just going to help us. This is a good learning moment so that we can help our listeners.
Starting point is 00:23:17 Email the show, and we will call the person who's not calling you back and grill them like her mom did. Yep, that's right. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. They say everyone gets their 15 seconds of fame sometime in their life. Yeah. Well, for one of our listeners, it happened in the middle of. of his first date. Dang.
Starting point is 00:23:38 Oh, no. Is that good or bad? I think it's good. It was good for him and included actual television cameras that recorded everything he was saying. Awesome. And you won't believe the reason why it happened. You're going to find out in your second date update next.
Starting point is 00:23:54 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. If you see a cute somebody out in the wild, I can tell you what animals would do. Wait, why are so far? But it might make you. blush. Oh, Jeffrey. Sorry, I had to let it out.
Starting point is 00:24:11 I couldn't help myself. That's just how love works in the animal world. But with humans, it's a little bit of a different story. In general, a lot of guys get too scared to approach if they spot an attractive woman
Starting point is 00:24:26 out in the wild. Well, we are like praying mantises. Rip a guy's head off right after you're done with us. Yeah, that's right. That's the thing. The fear tends to take over. But one of our listeners says he found a way to conquer that fear by using a game, apparently. It's interesting.
Starting point is 00:24:43 Yeah, usually women don't like it when you play games. I don't know how it works. So let's welcome Richard to the show. Richard, how you doing, man? Good. How you doing, guys? Oh, man, are you a happy guy, Richard? Coming in hot.
Starting point is 00:24:54 I like it. Dating hack, bro. Yeah, what's this, like, game or strategy that you use when you approach women? Well, it's a familiar game to all of you, I bet, but we play it in a different way. So me and my buddy, when we're out, you know, in a public place, where we're around gorgeous women or women in general. Okay. And what we do is we shoot rock, paper, scissors.
Starting point is 00:25:17 Oh, to, like, see who gets to go talk to her first or something? Whoever loses is the one that has to go and strike up. Because you're both so, like, timid about it. Okay. That's actually kind of smart. Yeah. It forces you. Either way, one of you has to approach and, like, make a move.
Starting point is 00:25:38 This is, like, when I do with my little brother, it's when it has to pick something up, like, get off the couch, you know? Okay. That's interesting. I guess that's fun, too. So did that happen to you recently? Yeah, I mean, as you might expect, the rejection rate is pretty high. But you'd also be surprised how often it works. Okay.
Starting point is 00:25:57 And I'm guessing it worked this time since you're on the phone with us. Yep, exactly. My buddy's paper covered my rock. And we were at the park one day, and there was a cute girl just sort of sitting on a blanket, walked over and introduced myself, and her name is Hannah. Oh, and she liked your paper, huh? Yeah, go take it. Do you tell them about the day?
Starting point is 00:26:19 Do you say, hey, how are you? Oh, no, no, no, no, this is between my pal and me. Okay, I was going to say, because that's the reason. I mean, you've done this so many times. Do you have a go-to opening line that you use when you lose Rochambeau and have to approach? No, not really. You use the same line. It's like anything else. It just gets tired and you're not into it. Yeah. So what did you say to Hannah? I just said, hey, how are you? It's gorgeous out. The ladies in this room just both swooned at the same time.
Starting point is 00:26:50 I love talking about the weather. The weather. I know. It's stupid as it is. It works. Yeah, but the thing is, it's not a line. Like, that's nice. It feels, yeah, normal and relaxed. So were you able to get her number off of that? Yeah, and we talked for a little while, and we set up a dinner date, like a proper date, you know, downtown at a nice place. Oh, right. How did nice dinner go? That's exciting. It went really well.
Starting point is 00:27:19 And we were in there for like about close to two out, like an hour and a half, two hours. I mean, just taking our time, casual conversation. And she looked hot. I mean, she looked so good. So it's one of those things where I want to. wanted to kind of prolong the fun for as long as I could, but it had to end. Of course. So we walked outside and there's like one of these live remote TV crews doing, you know,
Starting point is 00:27:45 person on the street interview stuff. In a positive way or at a your restaurant just as getting shut down for health violations? No, nothing to do with a restaurant. They wanted to ask people about, like, crime in downtown. Okay. Have you heard about rogue people playing rock paper scissors in parks? harassing women busted
Starting point is 00:28:07 so they asked me you know and I'm a bit of a hand so I was like all right oh this is your chance that's fun you did a TV interview in the middle of your day
Starting point is 00:28:17 I did wow that's so funny so did my thing and then we sort of moved on from there I didn't get a kiss I got like a big hug
Starting point is 00:28:25 really because you're famous now they've been on the little are you like funny in the interview or you're being like dead serious talking about I tried to be sincere, but I'm still trying to be lighthearted about it. Yeah. I could just see if you turn off if you're seeing someone do that.
Starting point is 00:28:42 I don't think the local TV news stations would appreciate like a comedian coming on and joking about the crime in their city. I wish they would ask me. They really should. Ratings would go up. You hear that channel 7? I'm waiting. Okay. So you said you ended with a long hug and that seems pretty good.
Starting point is 00:28:59 What's happened since then? Not a lot. And that's why I'm kind of talking to you guys. Oh, no. God, you should have used that moment to be like, come back to my place. We'll watch the 11 o'clock news together. Oh, that's smart for a ruck. Brick is all the lines, man.
Starting point is 00:29:13 She knows how to get people back to her place. Yeah, that's right, Jose. I need you to come with me and my buddy to the park. Oh, yeah, we need. All right, so have you spoken to her at all since then? No, it's been silent, like no communication back. Oh, dang. God, everything sounds so good.
Starting point is 00:29:29 It's a mystery. I know. That's what I thought. criminal act. Well, I'm just happy that we have a famous person on the phone with us now to boost the ratings of this second date update. That's right. We're going to come back and call Hannah for you right after this. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Starting point is 00:29:43 Second date update. Who would have thought a little rock scissors paper RSP could lead to some TLC? No one ever said. It's rock paper scissors. And even HPV. Hey, I don't know what that's different. No, there's a. The odds are very high.
Starting point is 00:30:04 Get your vaccines. That didn't happen, though, because they only hugged. They just hugged at the end of the day. Too many weird acronyms coming together there, but I bring it up. How aggressive was the hug? I don't think so. I only bring it up because that's how our listener Richard met Hannah. A game of rock paper scissors led to a fancy dinner date that eventually led to a TV interview
Starting point is 00:30:25 with the local news. That's the wildest part. And somewhere along the way, it must have got. gotten off the tracks because now he's reaching out to us for help. Yeah, totally. We never heard. Like, it seemed like you enjoyed the TV interview, but did she say anything about it? I don't know.
Starting point is 00:30:42 She kind of got in on it. I pulled her into the interview and so it was, you know, both of us talking to the reporter. That's good. Oh. Yeah. The hug was after. Okay.
Starting point is 00:30:53 All right. It's going to be bad if she just, like, walked away in the middle of the year or something. Do you think that the reporter realized that she was interviewing someone that was on a first date? You know what I mean? Like, that's so funny. I'm nervous because we're not just calling one famous person. We're possibly calling two famous people.
Starting point is 00:31:08 Oh, wow. Pressure is on. Here we go. Let's see if Hannah picks up. Her phone's probably ringing off the hook after that interview. Hi, we're looking to speak with Hannah. Who's calling? This is a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Starting point is 00:31:29 Maybe this is her agent. Okay. Is this Hannah? It is. How can I help you? Hi, Hannah. Hey. We're doing something on our show.
Starting point is 00:31:39 It's a segment called a second date update. Hi. Okay. Wow, there's a lot of you on the line there. Hi. We're a radio show. You're probably disappointed that this isn't like a crime podcast. Okay.
Starting point is 00:31:52 Yeah, we heard you give good local television interviews. Oh. Wow. How'd you hear about that? Give good local radio interviews? Yeah. We heard about it because a guy that you went out with recently, Richard told us about your day.
Starting point is 00:32:06 Did you just ech? Oh, wow. Is that what I heard? It was more of an O, but yeah, we can go with ECH. I think it was a mix of EULH. Okay. Well, we were calling to try and ask you some questions to figure out how you felt about Richard and how you felt about the date. Because he told us a lot about it.
Starting point is 00:32:27 Okay. Like, I could just tell you what we know is you met him in a park. You must have thought he was pretty charming because you went out to dinner with him at a nice restaurant. and said you had a great time and you even got interviewed by the local news. Yeah, it sounds like a cool day. Right after it was done. You said, you guys are so weird? Very cool.
Starting point is 00:32:47 Wait, what's so weird? The date was so weird or the news part? No, like that you guys are calling me. It's weird. Yeah, yeah. Oh, that makes sense. I understand. But we're just trying to help get Richard some answers here because he's a little bit confused
Starting point is 00:33:00 why there hasn't been a second meetup. I'm not quite sure what he told you, but... It's most of what I just said with... Sounds like everything. Well, I guess the news thing was kind of the issue. It was an issue? Oh, really? He said that they just interviewed you about, like, local crime and how you felt about it.
Starting point is 00:33:21 That part's true, but I don't know if he told you that he actually noticed the newspeople first and kind of ran over to them because he said it was his dream to be on the local news. That's kind of endearing, though. All he said was that he was a ham. And so he was totally fine being interviewed. He doesn't shy away from that. And there's all kind of personality. Some people are like, oh, my God, my moment.
Starting point is 00:33:46 And some people were like, this sounds terrifying. Is that a turnoff to you? Like, he's kind of fame-hungry? I mean, I don't know if it was fame-hungry, but just, like, the whole thing was just really, like, just too much. Like, what do you mean? Okay. So apparently the local news,
Starting point is 00:34:05 was doing a story about some kind of purse snatcher, an event that had like literally just happened that night. Oh, no. Oh, I thought it was like more generic the way he described it. Okay. No, it was not generic. And apparently this has been happening repeatedly in the area. Okay.
Starting point is 00:34:24 Okay. This purse snatcher person? And this is where it gets really creepy and weird. Creepy. Yeah, he mentioned that he saw the guy, the purse snatcher guy, while we were walking into. the restaurant for our date. Did he, though? I mean, maybe he did. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:34:41 I mean, he said, he's like giving the guy, the news reporter, a physical description. Like, this guy's got shifty eyes. He might have had something under his jacket. He's making it all up. Or is that what you're thinking? That's what it seems like. And then, like, he goes through this whole description of this purse snatcher person and then looks right into the camera and says, and if you don't believe me,
Starting point is 00:35:05 just ask my girlfriend and then kind of pulls me into the frame. Oh, there it is. That's it. Okay. He did mention that you were on TV for a bit, but I didn't realize that was how. No, he, like, yanked me into the frame. I was kind of standing off to the side, like, deciding whether or not I should just dip. So, did you show off your man or what?
Starting point is 00:35:27 This was our first date, and I, I mean, the park was nice. The date was nice. But at this point, I'm like, wait, you're talking about me? like I'm your girlfriend, we've only known each other for like three hours. And I was totally going to give him the benefit of the doubt, like, well, maybe he did see the purse snatcher and didn't want to tell you. And the best part is afterwards he tells me that he's super proud of me and I did great on camera. Oh, you did. That's a nice compliment to get.
Starting point is 00:35:52 I mean, maybe he meant like, hey, friend, that's a girl. Girlfriend. No guy ever means that. No, no, no. He made it like I'm his girlfriend and that if the news people don't believe him, then he can just double check with me. because I saw the guy too. Oh, yeah. Well, I know that it was awkward
Starting point is 00:36:08 when he pulled you into the TV interview. So now we're going to even it out and make it awkward by pulling him into this phone interview. Oh, my God. Because he's on the other line wanting to talk to you. Thanks for the Saturday.
Starting point is 00:36:24 Hey, Anna. Hey. Hey, hey, big guy. How's it going? Oh, God. Oh, I've never been called that. That hurts. It did hurt.
Starting point is 00:36:33 That hurts. Way twisted around, you guys. Yeah, you twisted it. I'm saying that this is kind of embellishing what happened. I mean, you know, I think I saw the purse snatcher guy. You were right there with me. I mean, and face it, I mean, if there was a guy who was going to be downtown snatching purses, just look at that dude and think, okay.
Starting point is 00:36:56 Well, yeah, we saw a guy. We saw lots of guys. That doesn't mean that he's a purse snatcher, and that you know my camera. He didn't look like as guilty or sketchy or such. I mean, yeah, he looked a little sketchy, but I don't know that that's the purse snatcher. I'm not going to go accusing him of being the purse nasser
Starting point is 00:37:16 on national, on local TV. Was he holding a purse? No. Was he only several purses? That's the key. No, he was just walking by quickly in a dark outfit. He already ditched the perches in the alley. He's good at his crap.
Starting point is 00:37:31 He wasn't wearing a trench coat or anything. It wasn't like he was. hiding stuff under the coat. So he's like a normal person. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. You were the one that said, look at that dude with like the bandana on, you know, like, who wears the freaking bandana? You were describing him and I was trying to help you find the word.
Starting point is 00:37:48 I was like, do you mean, you said he had something on his head? I'm like, oh, do you mean a bandana? Wait, did you say that on television? Yes. Oh, no. Oh, God. That's messed up. You guys, I go to a walk in the park and now it's like in the hunt for crimes.
Starting point is 00:38:02 All right. Well, this is clearly irresponsible on Richard's part. Really? Well, it is embellishing on his part, I would say it's shared responsibility. I mean, if they brought this guy into your studio and you took a look at him, you'd be like, yep, first snatchers. I think they'd come into the studio and be like, which one of you did it. Yeah. You know, pretty shifty ourselves. I'd probably already be friends with them. Well, the real snatching that we're interested in is the snatching of hearts.
Starting point is 00:38:32 in love. Oh, God. That's the whole goal of this second. She just threw up a little bit in her mouth when you said that I think. The reason that we called you, Hannah, is because Richard wants to go out with you again. Oh, Lord. Maybe that's a good thing. I mean, are we going to have a date on television this time?
Starting point is 00:38:50 No. I want you guys to go out again, and I think the only appropriate way to decide this is by doing rock paper scissors. And if you both have the same exact thing, then you know that it's meant to be and you can go out. If it's a tie.
Starting point is 00:39:05 Okay. Okay. Okay. I'll do rock paper scissors for a date. Okay. You will? I will count to three on three. Both shout out the name of what you're throwing.
Starting point is 00:39:14 It is good for radio and this is the one time that we're going to do this. Unless it works and then we're going to do rock paper scissors on the tens. Every single one. Every single one. So here we go. Both ready. One, two, three. Rock.
Starting point is 00:39:28 Oh. No. Why would you go with paper first? It's always rock. What are you thinking? Paper covers rock. I win. No, that's not.
Starting point is 00:39:39 To the game. You wasn't listening. You're out. At least we started with rock, paper, scissors, and we ended that way. Sure, that was fun. And we solved the local crime in the meantime, too. Hey, we may be on the local room. Shifty eyes and something under the jacket.
Starting point is 00:39:53 Keep a lookout. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Getting ready for a game means being ready for anything. like packing a spare stick. I like to be prepared. That's why I remember 988, Canada's suicide crisis helpline. It's good to know, just in case. Anyone can call or text for free confidential support from a train responder anytime.
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Starting point is 00:41:46 Yeah. We just call people and battle them. You just got Roch and Boo. It was about to be the hottest segment in all of radio, but, oh, man. I blame Alexis. Why? I don't know. You didn't like it.
Starting point is 00:41:58 Yeah. I love paper scissors. That's how I handle all life's problems. And look, I do feel like we should say, if you talk to the news, don't lie or embellish stories just to make it sound better. I know that nobody watches the local news and you think that you're trying to help. But Brooke has journalist friends who work over there. They need real stories. They actually work really hard.
Starting point is 00:42:20 Don't confuse them with your lies. No, no. They're just trying to help the community out and save democracy all at the same time. You know, one man on the street interview at a time. Yeah, yeah. Oof, that was boring. Maybe you should lie. But email the show and we're not lying.
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