Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update PODCAST: Baby Bloggin’ Son of a Gun

Episode Date: November 3, 2016

When you're in the dating world, it's good to have hobbies and passions.... UNLESS, you let your hobby get in the way of your ACTUAL DATE. Oh, and also if your hobby freaks the guy out. Hear what happened in the Second Date Update podcast!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Ruck and Jubal's second date update. Surefire way to scare off a guy on a first date. Tell him that you want to have his babies ASAP. Shut up. No one says that. Right there on the first date. And that's what Lindsay did during her first date, and that's why she thinks she's not getting a call back. Right, Lindsay? Oh, my.

No, no, I didn't say that. No. Your email said that that's the reason you think he's not calling you back, though, because it may have seemed like you wanted to have babies, like, right away. No, I never really came out and said that, but it was, like, part of the conversation. And I'm thinking that might be the only thing that he could have, like, gotten weird about. How does that even come up? Are you talking about your biological clock and how you don't have much time left?

Oh my God, no. No, not at all. No. All right, before we get into the baby talk, tell us how you met this guy. Okay, so I met John through my friends at work. He used to work with them, and now he doesn't anymore, but they still like him. And I don't know, I've sort of been recently single. And I don't know, but they still like him. And I sort of been recently single and I don't know, they were like, hey, we know this guy. He's cute. He's a little

shy. What do you think? And I was like, sure, why not? You know, like, great. So we got each other's numbers and like we texted for like a day or two. We talked on the phone and he seemed really nice and he was really sweet. And then we went to dinner. Okay, and he seemed equally excited about all this? Yeah, yeah. I mean, he's shy, you know, but I'm not like, wah, crazy. So I didn't think it was that, you know, I didn't think that that was like

going to be too much or whatever. I don't know. Dinner went well. Like talked about like a lot about his family, how he's close with his family. The one thing that I love was that he didn't talk about his ex at all. And the last guy I dated, like all he did was talk about his ex and it was worse. Did you bring that up at dinner? Like, oh my God, the last guy. No,

I just paid attention to it. I was like, oh, he never brought up an ex girlfriend. Oh, that is so great. All right. So tell us about the kids thing. Why do you think he's not calling you back because of that? What'd you say? Well, we were talking about our family and like he was, and he was like asking me about trips. And I was like, oh, I just got back from visiting my sister. I hung out with my niece and my nephew and they're two and three and they're so adorable. Like my niece is so cute. You know, she wants to wear a princess dress and like I wore a princess dress with her and I talked all about that. And my nephew, like he really had these little action figure guys and I played with it. Like it was just, I don't know. I just

had the best time hanging out with them. And after a little while I realized, oh my God, I've been talking about my niece and nephew for like 10 minutes. I was like, oh. Were you also showing him pictures on your phone? Actually, I wasn't too bad about that. I only showed him a couple of pictures. Just a few. Not only a couple. All right.

I can understand that. If I was on a date with you and you just kept talking about your niece and nephew for a really long time, the kind of guy I am, I would have been like, she wants to have a family right away. It would have definitely scared me a little bit. I don't know, but I never, I would have been like, she wants to have a family right away. It would have definitely scared me a little bit. I don't know, but I never said, I don't know. But then when dinner was over, he said, I don't want this to be over. Do you want to go for a walk? Oh.

And I was like, yeah, exactly. So I was like, oh, okay, I'm good. Yeah, that's great. So we sort of walked around for a while. We just talked some more, and it was cool. And then he's like, all right, I got to go. And then he walked me to my car, and I said, okay, hey, well, text me. And then he was, like, really polite, like, said good night.

But I thought it was still kind of early. I thought we'd hang out more. There was no kiss. Do you think that he was trying to get a kiss? Because I always think when a guy says, let's go for a walk, that's code for give me a little bit more time so I can work up my courage and maybe I can make this happen. Wait for a moment. Well, yeah, I don't know. I mean, he is really shy.

Like, that's for sure. So I thought, well, maybe he wanted to, but didn't know how. And I thought I was like, oh, my God, I'm going to be aggressive with this guy. I talked about my niece and my nephew. So I didn't try to kiss him. You know, I didn't like lean up against the car and like look at him in a way that, you know, you could. How did you guys part ways? He was like, good night.

That was kind of it. And he was really polite about it. All right. Peace. See you later. That was a fun walk. Have a good life. So he hasn't talked to you at all since the date?

It's been three days and I didn't hear from him at all. I texted him, but just one. I didn't go crazy. I just had one text, which was like, hey, had a really great time. So nice to meet you. You know, that's pretty much it. And then still haven't heard back and, like, nothing. Three days isn't a really long time.

Are you sure you still want to do a second date update and not give it a couple more days? Yeah, like in my book, if a guy doesn't make plans in the next, I don't know, 48 hours, then there's something going on. Okay. Well, play a song, come back, call him, and find out if something is going on. And get your second date update right after this, okay? Okay, thank you. And if you think that I'm still holding on to something, you should go and love yourself.

Moving 92.5. Brooke and Jubal in the morning. Second date update. Lindsay is on the phone with us, and today she wants to call a guy named John. They were set up through mutual friends. They went out on a date, had a good time. She thinks the reason that she's not getting a call back is because she spent a good amount of the date

talking about her nieces and nephews, like to the point where it may have seemed like she wants to have kids right away. And she thinks she could have scared him off. It's been three days since they had their date. He hasn't talked to her at all. And Lindsay, I think you might be jumping the gun. Here's what I think happened.

Okay, what do you think happened? I think that after your date, he wanted to impress you so bad, he booked a flight to Ethiopia and has been adopting a kid ever since. And you just gotta wait, you know, a couple weeks for him to clear customs, come back with the kid to impress you and you have an instant family.

No? That would be very impressive if someone did that. Yeah. Well, he sounds like an impressive guy because you liked him a lot. And have you heard from your friends? Like, they've heard anything from him? No. Like, nobody seems to know anything.

I mean, that's kind of why I called you guys. Okay. I'll dial the phone number and get him on the phone and find out if something did go wrong on your date, okay? Okay. Here we go. Hello? Hi, can I speak to John, please? This is John.

Hey, John, how are you? This is Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the Morning. Who? Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the Morning. It's a radio show. Why are you calling? I'm calling because we recently got an email about you from one of our listeners, and they asked if we could get you on the phone.

What? Yeah, you recently went out on a date with a girl named Lindsay, and Lindsay emailed us and said that she really liked you, but since the date you haven't answered any of her texts or anything, so she thought maybe we could get you on the phone and find out why you're not calling her back. Wow. I'm sorry. This is weird.

Yeah, it's a segment we do on our show regularly called the Second Date Update. Basically, the question is, did Lindsay do something wrong on her date with you? I mean, I shouldn't, I really don't want to say it. I don't want to say it? That's not a good response. Oh, my God.

Keep in mind, she's the one that asked us to do this, so she wants to hear it and at least know what she did wrong when you guys went out. Yeah, I just don't know if I believe you. Believe me about what? That she wanted us to call you? Well, yeah, I guess I don't know why that would be a thing. Maybe it'll help a little bit if I just tell you

what we know, and then you can confirm or deny whatever, okay? Okay. So she said that you guys were hooked up through mutual friends. You went out for dinner, and then you went for a walk after. She also said that at one point, she was talking a lot about her nieces and nephews,

and felt like that could have made you feel like she wanted kids right away. And that's why she thinks you're not calling her back. Like she scared you off. Well, I don't know if you guys know this or not, but we're walking and we're clicking and the conversation is really flowing. It was great. And then after a little while, I turned my head and she was just gone and i didn't know really where she was but i finally found her and it was like 30 feet behind me and i saw her pull this like small camera out of her purse and she was with a woman and her baby

and all of a sudden she takes a picture of the baby. What? Which I'm like, okay. Wait, slow down. There was like a stranger on the street that she ran into that happened to have a baby, and you saw her taking pictures of a stranger's baby? I didn't know if that was a stranger or somebody that she knew. I mean, I was just really confused by what was happening. Did you get the answer to that? Was it somebody she knew? No, not at all. I mean she handed her something and so she finally came

back and I asked her like what what that was about. I'm like did you did you know those people and why are you taking pictures of babies? And she says oh well she writes a baby blog like on, on the side or something. And she takes pictures of babies, you know, for that blog. And out loud, I was like, oh, cool. But inside, I was like, oh, weird. So she has a baby blog, but she doesn't even have her own babies. Right.

I'm not the only person that thinks that's a little out there. And baby bloggers, I'm sorry, since I've had a kid, they are the craziest group of people ever. Well, I don't know about that, but afterward, she willingly just kind of showed me some baby pictures on her blog that she had taken from, I don't know, maybe other dates she'd been on. That's interesting. A woman could do that. A guy has a baby blog like that.

He's getting 15 years in prison. Is she a professional photographer or something? And she, like, makes money for photographing kids i didn't get that from that because the small camera that she pulled out of her purse was like something that you could pick up at i don't know some random store it wasn't like a professional camera which made me think what like who is like who is this girl oh my god i'd report her to police if some stranger was taking pictures of my kid on the street i I wouldn't be cool with that at all. Yeah, and I kind of wasn't.

So I was like, um, all right. It was just random and weird. Yeah, I can see where you're coming from. That's kind of strange to just take pictures of strangers' babies to post them on the internets. I have never seen that in my life, let alone on a date. Hey, John, I also want to let you know that she's actually on the other line listening to this conversation. Wait, she's what? She's listening to this phone call right now.

Why? So you can ask her about the blog if you want. Are you kidding me? No, I'm not. No, he's not kidding you. I'm on the line. Oh, my God. First of all, I don't appreciate, like, everybody making fun of this blog.

Like, it's a side business. Like, there's nothing creepy about it. Babies are cute. I mean, everyone likes cute things. When I see a cute baby, of course I'm going to take a picture of it because I'm getting more content for my blog. It doesn't seem like that weird of a thing. It is weird. People have pet blogs.

People have craft blogs. People have craft blogs. All kinds of things. I have a cute baby blog. Whatever. It's something I like to do. And, like, I make money from it. It's very adorable. And whatever.

And, like, who doesn't like babies? Oh, my God. Okay, Lindsay. What do you mean, okay? Whatever, John. Whatever. You don't like babies. Like, what the heck?

I didn't even know you were on the phone, okay? I didn't even ask to be a part of this. Well, yeah, of course I'm on the phone. I wanted to find out what happened. It seemed like we hit it off. Everything was cool. And then all of a sudden it wasn't. And then you bring out this reason.

I mean, you could have been like, oh, that's weird. I don't understand your blog. What is that about? But you didn't. You just apparently just got all freaked out. Don't blame me. I mean, like, they called me, and I just told them the story, and I just told them what happened. So I don't understand why you're

copping attitude with me. I'm not copping attitude, John. Why are you yelling at me? I mean, you're the one who wants all the babies. Was it the blog, John, or was it the fact that you think that she wants to have kids right away? What's the bigger deal for you? I mean, I really don't understand. It's just a very awkward thing to do to just stop.

Oh, my God. I'm not. I'm right here. I'm right here. I'm right here. You could just ask me, like, what is it that you do if you're that confused by it? Like, I can just tell you. I mean, I explained it to you before. It's not that weird. Like, there was a baby. The baby was adorable. And like, I was like, oh, I'll get this content for my blog. It's something I do on the side. Like, everyone has hobbies and things they do. This is like a side job for me. So like, that's what I was doing. Lindsay, I got to say, I'm a mother. And if someone stopped me on the street and pulled out a little tiny camera from their purse and started taking pictures of my baby, I would freak out on you.

But I gave her, whatever, I gave her my business card. She saw that it was legitimate. Like, you know, like it's the real thing. But why, if you know that people freak out about it, why not wait until after the date or when you're not on a date to do it? Oh, my God, why are you not listening to me? I saw a beautiful baby, and I took the f***ing picture. That's the best way to describe taking a baby picture ever. You know, I appreciate you, Lindsay, and, you know, that's your blog.

It's your side business. But I could see where John's coming from, where maybe you want to wait and do that on your own time, not during the date necessarily. Just stop f***ing judging me. He's the only one on the room. He's on your side.

He's not on my side. He's ignorant like the rest of you idiots there. I think you're getting a little defensive, Lindsay. No, I'm standing up for what I believe in. So if you hate babies, then just go f*** yourself. Lindsay, I don't necessarily like babies. I don't.

I probably would not be a regular reader to your blog. After that, though, I will ask you. I'm dying. John, would you like to go on a second date with Lindsay? We will pay for it. Absolutely not. Oh, my God. I don't want to go on a f***ing date with you either.

Guys, you know my kids. They're like babies. I would never go on a date with a baby hater like you, John. Okay, once again, I do not hate babies. It's just what happened on the date. It's you. It's not the babies. It's you.

Whatever. Whatever. Just grow a pair. Grow a Whatever. Just grow a pair. Grow a pair. A little baby pair. Lindsay, thank you for doing the second date update. I'm sorry it did not go like you wanted it to go. Yeah, whatever.

I bet you're sorry. You don't seem sorry. Hey, Lindsay, do you want to give out your blog real quick so people can go read about the babies? Oh, f*** you. Dot com or dot org? Lindsay, do you want to give out your blog real quick so people can go read about the babies? Hey! Oh, f*** you. .com or.org? Brooke and Jubal in the morning. Text in at 78592 that says, wow, no wonder that chick is single.

Brooke and Jubal in the morning talking about today's second date update. Lindsay wanted to call a guy named John. He wasn't calling her back after their date We got him on the phone and found out The reason why is during their date She would like run up to people with a kid And ask to take a picture of their kid That was confusing to him so we asked her why

And apparently she has a baby blog So she just takes pictures of random people's kids And then puts it on her baby blog And that weirded him out a little bit. A person having a baby blog without a baby is strange. It would be like being the dog expert, but not having a dog. Somebody texted and said, there's liking babies, there's loving babies. And then there's Lindsay from the second date update.

She is baby obsessed. And like it's happened in my family. I know I was with my little nephew Mateo once. Seriously, dude. She is baby obsessed. It's weird. And it's happened in my family. I know I was with my little nephew Mateo once, and he has really curly hair. And somebody comes up and they're like, oh my gosh, can I touch his hair? And you're like, why? Don't touch him. He's not a doll that you get to play with.

People get so weird when it comes to kids. They just come up and want to touch them. Or a pregnant woman, they just come up and rub her belly out of the blue if you don't know her. Hands off other people's babies. Isn't that weird? You do have to say that, though. Yeah. You really actually do.

You shouldn't have to have a disclaimer on that. Hands off. Text in at 78592 that says, crazy baby lady is worse than crazy cat lady. She's just collecting other people's babies in her apartment. So they did not go out again. He didn't want to go out with her because of her weird obsession with babies. And she got heated too. She turned on us, dude.

Who knew somebody that has a baby blog could have so much fire in them? A lot of people are hating on me because I said that I think it's weird that she took a picture without just of a random kid on the street. That is weird because I said that I think it's weird that she took a picture without like just of a random kid on the street. That is weird. I think that. I'm

sorry. I understand that she asked permission. I still think it's weird to even ask for permission. It's not your kid. Don't take a picture of it and then post it online. That's very strange. It is strange. So anyway, they agreed not to go out or probably ever talk again. But I have subscribed to her baby blog and it's fantastic.

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