Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update PODCAST: Big Boys DO Cry

Episode Date: August 23, 2017

Recently, we saw a bumper sticker that said "Real Men Know it's OK to cry"... and you know what? We think that's TRUE... Professional athletes cry when they win championships... Musical artists cry, when their song wins awards, and Jubal PERSONALLY cried when Lady Sybyl died in "Downtown Abbey" Season 3 (Sorry for the spoiler alert)... So it's OK for men to cry... But what about men who openly weep on the radio about a first date? Well, apparently one of our listeners has been having a lot of trouble keeping his emotions together after his romantic evening, we'll hear why in the Second Date Update below!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Rook and Jubal's second date update. I always love it when I receive emails or even text messages in all caps. The email that we got about today's Second Date Update was primarily in all caps and exclamation points everywhere. Was it not from Kanye West? No, it wasn't. It was from Anthony. Anthony, what's up, man? How are you? Hey, how you guys doing? Good. I expected him to be like, hey, what's up? How are you?

From the way that your email was written. Oh, my gosh. You were a very excitable guy, Anthony. Oh, yeah. I just think I blew it with this girl. You sound like you're about to cry right now. Are you all right? I'm sorry.

I'm just a little bit upset. I'm sorry. Okay. Who is this girl, Anthony? Her name is Tricia. She was a friend of a friend who set us up on a date. It's been a long time since I've gone out on a date because I was in a relationship. Anthony, are you crying?

I'm trying to get it together. I'm sorry. Are you really crying? And that's okay if he is, Jubal. Okay. I'm just saying. He really likes his girl. I like men who are comfortable crying.

Yeah, but you went... Okay, tell us about the girl, Anthony. You're right. She's just real sweet. She's got really beautiful hair. It smells great. And she's got a funny laugh. She seemed like a really nice person.

Okay. What'd you do on your date anthony i was afraid of doing anything too romantic and too forward so i got ice cream and you know looked at the water and had dinner it was just a really nice fun time i'm sorry that i judged you i'm i'm almost in tears right now i think anthony what people are curious about is, like, how can you get so attached to a woman

that it makes you cry when you've only gone on one date with her? Well, part of it's her because she seemed like she really liked me and then,

like I said, I've not done this a lot. I dated my high school girlfriend since I was a freshman in high school and then we were together until a year ago. Okay.

So that's all you've had. You've had one serious girlfriend ever. Wow, so like 10 years? Yeah. And never dated. Right. Okay. Wow.

Yeah, we need to. That explains a little bit. Yep, it does. So how did the date end between you guys? Did you weep into her neck while she held you? We just hugged because, you know, I don't like to kiss on the first date because, you know,

I want to have like a nice memorable thing that everything else is built on. Now, your email said you'd be really devastated if you never found out why. Well, I mean,

if I'm doing something wrong, I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life, right? So it'd be nice if I could figure it out. I know you're new to this, but it's one date, dude. You get blown off a lot

in the dating world. It's true. Believe me. But she seemed to really like me, and she was so sweet, and she's got the best smelling hair ever. Okay. You brought up the hair twice. So you didn't, like, freak out about her hair the whole time on the date, right?

Because that could freak a girl out. I didn't mention it. Okay. It sounds like you were really, really into her hair. Well, it's really pretty, and I mean, she looks like a shampoo commercial girl. It's great. I don't want this to sound weird or anything.

I just really felt like a strong connection with her, and I just don't want to lose that. Okay. I don't think that comes along every day. So, Anthony, a little concerned about your emotional state. I just want to prepare you. Like, a lot of times when we get the other person on the phone, they can say some negative or maybe some unflattering things.

Are you prepared for that? I think I'll be okay. Oh, God. Oh, no. It's already upset. This is going to end poorly. Not to make you wait any longer, we're going to play a song. Oh, no.

Come back and get your second date update, all right? Okay, thanks, guys. Moving 92.5. Brooke and Jubal in the morning. Second date update. You guys think Anthony's been huddled in a ball in the corner, weeping? Yeah. During that whole song?

Listening to a really sad song, like True Colors or something. Anthony, you still with us? Yeah, I'm here. All right. Oh, God, I feel so bad. My heart was beating so fast in that last song. If anybody's just tuning in for the Second Date Update, Anthony called us about a girl named Trisha that he went out on a date with.

The first person he's been out with in how long, Anthony? Well, since my girlfriend and I broke up a year ago. Okay. And it's first real adult date, period. You've never dated before. He met her in high school. They dated for a long time. Can I give you some advice, Anthony?

Okay. Okay. Anthony, are you for real freaking out this much? I just haven't dated a whole lot. I knew she was special. Everything about her was so right. You've got to try to pull yourself together a little bit.

Pull yourself together, Anthony! What the hell is wrong with you? It is one date, and this does not sound attractive. I am sorry. He needs a little tough love right now. Anthony, I want you to stand up straight, pull your shoulders back, and get ready to do this like a man. Okay. You never know.

Anthony, put him at the love of your life that night. This is very important, Anthony. Okay, Jubal. What? We just went through a whole power him up thing. I know, but I just want to let him know how important this thing is, and he should be very nervous. Stop. No.

I am nervous. I know, Anthony know you're an emotional dude i get it but put your phone on mute if you start to like hyperventilate or cry okay i can do that all right anthony's still there i'm here all want to make sure you didn't pass out. Hello? Hi, I was looking for Trisha. This is she. Hey, Trisha, how are you? This is Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the Morning.

I'm moving 92.5. Uh, hi. How's it going? Good. You recently went out with a friend of mine. I did? Yeah. His name is Anthony. You remember going out with a guy named Anthony? I do.

How's he? Wait. Okay, you're on the radio and he's your friend? I'm on the radio so I have lots of friends. Oh, God. Yeah, and Anthony happens to be one of them. Okay. And he said that he really enjoyed the date with you

and thought that you guys were going to go out again, but you haven't called him back or responded to any of his messages or voicemails or any of that. So I wanted to call you and ask if he did something wrong on the date. That's just weird that he's having you call for him, but he did have a really great time on the date. That's true. Did you not have a good time then?

I mean, I had a good time, but I think that Anthony had a really good time. Was he just too eager on the date Well, it wasn't really on the date. It was afterwards. What do you mean? He tweeted like five times about our date within like two hours So what he went back after your date and just started tweeting about it Yeah, he was like he tweeted lonely more, most amazing date of my life. Oh my God.

That's awesome. That is horrible. Well, wait, it gets better. It was like, is this what love really feels like? Oh God. Explanation points and question marks. Are you scared at this point, Trisha? I mean,

yeah, especially, okay, how about this one? At last, my love has come. And he did, in parentheses, put Etta James. No! Oh, no. Really? He's quoting Etta James on his Twitter feed. Trisha?

Yeah? I should also let you know that Anthony is currently on the other line right now, listening to this conversation. Are you serious? Hi. Oh, gosh. I'm sorry if it creeped you out a little bit. I mean, I was just trying to make a really nice evening for you.

This is so awkward. It's amazing. Oh, my God. i thought we were having fun okay well the date was very nice you took me on a very nice date and it was fun but seriously anthony you tweeted oh my god freaking out i think i hear church bells oh isn't that a romantic thing to say? I mean, isn't that what every... Yeah, we've been together for like three years. ...right guy and getting together and living happily ever after. Are you crying?

No. No. Oh, my God. This is a joke, right? There's no way you're crying right now. No. I think he has allergies. I think that's what it is.

Trisha, Anthony's an emotional guy. Anthony needs therapy. Amen. I am sorry. Anthony, let me help you out a little bit. Trisha, if you didn't know, Anthony just got out of a long relationship with his high school sweetheart. You're the first girl he's been on a date with since high school.

Dude, be single for a while. Seriously. There are so many great things about being single. Like, go experience life a little bit before you tie yourself into a relationship. Yes, Anthony. It's okay to be single and experience things by yourself.

It's actually a very fun time. You can do it. Okay. Anthony, you need to really, like, dating is hard and it's going to hurt. But you need to find some confidence, dude. What do you like about yourself? I think I'm charming and I'm good looking. I mean, I don't know.

Yeah, Trish thought you were good looking, didn't you? Yes, she's very attractive. See, she thinks you're good looking. Okay. Now, Trish, if you could give one piece of advice to Anthony, what would it be? Yeah, stop crying. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah, I mean, like the date was really sweet. And I think that maybe if he just, the charming part of it all was very nice, but the clinginess and the, like, just all of a sudden feeling like you were owned by, I mean, like, I don't know. He just needs to baby step it. Baby step. Baby step. That's good advice. Anthony, you'd like to go out with Trisha again, right?

Yeah, I would. Very much. Do you think you can hold it together and not be too clingy? Yes. Yes, I'm going Very much. Do you think you can hold it together and not be too clingy? Yes. Yes. I'm going to work on that. I'll be really good at that. At this point, I would like to ask you if you'd like to go on a second date with Anthony.

Hey. Trisha, do you want to give him another shot? We will send you guys out. We'll pay for it if you go out with Anthony one more time. I think I'd rather set him up with one of my friends. A friend that you dislike or what? If I go out with him again and this happens, then it is going to cost me something because now I'm going to be the mean girl and I don't want to be the mean girl.

And I feel like, I just feel like he needs a little bit more time to be single. Okay. All right. That's fine. Sorry, Anthony, but you got your answer and now you know. Okay. Maybe take some time to yourself, Sorry, Anthony, but you got your answer and now you know. Okay. Maybe take some time to yourself, especially if you haven't dated in a while. The first girl that you go out with, you will like fall for her because you'll think that she's awesome

because she's something different than what you've been used to. But you need to kind of like check your emotions a little bit. You mean I should not share like all of myself right away? No, definitely don't. Wait until the third date for the crying baby. I was going to say the third year. Okay, guys, thanks for trying. Do like everybody else and save the tears for the bedroom.

Okay? Broken Shoeville in the morning. Seriously, Anthony, you tweeted, Oh my God, freaking out. I think I hear church bells. Isn't that a romantic thing to say? I mean, isn't that what every... Yeah, I've been with you for like three years.

You're the right guy. Getting together and living happily ever after. Are you crying? No. Text in at 7859 who says, poor guy, he sounds like a sweetheart

but definitely not ready for dating. Yeah. Yet. Yeah. Unstable. That was a clip from today's

Second Date Update. If you missed it, Anthony and Trisha went on a date. She wasn't calling him back. Why? Because when she got done with the date,

she went home and saw that he was tweeting a bunch of things about how amazing it was and basically what happened right there. And then he started to kind of cry and was very emotional. The guy hasn't dated anyone since high school, man. And I just have this feeling that his ex isn't sitting around crying. I bet she's maybe celebrating. Yeah. Her newfound freedom. She's probably doing

okay. Yeah. And he's not okay with that. No, he's not. I'm all for a guy crying. I'm an emotional guy. I cry all the time. But that was, like, something's a little off with him. He is like, literally bawling after one date. There's sometimes when you gotta keep it

together a little bit. Yes. You know? Like, that's time to cry in private after a first date. There's sometimes when you gotta keep it together a little bit. Yes! Yes! That's time to cry in private after a first date. And that's for both genders. Yeah. Like, nobody should be crying on a first date. It doesn't matter if you're a man, you're a woman, who you're dating, what's going on. Scare anybody away.

Unless someone dies. I think that's the only time it's okay to cry on the first date. Yeah, no matter what. If you go out with someone and then after that they're tweeting about how it was the most amazing date experience and their heart is ready to love again and they're in tears and they can't do anything but think about you after a first date, that's probably going to scare you off. But do you know what?

It doesn't scare everybody off because we just got a text in that says, I'll go out with Anthony. Yeah. They're into it. See, some people might like that. They might both be tweeting the same thing and both crying and calling each other and talking about how they've met the love of their life after one dinner date.

And then I heard about the second date and then I just couldn't handle it. If they're crying after one date, can you imagine the tears after the breakup? Oh man, it'd be really tough. So they decided not to go out again. Well, she decided not to go out with him again. But he'll be

alright, eventually. Maybe with some therapy and something. He'll be okay. He'll get through this tough time in his life. Remember, if you want to do a second date update, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back. Moving 92.5.

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