Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update PODCAST: Black Friday Shopper

Episode Date: January 6, 2020

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Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Moving 92.5 Brooke and Jubal's Second Date Update You know, sometimes when a date goes bad, it's not your fault. It's your body's fault. What? Yeah.

That would still be your fault? I've had my body ruin a lot of dates for me. What are you doing on dates? Stupid body. What? And Jeremy's on the phone right now for a second date update, and apparently he's got a stupid body, too. Uh-oh. Jeremy, what's up?

How are you? Hey, what's going on? We'll get to your stupid body in a second. Okay. But your email said that something on your body ruined your date, right? Yeah, something on my body did ruin my date. I am so confused. All right. And I hope it's not what I'm thinking right date. I am so confused. All right.

And I hope it's not what I'm thinking right away. We'll get there in a minute. No, no, no. What are you even thinking? Before we get into that, why don't you tell us where you met the girl you want to call today? What's her name? Jessie.

Jessie. All right. And where did you meet Jessie? So, it's actually a very funny story. I met Jessie at a gay bar. Oh. Okay. Wow, interesting.

Oh my God. I met a boyfriend at a gay bar once. Now, is Jesse a boy or a girl? Jesse is a girl. Okay. Okay. And I'm a boy. Are you one of those dudes?

Really? Okay. Are you one of those dudes that goes to gay bars to try to pick up girls because they're not expecting you to do it there? No, no, no. I was actually just out with a bunch of my gay friends and we just ended up at a gay bar. And normally I'm just there to have fun with my friends.

I'm not there to hook up any women, you know? Yeah, because you're at a gay bar. Most of the women there are probably not interested in you. Exactly. Exactly. How did that happen? Did she approach you? You approached her.

So I saw her across the room, and I went up to her, and I just introduced myself. And we started dancing and flirting a little bit and it was just like such a good vibe. Did you ask her if she was heterosexual at any point? No. What I did do though is I asked her for her number and I think that took her kind of by surprise because that's when she asked me if I was gay.

Oh, right. She thought the other way around. You want my number? Yeah. Okay. So I told her I wasn't. I told her that I was there with my buddies and having fun, and then she looked at me, and she told me to prove it.

Wow. Oh, I like Jessie. Does that, like, kiss me? Yeah. I mean, that's what I did, so I kissed her. Yeah, I'm not going to lie. I feel like a badass. And it was a good kiss?

It was a great kiss. I kissed her, and then I pulled back, and she just had this look of just joy. That's really cute. Yeah, also very cocky of you. I kissed her, and she just had this look of just utter joy. She did, though. Okay. So did she ever call you after that night?

Did you guys go on a real date? So we actually, after I kissed her, we danced a little while, had another drink or two. And then we went out that night. We went out to this barbecue late night spot that I love to go. Okay. Okay, so is this the date you're talking about? Did you guys go out on another occasion, or is this the only time you hung out? This is the only time we hung out.

Okay. We're getting to know each other, having a really good time, and I just need to go to the bathroom real quick. And this is where it gets kind of, not gross, but weird. Oh, no. I go to the bathroom, and I notice I have a pimple, like a big pimple. On your face, I hope, right? Yes, on my face, on my forehead.

It's a big red bump. It's embarrassing, and I went through the debate right there. Should I pop it? Should I not? Yeah. I go through the same. It's tough. know, it's embarrassing. And, you know, I went through the debate right there. You know, should I pop it? Should I not? Yeah. I go through the same. It's tough. Just leave it alone.

I mean, yes, but also it's a huge red bump. And I don't want to be self-conscious that she's just staring at it as we're eating barbecue. Yeah, but then it might leak all night. And then you got another issue. Exactly. The verbs are grossing me out. You got a head that's just oozing while you're trying to eat barbecue. You get a lot of attention regardless.

Exactly. So I just made the executive decision, just pop it real quick, no big deal, go back out. But it just wouldn't stop bleeding after I popped it. Oh, no. I hate those. It's so gross. You know, I'm in the bathroom and I'm like struggling to get it to stop. But I'm in the bathroom for like five, ten minutes doing this

and I realize I have to go back out. So I go back out, I sit down and we're eating barbecue again and then she tells me that I have barbecue sauce on my head. Ew. Gross. I know. So she thought the blood from your pimple was barbecue sauce. Yeah, and like at that point it was either tell her the truth or like pretend

it was barbecue sauce and lick it, and I'm just, I couldn't do that. No, you're not licking it! No, definitely not. That's dedication. So wait, I mean, you told her. I told her, I told her, no, it's just a pimple. Oh, no! But that's not why someone would not call you back because of a pimple. Like, how materialistic

and surface can you be? Yeah, it's gross, but it's not deal-breaker. I mean, that was it. We hung out and ate, and then I asked her if she wanted to go back to my place, and she was very polite, but she declined. She didn't say, ew, gross pimple face, go away. She didn't say that.

She was very nice. She just said she was tired and wanted to go home, and I respected that. It was the first time we hung out. But, you know, I've been like texting her, I've been calling her, not too much, but enough that she hasn't responded at all. So you kissed her at the bar.

Did you also get a kiss at the end of the night? She kissed me on the cheek. Oh, so you like made out earlier and then she ended it with just a kiss on the cheek? Yeah. Yeah. Maybe I just invited her home too quickly. Maybe she took that the wrong way

and like I was being disrespectful. That's not a bad thought. No wonder this guy has pimples. He invites everybody invited her home too quickly. Maybe she took that the wrong way and I was being disrespectful. That's not a bad thought. No wonder this guy has pimples. He invites everybody home. He's dirty. I don't know. All right. Well, we'll play a song and then come back and call her and get your second date update,

all right? Thanks so much, guys. Hang on. Moving 92.5. Brooke and Jubal in the morning. Second date update. This portion of today's second date update is brought to you by Clearasil Rapid Rescue Deep Cleaning Pads. Oh, ouch.

Just kidding. It's not at all, actually. It should be. I just Googled acne wipes, and that's the first one that came up. But you know who could use those? It's Jeremy, who's on the phone for a Second Date Update right now. Jeremy, you ever thought about using Clearasil Rapid Rescue Deep Cleaning Pads? I have used those before, actually. Oh, okay.

Well, you should have had them on your first date. If you're just tuning in, Jeremy wants to call a girl named Jessie. They met at a club. They actually made out at the club and then continued their date to go eat at like a barbecue place later on. He thinks the reason he's not getting a call back

was because during dinner, he had a pimple on his temple, which is fun to say, but not fun in real life. And he went to the bathroom and popped the pimple, and then it was like bleeding the rest of the time. She thought he had barbecue sauce on his head, but it was actually just residue from the pimple.

And he thinks that... Well, pimple juice. Yeah, he thinks maybe she was turned off because the date ended pretty quickly after that, and she hasn't called him back. Are you about ready to get her on the phone? Yeah, let's do it. And is your face all cleared up before we set you up for a second date if this works out yes my face is all cleared up okay we're not even talking about the date anymore we're just talking about yeah i know i'm invested all right

i'm gonna dial her phone number right now and see if that's the reason she's not calling you back okay great all right here we go hello hi may i speak to Jessie, please? Speaking. Who's this? Good question. I think you're supposed to answer it. Who is this? Good question. Tell her. She's going to hang up.

What's going on here? Hi, Jessie. This is Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the Morning. What? Who is this? Jubal from the radio show Brook and Jubal in the morning. What? Who is this? Jubal from the radio show Brooke and Jubal in the morning. Oh. Are you the ones who do that wore the roses?

No, that's not us. We do a different kind of imaginative radio segment called the Second Date Update. It's all kind of the same. Have you heard of that one? No. I guess I haven't heard of you guys. Why are you calling me? Well, I guess I haven't heard of you guys. Okay. Why are you calling me?

Well, I'm calling you because we do something on the show called a second date update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up not calling them back after, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask what went wrong. And somebody emailed us about you. Oh, really? Yes. Do you have any idea who it might be? Why don't you just tell me? Probably a better option than being so mysterious all the time. His name is Jeremy. Oh, oh man. Yeah. Okay.

So Jeremy emailed us and told us about meeting you. He said he really liked you a lot. He thought things were going great, but now you're not going to work out. You mind telling us why? You know, we're just different kinds of people. I mean, you know, sometimes you just know that. He really liked you. I mean, he had lots of nice things to say about you, that you're gorgeous. He had fun with you.

He even said you guys, like, had a small make out in the middle of your date. Yeah. I mean, that's all true. Um, I mean, he did seem nice at first, but then, you know, later on we were eating at this barbecue place and we were talking about what we had done for the holidays. And one thing he said just told me everything I needed to know right there. Wow. So one major red flag for you. Yeah. And it wasn't the pimple. Oh, my God.

I can't believe he told you that. Yeah. No, it wasn't that. He thinks that's the reason that you don't want to see him again. No, no. Like I said, like, we're very different people. I mean, like, we were talking about what we had done for Thanksgiving. And, you know, he said that he went over and had dinner with his family.

And then immediately after dinner, he went to go stand in one of those Black Friday lines. Okay. Like, I would never do that. I like to spend several hours with my family, like, eat and hang around after. And I would never just leave right away and go shopping. The one red flag is that he went Black Friday shopping? Yeah. I mean, he's a Black Friday shopper.

That tells me everything I need to know about him and what's important to him. Really? That tells you everything about a person? Yes. Maybe he just really, like, needs a good deal this year. Or maybe Thanksgiving even isn't that big of a deal in his family. It's not that big of a deal in my family. Well, that's whatever.

But for me, it's a big deal. And we have different morals, clearly. Morals? Yeah, obviously family time is important to me, and it's not important to him. Wow. Hold on one sec. Can I just talk now, please? What was that?

Oh, Jesse, that's Jeremy. He's actually on the other line listening and obviously really wants to talk to you. This is so weird. This is not weird. What's weird is that you don't want to see me because of Black Friday. If that's so important to you? Then we are not the same. Family time is important to me. I'm not a Black Friday shopper.

Ew, that's so crappy. I'm sorry, but I want to get the best gifts for my family. I have to leave and go wait in Black Friday lines to get them everything they want because I care about them and love them. Sorry, you don't love your family that much. Seriously, Black Friday lines are the only way? I mean, do you know anything about shopping?

Have you ever heard of online? Have you ever heard of Cyber Monday? I mean, seriously? Online shopping. Have guys heard of that? You don't get the good deals. And on top of that, it's an experience. Yes, you do.

I think that you guys are missing the point here. Like, if you were to ever be together, it doesn't sound like he's a person that would force you to go to Black Friday with him. You just don't go. Thank you, Brooke. Well, no. I want a boyfriend who wants to spend time with me and my family and not just go running off as soon as there's some deal somewhere.

You're so passionate. Thanksgiving is to eat and then you go get the gifts for everybody and then on Christmas you could spend the entire time with them. That's not very imaginative. I mean, be a little more resourceful. You are super passionate about little more, you know, resourceful. You are super passionate about nobody shopping

on Black Friday, aren't you, Jesse? Yeah. Yes, I am, because I actually have some taste and class. I'm not a jerk who cares about

material things over all else. Oh, my gosh. No, you know what? No, if your family is like you, then you guys are a bunch of lame jerks who like to make other people feel bad about going and getting a beer on Black Friday. You're labeling me because I'm practical.

You're the crazy one here. I'm not crazy. I'm just theoretically saying, what if we were together and then we went to Thanksgiving together with my family, and then as soon as dinner's over, you're going to run out the door to go get a deal on a blender or something. All right, well, there's two things wrong with that. One, I can leave a little later. I don't have to leave right after dinner. And then on top of that, nobody buys blenders on Black Friday.

That's just absurd. Blenders are reasonably priced throughout the year. He does make a good point. And Jesse, I mean, if you were theoretically boyfriend and girlfriend with him, you may get super awesome Christmas presents because of this. Oh, that is not my thing. You choose to go get things instead of spending time with people. I'm in line with hundreds of people.

Yeah, that's true. He's spending time with a lot of people. Look, it's a simple solution. You could just come with me to spend time with me waiting in line during Black Friday. We can make it like a camp out. If that's what you want to do. Nothing. I would hate that. So obviously you and I are into different things. Do you understand that now? Yeah, I really understand it now. It's pretty easy to understand. Hey, Jesse, before we wrap everything up, I'm sure you want to get going. Would you like to go on a second date with Jeremy?

We'll pay for it, even though he's a terrible Black Friday shopper. Yeah. That'll be a no for me, but thank you. That's fine. I don't want to go with her anyway. I want to go with somebody who's adventurous and excited for these amazing things like Black Friday. Whatever. Yeah, whatever.

One of the most powerful ways we've ever ended a second date update. Whatever, whatever. Okay, well, I've already lost interest, obviously, so is that it? Can I go? Bye? Bye. Yeah. All right, bye.

Hey, Jeremy? Yeah, I'm here. I'm really sorry no second date on that one, man. Well, at least it wasn't about the pimple. That's true. It was more about you having a black soul because you shop on Black Friday. Yeah, I'm a horrible man who loves getting discounts on his gifts for his family. Terrible, terrible dude.

I don't even want to talk to you anymore. Ugh, we're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too.

Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. Joel, the holidays are a blast, but the financial hangover, that can be a huge bummer. If you are out there and you're dreading the new statement email that reveals the massive balance that you may have racked up, well, you could use our help. That's right. I'm Joel. And I am Matt. And we're from the How To Money podcast. Our show is all about helping you make sense of your personal finances so you can ditch your pesky credit card debt once and for all, make real progress

on other crucial financial goals that you've got, and just feel more in control of your money in general. You know it. For money advice without the judgment and jargon, listen to How To Money on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show, and he's bringing his signature wit and insight Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups,

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