Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update PODCAST: Busted Big Time

Episode Date: June 10, 2013

A romantic dinner... constant laughter... and an hour long make out session... So why isn’t Neil getting a call back? You’ll never believe what his date found out! Listen to the SECOND DATE UPDATE! (Image Courtesy: ZakVTA. Creative Commons)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Moving 92.5. Brook and Jubal's Second Date Update. Remember, if you want a second date update, all you have to do is email us, brookandjubal at moving925.com. We will call the person that didn't call you back. Right now, Neil is on the phone with us. He wants to get in touch with a girl named Jamie. What's up, Neil? Hey, guys. How are you?

Pretty good. Now, your email that you sent to us said you can't think of anything that went wrong on your date. It's just confusing, man. I mean, it's like I've been in a relationship before that I've gone bad, but that was not the case on this one. It really was not. You know, there's something I like about when men do the second date update because it says that they really connected with this person and they're kind of

putting it out there, you know? Taking a chance? Why did you like her? Yeah, when women do it, they're desperate. Yeah, they're just desperate dummies. Hey, Neil, how did you meet Jamie? I met her through my buddy Scott at a party and automatically it was just right on.

A constant laughter, eye contact. I asked her out. There was no hesitation. She agreed. A couple days later, we go to dinner. She was on time, which for me is kind of a good start, a good point. Throughout dinner, we ate everything.

She was a risk taker at one point. I mean, I wanted to kiss her at dinner, but I thought it was too fast. So just do it right when you say hi. Then we have a good time. We have dessert. She's laughing. She looks fantastic. I mean, just incredible.

Yeah. We came back to my house. We did have a very long, pretty awesome make-out session, which I thought was kind of nice. Nice. That's cool. How long would you say a long make-out session is? I would say about an hour or so. Whoa!

Yes, about an hour! Whoa! My jaw is sore. Did you lose any clothing? No, no. I was a complete gentleman. I did not want to rush it because I was sort of looking forward to a second date, so I didn't want to mess it up.

That's why I called you guys. So how did it end, then, when she left after your hour makeout? She gave me a kiss, and we made plans for a couple days after that. I called her the next day, and nothing. I've not heard anything from her since. And you've met her at a friend's party. Did you find any information about her through other people, or is she out of town? No, not really she's just uh she's an acquaintance of my friend and i met her at the party and i took a chance to answer it and she said yes

all i'm saying is she didn't want to go out with me she just said no in the first place okay yeah it's kind of well it's kind of weird that she would make out with you for an hour then kiss you and make plans and then not answer your call yeah you're sure she's single as far as i know she was she told me she was single. Okay. And usually if someone tells you that, they're always telling the truth. After the makeup session. Nobody ever lies about it.

I knew she'd never assume, but I figured her being on a date with me was a good indication she was single. Yeah, probably. Yeah. Okay, well, we're going to play a song, come back, call her, and get your second date update, all right? All right, bud. Thanks. All right, man. Hang on.

Moving 92.5 Brooke and Jubal in the morning Second Date Update It is really weird when you're hanging out with somebody, especially like Neil, who's on the phone with us right now for a second date update. He made out with the girl for an hour at his place. She left. They kissed

when they left and made plans for later on, and then she just doesn't call him back at all. Nothing. That would drive me absolutely insane and I don't even really care that much. But it would bug the hell out of me, Neil. How long has it been since the last time you tried to get a hold of her?

It's been about a week or so. And what are you going to say to her when you talk to her? What do you want to come of this? You want a second date or you just want to know why? I'm just more confused than anything else. I mean, if anything,

I would like to know that if I do meet somebody else like her, that maybe if I could do something different. Yeah. You know what I mean? At least you know you're probably not a bad kisser. I mean, our. Yeah.

I'll take that. It would just bug me to not know. I'd rather have somebody tell me, hey, I think you're an idiot, than just, like, disappear, especially after we had a good time and there was nothing wrong. As a girl who's had quite a few makeout sessions, I'll say the only reason I haven't ever called one back

is because there was another one on the side that I ended up liking more. Yeah. I mean, really. Wow. That crossed my mind. Yeah. All right, we're going to give her a call right now, man. You ready?

All right, we're going to give her a call right now, man. You ready? All right, bud. Hello? Can I speak to Jamie, please? This is Jamie. Hey, Jamie. How are you? This is Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the Morning on Moving 92.5. I'm sorry, who is this?

Jubal from the morning show on Moving 92.5, the radio station. Okay. Are you familiar with us at all? I am. Okay. Let me ask you a question. Have you ever heard the segment that we do called the Second Date Update? Yeah.

Interesting. Interesting. What if I told you that somebody emailed us about you? I think that's weird. Could you venture a guess as to who it was? Do you want to tell me who it is? Yeah, his name's Neil. Mm-hmm. You don't sound like you're a fan of Neil's.

I'm not a huge fan of Neil's, okay? Neil is a s***head. Wow. What did Neil do, Jamie? Well, what did Neil tell you he did? Honestly, he said he couldn't think of anything that went wrong. He said you had a good time, went back to his place, made out for about an hour, and then you left. That's all he said. Well, he left out a really important note to both you guys and me

that I had to find out the next day. Who'd you find out from? I loved the restaurant so much that he had taken me to. So the next day, my coworkers and I decided to have lunch there. And they wouldn't seat us. What? They wouldn't seat us because the manager recognized me from the date the night before and asked me to leave

because apparently my date had dined in death. What? He never paid the bill. Are you serious? Yeah. A little embarrassing

in front of my coworkers. So not only did I have to pay that bill, but then I also had to pay for lunch that day. I was humiliated. Jamie Neal is obviously on the phone with us right now. Is that true?

Oh, my God. First of all, yes, yes, that's true. But here's what happened. Got the bill. I had a feeling that my account was overdrawn. I didn't want to risk getting my card declined. So I did the shameful thing of taking the check and putting it in the bathroom. Made you believe that we paid it with just less.

Oh, wow. That's not real. Everything was going so well, and I just figured, go for broke. No pun intended, but I did it, and I apologize. Okay, well, a real man would have just let me know. No pun intended, but I did it, and I apologize. Okay. Well, a real man would have just let me known, and I would have paid for dinner. You don't walk out on a bill. I can't even begin to tell you how incredibly immature and, like, disgusting and scumbag move that is.

Yeah. I just wanted to show you a good time, and everything was going so well. And I figured, hey, man, you know, screw it. And no disrespect to you, Jamie. I mean, I know I did a terrible thing. I'm sorry. Oh, God. How much was it? $89.75.

Oh, my gosh, Jamie. How embarrassing. Have you ever done anything like that before, Neil? I swear, no, never. For $89? In a way, you should be flattered that I would take that chance for you. Oh, my God. I worry that every time I go into a restaurant now, your face is going to be plastered.

Look out for this dude. That's crazy. I am, like, disgusted that I made out with you. Like, I feel dirty because of it. Oh, that's a bit much. You know, if I was the dude, I would have gone back and washed dishes. I would go make restitution and apologize for skipping that waiter who was awesome. You weren't in my shoes.

And I never will be. In your shoes, in your apartment, in your car, ever. Personally, I think Neil's getting beat up here. It proves to me that he's a problem solver. What are you talking about? And he saw an issue, he took it head on and dealt with it the best way he thought possible. I think it's a problem avoider is what we call that. I think you're being a little judgy, Jamie.

Thanks, man. Well, I prefer to be judgy than to date a loser. Thank you. Hey, Neil. Well, I prefer to be judgy than to date a loser. Thank you. Hey, Neil. I have pride. Neil, normally at the end of these I ask if the couple wants to go out on another date and we'll pay for it. It sounds to me like you're in some hot water right now. I don't think that Jamie really wants to go on a second date with you.

I'll give you 20 seconds to plead your case and ask her out if you'd like to try to take her out again. Jamie, please don't judge me on this one simple, stupid act. I did it for you. I did it to impress you in trying to look good in front of you. Please give me another chance. No, but I think you should give him the money so he can go pay restitution. Thank you, Jamie. Jamie, he broke laws for you.

Shut up, people! All, he broke laws for you. Shut up, Dibble. All right? Oh, my gosh. Well, thanks for your time, Jamie. I appreciate it. Thank you. Yeah. And Neil, thanks for giving me a great new idea on dates.

We're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you.

Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. Joel, the holidays are a blast, but the financial hangover, that can be a huge bummer. If you are out there and you're dreading the new statement email that reveals the massive balance that you may have racked up, well, you could use our help. That's right. I'm Joel. And I am Matt. And we're from the How To Money podcast. Our show is all about helping you make sense of

your personal finances so you can ditch your pesky credit card debt once and for all, make real progress on other crucial financial goals that you've got, and just feel more in control of your money in general. You know it. For money advice without the judgment and jargon, listen to How To Money on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Ed Zittron, host of the Better Offline podcast. And this January, we're going to go on the road to beautiful Las Vegas, Nevada, to cover the Consumer Electronics Show, tech's biggest conference.

Better Offline CES coverage won't be the usual rundown of the hottest gadgets or biggest trends, but an unvarnished look at what the tech industry plans to sell or do to you in 2025. I'll be joined by David Roth at Defector and the writer Edward Ongueso Jr. With guest appearances from Behind the Bastards' Robert Evans, It Could Happen Here's Gare Davis, and a few surprise guests throughout the show.

Listen to Better Offline on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever else you get your podcasts from.