Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update PODCAST: Check out the View

Episode Date: December 9, 2016

In today's Second Date Update... one of our listeners (Cody) spent hours researching and planning out the perfect date in Seattle. And after all his hard work, she STILL didn't call him back. What happened? Find out in the PODCAST.(Image Courtesy: Chas Redmond. Creative Commons)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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He was there. Yeah. He grabbed an empty coffee cup. Yeah. Cut a hole in the bottom of it, placed it appropriately, and then looked at her and went, Hey, you want to try some of this coffee?

It's nonfat. That cannot be true. Well, that's what I'm hoping he did. His email said that he met her at Starbucks, and that's just where my mind went. The old coffee cup trick. Girls love it when you do that. Cody, how are you doing?

I'm doing well. How are you guys doing? Good. Please tell me that's how you met this girl at Starbucks. You know, I've never even thought of that, but next time maybe I'll consider it. Never fails. Never fails. Your email said that you met the girl you want to call today at Starbucks.

So how did you do it if you didn't do the obvious thing and place yourself in a coffee cup? Well, yeah. obvious thing and place yourself in a coffee cup well uh yeah well you know we were just standing next to each other in line and uh when we went to go try to find a place to sit we realized that there was no two tables for each of us to sit at so there was one and so we just kind of decided to you know share a table you were so excited when you looked around that coffee shop and saw that well i mean i kind of thought it was a little bit of an opportunity. I mean, she was really cute. Yeah. Yeah.

So you invited her to sit at the table with you since there was nowhere else for her to sit? Yeah. You know, I thought it'd be, you know, a nice thing to do. Okay. Pretty boring compared to what my idea. But everybody's got to make their own way in life. You know what I mean? So how did that go?

You sat down and shared the table. Did you guys have great conversation or something? You're like, I know I want to ask her out. Well, I mean, it got kind of awkward at first because she pulled out her phone immediately and started, you know, going through emails and texting. That's disappointing. Did she?

Want to share this table? Sure, I do. And then she just gets on her phone and ignores you the whole time? Yeah, it kind of started out that way. Do you think that she knew

that you were interested immediately or do you think that she just honestly had, I don't know, did she honestly have work to do?

She may have just been trying to make me work for it so I just was trying to open up a conversation to not bother her or seem like I was getting in her way.

Next time that happens the best way to do it is start reading over her shoulder what she's reading. She'll eventually put her phone down. Trust me. You know all the tricks of coffee shops. Yes, I do.

I do. So how did you end up finally engaging her in conversation if she was preoccupied with her phone? Smack it out of her hand? Well, I don't know. I kind of made her laugh a little bit, and so she eventually kind of just put her phone down. It must not have been too important. So your email says that, I mean, obviously you guys ended up going out on a date,

unless this was what you're considering your first date. No, this was, I guess, the free date, I guess you could say. Okay, so what did you actually do on your date then? Well, you know, I wanted to do something a little different instead of just going to a bar. I thought it'd be fun to go, you know, do a little driving tour around the city because there's a lot of really great views. That's kind of weird.

I mean, like you're going to make out points all over the place? I don't think make out points have existed since the 50s. So I'm assuming that they probably weren't going there. That's what it would feel like to me. Well, I don't know. know, wanted to go take her and to see some of the nice views and seemed like she would be into it.

And there wasn't like any food or any sort of restaurant or? Well, I mean, I put most of my planning into the actual driving around. I had a little map that I could kind of follow. So I may have kind of not planned for food as much, but I did offer to go stop and get a snack or something. That's good. All right. And were you actually using a map, like a legit map?

Yeah, like Google Maps. See, now you're making fun of my name. This whole second date update is now throwback. There's makeout points. There's maps. There are old school convertibles. Yeah. No, yeah.

I mean, I just had it on my phone. Okay. I'm picturing you driving around with this huge map over the steering wheel. Well, how did that go then? We drove around and we, at the end of the night, we just got to see this beautiful sunset.

Oh, come on. That was your moment. That was the moment you went in for a kiss, right? Well, no. Oh. I was debating whether I should do it because it seemed like that was kind of the moment, but then it was just kind of...

That is the worst. It didn't seem like the right time. That's the worst feeling ever when you're out with a girl and you're like, now's the moment where I have to kiss her, and then for some reason you don't do it, and then you drop her off, and the rest of the drive home,

you're like, why? I hate myself. God, you're so stupid. All the signs were there. Sunset, everything. Is that how you felt? Pretty much, yeah. If this girl likes you, I'm sure she's thinking, why didn't he do it?

You're an idiot. What did you say when you left her? I said so maybe we can do it again sometime and then she gave me a hug. Okay, so you guys hugged. So you're thinking that maybe you didn't make the move in the right amount of time and now she's like, oh, maybe he isn't really

that interested in me. I mean, it's either that or she just thinks that I'm a total wimp and I just canceled trigger on it. When you're watching a sunset, here's just some advice for the future. You kiss the person next to you. I don't care if you're at a lookout point by yourself

and there's an old lady standing next to you at the sunset. Sunsets are always an appropriate time to kiss. Okay? Even if you're standing there with your dad, it doesn't matter. No, dude. Sunsets are always kiss time. Oh, my God.

And how many times have you tried to get a hold of her since your date? Two or three times. She never answered. I left voicemails each time. Here's the thing, though. I feel like even if you miss that moment of the kiss, if she really liked you, she'd get back to you. Maybe because it wasn't a traditional type of date, she just wasn't into that. That could have turned her off?

I don't know. All right. Well, we'll play a song, come back, call her, and get your second date update, okay? All right. Thank you so much. We'll do it right after this. Moving 92.5. Brooke and Jubal in the Morning's Second Date Update.

Cody is on the phone with us. He wants to call a girl named Sydney. They went out for a wonderful date where he took her to see all the beautiful views around the city. They drove around and looked at all these viewpoints that he had found and eventually found himself at sunset with her. Wow. Turned to her. They locked eyes. And then Cody proceeded to grab his downstairs mix mix up, tuck it inside of his body,

cry and run away like a little girl. He couldn't go through with the kiss. Isn't that right, Cody? Those are your words, not mine. But yeah, Cody feels like maybe he didn't make a move on her when he should have at sunset and he felt the tension

but he didn't actually go through with the kiss. So he's wondering if maybe she thinks that he's just kind of a little wussy boy. Would you guys just cut that out? Poor Cody. I'll quit piling on, Cody. Yeah, Jubal's always like that. Cody, you were getting some good signs before this, right? I sure thought so.

Felt good to me. Okay, cool. Well, we're going to call her right now, see if we can get her on the phone, and get your second date update. Ready to go? I'm ready. Let's do it. Hello? Hi, can I speak to Sydney, please?

Yeah, this is she. Hey, Sydney, how are you? This is Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the Morning. Who? Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the Morning. I'm not familiar. I'm sorry. Why are you calling me?

Is this a Sydney that went out on a date with a guy named Cody a little while ago to look at views of the city? Yeah. Okay, perfect. Sydney that went out on a date with a guy named Cody a little while ago to look at views of the city uh yeah okay perfect then you are the right Sydney you're who I'm looking to get a hold of why it's a great question well we do a segment on our show called the second date update you went out on a date with Cody and Cody emailed us to see if we could talk to you and find out why you're not answering any of his phone calls. Okay, that's awkward. Did you enjoy your date with Cody? I mean, it was definitely kind of an odd first date. I would say that. Driving around looking at views?

Yeah, so how much do you guys actually know about the date well we talked to cody and he basically just told us that he wanted to do something different and maybe romantic so he said that he planned out a bunch of different viewpoints you could go look at well yeah i mean it was definitely different um and by the way we're on your side with that we think it's kind of like a strange date i would have gotten really bored by the lie i mean you give me two viewpoints maybe but more than that i'm checked out exactly he really just wanted to look at a lot of bridges it was all about the bridges he was really into views He kept saying views a lot. I don't know. He was just really excited by it.

And at one point, we were driving on the freeway, and he pulls over on the freeway to say, oh my gosh, we just have to stop and look at this view. So you're just on the side of the freeway with cars screaming by you at 70 miles an hour? Yes. When he told us about this, I pictured more of like a nature thing. It was like calm and quiet. You're at a park. No. No, it was very urban.

And there were a couple times even where we would stop and he would have us hike under bridges to get a different view. Like you're going under freeway overpasses? Yes. And he just said that that was another unique view for us to enjoy together.

Weird. The unique part was right. He did tell us one thing. He said that you guys eventually stumbled upon a sunset view and he felt that there was a moment where you might have wanted a kiss and he didn't go in for it was he feeling the right vibe there or was he from talking to you it sounds like you were not feeling like being kissed not by him okay you do have to give him some credit the guy guy put some effort into it. See, actually, I don't know, because in my mind, it kind of actually felt,

like this had the potential to be romantic, but what it sort of felt like more was just that he may have been too cheap to take me on an actual date. That's kind of true. So he's trying to make more of these views than what was there. When we talked to him, I didn't get the vibe like he was that scheming to be like, I'm going to take her to look at bridges and views because I want to save money. Maybe he's just got a weird thing with bridges.

Yeah. It wasn't just bridges, though, because actually at one point toward the end, he stopped by this house, and I was kind of weirded out. And I said, you know, why are we at this random house? And he said, no, don't worry. I know the guy. And we went into the guy's backyard to look at yet another view. And so I was just standing in this stranger's backyard.

Is he like breaking it up as he goes along? I would have run if I were you at that point. Hey, we're going to go to this house. Don't worry. I know the guy. Don't ask questions. Yeah, exactly. It was bizarre.

Okay. I'd love to find out if your theory is right, that he wanted to save money, so he took you on this view date. Wouldn't you at least like to know that? Actually, I'm not concerned. I don't think I'm going to go on a second date. Well, that's too bad because he's on the phone right now, and I wanted to ask him. Yeah, hi, Sydney. It's so nice to hear your voice.

Oh, gosh. Cody? Do you realize how much time I spent planning that date? I thought it'd be unique. Well, it was unique. Do you appreciate it? It was also weird. For you?

Do you realize how much time I spent putting this date together? How many maps I consulted? I spent hours on the Internet looking up places. I called people to plan this whole thing out. I spent so much time on that, and I cared about what happened. And you just blow this off? In your hours on the Internet, did you not find normal restaurants to take someone to?

Did you not go to Yelp? Oh yeah, I'm so sorry. I tried to do something original for s*** sake instead of taking you to a bar or a stupid s*** restaurant. Just don't claim originality as cheap.

It's obvious that you are just being cheap. I am not cheap. I thought it would be fun. Doesn't it sound weird when I say we went and looked at a dozen bridges? I mean, that's weird, right? You know, it wasn't just the bridge. It was the view off of the bridge. You know, but if you look up from your phone, maybe you would have noticed.

Can we also mention maybe how awkward it was for me standing in some random dude's backyard? That's not a date. Paul is not a random guy. He's a good friend of mine and he's got a really good view from his backyard.

Wow. Okay. Cindy, let me ask you a question. Why not just say, hey, let's go eat. Let's do something else. I don't really like doing this. I don't know.

It's the first date, and I just, I don't know. I guess I'm a little old-fashioned. I just feel like the guy should kind of take charge of that, and if it goes poorly, then that's just a sign to me that there's not going to be a second date. Oh, come on. I have a perfect way to solve this. Jubal, don't do it. No, I'm going to do it.

I have to do it. Sydney, I'm going to do it. I have to do it. Sydney, would you like to go on a second date with Cody? Oh, my gosh. We will pay for you guys to go out again. No. All right. Threw me for a loop on that one.

Well, Sydney, thank you very much for your time. I appreciate it. Thanks, guys. Thanks for coming on. Check out the show sometime. Yeah. Yeah, I will. Alright, thank you.

Well, there you go, Cody. She thought your date of taking her to look at views and bridges was boring. You know, I'm glad I know now. Because if a girl can't appreciate the view from a side of a bridge, then, you know, she's just not for me. That's what I've been saying for years.

If a chick can't dig a view from a bridge, kick them to the curb. I was obviously joking about the whole if a chick can't appreciate the view from a bridge. We're getting so many text messages in at 78592. They're like, this chick is dumb. Bridges are legit. I'm a photographer. I would have loved this date. Who knew so many people were into bridges. All right. Joel, the holidays are a

blast, but the financial hangover, that can be a huge bummer. If you are out there and you're dreading the new statement email that reveals the massive balance that you may have racked up, well, you could use our help. That's right. I'm Joel. And I am Matt. And we're from the How To Money Podcast. Our show is all about helping you make sense of your personal finances so you can ditch your pesky credit card debt once and for all, make real progress on other crucial financial goals that you've got, and just feel more in control of your money in general. You know it. For money advice without the judgment and jargon, Listen to How to Money on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Catch Jon Stewart back in action on The Daily Show and in your ears with The Daily Show

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