Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update PODCAST: Dirty Pic Mix Up

Episode Date: April 21, 2014

Jenn sent Mike a DIRTY PIC of herself and thinks that she came off a little too aggressive... Is that why Mike isn't calling her back??? Well, we called Mike... and when we finally got him on the phone... we heard something that we NEVER EXPECTED. Find out what happened in today's Second Date Update!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Moving 92.5. Brooke and Jubal's Second Date Update. Hey, Lydia. Yeah. Producer Boyd and I had a bet before this Second Date Update. Oh. He says that you've never sent a sext message in your life, a dirty picture out. I, on the other hand, guarantee that you have. Oh. He says that you've never sent a sexed message in your life. A dirty picture out. I, on the other hand, guarantee that you have.

Oh. One of us needs to win some money here. Have you ever sent a sex message out? Can we define dirty picture? Is it something that you have to be naked for? No. No. You have a thong.

That's a sex. No, I don't wear thongs. So no. I don't know. I'm not sure. It's a gray area. I'll just say. No, I don't wear thongs. So no. I don't know. I'm not sure. It's a gray area. I'll just say yes because I've flirted with my boyfriends. Yeah.

All right. I'll take it. But I haven't been naked in photos. What's the appropriate amount of time that you wait before you send out a dirty picture? Appropriate amount? I've sent like two in my life. How long did you wait before you did it? I don't know. two in my life. How long did you wait before you did it? I don't know.

Eight months of dating. Some people like to do it the day after you meet. That's weird. I like those people. Kind of like Jen, who's on the phone with us right now. Jen is calling in for the second date update. How are you? Sorry, Jen.

I'm good. I did not send it like that soon. Oh, yeah. Your show was not okay. Jen apparently sent a dirty picture to the guy she wants us to call today. That's okay, Jen. I don't want to crawl under a rock and die.

She's worried that that might have scared him off because after she sent the picture, he stopped responding to her. Right, Jen? That's the shortest, harshest version. Oh, poor girl. Poor Jen. Tell us a little bit about the guy you want us to call today.

His name is Mike, and I met him a little over a week ago. I was out with my girlfriend one night, and he was having a guy's night out. We're at the same place, and our groups just kind of naturally merged. And him and I hit it off, and we kind of branched off by ourselves and started talking, and chemistry kind of branched off by ourselves and started talking. And chemistry was there. Totally great.

He did this really cute move that kind of melted me. We were talking at the bar, and he points over my shoulder. He goes, oh, my God, look at that gorgeous girl over there. I turn around. It's a mirror. What? Nice. Are you?

That actually worked on you? I melted. Oh, I thought it was. That's awesome. And then that's when you sent him the sex message, right? No. You make me sound terrible. We're just giving you a hard time, Jed.

So he used his little mirror line on you and it worked. It worked, but we already had chemistry before that happened. So we've changed numbers. And for the next few days, we were texting pretty heavily back and forth, 30, whatever. And it didn't feel unnatural to send that pic with the conversation we were having at that time. We've been texting a lot. That's pretty good. There's some girls that will, like, Jose talks to girls literally same day.

I seriously. What do you think of this? Yeah, look at my fake boobs. will, like, Jose talks to girls literally same day. I seriously. What do you think of this? Yeah, look at my fake boobs. You're like, cool. And I will say, Jen, I'd say if you felt comfortable with yourself and him, then there's nothing wrong with it. Yeah. Except that he didn't respond. So you sent him that picture, and that's the last thing he's ever said to you?

Like, he didn't. Yeah, and I gave it lots of time and, like, you know, when you do something like that, you're kind of in a light state of panic because, you know, you don't know what the response is going to be and there's no response and there's no response.

I, like, was so embarrassed and so I apologized. I was like, I'm sorry. I just thought that, you know... It's one of those situations where you're looking at your phone and you're like, maybe something screwed up.

I'm going to text one of my friends and see if they text me back. No, damn it. It's one of those situations where you're looking at your phone and you're like, maybe something screwed up. I'm going to text one of my friends and see if they text me back. No, damn it, it's working. Where is he? Have you tried calling him at all? I've tried a couple of times, but there's no answer, and it's just one of those generic voicemails. Okay.

So my mind is going a million miles a minute trying to figure out, like, is it a picture, is it me? So I would rather just know what it was, 100%, focus in on the one thing and feel crappy about that one thing, than right now I feel crappy about every single possible thing to do with myself. So I'm dying. I want to crawl into a rock and die. And you're sure the conversation was leading to that point?

Like it wasn't like, hey, you want to meet up for dinner sometime? Sure. What do you think of this? It was dessert. No. It was leading to that point and I didn't initiate the flirtation in that direction that Hattie T did.

Well, we're going to play a song, come back, call him, and get your second date update. Okay? Okay. Alright, hold on. Moving 92.5 Brooke and Jubal in the morning. Second date update. I'm going to call this

second date update the curious case of the poorly timed sext message. Oh, I'm so glad I didn't read that Nancy Drew when I was there. That's a good one. Check it out. Jen is on the phone. She emailed us about a guy she met named Mike. Mike stopped responding to her after she sent him a dirty picture. And now she's wondering why.

That's a tough one, you know, because maybe he didn't like the way you looked or it could be because he's just really modest. I'm not going to even bother. Yeah, because no, I'm not going to. Yeah. Apparently you've tried calling his cell a bunch of times with no answer. Even today, producer Boyd told me that you've you actually tried to call him this morning because you weren't sure about doing the second date update. Right. So you have another number that you want us to try to call? I do. Now, I was told this is his landline.

How'd you get this number? One of my girlfriends hit it off with one of his friends. They've actually done really well dating or been out a couple of times since. So she ended up getting this number okay okay are we gonna like ambush the guy at work or something i was told it's a landline not a work line okay okay we're gonna call this number see if we get him on the phone and get your second date update you ready to go yeah okay all right Hello Can I speak to Mike please

Speaking Hey Mike how are you This is Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the morning On moving 92.5 how you doing I'm okay How did you get my number Just from some friends. Okay.

Specifically one friend. You know what? This is not really a great time for me to talk right now. Okay. Can I just steal a minute of your time? I don't have a lot of it. I mean, what's this about? We do a segment on our show called The Second Date Update.

What that is is where if somebody goes out on a date with one of our listeners and then they get blown off, they email us to call that person and ask why. So somebody went out on a date with you recently. Okay, well, this is not actually the best time to talk about this. Can you just give me a second? Can I just ask you real quick if you remember meeting a girl named Jen? Yeah. Is she okay? Yeah, she's fine. But she's wondering why you stopped responding to her.

Okay, it's fine. It's fine. Just let Jen know that I'll just text her later on today, okay? Okay, I'm about to run out of the subway. Do you want me to grab you anything while I'm there? Can you just get me some milk? Okay. Do you need some salmon cream? No, no, no, no, no. I'm fine. It's like 1%.

Okay. All right. Who are you talking to? I'm just talking to my mom. Oh, Melissa? Yeah. Hi, Melissa. I asked if she was going to come to brunch with us.

Who's that in the background, Mike? Hey, Mom, Sally wants to know if you're coming to brunch with us. Is that? Yeah, we'll be your mom. That's fine. Hey, real quick, though, son. Hey, yeah, who is this? I think she hung up.

Hello? Oh, my God. Did you just hear that? I wanted to find out more about Mike and the situation at dinner. You wanted to go to brunch on Sunday is what you wanted. Who was that? Mike, are you there? Hello?

I think we've been hung up on. You think? Yeah. I don't even know what to say. I want to throw up. Well, I think you're jumping to conclusions, Jen. No, I don't think she is, Jubal. Stop. Let's try to call him back. I want to try to call him Jen. No, I don't think she is, Jubal. Stop.

Let's try to call him back. I want to try to call him back. Oh, man, you guys. No, she was leaving for the store. That's what I heard. So maybe she's gone now. Oh, God. I'm sorry.

Listen, man, just don't call me anymore. No, it's cool. Hey, who was that, though, in the background? No, it's just a telemarketer. She's nosy. Please do not call a telemarketer. She's nosy. Please do not call me anymore, okay? I just don't want to be harassed anymore. Does she do that every time you answer the phone?

Jeez. Oh, man. Mike, you there? Oh, man. Wow. Gosh, you know. I don't know. Now I'm maybe starting to believe you guys that it could be a girlfriend or a wife or something there.

Oh, you think? You think? Investigator Jubal. I don't even have words right now. Can you guys call that a** back? Because I do actually have something to say to him. How about this? Hey, Jen, how about this? I'm going to call him back, but I'm not going to say anything. You can just start. That way you can yell at him right away if you want to beforehand. Because you know he's going to hang up if I start talking to him. Is this a good idea?

Of course it is. No. I guess we could leave a really awkward message on their machine. I got it. I got it. Hello? Hello? Hello? Hey, who's this?

We're on a do not call list, you know. Who is this? What's your name? We are on a do not call list. I registered to the internet and you know, now we've told you not to call. You could get reported. No, that's, hey, I'm not a telemarketer though. I'm calling for another reason.

Well, they're saying they're not a telemarketer. There's another reason involved. I probably don't have a lot of time with you on the phone, so I just want to tell you this real quick. My name is Jubal. I host a radio show on Moving 92.5. What's a radio station, honey? Hang up. Hang up on the phone. I'm trying to hear what he's saying.

That guy, Mike, is that your boyfriend, husband? Who is that? Yeah, that's my boyfriend. We live together. Your boyfriend has been texting with one of our listeners who met him out, and they've been very... I think you know where I'm going with this. Is this some f***ing sick joke that you're trying to pull? No.

It is insane. We're bad, but we're not that bad, I promise. I'm sorry. Oh my God, I cannot believe this. It's not true. It's not true. It's not true. We checked everything out. It really happened.

I mean, I guess if you want to check his cell phone. Give me your cell phone. Give me your cell phone. Any idea? I don't know. Give me your cell phone. I don't know. Give me your cell phone.

I want to see your cell phone. Have you been texting her? No, I'm a techie. But if you look at the text, oh, my God. Is this what you think is secret? No, it was no texting her. But if you look at the text... Oh, my God. Is this what you think is secret? No, it was no secret. Where was your... I pay that bill.

Give me that phone. Oh, Sally. This is such bull... Hey, Sally. It's a mistake, okay? It's a mistake. Absolutely bull... Hello?

Oh, my God. You there? I think that they hung up. I think they're going to fight right now. Yeah, they got some stuff to talk about. Jen, I'm sorry we couldn't get you on the phone with Mike. I think he's busy right now, though. My God.

Do you have any idea that he had a girlfriend or anything? Not at all. My God, no. In conversation, he said that he's dated, but he's not really attached to anybody because he hasn't met the right person and he's been on and on. Well, you know what?

Give Mike the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he hasn't met the right person yet. Oh, gosh. He's still kind of right, right? I just feel terrible for his girlfriend and I hope that she castrates him on her way out the door wow okay no violence no violence well at least you got your answer why he's not calling you back i don't know what to say there was nothing indicative of

a relationship or anything like nothing so now i'm kind of terrified because I don't know how I'm supposed to proceed in dating with this guy. Yeah, but Jen, I mean, not every dude is living with his girlfriend for two years. And, you know, like, go ahead and feel free to send out those pictures whenever you want. Don't listen to him. We hear you in studio. Yeah. Broken Jubal in the morning. Joel, the holidays are a blast, but the financial hangover, that can be a huge bummer.

If you are out there and you're dreading the new statement email that reveals the massive balance that you may have racked up, well, you could use our help. That's right. I'm Joel. And I am Matt. And we're from the How To Money podcast. Our show is all about helping you make sense of your personal finances so you can ditch your pesky credit card debt once and for all, make real progress on other crucial financial goals that you've got, and just feel more in control of your money in general. You know it. For money advice without the judgment and jargon, listen to How to Money on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. John Stewart is back at The Daily Show,

and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Dive into John's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Happy holidays from me, Michael Rappaport, and my gift to you is a free subscription to the I Am Rappaport Stereo Podcast,

where I discuss entertainment, sports, politics, and anything and everything that catches my attention. I am here to call it as I see it, and there's a whole lot of things catching my eyes these days. Listen to the I Am Rappaport Stereo Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you get your podcasts.