Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update PODCAST: Drop Them Keys Girl

Episode Date: April 24, 2015

Women are pretty amazing... They can look at a guy that has messed up feet, a beer belly & a premature bald spot and honestly think, "Oh, he's kinda cute". So how is it, that a hottie like Hannah, is getting blown off by one of these guys? Something must have gone wrong on their date. We'll find out what, in the PODCAST.(Image Courtesy: WebRatio Communications. Creative Commons)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Ruck and Jubels, second date update. You know, dating is a lot like driving, especially if you're a dude, because you have to learn to pay attention to the signals right like at the end of a date think of it like you're at an intersection okay if the girl gives you a red light you know stop but oftentimes they'll give you the green light signal to go in for a kiss or something like that and a lot of dudes are texting and not paying attention and they don't pick up on the green light and there's people honking at them like just go for it go for it and then before they know it the light turns to red and they've missed

their opportunity to get through the intersection that happens to a lot of people hannah who was on the phone today for a second date update thinks that the guy she went out with didn't know how to read her signals correctly and didn't go for a kiss at the end of the night hannah how are you i'm okay a little nervous a little nervous don't be nervous? Don't be nervous. We don't blame you. You're fine. So tell us a little bit about the guy you want to call today. I know in your email you said that you think he wasn't very good at picking up on your signals, but let's first find out about your date.

How'd you meet him? His name's Eric. I met him at my church's young adult singles group. I've never been to a singles group for a church. Like, do you all get in a room and you pair up? Do you do speed dating? What happens? Pair up?

I don't know. At our church, they just have some music playing and, like, there's snacks and hors d'oeuvres. And usually everyone sort of hangs out at first with the people they know. And then casually you sort of start talking to people. And by the way, church singles mixers where you meet the biggest freaks. No! Dude, I grew up in church camps my whole life. I never got more action than at church camps.

It's a great place to meet people who are down to mess around. Oh, my God. So how did you meet Eric then when you were at the Singles Mixer? Well, he's friends with one of my best friends. So he came over and started talking to me. And, you know, I thought he was cute. He's kind of, like, goofy looking, but I like that. You know, he was sort of funny, you know, it's important to me too. So we just started talking.

Did he seem nervous when you guys first met? No, that night he seemed sort of comfortable, maybe because my friend was there, you know, that he knows really well. Now you called him goofy looking. Let me ask you a question about yourself. If you were to say between you two, would you say that you're hotter than him? Oh, I'm definitely the hot one. I'm just wondering, because normally girls who say that, they tend to be hot girls who kind of date down because they like a guy's personality, so I'm

just wondering if that's you. Well, I think he's cute, and that's what's really important. You know how many times I get that? Like, no, you guys don't understand. Like, I think he's cute. For me, he's cute. That's sweet, though.

I do think he's cute. But I would say that most people would say, you know, he's not traditionally handsome. So you guys obviously went out on a date after this thing, right? Or are you just calling him out? Yeah. Okay, what did you guys do? We went to go see the Christian church band band and you know it was fun um he wasn't as sort of outgoing as he was when i first met him he was i don't know maybe i would say almost a little bit boring but a really good

listener was there any like drinking involved at all i don't know how no i mean i didn't drink anything and maybe he did before but since i didn't i guess he didn't you know i don't know yeah i guess what kind of christian are you are you one where alcohol is an absolute sin or do you have a couple drinks oh i can have a couple drinks i just did it that night i didn't know if you guys were loosening up or anything no maybe we should have yeah was there a special moment that you guys shared or you know something that really stuck out about that evening? No, he was just a really good listener and it was nice. You know, it was nice.

So why do you, okay, it doesn't sound like a rave review about your date so far. Why do you want to call him for a second date update? Well, because I think that there's potential there i feel like maybe he's just kind of shy and so maybe this was like the date where he's super shy and then he can kind of go back to the guy that i thought was a little more fun that i met with my friend you know i would like to hang out with that guy again all right so you want to hang out with the guy before but in your email you said that he was not picking up on your signals that you were giving him at the end of the date. What do you mean by that? What happened was at the end of the night, he walked me to my door and then sort of waited and nothing happened.

So then I pretended you got my keys, you know? Oh, classic. Is that your go-to move to let a guy know that you're kind of killing time so he can kiss you? I don't know, to be honest. I've never had to wait, but he got them. But I guess he didn't get the clue because he just sort of was holding out my keys. And then I just said, you know, maybe we should hang out again.

And he was like, sure, and then he left. Did he give you a hug or anything? Yeah, he hugged me. And then lastly, I sent him a text. You sent him a text? Yeah, a couple days later. I said, how's your week going? And then he replied, it's okay.

That's all he sent you? Yeah. Did you say anything else after the it's okay text? Like, you tried to hit him back? Did I? Yeah. That's the last thing i heard from him because then i thought like hey wait a minute i'm working too hard here you know

like i want to see him but it sounds like to me like he may be just like really unexperienced dating if you guys were to go out again would you be okay being the person who made the first move no i just think you may have to with this guy. I've been in that situation before where it's been at the end of a date, and I know deep down that I should kiss somebody, and then I don't. And then after that, I'm like, I don't even know if I want to go out with her again, because now I just blew my chance. So, you know, maybe he's feeling like that.

I hope he doesn't think that, because I do like him. Okay, so when I get him on the phone for the second date update, do you want that to be the first thing that I say to him? Like, hey, man up and make out with Hannah already. Oh, my gosh, no. Okay, so when I get him on the phone for the second date update, do you want that to be the first thing that I say to him? Like, hey, man up and make out with Hannah already. Oh my gosh, no. Okay. Well, we'll play a song, come back, call him, get him on the

phone and get your second date update, alright? Thank you. Okay, hang on. Moving 92.5 Brooke and Jubal in the morning second date update. If you're just joining us for the second part of today's Second Date Update, Hannah is on the phone with us. She wants to call a guy named Eric.

They met at church in a young adult's mixer, went out to a concert, and then after the concert there was an awkward moment where he dropped her off, walked her to her door, and she was putting out the signals that she wanted to kiss. Her signal was she dropped her keys in order to kill time in hopes that he would pick them up and then maybe kiss her. Instead, he picked them up and gave them to her and said, here's your keys, have a good night. And she hasn't heard from him since, so we're about to get him on the phone.

Hannah, I think the problem was that your signal to him was a little weak. I think next time, instead of dropping the keys, you just drop the pants. No question there. Oh, my gosh. But there's no question. Oh, wow. No? You want to try that out?

Oh, my God. No. I wish women would be a little more blunt like that, and then I would be like, oh, okay, cool. She wants to kiss. Yeah. All right. That's not what they thought.

Well, I'm about to dial the phone number and get him on the phone and see what the reason is that he's not calling you back. Okay, thanks. I'm excited and nervous. Hello? Hi, can I speak to Eric, please? This is Eric. Hey, Eric, how are you?

This is Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the Morning, the radio show. Radio, okay. All right, how you doing? I'm fine. Okay. The reason that I'm calling you, though, is we do a segment on our show called The Second Date Update. That's where if somebody goes out on a date with someone and then they feel like they're getting blown off after the date, they email us to call that person and ask them why. You recently went out with a girl named Hannah who listens to our show. Oh. And Hannah is wondering why you haven't called her or texted her

and asked her to go out again. Okay. Did you like Hannah? Yeah, Hannah was fine. Okay. Do you have a few minutes to tell us why you're not texting her back? Well, we hung out for about three hours at a concert, and I guess I just didn't really know what to say.

Like you didn't know what to say, like it was awkward for you to be on the date? For me, she was hard to have a conversation with. Was she intimidating or something because she was real pretty? No. No. She

just said a few things where I said to myself, I was like, I don't think I could see myself having a relationship with this person. What type of things are we talking? few things where I said to myself, I was like, I don't think I could see myself having a relationship with this person. What type of things are we talking? She just had a lot of her facts wrong. Her facts about what?

Just like pretty basic stuff. Can you give me, can you give me an example? I mean, she, for one thing, at one point she said she thought islam was a country okay all right that's a that's not a religion okay yep um we also were talking about like crazy things that we've eaten at restaurants and i I said, like, well, this is pretty common, but I've had duck. Yeah. And she was like, mmm, duck. Now, would you consider that a meat or a fish?

Come on. Really? She actually said that? Yeah. Do you think anything? I kind of get what you're saying then. That's amazing. You don't necessarily feel like she's not as smart as you,

but you feel like she might be kind of an airhead a little bit. Well, it's just like, yeah, I mean, you know, there are different types of intelligence, you know, and I just feel like she lacks a sort of basic. Is there any way that she could have just been playing it up and doing the, you know, because some girls do the bimbo thing because they think guys think it's cute. Oh, yeah. You could tell it wasn't like she was planning these things.

Like at one point we were talking about something and she goes, I think comedy is so funny. Obviously. Yeah. It's like, yeah, that's what comedy's job is. I like that. You know, Eric, you and I are a lot different, because when I got out with her, I've been like, perfect. You're right on my level.

Funny things are funny. Yeah, comedy is a funny thing sometimes. So you just feel like she wasn't on your level then. Basically, most of the date, I just was sitting there going like, you know, I don't want to be this guy who just spends the whole time correcting her because it just makes me seem like an arrogant kind of know-it-all. And if I had spent my time correcting her, then our conversation would have gone almost nowhere because I would have had to do it like every minute or so. So I just don't think we ever really need to talk again. Really?

That's a shame because she's actually on the phone and wants to talk to you. Are you serious? Yes, I am. So I'm kind of confused. I mean, it sounds like, you know, that because I wasn't perfect or didn't know all of the same things that you do quite as well, that you are saying that I'm stupid? Is that what I heard? I did not once say that you are stupid. No, you didn't actually say those words, but because I'm not stupid, it certainly sounded like you were saying that I was. I don't think that you're stupid.

I think you do. No, I don't. I don't think you're stupid. I think that for the kinds of things that I usually talk about and the things that I was kind of putting out there to see what you would say, it wasn't really working out. You know, I may not be as smart, you know, in certain areas, but I'm pretty, I have street smarts and I think I'm pretty bright. I mean, okay, for example, I was right. Comedy is funny. And tragedies are sad.

She has a point, Eric. She was right. You're right. You're right. You're not wrong about that. I think that, you know, like, if you don't get why that's kind of a weird thing to say, then I think that is kind of the issue right there. It's not here. It's true.

Yeah, it's true. It's true. But also, like, you know, we don't need to talk about how water is wet, you know. Maybe we do. See, like, if you think that, then that's fine. But I'm so not interested in talking about that. Wow. I think you're being kind of picky, Eric. I mean, yeah, she gets some facts wrong and she doesn't really, you know, maybe be book smart, but she sounds like a delightful person.

Can I just point out something? I thought, like, if you had fun with someone or you enjoyed them and, like, if the person was extremely attractive, that that was kind of, you know, important, too, and I was willing to make, sort of, I was going to just sort of ignore that part.

See that look? Eric, do you think that you can ignore her not being on your level intelligence-wise if Hannah ignores the fact that you're not on her level hot-wise, is what she's saying, I think. Yeah, I picked up on that.

Oh my god. I guess that brings me to my next point, then. Would you guys like to go out on a second date? Eric, would you like to go out on a second date? Eric, would you like to go out with Hannah again? I will pay for it. She'll ignore the fact that you're not as good-looking as she is. No, I wouldn't.

Come on, opposites attract. So you don't even want to go out with me again? I mean, I kind of was being really nice to you still, you know, just by everything you were saying about me. I'm sort of shocked that you don't want to try to make it up to still, you know, despite everything you're saying about me. I'm sort of shocked that you don't want to try to make it up to me, you know? You weren't very nice.

Yeah, well, you know, I'm sorry, but... Okay, so like what do we do now? I see you at one of the church events, and I see you and I go, oh, hey, there's a guy that thinks I'm an idiot. Yeah, I guess. And then I'll be like, hey, there's a guy that thinks I'm an idiot. Yeah, I guess. And then I'll be like, hey, there's a girl who thinks I'm ugly.

Look at that. It actually is a perfect second date update. It worked out for both you guys. Now we're all on the same page. That is amazing how that actually worked out for them like that. Text in at 78592 says, I'll date her. She's right on my level. At least people know where they are right It's true

I mean I guess you can't blame him too much If he just didn't feel like they connected On the intelligence level You know I mean if you go out with somebody You feel like they're not as smart as you Maybe you don't want to go out with them again Personally I think it's a great thing

Yeah I look for that Yeah It's the first thing I look for It's hard for Jose to find though Someone below his smarts level. True. Remember, if you want a second date update, all you have to do is email the show,

brookandjubelatmoving925.com. We will call the person who didn't call you back. Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show, and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition Podcast. Dive into Jon's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups,

this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, you guys. I'm Katherine Legg. I'm a racing driver who's literally driven everything with four wheels across the planet. And I've got a new podcast. It's called Throttle Therapy. This season, I'm competing in some of the world's most notorious racing events. Tune in to my new podcast, Throttle Therapy, with Catherine Legg,

an iHeart Women's Sports production in partnership with Deep Blue Sports and Entertainment. You can find us on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Presented by Elf Beauty, founding partner of iHeart Women's Sports. I'm Dr. Laurie Santos, and to welcome the new year, my podcast, The Happiness Lab, is releasing a series of happiness how-to guides to help you in 2025. I'll distill the wisdom of world-class experts

into easy-to-digest, actionable tips. Struggling with tough emotions? We have a how-to guide. Worried that you're not enough? We got you. Self-obsessed and want to get over yourself? There's a guide for that, too. The Happiness Lab's how-To Season starts January 1st.

Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.