Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update PODCAST: Finger Foods

Episode Date: March 15, 2013

What do we learn in today's Second Date Update? Sometimes what YOU think is sexy... isn't always what OTHER people find sexy. Listen to the PODCAST. (Image Courtesy: ZakVTA. Creative Commons)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Rook and Jubal's Second Date Update Lydia's You've done online dating I have yeah Would you screen a guy For like six weeks Before meeting up with him

To make sure he's not a creep That's kind of what I did With my first boyfriend Really It was about six weeks Before you actually met him Yeah Alright

That's what Sandra did With a guy that she met online. She emailed us about a dude named Andrew. Hi, Sandra. How are you? Hi, guys. So you met this guy online, and then you screened him for like six weeks before going out with him? Well, yeah. I just wanted to make sure he wasn't a creep, and I just wanted to make sure we kind of

feel some solid friendship base before I started dating him. That makes sense, I guess. I don't think there's anything wrong with it. There's a lot of weirdos out there. But that's a month and a half. That's a long time. Did you just email back and forth for a month and a half?

Well, it was like email, and then we actually spoke on the phone a couple of times. Uh-huh. And text messages. And late night Skype sessions. Or am I? Is that just me? You guys went out for a romantic dinner. Explain to everybody what your email said about that dinner.

So after six weeks of correspondence, we went to this Italian restaurant. And it was really nice. I mean, he was really gentlemanly. He opened the door for me. He kind of put his hand on the small of my back, which I really liked. I don't know. I just thought it was a really perfectly. He opened the door for me. He kind of put his hand on the small of my back, which I really liked. And I don't know. I just thought it was a really perfect date. And then at the end of the night,

he didn't even kiss me goodbye. Did you, like, put off signals? Like, hey, get over here and kiss me. I did the usual flirting. Like, I, you know, touched his arm when I was talking to him, and I smiled a lot and kind of, like, looked away. All right.

I mean, maybe since you took six weeks to even meet him for a date, he was just being cautious. Did you get that sense at all? When he walked into the car, it was just all of a sudden so platonic, if that makes sense. And he kind of was like, okay, well, it was really nice. Not even, like, I'll call you later or anything. Like, he gave me a hug.

Oh. And then just left. Oh, so he didn't say he was going to call you later, because normally we get emails from people that are like, oh, he said he would call me and blah, blah, hug. And then just left. Oh, so he didn't say he was going to call you later, because normally we get emails from people that are like, oh, he said he would call me, and blah, blah, blah. So he just left. Yeah, that was it. I was like, did I do something wrong?

I don't know. We had such a great conversation. Did he pat you on the back as he hugged you? Kind of like once. I was kind of like, hey, bud, all right. Yeah, that's a friend hug for sure. Definitely. Have you tried to get a hold of him?

I did send him a text message and he didn't respond. So I don't know if it's something I did during dinner. I just thought after six weeks I thought it would be, you know, moving forward. Yeah. So you're willing to admit that you probably did something that he didn't like, but you just want to know what it is? Yeah. I mean, I want to know so I don't make the same mistake again.

Okay. We're going to play one song, and then we're going to call him. Okay. And get your second date update. Are you nervous? A little bit. I mean, I hope it's nothing too bad. All right.

Okay, hang on. We'll call him in a second, okay? Thanks. Moving 92.5. Brooke and Jubal in the morning. Second date update. You know what I really enjoy when you're on a date and they know that you're not into them and then they start talking a bunch because they get nervous.

It's so awesome just to go like, yeah, you are bombing so hard right now. I feel like you ruined dates on purpose just to get to that awkward point. Yeah, it's great. All right, Sandra, you ready to give Andrew a call? Yes. Again, if you weren't listening, Sandra went on a date with Andrew. They went out to eat,

had a nice dinner, but at the end of the date, you kind of knew that something had happened and he wasn't that into you anymore, right? Yeah. Yeah. Okay.

When I first met him, I thought, oh my God, he's just living up to and exceeding my expectations. And then just the end of the night, it just threw me off. I just am blindsided. Yeah. All right.

And like we said earlier, you are willing to admit that something probably happened. You just would like to know what it was that you did. Yes, please. All right. I'm going to call him right now. Get your second date update. You can jump in on the phone call whenever you want, okay? Okay.

All right. update. You can jump in on the phone call whenever you want, okay? Okay. Hello? Hey, is Andrew there? Yeah, this is Andrew. Who's this? This is Jubal from Brick and Jubal in the Morning. I'm moving 92.5. How are you? I'm fine, thanks. How are you? I'm good. You got a second to talk? Yeah, sure. What's this about? Somebody emailed us about you, and we want to give you a call to talk about them. Okay. Would you like more explanation on that? You think? We do a segment on our show called Second Date Update.

It's where you go out on a date with someone and then blow them off or don't call them back. They email us to call you and ask why. So somebody emailed us about you. Oh, no. Is it that bad? I don't know. Do you already have a suspicion of who might have emailed us about you? I guess there's a few people.

I just started doing some online dating, so I guess it could be. I don't know. Have you blown a lot of people off in the past couple weeks? Player, Andrew. No, I guess I haven't blown a lot of people off. He's kind of excited about this,

which I like about you, Andrew, because you sound fun. Yeah. You went out on a date with a girl named Sandra. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Her. There you go.

Sandra emailed us about you. She said in her words that she could kind of tell that at the end of the night you turned and weren't really into her. What happened? Well, how much did she tell you about this date? She basically said that you guys talked online for about six weeks and then went out to dinner and she had a good time she didn't go into more detail than that really she okay i can't believe i'm even telling you this story um she asked if we could order some dessert so we decided on ordering some tiramisu and then she kind of started urging me to feed it to her. And she was doing this whole, like, sexy baby voice.

You know, she's like, hey, sexy baby, you know, like, just feed me this tiramisu. I like the way you're doing it. I'd feed you tiramisu any day, Andrew. She was like, yeah, you know, feed it to me. No, get rid of the spoon. Use your finger. I want to lick it off your finger. That's nice. It was just really weird.

Okay, hold on. To my defense, I did that once, and you're exaggerating the story, Andrew. Hey, Andrew, Sandra's actually on the phone with us right now. You're making me sound like a little freak saying, oh, baby, can you please lick it off my finger? You know I didn't do it like that. You know, I was playful. And I was like, oh baby,

do you want to lick it off my finger? It was very sexy and quirky. It was a really, really hilarious attempt at sexy. That's how you always want to describe when you're being sexy. A very hilarious attempt. Do you not see how Andrew could think that's kind of odd? I just thought I was, you know, buzzed, and I was feeling playful and free and having fun,

and I guess I took it in a direction that he wasn't comfortable with. But, you know, I was just kidding around. Can you understand that, Andrew? Yeah, I mean, it actually, looking back on it, it really actually was kind of funny. You know, she was like, maybe tipsy, being all like, ooh, isn't this hot? You know, like, it's not. It could get great in the bedroom for you guys. I don't know.

She sounds adventurous and confident. Andrew? Yeah. bedroom for you guys. I don't know. She sounds adventurous and confident. Andrew? Yeah? Now that she knows to maybe wait until the fourth date to lick food off your finger. We will send you guys out on a second date. We'll pay for it if you'll go out with Sandra again and give it another shot.

Oh, man. I did have a good time with Sandra. I did. So are you saying... Yeah, let's go. Let's do it. You go out there again. Okay, cool.

It's a finger-licking good time. Sandra, do you want to go out with him again? Yes, and I promise I won't make you lick my fingers. He's actually going to order extra silverware when they get there. Broken Jubal in the morning. Ugh. We're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble.

More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you.

Someone else will, too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. Joel, the holidays are a blast, but the financial hangover, that can be a huge bummer. If you are out there and you're dreading the new statement email that reveals the massive balance that you may have racked up, well, you could use our help. That's right. I'm Joel. And I am Matt. And we're from the How To Money podcast. Our show is all about helping you make sense of your personal finances so you can ditch your pesky credit card debt once and for all, make real progress on other crucial financial goals that you've got, and just feel more in

control of your money in general. You know it. For money advice without the judgment and jargon, listen to How to Money on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Catch Jon Stewart back in action on The Daily Show and in your ears with The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. From his hilarious satirical takes on today's politics and entertainment to the unique voices of correspondents and contributors it's your perfect companion to stay on top of what's happening now plus you'll get special content just for podcast listeners like in-depth interviews and a roundup of the week's top headlines listen on the iheart radio app apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts