Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update PODCAST: I Kinda Overreacted

Episode Date: February 4, 2015

Usually, you can tell RIGHT AWAY when a person is crazy... but the girl in today's Second Date Update did a great job of hiding it from us... until everything fell apart. And she just couldn't hide it anymore. Hear what happened that sent her over the edge, in the PODCAST.(Image Courtesy: martinak15. Creative Commons)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Join In The Loop, Seattle's brand new activities club just for singles. Go to InTheLoopSingles.com today. Moving 92.5. Rook and Jubels, second date update. A good rule whenever you're upset about something and you're about to send a message, either a text message or an email to that person, is to count to ten before you send it. I think that comes from you. message or an email to that person. Just count to ten before you send it. And then read it again

and then add even more F-words and more insults. Make sure that you've gotten the insults in there that need to be in there. You know what I mean? Make it even more aggressive. That's what I'm saying. Because if you under-aggress, that's not good. Yeah, no. You've got to make sure that you get as many F-words as possible in that hate message that

you're sending to that person. No, you actually need to think about it before you send messages. And that's kind of what happened to Amanda, who's on the phone with us today. She wants to do a second date update, and she said some things to her date that she regrets. We'll talk about that in just a second. But first, Amanda, it said that you met the guy that you want us to call today online. How long did you guys talk before you actually went out? We were talking for like a couple of weeks. We started out with emails and then we were talking on the phone. I'm always curious about that when it comes to online dating,

how long you go back and forth before you actually set up a date. Yeah, this time it was a couple of weeks. At a certain point, we were like talking every night before we went to bed, you know, all the time. And it just, I felt like I really got to know him pretty well. That's the interesting part to me, because I feel like if you talk a bunch before you go out, you feel like you already are kind of in a relationship with that person before you even go out on a first date. I don't know. It just felt like we were getting close. You know, we were getting to know each other.

That's good, though. Yeah, and when you met him for the first time, I mean, were you nervous leading up to this date since you guys were so connected already? You had a lot riding on it? Yeah, I mean, kind of. You know, it was so great on the phone. I was, like, worried that it wasn't going to be that way in person, and it was. Like, it was really good.

All right. So tell us a little bit about what you guys did when you agreed to go out. We just went to a movie and then went for pizza. I mean, it was just, like, really just basic date stuff. Okay. That's cute. But, you know, and at the end of the night, I was pretty sure. Like, I was like, oh, you know, we'll have just like this great kiss at the end of the night.

But that it's something more sort of happened. That great kiss turned into. Yeah, I spent the night. All right. Nice job, Amanda. Yeah. And your email included that. But it also said that you think he's probably not calling you back because you sort of freaked out on him.

Okay, well, so the next day I left his place and I told him to text me. And he was like, yeah, I'll text you. And everything was so great that I thought he would, but then I didn't hear from him. And so I kind of freaked out and I sent a couple of angry texts. How angry of texts are we talking?

I don't know. It was stuff I really kind of regret. You know, it was just texts are we talking? I don't know. They were just, it was stuff I really kind of regret, you know, it was just angry stuff I shouldn't have said. What did you say? You got an example of what you said? No, I mean, it was, it was just like, I was kind of overreacting the fact that he hadn't called me back. And I don't know, he, he just, he said that he had misplaced his phone and that's why. And then I was like, oh, no. And I tried calling him to try to fix it, and he wouldn't pick up. And so that's why I'm calling you.

I just want a second chance. Like, I really blew it. Is your hope to get him on the phone now because he's not answering your phone calls because you freaked out on him via text message, hoping that maybe he'll answer our number and then you can apologize? Yeah, I just was like, he hadn't texted at all. And so it was just, yeah. That's embarrassing. And how much damage control?

I mean, are you calling him an effing a-hole? Or are you getting even more specific? I don't know. It was pretty bad. But I'm not that, you know, I'm not that way. I don't, and I want to apologize. Like, everything was so great that I just feel like he should give me a second chance, and I want to apologize, and it was just so dumb.

That's embarrassing when you do something like that, and then somebody has a legitimate reason that they weren't calling you back, or they were just taking a little too long. It's like, how dare you not talk to me all day? It's like, uh, I got in a car accident. Or my family member is dying. Oh, uh, my bad. All right, well, we're going to play a song.

Come back, call them, and get your second date update, okay my bad. All right. Well, we're going to play a song. Come back. Call him and get your second date update, okay? Okay. Hang on. Moving 92.5. Brooke and Jubal in the morning. Second date update. Amanda is on the phone with us.

She wants to do a second date update with a guy named David. They met online. Ended up hooking up on the night of their first date. He didn't text her back for a few days, so she got a little angry and started texting him some things that she regrets. She said she was very rude to him, and then he finally texted her back going like,

I just misplaced my phone for a couple days. And he hasn't talked to her since, so she's hoping to get him on the phone, apologize, and see if he'll go out On another date with her Amanda I think that maybe you gotta think about Some other options here okay Okay I mean that's why I called

I don't think sorry is just enough I think maybe you need to think about some excuses you could use Like when you get him on the phone Oh my friend took my phone Sorry about that I had no idea Hey in my family, is a term of endearment. Like we say it around the dinner table all the time.

Yeah. You ever think about something like that, Amanda? Yeah, definitely. I'm going to dial the phone number right now, see if we can get David on the phone, and you can make your apology and try to get a second date, okay? Okay. Here we go.

Hello? Hi, can I speak to David, please? Speaking. Hey, David, how are you? This is Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the Morning. You ever check out the show? Yeah, I've heard it a few times. I'm just kind of confused of why you guys are calling me right now.

Because somebody emailed us about you, David. About me? Yep. Somebody that you recently went out on a date with. Her name is Amanda. Amanda. Yeah. You probably remember who Amanda is because after your date, she ended up sending you some pretty mean text messages.

And then like you texted her back that you had lost your phone or something. Yeah. Well she feels really bad about that and wanted us to call you today to see if that's why you're not calling her back. Man, I had lost my phone for a few days, so I wasn't able to contact her. And I get my phone back, and I get just a slew of just mean text messages. And that kind of turned me off. Yeah, I could understand that.

How mean were they? Like, I mean, I wouldn't want to say them on the radio. They're pretty messed up. Really? Really. Can you give us, like, a PG-13 version of what was on your phone? We're taping this right now, too, so you can say it, and we'll just beep it out. Oh.

I just, I think it would be really embarrassing to her her so I don't want to kind of put her in that position yeah but think about this David she's the one that emailed us to call you she's already putting her business out there

on the radio and I really want to know what she texted you because she wouldn't even really tell us she just said it was bad that was her quote

yeah they were really bad was it like was it like the worst thing a woman has ever said to you bad? I would go ahead and say yes. Wow. Come on, David.

Just give me one thing that she said. Fine. One second. Oh, is he getting the text message? No, I like it. Read it word for word. I don't want it to get... Okay, I've got one.

Okay. I've got one right here. You actually saved them, David? Yeah. I would. They might be evidence in a court of law someday. You never know. Of course I had to save these.

They were crazy. I couldn't believe it. Yeah, I guess I would keep them too, just to be like, oh man. So read one of them to us. Okay, I've got one right here. This one says, I'm sick of guys using me and throwing me away like a piece of trash. Oh. Dot, dot, dot.

You're an a**hole. All right. Wow. Here's another one. Okay. Just so you know, you're the worst lay I've ever had. He actually insulted how you were in bed. Yeah, this is all really s*** up.

But couldn't you understand? She didn't know you'd lost your phone. She was feeling vulnerable. Yeah, vulnerable is one thing, but for her to send me these texts saying that I'm an a**hole, that I treat her like trash, and I'm terrible in bed. That's not vulnerable. That's just crazy.

How many text messages total did you get from her in those two days? Definitely more than ten. Oh, my gosh. In two days? It is understandable, David, why you didn't want to call her back and go out on another date with her. I haven't even read the worst one yet to you. Well, since we're putting it all out there, I think it's time to hear that one. This one is the icing on the cake.

Why don't you do the world a favor and chop off your own ****? Man, she went ham. She went in on you, David. I know. I'm saying that's completely psychotic. Wow. Yeah. David, what would you say back to her if you could say anything to her right now?

Please leave me the hell alone. Okay, cool. Well, I'm going to let you say that to her because she's actually on the phone listening. Are you f***ing kidding me? Yeah, I'm right here. I'm right here. I feel really bad. I feel that.

Wow. I'm really sorry. What the ****? Yeah, you know, just hearing those back, that's really out of line, you know, for me. That's just, it's so out of character for me, and I'm just... Overtip messages are the same kind of ****. Well, I mean, I'm really, I'm just really sorry about it. I don't know. You didn't call me back, and I figured, ****, what the hell, you know? Like, we had a really good night night and I thought it was one of those things where, you know, we have sex and then you're out, you're done. I was just pissed. That's all.

Like it was just stupid. I shouldn't have sent those bad texts because I didn't know you lost your phone. Like I just felt like you, you kind of ditched me. That's all. I know. I know all of that, but you just have to understand, like, you know, that was super crazy for me. To get my phone back and to get all that, you know, it kind of threw me through a whirlwind, you know? Well, you have to know it was super crazy for me. I mean, you know, like, we had this great night, we had sex, and then I didn't hear from you. So that felt super crazy. And honestly, I'm saying I'm sorry here. Like, I really

am sorry. I'm saying I'm sorry. You know, like, it's like, f***, man. You know, like, why you don't, like, go on Facebook and send me a Facebook message and say that you lost your phone? Like, that just really sucks. You're like, oh, I just lost my phone. Like,

who the f*** loses their phone? Doesn't everyone need their phone all the time? Amanda, you're doing a bad job apologizing. Or proving that you're out of character in those text messages. Well, what the hell? I called you guys for help here. Yeah. And I said I was sorry. I said I was really apologetic.

Like, can't you understand how this would happen? Like, supposing you go home with someone, you think everything's great, and they have to f***ing call you back. Amanda, we know. We know. No, you're right. You're right. You were very upset, but I'm just saying call you back. Amanda, we know. We know. No, you're right. You're right. You were very upset, but I'm just saying when you're trying to apologize to him right now,

but you're still kind of coming at him like you're mad. Well, I said I was sorry. What else do I have to do? I'm sorry. I apologize. Amanda, do you think that, like, maybe you're not in a good place to be sleeping with people on a first date? I mean, because that's just kind of a...

Well, it wasn't. It didn't feel like a first date because we've been talking on the phone for so long. And, like, you know, we really got to know each other and everything was great. And you have a date, like, who the f***? Like, three-day rule? Like, nobody does that anymore. Everybody pulls back right away.

What the f***? Amanda. Wow. I haven't asked David if he'll go out with you again yet. You've apologized. I apologize. Okay. David, Amanda is saying sorry to you,

and she would like to know if you'll go on a second date with her. I will pay for a second date if you'll go out with Amanda again. Will you do it? What the f*** do you think is so funny? Like, what the hell? Supposing you go home with somebody and nobody f***ing calls you back. It's not funny. And you're being such a d***head anyway with this laughing.

You're a crazy d***. So I guess you guys aren't going to go out again then, huh? No. No f***ing way am I going out with that a**hole again. All right. Amanda, I appreciate your fire, though. I really do. Yeah, wow. Amanda, I appreciate your fire, though. I really do. Passion.

Yeah, spirit. A lot of spirit. I'm just tired of going out with these dickheads who think, oh, I lost my phone. What the fuck? Oh, my God. bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with the Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Dive into John's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment,

sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The OGs of uncensored motherhood are back and badder than ever. I'm Erica. And I'm Mila.

And we're the hosts of the Good Moms Bad Choices podcast, brought to you by the Black Effect Podcast Network every Wednesday. Yeah, we're moms, but not your mommy. Historically, men talk too much. And women have quietly listened. And all that stops here. If you like witty women, then this is your tribe. Listen to the Good Moms Bad Choices podcast every Wednesday.

On the Black Effect Podcast Network, the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you go to find your podcast. I'm Emi Olea, host of the podcast Crumbs. For years, I had to rely on other people to tell me my story. And what I heard wasn't good. You really f***ed last night. It felt like I lived most of my life

in a blackout. I was trapped in addiction. You had to grab the lamp and smash it against the walls. And then I decided I wanted to tell my own story. Listen to Crumbs on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.