Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update PODCAST: Movie Rules

Episode Date: November 16, 2020

Setting ground rules for a first date is pretty normal.... But the woman in today's date may have taken things TOO FAR. Her rules were SO EXTREME that it led to an argument in studio!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Split a cherry Coke. Do a little necking in the back row. Before you know it, you're going steady. Wow, going steady. I haven't heard that in a long time. And you've got yourself a little housewife. They're easy, you know? And that's what one of our listeners, Josh, did for his first date.

He went old-fashioned, took his girl to a simple movie. Isn't that right, Josh? Yeah, kind of. What do you mean kind of? How is that a kind of? Like you either went to the movies or you didn't. We went together, but we didn't go together. Huh?

Not being clear here. You went together, but you didn't? What's this girl's name, first of all? This girl's name is Renee. Okay. Okay. And what do you mean you and Renee kinda went together, but not really? Well, like, long story short, we sat on opposite sides of the theater. Why?

Wait, were you on a date with her? Or is this we're calling somebody you stalked for a couple hours at the movie theater? And so I wore her skin the next day. No, I'm joking. But this was, like, the weirdest date I've ever been on. Okay. So, wait, where did you meet Renee? Sorry, before the movie theater.

I met her on a dating app. Okay. Yeah, blah, blah, blah. But she was, like, so hot. Right. You know, I don't want to sound shallow or whatever, but she was, like, out of my league. No, congrats. We're all proud of you, bro.

Yeah, that's awesome. Thanks, my dude. I got you. Thanks, my dude. So what happened with the movies? Well, when we matched, she messaged me. She was like, okay, we can hang out or whatever. I can get to know you.

But I have really specific rules. Oh. Only hot chicks have specific rules. I know. That's because they can. That's because they can. I never had any rules when I dated for some reason. Women and their conditions.

What were the rules? Well, the first one, she was like, I don't get physical on the first date, and that has to be okay with you. Of course. I mean, that's an understandable rule. I thought it was going to be something crazy, like you have to buy me steak dinner at a certain restaurant. Actually, I think the girls that don't want to get physical on the first date are the most quality women that are holding up. Oh, get out of here.

Oh, bro, come on. I wasn't saying that as a dig at you. I'm just saying. Oh, it's the quality, the ones that don'm just saying. The ones that don't sleep around. The ones that don't like sex. No, it's not boring. It shows that they know their own value and they're not going to give it up on the first day. We're back to her rules.

What were her other rules? Yes. Yeah. Okay. She only had one other rule. Okay. And that was that we should see a movie, but we're not going to watch it in a traditional way she's like i'll meet you in the lobby we'll share a snack for like 15 minutes or whatever and

talk okay and then when we go into the movie we will sit on opposite sides of the theater why she said at the end of the movie if you feel a connection before when we were talking, you walk to the center of the theater and we'll meet up and get a drink. And if not, then you just turn and go down the aisle and we don't have to see each other ever again. But I don't understand. Why even do the movie? Why not just go

get coffee and spend 15 minutes together and then decide if you want to date then? No. I thought it was crazy but i went through with it because i think it could have been worth it okay so she's hot yeah so was it was it worth it no what happened well i met her and we like shared popcorn in the lobby and uh i thought we had a connection we were like laughing and we had a lot of the same interests and stuff all right it was great and then like at one point she looks down at her phone and she's like oh the previews are about to start i guess we should go in

okay yeah you don't want to miss those previews yeah and like before i could even say like oh yeah that sounds good she was already up and walking away that's not a good sign did you i mean like i would been like oh oh, man, I blew it. Well, part of me thought that, and then part of me was like, is this just part of the rules that I don't understand? Maybe you were already hitting it off. She could feel she wanted to kiss you, and she had to leave. It does feel like some weird initiation into a club.

She's trying to be untouchable. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Well, it definitely creates a mystique around her. Like, she obviously doesn't just date any guy and let anything happen. So how did the movie part go? Well, I couldn't even focus on the movie because where we ended up sitting, I could kind of see where she was at. Okay. But I just kept looking at her the whole time.

I was wondering what's going to happen at the end of this movie. I couldn't even have fun and enjoy the movie. Oh, I could totally see that. I mean, that'd be weird. Yeah. What about her, though? Like, what was she doing? She didn't even look over once. movie, I couldn't even have fun and enjoy the movie. Oh, I could totally see that. I mean, that'd be weird. Yeah. What about her, though? What was she doing?

She didn't even look over once. Oh, she didn't? Oh, really? No, not a single time. She could feel your eyes burning into the back of her skull, probably. So by the end of the movie, what happened? So movie ends, credits start rolling. I was kind of peeking over.

You know the lights kind of come up in the theater, like halfway? Yeah. Everybody else is getting up and walking out. I'm looking over peeking over. You know the lights kind of come up in the theater like halfway? Yeah. Everybody else is getting up and walking out. I'm looking over at her, and she hasn't even gotten up yet. The credits are rolling. She's like reading the credits. What were you doing? Was your heart just beating out of your chest? Oh, it was going like 100 miles an hour, and then finally the final credits roll, and then

she just walks right down the aisle and out of the theater. Oh, no. No. Yeah. I mean, are you still interested in this chick? Because I theater. Oh, no! No. Yeah. I mean, are you still interested in this chick? Because I think it's kind of messed up. She's not, Brooke. I mean, my ego is not too big.

I would definitely meet up with her again. Okay. You'll take the abuse. What do you think you did wrong during the movie? I mean, honestly, that's one of the reasons why I called, because I don't know what I did. He couldn't have done anything wrong, really. He threw something at her.

I mean, it sounds like this. Who knows with her, right? It could just be because she was just saying if there's a connection. I mean, what a vague thing to say. But maybe it was a test where she wanted you to come up and break the rules. Oh, God. Like a bad boy. I'm going to tell you right now, stay away from women with tests.

They're all crazy. All women play games broke. You should definitely make sure that your women get tested before you go hang out with them. I do not agree with that. But you know what? We're going to play a song. We'll come back. We'll call Renee for you, and we'll try and get you your second date update.

All right, man? Thank you, guys. All right, hold on. Is it possible to have a long-distance relationship while being in the same room as someone? That's a really funny way to put what happened. I'd say Brooke's about six feet away from me right now. Brooke, are you feeling what I'm feeling? I'm not.

You don't even know what I'm feeling. I just know that I'm not. I'm feeling a little bit weird. Maybe a little bit drunk too. Okay, maybe I am. Maybe. All right. There's something there.

But one of our listeners, Josh, told us he went to the movies with a woman named Renee, and she had some of the most extreme rules and conditions anyone could possibly put forward for a first date. Because she said they were going to meet in the lobby, talk for a few minutes while eating snacks, and then they could go into the movie, but they had to sit on opposite ends of the theater so that they wouldn't have any physical contact because we all know kissing out of wedlock is a sin, and if you do it, you go to H-E double bendy straws. Stop it.

She never said that that was why. She just said that it was part of her rules. She said she wanted no physical contact. Yeah, but it could have been something else. It could have been, I don't know, I think it's a game or she really doesn't like it.

Well, after the film was over, she said if they felt a connection, they could meet up again in the middle of the seats and then go out for a drink. That was the agreement. And Josh was okay with that.

The movie happened, lights came on, and Renee walked out. No explanation for why. And they're sitting waiting for her to decide through all the credits even. And Josh, you guys barely hung out before, right? Like, how long were you together in the lobby before? Couldn't have been longer than 15 minutes.

See? So what could he have done in that time? Have you tried to call Renee? Yeah, I've texted her and tried to call her, and I haven't gotten any response. Oh, my God, I'm really impressed that as she's walking out, you didn't just scream, why? Well, you have that opportunity now

after you hear what she says because we're about to call her. You ready to do this, man? Yeah. I'm nervous. It's like I'm back in the movie theater all over again. This won't be that brutal. It won't be that brutal. Let's dim the lights down like it's in the movie theater all over again. This won't be that brutal. It won't be that brutal. Okay, well, let's dim the lights down like it's in the movies,

and we're going to call her right now. Here we go. Jeff, watch your hands. Hey. Hello? Hi, can I speak to Renee, please? May I ask who's calling? Yeah, my name's Jeffrey from the radio show

Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Who are you? Wow, you really know how to hurt. But my name's Jeffrey. I work on a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. The whole crew is here. Hey, what's up?

Brooke, Jose, Alexis. Yep. Okay, Renee, cool. I'm calling you today because we're doing something called a second date update. Have you ever heard of that before? No. Okay. Well, it's a segment that we do on our show.

And basically the idea is if you go out on a date with someone and afterwards if they're not calling you back you can email us and we'll reach out to that person for you to try and help you figure out the reason why okay i guess i don't know why you're calling me well we're calling you because a guy reached out to us. His name is Josh. Oh. That's not a positive response when we said Josh. Yeah. I take it you remember him? Yeah, I went on a date with him.

It didn't leak anything. That's pretty much the long and short of it. Josh told us all about your date, and I have to be honest, it's one of the weirdest first dates we've ever heard on our show before I mean that's your opinion I just got out of like a really tough relationship and I do have like conditions now because yeah there's a lot of thirsty guys out there and I'm not about that life so I think that's fine but can I ask like what's the point of sitting on opposite sides of the movie theater? Because he told us about that. Like, how do you ever get to know anyone if you don't spend any time with them on a date?

I mean, we spend the 15 minutes together. Like, you know, he was a gentleman. He bought popcorn. Okay, so before the movie, you had a good interaction with him. Yeah, I mean, like, I really wasn't sure if there was a connection i you know we talked it was fine and then he agreed to my conditions which i thought was like a good sign but then i don't know like it just didn't really work out and like you guys don't have to agree with me on my conditions that's just like how i feel like that's just how

i feel comfortable and he agreed to it so there shouldn't be an issue no that's fine like i'm not judging you on your condition. It was just unusual. We've never heard of it before. It's just why after he went through with all of it, I don't think a lot of guys would have gone through that. Why would you walk out without even saying anything to him? Well,

I mean, I wasn't exactly alone in the movie theater. What do you mean? Like other people were watching the movie with you because it's a public theater i mean obviously josh was in the theater too so it couldn't have just been you that's not what i mean uh my brother was there at the movie too actually oh no you said you invite him you set up a spy you know just because like i said i was in a really rough relationship

and just, like, don't want to get hurt like that again. And my brother sat right behind Josh and saw Josh texting and flirting with another woman during our date. Oh, no. Yeah, but, okay, wait. Hold on. How? One, how did your brother see that?

And two, you guys are an exclusive. You've gone on one date and you spent 15 minutes with a man. What, you want him to stop talking to all other women? During the movie, like, I mean, I just think that's super disrespectful and classless. Like, you don't text another woman. The thing is mid-date. Oh, really, Brooke? It wasn't even barely a date.

I don't know. I think texting in the movie theater is rude, period. Do you know what the text, what did the text say? They were just like super flirty to some girl named Andrea. And I was like, you can't refrain from texting other women for like an hour and a half. That's just kind of really shady and gross to me. So I'm not going to deal with that. That's why I walked out.

I mean, it sounds like you got really hurt. This past dude, your ex, really scarred you. But just because he's texting with another person while you're in the same movie theater, I mean, it's not even really a date your guys are on at that point. Yeah, Brooke supports cheating. It's okay.

That's not true. It's okay. Sleep around with whoever you want, whenever you want. But you know who I want to know? I want to know what Josh thinks about all this. Josh. Oh, I need to tell you. Sorry, Renee.

Josh has been on the other line listening. He wants to talk to you. Jeffrey is fired up. Well, I think it's rude. But Josh, what do you think? I do not know how to process this right now. Is it true? Is it true?

It's kind of true. Okay. That means it's true. So wait. I mean, did you notice some dude sitting behind you looking over your shoulder? No. I mean, to be honest, I was pretty fixated on you, Renee, for most of that movie. See? In between texts?

Hey, hold on. I'm a little confused. He's not lying. He literally said, you only turned maybe once. You almost never looked at him, and he knew the exact moment you left his eyes Were on you majority. Yeah, I know when he was tackling Andrea So I just wanna know who Andrea is like don't deny it because I screenshot. Okay It was just one text to my friend Andrea

and I had been talking with her about this date before I went on it and She asked me how the date was going halfway through and I told her I already know that's a lie because you I have multiple screenshots of multiple texts and you send your friends who are all kissy faces and winky faces and eggplant emojis no I don't think so though dude that is so weird oh now it's weird, Brooke. No, not Josh. Hersh. Your brother is screen grabbing somebody else's cell phone? You can't spy on people during a date. I mean, Josh, are you upset or not? Yeah. I mean, that's super invasive.

I think that your brother's... I mean, you shouldn't be texting other women during a date. I think that's really crazy. Well, you were sitting on the other side of the screen. So, I guess I agreed. So, what am I supposed to do? Twiddle my thumbs and wait for you to come over and sweep me off my feet what i mean just honestly just be honest with me like did you meet this andrea girl on the same dating site you met me yes oh but we went on like one

date and we immediately were like there's no connection wasn't romantic and then we went out a couple more times as friends yeah oh. I don't know, man. It's too much for me here. I just still think that's weird that you texted her during our date. Like, that just makes me feel like if you're willing to do that, then you'd be willing to cheat on me. So, like. This is so tough. I can't believe we're not concentrating on the spy brother more.

No. Okay. Well, I'm focused on Renee and her feelings. Specifically, Renee, if you feel like going out on one more date with Josh, because we'll pay for it. I have to ask that. I'm so sorry. I'm obligated to ask you if you'd like to see him again. I think

probably not. I already don't trust this person, so it's kind of a moot point to go out again. Josh, what do you feel? I am glad that I don't have to be watched again. I don't think I could go out with Renee and feel comfortable. Yeah.

Okay, what about Andrea? Would you like to go out with Andrea one more time? I mean, look, now that everything's out in the open, I was going out with Andrea a couple times. Oh, gosh. Josh, don't do me like that. Yeah, see, I could tell. I knew this guy was shady and rude.

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