Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update PODCAST: My Ex-BF’s Wedding

Episode Date: February 12, 2014

Normally going to your ex-boyfriend's wedding wouldn't be a great idea... but Brianna did it and actually met ANOTHER DUDE that she really liked. So why isn't she getting a call back after their night together? Listen to the Second Date Update! (Image Courtesy: ZakVTA. Creative Commons)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I don't think it's a big secret that a great place to meet women is at a wedding. Emotions are running high. It's all about love. It's a perfect place to catch a fish if you're a fisherman. And that's where Brianna met this guy named Christian. Right, Brianna?

Yes. It was a really good story. And everybody's so happy at weddings. That's what's so great about it. The energy is positive. It's kind of like a desperate happy too sometimes. Yeah, Brianna's story is a little awkward. Why don't you go ahead and tell everybody what your email said?

Yeah, I actually wasn't happy that day. Not on purpose. I mean, I was really happy for them, but the wedding was, it was the wedding of my ex-boyfriend. Oh, no. We hadn't been together in a long time, and we were really good friends. I mean, I was still, like, it's still just hard because it's like, okay, he found his person, and he's getting married, but then I haven't. So, you know, it was like mixed feelings. So I was a little emotional that day.

Yeah. I've gone to a wedding of an ex-girlfriend. Me too. Yeah, and it's a weird experience. It's not a good idea. No, I had fun. I thought it was awesome. The only thing that bothered me was when, in her vows, she said,

you're the best man I've ever known to that guy. And I was like, wait a second. We know each other. Did you object? Pretty well, yeah. That's when I said, I'm right here. So you were feeling pretty down watching your ex-boyfriend get married? Well, I was okay, but yeah, I mean, it was the ceremony itself when they exchanged vows.

That is the hardest part, actually. And I didn't think it would bother me, but it did kind of get to me. So I was crying a little bit, but I was off by myself because, obviously, I didn't want anybody to really, you know, know that I was upset. And this guy just comes out of nowhere. His name's Christian. You know, he was so nice, and he made me feel so much better. And we ended up hanging out and having just an awesome time together. Did you tell him that it was your ex and that's why you were upset,

or did you just say, you know, love really chokes me up? It wasn't like I was pining away from him. He knew the situation. He knew that we hadn't been together in, you know, years. It wasn't like, oh, I still love my ex. It was more of a, you know, I haven't found my person. So I'm assuming after you guys hung out at the wedding and everything else, you guys spent the night together.

So, it usually happens, right? What? No. No? Not one of those. Oh, come on. Did you do anything with him? No credit. Did you kiss him? We kissed one time. Okay. But then we hung out after that and it was nothing major. It was nice.

It wasn't No And you're still wondering Why he's not calling you back huh Oh Jewel Come on dude And how did it end Between you guys So you kissed

And then what No then we were I mean we were still Hanging out after that But then he had to leave Suddenly You know his He was with his friends

They were driving So when they wanted to go He had to go But he did ask for my number He was supposed to give me his number too but i didn't have my cell phone on me so i was like whatever he'll call me but then he never did so what'd you do then if he hadn't called you how'd you find him that's the thing i was like okay well you know maybe he's busier playing it cool but he never called so

often about a week and a half which I thought was enough time to give him, I was really embarrassed, but I just didn't understand because we got along so well. So I asked my ex, which is so embarrassing, but I asked him if I could have his number. I don't think that's embarrassing. That could be cool. He's already married. I mean, yeah, he's taken. But, I mean, it's still kind of an awkward conversation.

Like, hey, we used to be together, but your buddy is super hot. Can I get those numbers? It's proof that you weren't, like, totally distraught at his wedding. Well, whatever. He's married. He had just gotten back to his honeymoon. He was good. He was in good spirit.

So he gave you his buddy's number, and did you call him? I texted him, and it was just like, hey, remember me from the wedding? I hope you don't mind. No response. Did you tell him where you got the number? Well, yeah. Okay. I was going to say, if I just got a text message like, hey, remember me, and I never gave you my number, I'd be like, that's weird.

If you said, I got your number from your friend, then that makes it a little less. No, I'm not like a creepy stalker. Okay. All right. We're going to play a song, come back, and get your second date update, okay? All right, hang on. Moving 92.5.

Brooke and Jubal in the Morning. Second date update. You know, Brianna, the more that I think about it, the more that I think you may have just creeped Christian out, the guy that you want

to get a hold of. How? Well, I just feel like because you met him at a wedding, he got your your number he didn't get a hold of you and then you went through different sources and channels and talked to your ex who is a friend of his to get his number and then just texted him out of the blue like maybe you should have called him and maybe explained how you got the number better so i'm gonna go ahead and guess

that's why he's not calling you back but why didn't he call me in the first place? Okay, that's too many questions. Stop making good points, all right? You weren't crying over your ex at his wedding. Well, he didn't have to hang out with me all night. Yeah, that's true. If you're just tuning in to the Second Date Update, Brianna wants us to call Christian. She met him at her ex-boyfriend's wedding. They kissed.

At the end of the night, he got her number but has never called her. She finally asked her ex, who is Christian's buddy, for Christian's number, texted him, and hasn't heard anything back. You ready to give him a call? Yes.

Okay, we're going to call him right now, okay? Okay, thanks. Hello? Hey, is this Christian? Yeah. Christian, what's up, man? How are you?

This is Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the Morning on Movie 92.5. What? Yeah. How you doing? Who are you, dude? Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the Morning on the radio station Movie 92.5. We have a morning show. Why are you calling me?

I wanted to call you to talk about a mutual friend that we have, a girl named Brianna. Brianna? Yeah. You met her at a wedding a little while ago. It was your buddy's wedding. Oh, that chick. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Oh. Is it a friend of yours? Not really a friend of mine. Oh. Friend of mine, yeah. Friend of mine. She says that you guys hung out that night, and you ended up getting her number but never called her.

Is there something that she said that was wrong? No, she didn't say anything wrong. You know, I like her. She's cute, but, you know, just, I don't know. I kind of, no, it's not going to work. Christian, I mean, you just sound really negative and a little almost angry right now. I'm not angry or negative just because I don't understand why y'all are calling me.

We went out. We didn't even go out. We met at the wedding. We hung out. We made out. We get all that, that it was just a one-night thing or whatever, but she liked you and would like to see you again, and she's just wondering why you won't call her back. That's all.

I don't know. I kind of talked to my boy about it, the guy that she went out with, and let's just say he illuminated me, and that was it. You mean the groom? Yeah, the groom. Her ex-boyfriend, that's who you talked to about her, obviously.

Yeah, that's who we have in common. I was hoping that not more of her exes were also at the wedding. You're like, she knew every dude at the wedding. What did your buddy say about her? I mean, they're friends, right? Yeah, obviously they're still friends. She was at his wedding. So did he say something about her that made you not want to call her?

You know, he told me about their relationship. And she wasn't, she's not exactly a tomcat in the sack, if you catch my drift. Oh, she's boring. He said she's bad in bed? Yeah, he kind of said that. Wow. That's a deal breaker. Yeah.

It's not only that she's bad, it's that she's super boring. Like, he was like... Wow. He didn't have to conjure up images to keep it happening he had to conjure up images to keep it you know what i'm saying yeah okay hey christian brianna's actually on the other line right now brianna go ahead she is not brianna say hi that's why you didn't call me well look i consider myself quite adroit in the skills of the bedroom. And I didn't necessarily want to have to teach someone, but it's not like you need teaching.

I think you just need... Okay, let me tell you something. Obviously, he doesn't want me dating you. Because if you actually knew anything about our relationship, the entire thing was based on Seth. Oh! He said I was the best thing he ever had like who he's with now doesn't compare to that which is what's so horrible which is why I was crying which by the way you don't even deserve

to get any now anyways so it's your loss I mean he and I have been around the block a couple times I sort of know his, let's say, proclivities. And I mean, why would he not want us to get together? He's obviously married. Oh my gosh, you know what? Keep walking around the block, both of you, because now I'm pissed. Good for you. I'm pissed at both of you.

Like, he's supposed to be my friend. Like, why would, I actually went to his wedding. And you're just a loser, the fact that you would even listen to something like that and not even, like, find out for yourself. You're pathetic. loser, the fact that you would even listen to something like that and not even, like, find out for yourself. You're pathetic. Oh, wow. Okay.

Brianna, Brianna, what are you more upset about, the fact that you've been called bad in bed or the fact that you think that your ex is trying to block you from dating his friend? Well, now I'm just pissed at the fact that I was so good in bed but obviously not worth staying with forever. Oh, jeez. Don't let me date somebody new. Christian, she sounds really fiery. I think that her ex might have been lying about it. Yeah, this is making me rethink my old... Brianna, why don't we just...

I don't know. Why don't we just try to figure this out over some cordials? Yes, I love it. Brianna, you must have been the one that dumped your ex. Am I right? It's a long story. Well, make it short.

We're on the radio. Well, I made him feel bad because I made him only about sex. Like, that was what the whole thing was. You used him. Like, I was in a bad phase where I was doing that to guys, like making them worthless except for sex. I was on. Like, I was in a bad phase where I was doing that to guys, like making them worthless at stuff for sex. I was on, like, a revenge thing. So now I'm even more pissed because this guy,

Christian, I thought you were really nice, but really it is just about that, which you'll never get, by the way. Well, why don't you kind of take out your anger on me? Oh, yeah, it could be therapeutic. Maybe I would have, had you actually played your cards

right instead of being a complete s*** about it. Look, hey, you guys are... Christian, you're not angry. You're just trying to defend yourself, but Brianna, you're angry right now. I think that you two really... I want you two to get together more than any second date ever. No, but the sex is gonna be amazing. Listen to them. They're so

angry with each other. It's gonna be wonderful. We'll pay for a second date with you guys.'ll go look at all the trouble you went to this information you're like encyclopedia brown let's go let's figure this out in person i'm just i don't even know what's going on like i called about this really nice guy that i had met that's not a nice guy at all i'm still a nice guy i mean i mean, I'm Santa Claus. No, you're not. You're not. No girl wants a guy that, like, doesn't find out stuff for himself, that, like, follows people. A woman wants a leader.

Yeah. Christian. You're not a man. You're a little boy. Christian, you could have at least tested it out and then found out if it was more than that. It's like taking a car on a test drive. You know what I mean? You've got to figure out how much you really like it.

You should have done that. You are worth more than that, and I think that you just stand your ground, girlfriend. Brianna, would you like to go out with Christian again? Please. I think Christian's into it now. No, never. No, Christian.

Good for you, Brianna. Never. I would destroy him into pieces anyways. He would not be able to handle me. Oh! Yeah, girl. Okay, I think you have no idea what you can handle when you know you have something to handle i love her

broken jubile in the morning john stewart is back at the daily show and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with the daily show ears edition Dive into John's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The forces shaping markets and the economy are often hiding behind a blur of numbers.

So that's why we created The Big Take from Bloomberg Podcasts, to give you the context you need to make sense of it all. Every day in just 15 minutes, we dive into one global business story that matters. You'll hear from Bloomberg journalists like Matt Levine. A lot of this meme stock stuff is, I think, embarrassing to the SEC. Follow The Big Take podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen. People, my people, what's up? This is Questlove.

Man, I cannot believe we're already wrapping up another season of Questlove Supreme. Man, we've got some amazing guests lined up to close out the season, but, you know, I don't want any of you guys to miss all the incredible conversations we've had so far. I mean, we talked to A. Marie, Johnny Marr, E., Jonathan Schechter, Billy Porter, and so many more. Look, if you haven't heard these episodes yet, hey, now's your chance. You've got to check them out. Listen to Questlove Supreme on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.