Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update PODCAST: Netflix and Bore?

Episode Date: November 22, 2016

Today's Second Date update was another classic case... of "Netflix and Chill" Gone Wrong... One of our listeners needs help after his date came over to watch TV with him and he hasn't heard from her since. What was the problem? Find out in the podcast!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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One thing I've learned from doing these second date updates over and over again is sometimes you shouldn't put too much effort into a first date. We hear stories about guys doing way too much and then not getting a call back. But it's also possible to not do enough. There's a sweet spot when it comes to effort on a date.

That is true. And Adam is on the phone today to do a second date update. He thinks that he got the latter. He thinks he didn't do enough for his first date, and now he's not getting a call back. What's up, Adam? Hey, guys. How's it going? Good, good.

So reading your email, it sounds like you don't know how to plan for anything at all. Not always the biggest on following through on stuff. It's good. By the way, if I could just say I'm a huge fan of the show. I really like it quite a bit. Appreciate it, man. I don't. I don't enjoy it that much.

I agree with you, Jibble. I'm with you. I'm a fan of it. Yeah. Jose likes it. Okay. Well, thank you for your email. The girl that you want to call today,

what's her name? Stephanie. Stephanie. Tell us a little bit about Stephanie then. Stephanie is just really cool. I met her. She's taller than me. I don't know if that has anything to do with it. That's the one quality you bring up about Stephanie when you have to describe her. That's awesome though. Are you like me? I like dating tall girls. I'm a short

guy and I love girls taller than me. Do you like taller girls? Yeah, man. I'm a good climber. Awesome. I'm a good climber. So am I. I'm not.

All right. So you met Stephanie, this tall girl, where? I met her at a bar. I had gone out with some folks. Yeah. And basically, she was introduced to me by a mutual friend. Okay. Uh-huh.

And we talked, and it was really cool. I think we really kind of hit it off in the bar, mainly because it was just a mutual friend. Okay. And we talked, and it was really cool. I think we really kind of hit it off in the bar, mainly because it was just a terrible bar. Like, we were kind of laughing at how crappy the bar was. So did you ask her out on a date, or was just hanging out at the bar that night is what you're considering the first date? No, that wasn't the date.

I eventually asked her out, but it kind of, like, snuck up on me because we were talking, having a good time, and it was, that wasn't the date. I eventually, I asked her out, but it kind of like snuck up on me because we were talking, having a good time, and it was like time to go. And so I just, I did the last second, hey, can I get your number? We exchanged numbers. And then, you know, we texted after that. Most of our conversations were kind of text. And then eventually that's when I asked her if she kind of wanted to come over to my place and maybe watch TV. What? Are you kidding me?

Hey, big first date plans. Want to come watch TV? No, you don't do that with a girl. Like, if you're really excited about somebody, you sound like you were into this chick. I was. Actually, I wanted to. So I love this TV show on AMC called Turn. Have you guys seen that?

No. Okay, it's kind of geeky. It's like a Revolutionary War show. Oh, man. Are you telling me that this girl that you met that you thought was awesome, you invited her over to watch a little bit of a Revolutionary War documentary? Wow. I mean, if I'm into it and then she's into it, that seems like it would be a good fit.

I guess, yeah. I think your problem is how old was she? How old was she? Yeah. I think she's like probably in her like mid to late 20s. Yeah, you need to be like 60-year-olds. Sounds like for your interests. I've definitely seen some candidates, but I'm not there yet. So what was her response when she figured out that you didn't have anything else planned that night is what it sounds like to me, like no dinner, no nothing.

Well, first of all, that's not entirely true. I made a bunch of snacks because I like to not get up. How do you even make snacks? What, you cut cheese and put some crackers on a plate? Oh, well, no, it's just stuff in a jar. I mean, I opened a few dips, and I get scoops because it was a date, so I got some fancy.

You know a guy likes you when he pulls out the scoops. Yeah, I want to eat as much dip as you can, girl. How did the evening go then, once she got to your place and you guys watched TV with all your snack foods? Well, I'll be completely honest. I don't think she was stoked when she walked in and she realized that we weren't going out from there.

But she filled in. She ended up liking the TV show. I think she was asking me questions about it. We're in the second season now. And so the show itself has kind of evolved. The characters, there was basically these three main characters that the show started out with. Are we talking about your date now or are we just breaking down the show? Oh, sorry.

We just got so into the show, like so quick, and we were just binge-watching all these episodes, and then next thing you know, it's like 1 a.m., and she's like, I've got to go because I've got work, and I was like, oh my gosh, I can't believe we just watched so much of this. It was great, obviously. At least she was into the show

right yeah right she liked it yeah and i felt like we were kind of cuddled up on the couch and and she was asking questions and enjoying it but then you know she had to go pretty quick and that's actually the part that i'm concerned about because it felt weird i didn't want to like go in for a kiss right there at the door because it was like she was off the couch and she had to get home so she'd get some rest for work and now here we are. Like, I don't know where to go from here. You're telling me hours of television watching and you didn't even kiss her once?

Well, I mean, there was a lot of stuff happening in the story that had not been happening previously. Yeah, I feel you on that, man. I'm the same way with Downton Abbey. Don't try to touch my fun stuff when I'm watching Downton Abbey. Hands off.

How long has it been since you heard from her? It's been like a week now, and I haven't heard back from her. I texted some more, and look, there's new episodes that have come online. You just invite her back to watch more TV? Is that your plan?

Well, she liked it. I guess that's kind of why we're here, because maybe she's not calling me back because it was like a boring date. I feel kind of like maybe I made a wrong choice. Yeah. Well, we'll play a song, come back, call her, and get your second date update, okay? Okay. All right, man. Hold on. Moving 92.5.

Brooke and Jubal in the morning. Second date update. 2.5 Brooke and Jubal in the morning Second Date Update If you're just joining us for today's second date update Adam is on the phone and his first date was action packed with muskets and cannons and over

600,000 people died on his first date. How did that happen? Well, he decided to invite a girl named Stephanie to his house and watch a Civil War documentary. I believe it was Revolutionary War, so I need you to get that straight. I'm sure he'll be upset about it. Adam, is it revolutionary or civil? It's definitely revolutionary.

Revolutionary. Sorry about that. Okay. Well, whatever. That's exactly what Adam decided to do on his first date. Now he thinks he's not getting a call back because it was a boring date and he should have maybe gone to dinner and just done the regular date thing instead of inviting her over to just watch TV for a little while.

Yeah, that's pretty much it. Now, if she does actually want to go out with you again, do you have bigger plans or are you just planning on watching the next season of this show that you're so into with her? You know what? I don't think I'll make the same mistake twice. Okay. Okay. Yeah, you go through all this, you get a second date, and then just do the same thing.

Just go, yeah, we're going to come over. I forgot. I should mention you did have snacks. You made sure to point that out when we first talked to you. I mean, I'm no slacker, but I think I could do better. All right. I'm going to dial her phone number right now and get her on the phone and find out if that is, in fact, the problem. Okay?

Thank you. I appreciate this, guys. Yep. You're welcome. Hello? Hi. Is this Stephanie? This is she.

Hey, Stephanie. How are you? This is Jubal. I host a morning show called Brooke and Jubal in the Morning. Okay. Nice to meet you. I'm sorry. Why are you calling?

I'm calling because I was wondering if I could talk to you about something real quick. One of our listeners sent an email about you and asked if we could get you on the phone. Okay, that sounds really weird. I'm actually at work, so is this important? I think it's important. If you have just like a few minutes, I would appreciate it. Okay, let me just close my door for just a sec. Thanks.

Okay, so why are you calling again? Well, we recently got an email to the show about someone who you have gone on a date with. Okay. So what is it? Why are you calling him again? Well, we recently got an email to the show about someone who you have gone on a date with. His name is Adam. And Adam has been trying to get a hold of you because he'd like to go on another date, but you haven't returned any of his phone calls. So he asked us if we could get you on the phone and find out if you didn't like your first date with him. Well, I wouldn't really call it a date.

Yeah. Watching TV isn't a date to you? How do you know about that? Because we talk to Adam. Before we make these kind of phone calls, we always talk to the person, and we asked him about your date, and he told us how he just sort of invited you over to watch some TV. Well, if you talk to him, you should know what happened.

Was it just not enough? I definitely can't think it was a good date. He did tell us that he thinks he screwed up by planning a date to do nothing but watch TV, but he also said that he liked you a lot. That matters. Well, he didn't even talk to me. Oh, you mean like he was watching his show the whole time? He did seem like he was super into

that show. Yeah, I mean, it was all very confusing because he texted me, do you want a Netflix and chill? And I've been dating long enough to know what that means. And we hit it off and he was really cute. So I was down and went over there. But maybe he doesn't know what it means. Maybe he thinks it means watching Netflix.

So you were prepared to Netflix and chill in the traditional meaning of it. Yeah. And he actually just wanted to Netflix. Yes. The whole thing was super, super weird. Was it weird or was it just that he's like a little naive and that's almost kind of cute, right? It would have been cute, but it went on for like six hours. You were there for six hours?

Yes. We watched like six hours of this and we kept watching i kept thinking is he gonna make the move is he gonna make the move there were even parts where characters were kissing and i thought oh you know this is it we were like definitely netflixing but there was no chill part by the way it was also season two so i had no idea what was going on and every time like i would sort of ask you know to clarify something that was happening By the way, it was also season two. So I had no idea what was going on. And every time I would sort of ask, you know, to clarify something that was happening, he would just shush me.

So you were there prepared to not watch TV at all if it came down to it. And he was so into the show and shushing you when you tried to talk to him that it was a turnoff. Yeah, I tried really hard to and i don't the whole thing was such a oh like it was i just didn't understand what was happening so but you were attracted to him going into this where i would have been almost even more attracted to him because he was so i don't know innocent he wasn't ignoring her he just maybe He didn't have the same plans as you You know I do get that I mean I'm not

It's not like I'm disappointed We didn't hook up And then not talk again Like I I do get that Because you don't see Netflix And chill And then not make a move

I agree with you on that I guess if you're gonna say Netflix and chill You should follow through And try to make a move on somebody. Yeah. I mean, I just figured he wasn't into me, and so that's why I'm not really responding. But, again, it's not like he called me, which would show me that he liked me.

Right. He would just text me, that was really fun. You know, we should, like, watch the rest of the episode. Oh, my gosh. Yeah, his definition of fun is definitely different than yours. Well, he does want to talk to you. Well, that's great. Then he can call me.

He kind of is because he's actually on the other line listening. Wait, what? Yeah. Adam, you there? He's on the other line, like on hold, or he heard our conversation? No, he was listening the whole time. Hey, Stephanie, how's it going? I don't even...

Well, I mean, honestly, I'm embarrassed. I didn't know what Netflix and chill meant. What? What? I don't know why they say that. They should call it Netflix and do stuff. Are you kidding? None of your guy friends have told you what that means? Well, no.

I've heard of the term a million times. I thought that it actually just watch Netflix and then chill out. No, it means much more than that, Adam. Adam, I haven't even been in the dating world in forever because I'm an old married lady, and I even know what that is. Well, I'm sorry. I guess you're better than me. I just didn't know that.

I didn't know what it meant. That's kind of sweet. I'm so sorry you didn't just ask me out on a date. I'm so sorry. This isn't the type of thing. I wanted to ask you on a date, and honestly, I thought if I invited you to take part in something that i really knew a lot about and liked that it would it would show you more that i just have interest i don't know i for some reason i just got in front of myself and i should have i should have asked you to dinner i don't care about dinner i just want to like come over and hook up with you

that's what netflix is showing chill is. She's direct. You missed out on a big opportunity, Adam. No, I know. And next time, if you would want to go out with me again, if you wanted Netflix and chill, I promise, no minute. Well, Stephanie, would you like to Netflix and chill with Adam the real way you're supposed to do it?

Normally, I always pay for people to go on a second date update. I guess I'll pay for his Netflix subscription for the month. That would be awesome. Stephanie, would you like to go out with Adam again? Well, Adam, you missed your chance for Netflix and chill. So if you do want to go out again, you can take me to dinner and, you know, we can see how it goes. It will probably be about, I don't know, four months until we can Netflix and chill again. So now you have to work for it, Adam.

I'm totally okay with that, and I would love to buy you dinner. And if for some reason you could ever find it within your heart to want to Netflix and chill again. Okay, well, how about just call me and go out again. Well, hey, successful second date update Congratulations Adam You got your second date Thank you guys so much

And a little thing called Urban Dictionary Before you use any phrases with people Figure out what they are It's Brooke and Jubal in the morning I didn't know how many people Didn't know what Netflix and chill meant I'm talking about today's second date update This guy Adam wanted to call a girl named Stephanie Jubal in the morning. I didn't know how many people didn't know what Netflix and chill meant. We're talking about today's second date update. This guy Adam wanted to call a girl named Stephanie who wasn't

calling him back. We found out that she wasn't calling him back because he invited her to come watch some Netflix. He said Netflix and chill, but he didn't know that Netflix and chill actually means Netflix and let's kind of mess around a little bit. So they actually just watched Netflix and she thought maybe he wasn't interested.

And we all thought he was ridiculous. Like, how could you not know what that is? But we're getting a lot of text messages in at 78592 saying they had no idea what Netflix and chill meant. A text that said, I found out what Netflix and chill meant from my 14-year-old daughter when I unknowingly asked her

if she wanted to Netflix and chill with me. Oh, no. Come on. That's embarrassing. No, it's gotten to the point where I've literally asked her, I was like, hey, you wanted to Netflix and chill with me. Oh, no. Mom, that's embarrassing. No, it's gotten to the point where I've literally asked her, I was like, hey, you want to Netflix and chill sometime? And they're like, why don't we start, like, coffee first? Can we just, like, go on an actual date? They know what it means.

But a lot of people are texting in at 78592, like, I just went to Urban Dictionary and learned a new phrase. Well, I thought everybody knew what that meant. I guess I was wrong. I guess I got to stop asking my mom to Netflix and chill. Oh, God. I think she already understood what that meant. I guess I was wrong. I guess I gotta stop asking my mom to Netflix and chill. Oh, God. I think she already understood what that meant,

though. She does, and she knows that I mean it in the real way. Oh, God. Remember, if you want a second date update, just email the show

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