Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update PODCAST: Organ Moaner

Episode Date: January 18, 2017

One of our listeners met a women at a museum when he was taking his children on a visit. He was so impressed by her bonding with his children that he asked her on a date! Everything was going great until she got SERIOUSLY angry, so angry she wouldn't even hug him at the end of the night! And now he needs our help finding out where it all went wrong...See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Uh-oh. He's a single dad. And I've always wanted to be a single dad. You don't want kids ever. You hate children. But being a single dad is great because you get all the joys of having a kid or whatever. But you only have to do it like every other weekend. Oh, you're talking about like a divorced dad. And then

you usually get a lot of McDonald's. I see. Because that's usually where you do the meet up to exchange kids and stuff. So you're always getting McDonald's. So it's like children light is what you're saying. Yeah, yeah. That's the way to do it if you're going to do fatherhood. That's what I've heard at least. His name is Kevin. Kevin, what's up? Hey, how are you guys

doing? Pretty good. Is it as romantic as he describes it, being a single dad? Well, I have to say, I do try to throw in some vegetables every once in a while. Oh, yeah. Well, for them, I guess, but yeah. You get McDonald's at least twice a month. That's fun. It's got to be done.

It's got to be done or they'll buy it. Your email said that you're a single dad. You don't date very much. So you were really excited to go on this date. Yeah, it's been quite a while, actually. And, you know, I mean, I guess I'm out of practice. I don't really know how to do that anymore, date. So the way I met this girl was pretty cool.

I was taking my kids to the Natural History Museum. Good dad. Never mind. Hey, forget to the Natural History Museum. Good dad. Never mind. Hey, forget what I said about being a single dad. That sounds terrible. Torture. Dinosaurs and stuff. It's like perfect. Okay, never mind. I'm back on board. Sounds great. Alright.

So you were at the History Museum with your kids and that's where you met her? Yeah, because we were part of a tour and my kid asked me something about, I don't even remember now, it was something about dinosaurs, and I was searching for the answer, and I couldn't come up for it. And Stephanie, that's this girl's name, she stepped in, and she completely knew all these answers, and of course, both of my kids totally fell for her right there. And I thought that was pretty cool. So we got to talking a little bit and i don't know i guess flirting i think it was flirting well i assume if you guys went on a date it was flirting

okay yes thank you i just don't recognize it anyway so we did start talking and at the end of our time in the museum i um i told the kids to sort of go over there for a minute. Yeah, you distracted them with something shiny? Daddy needs a moment. I did. I said, look at those skeletons over there, and I pushed them that way. Check out those bones over there. Daddy's going to try to get a bone of his own.

Oh, right. Oh, God. How long have you been waiting to work in a bone joke? Three minutes. Uh-huh. But I did tell her, you know, I don't normally do this, but I asked her if she would like

to go out with me. That's so cute. Nice. You sound cute and nervous and it sounds lovely. Yeah. So I got her number and we made a plan

and... Where'd you go? We went to this nice restaurant and we were having a good time and then something sort of awkward happened.

Okay, how far into the date were you when the awkward thing happened? Well, unfortunately, it was kind of at the beginning. Because we were waiting for our table at the bar, and we were ordering drinks. And the bartender carded us, which was kind of funny. And you're not 21. No. You're not of age. So I was flattered, I guess.

And he took our IDs and then he handed them back to us, but he like switched them up. So I had hers. Uh-huh. She had mine. Okay. So what's awkward about that? Because the picture on my ID is like three years ago and I weighed at least 90 pounds more than I do now.

Okay. So did it even look like you on your ID? I can barely recognize myself in that ID. Yeah. You know what I mean? Like I got this big ugly beard and I just, it wasn't a good time. Okay. Yeah, totally.

Why would that be awkward though? I mean. Because she sort of looked at it and then she looked at me and she was like, is this you? Kind of, you know, and I was like, yeah. And I went into the whole story about, you know, what was going on. And I don't know. I mean, she just seemed sort of shaken up by that. I mean, I don't look like that anymore.

If anything, I would feel like she'd be impressed that you were improving yourself and doing what you needed to do to feel good about yourself. Yeah, me too. And that's generally been the reaction. It's like, good for you for losing weight and getting healthier again. And that actually made her angry, I guess. And I never asked. I mean, I assumed that she was a single mom as well that you met at the History Museum. No, no, no, no, no. She doesn't have kids, but. Oh, she doesn't have kids. No, she doesn't have kids. But I mean, that was one of the things that I thought was really cool, is, like, she seemed really cool with my kids. I mean, she got along with them really well, you know, at the museum.

And I'm biased, but my kids are pretty cool, and they were entertaining her, so that seemed like it was not going to be a problem, which is a huge deal. Yeah, it would be different if you let her know that you had kids on the date and she didn't know that going into the date. Then you could be like, well, maybe she's not coming back because of that. Right. No, that's not it. She totally got along with them.

So how did the date end? Well, okay. So we finished dinner and I was walking to her car and I said goodnight. I had a really great time and I tried to give her a hug, just a hug. And she sort of like backed away. What? Backed away from a hug? Yeah.

And did she say anything about it? I made some like joke about like what, like too fast or something. And she sort of said, yeah. And then she said, well, okay, bye. And then she said well okay bye and then she left i mean how dare you think i'd hug you on the first date i mean i uh i wasn't gonna try to kiss her but i thought anyways i i don't know i am super confused because you know i called her

left her message and told her i had a great time. And in the back of my mind, I'm thinking, wow, she thinks I'm a creep or something. But I couldn't quite tell, right? So I called her, and I texted her, and there's just nothing. Nothing. No response. No response at all. And that sucks. It's like your first foray back into dating, and you get denied a hug.

I know. It started out so great at the museum. I guess I'm asking you guys, what do you think happened? I'm super confused. The dating game has changed a lot. People don't hug anymore. You can get a disease that way.

Sorry, you didn't know that. We already figured it out. No need to make the phone call. I have no idea what it could be. We'll play a song, come back, call her and get your second date update, all right? Okay, thank you. Okay, hold on.

Moving 92.5. Brooke and Jubal in the morning's second date update. If you're just joining us for today's second date update, Kevin is on the phone and he wants to call a girl named Stephanie. We think the reason Stephanie's not calling him back is because Kevin decided to do the unthinkable in his life and get healthy. Oh, yeah. Lost a bunch of weight,

started eating better, feels better than he ever has before, except now, sure, you can run more, but you can't run after love, can you? Can't catch love. Can't run that fast, Kevin. I was trying. Yeah, you got winded, buddy. If you missed the first part, Kevin told us about the date that he went on. They went out and had dinner, and the bartender asked

them for their IDs at one point, and he showed his ID, and he looks a lot different in his ID, because how many pounds heavier were you? 90. 90 pounds heavier. Substantial. And so he's lost a lot of weight, and after that point, her mood toward him changed. It's almost like she got angry at you. I mean, she didn't get angry. You know, I thought the date went really well, actually, after we got over that initial ID thing. And I thought it was fun until, you know, she refused to hug me at the end. Yeah.

Getting shut down for a hug. Yikes. To me would say she was kind of angry with you about something. Maybe. I guess that's what I need you guys to find out for me. All right, well, I'm going to dial her phone number right now, see if we can get her on the phone and find out what happened, okay? Okay.

All right, here we go. Hello? Hi, I was looking for Stephanie. Yeah, this is Stephanie. Hey, Stephanie, this is Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the Morning. I'm sorry, who's this? Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the Morning. It's a radio show. What is this in regards to?

Well, it's in regards to an email that we got into the show, and the email was about you. What do you mean? Well, you recently went out on a date with a guy named Kevin. Yeah, I did. Who wants to know? Kevin does, because he told us about your date, sent us an email, because now you're not calling him back, and wanted to see if we could figure out if something went wrong. All right, is this going to take a long time?

Because I only want to talk about this. No, we can get you off the phone pretty quickly. He just wants to know because he really enjoyed going out with you. He said that he thought you had a really good time and he's tried to call you and text you. And I guess he's getting nothing in return. I can save you a lot of time. Just tell him I'm not interested. OK? Whoa. I know you don't have a lot of time right now, but he seems like a really nice guy. He hadn't been on a date. Yeah. Yeah. OK, sure. He's not a nice guy. He hadn't been on a date. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Sure.

He's not a nice guy. Uh, no, no, he's not. Really? Cause he came off as like an awesome guy who has some kids and yeah. Yeah. That's what I thought initially. That's why I decided to go out with him. But I found out that that was not the case. What did he do? Look, I don't really want to do this. Um, I'm just not interested in Kevin. I don Look, I don't really want to do this. I'm just not interested in Kevin. I don't really want to go into it. Okay, so you sound upset at Kevin. Yeah, yeah, I am.

Well, now is the perfect time to at least state your case and get it off your chest. And if Kevin's doing something that you think is terrible, now's your opportunity to tell Kevin whatever you want. Okay. something that you think is terrible now's your opportunity to tell kevin whatever you want um okay um so we were at the bar and we were getting drinks and we got carded and there was this mix up with the ids he got my id i got his id and i took a look at it and his id was a huge turn off right away is that because so he told us that your attitude sort of changed after you saw the ID? Are you saying because he was 90 pounds heavier? No, no, that wasn't it. Oh, my God, because I had so many mean words about you in my head if that was going to be the case.

No, no, no, that was not the case. But I noticed that he's not an organ donor. Okay. And? And that's terrible. Are you serious? That's incredibly selfish. So that's the reason? Yes.

You don't want to go out with him again because he hasn't elected to donate his organs after he dies? That's exactly why. Oh my gosh. I don't appreciate you laughing about this. This is very serious. Alright, well, that's Jose laughing. Oh, my gosh. I don't appreciate you laughing about this. This is very serious. All right, well, that's Jose laughing. He laughs at everything, so it's fine. Death included.

It does. I don't appreciate it. Honestly, though, to me, it does seem kind of trivial to not want to go out with a person again because they're not an organ donor. Look, I would understand if he was like a young guy i didn't know better but this is a guy who has kids he has two kids and like one organ can save up to eight lives i mean it's not just not just one to one you know so i the thought of someone not wanting to do that and not wanting to even take the chance of saving that many people to me that's incredibly selfish yeah but okay i mean i'm an organ donor I think it's important for me. But everybody

has a different reason. And you didn't even give him a chance to explain. I don't care. He should know that. And he should look for the box and check it. I don't care. There's no excuse for that in my mind. He needs to understand the consequences of not checking that box. Why didn't you just talk to him about it if you're that passionate about this cause? Look, you're not listening to me. The point is, like, I shouldn't be the one to have to explain this to him. He's an adult.

I'm not trying to date a guy who needs a mom to tell him that, okay? He should know that on his own. Wow, you're really fired up about this, aren't you? Yeah, I am. You can tell him I think he's a scumbag for not being an organ donor. I'm never going to date him again. Wow. Okay.

Well, how about this, Stephanie? What if you just tell organ donor. I'm never going to date him again. Wow. Okay. Well, how about this, Stephanie? What if you just tell him that? I don't want to tell him that. I don't want to talk to him. Okay, well, it's too bad because he's actually on the other line and wants to talk to you. What are you talking about? I mean, that's the whole point of this was so we could get you two on the phone together. He's listening?

Yeah. Oh, my God. Hey, Stephanie. I don't want to talk to you kevin oh wow um look i i feel like i need to uh at least have the opportunity to defend myself here um i feel like i'm i'm being accused of some horrible crime yeah because you are listen i don't have anything against organ donors, okay? Then why aren't you one? I don't know.

Because I must have missed the box. That's not a good enough reason, Kevin. Look for the box and check it. It's not that hard. Whoa. Okay, I take your point. I just wish you could give me a little slack here, okay? Kevin, you have kids, okay? You have kids. Exactly. It's going to happen to your point. I just wish you could give me a little slack here, okay? Kevin, you have kids, okay?

You have kids. Exactly. What's going to happen to your kids? I have two kids who I love more than anything, and they're also a handful, okay? And I've got to be on my toes, and maybe I was frazzled or whatever. I'm sure they were with me at the DMV, and that could have been why I didn't check the box. It's not because I'm some weird monster who won't give my organs away. Well, you need to be more responsible and think about that.

Why didn't you say anything? Because I shouldn't have to tell you to be an organ donor. You should know that yourself. You're a grown man. Yes, I would love to be an organ donor. And if you had told me that at dinner, I would have said, oh, wow, I would love to be an organ donor. And if you had told me that at dinner, I would have said, oh, wow, I didn't realize that I wasn't. I will get right on back. Oh, it's so convenient, Kevin. You're saying that because you want to date me again so you

can sleep with me. What? He said he's not an organ donor. Actually, Stephanie, I can put your mind at ease because I really, really don't want to date you, and I definitely don't want to sleep with you. Oh, dang! Well, Stephanie, you realize you're coming off as a bit crazy. You're coming off as a bit naggy, okay? You've been nagging me the whole time, and it's as if I have to defend my position on standing up for, honestly, the whole human race. I don't have to do that. What?

Wait a minute. Wait a minute. Wait a minute. Are you saying that because I forgot or I missed a check a box, people have died because of me not checking a box? Maybe not yet, but someday you're going to kill somebody. Whoa. Whoa. I'm going to kill somebody?

Yeah. Because I'm not going to donate an organ? What, are they going to die of a broken heart? I don't understand. How does that kill someone? Just because you don't take a weapon and kill somebody doesn't make you not a murderer. You called Kevin a murderer. I mean, Stephanie.

Wow. You may have a good point somewhere in there, but you need to be less aggressive about it, I think. You guys are just being ignorant, and I don't even want to talk to you guys about this anymore. Can I ask you one more question, please? What do you want? I'm done. You've taken up enough of my time already. I just want to ask if you'll go out with Kevin on a second date.

We will pay for it. You know, whatever smarts. I don't appreciate this. Hey, Kevin? Whoa. Yeah. Yeah, she hung up. Uh-huh.

That's intense, man. I mean, you should be an organ donor, though. I will gladly go down and register as an organ donor, but not because of Stephanie, but because I think it's the right thing to do. Look, I didn't even know that I wasn't. All right. Well, until you do that, Kevin, in my book, you're a murderer. Oh, no. Broken Jubal in the morning.

Text message in at 78592 that says, Kevin didn't just dodge a bullet, he dodged a nuclear bomb. Good for him, talking about today's second date update. If you missed it, this dude Kevin wanted to call a girl named Stephanie. She wasn't calling back after their date, and he thought, for some strange reason, she was angry at him for losing weight. Because there was a moment where they had to take out their IDs, and the picture in his ID is like 90 pounds heavier. Once she saw

the ID she became cold to him and he didn't know why. It was hard to believe that maybe somebody would be angry at him for losing a bunch of weight and it wasn't that. It was the fact that on his license he wasn't listed as an organ donor and she went as far to call him a murderer. She lost it

man. I'm just saying if Stephanie, I do not want her angry kidneys. No. That keeps those things away from me. And the worst part to me was he was like, I didn't even notice. I totally would be. He's like, I'm fine with being an organ donor. I don't have a problem with it. She's like, whatever.

You just want people to die. Somebody texted in at 78592 and said, can you imagine if they got married and he didn't recycle one day? Oh my god. Oh no. She might actually be a murderer on that day. And the thing is, is if you do have a really strong stance on something like that, that's not how you communicate it.

Yeah, be reasonable. It's not how you get people on your side. Ask him about it? I don't know. Remember, if you want to do a second date update, all you have to do is email the show, and we will call the person who didn't call you back, even if they're a murderer and don't want to be an organ donor.

Moving 92.5. Ugh, we're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what?

We love that for you. Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. Joel, the holidays are a blast, but the financial hangover, that can be a huge bummer. If you are out there and you're dreading the new statement email that reveals the massive balance that you may have racked up, well, you could use our help. That's right. I'm Joel. And I am Matt. And we're from the How To Money podcast. Our show is all about helping you make sense of your personal finances so you can ditch your pesky credit card debt once and for all, make real progress on other crucial financial goals that you've got, and just feel more in control of your money in general. You know it. For money advice

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