Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update PODCAST: Waterworks

Episode Date: May 17, 2013

Mandy's drink-filled first date turned into a sleepover... So why isn't she getting a call back? Listen to the PODCAST. (Image Courtesy: ZakVTA. Creative Commons)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Moving 92.5. Brook and Jubal's Second Date Update. Remember, if you want a second date update, all you have to do is email us, brookandjubal at moving925.com. We've got Mandy on the phone with us right now. She emailed us about a date that she went on. In your email, it said you met a guy at a pool party, drank the night away. Sounds fun, Mandy. Why wasn't I invited?

Oh, next time. Next time, I promise. You promise? Wow, okay, creeper. Let's move on. I just wanted to ask if she promised if I could go to the party. How are you, Mandy? I'm good, I'm good.

Well, sort of. I've got to give props to any woman who can pick up on a dude in a bikini and feel confident enough doing it. Also in Seattle where it's 12 degrees outside. It's been nice lately. How did you start talking with this guy at the party? Well, I had to go up to him because he was gorgeous. He had the most beautiful eyes and this cute little butt. And I just had to say hi.

I can't resist a cute little butt. She fell in love with his personality. You guys rip on dudes all the time, but women are just as bad. So you went up and talked to him. His name's Jason, right? Yes. And he was just as nice, and he was cute. He really was actually really cool.

I just felt like I knew him forever. I mean, it wasn't like I was meeting this guy for the first time. There was a connection, for sure. Now, when people call in with dates like this, where they meet someone at a party and they drink all night, you do realize it wasn't like a real date, right?

Well, he did ask me out. Oh, he did? Yeah. While we were at the party, he asked me to meet him at a bar that was around the corner from where we were. Oh, so did you go from the party to the bar to hang out with did? Yeah. While we were at the party, he asked me to meet him at a bar that was around the corner from where we were. Oh, so did you go from the party to the bar to hang out with him? Yes. Oh, okay. Oh, that does kind of count.

So how drunk were you, by the way? Well, I was definitely buzzed and feeling good. What happened when you guys went to the bar? Did the conversation continue? Did you kiss? What happened? Well, actually, we kissed in the pool. Oh, nice., I already knew that he was a good kisser. Okay. So yeah, we I mean, we got to the bar and we just had more fun. I mean, I don't remember every single detail that

we talked about. Right. But you know, I suggested, you know, maybe we go back to my place. And we hopped in a cab and we did because it was the night was so young so again this sounds more like a hookup than a date to me but did you do it when you got back to your place that's the thing i told him i do not do that on the first date so not to expect it not to anticipate it don't even think about it okay you said that before you guys left yes i did i made that very clear but did you do it? Because a lot of women will say that and then they'll still end up like, oh my God, I can't believe I did that. That was the only time.

Yeah. Oh, yeah. Did you? Well, sort of. Yeah. Did you say sort of? Sort of. Okay.

You can't just sort of. It happens. Yeah. It's kind of being like kind of pregnant, you know? It doesn't really work. So you guys ended up hooking up. It's fine. And then what happened the next day?

I didn't really hear from him. I don't know if it's because he doesn't respect me because I put out on the first date. This is embarrassing. My friend just told me that I snore. Like, badly? Really badly. So that's why I need you guys. He didn't leave you a note or any indication of seeing you?

No. Nothing. But what would you think if you're at a pool, some girl picks you up in a bikini, you go drinking all night, you end up back at her place, you do it.

Yeah. Would it be the snoring that turns you off? No. I'd be in love. I'd be in love. I'd be thinking marriage. You're such a liar. No, but I mean, I would think it was awesome. So have you tried to get a hold of him?

Well, I thought about calling and I hung up. I didn't go through with it. Okay. Did he answer when you hung up? No. Okay. No. I just went to voicemail, but I didn't leave a message. What do you expect from him?

I mean, did you think that you guys were going to hang out more than just that night? There was a really good connection, and I really don't normally do that, I swear. I know that sounds so cliche, but I felt really connected to this guy. I don't know. I would like there to be more than just the one I hook up. Okay. All right, well, I'm going to put you on hold,

play a song, come right back, call him and get your second date update, okay? Okay, thanks. Moving 92.5. Brooke and Jubal in the Mornings. Second date update.

Brooke keeps saying that what Mandy has wasn't a first date. It was, Brooke. It's an instant date. That's what it's called when you do what Mandy has wasn't a first date. It was, Brooke. It's an instant date. That's what it's called when you do what Mandy did. I have had a lot of one-night instant dates then. Instant date.

If you were listening just a few minutes ago, we talked to Mandy who emailed us about a guy named Jason. Mandy met him at a pool party. They met out in the pool, then went out and grabbed some drinks at a bar, ended up back at her place, and she did something she doesn't normally do. Right, Mandy? That is correct. Nobody's judging you, Mandy. Just own it.

She hasn't heard from the guy since. What's the worst thing that he could say to you, you think? Anything from a complete slut. And I snore. Which one would be worse? Yeah. Well, actually, the slut thing, whatever. Just don't make fun of my snoring, please.

Mary's so conscious. All right, Mandy. We're going to call him right now, okay? Okay. Oh, Mandy. Hello? Can I speak to Jason, please? That's me.

Jason, how are you, man? This is Jubal from Brook and Jubal in the Morning. I'm moving 92.5. Okay. Good morning. Good morning. How are you? I'm good.

How are you? Good. You got a few minutes? What do you want? I want to call you to talk about a friend of ours Okay Her name is Mandy Okay You know who I'm talking about?

I know Mandy Mandy is a friend of mine She told me that you guys had a little hookup. Met at a pool party, made out in the pool, then you took her to a bar around the corner after and ended up back at her place. Okay. Alright, so the reason that I'm

calling you I love he's laughing. I'm dying to know. The reason I'm calling you is because Mandy wants to know why you haven't called her back. Like she kind of wants to see you again. Oh. What did she tell you? That's pretty much it.

She said that you guys had had a bit to drink at this pool party. You made out in the pool and then went to a bar, and then she did something she normally doesn't do with you. All right? Not every dude gets the golden ticket on the first night. Yeah, that's pretty much what happened. But why haven't you called her or anything? Is there a reason?

She also said that she snored. Did she snore and that kind of like turn you off? Yeah, she did snore. I didn't sleep much that night. Why did you leave in the morning before she woke up? She was pretty nutty. She was really drunk, too. We went to a bar after the party.

She had like twice as many shots as me, and when we got back to her place, she was ready to go. Jason, you said she was nutty. What do you mean by that exactly? Like, we hooked up, you know, and afterwards she started crying, and she was like freaking out.

She started crying right there in bed with you yeah like bawling she's i guess still in love with this guy and she starts bawling and talking about him and i'm like oh god yeah i've got her slobbering and snot flying everywhere it's gross excuse me i don't completely remember everything from that night, but I didn't go on and on like he's saying. Jason, Mandy is on the phone with us right now. She should have told you that. I'm sorry. Hello.

Hello. Mandy, do you remember crying after and talking about your ex? Not really. I know it wasn't as bad as he's saying. It was bad. You were really crying, and we had just met, you know? I could see how that would be a little bit of a shock. He should be flattered.

Jason, you should be flattered. Flattered? Why should he be flattered? Because I felt comfortable enough with you to open up and share my inner feelings. You might not want to do that right after. Yeah, at one point she was like curled up in the fetal position. Oh, no. You guys don't say that.

Now you're just making stuff up. That's ridiculous. I know I did not do that. If you're going to do that, you should do it while we're having sex because afterwards it's just creepy. You're such a sweet ass... Are you serious? Get him, Mandy. You guys, that is sad.

That's a very good point, though. During the act, it's... It's like a turn on at sexy talk, and then later... Yeah, later it's just weird. Well, stop saying that now. Mandy, you came across... like this really confident woman at the beginning of this call was that maybe not truly where you are i mean i listen we've been drinking a lot you know that affects you that makes you a little more emotional are you over

your ex-boyfriend well he's he's my ex. That doesn't mean that you're over him, though. I am. See, personally, I think it's okay to cry after you do it. I usually do that and it's usually

followed by me crying and saying thank you. I appreciate it. Not many people do this for me. So, I don't think you should find it so awkward, Jason.

I don't. You're making me sound crazy, and I'm not crazy. I was maybe a little emotional. You were drunk, Mandy. I'm conscious sometimes. Mandy, you were drunk. Honestly, I don't judge you one bit for that. I mean, if I made him feel uncomfortable, I'm sorry.

That wasn't my intention at all. Maybe I got a little too carried away with the shots and stuff, but I did like him. I do like him. And, you know, that's not my normal behavior. Jason, would you be interested in going out with Mandy again? We'll pay for you guys to go on a second date. You're paying for it? Yes.

She was real nice, and I don't mean to say anything bad about her, but I don't think so. It just scared you too much, huh? Yeah, it was weird. Well, you know what? It's clearly your last, Jason, so whatever. Hey, Mandy, if you're looking for someone to hang out with, you and I can do it, and we can both have a good cry together after. How about that? I laugh because I don't think he's lying.

I know. Broken Jubal in the morning. Same bed but it feels just a little bit bigger now. Ugh. We're so done with New Year New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble.

More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what?

We love that for you. Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. Joel, the holidays are a blast, but the financial hangover, that can be a huge bummer. If you are out there and you're dreading the new statement email that reveals the massive balance that you may have racked up, well, you could use our help. That's right. I'm Joel.

And I am Matt. And we're from the How To Money podcast. Our show is all about helping you make sense of your personal finances so you can ditch your pesky credit card debt once and for all, make real progress on other crucial financial goals that you've got, and just feel more in control of your money in general. You know it. For money advice without the judgment and jargon, listen to How to Money on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Ed Zitron, host of the Better Offline Podcast. And this January, we're going to go on the road to beautiful Las Vegas, Nevada, your podcasts. sell or do to you in 2025. I'll be joined by David Roth at Defector and the writer Edward Ongueso Jr. With guest appearances from Behind the Bastards,

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