Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update PODCAST: Yoga Double Take

Episode Date: July 16, 2014

Alicia knows that MOST of the guys who show up to yoga class are HUGE CREEPERS. But Jason actually seemed like a genuinely nice guy! So why is he suddenly M.I.A. after their date??? Find out in the Second Date Update!(Image Courtesy: The Cosmopolitan of Las Vegas. Creative Commons)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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It's never a good thing when you pursue somebody, get their phone number, they finally agree to go out on a date with you, then you go out and they blow you off. But it's even worse when somebody pursues you, asks you out on a date, and you go out with them, and then they blow you off. Because you know that it's more than just your looks or whatever. They didn't like something about you personally because they wanted to go out with you bad enough where they pursued you and asked you out. And then they were like, oh, yeah, my mistake. That's what happened to Alicia. Alicia, how are you? I'm good, guys.

How are you? Good. We set that up so nicely. She started off on a positive note for you. Wow. Thanks, guys. You're welcome. So you met the guy that you want to call today at your yoga class?

I've been going to the yoga studio for like two years, and I've noticed him maybe like six months ago. Yeah. And obviously I notice him. It's yoga. So you don't really want to, you know. Do you get hit on a lot at yoga class? No, no. Okay.

There's usually not more than like one or two dudes in my yoga class. I'll go to yoga occasionally. And if I've ever been and like even thought about hitting on a girl at yoga, you just feel like a creep. Exactly. How did he come on to you? Well, I noticed him a couple times and after like a month we were in the kind of like the lobby area putting our sneakers on and he just started a conversation with me saying you know how long have you been coming to this yoga studio like

you're really flexible he did not say that stop it wow you're bendy he used that line okay you were talking about the poses first and then he said you're really flexible. Okay, so he didn't just come up to you and say, hey, I noticed you from across the room, and wow. You look like you put your legs behind your head. So it was more innocent than you made it sound at first. Yeah. Okay. So tell us about your date then.

He picked me up. I mean, he opened the door for me. Like, how many guys open the cars and the restaurant door and make sure you go in first? And we had a really nice dinner. We had a good conversation. He offered to share his food with me, which I thought was really sweet. Yeah. Yeah, that's a good sign.

And then at the end of the night, he walked me back to my place. And, I mean, I was putting all the signs out there. And he was kind of standing where there was enough distance that I knew that he wasn't going in for a kiss. And nothing happened. And you were making it pretty obvious that you would be okay with a kiss. Yes. I was putting on all the flirty smiling, rubbing his arm, touching everything. Did it look like he was thinking about making a move to kiss you?

He was thinking about something. I don't know what he was thinking about. Maybe he was just nervous or maybe he just doesn't kiss on the first date. There's guys and girls that do that. Okay. She's like, I've never met one. And then we kind of gave each other a hug and was like, he's going to love to see you again.

And I was like, of course, you know. So that's how it ended. All right. And how many times have you tried to get a hold of him since that night? I mean, once. I sent him like a thank you. Like, hey, I had such a great night. I would love to hang out again.

And he's like, yes. He even replied back saying yes, you know, sometime next week. And then nothing. Okay. How long ago was that? Probably about two weeks ago. That is weird. Maybe he lost his phone.

I mean, this sounds like there could be, for once, a reasonable explanation. Was there anything noteworthy about the date that you're not telling us? Because a lot of times people will forget important details. I mean, I don't know. I thought I was being flirty. I touched his hand a couple times. Okay, but I mean more along the lines of, did you ask him to borrow money? Did you tell him? Okay, and you don't have a sordid criminal history or anything else?

No. All right. It sounds like a crazy question, but it comes up often where we call the person and they're like, oh, yeah, they said that they murdered like six people and I couldn't see them again. So there's nothing glaring like that that you can think about. The date was perfectly normal. Yeah, it was a great first date all the way up until the end when we didn't have a kiss.

Why didn't you make the first move then? Because I'm a girl. I'm not going to make the first move. Oh, come on. All right, well, we'll play a song, come back, call him, and get your second date update, okay? Okay. All right, well, we'll play a song, come back, call him, and get your second date update, okay? Okay. All right, just hang on.

Brooke and Jubal in the morning's second date update. Alicia, I want to promise you this, okay? Out of all the second date updates we've ever done, I've never made this promise. But I promise you that I have your back no matter what happens. I don't believe it. Okay. Yep. I want to get you a second date. your back no matter what happens i don't believe okay yep i want to get you a second date i don't care what happens why why i have your back there's an ulterior motive here no not at all i want to hear whatever we find out about you like if it's something you did that's weird or whatever my goal my mission here is to get you a second date okay alicia

all right what if it turns out like the guy's married? Then get rid of his wife. Alicia's way better. She's like, kidnap some people. Drop the zero, get with the hero. That's my girl, Alicia. If you're just tuning in for the second date update, we're about to call Jason. Alicia went out on a date with him after meeting

him at yoga. Nothing really crazy happened on the date, other than an awkward moment at the end where she thought he might want to go in for a kiss and then realized that he in fact didn't want to kiss her. That's the only thing that she could think of that was awkward on the date. So we're going to call him get him on the line and see if in fact

there was something that went wrong on your date. Okay? You ready? Okay. Alright. Any closing thoughts before we make the phone call? Let's get me a second date. That's positive hello hi is jason in this is he jason how are you this is jubel from brook and jubel in the morning i'm sorry this is jubel from bro and Jubal in the Morning, the radio show. Oh, okay. Hi.

Hi. What's going on? Uh, not much. How about you? Not too much. I'm calling you because you recently went out on a date with a listener of ours. Okay. Her name is Alicia. You met her at yoga class. Oh my God.

Yeah. Alicia. Yeah. Well, Alicia told us a little bit about your date, said that she really liked you and would love to see you again, but you haven't been returning her phone calls. So Alicia is wondering if there's a reason that you don't want to go out with her. Yeah. You know, um, oh, this is weird.

I've just been debating about whether to call her or not. Why are you debating? Like, what's the problem? Well. Is that you're not sure if you want to go out with her again? Yeah. I mean, I like her. We had a great time.

It's not that we didn't have a great time. I mean, just when I saw her at yoga class, she was great. She was fantastic. And then we got out on this date. It was like she was a different person. She was acting differently? No, no. I mean, she just looked like a totally different person. So you were catfished on a person that you actually met at a yoga class in person. How does that work? He had his yoga goggles on, Jewel. Yeah, I guess.

Obviously makes people hotter. I mean, it's just in class she looked so amazing. So amazing. And it wasn't just because of yoga clothes or whatever. She's a really pretty girl. But she showed up for this date and she just did not look the same. How can you look less attractive outside of yoga class?

You're sweaty. You don't have makeup on. Yoga pants are magical. What was wrong with her when you saw her? She had so much makeup on. She just looked completely different. Okay. So you actually like the natural her and not the all done up Alicia.

Yeah. I say so much makeup. I'm not talking like a lot of makeup. I'm talking like drag queen. Really? So she showed up and you're like, is your real name Jack? Who are you? Was it that bad really?

I mean, I'm not trying to be critical. It's just like I literally sat there thinking, oh, my God, this is a man. And I know better. I know she's not. You know what? I f*** you because I'm not a drag queen. I don't know what the hell you're talking about. Hello?

Hey, Jason, that's actually Alicia. She's on the phone. I'm sorry that I don't look beautiful to your standards when I'm dolling myself up for you for a date. Are you serious? I look like a drag queen? I didn't know you were there. Sorry about that, Jason.

I guess we should have maybe told you that beforehand. But yeah, she's... Yeah. First of all, I don't think I look like a drag queen. I think that I looked really beautiful that night. And you don't know what real beauty is. I'm not saying all that. I'm just saying, you know, maybe you don't need 15 pounds of makeup to go out on a date.

I think you're beautiful without all that stuff. I mean, I had such a great time. It was so much fun. And then you're calling me a drag queen when I'm outside of yoga class. What is that? It's insulting. He looks like a supermodel. He walks out naturally like Gisele Bundchen with no makeup on. Are you crazy?

We don't all look like that. Jason's saying that he liked you without makeup, so I don't even think he's saying that. Jason, are you just like... You guys want me to wear yoga pants and have sweaty hair? I'm not saying that at all. Alicia, remember, I have your back. Jason.

Oh, yeah, no matter what. No matter what. Jason, are you one of those guys that's just against makeup? I'm not against makeup. I'm just, it's a little scary going out with somebody who looks totally different. I just, I didn't expect that, that's all. But is this, I mean, you liked her, obviously. Like, why would that stop you from a second date?

I've gone on second dates with guys who wear, you know, stupid shirts. Like, you can tell her at some point, like, I think you're beautiful without the makeup. I mean, that's what I'm trying to say is I think she's gorgeous without the makeup. I don't think she needs all that. I mean, I just I don't know who I'm going to end up going out on a date with to go on a second date. So it was so bad. You could go pick your second date and shove it because I put so much effort into looking good for you that night. And then you could go and insult me and call me a second date. So it was so bad. You know what? You can go take your second date and shove it because I put so much effort into looking good for you that night

and then you could go and insult me and call me a drag queen. F*** you. Alicia, you are firing. My gosh. I mean... So it doesn't sound like...

I just can't believe you would call me a drag queen and then be like, oh, you're so beautiful in yoga class. I'm the same person, idiot. I know some hot drag queens. I'm just saying.

Alicia, it doesn't sound like you want to go out with Jason again. I don't know. I feel like maybe we'll try it again. Let's try a little less this time. Let's try nothing this time. You can go take it and shove it. We originally started this with Alicia wanting a second date,

and now you're not interested in Jason. You're willing to give it another shot? Yeah. This is so weird because I thought I was going to have to convince Jason, You originally started this with Alicia wanting a second date, and now you're not interested in Jason. You're willing to give it another shot? Yeah, I mean... This is so weird because I thought I was going to have to convince Jason. But Alicia, is there any way I can convince you to go out with Jason again? No, and I don't even want to see him at yoga class anymore. My gosh, you're a dramatic woman. I've never heard a girl be so insistent that you should appreciate her for her outer beauty.

Yeah, you should embrace her for everything she is. I don't understand what you're getting all fired up about. I'm sitting here trying to tell you that you look good without all that makeup on. I mean, most people think that's nice. You just don't know how to appreciate beauty or art or makeup skills, okay? You obviously vote for the hippie, like, let me grow my armpit hair out. I looked good in yoga, and I look good outside and you should appreciate both of that.

Alicia, like I told you before, Alicia, I've got your back in this whole thing. Jason, how dare you appreciate a woman for just

her regular beauty and not wearing makeup? You are such a dog and you give all of us men a bad name. Get off my phone line right now, you piece of shit.

Wow. How dare you? You weren't lying. She spent a lot of money on that makeup and all you can do is judge her and want her to be naturally beautiful. You are an a**hole, my friend. Broken Jubal

in the morning. Getting a lot of texts in at 78592 about the second date update. This one says, I understand where Jason, the guy in the second date update, was coming from. I hide my wife's makeup every time we go out on a date. It's Brook and Jubal in the morning. I'm moving 92.5.

If you missed the second date update, Alicia wanted us to call Jason. They met in yoga class. We called Jason and got him on the phone and found out why he wasn't giving her a call back after their first date. He wasn't calling her because she was wearing too much makeup. He said, without the makeup, she's

beautiful. But with the makeup, he doesn't like her very much. And then she continued to go off about what a jerk he was. I put it on for you, jerk! Most girls really like that when you're like, oh my god, without makeup, you look so great. She's the other way around.

That is our dream, to hear we're naturally beautiful. Well, some people's dream, obviously, Lydia. I think she was just ready to be angry from the get-go. You could have told her anything like, wow, your butt looks amazing in those jeans. How dare you? In her defense, though, I know some girls that like, I work at MAC. I'm a cosmetology major. And they

take pride in their skills of makeup. And there are some girls who are bad at makeup. Really bad. Red lipstick, by the way, should be used sparingly. Maybe she was doing that because when girls put on really bright

red lipstick, most of the time it doesn't look okay. It's just shocking. It's just like, whoa. And it's on your teeth half the time. Maybe that was it. But anyway, it was just funny how she got so angry at him for saying that she was naturally good looking lots of texts coming in at 78592 going i'll go out with him he sounds like a great guy i never have to wear makeup yeah i mean you would think that people would like that but she did not one day remember you want a second date update all you have to do is email the show brick and

jubile at moving925.com we will call the person who didn't call you back. And don't forget, at 810, another pair of tickets to see Jay-Z and Beyonce, July 30th, the On The Run Tour at Safeco Field. Moving 92.5. Ugh, we're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them.

More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. Joel, the holidays are a blast,

but the financial hangover, that can be a huge bummer. If you are out there and you're dreading the new statement email that reveals the massive balance that you may have racked up, well, you could use our help. That's right. I'm Joel. And I am Matt. And we're from the How To Money podcast. Our show is all about helping you make sense of your personal finances so you can ditch your pesky credit card debt once and for all, make real progress on other crucial financial goals that you've got, and just feel more in control of your money in general. You know it. For money advice without the judgment and jargon, listen to How to Money on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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