Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update: Pre-Block

Episode Date: April 9, 2025

Normally, Second Date Updates focus on what happened DURING the date, but today it’s all about what happened one hour AFTER the date. It left one of our listeners confused and now he’s turning to US for answers! Get your 2nd Date Update Merch For A Cause HERE!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. All right, you found the brand new Second Date podcast today. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. And hey, thanks for being here. Today's second date, I'll just say this. I think it'd be really interesting if people left in the comments what the weirdest question you can ask on a first date is.

Oh, I would say how much blood does your body hold? Oh, that is- How many pints exactly? Yeah, or what kind of duct tape is your favorite? Wow, that was kind of duct tape is your favorite? Blood type that could be useful information Over there, how about do you mind if I take my tooth out? Oh that's pretty blunt I definitely happened to you before I just the one you know, it's interesting I went on one date with one guy and he was so hot until he took his front tooth out

It really just changes a person. At least he asked it's very regal Yeah, he let you know. He had to take it out before he ate Oh, yeah So anyway, not ours We want to know yours because there is definitely definitely an odd one in today's second date update So leave it in the comments or if you're on the iHeartRadio app, you can actually leave us a voicemail So do it there as well and let's get this second date started. Second date update.

We have a text board at seven eight five nine two where listeners can send texts into our show. And unfortunately, sometimes we do have to block people if they cross the line with us. It's been so long since I've blocked anyone though. Like I feel like years. Anytime you come at the girls or you're like, brocks a B. I'm you're blocked. Yeah, okay only I can say that That's happening

You're rude to any of us if you criticize our hero of the week because you didn't like my choice If you compliment me and tell me that I'm cute and fancy I'm a shy boy. I don't like compliments that Listeners are so nice. We are not blocking people Too nice if you ask me blah That's why one of our listeners Aaron reached out to us because he's confused after he got blocked by somebody And he has no idea why fight the urge to compliment Jeff or you will be blocked right now Yeah, I'm gonna say was it Jose

Aaron what's up, man? Welcome to the show. Hey guys. Thanks for having me. Don't you talk bad about the girls? He called you guys What is happening Aaron, how are you doing? Oh, I'm doing good. I'm sorry, I'm on edge. He called you guys. Oh my god. I don't care. What is happening? Aaron, how are you doing? Oh, I'm doing good. I'm a little confused as to why I got blocked, but I was hoping maybe you guys could help me out with that.

Okay. Yeah, hopefully. Did you say anything mean? That's what gets people blocked here. See, I was thinking unsolicited pictures are what get you blocked. Oh yeah, that one. Well yeah, I'm curious. Are you blocked?

Are you talking about text, social media? Like what are you blocked on? Good question. She blocked my number. Oh So tell us about this woman who blocked you what's her name? Okay, so her name is Jenna, okay We matched on hinge and we went on one kind of date What do you mean kind of date? Was it like one of those pre dates where you just meet for coffee to for 20 minutes? To see if a real date's worth it. So as soon as we matched we started talking and then we were hanging out like an hour later Day that you matched yeah, how

Well, so she told me that she was taking her dog out for a walk. So I said hey, I I haven't got my cardio in yet today, why don't I come with you and we can just talk? Oh, you invited yourself to her dog walk. That's kind of cute. Random Alexis, you're a dog walker, would this be a good date? Oh, I walk dogs with guys all the time. Oh, good day to Artie, then that's a yes. Hey, so that's a good date idea. You walk the guys too?

A little leash on them? I can't say that. Oh no. But I do make them clean up the dog poop, you don't want to do that in front of them. Why did Jeff look so hopeful when he asked that question? You walk the guys to a little leash on them Why did you feel hopeful when he asked that I didn't know that that was a service if it's offered out there I gotta look it up, but how did the dog walk go with Jenna? It was mostly small talk. It was kind of more like a pre date than anything where we And that's okay. I mean that's to be expected. Yeah, what was the like chemistry or attraction level? I thought I was picking something up

Okay, she didn't seem like she cut it off like how did it end? so yeah, we were talking about hinge and how are you doing on hinge and I ended up making a joke we're like Yeah, I need a time to leave hinge because I just I had a full inbox and people kept Trying to talk to me and get with me. It ended not long after that. That was supposed to be a joke. Yeah, I thought it was a joke. Yeah, I have so many people in my inbox that I just had to delete it.

The way you said it to us, I wouldn't have taken that as a joke. It sounded legit. Yeah, see, maybe I messed up and she just thinks I'm full of myself when I was just trying to be funny sure that doesn't seem like enough to want to block your number yeah from ever wanting to contact you did things change after that moment not real it ended not long after that so I don't know maybe she wanted to cut it short is it possible that you're just a really slow walker and it pissed her off?

Or the opposite too fast. Or yeah. One-steppers? You gotta match her stride for stride. Or just one of those guys who walks in front of a woman the whole time like a step and a half. It drives me nuts. How's your walking? I felt like I matched her stride for stride but I wasn't really focused on that. Okay let's say you got a pass on the walking. What else could it have been, Brooke? I mean, I'm just wondering when you got blocked. Did you like leave the date and immediately she blocked you? Or was there a couple of texts back and forth beforehand? Good question. I tried texting her maybe half hour later

and it didn't go through. So it seems like she blocked me almost immediately. I didn't know you could tell that you were blocked. You can tell that? It never says, it just never says delivered later still not delivered we're all experts on different areas of dating in here so okay how long has it been since you got blocked been about a week at this point you guys what is just an accident? What if she just got like you don't have to

Sometimes I accidentally hit buttons in my back pocket or something and like she's like why isn't this guy calling me? That's a hopeful Dexterous cheek back there, but I mean yeah, hopefully that's Yeah, it's unmatched. You never know what a right butt cheek can do. Yeah. Hey, they went on a dog walk. Yeah. Very dextrous cheek back there. But I mean, yeah, hopefully that did. But I had a good time with her. I'd like to see if there was something more there. Yeah. Okay.

Yeah, she should definitely give you another chance. Or at least an explanation for why you've been blocked. We're going to call her right now. Hopefully she hasn't blocked us already. Oh, yeah. If she answers... I'm sure a lot of people have, but if she picks up, we'll ask her all the important questions and try and get you your second date update right after this. Thank you guys.

All right, man. Hold on. Second date update. Just to recap real quick, if you missed part one, one of our listeners, Erin, hung out with a lady and that happened within an hour of matching. They were on a dog walk together. The crazy part is that walk only lasted a half hour. An hour later, he was already blocked. I mean, this girl works fast.

And we're trying to help Aaron get some answers about what he did wrong. Or maybe it was just a miscommunication that caused him to get blocked. We don't really know. At least we can pinpoint like the hour and a half time frame. We asked all about whether she liked him and what it was like with him. We never asked did the dog like you? Oh, did the dogs like each other? Did one bite the other? I don't think he had a dog. Yeah, I don't think he did. She was just joining him on her dog. Oh, my apologies. I thought he had a dog too.

Aaron, could you get a read on Jenna's dogs feelings towards you? I think he was kind of focused on the walk. He gave me a sniff. He'd stuff me out, but he wasn't Good okay, as long as there's no growling Nipping yeah, I mean growling and nipping on my dates. That's a good thing To get nipped. Calm down, boy. Sniffing of so many butts. Yeah.

So I don't know. Any last words, Aaron, before we dial the number? At the very least, I hope she answers and I hope she tells me what I did wrong. Yeah. OK. That's a good attitude. You're going in to learn something. I like that. Let's set that bar super, super low.

So here we go. I'm dialing the number right now. Let's see if she picks up. Hello. Hey, is this Jenna? This is who's this? This is a actually radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Hey, welcome to the show. I'm sorry, who? Yeah, there's a lot of us in here.

We're a radio show and we do this segment that you're on right now called a second date update. We're hoping to pry a little bit into your personal life if that's okay. Second date update? Yeah, that's where we help our listeners who've gone out with somebody and they felt like there was a connection. We try to be the investigators to figure out why a second meetup hasn't happened or if something went wrong during the date. And one of our listeners reached out about you named Erin.

Oh. Okay. Okay. Sounds like everything was on purpose. We figured you might not have the best reaction because we heard that after the date you Oh Okay, okay We figured you might not have the best reaction because we heard that after the date you blocked him And he just doesn't know why or if that was on purpose. Oh, yeah No, I definitely blocked him on purpose Okay, so what we know is that you guys went on a dog walk and it didn't seem to last very long So maybe you could tell us your version of the hangout

and that would help us understand a little more clearly. Okay, well, I guess to start with, I thought he'd show up with his dog too. Why, I assumed he had a dog already. The girls had to correct me. Why would you assume that? Well, because we met up to walk our dog, so I thought, because we met up to walk our dogs So I thought but we met up to walk my dog

He literally just wanted to walk with me while I walked my dog. That just sounds like a miscommunication Didn't he say he need to get his cardio in for the day? I would have blocked him for that, too That's not why I blocked him, okay Are you saying you were disappointed that he didn't have a dog? I was surprised but I got over it quick. It wasn't that big of a deal. We were getting to know each other So where did the date shift for you in your mind? Well, then he asks me so what's your credit score? Should I be worried? Should I be worried?

He's trying to be funny he told us that there was a few jokes that he tried to make and they didn't quite land It did not sound like a joke. He actually wanted to know Wait, did you tell him? No, I didn't tell him. I thought it was so out of line Like intense and it used to be people 30 minute conversation. Yeah, it was really quick I mean, I don't even know that we should be talking about that on a fifth or a sixth date Comfort levels when it comes to money. Okay, cuz like some couples have joint accounts eventually and some don't talk about expenses So so is that where you felt like he crossed the line? Oh, absolutely I mean 15 minutes in and he's asking me about my finances Joking though like when you didn't tell him what kind of response did he give you?

We both just kind of laughed it off, but he definitely still seemed like he seriously wanted to know It's possible that it was a joke and it just didn't come across the right way. And the best way to find out is to have you- You gonna tell it again? Well, to at least have you talk to him about it because you might not know this, Jenna, but Aaron's on the other line right now

listening to this conversation. Hello? The guy I blocked is on the phone. Yeah. We haven't blocked him yet, but- You know, when you say it that way way it doesn't feel as fun. Yeah Hopefully he has an explanation though Aaron are you there? Hey? Yeah? Hey jokester? Hey? No, we're social security number now

To or at least say something to Jenna Yeah, I'm sorry. I made you feel uncomfortable. It's just in today's dating culture, I'm trying to find a long-term partner and I'm up to it right now and not waste time. Are you serious? See, I knew you weren't joking. I knew you actually wanted to know my credit score

and that's a lot. But he wanted to know it for honorable reasons. Because he wants to be with you forever. Forever. Unless you have a score of under 750. Yes. We're not getting a proof for loans. This love is not real.

That's got to change how you feel about it a little bit, right, Jenna? No, not at all. Oh, man. Oh, man. Aaron. Aaron, you see how that's kind of weird. What if she's the love of your life

and she has a bad credit score? I mean, it's not very romantic. Well, to be 100% honest, I was kind of asking to see if you'd be interested in like a no-strings-attached financial compensation thing. What? Like a sugar and fatty situation? Wait, what are you asking? It's awkward to talk on the radio Full control over what you say and don't say I feel like texting this is awkward as well

Do you know what he's talking about? I mean it sounds like he's looking to be my sugar daddy That's how it sounds to us. I heard it as he wants you to be the sugar daddy. That's how it sounds to us I think. See I heard it as he wants you to be the sugar mama. That's why he's asking your score. Can you clarify Aaron? Closer to what she said. I don't like that term. I don't see it like that. I would just be paying for companionship not the weird stuff. Got it. So you'd be paying to have her on your arm and that's all. If she's the getting paid. Why is her credit score matter? Well, I I need to know if it's something she's interested in if her current score is low enough then you can build it I see you were looking for a low credit score this whole time. I was thinking of a good

You want to like help her life and like financially there's a different app you should go on than him This can recommend four of them Jenna are you are you hearing this? Yeah, I'm hearing it Shock sounding are you interested in something like that I mean Are you interested in something like that? I mean, this is definitely not the way that I expected this to go. I mean, I was with you guys. I thought that he was making sure I had a flawless credit score here. I mean, realistically, I think depending on the amount of money, anybody could be interested.

Yeah, I mean, now you're negotiating? Wait a second. Wait a minute, though. Is that a certain number we have to reach? What does this mean? Hold on. This is a totally different type of relationship. Certainly is, but are you saying you are interested?

I don't know. I've never really thought about it. Sounds like she's interested in being interested. Do you do? It's her first opportunity. Is it like an offer letter that gets passed over? I've never really thought about it Is it like an offer letter that gets passed over How do you work out my need on block him to text the details? She would unblock me then maybe we could talk about it between

Strange like at the beginning of this I thought that you were upset because You were looking for something forever, but you're just it could definitely turn into that. I'm open to that. Okay Anything that sounds too good to be true Jenna you need to be careful of okay, that's Brooks jealousy coming out. You don't have to listen. Now that they're in love, Brooke's like, wait a second. Forever. Forever. There's no love. I'm not saying yes 100%, but I am open to thinking about it. Okay. Okay.

Well, maybe you're open to the idea of unblocking Aaron and meeting up with him one more time, and we would pay for it so you two could discuss the terms of the future of your Relationship sugar and some uncles like this we're gonna pay for it. Yeah, let him pay for it Well, he's gonna pay for everything else. Let us at least buy the cup of coffee that they talk over We don't even need to go out. I can send you a couple packs. We can see if you're into it Well that saves us money and I love that so it's up to you Jenna. Will you or will you not unblock Aaron?

Oh! That could be a fun new segment. Unblock him! I love this! I think I'll unblock him. Wow! Look at that! And they say romance is dead. Look at Jeffrey in the morning. Attention all lady listeners with low credit scores. Aaron is looking to supplement your financial hardship as long as you are willing to walk your dog with him.

You don't even know how hard that was for me to finally get it that he was looking for low credit scores. Yeah. The whole time. The funny thing was at the start of the call, I mean, he had a deep voice and he just seemed like kind of a sweet, shy guy. Dude, he was like, remember he's like, oh, I made that sarcastic statement trying to be funny and I think that maybe I came off too braggy. But once she got onto the phone, he wasn't messing around.

He went right to the payment companionship negotiation talk. Yep. It was all business I don't even know if I want an update on this one. Yeah, I mean there's not a lot of heart in it That's for sure. We can assume what's gonna happen Yeah, I don't know about that What I do What I do want is for all of our listeners to find our second aid updates on our YouTube

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