Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update: So Turned On

Episode Date: February 25, 2026

One of our listeners thinks that playing with his FOOD is part of the reason why he isn’t getting a call back… Only way to know for sure is to have him on for a Second Date Update!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Thank you so much for being here. Yeah. And today, well, I guess the part where they're playing with their food during the date is the highlight. Yeah. That's a dream date. The low light gets real low. So you'll hear it in just a second.

But first, comment, Alexis. Yes. Rosebud Sims said, when I was a kid, I hated the talking part of the radio in the morning. Now, I hate the music and listen to the talking part online. Love you guys. I think I remember the same. Yeah. Welcome to adulthood.

My own kid actually turned the station the other day when he heard my voice come on. Oh. It was like rude. Oh, man. Right in her face, too. Yeah. You're good, though. Not getting your allowance this week.

All right. Let's get into your brand new second date. It starts right now. Broken Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. I just Googled the top turn-ons for guys during dates. Whoa. And Google was like, I don't know.

Ask chat GPT. I almost said that, huh? So I went and I asked chat GPT. Hey, hey, what turns guys on? Shouldn't you know you're a guy? And they were like, oh, come on now, Jeff, you know. Oh. So I'm getting no answers from both of the smartest computers on planet Earth.

They must go. They're female. Oh, is that what it is? But listen, here's what I've learned from a good friend of mine, Jose Balanos. Oh. A woman with a great personality and a nice low-cut napkin will always. have my attention. So that's what I have to go off of.

When one of our listeners said that he was turned on big time by the end of his date, I think I know what he means. By a napkin? I cannot wait to find out how low his date's napkin was cut. Chris, welcome to the show, my man. Hey, thanks for having me. Oh, God. I don't know that I want to be part of any of this, the rest of this conversation.

I know. Brooks's getting far too turned on, thinking about how low she wants to cut her for her next day. That doesn't even make sense. It doesn't have to because it's hot. Am I right, Chris? Oh, Chris. Yeah.

No, don't say yeah. Yeah, Chris knows. All right. So now that we've got all the gears turn in it, we're all oiled up and ready to go. Chris, tell us about the woman that you met. What's her name? Her name was Lisa. Oh, my sister's name is Lisa.

Nice. Don't say to that voice. Why? Are you doing that? I'm sorry. Now I got this tiny napkin and I'm thinking of my sister. Oh, my God, Chris, I am so sorry. It's a good name.

It's a strong female man. It's a strong, sexy female name. Let's talk about your Lisa, Chris. Yes. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So I met her on a dating app. I won't say which one, but she was definitely leading the charge throughout this interaction because this is the thing.

She wanted to get right to the date. I'm somebody that wants to take it slow. I'd like to get to know whoever they are via chat. Isn't that exhausting, though? Like, I've just heard that people disappear. Like, it never material. I know. Too much can ruin it.

Like, before. I know, Brooke. Why don't they jump straight into bed with you? Like, first five minutes. Like, let's really get to know each other. That's a good old days, Jeff. I miss those days of dating for people. I'm with you, Chris.

What's wrong with you? Why do you want to talk to them? Yeah, I want to get to know you. Do we have the same sense of humor, whatever? Gotcha. But Lisa, she just jumped right and says, I'd like to get to know you in person. Let's do it on a date.

Wow. She suggested a place that I would have never thought that a woman would suggest a date for, which was Popeyes, Popeye's chicken. Oh, yeah, dude. Oh, it's so good. It is great, but I was like, I don't know. I would never even suggest that myself.

Yeah. I bet you're stoked. Yeah. Did you actually go inside of Popeyes, or did you do the drive-thru nice and slow? No, we went inside, no drive-thru. Because for anybody listening, that's a little first date tip. Do the drive-through slow back seat only. How are you driving?

Cruise control, baby. No, that's how he's control works. Chris, if this day ends up not working out, just remember that for your next one, okay? We're running in a lot here. Okay, so take us inside Popeyes with Lisa. What happens? Well, I would say first off, when I saw her, she looked exactly at her photos. Okay.

I was happy about that. Dude, and to be cute in fast food lighting is a feat. And she was. She was super cute, super nice. She made me laugh. That was like a big highlight. This is silly, but she would use... chicken tenders and make them walk towards me.

I don't know. It was like some weird bit. Dude, that sounds like an awesome date. She sounds fun. Why do I picture the Rockettes, like just a line of chicken legs? Sexy long chicken legs coming right at you. That's funny. They were tenders.

They weren't the drumsticks. They should have been the drumsticks. That would have been better. Yeah. Yeah, she's not as funny as we want her to do. We're going to dock her a point. So the mood is good. Like, how does it end?

I mean, everything was going great. I mean, there was so much. flirtation, eye contact, her smile, she was touching my hand. There was a lot of that. And then it was pretty short. I would guess like, I don't know, 30, 40 minutes. She just said, hey, I'm having a great time, but I got to go. I hope to see you again. And then I walked her to her car. On that moment, I was feeling the vibe. I went in for a kiss, goodbye. And next thing I know, her fingers are on my lips stopping me. She says to me, naughty boy. literally moves my lips with her hand to her cheek.

I don't know. It must have been the control, but that was the most turned on I've ever been. No way, that did it for you? Her pulling your face onto her cheek. That did it. I don't know. I know she was saying no to the kiss,

but I was like, whatever you want. You just discovered you like a woman to take control, brother. Yeah. That's what you discovered. I mean, obviously she was being fun and playful with it. Like, it's not like, is turning you down in a cold way. So I am actually surprised you're not seeing her again.

Yeah, I'm surprised too. I mean, what's happened since? I mean, there was a little bit of chit-chat via text right after the date. Okay. But then it just went radio silence for the last four days. Man, the chicken's gone cold. She's trying to ghost you for sure, but we're not going to let her. Yeah, just because it's cold doesn't mean, you can't pop it in the microwave, reheat it, getting nice and hot again.

I would hope like you would choose an air fryer. Well, I mean, are we talking about. Your way fried chicken is not where it's at. I'm working with what we got here at the radio station, and they definitely don't have air fryers or ninja whatever. You're talking about dating or chicken right now? Yeah, I'm confused too, but I'm liking it no matter what. Maybe she just wants to take it super, super slow with you because she liked you that much. That's true.

But she wanted to take it fast in the beginning. Yeah. I know. Fast, slow. It's like watching Alexis drive. It's hard to follow. So let's try and call her. We'll figure out if she has a reason for not talking to you in the last four days.

but hopefully we can get her to agree to another meetup when we do your second date update with Lisa right after this. No, no. It's your sister's name, Jeff. With Lisa right after this. Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. We're on the phone with Chris,

who told us that his date with Lisa was the most turned on that he has ever been. God, and nothing happened. Are you sure? Because after getting the deets, it's not hard to understand why he's. said that. Because first off, they went to Popeyes.

Ding, ding, ding. Then they played footsie together with their chicken tenders. Oh, which she pretended that they were legs. Sexy again. And then at the very end, when he leaned in to kiss her, she blocked it with her greasy hand

and then guided his lips onto her cheek. Call it him a naughty boy. Oh, yes. Yes. I mean, am I the only one who's sweating, thinking about that? Yeah. Yeah. I think it's more than sweats from the chicken. Oh, maybe I'm getting sick. Yeah.

Okay. I should probably get a checkup. But, I mean, according to Chris, it was an intense connection that they shared that day. That's so cool. It has been four days, though, since they last spoke over text, and he's not sure what killed the momentum. We're going to try and help him figure out why. Yeah, I would love that.

I mean, it was a perfect matchup, super funny, corky, pretty woman. I mean, come on, help me out. Do you have any theories? I mean, I must have just said something wrong, or we. weird in the text, but I've gone back through and looked at them, and there's nothing there that stands down. You didn't send any pictures, did you? No, I did not. Okay.

Because sometimes I send a naked, unbredded chicken, and that usually kills it for me. I heard too much about Jeff's. And, yeah, the girls like it breaded, by the way, Chris. That's another hot dating tip for you. Just in case this doesn't work out. All right, I'll take it. For guys, too. Go ahead, feel free to steal that.

Give me this call Lisa. I know. Again, Brooke is getting. Two turned on, just thinking about that naked chicken breast. Before we get an original and crispy. Yeah, exactly. So let's just dial Lisa. We'll see if she answers and then hopefully we can figure this out.

So here we go. Hello? Hey, we're looking to speak with Lisa. This is Lisa. Hey, Lisa. Thanks for answering. You're on a radio show right now. It's kind of cool.

It's called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Hey, Lisa. Hi. Hey. Look at you, you star. Hi. Okay. Yeah.

I think this actually could be a really exciting call for her. Yeah. All of us are very excited to talk to you because we heard about a date that you went on with one of our listeners. A really nice-seeming guy named Chris. Oh, Chris? Yeah. Your Popeye boyfriend? Can we call him?

No. Boyfriend already. Come on. This minute is, like, funny. Popeye guy. Popeye guy. I like that. Yeah.

Why are you calling? Sorry? Oh, yeah, this is a lot. Right. So this is a segment called a second date update. We do it when a listener of ours is having trouble figuring out why they're not getting a second meetup with someone. We call on their behalf to try and figure out if there's a reason why. I don't know. I don't know. You don't know? Okay. Can you start with your initial thoughts?

Like when he walked into Popeyes, you were like, what? I mean, I thought he was cute. I just, okay. It sounds like you're on the fence about it, at least. You're not outright saying, no, I didn't like him. So that's a good sign. It's tough because I do want to see him again and I had a great time. It's just that's not my specific situation.

What do you mean? What's your specific situation? So in my situation, my boyfriend likes it. when I go on dates with other guys. Your what? Your boyfriend? Okay. It's a thing.

I get it. So you're in a relationship with another man and you're just doing this because it's your guys' thing. Like he likes to be jealous. I mean, not really. Like, he goes on the date too and he watches. Like that's his thing. He was like in the restaurant at the same time.

What? Yeah. Yeah. So he came into the restaurant. and watched me go on a date with another guy. He saw the two of you playing with each other's chicken tender? But a guy staring at pop-by- I'm sorry, that's what I can't get over either. Like, you were, he said that you were acting like chicken tenders were legs.

Yeah. I mean, that's what you're supposed to do on a date, right? Like, have fun. Yeah, but it sucks because, like, you led Chris on, our listener. Like, he didn't know you were in a relationship. No, no, because I'm not lying because on my profile, it says that I'm looking for something casual. So are you saying romance is still in play? No, I mean, that's one of our rules.

Like, we can't do anything with other people, like a kiss on the cheek as far as it can go. Ah, that explains the guided mouth to the cheek. This is a slippery slope you're on, my friend. I mean, not really, like, it keeps things fun and exciting, and it makes it feel like we're still in, like, the early stages of dating. That's one of the worst parts of dating. Maybe for you The first stage. I don't know, but then you go to like 10 years

deep into a relationship and you barely talk to each other. Yeah, you wish you had a first date experience. Right. You wish to have more things to talk about. That's not true. I'm over 10 years in and like... Exactly. You've just proved my point. So thank you, bro. All right. Oh, I think Chris is going to be just bummed.

That's a bummer. Well, we can, we don't need to guess because we do have Chris waiting on the other line, listening in on this conversation wanting to talk to you, Lisa. Oh, my God. He just heard all of that. Unless he hung up.

Hey, Lisa. Oh, no, he didn't. He's still in. I don't even understand. What went on? You did this all as like a joke to have your boyfriend watch me on a date with you? It's not a joke. We just like watch each other go on first dates with other people.

I had a great time with you. I just make, I mean, what? You said that you was. you're a casual, you're up for something casual. Well, it sounds like you're also in something that's beyond casual, but you want something casual. I'm perplexed. I don't understand.

It feels very rude, and I feel like, I don't know. Such a process, bro. Okay, Chris, so after all the first dates I've had, and we do this, like, once or twice a month, like, you were one of my favorites. And I told my boyfriend that I might want to use one of my golden tickets on you this year. Oh, what's a golden ticket? You know, what? Okay, so like a golden ticket is a second date with someone.

And I haven't used mine yet this year, and I'm thinking of using it on you. Oh, Chris. I'm going to teased one more time, Chris. Aren't you honored? This is great. Brooke, take notes for your relationship. This is good. I thought we have an actual, a real connection.

I'm finding out it's just like a game. Yeah. No, no, no. Like, obviously, we had a good time together, like, or otherwise you wouldn't have called this radio station. Oh, she's got you there. We could go out again, and I can let you can see on the cheek again, but, you know, my boyfriend will be watching. A pity golden ticket, cheek-in. Where was he sitting in Pop-Fi?

Yeah, that's a good question. Where was he sitting? Did I interact with your boyfriend? Oh, my God. If he was in the drive-thru, I'm going to die. In the backseat. I don't want to ruin it because, like, he might be in the same spot when we go on another date, so, you know, I want to let him be inconspicuous. Yeah.

Does it ruin it for you that? He knows now that the boyfriend's going to be in the vicinity. Isn't that part of the facade that nobody knows? I mean, kind of, but, like, I would still use my golden ticket on you, Chris. And, like, again, my boyfriend hasn't, like, officially agreed, but, like, I will extend that. What if you end up liking Chris more than your boyfriend? Uh-oh. That's not going to happen.

You all know that I'm still here, right? No, we know. I just want to get more details about how this whole relationship thing works. That sounds really cool. Jeffrey is literally taking notes for some reason and I don't really get it. I mean, not to be too progressive here, but it's kind of archaic to think that just because a woman is in a relationship, that means she can't hang out with a man ever again or meet a new guy. Right, Brooke? No, I don't agree with you on this one.

You think that women should be locked down once they're in a relationship forever. I think every relationship can have different boundaries and that's fine that those are the boundaries that she has with her boyfriend. What I don't think is fine is that you're lying to other people. using people like Chris along the way. That's the part that sucks. That's fair. But now all the boundaries have been set out. She's said exactly how it works.

And Chris, you're in the loop. In the inner circle. It's actually the inner triangle, Brooke. That's a good point. Because it's a three-person thing. Unless her boyfriend's on a double date while watching her date, then it would be a square. Oh, it's really far away, a rectangle. Wait, have you done this before?

That's a great idea. No, we're just brainstorming here. Boy. We just took geometry. So Lisa, it sounds like you've already told us that you're willing to use your golden ticket on Chris. Wow. Am I right about that? Yes. Chris, Lisa's in and so is her boyfriend secretly in the corner.

Are you still down? Yeah, he's got to be listening to this somewhere, right? I do not want to go out on dates with somebody who needs approval from their boyfriend through a golden ticket. Yes. No, thank you. Oh, that's such a normal sentence to say, though. That's so weird. Oh, Chris.

Are you sure? Because, like, if it works out, we could go and watch his date the next week. Oh, yeah. I never want to do that. No, you two could be hiding in the ball pit while they're inside the McDonald's sharing a McChrispy. What? It's going so well. Oh, just remember, no kissing.

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Oh, the irony there. The chicken tender scene is just still strange to me, that that is part of the arousal situation. Now you know what you're getting into when you go to Popeyes. I mean, I guess if you know you're not hooking up with anyone, you've got nothing to lose. She's just having a good time. She doesn't care on the day to end. Free Papa. Yeah, there you go.

It's something to talk about later with her boyfriend. Like, when you did that thing, I thought that was so funny. So sexy. Oh, my God. People's turn-ons are just evolving as the world changes, and I don't know if it's a good thing or not. I'm not sure either. But, Brooke, does Michael want to watch you and me get some red lobster maybe this weekend?

I'll pretend to not see him in the corner if he's into that. I'm going to go, no, but you can sit and watch us if you want. Oh, well, that's not very fun for me. Your husband's like, who's that weird guy choking on a cheddar biscuit over there? Do you like this, Brooke? Yeah, Jeff won't say hi, hi, Brock. I don't know. It might reinvigorate your marriage

because it sounds like it definitely worked for Lisa. Lost opportunity. I'll keep that in my back pocket. All right. If things go south. Good for you. And make sure you keep us in your back pocket. If you ever need help with your dating life,

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natal charts, and how to step into your most vibrant life. And today I'm talking with my dear friend, Krista Williams. It can change you in the best way possible. Dance with the change. Dance with the breakdowns. The embodiment of Pisces intuition with Capricorn power moves. So I'm like delusionally proud of my chart. Listen to the Spirit Daughter podcast starting on February. on the Iheart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your podcast. I'm Nancy Glass, host of the Burden of Guilt Season 2 podcast. This is a story about a horrendous lie that destroyed two families. Late one night, Bobby Gumpright became the victim of a random crime.

The perpetrator was sentenced to 99 years until a confession changed everything. I was a monster. Listen to Burden of Guilt Season 2 on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. On the Adventures of Curiosity Cove podcasts, when peanut butter disappears from school, Ella, Scout, and Layla launch a full detective mission. Their search leads them back in time to meet a brilliant inventor

whose curiosity changed the world. In this Black History Month adventure, asking questions, thinking creatively, can lead to amazing discoveries. Listen to Adventures of Curiosity Cove every Monday from the Black Effect Podcast Network on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. What if mind control is real? If you could control the behavior of anybody around you, what kind of life would you have?

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