Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update: The Good, the Bad & the Fugly

Episode Date: April 16, 2025

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You're feeling this too. Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. All right, it's your second date update podcast. And today we've got a woman who claims she's a one-month er Yeah, I currently it's it. I don't know if it's a trend but it's what she does She waits an entire 30 days before they meet up again I know To believe why but we're gonna get to that in your second date update

We always like to start of course the podcast with some great comments because we have the most amazing listeners. Yeah, we do. And including Espinosa who commented. Ooh, I like the name. And said, damn it, y'all, crack me up. My name is Arlene and I listen to you guys every morning when I go to work at 5 a.m. Brooke E.

Love you, girl. Jeff, you da man. Jose, you man, you rock. You remind me of myself myself just a man version Alexis girl you in the back, but you still count girl Keep it up. I love our leans energy Hey, thank you to everyone who comments who subscribe shares. We love you Yeah, thanks for making us laugh alright now. It's our turn. Let's get to the second date

second date update Dating online right now is like being a contestant on a really stressful game show At least that's how our listener Sean felt because he was challenged recently by the lady He's interested in and she gave him one simple, but agonizing question to answer if he got it right I'm excited to hear what you have to say. I'm excited to hear what our listener Sean felt because he was challenged recently by the lady he's interested in, and she gave him one simple but agonizing

question to answer. If you got it right, there's a date and possibly a new car. If he got it wrong, might never see her profile picture again, and Steve Harvey would look at him in shame and disgust. I am intrigued by this new age of dating and I can't wait to hear what the question was. But first, Sean, tell us about this mystery game show girl that you met. Who is she? Her name is Janine and she is super hot. Oh, God. Super hot Janine. Yeah, you do have to be super

hot. You really do. With really white teeth. Like my God, their teeth are so white and what was the question that Janine challenged you with? The question was country or rap which has to go country obviously Okay, I mean I I don't want to get rid of either one if I'm being I mean, I don't want to get rid of either one if I'm being honest. Nobody does. That's why it's a hard question. Okay. What did you say, Sean? I said ditch country, but that picture of you drinking champagne on the beach is the best picture on this app. And I think that's what got her. We go swap it.

Okay. It felt like you didn't transition well to that compliment. Country, but go swap it. Okay. That was a, it felt like you didn't transition well to that compliment. Country, but you're hot. Not really playing by the rules there. What did she say? She said that I failed the main question. Yeah, see, that's the thing. Girls love country music.

Girls do love country music. But I got bonus points for appreciating her pitch, she said, so. Okay. Okay. So you got somewhere. smart to slip the compliment uh-huh and so what you guys end up doing you know I ended up kind of going back and forth like within the app I joked about zooming in on the picture and she was like what are you you know like perving out I'm you know like no zoom in and see what kind

of champagne you're drinking I want to know if you're drinking the classy stuff, you know. Okay. Also, I know your swimsuit size now. But what did you end up doing for your date? Like, did you take her on a long drive down a country road? If she's a country girl with the champagne of her choice? Yeah. Rent a pickup truck for the day I took her on a very short drive to a restaurant type of restaurant is a Asian sushi like buffet kind of restaurant less country than They're like witch country. I don't know. Okay. That's so good.

Witch country. That's so delicious on you. How was it? I mean, I always think sushi's a sexy date. It is. Yeah, it was great. And it was one of these places that's kind of adjoining like a shopping center, like a kind of mall type area.

Okay, that made it not hot. It's just like. Yeah. I took her to a strip mall. Yeah. This is taking in front of our eyes, but don't give him that there's high end malls that have like high end. Yeah, I mean, give us some highlights here from the day.

What are some good things that happened at sushi? Well, it was good sushi was like pretty high end. And we had a great conversation. And you know, the best thing about that location is Being close to a shopping center is you have the opportunity to extend your date Build a bear together It's not shocking at all. You could put a little cowboy hat on it and a little vest and boots. That'd be so cute. A little sushi roll with his hand. It's actually good.

And then you'd have a little teddy bear to remember your hat. That is really cute. I'm going to do this. Is that what you did, Sean? We actually, she had a high school reunion coming up, so she wanted to try on some clothes for that. So we went over to a department store and she tried on a bunch of stuff and showed it to me.

And I got to put my input in there and It was cute. It was fun. That's how you know, she's hot though. Cuz like I wouldn't Couple thing to do yeah Yeah, I don't as a guy that doesn't sound very fun to me to watch women put on a bunch of different outfits But how was it for you Sean? It was fun. I think we really hit it off and at the end of the day she said, hey let's hang again soon and we kiss.

You did? Yeah, she initiated a kiss. Wow, she initiated a kiss? Well, it was mutual. How are you on the phone with us and not just out on a date with her? Sounds sweet. I don't know. I asked her when she was free and she said a month from now.

Was she going out of town or something? I don't know. I thought she was joking. I laughed and then she didn't laugh. And I said, are you joking? She said, no no I'm just super busy but I want to see you in 31 days seems like a red flag like what what's going through your mind when you hear that Sean she's dating other people which is okay I mean that's obvious, right? Or is maybe already in a relationship with somebody.

That's what I was thinking, Jeffrey. He goes out of town. That's what I was gonna say, yeah! Alright, so has it been a month since that date happened and now we're reaching out? It's been closer to a week. But you know, I'm not gonna wait a whole month for her. Oh yeah. Rap boy doesn't play by the rules! But you know I'm not gonna wait a whole month for her Rap boy doesn't play by the rules. Just wait a week and then calls that country girl. I mean you just saying rap boy

Young Jeffrey's about to drop the mic. Stick to the cover. Wow, that's what you're doing. Put a straw in your mouth. We're just gonna play a song. It's what we're gonna do. An old school song and then we'll come back. We'll call Janine for you and try and get you a second date, all right? All right.

All right, hold on, man. Second date update. Yo. No. Yo. What the heck? Yeah, this is Lil Rap Boy. Second date update Yo Yo Yeah, this is little rap boy. I'm on the mic cuz hip-hop music is the stuff I like Country is wack. Yeah, it makes me yawn rather do more sushi with my homeboy Sean Bo y like Oh Boys at the top of his game I don't know if I'm gonna top that. That was incredible. That's right. That's a good answer.

Lil' Rap Boy's at the top of his game, yo. I don't know. I'm not gonna be switching to country. Yeah. You don't know what is going on. We're talking to Sean, who's a big fan of rap music over country music. But anyway, he recently went out with a girl that he met online named Janine. They went to mall sushi together.

Don't say it like that. He said it was a nice place.ine they went to mall sushi together and It was a nice mall sushi restaurant He even went with her to the mall and helped her pick out an outfit for her high school reunion that was coming up But afterwards even though it ended with a date She said we need to wait at least a month before we see each other again, which is weird Yeah, I know. Yeah, is that what I said? Before we see each other again, which is weird I know yeah, is that what I said no with a date was oh, okay? Sorry, you meant that's what I know if everybody else did still not you know rap mode hardcore But anyway, he's not waiting the full month

He wants us to call just a week after that date to figure out. Why does he have to wait so long? I don't know maybe there's like like a waiting period. She's like the DMV you have to take a number and I don't know. Maybe there's like like a waiting period. She's like the DMV. You have to take a number and She's got options man, and Sean you think that maybe the reason is that she could already be involved with somebody else. Yeah Yeah, it could even be something sushi if she's pregnant. That's a good point. You can get the fried stuff. We're just going to assume that she's not pregnant and we're going to call her and see what she has to say. Why does Sean have to wait a full month to go out with her?

I'm going to dial her number right now. Here we go. Phone ringing Hello? Hey, is this Janine? Um, yeah. Yo, Janine, what's up? He likes country boys. Oh, that's right. What's up, y'all? Howdy. Hi, Janine.

Hi. Hey. This is Jeff and company. All of us. From the morning show, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Lil Jeffery. Oh. Okay.

Yeah. Yeah. Morning radio show. Morning radio show. Morning radio show. Morning radio show. Morning radio show. Morning radio show. Morning radio show. Morning radio show. Morning radio show. company from the morning show, Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Oh, okay.

Yeah, Morning Radio Show. And we're calling because we have some questions for you about one of our listeners that you went out on a date with the other day. Sorry, it's just weird. I understand that, but we're reaching out on behalf of our boy Sean Yeah, yeah, so we heard a little bit about your date and it sounded good on our end But he told us that afterwards you said that he had to wait a whole month before he was allowed to see you again Yeah Okay, so I mean pretty long from my perspective that just means you are not like you're putting it off like what why? Um, I mean if you like somebody you find time unless you're going out of town

No, I'm not going out of town I do want to see him again. We We thought that maybe there's a chance you could already be in a relationship. Is that what's going on? No, no, no, no. It's not anything like that now. Okay. But I mean, you do sound hesitant to talk about it with us.

It's just, it's a little, it's a little awkward. I'm not sure how to put it. We love awkward. Yeah, We do. And listen, I mean, you've got a guy that it sounds like you like, but he feels like it's not being reciprocated. I mean, you've got to give him more than just wait a month. They'll I don't know that they'll stick around. I mean, we're here to try and help you, Janine.

Yeah, it's just so I don't know. I don't know what he told you or anything But I have a high school reunion coming up soon And I was just waiting to see him until after that was done. I don't understand Why why do you have to wait until after the reunion? Well, but that's kind of a thing. What? I'll put it this way.

So he's totally boyfriend material. Uh-huh. Uh-huh. But I don't know if he's like material that I would bring to like a big event where I know a lot of people. Oh. Does that make sense? bring like a big event where I know a lot of people. But does that make sense?

What are you embarrassed of him? You can tell us. Like, OK, you go to your high school reunion and you kind of want to like show off a little bit, right? Like, oh, look at me. I'm doing so well. I just know he's like. Like Arm Candy. Oh, wait a minute, he's not show off. He's like arm candy. Oh, wait a minute. He's not show offable.

He's not like. But you're attracted to him. I am. He's fine looking. Fine, ouch. So he's boyfriend material personality wise. You're saying. You'd find him in the middle of the magazine

just not on the cover. And you want to bring a cover boy. It's like one of those people how their personality makes them way more attractive. Yeah. Why would that matter at your reunion? Like I said, you kind of want to go and show off a little bit of these things. I feel like that's the point of that. I'm just afraid if we start dating, he would expect to be invited.

And like, how do I tell him, like, oh, you're not attractive enough to go with me to this thing like you see I could think of a great way that you can tell him that already did tell him that because he's listening right now what yeah you don't need to worry about inviting me to this thing. Don't worry. Okay. Um, that's how this works. We have them waiting on the other line so they could hear the reason. Oh, I wish I was doing that before I said anything. I'm Hey, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I knew that would sound bad.

And that's why I didn't say anything to you about it. I do like you. I do want to see you again. I mean, do you kind of understand where I'm coming from? Maybe you can ever want to bring someone else? No, not at all. You put on a real performance for me the other night. It feels like like, you know, I don't know why you would assume that I would want to go to your high school reunion anyway Like I don't want to high school reunions suck. I don't I didn't even want to go to mine So why would I want to go to yours, you know? You not being arm candy like I'm not trying to be arm that's not what I'm about so yeah, I Think this whole thing got like, oh, it's got really weird.

Sean, are you really over it? I mean, she didn't mean to hurt your feelings. She's being superficial. We all know the pressure that like a reunion can bring around. Right. Especially if you're a dork like me in high school, like you want to show up looking cool. I don't know. Yeah. Why are we talking about you being a loser in high school like you want to show up looking cool I don't know yeah you being I understand her like desire to want to do that I don't think that it's the

right thing to do but I get it you're you're basically calling Sean a dork in a roundhouse I'm saying she must have used to been a dork if she has to impress them with her okay Now you're calling both people But I'm saying it shouldn't matter it won't matter in the end don't yeah like you guys vived you kissed you had a great time Okay, enough bro. You're taking this whole thing. You're becoming a dork again, bro Is about you and helping you out. How do you feel in this moment? I'm out.

I understand we put her on the spot, but she just torched my ego, and I don't need that in my life. I also don't. I'm not interested in being arm candy. I'm a good dude. I rock. You know what we're going to do, Sean? I'm not even going to ask Janine to get a second date Wow

I'm sorry that that happened man. Can you hook me up with a sec date with somebody else cuz I do have other matches All right, that's just truthful. Hey, little rap boys got dissed. That's right. We're getting Jeffrey in the morning. Our text board's flooding with people right now who want to be Sean's arm candy at the reunion. Oh my god. Oh yes.

Please, can we set him up? We should. I'm gonna pass along these phone numbers and I guess he'll have to sort out who's gonna be hot Enough to make her jealous Alexis brings up a good point. They both never went to the Wander in you just say that your name. I don't know Michael be a Michael. There's like eight thousand Michael There's a million of the conversations that's like hey you of the conversations that's like, hey you! Yeah! How you doing?

You look familiar. Yeah. Like, bigger picture here. You know what I really liked is how our community rallies around somebody like Sean. Yeah! I mean, we do a charity drive for needy cats, nobody shows up. But a revenge call for some Ugo basically had to get an extra security guard at the door. Yeah, we did.

Because there's so many volunteers. We love a good Ugo story. We do. And I love our listeners. Remember, you can always hear our Second Aid Update podcast, which are now up on our YouTube at Brooke and Jeffrey. You also check out our TikTok, our Instagram, our Facebook and anywhere you get your podcast at Brooke and Jeffrey. Just so you know, each account has a lot different content. Yeah, I'm just, you know, saying, yeah, you should do it all. Yes, subscribe to everything and always reach out to us if you ever need a second aid update, we'll call the person who isn't calling you back.

Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Hey, I'm Dr. Maya Shankar. I host a podcast called A Slight Change of Plans that combines behavioral science and storytelling to help us navigate the big changes in our lives. I get so choked up because I feel like your show and the conversations are what the world needs, encouraging, empowering, counter-programming that acts like a lighthouse when the world feels dark. Listen to a slight change of plans on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Yo, K-Pop fans, are you ready?

It's your boy, BumHan, and I'm bringing you the K Factor, the podcast that takes you straight into the heart of K-Pop. We're talking music, idols, exclusive interviews, and even the real behind the scenes K-Pop stories. Plus, you're the fans, you're part of the show, and you can get a chance to jump in, share your opinions, and be part of the conversation like never before. And trust me, you never know where we might pop up next. So listen to the K-Factor starting on April 16th on iHeartRadio Apple Podcast or wherever you get your podcasts. This isn't just a podcast,

it's a K-pop experience. Are you in? Let's go. From the producers who brought you Princess of South Beach comes a new podcast, The Set Up. The Set Up follows a lonely museum curator, but when the perfect man walks into his life, well I guess I'm saying I like you. You like me? He actually is too good to be true. This is a con. I'm conning you to get the Dilama painting. We can do this together. Listen to The Set Up on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Are your ears bored? Yeah. Are you looking for a new podcast that will make you laugh, learn, and say, que?

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