Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update UPDATE: A Whole New Girlfriend
Episode Date: October 15, 2026You may remember Brian and Olivia as a “Disney DO & Disney DON’T” couple where he was super into all things Disney and she was open to learning more…. But where are they n...ow MONTHS after they first appeared on the show? Find out in your Second Date Update UPDATE!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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What happens when a Disney adult meets a non-Disney adult romantically?
That's got to be extreme.
Yeah, okay, we got a brand new update.
Update for you today on your second day podcast.
And that's the two, the couple that I'm talking about.
So if you didn't remember what happened, we're going to replay when they were originally
on the show with us.
And then they're coming back to say what's happened since.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So you don't want to miss it.
That is in part three.
Sorry there's some commercials to skip.
But let's go to comments.
Yeah, Tiago commented on yesterday's second date update about the guy who cried a lot.
Oh, our crier.
I mean a lot.
And Tiago said, I have a friend who's going to work for this guy.
After crying for 50 minutes, they might finally be able to talk.
I think he's a girl that would work for him.
Yeah, there we go.
Not work, like, work out.
I was like, why are we getting into business together?
No, yeah.
Work out to date.
Just go with big criers.
Oh, imagine them in public.
Oh, God.
Oh, no.
Oh, God.
All right, let's get to your brand new update.
Update.
It starts right now.
When you think of the most magical place on Earth,
most of us immediately picture the lotus flower massage parlor by the airport.
Oh, yeah, that went on the strip mall.
Oh, you know it.
Yeah.
But let's say there was a second happiest parlor.
place.
Okay.
For some, it's Disneyland.
Yeah.
And that was definitely the case for one of our listeners who was on the show earlier this
year trying to score a date.
You may remember them as the Disney do and Disney don't couple.
He was a huge fan.
She was trying to understand it.
But where are they now?
After agreeing to go out again, you're going to hear the surprising answer when we have
them back on the show for a special.
Second date, update, update, coming up right after this.
Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Second date update.
Whenever people email us saying they matched with someone online,
we usually assume it's on one of the big dating apps.
Tinder, hinge, Bumble, grumbler, all the usual ones.
But one of our listeners says he found a lady on an app that I've personally never heard of before,
but the name of it intrigues me alone.
Oh, I love a good, is it a pun?
Tell me it's a pun.
Let's find out more about it.
We'll speak to Brian.
Brian, welcome with the show, man.
Oh, thanks for having me.
I feel like there's just going to be one huge ad for a niche dating app that nobody knows about.
Yeah.
Tell us about this particular app that you use.
What's it called?
Well, the app that I'm on is called bristler.
Bristler?
Bristler.
For women that like beards.
Oh.
Oh.
That's a lot better than beardos.
Yeah.
Beardos is cuter or bearded.
I don't work for them, but I like it so far.
Okay.
So what kind of facial hair are you sporting?
Because I would assume you have to have some sort of requirement of beard or mustache to get on this app.
Yeah, you have to prove that you have a beard, at least.
Okay, so a goatee or like a mustache wouldn't fly on this site?
I mean, I've seen it, but I guess, well, I guess I haven't because, you know, I'm only looking at the women do not have beards.
No, it's okay.
It's okay.
You could say you're perusing the guy's apps, too, just for ideas.
I just disagree that the women don't have facial hair.
That would be so funny.
I know. Brooke would be so popular on this app.
She'd get so many swipes on her.
Let it fly, girls. Let it fly.
Okay, so I think we get the idea.
What's the name of the woman that you matched with?
I matched with Olivia.
Okay.
Did she hit you up first?
I reached out at the beginning of the week and then have made plans for the weekend.
Nice.
All right.
So where does a manly, masculine bearded guy like yourself take a woman for a first date?
I like to go to Dave and Busters.
Hey, fun.
That's like a fun day.
Little arcade, little alcohol.
We just sat at the bar, got some food.
Then the conversation started flowing pretty naturally.
Oh, good.
Nice.
Yeah.
You get nervous.
There's a lot of pressure on how your beard looks for this.
Like, since that's her thing, you know?
Yeah, do you groom it?
You wax it.
Oh, of course.
I have all the oils and the trimers.
Good.
Okay.
Made it look real nice.
That's good.
Okay.
And when you two were talking, what did you, like, connect over?
How did you bond?
Well, we both bonded over just being down for kind of anything.
I mean, and also how nice she was.
She complimented me on, like, the way I looked, the beard, obviously,
and then thought she was adventurous.
Not a lot of girls would want to go to Dave and Buster,
but she was down for it.
Did anything happen when you were playing games?
Did you help her hold a gun?
Oh, I was thinking he got too competitive or something.
Or did you let her win?
I'm trying to figure out what went wrong here.
Yeah.
Yeah, no, I cheered her on for the games.
We were working as a team because we were trying to get enough tickets to get a stuffed animal.
Oh, that's cute.
We were there a long time.
Okay, but now I'm with Brooke.
How did you mess up?
Yeah.
Just tell us.
Okay, so.
There is something.
I know it's more of a second and third date kind of thing you drop on someone, but I told her I'm a Disney adult.
Oh.
Yeah, you guys know what that is.
Yeah, we're like adult who's obsessed with Disney.
Maybe goes to Disneyland a lot for every vacation.
Names their children after Disney characters, that sort of thing.
You quiet down, dopey.
I'm shocked you went on an app for that.
That's a good point, Alexis.
There should be a Disney dating app.
Why do you think bringing that up may have been a weird point?
You do have to tell someone.
Not everyone's really into it.
And she kind of was asking me about it.
And I think she was kind of like kind of get me to say like what that means for me.
Like what level is she working with here, I guess?
Yeah.
Like, are you a fan or do you have Donald Duck bed sheets?
Right.
And so I told her, it's like, well, it means like with a group of friends, I go like five, six times a year.
Five or six?
Okay.
There's some of those I go every week.
I'm going to be honest with you, I could see why, like, looking down the road, that would be hard in a relationship if you weren't both on the same boat there.
Yeah.
Did you gauge her love of Disney?
Yeah.
I mean, I asked her.
I was like, well, you know, I really love Disney.
Do you love this?
And she said I like it.
I do really like it.
I think most people.
After the Disney conversation, you felt the vibe change a little bit?
Yeah, I mean, it wasn't as intense before, but it wasn't like a full-on drop-offs.
It was just like, oh, yeah, that is new information, I guess.
But yeah, she's not getting back to me.
I've tried to call on her.
But you know, I mean, like you understand that in a relationship, if you date someone who's not a Disney
adult, there'll be some compromise, right?
reasonable guy.
Yeah, I mean, I'd like to think so.
Brooke's going to be your fairy godmother when we come back.
Oh, you're really good Mickey Mouse impression.
You should do Mickey Mouse.
And we're going to do Cinderella style and ask to see her feet when we come back and do a second
date update.
We're going to see if that slipper fits.
I like that.
Disney style right after this.
Hold on.
It's a little weird, but thank you.
All right.
We're on it.
Hold on.
Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Second date update.
You're in the middle of a second date update update.
And we're going to find out how the couple is doing right after you.
you here part two. It's a special fairy tale edition of second aid update today where our listener
Brian who's a self-proclaimed Disney adult is looking to find his happily ever after. And
how does that happen? Well in Cinderella the prince brings a glass slipper from house to house.
How do we do it on our show? We request feet picks to see if they match what we like. Brian,
I'm not getting too creepy here, am I?
I think so.
Thank you, Brian.
Oh, man.
Yeah, we don't even have a slip, but we just want feet picks.
And Jeff wasn't even going to tell you that it was your feet picks that he was hoping for.
Oh, well, I mean, yeah, if you think that's going to help, you're the experts.
We'll request those from you later.
But the thing is, we still don't really know if Olivia actually got turned off by Brian's admission that he's a Disney adult.
And he goes to Disneyland five or six times a year.
But my co-hosts think that could be at least one red flag.
Well, it's just like two different lifestyles, right?
It's like hard to imagine going there five or six times a year.
Yeah, Disney adults, instead of going somewhere else, they just go back and back and back.
Some people like going to the beach.
They have that too.
Well, you're right, the Walt Disney World has mess beaches.
That's right.
Yeah.
Oh, that could be a good second date going to like a beach version of Disneyland.
See her in a bikini.
Disney hopping?
We'll ask for bikini shots after the feet picks.
That's what you're doing.
Ask for pictures. He did not say that.
Jeff is very creative.
No, Jeff is the villain.
Fully clothed at the beach then. Fine.
You're really giving off Gaston right now.
Oh, the hottest one.
Thank you, Brooke.
Anyway, let's just call Olivia.
We'll see if she answers the phone.
And we'll see a chance to say. Here we go.
Hello?
Hi, we're looking to speak with Olivia.
This is her.
Hey, Olivia. You're on a radio show right now.
We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Hi, good morning.
I'm actually confused.
Yeah.
Yeah, that's okay because we're doing a segment here.
It's called a second date update.
And we're trying to help out one of our listeners that you met up with recently.
A guy named Brian.
Oh.
Because he's not hearing back from you after the two of you hung out at David Busters.
Yeah.
And it sounds like it was fun.
Yeah, I'm sorry.
How did you get this information?
Well, from him.
because honestly he's a little bit disappointed
that the two of you hadn't had a second meetup.
Yeah, I mean, I just, I don't really know if we were a great match.
Okay.
What made you feel that way?
I think it's like our hobbies and our interests are a little different.
He's into things that I...
We'll just ask, does it have anything to do with his affection for the world of Disney?
Are you laughing?
Yes.
I mean, once he told you he was a Disney adult, what was going through your head?
I mean, I will say that I'm actually pretty open-minded.
And so when he first brought it up, you know, I thought like, oh, this is just like a quirky kind of passion.
Yeah.
But then he kind of got like a little more into it.
Into it how?
So he showed me a picture on his phone.
And it was with him and like a bunch of his.
buddies.
And they were all dressed up like Snow White Dwarf.
Oh, some of dwarfs.
That's kind of funny.
I've seen that where a lot of Disney adults will cosplay.
What about him being dressed as a dwarf was unappealing to you?
Well, we met on this app.
I have a thing for beards.
I thought he was attractive, you know, initially.
But then I saw this photo and all of the guys there have beers except one.
It was dopey.
Of course.
Oh, they're really committed.
So you were attracted to all of the dwarves in addition to Brian?
No, Jeff.
No, it was just, I think I kind of realized in that moment that, like, his whole identity is wrapped up into being this cartoon dwarf.
Like, this isn't a one-time thing.
This is a thing.
Just because it's one trip, though.
That doesn't mean he dresses like that all the time.
Yeah.
Yeah, it wasn't a dress like that for your date, right?
No, he was wearing regular clothes, but something else weird happened is he walked me to my car,
and then as we were walking to my car, he was singing the hi-ho song.
Oh, no.
Hi-ho.
It's off to kiss we go.
Oh, no, was he joking?
Was it a joke because of the picture from earlier?
I don't know.
You know, I just met him, so like this is my first impression.
That makes sense.
You're like, what do you do for living?
you're like, I'm a minor.
I'm mine for gems.
Look at this diamond that he's pulled out from behind your ear.
Oh, now Alexis is interested.
Oh, that's the truth.
But, okay, it sounds like, Olivia,
you were just kind of overwhelmed
by how into Disney he is.
Yeah, it just kind of made me question things.
We can all understand why you might feel that way.
I'm curious if Brian does, though,
because he is on the other line of this call
waiting to jump in and talk to you.
Are you serious?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Okay, you guys didn't tell me this when I just told you all this for me.
You're supposed to yell high.
Sorry about that, Olivia, but yeah, he's there.
Olivia, I get what you're saying there, by the way.
I'm sorry I had to go this route, but maybe I played into it too much.
But no, I don't think I'm actually one of the seven dwarves.
But the one I play, I'm bashful, by the way.
Oh, that's actually kind of endearing.
The sweet one.
Yeah, Brooke is drunky, so yeah, it's better than that one for sure.
Winy.
Olivia, does that make it any better knowing which specific character he is?
I feel like it does.
I don't really know what to say, to be honest, I just, like, if I'm going to date you, like, do I have to dress up?
No, you don't have to.
That's, like, something I do with my friends.
Of course, if you want to, like, that's a thing.
But, like, you don't have to.
Oh, that's good.
I mean, they give it this way.
It's healthy.
He's got good friendships.
He has a cool hobby.
He has other interests outside of you, which means he's going to be, you know, not too clingy.
For best gone on vacation.
Yeah, totally.
And he makes good money if he can afford to go to Disney five times.
You're not wrong.
Totally.
I mean, Alexis, would you be into him if you found out he was a Disney adult?
Could I go to the beach while he goes to the park?
Is that a resort still?
Yeah.
I heard the Grand Floridian.
I think that's a good compromise.
Yeah.
It's not quite a no.
And, you know, I probably should have waited to tell you this because I, normally I don't bring it up, but I felt so comfortable around you and we were having such a good time that I was like, okay, you know, why not?
Just tell you to.
Brian feels like you two had an obvious connection.
So we'd like to offer to send you out on another date and we would pay for it.
That's nice.
I wasn't planning to pay for it anyway, but.
Well, it's all right.
I work in a diamond mine, so.
He's covered.
I'm sorry.
I won't make those jokes on the tape.
Oh, wow.
Wait, is that a yes, though?
Yes.
All right.
True love is possible in this world, not just in the Disney world.
And turns out you don't have to ask to see a woman's foot and put a slipper on it to see if she's the one for you.
We couldn't have just gone with dreams do come true?
Dreams do come true.
When you're willing to change yourself as a man in order to fit exactly what a woman wants you to be.
It's when you wish upon a star, Jeff.
Yeah.
Stars and galaxy signs.
Good job, Brian.
Well, thanks so much, Yang.
Thanks for the help.
You got bashful a date?
I know.
That's impressive.
That's a good point.
We really are the fairy godparents.
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Well, this is awesome.
We've got Brian and Olivia back on the phone with us.
And can we all just assume that you two are still living happily ever after in the land far, far away?
I don't know about that, but we are still together.
Oh.
Oh, okay.
This is not happy.
Why do I only picture you in cosplay outfits right now as some sort of Disney Prince and Princess?
Yeah.
I mean, it's good to hear that you guys are together.
So what's going on with you two? What's new?
Well, I have exciting updates. It was my birthday recently.
Hey.
Oh, happy birthday.
You get a high ho for my boy.
Thank you.
Thank you.
And Olivia surprised me with the best gift, maybe of all time.
It was the best gift ever.
Oh.
She knows that I'm obsessed with Disney.
I mean, everyone, I guess everyone knows that now.
But she gave me an application who worked at Disneyland.
Whoa.
Oh my gosh.
I never thought of that.
That's actually kind of a beautiful gift.
Like you're encouraging his dream.
I hadn't thought of it at all.
And it's like this is why, you know, Olivia thinks of everything.
She's like 10 steps ahead.
It's amazing.
I can work.
I can do a 9 to 5 Monday through Friday at Disney.
Wow.
That wouldn't be that bad.
I mean, you know, though, when you get, it's like.
Don't say it.
Don't say it.
Don't put balls in.
I know what you're going to say.
No.
Once you work there.
It's like not meeting your heroes.
You know, it's kind of the same.
Totally.
He'll pull the curtain back.
Olivia, I disagree.
I think it's a great gift.
Yeah.
Thank you.
Look, I think that this is a great way for him to be a part of Disney.
And then he doesn't have to bug us about going to the park and dressing up in costumes every weekend.
But now he just gets paid.
He could be made to do it.
I love it.
I mean, he could actually audition and be one of the seven dwarves.
Yeah.
Is there a specific character that you want to be if you get hired at Disneyland?
There's so many.
I mean, I know you guys can't see me, but I have, I think I have a lot of range.
Oh, really?
Okay.
You could be a little Mickey or you could be Ratatouille.
I've heard that you have to do the mascot, the fur part before you get to move up to the face people.
You know, you have to like swelter in a costume before you get to be just yourself.
Hey, you know, I'm used to it.
I'm smiling on the inside and outside.
There is.
Perfect.
This is a pretty cool update.
Great, guys.
Thanks for reaching out, you two.
And Brian, good luck with your application to work at Disneyland.
We'll try to put in a good word for you.
And thank you.
Hey, and remember, janitor still counts as an employee there.
Oh, yeah.
I'll think it.
It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
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