Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update UPDATE: Hot Girl Jumper

Episode Date: December 19, 2024

After one of our most-listened to Second Dates, we were flooded with texts demanding an update after it aired...And now months later the couple is back on the phone with us!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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on the Black Effect Podcast Network, the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you go to find your podcast. Second date update. Is it possible to be too hot to date? Asking for a friend.

Nobody in this room could answer that question. Seriously, if you look on TikTok right now, there's all these videos of beautiful models complaining that no men will approach them because guys are too intimidated. Oh my god, my best friend is gorgeous and she always had that problem. Yeah, I think that is the truth. You just gotta talk to them.

It was all part of Jose's hashtag Ask a hot girl out without peeing yourself challenge. Oh, without? challenge yeah didn't go so well that might be the problem that one of our listeners Kristen is facing in her love life right now she's worried maybe she was too attractive during her first date oh my god okay we'll try not to make fun of you right out of the gate. I don't feel sorry for you already. We want to learn more. How are you doing?

I'm sorry. Can I just... This was a one-night phenomenon. I am not that hot. Oh. Kristen. Spoken like a true hot girl. Anyway, let's hang up on this girl. She's like, I'm only a 10.

That night I was an 11. That's what happened. We're just joking around with you, Kristen. That's better. I like that. Tell us about the guy that you ended up going out with. What's his happened. We're just joking around with you, Kristen. That's better. I like that. Tell us about the guy that you ended up going out with. What's his name? His name is Ben. I don't even know

if you could call it going out. Last week, I was supposed to meet up with my friend to get some drinks or whatever, girl of night. I have this thing where I like to wear these one-piece outfits now. Like a jumper? Like a jumper, yeah. Like a onesie? Yeah, like those babies wear that you zip up from the foot all the way to the neck.

No, but I will say I wish they had a zipper down below because going to the bathroom in a jumper is really embarrassing. Yeah, but that wouldn't be hot, Brooke. Okay, so sorry. Keep going. You're looking good. So I'm sitting at the bar waiting for my friend, and she is running late. And meanwhile, guys are, like, sending me drinks, the bartender's flirting with me. Okay, girl.

And there's this one guy in particular who is just like absolutely my type from head to toe like he was even wearing like the outfit my high school crush used to wear that was like my favorite outfit with like green corduroys and a little black polo shirt and he had a beard just like he was way taller than me it's good it's good that you got over him so did ben approach you then no i mean i thought maybe he was looking my way a little bit but like i said i was really feeling myself so i went up to him okay as you watch all the other boys be jealous that's me not cool never been in your situation in the corner of the bar saying that like oh that voice is jealous seriously i'm stoked for you i'm so all about this so how did it go well okay here's where it

gets a little bit weird because i've never had anything like this happen to me before so i'm like i'm sitting with him and i'm chatting with him and i'm clearly into him and the bartender comes over and interrupts because some other guy sent me a drink oh bro that's a good nice while you're talking to the guy that you want to be good and competitive like guy to guy being like hey bro sorry i see you she walked to you but i still got her attention over here no i like that did he seem to like that like as like a challenge or did he seem to be put off by it i mean he had a beard so it's pretty hard to tell what was he mostly beard like i was picturing more like five o'clocky shadows

that was like a little bit awkward so i kind of use that as an opportunity to like show him that I was into him. So I kind of looked at the other guy like, oh, thanks, but what the heck? And just ignored him and went back to talking to Ben. That's actually really good. That must have made him feel good. If I was Ben, I'd be like, wow, thank you. But here's the thing, guys. Then it happened again.

What? Wait, same dude? Like same dude? No. New? Different dude. What? Can you send me a dude? Like, same dude? No. New? Different dude. What? Can you send me a link

to your jumpsuit? I want that. It's on Fashion Nova, for sure. I had, like, some sort of magical magnetism going on,

and I just, I just, I, like, saluted that guy awkwardly, like, okay, Captain, and... I'm thinking about sending you a drink right now.

I mean, a bar seems like the coolest place. It's got captains. It's got lumberjacks. Brooke's over in the back saying, like, howdy doody. This is a yo mama tell off because I'm out here commentating. That's the weirdest bar. How did this interaction between you and Ben, how did that end?

Well, I mean, eventually my friend let me know that she wasn't coming. And I was was like that's actually fine and we hung out for the rest of the night had a fantastic night he gave me his number i gave him my number yeah and i mean that's basically been it did you ask him if he was single like point blank oh my god no i have not actually this is mind-blowing because even if he wasn't interested in you the fact that you were like literally swatting other men away in front of him and then telling him you were so interested like that alone would make a guy just want to call you back you that'd make you want to call

me not him i've been theorizing because obviously i've been thinking about nothing but this and maybe he like stalked me online and is like okay she's not always that hot oh it's like when they turn the lights on at the end of the night at the bar and you're like oh you have to understand like for me the onesie thing the whole thing is i don't have to put an outfit together it's like no effort so it's like i don't want to make up yeah that's true i'm with you okay you and your magic onesie, hold on. We're going to play a song. We'll play that. We'll call Ben for you, and we'll try and get your second date update, okay?

Okay, I'm suddenly feeling very self-conscious. Here we go. You're hot. You got this. Hold on. Second date update. You're in the middle of a second date update update, and we're going to find out how the couple is doing right after you hear part two.

Hey, if you're just joining us, it's the sequel to Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat. Kristen and the Magic Dude Attracting Onesie. Oh, this is the modern musical. Yeah, Alexis just wants to link. Yeah, I do. She went out and wore this one specific jumper that made her look real fine that night. So guys at the bar kept sending her drinks, which was a good thing. Except it was happening while she was sitting down with the one dude that she really wanted to be with.

A sexy lumberjack type named Ben, who's apparently more beard than body. Yeah. But she's worried maybe all that attention from other guys was a little bit intimidating to Ben. And it could have scared him away. How could a guy with a beard like that be intimidated i don't know what happened but he's not asking me out so i mean whatever it is i want to know okay maybe his beard got caught on the door and he's just he can't get home to make the call to you so let's find out here we go hello yeah yeah it sounds right hey is this ben the beard what i mean ben ben with a beard uh this is ben why are you so who is it he's not sorry

he sounded exactly like i thought i think yeah i think ben just flustered everyone in the room This is Ben. Why are you so awkward? Who is it? He's not Ben. Sorry. So awkward. He sounded exactly like I thought he was going to say. I think Ben just flustered everyone in the room. I know. Ben, sorry, my name's Jeff. I also have a beard, but probably not as nice as yours. I host a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're hoping to talk with you a little bit. You can also hear us on podcast, too,

if you want to look us up on Spotify or any of that. We're there. All right. Cool. That's all we wanted to say. Thanks for your time, guys. Go check us out sometime. No, we're really calling because we're doing something called a second date update, and

we're trying to help one of our listeners get a hold of you. Okay. Her name's Kristen, and you met her out at the bar the other night? Yeah, it wasn't really a first date. Yeah. I don't know a first date. Yeah. I don't know. Oh, my God. You don't remember Kristen?

She had the really cute jumper on. Most guys don't recognize that stuff. Yeah, good cleavage. Now you're speaking our language. No, oh, my gosh. I do know. I know who that girl is, yeah. She sounded good.

I mean, when we got to talk to her, she sounded awesome. Like funny. She wasn't like full of herself at all. Yeah. She's really fun. Yeah, she's super fun. She's great. Okay. I'm sorry. She told you that we hung out or something. She told a radio station we hung out. She said that she met you out at the bar the other night and was having a really nice time. And then then afterwards it's been kind of hard getting a hold of you and she's curious why wow this is this is so crazy yeah i know this isn't a normal thing that happens but we're really hoping to help her out because she's a listener who does that who does that that's so she's just kind of messed up did she do something to you? I don't know.

The situation was like, I saw her at a bar, and she came over to me, and we started chatting. She was really funny. But I mean, she got a drink from another guy, I guess. Okay. She mentioned that to us a little bit. Is that something that intimidated you? I mean, not really. Not at first.

I mean, I thought it was kind of funny that a dude was doing that. But when it happened again, because it happened like a second time, I was like, oh, hell no. This is ridiculous. Yeah, but how are you blaming her? Yeah, it's not her fault.

So like the situation that happened was like she had to leave for a hot second and step out to like talk to her friend, I guess, because I guess the friend wasn't coming. But when she was outside, I like walked over to the guy who had set the drinks i was like hey do you mind not doing that i'm talking to this girl right now and it kind of what makes me look a little bad or like feels like you're being competitive which is like so childlike that's not bad to go talk man to man real quick and just say hey bro yeah you know you know you're not causing a scene

right yeah you want to wrestle beards over no? No, see, that's what I mean. It's different. Take you down. If he's like, back off. But if you're like, hey, man, politely, I'm trying to talk with her, and I think she's interested in me. So what did he say? He said he didn't send it.

What? Oh. So then you just obviously got the wrong dude. Yeah. Like it was somebody else. The bartender said it wrong. No, because the bartender pointed at the guy out. Oh, yeah, because they're across the room, so the bartender was

from him. So you went to the bartender. So I walked over to the bartender and I asked the bartender, and he was like, I can't really disclose that. What? I thought he just pointed the dude out. He just disclosed it. Oh, sorry, man. HIPAA. Can't do that. He probably doesn't want to start a fight or something. Yeah, what did he say?

It was just weird that he was being coy, and I called that out, and I was like, why do you care? You literally pointed the guy out before, and that's when he told me, which is that, I guess this is something that she does. That Kristen does? She pays the bartender to, like, send

a drink to herself from some random guy every, like, half an hour, hour. Brilliant! No way! Do you believe believe that i'm gonna start doing this i don't think that works for you okay you think that's true yeah because the second he like admitted it he was like don't tell her she does this often like she comes in and does this every month or so who's this jerk bartender blowing up her spot? Like, he did it for, like, a few months for her, though. That's kind of nice.

He's probably tired of it, to be honest. You know, it's fun to keep track of. That's a sneaky trick. So you think that's a red flag. You don't think it's just kind of funny. That's so deceitful. It's so weird that she does that. It is deceitful, but I like it.

I feel like it's just trying to pump up her own confidence. Some people need that, especially if they're going to go approach another guy, which is a really intimidating thing to do as a woman. I mean, it sounds so outlandish. You guys are all believing it. I'm still not sure if this is actually true. Okay. I think we should just ask Kristen directly.

Kristen, did you pay the bartender to send you drinks? Of course not. That's ridiculous. Oh. Kristen, did you pay the bartender to send you drinks? Of course not. That's ridiculous. Oh, wait, no. Wait, you're saying no, Kristen? Yeah, Ben, I forgot to tell you. Kristen's on the other line listening. She wants to talk to you.

Oh, my God. This is so embarrassing. I'm embarrassed. This is embarrassing for everyone, honestly. Okay, first of all, that is not even true that's complete nonsense i would never do that but let's say theoretically someone did that that's hilarious i don't believe her i don't know i was listening and ben's all like oh she's messed up and i'm like have you never seen the movie clueless oh do they do that in clueless i haven't seen

a lot yeah but remember she sends herself chocolates and flowers oh yeah yeah yeah i thought they were in high school. I don't think they could be at a bar. For somebody that's denying it, you sure do know a lot about how this system works. Yeah. That's strange. Oh, my God, you guys.

A magician never reveals their secrets. There we go. Okay. Let me guess. Some random guy bought you your onesie. Is it not even that cute then? I'm kind of like, wait. No.

I mean, then here's the thing. Does it even matter? Like, who cares? She sounds awesome. I mean, you can kind of hear what she's saying right now. She's making it seem like it's not that big of a deal, but she's like not owning up to it, but she kind of is owning up to it.

And I'm like, if you're starting off on the wrong foot by being like deceitful and like maybe lying or maybe telling the truth, then I already don't want that right off the bat so um you are like i feel like you're taking this really really seriously considering we were a couple of random strangers that met in the bar and had a laugh and i just wanted to know you all right well then uh if you think that i'm taking it too seriously then just own up to it then i'll ask you again did you do it yeah of course i did it's what dating is it's like you know trying to make yourself feel better trying to make

yourself look the best she just used a different method okay well i'm sorry i'm sorry to interrupt this conversation but i do need to let ben know that there's another woman who wants to send you a gift card to go on a date yeah would you like that gift card ben because ben if you say yes then you can go out with Kristen one more time. We'll pay for that. You know what? Sure. Yeah, why not? Yay! But you have one

strike against you right now. I'm putting you on a warning, okay? Sounds like a naughty thing. Okay, great. At least you know I have never ever cheated or anything like that ever in my life. Why would you have to insist that? No one asked. Nobody asked that question.

Now I'm starting to worry. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. It's been a few months since we did that second date, and we were supposed to have Ben and Kristen back on with us today to get an update on their situation. What? We don't? Only Ben agreed. Kristen actually sent us an email calling Ben a bunch of names.

What? I don't know why, but Ben, can you shed some light on the situation? Tell us what happened. What'd you do? Maybe they were sweetheart. Maybe she was calling you sweetheart and babe. That's not the names. No, I can tell you that.

Ben, what happened, dude? I mean, I absolutely know why she refuses to be on the phone um it's because we went to some sort of bar but it was a different one than we went to on the first date obviously for obvious reasons yeah yeah we gave you a gift certificate so what happened yeah yeah yeah no and i was like you know it would be a really good joke i mean in retrospect it was kind of stupid but i thought it was funny which is i decided to pull the same joke that she pulled on me oh you had women you had pretend women sending you drinks exactly that's it i got there early and i told the bartender i was like hey i'm gonna sit over there here's my

credit card and you'll see when my date comes in. And maybe wait like five minutes. And then can you bring me a vodka soda and say, like, point to the cutest girl in the bar and, like, say it's from her. Do you mind that? Okay. That's exactly what she did. Yeah. I thought it was obvious.

Obviously funny. Right? Right. But then when the bartender did it, was furious why why was she so mad did she think you were making fun of her or i don't think that she really got the joke at first and i didn't really have much of a time to kind of explain it because she just marched right over to the woman oh no so i had to kind of play damage control and i like rushed up as well and i was like hey i'm so sorry like it was a joke and then she like got in my face for a hot second whoa she was the one that came

up with this joke it's not as funny when a guy does it only I do the joke you can't do the joke she seems so cool not so unstable that's what happens with all those cool girls. They're cool one second, nightmares the next. Oh, no. Was that the end? Well, yeah. I mean, I guess she just got a little bit of her own medicine, and she's not really returning my calls.

Okay, so obviously she really was doing it because she had kind of some, maybe some self-esteem. Okay, poor thing. Dang it. Yeah, it was a bummer, but whatever. Hey, we're down for the best, bro.

Did you get that woman's number that sent you the drink? If I can get it, will you guys help me out with the second date update? Oh, for sure. For sure. It obviously went so well

the first time. Right. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Ugh, we're so done with new year, new you. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them.

More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears

with The Daily Show Ears Edition Podcast. Dive into Jon's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. AJ Stevens, vice president of client strategy at athletes. First introducing the athletes first family podcast,

the quarterback series, my cohost, Brian Murphy, athletes, first CEO. And I are sitting down with the agents who have negotiated contracts for Justin Herbert, Deshaun Watson,

Dak Prescott, Tua Tugnavailoa, and Jordan Love. Listen to athletes first family podcast on the I heart radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You are cordially invited to... The hottest party in professional sports.

I'm Tisha Allen, former golf professional and the host of Welcome to the Party, your newest obsession about the wonderful world that is women's golf. Featuring interviews with top players on tour, tips to help improve your swing, and the craziest stories to come out of your friendly neighborhood country club. Welcome to the Party with Tisha Allen is an iHeart Women's Sports production in partnership with Deep Blue Sports and Entertainment.

Listen to Welcome to the Party, that's P-A-R-T-E-E, on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts. The OGs of uncensored motherhood are back and badder than ever. I'm Erica. And I'm Mila. And we're the hosts of the Good Moms Bad Choices podcast,

brought to you by the Black Effect Podcast Network every Wednesday. Yeah, we're moms. But not your mommy. Historically, men talk too much. And women have quietly listened. And all that stops here. If you like witty women, then this is your mommy. Historically, men talk too much. And women have quietly listened. And all that stops here. If you like witty women, then this is your tribe. Listen to the Good Moms, Bad Choices podcast every Wednesday

on the Black Effect Podcast Network, the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you go to find your podcasts.