Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update - Second Date Update UPDATE: Switching Partners Country Style

Episode Date: June 27, 2024

A few months ago we had a Second Date that had everything: Country Line Dancing, Allergic Reactions… OAT MILK. Now that couple is back with us to tell us all about what’s happened in their intense romance ever since!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Second Date Update. Dating is a perfect time to try new things. Okay. Whether that's recreation or amputation. What? Or how about a vacation to another nation? Hey.

With a brief incarceration. No. As long as we're doing something that rhymes with Asian, then I'm up for it. Hey, I do that a lot. Don't give me any explanation. Okay. Nice one, Brooke. And it sounds like one of our listeners was up for it, too.

His name is chad so let's welcome to the show chad i want him to be chadination chad what's up man how you doing hey how you guys doing he's like my last name is salutation hey dude thanks for being on with us. Tell us about the girl that you met. Yeah, so I met this girl online. Her name's Pamela. I'm a huge cat person, and I saw her profile picture. And it's like these two cats looking at each other, two hairless cats, which is sphinxes. Wait, her dating profile is a picture of two hairless cats looking at each other?

Exactly. Some people do that. Some people actually just have the silhouette. They don't put any pictures up. So a couple of cats wouldn't be the worst thing. Yes. Yeah. Yeah.

I've always been, like I said, I'm a huge animal lover, but specifically cats. You reached out to her and what happened? Yeah. So we started talking, hit it off real good. Of course, the cats were the first thing that we started talking about. And then like she asked me, she's like, you want to go out sometime? And I was like, yeah. So it was nice.

I like that. A bold cat lady. Even better. Exactly. What did she ask you to do? Well, she asked if I wanted to go with her to go line dancing. Oh, fun. That is fun.

It doesn't rhyme with Asian, but that's okay. Are you a big dancer? Is that a comfort zone for you? It is not a comfort zone, and it definitely came out of left field for me. Well, good for you for putting yourself out there trying something a little bit different. How did it go? Yeah, it was

good. I mean, you know, on our way there, I was feeling a little run down, so on the way there, we stopped at a Starbucks. I grabbed myself my shaken oat milk espresso, which I'm addicted to nowadays i hear almost good alexis hot hot on the first day good choice it's basic it's listed on the menu it's customized but whatever yeah wait were you guys driving together to the date yeah yeah we were together see that's a good sign too yeah a lot of trust there yeah i mean, everything was great.

Go on, I'm sorry. Oh, I was just going to ask if, like, the dancing part of it made you extra nervous. For sure, yeah. Okay. And not only the dancing part, once we got there, like I mentioned, I'm a total beginner. And one thing I didn't know, you guys might know this, but with line dancing, you're constantly switching partners all the time. Yeah. I didn't know that. That's kind of rough for a date night if you're constantly switching partners all the time. Yeah. I didn't know that.

That's kind of rough for a date night if you're always dancing with other people. A birthday night, yeah. It was very awkward. And, you know, I'm not really the jealous type, but, like, she was with a lot of dudes and dudes that knew their line dancing that looked like they lived on the line dancing floor and or the gym all the time. Okay. Hot buff country guys, huh?

Yeah, but I don't think you should be intimidated by that. Like, she obviously is someone who goes to these places. Like, she's not looking for those guys. I mean, we don't know. Did you get the feeling that there was any one guy that she was particularly, like, locking in on, gyrating extra specially hard on? It's line dancing. I don't know how line dancing works. She's a cat woman with two hairless cats.

I mean, okay. I don't know. I'm just asking. I mean, there was one guy that she seemed to go to that I actually kind of started, like, talking to quite a bit. And I was, like, trying to get a feel. Like, you know, he said he had met her before in the past. So I was just trying to get a feel of what her vibe was, you know. You swooped in on her man?

Well, I hope it's not her man. I mean, I was trying to read the situation and it was kind of tough. I mean, he seemed to know a lot about her, but could be a friend thing too as well. Like, I mean, he didn't come out straight out and said they dated. And if it was an ex, you wouldn't immediately go, oh, she's amazing. Yeah, you should get to know her. You know, like he was like talking her praises. They could have been friends for years and danced together for years.

We'll put a tiny miniature red flag by that one. But tell us about how the rest of the night went. The rest of the night went cool. I mean, you know, I did as good as I could on the line dance. I was great at it. I bet she was impressed by that, though, that you were trying. I hope so. I mean, it seemed like it was working great at it. I bet she was impressed by that, though, that you were trying. I hope so. I mean, it seemed like it was a great night,

and she had a nice hug and a little mini kiss, I guess you could say. Okay. But since then, nothing. Nothing? Nothing. Like, no text, no, like, you know, hey, fun night. Now, the thing that I'm also tripping out about is, on top of the ghosting thing,

is I signed up for this eight week long class for line dancing. Oh, no. Oh, God. So you really need this date to work out. Oh, my gosh. Yeah. And it's like it wasn't cheap either. I think it was like $279.

It was like almost $300. Oh, my goodness. Oh, gee. Well, we better get you another date with this woman. You're going to be out $300. That's really cute. Does she know that? No, I haven't told her that yet.

I felt weird, like I was being desperate. So I haven't told her that part yet. Okay. Well, grab your partner, do-si-do, because to the second part we go. Who wants to dance with me? I think that's square dancing. Oh, really? Oh, there's no do-si-do.

Well, at least some people in this room are excited to call for you. And we'll come back, try and get you a second date update right after this. Second date update. You're in the middle of a second date update update. And we're going to find out how the couple is doing right after you hear part two. How about a date at a country line dance, huh? Yeah. Wow.

We're really into it. Oh, my God. I love it. I love Country Bar. Definitely haven't heard that in a while. It actually sounds like it could be kind of fun. Yeah, for sure. Maybe we should do like a whole morning show event together where we all go country line

dancing as a group. Can I wear a cute hat and cowgirl boots? Why did you say it in front of Alexis? That is so embarrassing to bring her to a dancing event. I used to live down the street from a country bar they do line dancing and i was too scared to ever participate oh this is great because i've been really trying to hang out with you guys more than the 60 hours a week we already spent together i knew you i knew that anyway it's a great idea for a date except for the fact that

your partner does dance with a lot of other people. It's fine, unless you're a weirdly jealous person. That's not a thing. It could cause some jealousy issues. In fact, Brooke sounded jealous when you described all the other hunky dancing cowboys there, Chad. I sounded annoyed that anyone would be jealous at something like this.

That's what you do. It's what everybody does. Why do you have such a big smile on your face when you're saying? Because I like Wranglers. Okay. Chad, how are you feeling? I'm hoping to get some explanation for what's been going on, for sure. Right, but you're not jealous in any way, right?

I don't know if I'd go as far to say jealous, but definitely a little uneasy, I guess, maybe. Dude, but after your eight-week line dancing course that you signed up for, you won't even bat an eye. I mean, we've got to get you another date so you can show off your moves. Yeah, let's not waste any more time here. We're going to dial Pamela for you right now and see if we can make sure that the money that you spent on the dancing classes is actually worth it. Here we go. All right. All right. All right.

Hello? Hey, we're looking for Pamela. Speaking. Hey, Pamela. You're, how do I say this? The same way you say it every time. Yep. Just go with it. She's trying to switch it up.

Trying to make it new. Do something you don't have. Don't change something that's not broken whatever comes out comes out can i help you yep yeah jeff you're on the radio right now with brooke and jeffrey in the morning what happened that's not what i wanted to come out yeah it sounds like we're on a country station yeah like that hi pamela hi i'm on the radio? Yeah. Sorry. We're a morning show, and we do a segment here called the Second Date Update. It's where we help out some of our listeners who've been out on a date, and they're wanting to see that person again but having a hard time arranging it.

Hmm. Okay. She says. So we're calling you because you went out with somebody that listens to our show named Chad. Apparently you went dancing together. Oh, right. Yeah. That is right.

Chad seems like a nice, fun guy. And he said that you're the one that asked him out first even. Yeah, yeah. He is a very nice guy. That's good. That's a reaction. Well, we're trying to help him because he's really confused. After your date night, he was not sure why there hasn't been a second date because he's asked you a few times.

Oh, wow. Okay. That was a big breath. On the way to the place Yeah We stopped at a Starbucks And he got Like some kind of an oat milk Shaken oat milk espresso Oh yeah Alexis knows that drink

What was it Alexis? I think it's the shaken oat milk espresso he got So I am very allergic to oats Oat milk Anything with oats What? Oh That's horrible I get sick to my stomach Like sick to my stomach allergic to oats, oat milk, anything with oats. What? Oh.

I get sick to my stomach, like sick to my stomach. That's a thing? Did he make you drink it? No, no, no, no. But even just the smell makes me feel sick. You know what I mean? Oh, God. Wow.

And you're in the car with him? Did you say something to him? Like, hey, I'm allergic to oats? I bet he wouldn't have ordered that. There's so many other alternatives he could have done if he doesn't do milk. You know, he could have done almond. That's my bad. I didn't say anything. I just felt uncomfortable with that.

And then, oh. That was a good idea. Okay. Something else has dawned on you. What else happened? So a couple days later A girlfriend of mine That I normally go dancing with

She calls me She goes Guess who was at Cowboy Palace? Cowboy Palace? That's what it's called? I love it Who? She saw it

Who was it? The guy you went out with No You don't say I didn't see it coming Me neither What's wrong with that? The guy you went out with. No. You don't say. I didn't see it coming. What's wrong with that? You inspired a new passion for him.

I don't know. That just felt a little, because I don't think he's ever been country western dancing before. He and I went, and suddenly now he's going back there. Like, is he looking for me? Like, what's he? I don't know. It just made me feel a little weirded out. And so I back there. Like, is he looking for me? Like, what's he? I don't know. It just made me feel a little weirded out. And so I felt like.

Oh, no. That can be perceived. I don't think that's why. Would that be so bad if he was there, like, hoping to see you again? Is that a horrible thing? I mean, if he had drank oat milk earlier that day. It's like one of my places. I'm a total regular there. I know everyone there.

I know a lot of people there and i went there hey look you know what i'm up right now oh very very one sentence i was there hold on there chad uh pamela i gotta let you know that chad has been on the other line secretly listening to this conversation and clearly wants to talk to you did he forget he's not supposed to just talk well i think he couldn't hear anymore. What is happening right now? I don't even... Suddenly I'm on the radio and I'm talking about my personal life

and now the guy is there? Actually, that's a great description, Pamela. You should do our promo for second date updates on our station. Somebody clip this and send it back to us. Chad, sorry. Go ahead. You wanted to say something yeah well look the reason I

interrupted is because I was there at Cowboy Palace buying dance lessons so I could get better for the next time that's so cute Pamela it was going to be his secret surprise for you that suddenly he can dance I didn't even know that you even

liked it that much i i just i don't think he did actually no i think he did you wouldn't do lessons if you didn't like it likes her enough that he wants to dance with her chad yeah i mean i know how much you like it i mean that's the big thing you know and and we had a great night so if that's something you're going to do and we're going to hang out more, I want to do it the right way. That is really cute. That's really cute, Pamela.

I just want to clear something up. So country western dancing, you do the line dances, you do the two-stepping. I'm going to be dancing with other people, too. I know a lot of people there. We're all friends, and we dance together, just so you know. Okay. Does that mean you're interested in him or not?

But she's planning for the future. That's a good sign. You know what I mean? Well, it sounds like she can't avoid him. He bought a membership. It sounds like she's willing to see you again. I will let you just no more oat milk.

Okay. I like almond milk too, so I'm fine with that. Okay. You don't like almonds, are you? Almond milk is fine. Alright, Chad, look, you got another date and all you had to do was sacrifice your favorite thing in the world. Yeehaw!

Oh! Okay. So close to romantic. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Well, it's been months since Country Oat Milkgate happened here, and Chad and Pamela apparently are still together and are back now to give us an update update on their lives. Welcome back, you two. Hey, how you guys doing?

Oh, my God. I bet you're so good at country dancing now. Oh, my gosh. Are you still into that, Chad? Oh, my God. I bet you're so good at country dancing now. Oh, my gosh. Are you still into that, Chad? Oh, yeah. Big, big time. Hardcore now.

Hardcore. Can you say that about? Awesome. Hardcore line dancing. I'm so hardcore, I'm getting into other shapes. Yeah. How is he, Pamela? You know, he's actually kind of a natural.

Oh. That's great. Well, that's probably why it's so fun, too, because if you pick up something quickly, it feels good. He can grapevine like nobody's business. Yeah, I mean, I got so into it, I actually started competing. Oh. No way. Oh. Yeah, I'm pretty excited about it.

I've been racking up some wins, too. Sweet. No way. You're getting dubs? Nice. Yeah, I mean, he's been doing it so much, and he's been competing with some pretty attractive gals. Oh, no. Oh, is that how it goes?

So do we. All the pretty people? Now you're the jealous one? Is that what we're hearing? I hate to say it, but yeah, a little bit. He's like a show pony. How the tables have turned. Oh, no, I know.

I even like, you know, because I help him put together his outfits, I was starting to think like, oh, I'm going to suggest some kind of icky shirts. He's like, honey, I have a dance with Carrie Underwood this weekend. I really need to look good. Shania Twain's next weekend. That would be awesome. Me and Reba need to look great. Yeah, and you guys, I'm not interested at all.

I mean, all I care about is winning. You know, I love her. I have no desire in that. I just want to win. Aw. I love that. Awesome. Good for you guys.

Oh, but anyway, I should tell you, so since I was getting a little jealous, I was like, well, why don't I just compete with him? And we can be partners. And so that's what we're doing now. Okay. Now you're a line dancing team. Yeah. Yeah.

And check this out. We are trying to, this is our big push. We're trying to win the world championship in Orlando, which is coming up in a few months. Oh, wow. You guys are competing at that level? That's amazing. This is really taking off. You know, why not?

We'll give it a shot. All right. Congratulations. The World Championships in Orlando, sponsored by oat milk, I'm sure. I gave up the oat milk. I gave up the oat milk. What a good guy. Well, good luck on the competition and with your relationship, guys.

Thanks for reaching out. Oh, thank you. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Ugh. We're so done with New Year New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble.

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