Brown Bag Mornings - 10/08/26 Remarried on the Anniversary 👰‍♀️💕 | Brown Bag Mornings

Episode Date: October 8, 2026

The squad tackles an outrageous Homie Helpline after a listener reveals her father is soft-launching a new wife just three months after her mother passed away, triggering wild caller confessions about dads bringing in new partners within 30 days because they can't cook an egg 🍳💔! Between relationship drama, the crew breaks down Joe Manganiello exposing Sofia Vergara's cold marriage secrets, Courtney Kardashian threatening to fight Jennifer Lawrence, and a Yankee fan ruining New York's postseason comeback 🐶🥊⚾.[Edited by @iamdyre 👨‍🚀]Chapters(00:00) Don't You Know I'm Local1:52) Chisme(5:58) Rap Sheet(7:58) Petty Police(10:43) Scrolling(13:50) The Weather W/ Concrete!(16:04) Homie Helpline(1:04:34) Tepic's Teachings(1:08:46) Chisme(1:10:47) Don't You Know I'm Local(1:13:30) Studious Foo(1:16:23) Play Ball Experience the Culture: Catch Brown Bag Mornings and the rest of the network 24/7 on the Amplified Voices TV app: amplifiedvoices.com/podcast-brown-bag/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Hey, don't make your life harder than it needs to be. You really want to type Bratback mornings every single time? Nah, just hit the subscribe button, Perrito. Do it. Go! What's up? This is Be Real from Cypress Hill. Where are you from, Esse? Don't you know I'm local? This one goes out to all the people, all the rich people that are able to afford foreigns, but not able to afford California, Texas. This goes out to you trying to avoid paying taxes on luxury cars. Apparently, there's this thing called the Montessoranese.

Montana loophole. And people have been using it to save thousands of dollars. So check this out. Apparently, Montana, the state of Montana, doesn't have a statewide sales tax. So what some people have been doing is setting up fake businesses, freaking shell companies over in Montana. Then they buy their Ferraris, their Lamborghinis, other expensive cars under those businesses, registering them with Montana license plates.

But then coming over here and living over here and just like, in California traffic. Now, Governor Gavin Newsom, he just signed a new law that cracks down on this because apparently California is estimating it's been losing about $20 million a year because of this loophole. And I just want to know who tells all the rich people, all the loopholes that they can do because they always know the loopholes. Rich friends. Yeah, rich friends. They share the secrets and stuff like that. But like who tells them that?

Who's the first fool to be like, hey, I'm going to just go to Montana and buy a Ferrari? And then I'm going to tell all my homies over there in Los Angeles. It's people's job to learn those little loopholes and stuff like that. Yeah. They exist. All of them exist, brother. All them. All them.

All the time. Yeah. But now there is a crackdown on them because, dang, $20 million. And you got it. You're buying a freaking Ferrari. That's a lot of money. Buying a Rory. Okay. First person in here that gets a luxury car.

I'm on you. And you're a Montana show company. Loopold. All right. That was so you know, local. Do it come here? Now what's going on? Yeah.

Cheezmation with Angie. Okay, you guys, this is crazy because we're going to see Sophia Vergara as a mean lady, okay? Because Sophia Vergara's ex-husband Joe Manganiayo is going in on her in his new book. He's saying that she wasn't there for him when he was fighting for his life. So apparently he was like, he got really sick shortly after they got married. Like he had abdominal pain. He lost like 60 pounds. He had a bunch of colonoscopy.

Sorry if I said it wrong. fevers, rashes, headaches, fatigue. He was going through it, fighting for his life. And he said that he just felt during that time, he felt alone because she would refuse to hug him. Like, she would not be a sweet lady to him. Things like that. Yikes.

But then he says, like, they got a dog, which I'm not, if I'm familiar with it, like, they had this ugly little chihuahua named Bubbles that Sophia would always mock that dog. And I remember in, like, an interview, Sophia would always call a dog like idiot, things like that. But that was his dog No apparently no Sophia was saying like

Because in the interview She would always say like No that dog like I got it for me But when he got inside the house Like it went straight to Joe And that dog just hates me So it's his dog It's his dog now

The dog knows the vibes He just he said that that dog Actually saved his life Because it got dark at that time Where he started having suicidal thoughts And he's like dude That dog was like my main focus Yeah

That's unfortunate. Yeah, but he's saying like, yeah, she would not hug me. She would refuse to hug me. I'm wondering if she was not like that before they got married. Like if she was someone that just wasn't affectionate. Maybe. I think you got to know what you're signing up for. Like she's a baddie, beautiful woman, all that stuff.

And it's like, I don't look at her and think sweet, soft, caring lady. It's like, no, she's hardcore. Yeah, she's spicy. Yeah, she's hardcore. You think she's going to give you a hug and say, Oh, it's all better. No. She played that Narco lady really well.

She did herself. Too well. She played her really great. Way too well. Yeah, even a modern family, it was the same thing. They had a dog and she would hate the dog. She was probably stupid, things like that. She was just being herself then.

Yeah. How long were they married? They were married for like eight years. It was like 2015 to 20, I mean, yeah, 20-23. I think her too, though, like, if you don't feel for your husband like that, or like, if he, I guess if you guys love different, maybe you don't love, like, that affectionate type or like your hugging. And all that's like, but why marry each other?

Yeah, true. If he was like needing that, like really soft, sweet girl or whatever, it's like, that's not. But he wasn't sick when they met. No, he said he started getting sick shortly after they got married. And I'm wondering what the men, because the mental health issues came into play. Yeah. After he got physically sick. Yes, yes, yes, yes.

Like during, actually. Well, yeah, yeah. Well, yeah, going through it, losing like 60 pounds. Yeah, he was going through it. You don't know what's wrong with you. That's a lot, man. That's a lot. like yourself, you're not strong anymore.

And hopefully he's better now, but better enough to that they split up. I think before they split up, he did like a whole anniversary post-tor. No? I believe so. He was like super lovey on her. And then she's like, we're done. She wasn't about it. That's okay.

All right. I know, but I mean, that's what he's exposing her. And then one other thing that he was saying was just like, you know what? She's out here saying, like, we broke up because I wanted kids, but she didn't want kids. And he's like, that's a lie because actually we even went through the whole process of IVF. And he's like, but then I, like, that went out the door once I got sick because I didn't want her to be racing a kid by herself. If anything happened. Yeah, we don't know her side.

We don't know. That's what he's saying in his new book, yeah. Yeah. It does seem like she probably didn't want kids. Yeah. Why would she? Yeah, she already has kids. She does.

She's a little boy, right? No. He's not little. He's like my age. Yeah. You're thinking of the modern family. Yeah, I go right. That's a little fat kid.

That's a lot like story. I'm just thinking of old pictures like right. You're here with the little boy. If it's hip hop, you know let these on. Yeah, I go. Rap sheet. Let these set go. And for those of you waiting for some good old time Lil Wayne and Drake music like this.

Hey. Yeah. I know only want to get the child done. Joy. Hey. Ooh. They have bangered, bro. I got to do what I got to do.

Yeah, you do. Hey, forgot to fuck. Yeah. Ha, ha, you're darn. I said, tell me what's really going on. Drizzy back up in this thing. I'm ready. What's that in it?

There's more. These rules? I don't know. I didn't hear the Yucmula baby. I should be a DJ. If you're waiting for bangers like that Apparently Lil Wayne and Drake have some in the tuck Okay, Lil Wayne was just on a podcast saying

Hey, me and Drake we have music from that era The 2014-2015 era because we're just locked in And we were just making songs That I still go back to to this day And work on a little bit Hit Drake up with it like, hey, when we drop in this And even Drake's on board Because he sees how much people wish that he was like that again

So we might hear it soon. Little Wayne and Drake. Yeah, I'd be down to here. I would like to hear it too. I think Drake is like playing with Wayne. Yeah. No. I think he's like, yeah, like let's drop it.

Whenever, food, just tell me, like, let me know. If I was Lil Wayne and I got them, I'll release him. He should. And even if you don't call it like a new project, if you do like a Nause Loss Tapes type of thing, like this is from back then. It would have to be something like that. Yeah, like just so you know and then we'll just vibe out.

That would be dope. Because the sound will probably be a little outdated maybe. Of course. worse, but still bangers. All right. That's the sound of the police. The petty police. It's petty.

It's just petty. I'm being petty. Petty, petty girl. Pretty and a petty is. Pretty and pettiest. There's one Kardashian sister that'll allow you to talk your smack. But if you see her in person, boom, boom, pal, okay? She's going to fight you for it.

It's Courtney Kardashian, the oldest of the sister. You can tell. She's about that life. I can see it all the time. She's fighting. Her sister's left and right, okay? Stop directing my client. Like all of that.

The scratches, the fights and all of that seems to be real on their reality TV show. But you can get it to ex-celebrities. So Jennifer Lawrence, we know her from Hunger Games. She's all fine. Yes, see? You did that. She was on this Vanity Fair lie detector test

with Robert Pattinson, Edward Cullen, from Twilight. And he was showing her pictures of different celebrities. She shows her, he shows her, excuse me, a picture of Chloe Kardashian. She loves Chloe. She's like, Chloe's my favorite. And by the way, Courtney is annoying.

Listen. Courtney is more annoying than ever. Why? She drives me nuts. Because everything has to be an announcement. It's like, you know, I'm not going to wear outfits anymore. Like, just wear whatever you want. Don't make an announcement about it.

Just, shh. Ooh, so now Courtney, about that life, Courtney, married to Travis Barker, Courtney. We'll meet you anywhere. Yeah. Whatever, Courtney, on the new episode of the Kardashian show. she responded, listen to this. She asked Kim from my email and she was like, I just feel like

I'm one of your sisters. So then I said to my mom, okay, she thinks she's one of my sisters. I'll f***lep the shit out of her. I can invite her over and we can Duke it out. I'll go for it like she's my sister. No, I believe it. Me too. I believe it. And I like her, she's like,

hey, mom, invite her over. Yeah. Let her dress up. Oh, nice. Yeah. And then we'll see what happened. She's, gee. She is. I say nothing wrong about Courtney Kardashian, you are not annoying, you do whatever you want, you're awesome. Always the tiny ones, because she's just like the tiniest one too. Something tells me she had a career, like a good career as a Chola. She did, Courtney.

Yeah. Like she had a good run. You didn't have a hell of Cholias. Yeah. Like Kim was like a little younger so she didn't all the way make it through. I feel like she made it all the way through the school. No, no, no, no. Kim got like the nepotism of Cholana's because her older sister is Courtney.

Yeah. Courtney did all the work. She was with it. Yeah. She put in work. She put in work at the plant. She put in work at the plant. She put in work at the plant, all right,

down, pattern of a city. Oh, I thought you meant the trolley plant. I was like, what? All right. Courtney, we love you here at Robin. We do. We do. Yeah, we do.

All right. Orange County is going viral again because of Irvine PD this time, no? No. They decided they're going to have some fun on their Instagram and start trolling. all the criminals that are trying to steal from their stores. What Irvine PD is doing is that they're posting videos of them making arrests,

but when they're making arrest, they're putting a techno beat in the background, so all you hear is the arrest and in the background. You've got to listen to this. What was the last time you got arrested? The last time I thought of a first year was like the last year. I feel like I'm like, you're not down. It's like a highlight tape. What's funny is that girl getting arrested, she's seen the videos before,

and she's like, can you not post these videos, please? I don't want to go viral. Listen to this. I'm going to go on your Instagram because I'm really not trying to be there on their Instagram. Because everybody's seen these videos before. His response was like, so you've seen them when you're still out here stealing at Target. What makes it worse? Yeah. She's like, yeah, well.

She was seeing those cards, like, not even the Pokemon cards. Which ones? It's other cards. It's like gaming cards. It's like, yeah, it's like another, like, Yu-Gi-o type of style game and stuff like that. But neither Yu-Gi-o or Pokemon. It's its own random. It's like, one of those.

Why do you know? All that stuff, because that's all that's left when you try to go buy some baseball cards and Pokemon cards. That's literally the cards that are left. Everything people be stealing the other ones early. Yeah. The time I get there, there's nothing left. No, the other ones they have them behind the counter, only two per person. Oh, that's probably why.

I've tried. I've tried to buy some. Imagine being arrested, though, and then you see a video just... You're just running away. That's what I want to see. The capture of cop scenes. A scene from cops, for sure. Yeah, the RIPD, they're freaking crazy with it.

Have some fun with it, right? Yeah. What do you mean what? Well, what? Yeah, just watch it. And with like a stun gun, you know, like a stun gun. I saw the sign. That's the drop?

And it opened up. That is what you're twitching from the stunt guy? Irvine PD has a lot of time on their hands. They do. Like these crimes are somewhat harmless, right? No, these social media workers. But like that. Yes.

The 23-year-old Gen Z girls that aren't getting paid, but her like, hey, you know who's trending audio? Natalias. You know it would be a great trending audio for this? That's Irvine PD, man. Please don't arrest us. They'll come over here. Ding-ding-ding-a-ding-ding. No, don't arrest us.

No, don't arrest us. Thanks, Greg. That's Irvine thing. Yes, all right. You ready for the weather, my friend? And now, the weather. Oh, hell the dogs. With concrete storm.

Barito Ziz is going out for the weather, Thursday, October 8th. First, we head to the new transit spot being built in Van Nuys. I know a couple buddies that are going to work it. We call them the trans guys. 94 degrees and 70 degrees at night. What? It's funny. You hear that one.

What? I said, first we head to the new transit spot being built in Van Nuys. I know a couple of buddies that are going to work it. They're called the trans guys. 94 degrees and 70 degrees at night Now we head fast and furious to the city of Winchester With a spoon engine like the Perro Hector 97 degrees and 60 degrees of night

Are you guys are okay with the first floor? These guys are All right Next we kick up dust in the city of Yano But I'm from the 8th so call me El Chavo 90 degrees and 69 degrees at night And lastly we sit five Michelaus in the city of San Pedro Get Off Pedro started flipping off with my bedo

they can see 83 degrees and 78 degrees at night Peritos is going to be a hot one Yeah, again in it. Yes, thank you and I guess it ends today

at 8 p.m. That's what they said. The extreme heat advisory ends today. Did you also see there is like going to be rain in the forecast? It's going to be a little bit

of everything, guys. Let me tell you. But it's going to be warm too. Yeah, I've been talking to all my meteorologist colleagues and it ends at 8 p.m. today. What does Dallas Raines tell you?

I don't know. I didn't actually ignored him today. He's like, Dallas, leave me alone, dog. I'm talking to McCallin right now. Van Nuys, 94 degrees of 70 degrees at night. Winchester, 97 and 68 degrees a night. Yano, 90 and 69.

San Pedro, 83 and 78. By the way, Dallas Raines, the best tan in the world. Jaze, that guy's golden, huh? Right? This is the cook at the McDonald's Friar. He looks like a golden side. He's at a golden standard that guy. Hold the salt.

Anyways, we play concoer with Bombach mornings or Pound back mornings or Pounder 1. Shout us to all the trans guys out there. Keep working, buddy. All right, check this out, homie. You need a homie or need some help. We need your help. We need a line. I mean, phone line.

We got you for. The homie help line. All I know is my husband better never do this. What, die? No. Move on three months after I die. Yeah? Yeah.

Yeah. Neither should your wife or any partner in here or anyone listening. All right. Then I'm going to have people suggest that you might have done it. Oh, wow. If you move on that quickly. Number one suspect. Number one suspect.

Person of interest is always the partner. All right. Let's go. Because our home girl, Susie hit us up. She said, hey, brown bag. It's Susie. We spoke a while ago the day after my mom. died. At the time, my friend was making me feel guilty for having to cancel going to a concert

because I wanted to be home with my mom who was in hospice. I think you remember this. The friend was like hitting her up about concerts and posting about that versus like, hey, is your mom okay? That friend sucks. She's like, so you're not going to make it? Yeah. So what are we going to do with your ticket? Well, now it's my dad I'm coming to you about. He's been acting in a way that has shocked the whole family and they've left it up to me to confront him since I'm the oldest. Brownback, my mom hasn't even been gone

three months and there's rumors he's moved on with someone at work that was my mom's friend. I couldn't believe this at first and I thought my abolita, my mom's mom, who lives at my parents' house with my siblings and dad, was exaggerating when she told me that my dad was acting weird.

She said that she would put up photos of my mom and he would ask her to take them down. He's talked about moving out or donating my mom's things and he's been secretive about where he goes after work and on his free time. But then he made some crazy comments to me. We were talking about life insurance and he told me that he will put me and my siblings as beneficiaries until he finds a new wife, then it will be her. Soft launch.

Soft lunch. What a soft lunch. Yeah. He's also told me he's been going through my mom's phone looking for evidence. She was betraying him with other men from church. Like, huh? Evidence that she was. Oh, wow.

Maybe that's why he's doing the things because he and his heart. Or he's searching for it so he can excuse that. Oh, yeah. That was advocate, buddy. I know. You are. You are. I'm going to help to home you all.

I talk to my brother about all this and he agrees it's strange. I mean, come on. our mom just died. And it's not like they had a bad marriage. These two were lovebirds together for almost 30 years. I never saw anything wrong from either of them. My dad is also my boss and there's a woman at our job that my Tias think he might have a thing for and they want me to find out. She was my mom's friend, mind you, and is married with kids. I want to find out too and I know I have to confront him about all of this. I just don't know how to brown bag. on top of dealing with the loss of my mom

with the holidays coming up I have to worry about my dad giving us a new mom before the holidays are over bruh That's actually a good thing You get double the gifts No

You better not Because we all gonna die And then life has to move on without That's what I said Commit, baby commit As long as you commit Commit months after I pass away That's too soon

Three months Like what part are you grieving I mean, when did you grieve? I understand. I understand. I thought like the maybe putting the photos down might be grieving. Like I don't want to face that right now. Possibly.

And it does seem like he lives with his Suegra and the kids. So it's a constant reminder. Maybe that's why he's out a lot. But then the comments about the new mom. Yeah. Soft launch right there. Hey, I'll put you out on my life insurance. But once I got a new wife,

sometimes death can cause delusions. And maybe this is the way he grew. Reeves. How? You know? There is a study going around that's like people are most caliente after like funerals and stuff like that. For some, biologically, I'm not sure.

Yeah, but when is your partner, Vic? No, I'm just reporting the report. It's a low of your life or over like about 30 years. I would do what this man is doing. Yeah. God's making me sick. Or like if it's your parents, like your parents break up. I know.

Well, your parents, one of your parents dies and the other parents all of a sudden asking, tell you, hey, you want a new dad? Or a new mom? No, I'm too grown for that. I'm okay, mom or dad. I don't need a new home parent. It messes with everyone's grieving time right before the holidays. I have to worry if my dad's going out.

El Senora Caliente. And the lady was the friend of the mob. That always happens. La Senora? Unfortunately. That always happens. Because the dad's the boss. So everybody.

Be the closest ones to you. It's like they're bonding over. Oh, I miss her too. I miss her too. Have you have any idea? No, yeah, it gets like that. How?

How? I miss her two. I miss her too. Yeah, I miss her. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Tortillas with the senior?

Yeah. Oh, wild. I'm just telling the truth. Oh, Consuel. Damn. Consuelame. Consuelame. Yes.

Consuelame, Consuel. Consuelamela. No, stop. In the cajuela. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God.

I know. Right. Susie's on the light. Her mom just died. She's here. She's here. Oh, yeah. Susie.

Oh, what a jerk. Hi. I'm sorry. Hi. We're sorry. Susie. Suzy. So we've spoken to you before, and it's been a tough few months.

Your mom passed away. I remember your mom was like in hospice, no? Mm-hmm. Yeah, yeah, she was. They had given her like a week to live, I remember. Yeah, like, yeah, like three days. Oh, and it was like around my birthday, too. Oh, yeah.

So now tell me about dad. How has dad changed since then? Well, at first, it was kind of weird, too, because literally the day after the funeral, he left with my sister he went on vacation so Guatemala because they kind of already have plans

but instead of canceling I guess they took the trip still yeah they still went how old is your sister because you're the oldest you said yeah she's 13 she's 13 oh she's so they still went on the trip yeah

maybe like your mom would have wanted them to maybe distraction Yeah, and then I guess maybe it was hard because we had family that had flown in. Yeah, they're staying at the house. Maybe he was just going to feel like, yeah. Yeah, so maybe he would just feel like it was too. Suffocated. Like empty.

Your abuelita, your mom's mom, your dad's swagger, lives at the house with him? Well, they have a duplex, so she's next door. And so she starts putting out photos of your mom in her part or in her part? And no, like in my dad's, yeah. Yeah, like she put them up while he was gone. And then like as soon as he came back, he's like, yeah, I don't want to see any of this. Wow. Oh, yes.

Oh. Yeah. What? Yeah. He was saying because, you know how they put like a big photo in front of the casket? Yeah. So we had one of those and then. Not that one.

Not that's like those very special one. next to their television. That, you don't think that's not too aggressive. He said that one gives them the creeps. Oyeemey. The creeps of his, it's his wife. Because he said he feels like, it's a funeral home now.

It's your eyes following him. Okay. The eyes that he fell in love with. Yeah. The eyes that he fell in love with. It's just the love of his life. No, but I go, you imagine that, then.

Okay, we're excusing that then. All right. Concrete is using that. So tell me about the furniture stuff, babe. You said the furniture stuff? Yeah, you mentioned that your grandma told you that he wants to move her stuff. Oh, no, mostly just like her clothes. Oh, okay.

Yeah, I know, because he used this term. He was like, I don't know what you guys are going to do because they're going to put to poller his courses. I'm like, dude. She just died. He's trying to move fast. So what does he want to do with them? He wants to, like, just get.

him away? Well, he said just, like, whatever we want to do with it. But just not having him here. They don't got to go home, but they got to get the hell out of here. Yeah, and I just feel like it's, like, too soon. Like, I don't even like, like, opening any of her doors or anything because it just feels too. It still hers. Yeah.

What I will say is some people grieve differently. Like, there's a, in Asian culture, I don't want to get it wrong, but there's one of them. I had a neighbor that they removed everything. out of the lady's room immediately. Like they took out her bed. They took out everything from her house. They put it in the front yard and they took it away the very same day that she passed away. Maybe she was getting evicted, Vic.

I don't know. From the world? No, I'm serious. Yeah. Maybe they don't need a new tenant to get in there. Maybe that's how they grieve. That's what they're doing. If there's Asian homies out there and this is part of your culture, please let us know what it means.

Or if it's not at all, also tell us. Maybe, maybe, I don't know. Maybe the husband didn't like her either. I don't know. But the thing was, I'm telling you, there's different cultures. Different people also grieve differently. It can just be that. I don't want the reminders.

Okay, Los Defensores. Let's keep going. I'm just saying. Let's just keep going with the story. So all of that is like understandable. Maybe just things are too reminiscent and too remind your dad about what went wrong and the sadness. But tell me about now these comments, Susie, about a new mom. Well, I was hearing it mostly from my grandma since she lives there.

She's like, oh, like it seems like he's like rarely home. Like he'll come and then like he leaves and then he doesn't come back until the middle of the night. Like he says supposedly he goes like walking in the park. So she's like he goes too like dressed up to be like just going for a walk in the park. Grieving. Yeah. Yeah. But then the, then the, what statements has you been?

And then, oh, and then that he just kind of makes remarks about this, like, lady at work. And, like, oh, like, she's just really pretty. Like, and, like, I don't know, like, oh, her. Like, I don't want to say your name. Like, oh, Liza. And then this, like, just making, like, weird comments. To his own suegra about the lady at work? Yeah, and then to my aunt.

To your Tias? Oh. Yeah. Is that his sisters or your mom's sister? Yeah. Okay. Yeah. And then he was making the comments like, oh, about the life insurance and then saying,

well, after that he got another woman, like, it'll be her. And I'm like, what do you mean? He's like, oh, you don't want me to get married again? I'm like, what? Damn, I'm putting it on you. Wait, what about the life insurance? Let's just remind that a little bit. Um, like that he would put us as the beneficiary.

His children, yeah. Until he got, yeah, until he got a new wife, then everything belongs to her. So tell me about the grieving, which culture is that one, guys? The life insurance one? Yeah, the grieving by, like, flirting up with the coworker saying how pretty she is. Maybe white. I'm not sure. I'm not too familiar. Where's your dad from?

Very good. Where is your dad from Guatemala? Um, no, Salvador. Oh, Salvador. Oh, Salvadoran culture. That's Salvadorian culture. Oh. To move on fast.

Are you, are you Salvadorian and Mexican? No, they're both. Oh, they're both. They're both Salvadorian. Yeah. Yeah. It actually might be Salvadoran culture. I don't know how to defend them right now.

All right, bye ya boy. Yeah. Yeah. How were they in life? They were lovebirds. they were always going to church and everything? Yeah, and then I mean, I also mentioned that my dad had kids before he met my mom. So there was like a little bit of tension when he brought my sister from Guatemala, but nothing like crazy.

Wait, how do you bring your sister from Guatemala, but you're from Salvador? International player. I guess when he like got the lady pregnant or whatever, then she moved to Guatemala. And then he went to Guatemala after your mom died? Yeah. Oh. No, but the ladies, no. The lady's like lesbian now.

The lady's lesbian? That is laughing. Yeah. Yeah. Oh, that's why she left. Oh, she left your dad because she turned lesbian. Yeah. Oh.

And then your dad got with her mom. And they've been together ever since going to church. well since like they both came to America yeah you also mentioned to me that he stopped going to church yeah that's what a lot of people are telling me like I mean I keep in contact with like the pastor's wife and I mean other of my mom's friends and they've just been asking me like what's been going on yeah because he's not showing up so far so far he had you

You've lost your mom in the past three months. Your dad has seemingly told you're the family, don't put pictures up, especially not the one from like the next of the casket. The blown up one. I don't want to see her eyes looking at me. Not the premier poster of her. It's literally her mom's passed away, you little butts. And then he's also said, hey, this close.

We got to do something with it. I don't care what you guys do with it. It's going to rot in here, okay? Take it. out of here, donate it, I don't care what you do with it. Also, by the way, did you know my co-workers super fine? Like, he starts, tell me about

this lady, because you said that lady was the friend of your mom. Yeah. Yeah, I mean, they were because I said it's been like a family business for maybe like 20 years. So like, I mean, she'll come by and then

like talk to her and I mean, she came to the funeral too and she was like crying a lot. like I guess they would like talk out of work like you know like on Facebook and stuff. Yeah. So. And your Tias want you to do it. That's a lot of pressure on you.

You're the kid. You lost your mom. The holidays are coming. You're the oldest. You know that you have to say something because you said you talked to your brother too and you guys just agree this is not okay. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

They're kind of like, you know, you're the oldest. Like keep an eye on him. Like try to talk to him. and stuff. Yeah. She's really sad, you guys. I know. I was going to say maybe a reason he's not going to church.

He's kind of convinced that she was cheating, right, or something along those lines with somebody from the church. He's trying to find the evidence. Yeah, he was because, I mean, in the end, people would, like, you know, bring her food and stuff. So this guy would come around a lot. Oh, gosh. What guy?

Wait a minute. Wait a minute. Yeah. Yeah. he's kind of just saying like it was disrespectful like that he would come when like when he wasn't at home when he wasn't at home because the church was bringing food yeah he's trying to be sick y'all are no the boys the boys are trying to find this reason enough for him to move on with the co-worker and tell you that but you said that he went through stuff to look for evidence no lo encrored yeah like he

He was going through like their text and stuff. And there's nothing. That's guilty conscious. Yeah. That's guilty conscious. Yeah, because they're saying like, why are you looking for it now? Instead of like, you know, when she was, she was sick and like bedridden and the guy would come even when my dad was home. And he never mentioned anything.

He's just like trying to say, you know. He's searching for it. He wasn't disrespectful in person. Nah. I don't trust that dude. How much of it? How much of it is in. like, hey, it's goodwill, and how much of it is, like, no, how dare you?

She's dying, bro. Yeah, but I mean. No, I'm talking to the guys, babe. They're over here, like, trying to be like, oh, yeah, she deserves all this. No, no, no, I know. She deserves to be dead. No, no, no, no, no. I just, not at all, not at all.

I just said maybe that guy was trying to be slick. I didn't say your mom didn't do anything wrong. On her deathbed? While she's sick? No, the guy. Yeah, I know, but on her deathbed? They don't stop scheming until, you know, Like ever.

Wait, who fit? Yeah. Yeah, the slime balls, not us. Oh, okay. Yeah. Slime balls. Thank God. Oh, Susie.

Yeah. Okay. So, so I am seeing a bigger picture here where he kind of feeling maybe she was, maybe like these feelings, these emotions of her cheating. It's kind of convinced. I don't think maybe it happened, but he's just convinced in his head. In his head. How dare a person be so kind while someone's dying and bring them food?

How could they? Yeah. Well, I'm not there. Did he bring your? your dad food as well, just your mom. Great question. Yeah, like for everybody and then he'll just like, yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. He's a church. Y'all are not gonna do this. She's the ladies passed away. Like water, packs of water, packs of soda. Because you know, we had a lot of church? Yeah.

Is he a part of the ushering team? Oh, yeah. Oh, she's sorry, bro. Sorry, Susie. Was he really nice? As nice as the female coworker that was crying. and is all up in that mix. Did he wear Cologne when he came?

Oh, you're nice of God. Great question. Did he, he had a collar shirt? I don't know. I wanted to pay attention to that. Susie, I can imagine. Ultimately, Susie, you don't have a problem right now with trying to figure out if your mom cheated,

so we're not going to do that either. Yeah, I don't think so either. She did it. You know your mom. She was caught up in other things. She couldn't see the shaping wolf's clothing. Like he wasn't like that. So then that still doesn't mean it's okay for dad to now do the things that is doing.

Even if it was, if it was another guy. So you're caught up right now. How do I confirm my dad? Yeah, basically like if I should even, well, I mean, yeah, I want to mention it. Like, but I don't know. Huh? Do you have his phone number? Yeah.

But I like to be a lot. But my dad's or whose? Yeah. Yeah, I have his phone number. Let's go on a call and see what we can work out right here. Oh, my God, no. Let us help you. I'll talk to them in Spanish.

Oh, yeah, sir, bachenle in your calentura. We'll leave him a message if he doesn't answer. Oiga, have there air conditioner in your car? Mettace and so, bale that, because it's her going to your car and put your car in the A&U. Get to the AGO. Get your clothes and put on the chanclas, oh, because you're going to, Rapid, he said. Stop being fast and hot.

Is his name's Hector? Because he's rapid and furious, he's, he's, sir. He's his name, hector, because he's fast and furious right now. For all of you listening in Sep.

He's all like, it's family. Or should not make her laugh, man. She's not laughing. Her mom's dead. How's she going to laugh? You come, just sane, man.

You know, you're going to McDonald's, you're going to McDonald's for a big Mac. You can't brown back in this. You know what it is. What? That's true, Susie. That's true, that's true, that's just, Susie. You did hit us up.

We love you. Yeah, we love you, right? We love you. I love you guys too. Aw. Susie. Remember her home girl? It's not her home girl.

No, her dad is everybody's dead right now. But we are her friends. We're his people. We're your primos. We're all she's got right now. We are, Susie. All right, let's talk about Susie. Do you, in that moment, you don't tell them anything.

You're just like, Dad. Or, like, do you see him playing when he says those things? Um, well, I'm, I don't know, because I'm not too much of a confrontational person. So I'm just like, yeah, and that's why she needs the help. I know a lot of people were like, just ask him. But it's like, it's hard when that's your dad and you don't want problems. It's awkward. You know?

It is. But you are feeling like, what do I do? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And he's more that, like, like, I don't know, more like aggressive tone. Mm-hmm. So, so, yeah.

So then he'll be like, oh, like, why do you want to know? Or, like, I don't know. I'm kind of like. And so what? That's my mom, dad. And so what? You did make a, make a, you know, you told me this about how he told you that your mom said that she would move on if he died?

That's what he said, supposedly. He's like, yeah, she would always say. Like if I died, then after a year, then she'll remarry. But I really don't think that's true. That's not like how your mom was. Tell us about your mom. How was your mom? I guess she was like pretty, like, sweet.

I mean, she would kind of say stuff. It's funny how you guys say. Like he's Caliente. Like she'll kind of have to like push him off someday because she's like, no, like not today. Wow. So he's She'll be like, oh, like, you know, like, like, it's just too much. Can't keep him off me.

Wow. Yeah, he's the stress. Oh, no. You know. He's his stress. Oh, no, Darwin. Oh, yeah, because there's Salvi. Oh, my.

Oh, too, Brian. Oh, Brian. He just wants a hot papuza. That's all he wants. Oh, Walter. I'm just to I'm a day of a day of

me. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. It's not to be to beckered. I'm just to

put it to the I'm sorry. I'm sorry. What's going on? You're definitely tapped in. I did.

I was all the way in. You got out of here. Yeah. It's like you can not too. You can't do it. Walter.

I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Susie, I'm sorry.

I apologize to you and all the Salterian congregation out there. They are hot though. We're hot. We run hot blooded. Yeah. Yeah, it seems like they mean they still kept the spark alive. That's good. Yeah.

You know, I'm having a lot of fun of this. No, yeah me boi, oh. Yeah, me. It's the best way to grieve is to laugh. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. You're having a lot of fun with this.

It's the best way to grieve is to laugh. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, Walter, no, She has jennie

I'm sorry, Susie She's her help Suzy She's her name is killing me Yeah No I'm gonna Sorry,

See, Yeah, Nelson no Tiena You got them going, Susan See that's She's going

You're going I'm sorry, that's it. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, wait. Yeah. Were we close with the name by any chance? No. No.

What's his name? What is it? Just a curiosity. Francisco. San Francisco. Pancho. Yeah. Okay, so she was a sweet lady, and she always talked about how.

Like, you know, your dad just runs hot. He just super hot. And we're just trying to make sure he's not all hot and heavy with the co-worker at his job that you know that knows your mom. You said that she's known you since you were a baby because if she's worked for them for 20 years, never lost her job. Just been there. She knows your mom. Yeah. What's the co-worker's name?

No, I'm not going to see that. She has a whole family too. She has a whole family. But it's not the senora's fault either, you know? Well, it's not confirmed. that they're doing anything. It's just a rumor. Suspect number one.

And because of how he talks about her. Yeah. Because she might not even have any idea. No, she might not even know. Yeah. Yeah, because, I mean, she is, like, pretty attractive. Like, I'm not going to mind, like, for her age. So, yeah.

Send us a DM. Send us a DM. Is she too Salvadorian? Just for the record. I think she is. Wow. Yeah. There we go.

Here we go. Hi, Wendy. Hi, Wendy. Hi, Wendy. Okay, all right, all right. We need to help her. We need a helper. Ultimately, she wants to know how do you confront a parent that may have been moving on really fast after another parent passed away?

Let's go to Anna Rosa in South Central. What's up, Anna? Morning. Anna. Anna. Anna. Hello, good morning, Brownback. What's up, Hannah?

What advice do you have for our homegirl, Susie? Well, it's tough. You know, my mom passed away 10 years ago. 24-09. Sorry, yeah. My mom passed away 10 years ago. My dad started dating not even a month. And I lived with them.

I'm the baby from the family, so I lived with them. So I started feeling weird, so I didn't like it. I left to live with my baby daddy. And as soon as I left, my dad put a lady inside the house. Oh, my mom lived. A month later? Huh? You said it was a month later?

Or how fast does she move in? Yeah, it was like a month. Oh, my God. Yeah. So I lived across the street because my baby daddy lived across the street. And I had barely had my baby, so I wasn't working at that time. So once he told me my dad had put a lady inside, I just. got super mad. Of course. So I went over there. So I went back to my mom's house and my dad was working. I knew

that. I had the key. Okay. So I went inside and the lady like I told her like, you know, you need to get the fuck out. Wait. You need to get out. You need to get out. Um, you know, I was super mad and she locked herself in her room. And when she did that, I, I'm sorry, but I was so mad. I threw all her kitchen stuff. I threw all her pots. and pretty much she was so upset that she left. Nice. Scared her away. Good. Good. I applaud you for that.

It's a valid crashout. Hell, yeah. You're less than a month, you just, oh. Yeah, that lady has to be like, hey, this is way too soon. Yeah, even on her in. Yeah, like, come on, let's be reasonable. Your wife just died. Did your dad ever have an explanation or did you talk to your dad afterwards?

Yeah, my dad doesn't even know how to cook himself an egg or anything. So he was like, you know, you guys are not going to do that for me. So, you know, I need to find somebody to help me. That was the excuse. That's old school. That's cooking an egg. Not learn how to cook an egg. It's not tough to look cooking egg.

No, he's just like, Nesito and. Yeah, so my mom has like five brothers and sisters, and they all turn their backs on him because of that. Hell yeah. How do you feel? It's been 10 years now, so I finally accepted it. And has he moved on? He did. Well, that lady left him, and then he found another lady.

So that lady How much sooner? Let me ask you this Did the lady have any idea That your mom had died? Yeah, I'm sure they did. She didn't even ask question, right? At that point, I get it.

You don't even care. You're in my mom's house. Yeah, right, right. This lady, she's not even cold cold yet. I get it. Yeah. So this new lady, is it your stepmom now? I'm an adult.

I don't consider her my chef mom. Yeah. She's my dad's person. Of course. She's a lady that cooks my dad the egg that he wanted so bad. Yeah, but I mean, it's been 10 years. She got with another lady.

You know, I already accepted it. Okay. You know. What do you tell, what would you tell Susie? It's going to hurt, you know. It's really hard. Trust me, I went through it. Grieving is really hard, you know, especially your mom.

But at the end of the day, they're going to move on. You know, they're going to move on. They're going to find somebody. And you just, you don't want to be mad with your. dad. You know, you want to have a relationship, so you're going to have to accept it. Yeah, like, that's the last parent you have left, you know? Yeah. Thank you. Thank you so much, Adrosa. We appreciate your call. And that's, that's the, that's the, that's so angry that, like, how could you this early? A month. Because I thought three months was fast. Not even a month,

less, about a month. The funeral payment barely went through, right? Let's go to Carlos in Fontana. Carlos. Carlos. Good morning, brown bag. What's up? Carlos? Our home girl, our home girl, Susie, hit us up because her dad seems to be moving on like about three months after her mom passed and she doesn't know how to confront him what would you tell her well i kind of had a similar situation my mom passed away in june of 2022 and uh i mean we didn't hear about it until like about eight months later but my dad told me that he started seeing someone and that he started seeing her around august of the same year what we found really weird uh we were like okay so how did it happen.

Supposedament. He hit her with his car. And we were like, that's kind of, that's kind of a weird story. It's someone that he got like a fender bender with. He rear-ended her. No, no.

Supposedly he was outside his doctor in Tijuana and he backed out his car and accidentally hit her. And so he got out and started flirting with her. Yeah. Let me guess. Is this right in front of Hong Kong? Oh, gosh.

You guys are crazy. Here's the crazy part is that my dad was taking mom to the doctor in Tijuana before she passed away. So we What's the theory you guys think? Yeah, already while he was waiting for your mom when she was on a doctor at T.J.

Yep. Yeah. And so like he won't tell us that. Even when confronted, he was like, no, como crean, you know, like that's not me. That's not how I am with you guys. I wouldn't do that to you guys, but it seemed really sudden.

You know, and, you know, even now, like he's still kind of weird about his relationships and stuff like that. You tell him, Like at the end of the day, it's his life. It's what he wants to do. But at least be honest with us. You know what I mean? Because, I mean, we all feel some type of way about it.

Of course. And at the end of the day. You're going to have feelings because you are the children and no one can ever replace your mom. And so seeing like that kind of move on. Well, it's definitely personal for him and his own life. You guys are still like that. That's your mom and she's never going to be replaced. So, of course, there's going to be some hurt there.

I'm assuming he's not with a TJ lady. anymore? Supposedly he's not, but he said that he's going to get married later this month. He hasn't told me anything. I heard it through the grapevine. Is that made sense? He's going to get married. And I'm like, I'm like, well, is it with the same girl? And my sister's like, I don't know, he won't tell me, but we're assuming it is.

You know, you know, when they say, there's anybody here that that, yeah, was going to say something forever hold your peace? Pull up, Perron. We'll pull up with you. Hey, Charlie. I mean, if I was invited, I probably would, but, you know, he hasn't said anything to me, so I'm just going to. You can invite yourself as you're dead. I'm a touring musician.

I'm going to be on tour around that same time, so I don't even, I don't even, I'm not even paying mind to that, I'll be honest. What if they booked you as the musician for their wedding? I know. They should have booked you. That would be insane. It would be mosh kids all over that wedding. Starting with me and my dad Okay

How about like during celebrations for your mom Has your dad ever brought anyone Because it seems if this happened in 2022 Or is does he know You don't do that around the family You can date but just keep it away No he doesn't bring anybody around Like we knew of another lady that he was interested in

That lives in San Bernardadino And we thought she was a better fit for him Because you know they're kind of around the same age The other girl in Tijuana was like younger than I am. Oh. Wow. Wow. Yeah, his girlita.

Even lady in San B, like, she was like, no, there's very mojillo. I don't want to ask you. Yeah. They know. Dang, how does that happen? How was he married this whole time and awesome and faithful? And then as soon as your mom dies, he's just everybody's girl.

Mm-hmm. Like, he's just all over the world. Big pimping. Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I guess that's how the Salvi guys roll. You know what I mean? Oh, my gosh. Oh.

Oh my God. You say that, it's Salvadorian culture. Ma'i. You don't know, Ma. Don't. They move on fast, dude. Dude. They move on while someone still might be here is the sad part.

Damn. Okay. And what advice do you have for Susie? How could she confront her dad? I feel like honestly is probably the best policy. Like, you know, bringing it up to them and just not, no lying. You know what I mean? Just be like, you know what I mean?

you know, this has been bothering me. And like how the last caller said, you want to maintain a relationship with your parents. I mean, losing my mom was already hard enough. I don't want to lose my dad. I mean, we have our own issues aside from that. But, you know, I want to maintain a relationship with my dad. So my advice would be like to be honest, bring it up to them, confront them.

It doesn't have to be a negative or a super dramatic thing, but just bring it up to them like, yo, like, this ain't cool, you know. And I feel some type of way. Got it. Yeah, like it hurts me. I'm your child and I'm hurt and I just want to know what's happening. Exactly. Yeah, not to like judge you, but just so I know.

Like, keep me aware, you know? Oh, man. Thank you so much for your story. I need someone that is not Salvadorian that is moving on fast. What's going on here? Pedro and Pocoyama, please tell me your dad is not Salvi. No, no. Okay.

No. My dad, my dad's Mexican and my mom's got three things. Okay. Oh, all right. Okay. What happened, bro? So 20 years ago, mom passed away. And within like two months, I found out that my dad was dating already.

Two months? Damn. Two months, yeah. Look, listen, every situation is different. I get it. My dad, Panzae Cizadas, you know. He's from straight from an rancho. He doesn't know anything else, you know.

So. I don't know anything else. Poveriscito. He's very. So whatever. Like he, he, he started dating. It is what it is. He's my dad.

I got a, you know, I got a love with me at a wedding. So when I asked him about it, of course, he lied about it. Because he, you know, he felt guilty. And he just said lying about it, lying about it. Time went on. A year later, on the anniversary of my mom's passing, he got married. No.

Yeah. No. What? No. Listen, listen, listen. I mean, I got a friend, I mean, he wasn't,

he wasn't thinking straight at all, right? Like, this is, he's going through a lot. But why that day, babe? But why that day? He didn't know. He didn't know.

He didn't know. He didn't know. He didn't know the day your mom died? It's in the little thing. It's in the little thing from this day to this day. From her birthday to her death day. One little pink.

On the cemetery. The headstone. I know. Listen, listen, I know it. I don't need a little thing to remind me, but he was going through a lot and then he was getting this girl. And I'm felonado. You know, a lot of things went on.

You know, so. But the thing is, I was mad. I was mad because he wasn't making the right decision. And he sold his property in Mexico, and then he was starting to sell the house. Like, he actually put the house on the market that we walked in. Okay. Oh, yeah. And he worked hard.

You know, he always said, yeah, he always said, you know, I worked hard for this house. Of course. It's going to take it. It's going to be yours. Yeah. Right, right. So I, I didn't tell the truth. I didn't talk to him for about two years.

Oh, wow. Damn. Wow. And so, but yeah, I mean, the only thing I can say is that every situation is different, every person's different, the way they want to grieve and the way they want to approach it, but you've got to be honest, right? And, uh, and, uh, just the way it is. I mean, I don't know.

It is what it is. Um, this happened like 20 years ago, but, um, but, you know, I was 25 at the time and, and, um, I'm more, I'm more, uh, mature. I think about it now and it's like, it's like, you know, we, we all act to the rationing. Yeah. Yeah. But at a time, you need to have a clear head.

You know, you have a clear head. And I think right now with, uh, was Susie, her name is? I forget. Yeah, Susie. Um, I. think her dad is not thinking straight right now. I'm not going to pedo-fellado and and you know and my dad, he needed

somebody at the house and he was always with the, he was raised that if you're going to date somebody, you want to bring her in the house and have a cook cream, you need to marry her first. Well, he rushed it. Ain't no lie, he's fucking rested. Hey. Thank you, bro. Hey, hey, hey, no.

You go back. Damn. The anniversary. It's a man. It's a ranch. It's the ranch. No, they know. It's like, what? No, they're excuses.

No, no, no, so. No, no, the excuses it gives. Not even a little Macy's lingerie magazine would have done it, huh, buddy? Something, something, baby. To hold you up, to hold you up, man. But wait for the holidays to be over, my friend. It's not just the zombies, too. This was the rancho.

The rancho. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Porecito. Okay. Colleen. Colleen. In Redlands.

Oh, Colleen. What's up, Colleen? Thank you for Colleen. Oh, Colleen hung up. No. Okay. Mary in Long Beach. Hi, Mary.

Hi, good morning, everyone. Good morning. Talk to us. What happened in your life? I am listening to everyone calling in, and it's almost like everyone's describing my dad, which is so sad. I was like, why is it a dad? Exactly. I was about to go on a rat.

but I don't want to be two pro women, but here we go. We talked about how, like, the other day we're talking inside the crew, if Vanessa Bryant moves on, oh my God, how dare she move? Bro, it's been here, it's number one. Look at these fools moving on in months, in days, in weeks. Yeah? Oh, but his ownbre, he can't cook an egg. It's not his fault.

What? All right, back to money. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Sorry, yes. Yeah, no, that is so true, and those are the same excuses and reasons or reasons, right, that my dad gave me, or gave me and my siblings, but long story short, my mom also passed away about 11 years ago. And within like the very first month after her passing, or not even like within the month,

but within like the couple weeks after we had just buried her, he was already just talking and like talking about finding someone else. But he would talk about that in a way. Oh my gosh. Yeah, I don't know if it was in a way to bring sympathy towards him. And it almost felt very, very fake. It made me question whether he truly did love my mom at some point. But he did start dating really quick. And he got married within that first year.

And unfortunately, we didn't even find out that he was getting married until like two months before his wedding. He sat us down. And he told my siblings and I he broke the news. And we didn't even know who this lady was because unfortunately my dad went back to this country. Which country? Someone, yeah.

Yeah, he went back to his country from someone. Which country? Which country? From Guatemala. Oh, wow. Them Central Americans, man. Hey, man. Them Central Americans, man.

Apparently. It's a culture thing. It's a culture thing. It has to be. It has to be. It's saying, they're alliantissimo in Central America. No, man. They're not getting.

Oh, my God. Crazy. They pica. They pica. Oh, I, yeah, I imagine , poblecitosito. You know, like, I'm like,

don't they're like, don't they're like, you know, yeah. You're just a woman, right? No.

Yeah, I'm here I'm here I'm here. No, seriously, they are. It's weird.

Um, but yes, he did and he, he's, he's married her, he fixed her papers, and he brought her. He brought her here to the States.

And, and they live in the same apartment, they live in the same house, where my mom lives, so she uses all of her stuff. Your mom's stuff? So I don't see my dad. What?

Everything. And I just, I don't know. I question her too, because I'm like, I don't know if I would accept someone bringing me into their home. And basically, yeah, and using like the la diffunta stuff. Like, I don't know. I just think it's weird. The diffunta did that mean?

The defunta the deceased. Yes. Like, what do you? Like, she uses her brushes and stuff? Yeah, like one of the children. How did her mom does she lose? I don't know about all of her clothes because we got to that point where we just, we couldn't fight, we couldn't say anything.

We did at some point try to have a conversation with my dad and he just didn't see anything wrong with it. As a matter of fact, he was getting really upset with how we were expressing our feelings. And his, his rebuttal was that she was no longer here anymore and that it was kind of pointless to stay here and live a life of like just crying over. And so it just, it just put a lot of things in perspective. So if I were to give any advice to like Susie, it's just, you know, unfortunately in my case, I don't have a relationship with my dad because he has made that decision. Because he does not care about her feelings. And unfortunately,

people like them, and I can't really speak on her dad. But unfortunately, my dad, he doesn't really care. They're always going to, they're going to make choices that feels right for them, whether we think they're right choices or not. So he does not care about our feelings, unfortunately, and they're going to continue to do whatever they want. And I have to make a decision for myself that I just, I can't hold on to resentment because of the choices that they make. So I have to accept the situation is completely out of my control. And the only thing that I can manage are my feelings moving forward. And so I've done. decided not to give my personal feelings or not to give my feelings so much power or my dad.

Or give it energy. Yeah, you're putting boundaries up to protect yourself because if he's going to be selfish with his choices, you have to make your choices be in your best interest too. Yes. And Susie did mention, like, her dad is very, that's why she's a little bit afraid to confront him. One, she's not confrontational. And he's also very, like, and what? Yeah.

So I'm. assuming that might be the case here. Damn. Thank you so much for telling us. Girl, your story. I know. Always the dudes. Waring the close is crazy, though.

I didn't say guys, only people that dads did this. I said anybody. Everyone call in, yeah. Well, yeah. Maybe other people don't want to put their moms out there, you know what I'm saying? Yeah. Okay. Now we're protecting them.

Okay. Their moms are dead. That's fine. Their moms are in heaven. Oh. Oh. Yeah. Yeah, yeah.

Hey, Susie, by the way, Susie, does your dad, by any chance, know how to make an egg? Oh, cook. Can he cook for himself? Well, that's funny, actually. That's what my grandma said. That's the only thing he's been eating.

But the thing is, like, she's there. She's there next door, so she's, like, helping them. Yeah. Yeah. Even me, like, if I make food, like, I'm like, I bring him lunch to work. And so we're all trying to help him. Yeah, but the help that he needs is not the help you can give.

It's the other one. From another woman. Right? He can't even help himself. There's a big old poster right there in front of him. Good. She's watching her. I'm watching you.

I'm watching. He says the eyes follow him too. Oh, my God. The eyes of his loved one. Mm-hmm. He doesn't like it. Okay. What are that?

Yeah. Assisi, y'all are best. You got cases of people saying you have to fight for that relationship with your dad. He's going to make those decisions. You have to be like, hey, he's never going to care about your feelings if he doesn't care now. So just you have to ultimately make those decisions. Shout out to Susie. And Susie, let us know.

Let us know what goes down. Yeah. And how the holidays are. Shout out to all Central Americans. I was going to say that Central Americans, may I get it together? They're going through a lot. The kids are Central Americans are going through a lot. No, no, yeah.

It is really hot there. It is in Central Americans. Where the equator's in? Yeah. Goelette right there? Yeah. They need a snowstorm right now. Cool everybody down.

Cool everybody down at the equator. It beaks teachings. Teaching words that sound bad, but it's actually not what you think. Offer Hispanic Heritage Month. Brought to you and sponsored by the gods. Los Dioces. Oh my God. Yes, Perritos.

Today's word might get you a dessert or get you kicked out of the panadiria, all right? Today's word is panocha. That is P.A. What? That is for sure a bad word. No, it's not. Panoccia in parts of Mexico sometimes means piloncillo. The brown sugar sold in a cone shape.

It's actually a panaceito, like a, almost like a like a, like a... Piloncio's not a bread, though. Piloncio's sugar. It's a sweet. It's a sweet, it's a sweet, right? In Northern Colombia, it can be mean a large bread filled with sweet and cheese. We're still in the bakery here, Perritos. You know, some.

In fact, one time a lady gave me a panache and the ingredients were overdue and I was like, yo, this panache will be overdue. The ingredients were overdue. Yeah, they were past due. They were past due. And that's the stinkiest panache I ever had. But you still ate it. Oh, you always eat the panocha no matter what, how it comes. You know what I'm saying?

Some panoches, you can make them with light ingredients and they're like lighter panocha, some are darker panochas. But it doesn't matter because a panocha is a panocha. And you just get it all the time. A panocha is a girl's thing, Khan. No, it's a piece of bread. No sas cochine, Lettie. What are you talking about? What?

Say it to all the... No, a panache is a pan. I don't know what you're talking about, Lettie. With these cochinadas. See, Central America? Crazy. You're crazy. You guys are crazy.

Yeah, no, and I'm telling you, everyone loves panochas of all kinds, guys. But make sure that you get yours done right. If you want to find or make your own panochang, Instagram is full of panocha videos. No way. Here's this one.

Yeah, check it up. Panocha. Cook brown sugar and milk to soft ball stage. Beat with butter until thick. You got to beat it till it's thick. All right, guys. Make sure you beat that panocha till it's thick. Folding walnuts.

And put nuts in it. Guys, did you hear that? You beat the panocha till it's thick and you put nuts in it. Never stop. That's a pancha. Cool. And here is. is the panocha.

There it is, guys. What are you looking at? At a panocha. Yes. Where? Can you see? What side is it? I don't know if I can show you.

I'm going to dulcear el-cafe with a little bit of coffee, guys. All right? I'm going to sweeten the coffee with Pelloncillo. This panadia vend a panocha reyena with questo and dulce. I've had my ideas panocha, dude. Dude, I've had it. It's beautiful in it. There's nothing like filling a panocha with cheese.

Yes. All this time I didn't know. You stuff that panocha and sell it if you can. It's so delicious. It's amazing. I just saw a panocha. Oh, dude. Bro, my Tia makes the best panace.

We should go. She's in Puguenna. Before I bite into it or before I get into it, I usually put my fingers in it. And I'm like, oh, what's in this panocha? You can't. You can't. Panachas are not soft like that. All the ones I make are.

All right? Anyways, well, that's the big teachings. Today we learned a little Spanish. It's a little food. history and why you should finish a sentence before everyone starts laughing. Oh, look at that panocha. Look at this panocha. Oh, I see it.

Oh, you see this panocha. That one's brown. That one's crazy. You see it. It's my tias. Oh, my God, your Tia's a blessing. That's the Pizteachings. I love you, Tia Koka.

Wow, wow. Your panocha. Yep. Go get a panocha today. It's actually, it's not even a bread. It's not a bread. It's a sweet treat. It's like a pudding type of stuff.

Like a poster? Yeah, like it's a poster for sure. It's a dessert, but it's not a bread. Sure. And a pan. It's not pan. It's not pancha. But they have it at panaderies.

They do, they do. They have sweet things in panadadieries. Okay. Are you ever had a churro and a panocha at the same time? And a concha? Oh my God. It's up. It's up.

Angie. Zool, come here? Now what's going on? Damn! Cheese Mason. with Angie. Okay, you guys, Kobe's homie,

Nick Young, is a big snitch. Swaggy Pete. That full, the one from the meme, the one that dated Iggy Azelia. Tell me why he thought it'd be a good idea

and talk about Kobe and what he would do with strippers. Listen. Kobe was cool. Like, people don't know the beginning of the season, Kobe had like a party for the team to get together.

Have a stripper party. Yeah, like a little stripper party. He taught me a little bit of swag because he had a party, had the bottles of the girls come, and then he'll leave. Like, you just won't see Kobe no more. Kobe would, like, y'all have fun and leave out. Some stories you just got to keep to yourself. Yeah, take that. Because there's more questions now.

Of course. You don't got to, like, put that out there. If any of my homies want to talk about our past escapades, after I pass away, keep it to yourself, man. Please keep it to yourself. Yeah, there's a reason why Kobe never mentioned this. Yeah, of course. We never heard about this. I didn't even know that Kobe like Nick Young.

Yeah, he actually was like really cool with Nick Young for some reason. Yeah, I didn't know that. Yeah, Nick Young was saying that, oh, yeah, he was very tough, but he was really cool and he would do this stuff. Something also, like, came across my mind. I was like, what if this was a test for the team and then they all failed? Oh, that Kobe was saying. Yeah, yeah, yeah. What if it was like, yes.

Well, he said he would do it. He would throw parties. Yes, yeah. And he was cool. I know, but where would he leave? Who would leave with? him. Yeah, a lot of questions.

If he got the strippers, how do you know the strippers to get the strippers? There's so many questions that is unnecessary right now, bro. And Swaggy P got mad at DeAngelo Russell for doing the same thing. Snitching. Isn't that real? That's so true. One of his other homies is the one that essentially told on him

for cheating on Iggy. Yeah. Swaggy Russell. Yeah. That's crazy. This is Be Real from Cyprus Hill. Where are you from, Messe? Don't you know I'm local? We've made it to the end of this supposed extreme heat warning.

Okay, reportedly, allegedly, tonight at 8 p.m. is when it will be over. Right at 8 p.m. It's just done. And as much as we humans appreciate that, there's also some of our furry friends that need to go back to finding nuts. I'm talking about squirrels, okay? if you've seen these videos and pictures of squirrels seemingly laying down on top of roofs, sorry, this will just made a weird hand gesture. Squirrels. Yeah, squirrel was trying to get nuts, and then you did a wanky knit.

Hand one gesture. And then you gestured it to Greg, by the way. Not those kind of nuts. They like to eat nuts, and then they put them in the ground, they hide him and all of that stuff. They're not doing that because it's so hot. They're trying to stay cool by laying out. Like, they spread it. Like spread.

Like, just full spread on the ground or on roofs or on trees. Yeah. What they can do. Great, you actually saw some of this going down, right? Yeah, there's like a neighborhood cat that we have that goes around, right? Walking around and everything. And I got home the other day. And the same thing, the cat was spread.

Like full spread laid out. And I was like, oh, my God, the cat died from the heat. So I was like, I'm going to go up to it to see what's up with it. So I go up to it and I see it's breathing. All right, maybe it's hot. So I go get it some water. That's nice. I bring back the water for the cat.

The cat wakes up, looks at me, hisses at me, and then throws a punch at me, and then walks away. Wow. And I was like, what's wrong with you, little a-hole? I'm trying to save you from this freaking heat. And he's just looking at me like, what's up? What you want? So I don't believe any of these squirrels are freaking.

So where's the cat now? It's still walking around. It's taking a heat nap. You woke him up. It was in the middle of the side. There's actually a term for this. It's called spluting. Spluting is when the animal was completely stretched out, flat on the ground.

looking like it just gave up on life. Yeah. But it's how they cool themselves down. In the middle of the, it's a hundred degrees. They spread out their little arms and legs and pressed their bellies against a cooler surface to release some of that body heat. How is the cement cooler? Probably under the shade. No, this was, yeah, maybe.

I'm talking about squirrels. You're talking about cats. I don't know. Those guys are doing? Weirdos. Yeah. Okay. Who knows, but I'm going to try it when I get home.

You're trying to splute? Yeah, I'm a splute when I get home. What are you doing? I'm just splooting on the floor. Full sploot. Specifically. Quickly on tile. Oh, yeah.

Cold tiles. Cool it down. So if you see a squirrel laid out on a sidewalk or in the shade, just look. They're not, they're tired, but they're just trying to cool themselves. Splutin. Yeah, yeah. That was doing no more cool. Yeah.

Hey, fuck. Hell of studio. What's nine plus ten? Turn your life? Look at this studio. Food. All right, brittas, if you want to lose some waste, stop drinking water. You're wasting your time.

Oh. All right? Because a new research put, put diet drinks against water. and some people lost weight, all right? Liverpool researchers split 493 adults, some overweight, some with obesity into water groups or diet drink groups, all right? Both groups spent the year in weight management, right?

222 people completed, right? So those that finished kept off about 11 pounds with diet drinks and 8 pounds with water. You can lose three more pounds if you just drink diet soda, dog. I don't believe it. You don't believe the research? No, I believe it. I believe it.

You don't believe science? It's like that one documentary where the dude, the super-sized-meat documentary where he lost weight because he only ate one thing. But he ate it every day and look, he got sick. And it's like, yes, you probably can't lose weight. But it's probably not the best way to lose weight. I disagree. I have Coke Zero all the time. I lost like 15 pounds.

Look at you. Where's it at that? Look at you. You lost 15 pounds. Can't tell me. Yeah, I lost 15 pounds. Where? Oh, oh, you'll see.

We don't. I used to drink a lot of soda. And that's one of the ways. I dropped 30 pounds. By giving it up. By giving it up. Yeah. But all I drink was water, though.

Yeah. That's it. Yeah, but he's not saying that he started drinking it. He's saying he stopped drinking it. Yeah. Yeah, but I switched from regular soda to Coke Zero. Diet soda. Diet soda.

Zero calories. You cut sugar. That's what you did. But there's also other stuff that's in diet soda that makes you gain weight. Let's go. And there's other stuff in these things that are not the best for your body. Coke zero is basically air. What's bad for you in water?

So, yeah. Ooh. I don't know. It depends on which water. Actually, yeah, there's actually some water. I can't find which you on that one. On your side on that one. Water's good for you, bro.

I think water is the best. Oh, no, I'm not saying it's not good. I'm just saying, you know, you can lose more. Maybe. You can lose more. And they did do a study. And diet. To those people.

Yes. I like what Khan does. Like, he's trying to drop soda. But what he does is he'll take like a baby sip of it just to get the taste out. Yeah. That's good. So that's good. Just to feel the.

Just to feel a little. Just to feel something. Just a quick little bump, you know what I'm saying? Not the whole cat. Not the whole cat. No, I like how he did the thing where he just switched to the little Coke cats, but then he just drank eight of them instead. That's the problem.

That's the problem is that they make them so accessible here at Powerhouse. Oh, really? They'll cut that budget real quick. Don't worry. Yeah, there's just keep on crumb-com. There's Coke of coal everywhere. Oh, dude, it's all over the place. There's where you go here.

You want a Coke? But there's also a case of water right next to it. Right next to it. Lips? Yeah. So accessible. I can't see it. It's clear.

And it's the big size ones. It's the bigger water. I see right through it. I get, yeah. That's studios, but burritos. Go on a diet. Shoot the J. Shoot it.

Playball. All right, you guys. The MLB postseason is getting wild. And I'm going to get to that. But first, some things are staying the same because the Los Angeles Dodgers have advanced to the National League Championship series. Hallelujah. Happens all the time. I'm used to it.

I'm so used to it. Yeah, NLCS. I'm super happy. You're playing out that church organ, bro. You can't use it every day. It's a baseball one. Now. Oh, now it's baseball.

Yeah, because they use it in baseball too. All right, but I got to tell you guys about the wildest story in the playoffs. The Yankees were down two to four in the bottom of the sixth when Anthony Volpe came up to bat and tied the game. Listen to this call. ABS challenge system. High-fly ball. Left field. Over is Mace.

It's carrying back to the ball. It is up. It is out. Wow, that's thunderous. Yes. Everybody else in New York. Everybody was so excited. He tied the game with one swing of a bat.

But something crazy happened. A fan in the crowd interfered and it changed the ruling on the field. Listen to the call. After review, we have spectator interference. Damn. What happened? What did the fan do? So basically, the two run home.

run turned into a two-out double, so they scored one run, but didn't score another run, and the game ended with that same score. No, but what did the fan do? He reached out and he grabbed it. And he interfered so the player couldn't catch it. But it was going to be a home run anyway. But not if he reached out to get it in front of him. Yeah, no, it was hit well.

Like it wasn't going to be caught. But the fact that he reached out, if he would have just let it sit, it would have been boom, home run. But the fact that he reached out, it became a double. So that only scored one run And then it killed the whole momentum Because you heard the crowd going crazy You know what I'm saying

And so after that It was just a double Three to four And the score stayed that way And the Yankees were eliminated They never scored another run They probably hate that fan Yes the fan who interfered

Was actually a Yankee fan So he was just excited Put his hands out But after that he was escorted Out of the stadium by police Because everybody was pissed Of course Yes it was crazy

but the Padres also got sent packing and they're headed to Cancun or maybe Hong Kong, Tijuana, since they're so close. But the Padres lost because a fan didn't get involved in a near home run by Mani Machado. Listen to this call. Takes a swing. Sends it out to center. Mitchell Bowdo. Oh my goodness. So this was also near the wall.

It was so close. It's probably like six inches away. And if a fan had got it? The fan was right in front. He could have knocked the ball. out or did something. What? Interference?

Wait, I thought we don't like interference. No, but if you interfere in this case, it helps the Padra. It would have benefited. How? Because we had somebody on second. Because, yeah, it would have been a double and he would have scored. Angie, it wouldn't. He actually, Alta has the sale 20% enough to do that because I'm so lost, Angie.

I thought they didn't want the fans to interfere and then nothing. I can work in the favor sometimes. So think about it was, he was definitely going to catch it. But then the fan. get in trouble and get out. It wasn't going to be a home run. It was probably going to be a double. As a fan, you got to play your position correct me.

Yeah. He was right there. He had his handout. And then after he caught it right in front of him, and that fan was like, damn, I should have done something. I should have done something. He had a look of guilt on his face. So think about it.

It's like Kylie Jenner's at home plate. Kylie Jenner hits a home run, right? And it looks like it's about to score. It's not helping. You're still doing it in baseball terms. Yeah. Okay. Okay.

Okay. Okay. You take the makeup to the counter, and it says half price, but it actually comes up as full price, but they have to give it to you half price. Okay. It could have still happened. Honor the price. You got out of the price. I don't think you did.

I don't think you're doing it justice. The point is, the point is the Padres fan could have helped maybe. It would have helped the team. And it would have been good if the fan did help it for the Padres and it's bad for the junkies. Exactly. It was an out and now the Padres are out. Do you think that, like, fan is like public and. me number one.

Like they probably saw him on the subway or like, because in New York something happens. This everywhere. Oh, yeah. For sure. They already got his apartment number. They already know where he works. I'm sure.

All this stuff. Yeah. It's crazy. But yeah, the Yanks and the Padgers are out. The White Sox and the Guardians are playing today. And we'll see who goes on to the ALCS. And who's going to play the Dodgers then? The Brewers. The Brewers.

The Brewers. The Boers. They start next week. Okay. Thank you for that. Thank you for that.