Brown Bag Mornings - 3/20/26 Slipping and Falling into my Ex 🦏 | Brown Bag Mornings
Episode Date: March 20, 2026The crew stage a massive intervention for a three-time caller named Junior, who is currently battling "post ___ clarity" guilt after using a "rhino" pill to hook up with his ex while his toddler was i...n the other room. Between the relationship drama, the squad roasts Tom Brady for bullying NFL players' moms and investigates why The Game is using vending machine codes to slide into women's DMs. [Edited by @iamdyre 🛸] Chapters (00:00) Don't You Know I'm Local: Blondie the bear's community tragedy (4:35) Chisme: Latto's pregnancy with 21 Savage (8:35) Rap Sheet: The Game's vending machine DMs (11:51) Petty Police: Ryan Garcia vs. Jose Benavidez (16:44) Scrolling: Montoya 2.0 crashes out live (20:50) The Weather: Heatwave weather report (22:26) Lakewood Mall Paletas (23:31) Homie Helpline: Junior's messy baby mama hookup (59:53) Chisme: Bieber and Usher's afterparty beef (1:03:58) Don't You Know I'm Local: Renaming Cesar Chavez holiday (1:10:26) Play Ball: Tom Brady's flag football roast Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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What's up? This is Be Real from Cypress Hill.
Where are you from, Es?
Don't you know I'm local?
This has been a story that has outraged the community over in the SGB.
And it's really sad to see everything that's been going down.
But the community is coming together for a bear named Blondie.
Okay, if you've seen it.
the news stories about Blondie.
She's been around for a while.
If you see videos of people over there in the Monrovia area or the Alta Dina area,
our Acadia area, and it's like, oh, there's a bear in the pool, right?
Yeah.
That's our girl, Blondie.
That's cool.
Oh, okay.
The other week there was a newscast and a woman and one of the news ladies was doing a report
on a bear that had swiped someone that was walking their dog.
It was Blondie.
It was Blondie in the back.
Now, authorities had picked Blondie up after two instances where it appeared that she attacked neighbors, okay?
Now, initially she had attacked an older man on a porch.
She had went up to him and kind of swiped at him.
And that was something that was like, oh my gosh, I hope it's not Blondie, the one that we've known and grown up with because neighbors and residents say, yes, we did grow up with her.
We kind of have seen her swimming around our pools.
She currently has cubs that she's walking around with.
So that happened.
time passes and another woman is walking with her dog and it appears that blondeie swipes at the woman's leg.
So according to authorities, they took that as an act of aggression as a pattern of an animal that is a threat to the community.
And they put Blondie to sleep for lack of a little bit.
Damn, they put her down.
They put her down. They said that they did it in a way that she felt no pain.
but there is now what seems to be so much community backlash.
They said that city officials and the residents in the area
did not want Blondie to be put down.
They do not understand the logic of it.
While they do hear, okay, it's a pattern that happened a couple times,
they're also very empathetic to Blondie because they're saying
Blondie was a mom.
She had cubs.
You could have removed her.
Because they had tranquilized her.
you could have tranquilized her and taking her to some other place.
Up in the mountains.
Yeah.
She would have died there.
Little bird tranquilizers.
I don't think so.
Why?
Because she's used to where she's at.
She was a member of that community at this point.
If she was there that long, like who hasn't swiped at their neighbor once in a while?
The music was too loud.
The music was too loud.
Like what the hell?
That's her home too.
Yeah.
And for them to be like, oh, come on.
That dog was probably looking at him crazy.
You had to protect his tur.
So there was a neighbor that did do like an interview.
with the news station that I saw and he was saying how the dog and the woman were clearly walking
and the dog and the bear had a little bit of a standoff and they walk but the the bear did swipe at
what if they were walking in his hood what if they weren't even from that community like what are
doing here but I will say now they have taken the cubs and literally they said that once the cubs are
like of age they're going to take the cubs to like the community in monrovia not the community
but like that area yeah so I'm like what if that what happened to
to their mom,
ends up happening to them.
To the babies.
Yeah.
Or.
You know, why are you going to send them back and then not give them, I guess,
that ability to be bears?
Mm-hmm.
You know?
Or that grace to be an animal in the wild, you know?
But what if they want revenge?
The babies?
When they grow up?
It's like, yo, you got my mom.
I don't think so.
Yeah.
So, man, RAPido Blani and the community is coming together to do a community
honor walk.
It's going down Saturday,
March 21st at the Monrovia Library.
Okay, this is how much the community love Blondie that although she did swipe at two neighbors.
She said, they were like, no, we don't, we did not want for her to go the way that she went.
They said that this is a peaceful walk to honor Blondie and they make sure that you know this is not a protest.
They don't want signs.
They don't want like people to agitate.
They do want it to be something that's for Blondie that they've grown up with.
That's so cute.
interviewed and they're like, yeah, we grew up with this.
That's cool.
That's so cute.
Wow.
I wish I can go to the walk, but it's far for me.
Swipe in peace, Blondie.
Swipe in peace.
They love Blondie, but.
She's not here anymore.
No, I get it.
That's it.
That's it.
That's it.
Zool, come here?
Now, what's going on?
Damn!
Cheesemation with Angie.
You guys, guess who is pregnant?
Who?
Lada!
She's the mommy, you guys.
Big mama.
So yesterday she announced, you know, she dropped the new song.
in music video, business and personal,
where she pretty much announced her pregnancy.
Now, the rumors have been going around since October 2025, right?
And when people would ask her like, oh, my God, is she pregnant?
She would be like, no, I just had a big meal.
And she would always deny it.
Now, in the music...
It's just gas.
It's what?
It's just gas.
That's pretty much what she was saying.
These gas.
And then in the music video, it's actually she shows the hint of a guy which people are
thinking it's 21
Savage again. Touching her belly.
Touching her belly. Then also
in the music video there is a part
where she's showing like a
picture, like baby pictures and it's also
pictures of 21 Savage
and pictures of herself when they were both
little kids, right? Cute. But
every time they ask her like, okay, are you
for real dating like 21?
She's always denying it and it's like
Laudo at this point, girl just like
stop gas-knit us.
And tell us like
21's your baby daddy
Or yeah baby daddy right
Telling us no
Yeah
I don't know because again
Every time they ask her
She always is nice
In the past she says like
The internet doesn't know a damn thing
Let's start there
And then she's also said like
It's nobody's business really
Just listen to my music
Yeah I was like tripping out
Because I'm like okay
This is like
Proof proof of proof
That you know
They're obviously together
But then I realize that
I think the hold up
is because he's married still?
I don't know that.
Okay, yeah.
No, he is.
So, Vick, when I was telling him, he's like, you know what?
I think he's actually married.
I'm like, what?
I've never heard of that.
And you know how he asked three kids?
And one of the baby mamas, I was doing some research.
It's reportedly, allegedly, that he's still married to his baby mama,
Kiana Joseph, which is the baby mama of two of his kids.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So that would make sense.
And also, unfortunately, he's an immigrant, you know, previously.
So that could maybe affect his, like, citizen.
I don't know.
I'm not an expert on that, but that could be a hold-up for like a divorce.
I would feel like then it wouldn't be Lotto keeping a secret.
It would be him keeping a secret.
That's what I'm saying.
But I feel like Lotto, I don't know.
I just like to think everyone's as toxic as me.
I feel like Lado will be like if you are married or if that's the case, especially say you're with me.
Like let's especially say that.
Yeah.
So that it's clear that I'm yours or whatever, like despite all that stuff.
Yeah.
I don't know.
People will talk about them either way.
Look at us.
No.
Absolutely. Yeah. I mean, I hope the best for my, I'm sure it's just like a legal kind of hold up or whatever.
That's what you think? That's why neither of them have confirmed that they're dating?
I mean, that would make the most sense for me. No, I think they just want privacy.
In a world where everything is public, they want to at least have their own thing.
Because like, Ojo's real. Bad energy is real. People wishing on your guys downfalls real.
Imagine if they come out and say, oh, yeah, we're together. Any little thing, oh, is this full cheating? Is this girl cheating?
is that they like this, they reposted this, then it turned into that.
Okay.
They're probably saving themselves from that.
True.
We kind of already do that though.
Remember when he was walking against the wall, 21-7?
Yeah, true.
And he didn't do anything wrong.
She posted about it.
Yeah.
That was so funny.
Okay.
To me, I thought it was like, okay, maybe like once they actually confirm it, it's like,
okay, we'll leave you guys alone, be happy, things like that.
But I really like that she went on live yesterday when she announced her pregnancy,
and she was just celebrating how happy she was.
I don't even know what to say, y'all.
Thank y'all for all to congratulations.
I'm Big Mama for real.
Big Mama one kid.
Yeah, happy for you, Lato.
Yes, all right.
That's it for Chishamation.
Brought to you guys buy your Toyota dealers.
I'm Angie from Brownback Mornings.
I'm Par 106.
If it's hip-hop, you know let these on.
There I go.
Rep sheet.
Let these set go.
Hold on.
I'm Googling how old the game is.
46.
He's 46.
Why do you know that's a bad?
Yeah.
Because he is.
That's so random that you know this.
No, it's because somebody asked the same question.
yesterday like why is he acting like this how old is he at his big age of 46 so i guess uh the game rapper
the game has been exposed on the type of dms he sends women and he kind of shoots his shot the same
way to all of them yeah he has his go-to line to all of them i will tell you it it when i first saw
what he sent i was tripping till i was trying to figure it out and then i go to the back and forth
of the conversations he's had with women yeah and it's kind of funny but
major cringe at the same time.
Yeah.
So he will DM a woman, D3, another woman, F3, F3 I've seen.
And then they're like, what?
Like, honestly, anyone sends you that, you're going to say, huh?
Confused.
So that is like a guaranteed response type of thing.
It's like, is this an error?
Was this your butt?
Is this a butt DM?
And he says, oh, my bad.
I thought this was a vending machine.
I was trying to get a snack.
Genius.
Brother.
Dude.
That's genius.
brother.
That's super funny.
It's hilarious.
It's worked is what I'm saying.
It has worked for him to still continue doing it.
I've seen at least four different women posting the same screenshot from his Instagram
account DMing them.
I personally seen this like probably about a year ago from one of the home girls.
She posted on her close friends like, why is the game DMing me?
And it was that exact thing.
And I thought it was hilarious in that moment.
And it's even funnier that he's been doing that.
The whole tire, yes.
It got their attention.
It got their attention.
It worked.
No, you're right.
It does.
Yeah, he probably has a high percentage.
You know who would be so upset about this?
Baby girl, I just had his baby.
Oh, yeah.
She's already going through it.
Herston?
Yes.
And we're like, that's how you got me.
Maybe.
Maybe.
Maybe.
And then he just was throwing it around.
That would hurt.
Evelyn Lassada's daughter.
Yeah, yeah.
That he was like, yeah, I'm not going to change that baby's diapers or whatever.
Instead, I'm going to try to get snacks to the venue.
machine. Now you can't trust them.
No. Where are you going in game? I'm going to go get some
snacks at the event. No, no, you're not. That means
DMing. F3. So if you see F3 or D3
in your girls' DM by Los Angeles
confidential. Someone is trying to get
a snack at the vending machine. Don't let it.
Oh, my God.
Imagine you see your girls' DM and it says
E3. If I just see a DM from the game, I'm
crashing out in general. No, just period.
And now that people know it, like, it works.
Oh, because other people are going to use it.
Oh, yeah.
That is low-key, a very clever way to get, like, a response bag.
It's not that bad.
Yeah, it's a good one.
I use the, I have a 700 credit score, by the way, if you want to respond.
And they never do.
That's so weird.
We should aim a little higher.
Just say 800.
700 is like average, so it's like, I'm a normal guy.
No, no one thinks that.
Oh, yeah.
Oh, it's a surprise that hasn't worked.
You should start with, let me fix your credit, girl.
And they're just going to think you're one of their services.
Blah.
Fix credit.
That's the sound of the police.
The petty police.
It's petty.
It's just petty.
I'm being petty.
Petty, petty girl.
Pretty and pettiest.
Pretty pettiest.
All right, I'm going to lie.
I am somebody that may or may not enjoy the pettiness of Ryan Garcia.
Okay.
We know him in press conferences and in boxing to really be the one that, like, brings the show.
Yeah.
To it.
Brings the hype, brings the ish talking and all of that.
But never did I expect for him.
him to get confronted the way that he just did for talking ish about Benavides Jr.
All right.
It's clear.
Ryan Garcia and David Benavides while in different weight classes are both faces of boxing.
You know them.
Their names ring bells.
They are the top dogs in the game right now.
And Benavides Jr., which is David Benavides, excuse me, older brother had some beef to squash with Ryan
Garcia when they were on stream yesterday.
Now Ryan went to go visit David Benavides as he's gearing up for his fightmate in Singleton
Mio My Weekend versus Sourdo and he went to go spar with him.
But Benavides' brother, Jose Benavides Jr. was there and this is their interaction.
Check this out.
What's up, bro.
Nice to meet you, man.
Good.
Yeah, yeah.
Okay, for sure.
All right, yeah.
I don't know about what, but.
So Jose Benavides Jr. says, I need to have a war with you, bro.
right when Ryan was going to shake his hand.
So apparently there had been some post-up about Benavida's Jr.
Someone that made a video.
It could have been a fan-made content type of thing.
Junior is my favorite boxer.
To which I'm sure David Benazvina Jr.,
knowing his brother kind of takes a spotlight.
Love this.
Of course.
But he looked in the comments, and according to Jose Benavides Jr.,
Ryan was in the comments calling him washed,
and he had to confront him about it.
it we were talking sh** on some comments here i was some dude put a video right and then you put
watch he did i never said that you drove it to me prove it to me then i'll say sorry i promise
i'm a man if i really did say that i'll say sorry how about that you said i'll find it i'll find it i
i tried to find it yeah me too i couldn't find it oh my gosh i was trying to find this all right but
right but right and say look i'm a man if you find it and i said it then i'm sorry wow but this is why i believe
That that is not a true story, bro.
It's probably click-clate.
One of the know why, I doubt it?
Because I never use the word watch.
I never.
It might have been the clickbait to be real.
It was a video, bro.
It was a video that I saw, but everybody was so sorry to you.
I'm not very sure.
God bless you, brother.
God bless you.
One, I feel like Ryan says washed.
All the time.
Does it?
Like, it just sounds like a word that he says.
That was a crazy gas light.
That was a crazy guess.
You know why I know it's not true, bro?
I don't say.
word wash.
Never used.
This is my first time using this word I'm about to say, washed.
Yes.
I don't even wash the dishes, bro.
I don't even wash my clothes.
Yes.
But, and then Junior's like, all I wanted was is sorry, so we good.
But he didn't give him a sorry.
He did.
He said, if I said it, I'm sorry.
If.
Yeah.
So he's like, if you can find it, if you said it, if I said, I'm sorry.
Look, Jose Benavides Jr. took the apology because.
You wanted to know why I doubt it?
Because I never used the word wash.
Well, that's what it's what I never.
It might have been the clickbait.
It was a video, bro.
It was a video that I saw, but everybody was so sorry.
You said sorry, I got you.
I got you.
Okay.
He accepted the apology.
It seems like he wanted to get along with them, but he had to get that out of the way.
He had to get that out the way because it has been sitting with him.
And to look at David Benavides and Ryan Garcia how close they've got in,
David Benavides was at Ryan Garcia's last fight.
David Benavides' son was boxing with Ryan at.
And at Ryan, like, was doing the shadow boxing.
Junior, the older brother might have been like,
Oh, my, why are you doing this?
This guy called me washed.
Is there a reason to call Junior Wash?
Some people may say so.
Yeah?
You know, he was clearly one of your brothers in the spotlight.
Yeah, for sure.
Your record hasn't really proven itself.
You know, he had a lot of hype as an amateur.
But unfortunately, things got in the way.
Like, I believe he has a really hard injury on his leg.
And that could have affected the way that he boxes.
Absolutely.
He won his last fight, but it also got overturned because of cocaine use.
Oh, my God.
This guy's been through it.
There was a 12th round K-O against Crawford.
So, like, with him previously in another fight.
So I could see why it may affect him if people call him washed.
Yeah.
And so he had to get it off with Ryan Garcia.
But now they're cool.
Yes, because Ryan Garcia doesn't even use that word.
No, not washed.
Never used it.
There you go.
All right, let's get into some scrolling.
Scrolling with all me's.
Everyone's favorite show, Temptation Island, is going viral again.
Because the internet is calling this new contestant, the new Montoya 2.0.
Yeah, you got to explain that to me, brother.
Yes, if you don't know who Montoya is, he's the one that was on the island,
and he was watching his girl get down by the-up.
And this isn't Temptation Island, USA.
No, this is not the ones we watch.
Yeah, Spain.
This stuff we can't watch, like, on our TV.
No.
Yeah, I'm watching the clips, and I'm like, I don't think they don't allow this on TV over here
because they're like showing the whole thing
and then throwing it down and everything.
So Montoya is the one that went viral
because he crashed out
and he's running across the beach
and everyone just yelling,
Montoya, Montoya, Montoya,
this is what it sounds like.
He's reventedo, yoa!
Jora!
Jora!
For favor, Montoya!
Montoya! Montoya!
Montoya, for favor!
Montoya!
Montoya! Montoya!
It's all dramatic.
The gist of the show
is it takes you and your girlfriend
and your boyfriend
and they separate you on the beach,
beach.
Yeah.
And then in her cabin or her area, they send hot guys.
And in your area, they send hot girls.
Yeah.
And see which one of you falls for it.
Yeah.
You're tempted.
Who's going to fold?
His girl folded for that guy.
She got folded like a pretzel?
Yes.
But now we're in season nine of Temptation Island.
Okay.
Spain.
And there's a new contested that they're calling the new Montoya 2.0.
The same thing literally happened to him where he's sitting there with the host and he's
watching the screen and his girl is being taken down.
in the jacuzzi and he's crashing out but people are saying it's like
might be a little try hard listen to this
where's how to be able to be here
gilver for a whole
here here silver jilver
kogelhoffi
oh yeah
oh yeah
where's where he's
where there is
bravia
Claudia.
Let me.
Claudia.
What do you guys?
Claudia.
Prima o'gherna.
Primera o'ghera.
Oh, man.
They're trying too hard to get that viral moment again.
Nilberia.
Okay.
I don't know because this series, this season ended last year.
But then they redid it.
I guess they played it in another country.
And that's where everyone's getting the clips from.
Yeah.
So like it went.
It's up.
It's up, it was been up for a year at least.
But it barely got released in another country and that's where everyone's grabbing the clips, I guess, on online.
Yeah, probably Twitter or something.
So you did they try to get that other Montoya viral moment.
No, I think, how would you act if you saw a video of your girl making out with the guy in Hata?
And you were in running distance.
Yeah, exactly.
And I think it's that it's them knowing that they can make it.
Yes, yeah.
Then if they just ran probably half a mile, they can make it to wherever their girl is in that hot tub.
Montoya was a fine year.
They show you live feed of your person.
All it's happening.
Yeah, you start to recognize it.
Wait, that's like, no, that's over there.
Yeah, I can go ahead.
Yeah, they ride, like, literally the same exact way that they ride across the beach is the same way.
And I was just like, well, I think.
It's the same beach, brother.
Yeah.
What do you mean?
He's trying to be Montoya so bad, bro.
He's crashing out because this girl is hooking up with another dude.
I would be Montoya.
I would be Montoya.
Oh, for sure.
Yeah.
For sure be Montoya.
It's what it is.
But, yeah.
they should just move them further where it's not running distance.
If they could do that, put them in an elevator or something,
where it's a little harder to get there.
Not, bro.
That's crazy work production showing you a live feed of your girl or your man.
With someone else.
They know what they're doing.
Like even the pictures in your heads that you think of all,
like they were out on a night or what they might be doing.
But to see it right there in 4K HD, no, no, no.
I'm running.
I'm running over there.
All right.
Thanks for that.
Greg.
Let's get into the weather with Concretto.
And now the weather.
Oh, hell the dog!
With concrete storm.
But it's going down for the weather Friday, March 20th.
First, we hit the city of Simi Valley.
I know some white girls out there named Sally.
92 and 63 degrees.
Who, dagger.
At night. Next, we dip out on the 10th of the city of Beaumont.
Make sure you drink some water before you go into a coma.
90 degrees and 67 at night.
He's so good, isn't he?
Greg?
It's like the best.
What's going on here?
Love weather.
Now we set up to the city of Highland Park, the HLP.
It's going to be doing them doing burpees and asanagie.
93 degrees.
It's going to be doing the burpees.
What?
What did you say?
Like correct this time.
Exactly.
Because that's hot.
It's going to be doing the burpees.
Doing burpees and astrology, 93 and 63 degrees at night.
Lastly, we drink hell of water in the city of Azusa.
Don't get caught outside, screaming, A yuda.
90.
That did not rhyme at all.
Yes, it did.
Azusa,
what do you mean?
It's going to be 94 degrees and 67 degrees at night, Peritos.
Like I said.
I did the heat's getting to you.
It is getting to me.
It's super hot.
Heat advisory all over the weekend, guys.
Put, you know, man, just wear thongs all week.
Oh my God.
Just wear a thong over the weekend.
I've been wearing one all week.
The same one.
Monday through Friday.
Monday through Friday.
With can al-Chi-Las.
It started out green.
It was the St.
Patrick's Day one.
And that was proud.
It's your boy Conkney from Mount McMorne's on Prado 6.
Let's go.
Hey, it's going to be another hot one today.
It is.
And if you are in or around the Lakewood Mall.
5-6-2, where are you?
The 5-62.
Our guy Greg is going to be out there.
Yall-oh, we kicked them out.
Yeah, he laughed.
He's going to go out there and he'll be out there at 8.30 a.m.
giving away free palettas.
It's Greg, the palatero man.
We have 106, we have 106 ice creams that he's going to give away.
And it's going to be really cool because with,
within those ice creams, it could be your chance at winning tickets to go to Knott's Berry Farm, all right?
So go meet up with them.
I'm going to give the address, 500 Lakewood Boulevard, all right?
500 Lakewood Boulevard in the city of Lakewood.
Super easy, easy to remember that.
500 Lakewood Boulevard in the city of Lakewood.
All right, our guy Greg is going to be out there with free ice cream for the first 106 people who pull up on him,
and he's going to have tickets to Knott's Berry Farm.
All right, let's get into the homie.
help. By the way, he'll be there at 8.30.
Yeah, depending on traffic.
Depending on traffic, I don't know. And sometimes he drives low.
True. And he'll be doing videos.
I know.
It'll take a while.
But he'll be there.
All right, check this out, homie.
You need a homie or need some help.
We need your help.
We'll need a line.
I mean, online.
We got you for the homie help line.
Junior needs our help.
Junior hit us up for the third time.
Oh, third time?
This is a third update.
first ever third time update he said hey brown bag it's junior i need your help again this is the third
time i ask for help from y'all he said i first hit y'all up because i was having trouble choosing between
my ex of nine years Alex and my new girl who love to have fun and go to dodger games with me i don't
remember it was last year last year like middle of the year okay man i love that your guys's
problems because this was the same problem
the we yesterday had. I know.
My baby mama or my new girl.
True. The guy's homie help lane is always like
hey, should I go this one or that one?
This one or that one? He said, then I hit y'all up
again because I was so mad
after I found out my ex, Alex,
slept with my best friend John. Oh, that sounds
the worst part was she wasn't sure
if he or I got her pregnant.
So I took a DNA test and it turned out the seven
month old baby was mine.
Ever since, I've been co-parenting with her and making the best of the situation.
He said, so I'm still in a relationship with my new girl.
This is the update.
This is the update.
Okay, wow.
He's saying, that's why this is hard to even say.
Which new girl?
The same girl from the Dodger games.
Oh, okay, okay.
Yeah, same girl.
She's stuck with them this whole time.
He said, this is hard to even say.
One day, recently, I went to pick up my son from my auntie.
ex's house. That's it. No plan, no intentions. I really thought I had control. Uh-oh.
But the second I saw her, it felt familiar. Like I never really left that part of my life.
We started talking, laughing, and I ignored every sign telling me to just grab my son and leave.
I stayed, and that was enough. One thing led to another, and I hooked up with my ex.
watching cocoa melon or what was it? Put him in the room. Hey miss rachel. I got some for you.
He said, I wasn't thinking about my girl. The trust or what I had to lose. Nothing. It didn't hit me until after.
Everything just went quiet and that's when it all crashed down on me. I realized I didn't just mess up.
I crossed a line that can't be uncrossed. My girl trust me, loves me and it has to
has supported me through everything.
I feel so guilty.
It's eating me up inside.
I've been with this girl less than a year,
and I've been through so much in that time.
I don't know what to do.
I wish I could undo what I did,
but I obviously can't.
Brown bag,
should I come clean to my girl
about slipping up and sleeping with my ex-girlfriend
or just shut my mouth
and never make that mistake again
and pray she never finds out.
What's his name?
Junior?
Junior.
Dude, he's such a P-O-A.
Poor girl that loves the daughters that just went to already.
Like, you were choosing between her and your ex.
Clearly something happened that your ex got pregnant after.
No, it was previous.
He met the baby at seven months after it was already born.
Like the, yeah, I remember.
Yeah, but he smashed the ex.
Clearly, that's how you have babies.
No, he's only known this girl for nine months.
Which one?
The new girl.
All this has happened within the last nine months.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Junior, I remember.
Junior's on the line.
I don't remember any of this.
Junior.
Hey, Brownback.
No.
No, no, not me to say.
Junior.
We got to talk.
Can I explain myself first of all what happened, like initially?
Yeah, I need a timeline.
Of what?
The whole situation?
See?
Because you were between your ex and this new girl.
I was between my ex and my girl.
And you chose your new girl.
Yeah.
So then how does your ex become, have a baby?
She didn't come me until months after.
Once the baby was born.
But you were, you were smashing both of them.
No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
No.
I was, I was, I was, it was, it was with my new girl only when this happened.
The baby's older than their relationship.
But months before your ex had a baby, right?
Yeah, yes.
And so whose baby did you think it was?
my home boy Alex
You said it was named John in the paper
But thank you for calling him out
John sorry sorry sorry
Sorry
It's okay
Also we're supposed to be calling your ex Alex
But
John
Alright
All right
Sorry sorry
Oh my god
Junior
All right junior
How long how long were with your ex
Shit
Oh sorry
Hey
No cursing
Like nine years
Nine years
Nine years you're with your ex
Never had kids with her
No.
Never.
Okay.
Then you guys break up.
How long you guys were broken up?
Like a month or two?
One month and two months.
Okay?
And then you get what you're new girl?
Yes.
New girl.
Okay.
At that time, you're like seeing your, your ex.
She has pregnant.
She has a baby.
She reaches out to you and she tells you, I think I kind of remember.
She tells you that she had a baby, but she don't know if it's yours or your homies or what?
Yes.
Yes.
All right.
And then you take a test and it's yours.
Yes.
So you still are you're deciding?
See, but then why were you deciding between your ex and your new girl?
That was before.
I wasn't decided before I was decided before I was decided.
Yeah, before that happened.
She was pregnant?
He didn't know she was pregnant.
I didn't know she was pregnant.
The baby is older than their,
than his new girl's relationship.
They were only broken up a month before he got out the new girl.
Yeah.
So that means he was with his egg.
But she didn't tell him she was pregnant because she wasn't sure if that was the baby or not.
That was the baby daddy or not.
It's hurting my head.
You're hurting my head, bro.
And then it was...
He's got through a lot.
He's got through a lot.
Because you were still choosing between her and the new girl.
So when you were choosing between her and the new girl,
she was not pregnant in your brain?
I didn't know she was pregnant.
Boom.
You were just between your ex and the new girl.
It was just that.
Yes.
Then time happens and you see her that she's pregnant.
Well, my mom tells me she had a baby.
Okay.
And then she tells you,
be your homies.
Yes.
And so for show, you stay with the new girl.
Yes.
All right.
All right.
And then you, how old's the baby now?
About it being a year.
About to be a year old.
All right.
So you went to go pick him up from her house.
What the heck felt familiar when you saw her face?
Yeah, well, you've been seeing her.
Picking him up.
No, no, no, no.
Me and her been cordial and nothing happened until like a few days ago.
And something, something struck in my head and stuff happened.
Okay.
But you are in a relationship right now.
Yeah.
Yes, yes.
With Dodger Batty.
Mm-hmm.
Yes.
Okay.
Dodger Batty and her, do they get along?
No.
They hate each other.
Okay.
Nice, nice.
Were you and Dodger Batty in a fight when you went to pick up your kid?
No.
So everything was fine.
Even worse.
Everything was fine.
It wasn't for revenge.
No.
Everything was fine.
You just went over there and she just looked different.
That was so Caliente.
It's like the day that she's a car.
I really don't know what to say.
I messed up.
I know I messed up,
so I don't know what they say,
you know.
He feels the guilt.
I'm not your dog.
I'm not your girl.
You can save that right now.
We're doing,
Jesus.
Crying, Lentis.
I don't know what to say.
I don't know what to tell you guys.
I messed up.
I have a really nice girl in my life for that.
Like,
it's helping me to do my fatherhood and everything.
I really don't know what to say.
I messed up.
Yeah, because she's stepped in.
I haven't been able to see.
past two days.
Oh, because it just happened.
You were able to sleep with your baby mom.
He didn't sleep.
All right.
All right.
All right, Jr.
So, you go over the house.
You stay the night.
The baby's a baby still.
So you guys can put him a nap.
Yeah, anywhere.
Where do things end?
When you're walking out,
do you feel like you have feelings for her?
Or do you instantly regret it?
It's not even that.
I just, I forget it.
It hit me when I left the.
health.
Yeah.
Has baby mama been different?
Yes.
Is she expecting?
No, is she expecting something?
No.
Okay.
Okay.
So real question between you and me.
Could this leave to another pregnancy?
I was thinking that.
No, no, no, no, no, no.
Did she use protection?
Yes.
So you had it on you?
We had it on you.
Dirty, dog.
Oh, can't forget this.
That was premeditated, Jr.
Can't forget this.
Oh, let me stop by the liquor store and get it.
a right now and a directs and everything just felt different noz ya'maste bro you called us you called us
junior he feels bad junior's been through a lot man junior turn the tv off bro you can't do two things no
i can't let me recap a little bit archa junior that guy junior we're listening we don't judge so junior
was with someone for nine years that's a long time it is that's his probably safe space that's someone
knows him, all of that, right, right.
And that's the, the girl that ended up being his big a mama.
But she did betray him.
She did sleep with your homie, too.
Are you still homies with that homie?
John.
Long story, I have court on next week for that situation, so I can't speak on it.
Okay.
Remember he moved to New York and then he said he wants to buy a ticket.
Maybe he bought the ticket.
No, no, not, not.
What happened was, I hate to see it.
Don't say it.
Don't say it.
I just ask if you're still friends.
So clearly no, you're not friends with him
No, no
Okay, got it
Boom, good
He was about to snitch on himself
Not friends with the homie
That slept with his ex, right?
Yep
And he only finds out about that
After he moves on with a new girl
And the ex is, finds out the ex is pregnant
So you've stepped in
Because you took the,
you took the paternity test,
You've stepped in as a dad
And so now you've been co-parenting cordially
You know your girl don't really like your ex
But it's like you're doing this for that child
That's about to turn one
I'm sure the baby is so cute
probably looks like you, probably all of that.
And you go over and you pick them up and then one thing leads to another
and you're all up in that again, like old times.
Yep.
As soon as it happens.
What did you get, the post-clarity, right?
PNC.
Yeah, PNC.
And now you feel bad you haven't been able to sleep.
After, do you go see your girl?
Like, did you see your girl the same day, same night?
What happened?
A be a bit?
Yeah, I did.
And like, she noticed how I've been.
different, but I haven't been able to tell her what happened.
Like, I'm scared.
Of course.
Did you bring the baby with you?
Like, did you bring the baby home or you left the baby?
Yeah, I brought my boy home.
Okay, good, good.
So you boys would you get?
I went to go pick up the baby.
Where is he?
I left them.
I don't know.
There's complications.
Sticking the head right now.
I'm sticking the head.
All right.
So you bring the baby back home and she's stepped up as a stepmom essentially because
she finds out about this with you and is like,
Hey, I'm going to stay with my boyfriend, even though he just found out he has a baby, you know?
Yeah.
True right or die.
She is.
Honestly, a lot of girls would have left, bro.
A lot of girls would have left just based on the situation and said, you have a lot going on.
I want to support you.
But it's too much for me to handle and just walked away at that exact moment when you had the surprise baby.
I understand that.
Oh, he said that.
He said, my girl, trust me, loves me, supported me through everything.
I feel so guilty.
it's eating me up inside.
I've been with this girl less than a year,
and I've been through so much in that time,
I don't know what to do.
I wish I could undo what I did,
but I obviously can't.
Should he come clean,
Los Angeles, Chicago, Arizona, Wyoming,
Alabama, New York, New York,
Florida, Mars, Pluto,
all of you.
Does it make you wish you never went over there,
my friend over there, Jr.??
Yes.
Yeah, I know.
That should have just been a deadbeat.
No, I'm kidding.
Sounds like he's in a deposition.
We're not, yes.
Junior, do you still have the baby?
Because this happened a couple days ago.
Do you still have the baby?
So you have to go take the baby back.
Oh, my God.
You're not going.
Who's going?
His mom.
Mom or my dad?
There you go.
Okay, you don't think that's going to give baby mama a sign?
I don't know.
What if she's like, come back, Big Daddy?
Or I'll tell you, girl.
Yeah.
You don't think, okay, so that's like,
more of my questions because
you have this baby mama, you hooked up
with her, you feel like crap because this new girl is
everything to you, been supportive for you, even
found out about the new baby with you and it stuck
by you, all of that, good girl, all of that, and you feel
really guilty about it. You're wondering whether you
should tell her or you should take it to the grave.
And I'm wondering, is
your baby mama that vindictive
that she would say something?
I mean, I don't think so.
I mean, she's with somebody else also.
Oh, okay, okay.
Oh, she has something
So she should have been, too.
So she cheated.
For now.
All right.
So, yeah, for now until they're not together.
No, but let's hope they stay together.
True.
Okay.
What if she's like, I don't even care about myself?
I'll burn myself out.
No.
No?
No.
No.
Okay.
So you are wondering, should I tell my new girl, the one that's been down for me, what has
happened?
Because I am going through it.
You said you feel guilty.
Yes.
You haven't been able to sleep.
Not for the past two days.
And how is your girl seeing you?
Because a girl can tell something's up.
I mean, if I'm being honest,
I've been destined with her lately guys.
And I think she knows something going on.
For sure, she does.
I'm supposed to act normal, brother.
He's not this person.
He's not like this.
He's not this person.
He's not this person.
I'm just, I heard.
Okay, brother.
So you want to know if you should tell.
And I have one more question.
Like, how, like, you don't think to us
talking about it she's going to find out your
little face she doesn't listen to
her long her loss her loss because she didn't
even know about last time she didn't know you were
even thinking about choosing your ex
over her
no okay
I mean Vic called me yesterday I almost got cut
why why
oh because Vic called you
who's Vic who's Vic
I was just a new friend I hope you answered it
because Vic could have been a chick
Vicky
did you answer in front of
her? No, but he heard, she heard a voice and she hasn't heard that voice before.
Oh, that's good.
So it's a new voice and you're acting sus?
Ooh, she's going to hear in the closet.
Let's clear up the rumor.
You tell him, baby, it could be worse. I couldn't be with big.
Could it be one big. All right. Let's get help for the homie. Let's get help for the homie.
It's funny to us, but he's really like he has that ball in the pit of his stomach. He's just,
just like everything is just reminding him.
When I called him yesterday, that's funny because I kind of picked up on something.
I was like, yeah, I'll just, I'll just DM you, man.
Because I was like, so, when you slept with your baby, I'm like, actually, I'll just, I'll just DM you, bro.
Oh, my God.
Okay, Lee, Lee and Whittier, Lee, do you hear the pain in our guy's voice?
Do you hear it?
Junior's going through it, Lee.
I hear his pain, but I'll tell you what.
I don't think you should say anything.
to her.
What?
I don't think it's fair for you to absolve yourself of guilt at the expense of what it will do
to her.
I'm speaking of 30 years of experience with this problem.
So someone essentially telling him to tell her clearly would clear his mind,
but it would bring pain to her.
Exactly.
What would help her more is if he makes a problem.
a living amend, and that would be completely changing the behavior so that it never happens with the baby mama or any other woman again while he's with her.
I love that.
The best apology is changed behavior.
Yes.
But she don't even know he changed it.
Yeah.
Because to her she doesn't need to.
That's irrelevant.
She doesn't need to because it'll hurt her more than it will help her.
Lee, you say this is from experience.
talk to us.
I've been married April 1st
will be 30 years.
Wow.
I have found phones,
zip drives,
you name it
that go back all the way
from when my 27-year-old daughter
was in Euro
and I was being cheated on
by my husband.
Dang.
He cheated with floppy this, you guys.
Damn.
He was playing Oregon Trail on someone else.
No.
It doesn't have to do with me.
It has to do with him and his bag of tricks.
I'm a strong woman.
I know who I am.
Okay?
And I don't cheat.
I don't believe in that.
Okay.
Just because he doesn't give me the right to go do it either.
Because then I take a hostage and hurt somebody else.
Okay
But he continued cheating
So he didn't change
Because he's got a freaking problem
But it ain't my problem
Wouldn't it be your problem
Because that could go home with you
Things could happen to you
Like your heart matters
I'm not worried about
See
I come from an old school place
Maybe I'm an old soul
I'm 50 years old
And I've lived
a lot in my years.
Does it affect me?
Heck yes.
Do I feel insecure at times?
Heck yes.
But had he never
told me, I would
never start looking
for more.
So he should have never said anything
in the first place.
Had he never come to me? He came
to clean to absolve his own
pain in his room. And that inflicted pain
on you. And it changed who you were.
Exactly.
And then from that point on, I started searching.
Every time I get that feeling, I search and I find.
Not to be men to mean to all men, but men are men.
Right.
The biological need is to procreate.
So why not leave?
Why not leave?
Yeah, why stay?
Because I, at the time when all of this started, I was raising,
two kids, kids too, that were not mine.
And we were legally not married, and I had no legal rights to them.
And I could not walk away from kids that I had had in my life as their mom for nine years.
I couldn't say, okay, your mom's a dirt bag.
Now your dad's a dirt bag, and I'm out of here.
I couldn't do that.
So I chose to give up my happiness.
for them. But do you see that? You are saying you sacrificed your own happiness. You sacrificed your
own security for what? For kids. For kids. Well, once they were grown. Once they were grown,
because you said it's still continued. Mm-hmm. Well, I know it is still continuing because he's...
Until now? No, it is. I've been having this feeling for like three weeks already.
Oh, I'm sorry. Every time I have the feeling, if I search, I find.
It's just wisdom that that comes with
And you wouldn't even give yourself the last
Like I'm 68
Let me be free from this
Oh believe me honey
For time
I would be closing the door
It's not time yet
What does that mean?
Like you're not ready to leave him
Even though the kids are grown up
My kids are all grown
My youngest is 27
Because I'm sure they would want you to be happy.
I get that.
I am not ready to walk away financially, emotionally, spiritually.
I'm not there right now.
I know.
But I will be there.
Yeah.
And you've put it in it like you've made the logic of he's going to be a man.
Men are going to be men.
This is what they're like as primitively supposed to.
to do and all of that.
But that doesn't mean that you can't be happy because we're not, we're not in the ice age
anymore.
We're not cavemen anymore.
If you don't understand is that I am happy, I don't need a man to be happy.
So then leave him.
Happiness comes from searching within.
Okay.
I'm totally with you, but you said you sacrificed your happiness and you said you can't leave
because you're emotionally not ready to.
Back then, 20, 27 years ago.
Oh, yes, you why you won't leave right now.
I sacrifice my happiness.
Okay.
Since then, I have figured out that happiness doesn't come from people, places, and things.
Of course, you're right.
Okay.
And then what's the emotional tie?
Because you said even right now, you wouldn't leave emotionally.
You couldn't emotionally.
No, virtual advisor.
Okay.
That I would give my situation a year.
Okay.
I'm at almost two months into that year.
And you're already feeling it.
You're already feeling that something's up.
Oh, honey, you have no idea.
Lee, whenever you get single again, we will do the homie hookup line.
I promise you.
Yes.
We will help you, Lee.
Yeah, we're going to find you a young whippersnapper.
Get your groove back, girl.
She's a little young young guy.
Greg's not here right now, but he would have been.
You're in Whittier, Greg's and Whittier.
We'll put that together.
Lee right there.
April, Jr.
Yes.
You want your new girl sound all like that?
And when she's 68,
that she has a spiritual advisor,
she promised like, hey, this will stop.
I'll leave.
I won't leave.
She sacrificed.
Her happiness, her insecurity, all of that?
I don't want her to feel like that either.
Oh, okay, okay.
I'm sorry, sorry, sorry.
No, it's just that I remember, like, she is a good girl.
She's a good girl.
When she didn't leave, when he had the baby.
She could have left.
Alex didn't.
Alex in San Antonio.
What's up, Alex?
Alex.
Alex, take me out speaker, brother, man.
Where are you right now?
I feel like I'm talking to Texas right now.
Take me out of speaker.
There we go.
There we go.
Thank you.
All right, Alex, what would you tell our guy, Jr.?
Junior is with a new girl, but except with his baby mama,
after some other drama they've been through and the new girl's been staying with him,
finding out he had a kid with him, and now he feels guilty.
Should he tell her they haven't been together, like, more than a year?
and now he wants to know I feel really guilty.
Should I tell her what I did with my baby mama?
Hey, you got to take me off speaker or something because roll up your window.
It must be hot in Texas.
Yeah.
Yeah, it is, it is.
Okay.
All right.
Hey, junior, bro, bro, come on, man.
You laid your bed, dog.
Say something.
You got to say something.
They're always going to find out.
And then when we find out, it hurts way more.
You got to tell the new girl.
You laid that bed going over there knowing something was going to happen.
I mean, you had a rubber on you.
Yeah.
Premeditation.
I know.
I'm kidding.
There was something.
He had R&R with him.
So, but do you hear it in his voice?
He's very remorseful.
He wishes he never did that.
Yeah.
Yes, I do.
And I feel like he should tell the new girl just because of that.
It's going to, if he writes it out just like, you know, old lady was saying,
it's going to, you know, kill them from the inside out,
both of them.
And then no matter what, they're still going to find out, you know,
they're going to talk, they're going to meet up, parties, barbecue, something.
Eventually.
The kids are going to say it?
Are you going to go back in mommy's wrong?
Dude, I'm thinking what if, like, somehow, like, baby mama gets pregnant again, it could happen?
That's what I was exactly thinking.
Like, it could still happen.
But she would do the same thing and say that it might be the new, because she's a new,
a new relationship too.
So he's not even wondering, do I want to get back on baby mama?
He's like, no, I just regret that I did that.
And you're saying you've got to come clean.
You cannot take this to the grave.
You feel the guilt.
He's already said that he's changed his behavior around his new girl.
She's already suffering the consequences of what happened and not even knowing what happened.
Yep.
Yep.
Come clean, bro.
Just come clean.
It hurts.
It hurts to find out when you're getting cheated on.
Did that happen to you?
Yes, ma'am.
Tell us about it
What happened
Ah
That's a
You can hear it in your voice
She cheated on me with my own cousin
Did they come clean?
Yeah
Or you caught them
Messages
And it wasn't even just that
Like she was
She got around
Your fiance
You were gonna put a ring on it
It was family friends
Family friends
Oh my god she kept tight
Cousins, yeah.
And it hurt to find those messages, you know, those videos.
And being on Facebook, I remember I posted on Facebook, I said, man, I'm having these crazy dreams because I was having crazy dreams.
She was cheating on me.
And then some dude went out, commented a screenshot of their conversation.
And she basically was just like, oh, I don't even love him.
I'm just using them because he has a house.
He has a car.
What?
But you not?
She's saying that about you?
No.
Oh.
Yeah.
She was saying like, she just wished me because I have a house to have a car.
Wow.
Oh my God.
And you were going to marry her.
Yeah.
What happened with your cousin?
He comes around here and there, but it's not the same.
It's just cordial, just not the same, no.
Wow.
Did you get the ring back, bro?
No.
She ponded, I bet.
Oh, my God.
Oh, man.
I'm sorry, Alex.
What she told me is that.
They sold.
They robbed her.
They robbed her at the pawn shop.
Mm.
Mm-hmm.
Wow.
How do you feel?
But yeah, junior, come clean, bro.
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
Wait, wait, wait.
Hold on.
Two guys crying and Friday is pretty crazy.
How do you feel right now?
I'm so sorry.
Say that one more time.
How do you feel?
How do you feel?
Tell us about your emotions.
Healing.
I could say that.
I'm healing.
Mm-hmm.
I have a beautiful girlfriend right now.
she is currently pregnant with my first child.
Oh, this one's mine.
This was mine.
Okay, she's a loyal girl.
No, he learned his mistake from the last one.
Yeah.
Yeah, but see, don't be like junior.
If the other one comes around, don't, don't do that.
I haven't cut that one off.
Oh, good.
Yeah.
Yeah.
He told his new girl he doesn't even have a cousin.
So I don't even have any cousin.
Oh.
He said, yeah.
Oh, we did a day.
It's Auitado Friday on Brownback Morning.
Girl men going through it.
A part of healing is laughing at the pain.
You know what I'm saying?
Thank you, bro.
And calling in to a radio station.
Yeah.
That's important.
States away.
States away.
Don't skip that step.
All right.
Bella, is Bella on the line?
Bella in East Vale.
Bella, Wienos days, Bella.
Whoa.
What was that?
No, old school.
Aim!
Aim!
Hey, she just entered the chat.
Yeah, she just entered the chat.
Very old school, very AOL.
Wow, do that again.
Never put WD-40 on your door, please.
I have to walk out the kids, so like my fault.
Okay, I like, I like it.
Hey, Bella, talk to us.
What would you tell our guy, Jr., that is deciding whether,
because he feels so guilty hooked up with his baby mama
when he went to go pick up his baby from their house,
he hooked up with her in the moment,
afterwards feels guilty,
He has been acting real with his new girl.
He knows she can sense something.
He doesn't want to hurt her.
It's a good girl.
He made a mistake.
Should he tell her keep it to the grave?
Home girl, I think you should keep it to yourself.
And I say that because as a writer die,
who has suspected and found out,
but has a kid with somebody to find out,
to even hear it from that person is take it to the grave.
do not instill that pain on the new girl, on dog girl.
That's not right.
You messed up to repent.
We do better.
Me knowing that, she doesn't even know what's going on.
Now we all do.
Yeah.
We all know what's going on.
So now this is something that's going to be low-key embarrassing to her.
I'm sure she's going to find out at some point, but I think you should really actively
make the decision to do better by your girl.
If you want to stick with her.
Now, tell her, be prepared for her to walk and leave.
because that's not, she don't have to stick with you or the kid.
And that's the thing.
You messed up by doing her dirty, doing your ride or die dirty.
Mm-hmm.
When she was sticking by you through your mess, not hers, your mess.
So I think you should really actively do better by her.
Within, you need to talk to the lady.
Not to baby mama lady, but talk to the therapist.
The lady.
Talk to the lady.
Sit on the couch, talk to the lady.
Yeah.
Go talk to somebody, not the man.
Go back to the lady
Maybe this is helping her
Him, maybe this is what he needed
You know?
He needed to feel this
Because if you were okay walking in
Like I said, it's premeditated
And I'm a psychology major
So Tres premeditated
You knew the moment she took that rubber out
You knew the moment she tore it
You could have stopped in so many moments
Yeah
A lot of times
He was like, oh no
I hope no
Oh no, what's happening?
Oh no
Don't close the door!
Oh no I clicked and fell in it
Like absolutely not
Yeah
So you can consciously make a decision to do right by her moving forward
Or you can tell her but she does not have to stick with you
And you're going to have to leave her alone to deal with that healing on her own
Don't add more.
Wow.
Not the psychology major right or die saying don't say anything.
No.
No, it's great.
But I feel like are there voice changers?
Both of the girls said take it to the grave.
Yeah.
It was the dude that said come clean.
Yeah.
What's going on?
No, because the dude.
Because Mercury's in retrograde.
Well, that dude got cheated on, but also, I mean, I think it's the guilt, right?
Like, that's what everybody keeps talking about.
And that's what this guy, like, what's eating Jr.
Or we fell for it.
We fell for it, Jr.
All the girls are sympathetic to you.
You're feeling guilty.
Junior, you did this during, I want you know you did this during Lent, bro.
Yeah.
Peccador.
Yeah, you didn't have meat on Friday.
You gave it to her.
Yeah, exactly.
I hope it wasn't Fish Friday.
It is very funny.
You know what I mean.
It was.
Wow.
Hey, you can't, respectfully, you can't tell her because if you tell her, then you're going to also have to tell her.
You've been talking about her on the radio.
He can leave that part out.
He can leave that part out.
No.
Yeah.
Come clean like 100%.
That's crazy.
I will for sure because I'm thinking of the girl.
She does not deserve to be staying with the cheater.
Just saying.
Because she's been sticking with you this whole time.
And now in her eyes, she's going to be.
like,
Seva minar mensa.
Yeah.
Like, everyone's going to know,
including your mom and dad,
I'm pretty sure they're going to find out eventually.
And then the new girl is just going to be there, like,
happy,
tonta.
Everyone's going to know.
And you know,
she doesn't deserve that.
The new girl's family was probably telling her the whole time,
leave him.
Yeah.
Leave him.
What do you mean?
He has a new baby that just appeared out of nowhere.
True.
Yes,
you are,
you feel so guilty that I promise you,
when you get drunk,
that's going to come out.
Yeah,
you're going to be like,
yeah,
you're going to be like,
I'm so sorry.
I'm sorry.
I did the thing with my baby, mom.
I'm sorry.
I mean,
I'm not a good drinker,
so probably try that's true.
See?
Yeah, stay away from the models.
Junior,
I hate when you agree.
You're not even defending yourself.
You're totally going to snitch.
You're totally going to tell him.
He is going to tell him.
He is going to tell him.
He is going to tell him.
How are you like sitting there down or like, you know,
taking her out of movies?
I really don't know, Vic.
It's been living a lie for the past two days.
Yeah.
Like, he has remorse.
You can hear it.
Yeah.
Are you going to change?
Are you going to stop?
I'm going to change.
I'm not thinking that I'm going to change, though.
You're going to change.
You have to change.
Okay.
When does the baby have to go back?
Friday.
I mean, Sunday, sorry.
Sunday.
Okay.
You're going to call us on Monday, okay?
Yeah, please.
Really?
Yeah, you're going to call us and you're going to tell us what happened.
If you smashed again.
Maybe smashed again.
No, no, no.
Yeah, don't do that.
Give us the graphic details.
Where do you live?
That's South Central.
Why'd you ask him that?
And she don't listen to us?
Now I'm questioning her.
Maybe she likes rock and roll, man.
You know?
Rock and roll.
We don't have that here.
It's okay.
All right.
All right.
Well, April.
You good?
You good?
Yeah.
No, he's not good.
He's going through it.
He's not going to tell her.
He's going to tell her.
No.
I'll bet.
Hey, what's that app?
You can bet.
Calci.
Yeah, I'm going to start Calci.
Let's all bet.
On whether he's going to tell her or not.
Whether he told her or not.
And also we'll do another side bet whether he smashes his baby mama.
To your bet, all right?
We got these going, all right?
My addicts chime in, all right?
Let us know.
Zool, come here?
Now what's going on?
Damn.
Cheese-Machie.
with Angie.
You guys, this is Cheeseman, Cheeseman, Cheesme.
Because Justin Bieber
and Usher, apparently, according to TMZ,
got into it at an Oscars after party
hosted by Beyonce and Jay-Z.
Oh, the queen.
Is that where all the people were like taking pictures?
That's not Vanity Fair, right?
No, no, no, no.
This one, apparently, because I'm like,
wait, Beyonce and J-C.,
we're not even at the Oscars.
But apparently they host like an after-party
after every Oscar like annually.
Okay.
And then it's very, very exclusive
and people tend to go there.
Oh, but the Bebes went and Ercher went.
Yeah, you guys.
So apparently, so according to TMZ,
some are saying that it actually ended up in like
a fifth fight between the two,
but then Justin's sources are denying it
and said, no, that never happened, but it was intense.
There are, there's always some truths to.
Yeah, something must have for people.
The whispers. Yeah.
So apparently what happened is that Usher came up,
to justing at the party with quote-unquote energy and anger and that two just got into a really
bad exchange between them too.
Usher versus Bieber?
I thought they were like, like that was one, that was his daddy.
Yes, that was his mentor.
Yeah, that was a dude that brought you into the game.
Yeah.
He signed you.
Yeah, I would never like to see them fight.
Maybe a dance off or something.
A dance off?
Maybe a versus.
Yeah.
Well, Usher signed Bieber when he was just singing on YouTube.
Early on.
Yeah, early on.
And then Usher had.
has talked really good about Justin Bieber since the beginning. Listen. I mean, I saw a future
of an artist that was very bright based off of his passion. I saw the potential of success.
It was really always left up to him and I always told him that. I said, you can go as far as
you want to go if you want to go there. He has a talent. He has the know-how and he also has an
incredible mentor. He said that. He said that very nicely there. And then that other night, he's like,
we can go there as far as you want to go. Same words, just different tone. Yeah. Yeah. According to
Justin sources, I don't know, but according to sources are saying Justin's always been really rude to Usher.
And then back last year, the beginning of last year, Justin Beaver actually unfollowed Usher.
So I don't know, I guess they've been having some type of drama behind scenes that nobody really knows.
Oh, wow.
Yeah, I mean, it happens a lot with like people that you come into the game with.
You're not always like end up separating.
Oh, really?
he's not with Scooter Braun anymore.
Like with How?
I mean, he's not with Scooter Braun anymore.
Who was his longtime manager?
That was his manager.
You're right.
Yeah.
And he's separated from him.
So he separated from Usher.
Selina.
So now he probably just has a whole new circle.
And, you know, for whatever reason, they fell out personal things.
I don't know.
Who knows?
It's like they found him at like a preteen or a teenager or whatever.
And now he's a grown man.
Yeah.
But Usher's the one that went up to him.
Yeah.
He went up to him for them.
Follow?
That'd be a crazy.
I don't know.
Yeah.
I have no idea.
Bro.
What?
I don't think, I don't, yeah.
I just want to get your attention.
All right.
That's it for Chishishamation.
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What's up? This is Be Real from Cypress Hill.
Where are you from, Es? Don't you know I'm local?
All right. I have an update about the renaming of things in response to what happened with
Caesar Chavez and the New York Times investigative piece that interviewed over 60 people.
I believe they have recordings. They have audio recordings. They have emails and they have
evidence to corroborate the stories of at least three women, one including a co-founder of the
United Farm Workers of America Movement, Dolores Huerta. And because of this, there is now a heavy
response to those allegations against Cesar Chavez that again have been corroborated that the family
has come out in support of and so have the United Farm Workers of America movement. Okay. So a couple
things to get to March 31st is usually Cesar Chavez Day. It is now their lawmakers are pushing to rename
the holiday Farm Workers Day, shifting the focus from one person to the entire farm worker community,
which I do believe is the right move. That's great. That's great. Yeah, I'm glad. Now, again,
Chavez has long been known as one of the most important labor leaders in U.S. history. He did co-found
the United Farm Workers Union and there were protests. There was organized farm workers.
strikes and boycotts.
What Mayor Karen Bass has said, because she spoke out yesterday, is that her actions on also supporting Farm Workers Day is not to deny the legacy, but also to focus on the right things, which is the farm workers.
Yeah.
Okay.
It's not like a, and I think they have to be very, very like, we're not trying to tear a man down.
We are literally trying to shift focus.
Yeah.
Right.
Because that's kind of been the attack that it's like, you guys are.
just trying to go out of a guy, you're trying to cancel what he's done and all of these things,
you know?
She also says she spoke to the family, and locally it will be known as Farm Workers Day.
And she says the family supports renaming the holiday.
Again, this comes with the support of the family.
She made it clear the goal is not to erase history.
These people are trying to say you're trying to erase what he's done, but to recognize the broader movement and the workers themselves.
And other parts of California and Fresno, for example, city leaders voted to remove the Cesar Chavez Boulevard name and bring back their original street names.
That's something that happened out here as well, I believe.
Well, I think it was Brooklyn.
Brooklyn Avenue.
And is that East L.A. or Bois Heights?
I don't want to get it wrong because I know how we are about our cities.
Yeah, it's Boyle Heights.
And going back from calling it Cesar Chavez to calling it Brooklyn.
Yeah, put it back to what it was.
And I believe it turns into Sunset Boulevard, so just whatever.
In San Francisco, the long-running Cesar Chavez parade has already been renamed to honor Dolores Puerta.
Wow.
Right?
At Fresno State, a statue of Chavez has been covered and is expected to be removed.
I believe I saw something similar out here in the valley.
At UC Davis, at least one campus event, has already dropped his name as well.
We're going to continue to see these things happening.
And I personally want to just, again, send my support to the victims, to the family.
and let them guide us.
A lot of us can talk amongst each other,
do hot takes to get people angry on the internet,
but it's nothing compared to what these people have gone through
and more importantly what the family has gone through.
He still has children that are alive,
grandchildren that are alive,
and they are in support of what's been going down,
at least from what we heard from Mayor Karen Bass.
Yeah, and I think the point is not to tear down somebody's legacy,
but just to...
Or like the work they put in, the progress from the farm workers.
But it's to, you know, to honor the victims as well as not put this man on a pedestal when he was, you know, very much at fault of doing terrible things to people.
And so that he's held accountable.
Obviously, he's not here anymore.
But to hopefully deter future people from doing terrible things like that.
Because.
Using their authority or just the way that the dynamics are within an organization to stay quiet.
I get you perfect.
Because it will ruin your legacy.
Because now you can't just say, okay, I did all these great things.
Now you have baggage with it.
And also it impacts the legacy of like, you know, it's sad that he's now even associated with all the hard work and good job that the farm workers did.
Yeah.
You know, it just kind of like leaves a bad taste in people's mouth.
And they have to do whatever they can to stay focused on their mission.
Exactly, Vic.
So there you have at March 31st.
Could be Farm Workers Day on a national level in California and out here in Los Angeles as well.
And you know what?
We talked about it yesterday.
We did.
We posted about it on our Instagram and it's surprising to me that a lot of the commentary is like, well, if we're going to do it to him, why are we doing it to the president?
We agree.
As if we were on one side of another.
Both things can be true.
We can say, hey, this is not okay.
And also what is going down with quote unquote the Epstein files list or what have you and even our president.
We've been a very vocal platform for that.
We're not going to be biased towards any of them.
If anybody does terrible things, like, is being, you know, alleged and corroborated, you know, that people are coming out and saying about Sessa-C Chavez, all of those people get everything stripped.
You know what I'm saying?
You should not be in a position of power because you obviously can't handle it.
Use it to your advantage and take advantage of people, women, all these things.
You know, so it's like, yeah, no, all people, all people, not just Sessafch.
Sar Chavez, but let's start there.
And because Cesar Chavez is Latino, I think it falls very heavily on us to say something.
Because then otherwise, we would be showing bias.
Are we just defending him because he's on our quote-unquote side?
No.
And I think that would show you your objectivity if you were like, no, we can't have selective
morality.
Selectively be like, hey, we should be going after that guy, but leave our guy alone.
No.
We can't do that.
Before we start yelling at our neighbor, we got to check our.
our deal.
Yeah.
Whatever it is.
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah.
All right.
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Let's get into some deportes.
Shoot the J.
Shoot it.
Playball.
All right.
The fanatics flag football classic draft went down yesterday at the Waldorf.
Waldorf?
Waldorf.
A story.
I've never stayed there, obviously.
It's very expensive.
In Beverly Hills.
Oh, very fancy.
That's when I knew I couldn't pronounce it.
I was like,
ah, yeah.
Out of my price range.
Yeah, out of my price range.
But the game is going down tomorrow at BMO Stadium.
It's going down tomorrow?
Yeah, it's going down here.
This weekend.
Yeah, BMO Stadium tomorrow here in L.A.
And the event was founded by Tom Brady,
the inaugural one, it's the first one.
And billionaire Michael Rubino fanatics.
So they were in attendance as well as so many NFL stars
that are going to participate.
You know, comedians were there, an ex-boxer,
Terence Crawford.
You know, he's a part of it.
Don't call him an ex-boxer.
He retired.
He's a great boxer.
There you go.
Legendary Boxer.
But it says ex-boxer.
I know.
I know.
It feels weird.
He shouldn't retire.
Weird label.
Weird label.
Yeah.
But it was also streamed live so we could all see all the shenanigans going on behind the scenes and all that.
And the event was hosted by Druski and Kevin Hart.
And they wasted no time talking ish.
All right.
Check this out.
Whoever gets picked last, she got to say they self.
Let's just talk about that.
Getting drafted last in the flag football drafts.
We don't even need that.
That's that.
Okay.
Talk about a self-esteem low.
Facts.
Oh my gosh.
It's flag football.
Yeah, you got picked last.
So they started instantly cooking the person that would get drafted last.
Which ended up being, what's his name?
Latterick Pablo Smith, who's an actual flag football player.
That plays for the U.S.
you know, national team.
He's like a professional.
He's a professional.
He's a professional and they picked them last.
Because they didn't, like us, didn't recognize the name, right?
And then so, Todd's.
Tom Brady, you know, the co-founder, co-captain, you know, he's actually going to be quarterback on the founders team.
Yes, he's going to participate.
You know, he was taking shots at the other team immediately.
All right.
So he was, he said he was glad that the captain of the other team, Joe Burrow, could make it and he wasn't busy at a fashion show.
Hilarious.
Joe Burrow is the fool that was with Jessica Alba in Vegas.
That's the one that you got to worry about, Rex.
Yeah, exactly.
Young guy.
He also made fun of I Show Speed.
He said that he shows speed, but not talent.
that's insane
Tom Brady is insane
the way that he was going at
everybody
Tom was going at
I shall speed
streamer extraordinary
that is very fast
he can do a bunch of backflip
he has a lot of talent
he has incredible talent
athletic
but nothing was worse
than what he said
about Jaden Daniels
other co-captain of the team
and his mama
oh my god
I'm just have his mama
him way
oh
oh oh
He said he was just happy that his mom let him play because he is known as a bit of a mama's boy.
He's the one that said.
Who told Tom all this stuff?
No, it's out there.
The mom said that she would go on dates with him and his partner.
Yeah.
We've talked about them previously.
Yeah, he was like linked to Joju Watkins and all this work into his life.
Yeah, she's the one that sat between him and another player.
Yes.
So she's like a helicopter mom.
So he's like, yeah, I'm just glad your mom let you play, bro.
Oh, dang.
Tom is so hip for him to even know.
all these things to say.
For real.
He is.
But before it was over, Logan Paul, all right?
The heel of all heels.
You know, WWE, he's also boxed and stuff like that.
Not high heels, ladies.
Not high heels.
The bad people.
Exactly.
But he felt the need to call everyone out for a fight.
Bronk, everybody, including Tom Brady.
There is not a single NFL player who could beat me in a boxing room.
When it comes to fighting, it is a different discipline.
If any of these guys want to want to, one of them.
fight me and do my sport on their field this weekend, so be it.
I will kick their ass, including his.
You better be in bed early tonight.
Bro, he said get out here than left.
That was Tom Brady's voice.
Yeah, you better get out of here.
He said, you better get out of here.
He said, you better go to bed early tonight.
Logan's sport is WWB.
WWE, but he's also boxed.
He doesn't box as much as Jake now.
Yeah, so yeah, so he called everyone out for a fight.
All the NFL people, he did not call out Terrence Crawford for the record.
He's right there.
And he's not on his team, right?
No, he made sure to say NFL.
Yeah, all the NFL players.
All the NFL players were boxers.
Yeah.
So, yeah, that's what happened yesterday.
And, like, again, like I said, it goes down tomorrow.
Flag Football, uh, uh, Fanatics Flag Football Classic.
I can't wait to watch it.
I know it's the first one.
It's out here.
It wasn't going to be out here.
No, because it was going to be in, yeah, in Dubai.
It was all the conflict that's happening.
Yes.
They moved it out here at BMO.
So I'm excited to go to go peep that.
A lot of stuff.
A lot of stars are going to participate, you know, Rob Gruncowski, Jalen Hurts,
Vaughn Miller, Terrence Crawford.
They're all going to be on Tom Brady's team.
The other team's going to have I Show Speed, Logan Paul, Jalen Ramsey, OBJ, O'Dell Beckham, Jr.
Wow.
And, yeah, it's going to be a dope time.
Thanks for that, Vic.
Look, keep it here.
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