Brown Bag Mornings - 3/20/26 Slipping and Falling into my Ex 🦏 | Brown Bag Mornings

Episode Date: March 20, 2026

The crew stage a massive intervention for a three-time caller named Junior, who is currently battling "post ___ clarity" guilt after using a "rhino" pill to hook up with his ex while his toddler was i...n the other room. Between the relationship drama, the squad roasts Tom Brady for bullying NFL players' moms and investigates why The Game is using vending machine codes to slide into women's DMs. [Edited by @iamdyre 🛸] Chapters (00:00) Don't You Know I'm Local: Blondie the bear's community tragedy (4:35) Chisme: Latto's pregnancy with 21 Savage (8:35) Rap Sheet: The Game's vending machine DMs (11:51) Petty Police: Ryan Garcia vs. Jose Benavidez (16:44) Scrolling: Montoya 2.0 crashes out live (20:50) The Weather: Heatwave weather report (22:26) Lakewood Mall Paletas (23:31) Homie Helpline: Junior's messy baby mama hookup (59:53) Chisme: Bieber and Usher's afterparty beef (1:03:58) Don't You Know I'm Local: Renaming Cesar Chavez holiday (1:10:26) Play Ball: Tom Brady's flag football roast Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Hey, don't make your life harder than it needs to be. You really want to type Robback mornings every single time? Nah, just hit the subscribe button, Perrito. Do it. Go! What's up? This is Be Real from Cypress Hill. Where are you from, Es? Don't you know I'm local? This has been a story that has outraged the community over in the SGB. And it's really sad to see everything that's been going down.
Starting point is 00:00:23 But the community is coming together for a bear named Blondie. Okay, if you've seen it. the news stories about Blondie. She's been around for a while. If you see videos of people over there in the Monrovia area or the Alta Dina area, our Acadia area, and it's like, oh, there's a bear in the pool, right? Yeah. That's our girl, Blondie.
Starting point is 00:00:44 That's cool. Oh, okay. The other week there was a newscast and a woman and one of the news ladies was doing a report on a bear that had swiped someone that was walking their dog. It was Blondie. It was Blondie in the back. Now, authorities had picked Blondie up after two instances where it appeared that she attacked neighbors, okay? Now, initially she had attacked an older man on a porch.
Starting point is 00:01:10 She had went up to him and kind of swiped at him. And that was something that was like, oh my gosh, I hope it's not Blondie, the one that we've known and grown up with because neighbors and residents say, yes, we did grow up with her. We kind of have seen her swimming around our pools. She currently has cubs that she's walking around with. So that happened. time passes and another woman is walking with her dog and it appears that blondeie swipes at the woman's leg. So according to authorities, they took that as an act of aggression as a pattern of an animal that is a threat to the community. And they put Blondie to sleep for lack of a little bit.
Starting point is 00:01:47 Damn, they put her down. They put her down. They said that they did it in a way that she felt no pain. but there is now what seems to be so much community backlash. They said that city officials and the residents in the area did not want Blondie to be put down. They do not understand the logic of it. While they do hear, okay, it's a pattern that happened a couple times, they're also very empathetic to Blondie because they're saying
Starting point is 00:02:16 Blondie was a mom. She had cubs. You could have removed her. Because they had tranquilized her. you could have tranquilized her and taking her to some other place. Up in the mountains. Yeah. She would have died there.
Starting point is 00:02:28 Little bird tranquilizers. I don't think so. Why? Because she's used to where she's at. She was a member of that community at this point. If she was there that long, like who hasn't swiped at their neighbor once in a while? The music was too loud. The music was too loud.
Starting point is 00:02:42 Like what the hell? That's her home too. Yeah. And for them to be like, oh, come on. That dog was probably looking at him crazy. You had to protect his tur. So there was a neighbor that did do like an interview. with the news station that I saw and he was saying how the dog and the woman were clearly walking
Starting point is 00:02:57 and the dog and the bear had a little bit of a standoff and they walk but the the bear did swipe at what if they were walking in his hood what if they weren't even from that community like what are doing here but I will say now they have taken the cubs and literally they said that once the cubs are like of age they're going to take the cubs to like the community in monrovia not the community but like that area yeah so I'm like what if that what happened to to their mom, ends up happening to them. To the babies.
Starting point is 00:03:25 Yeah. Or. You know, why are you going to send them back and then not give them, I guess, that ability to be bears? Mm-hmm. You know? Or that grace to be an animal in the wild, you know? But what if they want revenge?
Starting point is 00:03:40 The babies? When they grow up? It's like, yo, you got my mom. I don't think so. Yeah. So, man, RAPido Blani and the community is coming together to do a community honor walk. It's going down Saturday,
Starting point is 00:03:52 March 21st at the Monrovia Library. Okay, this is how much the community love Blondie that although she did swipe at two neighbors. She said, they were like, no, we don't, we did not want for her to go the way that she went. They said that this is a peaceful walk to honor Blondie and they make sure that you know this is not a protest. They don't want signs. They don't want like people to agitate. They do want it to be something that's for Blondie that they've grown up with. That's so cute.
Starting point is 00:04:22 interviewed and they're like, yeah, we grew up with this. That's cool. That's so cute. Wow. I wish I can go to the walk, but it's far for me. Swipe in peace, Blondie. Swipe in peace. They love Blondie, but.
Starting point is 00:04:31 She's not here anymore. No, I get it. That's it. That's it. That's it. Zool, come here? Now, what's going on? Damn!
Starting point is 00:04:39 Cheesemation with Angie. You guys, guess who is pregnant? Who? Lada! She's the mommy, you guys. Big mama. So yesterday she announced, you know, she dropped the new song. in music video, business and personal,
Starting point is 00:04:55 where she pretty much announced her pregnancy. Now, the rumors have been going around since October 2025, right? And when people would ask her like, oh, my God, is she pregnant? She would be like, no, I just had a big meal. And she would always deny it. Now, in the music... It's just gas. It's what?
Starting point is 00:05:18 It's just gas. That's pretty much what she was saying. These gas. And then in the music video, it's actually she shows the hint of a guy which people are thinking it's 21 Savage again. Touching her belly. Touching her belly. Then also in the music video there is a part
Starting point is 00:05:35 where she's showing like a picture, like baby pictures and it's also pictures of 21 Savage and pictures of herself when they were both little kids, right? Cute. But every time they ask her like, okay, are you for real dating like 21? She's always denying it and it's like
Starting point is 00:05:51 Laudo at this point, girl just like stop gas-knit us. And tell us like 21's your baby daddy Or yeah baby daddy right Telling us no Yeah I don't know because again
Starting point is 00:06:02 Every time they ask her She always is nice In the past she says like The internet doesn't know a damn thing Let's start there And then she's also said like It's nobody's business really Just listen to my music
Starting point is 00:06:13 Yeah I was like tripping out Because I'm like okay This is like Proof proof of proof That you know They're obviously together But then I realize that I think the hold up
Starting point is 00:06:26 is because he's married still? I don't know that. Okay, yeah. No, he is. So, Vick, when I was telling him, he's like, you know what? I think he's actually married. I'm like, what? I've never heard of that.
Starting point is 00:06:35 And you know how he asked three kids? And one of the baby mamas, I was doing some research. It's reportedly, allegedly, that he's still married to his baby mama, Kiana Joseph, which is the baby mama of two of his kids. Yeah. Yeah. So that would make sense. And also, unfortunately, he's an immigrant, you know, previously.
Starting point is 00:06:53 So that could maybe affect his, like, citizen. I don't know. I'm not an expert on that, but that could be a hold-up for like a divorce. I would feel like then it wouldn't be Lotto keeping a secret. It would be him keeping a secret. That's what I'm saying. But I feel like Lotto, I don't know. I just like to think everyone's as toxic as me.
Starting point is 00:07:10 I feel like Lado will be like if you are married or if that's the case, especially say you're with me. Like let's especially say that. Yeah. So that it's clear that I'm yours or whatever, like despite all that stuff. Yeah. I don't know. People will talk about them either way. Look at us.
Starting point is 00:07:25 No. Absolutely. Yeah. I mean, I hope the best for my, I'm sure it's just like a legal kind of hold up or whatever. That's what you think? That's why neither of them have confirmed that they're dating? I mean, that would make the most sense for me. No, I think they just want privacy. In a world where everything is public, they want to at least have their own thing. Because like, Ojo's real. Bad energy is real. People wishing on your guys downfalls real. Imagine if they come out and say, oh, yeah, we're together. Any little thing, oh, is this full cheating? Is this girl cheating? is that they like this, they reposted this, then it turned into that.
Starting point is 00:07:57 Okay. They're probably saving themselves from that. True. We kind of already do that though. Remember when he was walking against the wall, 21-7? Yeah, true. And he didn't do anything wrong. She posted about it.
Starting point is 00:08:05 Yeah. That was so funny. Okay. To me, I thought it was like, okay, maybe like once they actually confirm it, it's like, okay, we'll leave you guys alone, be happy, things like that. But I really like that she went on live yesterday when she announced her pregnancy, and she was just celebrating how happy she was. I don't even know what to say, y'all.
Starting point is 00:08:21 Thank y'all for all to congratulations. I'm Big Mama for real. Big Mama one kid. Yeah, happy for you, Lato. Yes, all right. That's it for Chishamation. Brought to you guys buy your Toyota dealers. I'm Angie from Brownback Mornings.
Starting point is 00:08:34 I'm Par 106. If it's hip-hop, you know let these on. There I go. Rep sheet. Let these set go. Hold on. I'm Googling how old the game is. 46.
Starting point is 00:08:45 He's 46. Why do you know that's a bad? Yeah. Because he is. That's so random that you know this. No, it's because somebody asked the same question. yesterday like why is he acting like this how old is he at his big age of 46 so i guess uh the game rapper the game has been exposed on the type of dms he sends women and he kind of shoots his shot the same
Starting point is 00:09:07 way to all of them yeah he has his go-to line to all of them i will tell you it it when i first saw what he sent i was tripping till i was trying to figure it out and then i go to the back and forth of the conversations he's had with women yeah and it's kind of funny but major cringe at the same time. Yeah. So he will DM a woman, D3, another woman, F3, F3 I've seen. And then they're like, what? Like, honestly, anyone sends you that, you're going to say, huh?
Starting point is 00:09:36 Confused. So that is like a guaranteed response type of thing. It's like, is this an error? Was this your butt? Is this a butt DM? And he says, oh, my bad. I thought this was a vending machine. I was trying to get a snack.
Starting point is 00:09:49 Genius. Brother. Dude. That's genius. brother. That's super funny. It's hilarious. It's worked is what I'm saying.
Starting point is 00:09:57 It has worked for him to still continue doing it. I've seen at least four different women posting the same screenshot from his Instagram account DMing them. I personally seen this like probably about a year ago from one of the home girls. She posted on her close friends like, why is the game DMing me? And it was that exact thing. And I thought it was hilarious in that moment. And it's even funnier that he's been doing that.
Starting point is 00:10:22 The whole tire, yes. It got their attention. It got their attention. It worked. No, you're right. It does. Yeah, he probably has a high percentage. You know who would be so upset about this?
Starting point is 00:10:31 Baby girl, I just had his baby. Oh, yeah. She's already going through it. Herston? Yes. And we're like, that's how you got me. Maybe. Maybe.
Starting point is 00:10:41 Maybe. And then he just was throwing it around. That would hurt. Evelyn Lassada's daughter. Yeah, yeah. That he was like, yeah, I'm not going to change that baby's diapers or whatever. Instead, I'm going to try to get snacks to the venue. machine. Now you can't trust them.
Starting point is 00:10:54 No. Where are you going in game? I'm going to go get some snacks at the event. No, no, you're not. That means DMing. F3. So if you see F3 or D3 in your girls' DM by Los Angeles confidential. Someone is trying to get a snack at the vending machine. Don't let it. Oh, my God. Imagine you see your girls' DM and it says
Starting point is 00:11:15 E3. If I just see a DM from the game, I'm crashing out in general. No, just period. And now that people know it, like, it works. Oh, because other people are going to use it. Oh, yeah. That is low-key, a very clever way to get, like, a response bag. It's not that bad. Yeah, it's a good one.
Starting point is 00:11:31 I use the, I have a 700 credit score, by the way, if you want to respond. And they never do. That's so weird. We should aim a little higher. Just say 800. 700 is like average, so it's like, I'm a normal guy. No, no one thinks that. Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 00:11:44 Oh, it's a surprise that hasn't worked. You should start with, let me fix your credit, girl. And they're just going to think you're one of their services. Blah. Fix credit. That's the sound of the police. The petty police. It's petty.
Starting point is 00:11:55 It's just petty. I'm being petty. Petty, petty girl. Pretty and pettiest. Pretty pettiest. All right, I'm going to lie. I am somebody that may or may not enjoy the pettiness of Ryan Garcia. Okay.
Starting point is 00:12:08 We know him in press conferences and in boxing to really be the one that, like, brings the show. Yeah. To it. Brings the hype, brings the ish talking and all of that. But never did I expect for him. him to get confronted the way that he just did for talking ish about Benavides Jr. All right. It's clear.
Starting point is 00:12:28 Ryan Garcia and David Benavides while in different weight classes are both faces of boxing. You know them. Their names ring bells. They are the top dogs in the game right now. And Benavides Jr., which is David Benavides, excuse me, older brother had some beef to squash with Ryan Garcia when they were on stream yesterday. Now Ryan went to go visit David Benavides as he's gearing up for his fightmate in Singleton Mio My Weekend versus Sourdo and he went to go spar with him.
Starting point is 00:13:02 But Benavides' brother, Jose Benavides Jr. was there and this is their interaction. Check this out. What's up, bro. Nice to meet you, man. Good. Yeah, yeah. Okay, for sure. All right, yeah.
Starting point is 00:13:14 I don't know about what, but. So Jose Benavides Jr. says, I need to have a war with you, bro. right when Ryan was going to shake his hand. So apparently there had been some post-up about Benavida's Jr. Someone that made a video. It could have been a fan-made content type of thing. Junior is my favorite boxer. To which I'm sure David Benazvina Jr.,
Starting point is 00:13:36 knowing his brother kind of takes a spotlight. Love this. Of course. But he looked in the comments, and according to Jose Benavides Jr., Ryan was in the comments calling him washed, and he had to confront him about it. it we were talking sh** on some comments here i was some dude put a video right and then you put watch he did i never said that you drove it to me prove it to me then i'll say sorry i promise
Starting point is 00:14:00 i'm a man if i really did say that i'll say sorry how about that you said i'll find it i'll find it i i tried to find it yeah me too i couldn't find it oh my gosh i was trying to find this all right but right but right and say look i'm a man if you find it and i said it then i'm sorry wow but this is why i believe That that is not a true story, bro. It's probably click-clate. One of the know why, I doubt it? Because I never use the word watch. I never.
Starting point is 00:14:27 It might have been the clickbait to be real. It was a video, bro. It was a video that I saw, but everybody was so sorry to you. I'm not very sure. God bless you, brother. God bless you. One, I feel like Ryan says washed. All the time.
Starting point is 00:14:42 Does it? Like, it just sounds like a word that he says. That was a crazy gas light. That was a crazy guess. You know why I know it's not true, bro? I don't say. word wash. Never used.
Starting point is 00:14:51 This is my first time using this word I'm about to say, washed. Yes. I don't even wash the dishes, bro. I don't even wash my clothes. Yes. But, and then Junior's like, all I wanted was is sorry, so we good. But he didn't give him a sorry. He did.
Starting point is 00:15:06 He said, if I said it, I'm sorry. If. Yeah. So he's like, if you can find it, if you said it, if I said, I'm sorry. Look, Jose Benavides Jr. took the apology because. You wanted to know why I doubt it? Because I never used the word wash. Well, that's what it's what I never.
Starting point is 00:15:18 It might have been the clickbait. It was a video, bro. It was a video that I saw, but everybody was so sorry. You said sorry, I got you. I got you. Okay. He accepted the apology. It seems like he wanted to get along with them, but he had to get that out of the way.
Starting point is 00:15:33 He had to get that out the way because it has been sitting with him. And to look at David Benavides and Ryan Garcia how close they've got in, David Benavides was at Ryan Garcia's last fight. David Benavides' son was boxing with Ryan at. And at Ryan, like, was doing the shadow boxing. Junior, the older brother might have been like, Oh, my, why are you doing this? This guy called me washed.
Starting point is 00:15:57 Is there a reason to call Junior Wash? Some people may say so. Yeah? You know, he was clearly one of your brothers in the spotlight. Yeah, for sure. Your record hasn't really proven itself. You know, he had a lot of hype as an amateur. But unfortunately, things got in the way.
Starting point is 00:16:13 Like, I believe he has a really hard injury on his leg. And that could have affected the way that he boxes. Absolutely. He won his last fight, but it also got overturned because of cocaine use. Oh, my God. This guy's been through it. There was a 12th round K-O against Crawford. So, like, with him previously in another fight.
Starting point is 00:16:29 So I could see why it may affect him if people call him washed. Yeah. And so he had to get it off with Ryan Garcia. But now they're cool. Yes, because Ryan Garcia doesn't even use that word. No, not washed. Never used it. There you go.
Starting point is 00:16:42 All right, let's get into some scrolling. Scrolling with all me's. Everyone's favorite show, Temptation Island, is going viral again. Because the internet is calling this new contestant, the new Montoya 2.0. Yeah, you got to explain that to me, brother. Yes, if you don't know who Montoya is, he's the one that was on the island, and he was watching his girl get down by the-up. And this isn't Temptation Island, USA.
Starting point is 00:17:05 No, this is not the ones we watch. Yeah, Spain. This stuff we can't watch, like, on our TV. No. Yeah, I'm watching the clips, and I'm like, I don't think they don't allow this on TV over here because they're like showing the whole thing and then throwing it down and everything. So Montoya is the one that went viral
Starting point is 00:17:20 because he crashed out and he's running across the beach and everyone just yelling, Montoya, Montoya, Montoya, this is what it sounds like. He's reventedo, yoa! Jora! Jora!
Starting point is 00:17:31 For favor, Montoya! Montoya! Montoya! Montoya, for favor! Montoya! Montoya! Montoya! It's all dramatic. The gist of the show is it takes you and your girlfriend
Starting point is 00:17:50 and your boyfriend and they separate you on the beach, beach. Yeah. And then in her cabin or her area, they send hot guys. And in your area, they send hot girls. Yeah. And see which one of you falls for it.
Starting point is 00:18:01 Yeah. You're tempted. Who's going to fold? His girl folded for that guy. She got folded like a pretzel? Yes. But now we're in season nine of Temptation Island. Okay.
Starting point is 00:18:10 Spain. And there's a new contested that they're calling the new Montoya 2.0. The same thing literally happened to him where he's sitting there with the host and he's watching the screen and his girl is being taken down. in the jacuzzi and he's crashing out but people are saying it's like might be a little try hard listen to this where's how to be able to be here gilver for a whole
Starting point is 00:18:34 here here silver jilver kogelhoffi oh yeah oh yeah where's where he's where there is bravia Claudia.
Starting point is 00:18:53 Let me. Claudia. What do you guys? Claudia. Prima o'gherna. Primera o'ghera. Oh, man. They're trying too hard to get that viral moment again.
Starting point is 00:19:06 Nilberia. Okay. I don't know because this series, this season ended last year. But then they redid it. I guess they played it in another country. And that's where everyone's getting the clips from. Yeah. So like it went.
Starting point is 00:19:20 It's up. It's up, it was been up for a year at least. But it barely got released in another country and that's where everyone's grabbing the clips, I guess, on online. Yeah, probably Twitter or something. So you did they try to get that other Montoya viral moment. No, I think, how would you act if you saw a video of your girl making out with the guy in Hata? And you were in running distance. Yeah, exactly.
Starting point is 00:19:41 And I think it's that it's them knowing that they can make it. Yes, yeah. Then if they just ran probably half a mile, they can make it to wherever their girl is in that hot tub. Montoya was a fine year. They show you live feed of your person. All it's happening. Yeah, you start to recognize it. Wait, that's like, no, that's over there.
Starting point is 00:19:58 Yeah, I can go ahead. Yeah, they ride, like, literally the same exact way that they ride across the beach is the same way. And I was just like, well, I think. It's the same beach, brother. Yeah. What do you mean? He's trying to be Montoya so bad, bro. He's crashing out because this girl is hooking up with another dude.
Starting point is 00:20:13 I would be Montoya. I would be Montoya. Oh, for sure. Yeah. For sure be Montoya. It's what it is. But, yeah. they should just move them further where it's not running distance.
Starting point is 00:20:23 If they could do that, put them in an elevator or something, where it's a little harder to get there. Not, bro. That's crazy work production showing you a live feed of your girl or your man. With someone else. They know what they're doing. Like even the pictures in your heads that you think of all, like they were out on a night or what they might be doing.
Starting point is 00:20:41 But to see it right there in 4K HD, no, no, no. I'm running. I'm running over there. All right. Thanks for that. Greg. Let's get into the weather with Concretto. And now the weather.
Starting point is 00:20:52 Oh, hell the dog! With concrete storm. But it's going down for the weather Friday, March 20th. First, we hit the city of Simi Valley. I know some white girls out there named Sally. 92 and 63 degrees. Who, dagger. At night. Next, we dip out on the 10th of the city of Beaumont.
Starting point is 00:21:10 Make sure you drink some water before you go into a coma. 90 degrees and 67 at night. He's so good, isn't he? Greg? It's like the best. What's going on here? Love weather. Now we set up to the city of Highland Park, the HLP.
Starting point is 00:21:25 It's going to be doing them doing burpees and asanagie. 93 degrees. It's going to be doing the burpees. What? What did you say? Like correct this time. Exactly. Because that's hot.
Starting point is 00:21:36 It's going to be doing the burpees. Doing burpees and astrology, 93 and 63 degrees at night. Lastly, we drink hell of water in the city of Azusa. Don't get caught outside, screaming, A yuda. 90. That did not rhyme at all. Yes, it did. Azusa,
Starting point is 00:21:54 what do you mean? It's going to be 94 degrees and 67 degrees at night, Peritos. Like I said. I did the heat's getting to you. It is getting to me. It's super hot. Heat advisory all over the weekend, guys. Put, you know, man, just wear thongs all week.
Starting point is 00:22:09 Oh my God. Just wear a thong over the weekend. I've been wearing one all week. The same one. Monday through Friday. Monday through Friday. With can al-Chi-Las. It started out green.
Starting point is 00:22:19 It was the St. Patrick's Day one. And that was proud. It's your boy Conkney from Mount McMorne's on Prado 6. Let's go. Hey, it's going to be another hot one today. It is. And if you are in or around the Lakewood Mall.
Starting point is 00:22:32 5-6-2, where are you? The 5-62. Our guy Greg is going to be out there. Yall-oh, we kicked them out. Yeah, he laughed. He's going to go out there and he'll be out there at 8.30 a.m. giving away free palettas. It's Greg, the palatero man.
Starting point is 00:22:43 We have 106, we have 106 ice creams that he's going to give away. And it's going to be really cool because with, within those ice creams, it could be your chance at winning tickets to go to Knott's Berry Farm, all right? So go meet up with them. I'm going to give the address, 500 Lakewood Boulevard, all right? 500 Lakewood Boulevard in the city of Lakewood. Super easy, easy to remember that. 500 Lakewood Boulevard in the city of Lakewood.
Starting point is 00:23:10 All right, our guy Greg is going to be out there with free ice cream for the first 106 people who pull up on him, and he's going to have tickets to Knott's Berry Farm. All right, let's get into the homie. help. By the way, he'll be there at 8.30. Yeah, depending on traffic. Depending on traffic, I don't know. And sometimes he drives low. True. And he'll be doing videos. I know.
Starting point is 00:23:29 It'll take a while. But he'll be there. All right, check this out, homie. You need a homie or need some help. We need your help. We'll need a line. I mean, online. We got you for the homie help line.
Starting point is 00:23:42 Junior needs our help. Junior hit us up for the third time. Oh, third time? This is a third update. first ever third time update he said hey brown bag it's junior i need your help again this is the third time i ask for help from y'all he said i first hit y'all up because i was having trouble choosing between my ex of nine years Alex and my new girl who love to have fun and go to dodger games with me i don't remember it was last year last year like middle of the year okay man i love that your guys's
Starting point is 00:24:16 problems because this was the same problem the we yesterday had. I know. My baby mama or my new girl. True. The guy's homie help lane is always like hey, should I go this one or that one? This one or that one? He said, then I hit y'all up again because I was so mad after I found out my ex, Alex,
Starting point is 00:24:35 slept with my best friend John. Oh, that sounds the worst part was she wasn't sure if he or I got her pregnant. So I took a DNA test and it turned out the seven month old baby was mine. Ever since, I've been co-parenting with her and making the best of the situation. He said, so I'm still in a relationship with my new girl. This is the update.
Starting point is 00:24:57 This is the update. Okay, wow. He's saying, that's why this is hard to even say. Which new girl? The same girl from the Dodger games. Oh, okay, okay. Yeah, same girl. She's stuck with them this whole time.
Starting point is 00:25:09 He said, this is hard to even say. One day, recently, I went to pick up my son from my auntie. ex's house. That's it. No plan, no intentions. I really thought I had control. Uh-oh. But the second I saw her, it felt familiar. Like I never really left that part of my life. We started talking, laughing, and I ignored every sign telling me to just grab my son and leave. I stayed, and that was enough. One thing led to another, and I hooked up with my ex. watching cocoa melon or what was it? Put him in the room. Hey miss rachel. I got some for you. He said, I wasn't thinking about my girl. The trust or what I had to lose. Nothing. It didn't hit me until after.
Starting point is 00:26:04 Everything just went quiet and that's when it all crashed down on me. I realized I didn't just mess up. I crossed a line that can't be uncrossed. My girl trust me, loves me and it has to has supported me through everything. I feel so guilty. It's eating me up inside. I've been with this girl less than a year, and I've been through so much in that time. I don't know what to do.
Starting point is 00:26:27 I wish I could undo what I did, but I obviously can't. Brown bag, should I come clean to my girl about slipping up and sleeping with my ex-girlfriend or just shut my mouth and never make that mistake again and pray she never finds out.
Starting point is 00:26:42 What's his name? Junior? Junior. Dude, he's such a P-O-A. Poor girl that loves the daughters that just went to already. Like, you were choosing between her and your ex. Clearly something happened that your ex got pregnant after. No, it was previous.
Starting point is 00:27:00 He met the baby at seven months after it was already born. Like the, yeah, I remember. Yeah, but he smashed the ex. Clearly, that's how you have babies. No, he's only known this girl for nine months. Which one? The new girl. All this has happened within the last nine months.
Starting point is 00:27:15 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Junior, I remember. Junior's on the line. I don't remember any of this. Junior. Hey, Brownback. No. No, no, not me to say.
Starting point is 00:27:23 Junior. We got to talk. Can I explain myself first of all what happened, like initially? Yeah, I need a timeline. Of what? The whole situation? See? Because you were between your ex and this new girl.
Starting point is 00:27:41 I was between my ex and my girl. And you chose your new girl. Yeah. So then how does your ex become, have a baby? She didn't come me until months after. Once the baby was born. But you were, you were smashing both of them. No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
Starting point is 00:28:00 No. I was, I was, I was, it was, it was with my new girl only when this happened. The baby's older than their relationship. But months before your ex had a baby, right? Yeah, yes. And so whose baby did you think it was? my home boy Alex You said it was named John in the paper
Starting point is 00:28:20 But thank you for calling him out John sorry sorry sorry Sorry It's okay Also we're supposed to be calling your ex Alex But John Alright
Starting point is 00:28:31 All right Sorry sorry Oh my god Junior All right junior How long how long were with your ex Shit Oh sorry
Starting point is 00:28:39 Hey No cursing Like nine years Nine years Nine years you're with your ex Never had kids with her No. Never.
Starting point is 00:28:48 Okay. Then you guys break up. How long you guys were broken up? Like a month or two? One month and two months. Okay? And then you get what you're new girl? Yes.
Starting point is 00:29:02 New girl. Okay. At that time, you're like seeing your, your ex. She has pregnant. She has a baby. She reaches out to you and she tells you, I think I kind of remember. She tells you that she had a baby, but she don't know if it's yours or your homies or what? Yes.
Starting point is 00:29:15 Yes. All right. And then you take a test and it's yours. Yes. So you still are you're deciding? See, but then why were you deciding between your ex and your new girl? That was before. I wasn't decided before I was decided before I was decided.
Starting point is 00:29:30 Yeah, before that happened. She was pregnant? He didn't know she was pregnant. I didn't know she was pregnant. The baby is older than their, than his new girl's relationship. They were only broken up a month before he got out the new girl. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:29:42 So that means he was with his egg. But she didn't tell him she was pregnant because she wasn't sure if that was the baby or not. That was the baby daddy or not. It's hurting my head. You're hurting my head, bro. And then it was... He's got through a lot. He's got through a lot.
Starting point is 00:29:57 Because you were still choosing between her and the new girl. So when you were choosing between her and the new girl, she was not pregnant in your brain? I didn't know she was pregnant. Boom. You were just between your ex and the new girl. It was just that. Yes.
Starting point is 00:30:11 Then time happens and you see her that she's pregnant. Well, my mom tells me she had a baby. Okay. And then she tells you, be your homies. Yes. And so for show, you stay with the new girl. Yes.
Starting point is 00:30:25 All right. All right. And then you, how old's the baby now? About it being a year. About to be a year old. All right. So you went to go pick him up from her house. What the heck felt familiar when you saw her face?
Starting point is 00:30:36 Yeah, well, you've been seeing her. Picking him up. No, no, no, no. Me and her been cordial and nothing happened until like a few days ago. And something, something struck in my head and stuff happened. Okay. But you are in a relationship right now. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:30:52 Yes, yes. With Dodger Batty. Mm-hmm. Yes. Okay. Dodger Batty and her, do they get along? No. They hate each other.
Starting point is 00:31:01 Okay. Nice, nice. Were you and Dodger Batty in a fight when you went to pick up your kid? No. So everything was fine. Even worse. Everything was fine. It wasn't for revenge.
Starting point is 00:31:10 No. Everything was fine. You just went over there and she just looked different. That was so Caliente. It's like the day that she's a car. I really don't know what to say. I messed up. I know I messed up,
Starting point is 00:31:23 so I don't know what they say, you know. He feels the guilt. I'm not your dog. I'm not your girl. You can save that right now. We're doing, Jesus.
Starting point is 00:31:33 Crying, Lentis. I don't know what to say. I don't know what to tell you guys. I messed up. I have a really nice girl in my life for that. Like, it's helping me to do my fatherhood and everything. I really don't know what to say.
Starting point is 00:31:46 I messed up. Yeah, because she's stepped in. I haven't been able to see. past two days. Oh, because it just happened. You were able to sleep with your baby mom. He didn't sleep. All right.
Starting point is 00:31:58 All right. All right, Jr. So, you go over the house. You stay the night. The baby's a baby still. So you guys can put him a nap. Yeah, anywhere. Where do things end?
Starting point is 00:32:10 When you're walking out, do you feel like you have feelings for her? Or do you instantly regret it? It's not even that. I just, I forget it. It hit me when I left the. health. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:32:20 Has baby mama been different? Yes. Is she expecting? No, is she expecting something? No. Okay. Okay. So real question between you and me.
Starting point is 00:32:32 Could this leave to another pregnancy? I was thinking that. No, no, no, no, no, no. Did she use protection? Yes. So you had it on you? We had it on you. Dirty, dog.
Starting point is 00:32:43 Oh, can't forget this. That was premeditated, Jr. Can't forget this. Oh, let me stop by the liquor store and get it. a right now and a directs and everything just felt different noz ya'maste bro you called us you called us junior he feels bad junior's been through a lot man junior turn the tv off bro you can't do two things no i can't let me recap a little bit archa junior that guy junior we're listening we don't judge so junior was with someone for nine years that's a long time it is that's his probably safe space that's someone
Starting point is 00:33:23 knows him, all of that, right, right. And that's the, the girl that ended up being his big a mama. But she did betray him. She did sleep with your homie, too. Are you still homies with that homie? John. Long story, I have court on next week for that situation, so I can't speak on it. Okay.
Starting point is 00:33:41 Remember he moved to New York and then he said he wants to buy a ticket. Maybe he bought the ticket. No, no, not, not. What happened was, I hate to see it. Don't say it. Don't say it. I just ask if you're still friends. So clearly no, you're not friends with him
Starting point is 00:33:54 No, no Okay, got it Boom, good He was about to snitch on himself Not friends with the homie That slept with his ex, right? Yep And he only finds out about that
Starting point is 00:34:02 After he moves on with a new girl And the ex is, finds out the ex is pregnant So you've stepped in Because you took the, you took the paternity test, You've stepped in as a dad And so now you've been co-parenting cordially You know your girl don't really like your ex
Starting point is 00:34:16 But it's like you're doing this for that child That's about to turn one I'm sure the baby is so cute probably looks like you, probably all of that. And you go over and you pick them up and then one thing leads to another and you're all up in that again, like old times. Yep. As soon as it happens.
Starting point is 00:34:37 What did you get, the post-clarity, right? PNC. Yeah, PNC. And now you feel bad you haven't been able to sleep. After, do you go see your girl? Like, did you see your girl the same day, same night? What happened? A be a bit?
Starting point is 00:34:49 Yeah, I did. And like, she noticed how I've been. different, but I haven't been able to tell her what happened. Like, I'm scared. Of course. Did you bring the baby with you? Like, did you bring the baby home or you left the baby? Yeah, I brought my boy home.
Starting point is 00:35:02 Okay, good, good. So you boys would you get? I went to go pick up the baby. Where is he? I left them. I don't know. There's complications. Sticking the head right now.
Starting point is 00:35:12 I'm sticking the head. All right. So you bring the baby back home and she's stepped up as a stepmom essentially because she finds out about this with you and is like, Hey, I'm going to stay with my boyfriend, even though he just found out he has a baby, you know? Yeah. True right or die. She is.
Starting point is 00:35:30 Honestly, a lot of girls would have left, bro. A lot of girls would have left just based on the situation and said, you have a lot going on. I want to support you. But it's too much for me to handle and just walked away at that exact moment when you had the surprise baby. I understand that. Oh, he said that. He said, my girl, trust me, loves me, supported me through everything. I feel so guilty.
Starting point is 00:35:52 it's eating me up inside. I've been with this girl less than a year, and I've been through so much in that time, I don't know what to do. I wish I could undo what I did, but I obviously can't. Should he come clean, Los Angeles, Chicago, Arizona, Wyoming,
Starting point is 00:36:10 Alabama, New York, New York, Florida, Mars, Pluto, all of you. Does it make you wish you never went over there, my friend over there, Jr.?? Yes. Yeah, I know. That should have just been a deadbeat.
Starting point is 00:36:22 No, I'm kidding. Sounds like he's in a deposition. We're not, yes. Junior, do you still have the baby? Because this happened a couple days ago. Do you still have the baby? So you have to go take the baby back. Oh, my God.
Starting point is 00:36:33 You're not going. Who's going? His mom. Mom or my dad? There you go. Okay, you don't think that's going to give baby mama a sign? I don't know. What if she's like, come back, Big Daddy?
Starting point is 00:36:48 Or I'll tell you, girl. Yeah. You don't think, okay, so that's like, more of my questions because you have this baby mama, you hooked up with her, you feel like crap because this new girl is everything to you, been supportive for you, even found out about the new baby with you and it stuck
Starting point is 00:37:05 by you, all of that, good girl, all of that, and you feel really guilty about it. You're wondering whether you should tell her or you should take it to the grave. And I'm wondering, is your baby mama that vindictive that she would say something? I mean, I don't think so. I mean, she's with somebody else also.
Starting point is 00:37:22 Oh, okay, okay. Oh, she has something So she should have been, too. So she cheated. For now. All right. So, yeah, for now until they're not together. No, but let's hope they stay together.
Starting point is 00:37:33 True. Okay. What if she's like, I don't even care about myself? I'll burn myself out. No. No? No. No.
Starting point is 00:37:41 Okay. So you are wondering, should I tell my new girl, the one that's been down for me, what has happened? Because I am going through it. You said you feel guilty. Yes. You haven't been able to sleep. Not for the past two days.
Starting point is 00:37:57 And how is your girl seeing you? Because a girl can tell something's up. I mean, if I'm being honest, I've been destined with her lately guys. And I think she knows something going on. For sure, she does. I'm supposed to act normal, brother. He's not this person.
Starting point is 00:38:14 He's not like this. He's not this person. He's not this person. I'm just, I heard. Okay, brother. So you want to know if you should tell. And I have one more question. Like, how, like, you don't think to us
Starting point is 00:38:24 talking about it she's going to find out your little face she doesn't listen to her long her loss her loss because she didn't even know about last time she didn't know you were even thinking about choosing your ex over her no okay I mean Vic called me yesterday I almost got cut
Starting point is 00:38:42 why why oh because Vic called you who's Vic who's Vic I was just a new friend I hope you answered it because Vic could have been a chick Vicky did you answer in front of her? No, but he heard, she heard a voice and she hasn't heard that voice before.
Starting point is 00:38:59 Oh, that's good. So it's a new voice and you're acting sus? Ooh, she's going to hear in the closet. Let's clear up the rumor. You tell him, baby, it could be worse. I couldn't be with big. Could it be one big. All right. Let's get help for the homie. Let's get help for the homie. It's funny to us, but he's really like he has that ball in the pit of his stomach. He's just, just like everything is just reminding him.
Starting point is 00:39:27 When I called him yesterday, that's funny because I kind of picked up on something. I was like, yeah, I'll just, I'll just DM you, man. Because I was like, so, when you slept with your baby, I'm like, actually, I'll just, I'll just DM you, bro. Oh, my God. Okay, Lee, Lee and Whittier, Lee, do you hear the pain in our guy's voice? Do you hear it? Junior's going through it, Lee. I hear his pain, but I'll tell you what.
Starting point is 00:39:52 I don't think you should say anything. to her. What? I don't think it's fair for you to absolve yourself of guilt at the expense of what it will do to her. I'm speaking of 30 years of experience with this problem. So someone essentially telling him to tell her clearly would clear his mind, but it would bring pain to her.
Starting point is 00:40:19 Exactly. What would help her more is if he makes a problem. a living amend, and that would be completely changing the behavior so that it never happens with the baby mama or any other woman again while he's with her. I love that. The best apology is changed behavior. Yes. But she don't even know he changed it. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:40:45 Because to her she doesn't need to. That's irrelevant. She doesn't need to because it'll hurt her more than it will help her. Lee, you say this is from experience. talk to us. I've been married April 1st will be 30 years. Wow.
Starting point is 00:41:00 I have found phones, zip drives, you name it that go back all the way from when my 27-year-old daughter was in Euro and I was being cheated on by my husband.
Starting point is 00:41:19 Dang. He cheated with floppy this, you guys. Damn. He was playing Oregon Trail on someone else. No. It doesn't have to do with me. It has to do with him and his bag of tricks. I'm a strong woman.
Starting point is 00:41:35 I know who I am. Okay? And I don't cheat. I don't believe in that. Okay. Just because he doesn't give me the right to go do it either. Because then I take a hostage and hurt somebody else. Okay
Starting point is 00:41:54 But he continued cheating So he didn't change Because he's got a freaking problem But it ain't my problem Wouldn't it be your problem Because that could go home with you Things could happen to you Like your heart matters
Starting point is 00:42:11 I'm not worried about See I come from an old school place Maybe I'm an old soul I'm 50 years old And I've lived a lot in my years. Does it affect me?
Starting point is 00:42:27 Heck yes. Do I feel insecure at times? Heck yes. But had he never told me, I would never start looking for more. So he should have never said anything
Starting point is 00:42:42 in the first place. Had he never come to me? He came to clean to absolve his own pain in his room. And that inflicted pain on you. And it changed who you were. Exactly. And then from that point on, I started searching. Every time I get that feeling, I search and I find.
Starting point is 00:43:04 Not to be men to mean to all men, but men are men. Right. The biological need is to procreate. So why not leave? Why not leave? Yeah, why stay? Because I, at the time when all of this started, I was raising, two kids, kids too, that were not mine.
Starting point is 00:43:30 And we were legally not married, and I had no legal rights to them. And I could not walk away from kids that I had had in my life as their mom for nine years. I couldn't say, okay, your mom's a dirt bag. Now your dad's a dirt bag, and I'm out of here. I couldn't do that. So I chose to give up my happiness. for them. But do you see that? You are saying you sacrificed your own happiness. You sacrificed your own security for what? For kids. For kids. Well, once they were grown. Once they were grown,
Starting point is 00:44:12 because you said it's still continued. Mm-hmm. Well, I know it is still continuing because he's... Until now? No, it is. I've been having this feeling for like three weeks already. Oh, I'm sorry. Every time I have the feeling, if I search, I find. It's just wisdom that that comes with And you wouldn't even give yourself the last Like I'm 68 Let me be free from this Oh believe me honey
Starting point is 00:44:41 For time I would be closing the door It's not time yet What does that mean? Like you're not ready to leave him Even though the kids are grown up My kids are all grown My youngest is 27
Starting point is 00:44:59 Because I'm sure they would want you to be happy. I get that. I am not ready to walk away financially, emotionally, spiritually. I'm not there right now. I know. But I will be there. Yeah. And you've put it in it like you've made the logic of he's going to be a man.
Starting point is 00:45:23 Men are going to be men. This is what they're like as primitively supposed to. to do and all of that. But that doesn't mean that you can't be happy because we're not, we're not in the ice age anymore. We're not cavemen anymore. If you don't understand is that I am happy, I don't need a man to be happy. So then leave him.
Starting point is 00:45:46 Happiness comes from searching within. Okay. I'm totally with you, but you said you sacrificed your happiness and you said you can't leave because you're emotionally not ready to. Back then, 20, 27 years ago. Oh, yes, you why you won't leave right now. I sacrifice my happiness. Okay.
Starting point is 00:46:02 Since then, I have figured out that happiness doesn't come from people, places, and things. Of course, you're right. Okay. And then what's the emotional tie? Because you said even right now, you wouldn't leave emotionally. You couldn't emotionally. No, virtual advisor. Okay.
Starting point is 00:46:25 That I would give my situation a year. Okay. I'm at almost two months into that year. And you're already feeling it. You're already feeling that something's up. Oh, honey, you have no idea. Lee, whenever you get single again, we will do the homie hookup line. I promise you.
Starting point is 00:46:45 Yes. We will help you, Lee. Yeah, we're going to find you a young whippersnapper. Get your groove back, girl. She's a little young young guy. Greg's not here right now, but he would have been. You're in Whittier, Greg's and Whittier. We'll put that together.
Starting point is 00:46:56 Lee right there. April, Jr. Yes. You want your new girl sound all like that? And when she's 68, that she has a spiritual advisor, she promised like, hey, this will stop. I'll leave.
Starting point is 00:47:09 I won't leave. She sacrificed. Her happiness, her insecurity, all of that? I don't want her to feel like that either. Oh, okay, okay. I'm sorry, sorry, sorry. No, it's just that I remember, like, she is a good girl. She's a good girl.
Starting point is 00:47:28 When she didn't leave, when he had the baby. She could have left. Alex didn't. Alex in San Antonio. What's up, Alex? Alex. Alex, take me out speaker, brother, man. Where are you right now?
Starting point is 00:47:43 I feel like I'm talking to Texas right now. Take me out of speaker. There we go. There we go. Thank you. All right, Alex, what would you tell our guy, Jr.? Junior is with a new girl, but except with his baby mama, after some other drama they've been through and the new girl's been staying with him,
Starting point is 00:47:59 finding out he had a kid with him, and now he feels guilty. Should he tell her they haven't been together, like, more than a year? and now he wants to know I feel really guilty. Should I tell her what I did with my baby mama? Hey, you got to take me off speaker or something because roll up your window. It must be hot in Texas. Yeah. Yeah, it is, it is.
Starting point is 00:48:26 Okay. All right. Hey, junior, bro, bro, come on, man. You laid your bed, dog. Say something. You got to say something. They're always going to find out. And then when we find out, it hurts way more.
Starting point is 00:48:39 You got to tell the new girl. You laid that bed going over there knowing something was going to happen. I mean, you had a rubber on you. Yeah. Premeditation. I know. I'm kidding. There was something.
Starting point is 00:48:50 He had R&R with him. So, but do you hear it in his voice? He's very remorseful. He wishes he never did that. Yeah. Yes, I do. And I feel like he should tell the new girl just because of that. It's going to, if he writes it out just like, you know, old lady was saying,
Starting point is 00:49:08 it's going to, you know, kill them from the inside out, both of them. And then no matter what, they're still going to find out, you know, they're going to talk, they're going to meet up, parties, barbecue, something. Eventually. The kids are going to say it? Are you going to go back in mommy's wrong? Dude, I'm thinking what if, like, somehow, like, baby mama gets pregnant again, it could happen?
Starting point is 00:49:33 That's what I was exactly thinking. Like, it could still happen. But she would do the same thing and say that it might be the new, because she's a new, a new relationship too. So he's not even wondering, do I want to get back on baby mama? He's like, no, I just regret that I did that. And you're saying you've got to come clean. You cannot take this to the grave.
Starting point is 00:49:47 You feel the guilt. He's already said that he's changed his behavior around his new girl. She's already suffering the consequences of what happened and not even knowing what happened. Yep. Yep. Come clean, bro. Just come clean. It hurts.
Starting point is 00:50:02 It hurts to find out when you're getting cheated on. Did that happen to you? Yes, ma'am. Tell us about it What happened Ah That's a You can hear it in your voice
Starting point is 00:50:17 She cheated on me with my own cousin Did they come clean? Yeah Or you caught them Messages And it wasn't even just that Like she was She got around
Starting point is 00:50:34 Your fiance You were gonna put a ring on it It was family friends Family friends Oh my god she kept tight Cousins, yeah. And it hurt to find those messages, you know, those videos. And being on Facebook, I remember I posted on Facebook, I said, man, I'm having these crazy dreams because I was having crazy dreams.
Starting point is 00:50:52 She was cheating on me. And then some dude went out, commented a screenshot of their conversation. And she basically was just like, oh, I don't even love him. I'm just using them because he has a house. He has a car. What? But you not? She's saying that about you?
Starting point is 00:51:07 No. Oh. Yeah. She was saying like, she just wished me because I have a house to have a car. Wow. Oh my God. And you were going to marry her. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:51:19 What happened with your cousin? He comes around here and there, but it's not the same. It's just cordial, just not the same, no. Wow. Did you get the ring back, bro? No. She ponded, I bet. Oh, my God.
Starting point is 00:51:35 Oh, man. I'm sorry, Alex. What she told me is that. They sold. They robbed her. They robbed her at the pawn shop. Mm. Mm-hmm.
Starting point is 00:51:47 Wow. How do you feel? But yeah, junior, come clean, bro. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Wait, wait, wait. Hold on. Two guys crying and Friday is pretty crazy. How do you feel right now?
Starting point is 00:51:58 I'm so sorry. Say that one more time. How do you feel? How do you feel? Tell us about your emotions. Healing. I could say that. I'm healing.
Starting point is 00:52:06 Mm-hmm. I have a beautiful girlfriend right now. she is currently pregnant with my first child. Oh, this one's mine. This was mine. Okay, she's a loyal girl. No, he learned his mistake from the last one. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:52:23 Yeah, but see, don't be like junior. If the other one comes around, don't, don't do that. I haven't cut that one off. Oh, good. Yeah. Yeah. He told his new girl he doesn't even have a cousin. So I don't even have any cousin.
Starting point is 00:52:36 Oh. He said, yeah. Oh, we did a day. It's Auitado Friday on Brownback Morning. Girl men going through it. A part of healing is laughing at the pain. You know what I'm saying? Thank you, bro.
Starting point is 00:52:51 And calling in to a radio station. Yeah. That's important. States away. States away. Don't skip that step. All right. Bella, is Bella on the line?
Starting point is 00:52:59 Bella in East Vale. Bella, Wienos days, Bella. Whoa. What was that? No, old school. Aim! Aim! Hey, she just entered the chat.
Starting point is 00:53:10 Yeah, she just entered the chat. Very old school, very AOL. Wow, do that again. Never put WD-40 on your door, please. I have to walk out the kids, so like my fault. Okay, I like, I like it. Hey, Bella, talk to us. What would you tell our guy, Jr., that is deciding whether,
Starting point is 00:53:33 because he feels so guilty hooked up with his baby mama when he went to go pick up his baby from their house, he hooked up with her in the moment, afterwards feels guilty, He has been acting real with his new girl. He knows she can sense something. He doesn't want to hurt her. It's a good girl.
Starting point is 00:53:46 He made a mistake. Should he tell her keep it to the grave? Home girl, I think you should keep it to yourself. And I say that because as a writer die, who has suspected and found out, but has a kid with somebody to find out, to even hear it from that person is take it to the grave. do not instill that pain on the new girl, on dog girl.
Starting point is 00:54:23 That's not right. You messed up to repent. We do better. Me knowing that, she doesn't even know what's going on. Now we all do. Yeah. We all know what's going on. So now this is something that's going to be low-key embarrassing to her.
Starting point is 00:54:44 I'm sure she's going to find out at some point, but I think you should really actively make the decision to do better by your girl. If you want to stick with her. Now, tell her, be prepared for her to walk and leave. because that's not, she don't have to stick with you or the kid. And that's the thing. You messed up by doing her dirty, doing your ride or die dirty. Mm-hmm.
Starting point is 00:55:04 When she was sticking by you through your mess, not hers, your mess. So I think you should really actively do better by her. Within, you need to talk to the lady. Not to baby mama lady, but talk to the therapist. The lady. Talk to the lady. Sit on the couch, talk to the lady. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:55:25 Go talk to somebody, not the man. Go back to the lady Maybe this is helping her Him, maybe this is what he needed You know? He needed to feel this Because if you were okay walking in Like I said, it's premeditated
Starting point is 00:55:39 And I'm a psychology major So Tres premeditated You knew the moment she took that rubber out You knew the moment she tore it You could have stopped in so many moments Yeah A lot of times He was like, oh no
Starting point is 00:55:51 I hope no Oh no, what's happening? Oh no Don't close the door! Oh no I clicked and fell in it Like absolutely not Yeah So you can consciously make a decision to do right by her moving forward
Starting point is 00:56:04 Or you can tell her but she does not have to stick with you And you're going to have to leave her alone to deal with that healing on her own Don't add more. Wow. Not the psychology major right or die saying don't say anything. No. No, it's great. But I feel like are there voice changers?
Starting point is 00:56:22 Both of the girls said take it to the grave. Yeah. It was the dude that said come clean. Yeah. What's going on? No, because the dude. Because Mercury's in retrograde. Well, that dude got cheated on, but also, I mean, I think it's the guilt, right?
Starting point is 00:56:34 Like, that's what everybody keeps talking about. And that's what this guy, like, what's eating Jr. Or we fell for it. We fell for it, Jr. All the girls are sympathetic to you. You're feeling guilty. Junior, you did this during, I want you know you did this during Lent, bro. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:56:50 Peccador. Yeah, you didn't have meat on Friday. You gave it to her. Yeah, exactly. I hope it wasn't Fish Friday. It is very funny. You know what I mean. It was.
Starting point is 00:57:03 Wow. Hey, you can't, respectfully, you can't tell her because if you tell her, then you're going to also have to tell her. You've been talking about her on the radio. He can leave that part out. He can leave that part out. No. Yeah. Come clean like 100%.
Starting point is 00:57:17 That's crazy. I will for sure because I'm thinking of the girl. She does not deserve to be staying with the cheater. Just saying. Because she's been sticking with you this whole time. And now in her eyes, she's going to be. like, Seva minar mensa.
Starting point is 00:57:30 Yeah. Like, everyone's going to know, including your mom and dad, I'm pretty sure they're going to find out eventually. And then the new girl is just going to be there, like, happy, tonta. Everyone's going to know.
Starting point is 00:57:39 And you know, she doesn't deserve that. The new girl's family was probably telling her the whole time, leave him. Yeah. Leave him. What do you mean? He has a new baby that just appeared out of nowhere.
Starting point is 00:57:49 True. Yes, you are, you feel so guilty that I promise you, when you get drunk, that's going to come out. Yeah, you're going to be like,
Starting point is 00:57:57 yeah, you're going to be like, I'm so sorry. I'm sorry. I did the thing with my baby, mom. I'm sorry. I mean, I'm not a good drinker,
Starting point is 00:58:06 so probably try that's true. See? Yeah, stay away from the models. Junior, I hate when you agree. You're not even defending yourself. You're totally going to snitch. You're totally going to tell him.
Starting point is 00:58:14 He is going to tell him. He is going to tell him. He is going to tell him. How are you like sitting there down or like, you know, taking her out of movies? I really don't know, Vic. It's been living a lie for the past two days. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:58:25 Like, he has remorse. You can hear it. Yeah. Are you going to change? Are you going to stop? I'm going to change. I'm not thinking that I'm going to change, though. You're going to change.
Starting point is 00:58:36 You have to change. Okay. When does the baby have to go back? Friday. I mean, Sunday, sorry. Sunday. Okay. You're going to call us on Monday, okay?
Starting point is 00:58:48 Yeah, please. Really? Yeah, you're going to call us and you're going to tell us what happened. If you smashed again. Maybe smashed again. No, no, no. Yeah, don't do that. Give us the graphic details.
Starting point is 00:59:02 Where do you live? That's South Central. Why'd you ask him that? And she don't listen to us? Now I'm questioning her. Maybe she likes rock and roll, man. You know? Rock and roll.
Starting point is 00:59:20 We don't have that here. It's okay. All right. All right. Well, April. You good? You good? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:59:28 No, he's not good. He's going through it. He's not going to tell her. He's going to tell her. No. I'll bet. Hey, what's that app? You can bet.
Starting point is 00:59:36 Calci. Yeah, I'm going to start Calci. Let's all bet. On whether he's going to tell her or not. Whether he told her or not. And also we'll do another side bet whether he smashes his baby mama. To your bet, all right? We got these going, all right?
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Starting point is 01:00:03 Because Justin Bieber and Usher, apparently, according to TMZ, got into it at an Oscars after party hosted by Beyonce and Jay-Z. Oh, the queen. Is that where all the people were like taking pictures? That's not Vanity Fair, right? No, no, no, no.
Starting point is 01:00:22 This one, apparently, because I'm like, wait, Beyonce and J-C., we're not even at the Oscars. But apparently they host like an after-party after every Oscar like annually. Okay. And then it's very, very exclusive and people tend to go there.
Starting point is 01:00:32 Oh, but the Bebes went and Ercher went. Yeah, you guys. So apparently, so according to TMZ, some are saying that it actually ended up in like a fifth fight between the two, but then Justin's sources are denying it and said, no, that never happened, but it was intense. There are, there's always some truths to.
Starting point is 01:00:52 Yeah, something must have for people. The whispers. Yeah. So apparently what happened is that Usher came up, to justing at the party with quote-unquote energy and anger and that two just got into a really bad exchange between them too. Usher versus Bieber? I thought they were like, like that was one, that was his daddy. Yes, that was his mentor.
Starting point is 01:01:12 Yeah, that was a dude that brought you into the game. Yeah. He signed you. Yeah, I would never like to see them fight. Maybe a dance off or something. A dance off? Maybe a versus. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:01:22 Well, Usher signed Bieber when he was just singing on YouTube. Early on. Yeah, early on. And then Usher had. has talked really good about Justin Bieber since the beginning. Listen. I mean, I saw a future of an artist that was very bright based off of his passion. I saw the potential of success. It was really always left up to him and I always told him that. I said, you can go as far as you want to go if you want to go there. He has a talent. He has the know-how and he also has an
Starting point is 01:01:47 incredible mentor. He said that. He said that very nicely there. And then that other night, he's like, we can go there as far as you want to go. Same words, just different tone. Yeah. Yeah. According to Justin sources, I don't know, but according to sources are saying Justin's always been really rude to Usher. And then back last year, the beginning of last year, Justin Beaver actually unfollowed Usher. So I don't know, I guess they've been having some type of drama behind scenes that nobody really knows. Oh, wow. Yeah, I mean, it happens a lot with like people that you come into the game with. You're not always like end up separating.
Starting point is 01:02:25 Oh, really? he's not with Scooter Braun anymore. Like with How? I mean, he's not with Scooter Braun anymore. Who was his longtime manager? That was his manager. You're right. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:02:33 And he's separated from him. So he separated from Usher. Selina. So now he probably just has a whole new circle. And, you know, for whatever reason, they fell out personal things. I don't know. Who knows? It's like they found him at like a preteen or a teenager or whatever.
Starting point is 01:02:48 And now he's a grown man. Yeah. But Usher's the one that went up to him. Yeah. He went up to him for them. Follow? That'd be a crazy. I don't know.
Starting point is 01:02:56 Yeah. I have no idea. Bro. What? I don't think, I don't, yeah. I just want to get your attention. All right. That's it for Chishishamation.
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Starting point is 01:03:58 What's up? This is Be Real from Cypress Hill. Where are you from, Es? Don't you know I'm local? All right. I have an update about the renaming of things in response to what happened with Caesar Chavez and the New York Times investigative piece that interviewed over 60 people. I believe they have recordings. They have audio recordings. They have emails and they have evidence to corroborate the stories of at least three women, one including a co-founder of the United Farm Workers of America Movement, Dolores Huerta. And because of this, there is now a heavy response to those allegations against Cesar Chavez that again have been corroborated that the family
Starting point is 01:04:47 has come out in support of and so have the United Farm Workers of America movement. Okay. So a couple things to get to March 31st is usually Cesar Chavez Day. It is now their lawmakers are pushing to rename the holiday Farm Workers Day, shifting the focus from one person to the entire farm worker community, which I do believe is the right move. That's great. That's great. Yeah, I'm glad. Now, again, Chavez has long been known as one of the most important labor leaders in U.S. history. He did co-found the United Farm Workers Union and there were protests. There was organized farm workers. strikes and boycotts. What Mayor Karen Bass has said, because she spoke out yesterday, is that her actions on also supporting Farm Workers Day is not to deny the legacy, but also to focus on the right things, which is the farm workers.
Starting point is 01:05:42 Yeah. Okay. It's not like a, and I think they have to be very, very like, we're not trying to tear a man down. We are literally trying to shift focus. Yeah. Right. Because that's kind of been the attack that it's like, you guys are. just trying to go out of a guy, you're trying to cancel what he's done and all of these things,
Starting point is 01:05:59 you know? She also says she spoke to the family, and locally it will be known as Farm Workers Day. And she says the family supports renaming the holiday. Again, this comes with the support of the family. She made it clear the goal is not to erase history. These people are trying to say you're trying to erase what he's done, but to recognize the broader movement and the workers themselves. And other parts of California and Fresno, for example, city leaders voted to remove the Cesar Chavez Boulevard name and bring back their original street names. That's something that happened out here as well, I believe.
Starting point is 01:06:36 Well, I think it was Brooklyn. Brooklyn Avenue. And is that East L.A. or Bois Heights? I don't want to get it wrong because I know how we are about our cities. Yeah, it's Boyle Heights. And going back from calling it Cesar Chavez to calling it Brooklyn. Yeah, put it back to what it was. And I believe it turns into Sunset Boulevard, so just whatever.
Starting point is 01:06:50 In San Francisco, the long-running Cesar Chavez parade has already been renamed to honor Dolores Puerta. Wow. Right? At Fresno State, a statue of Chavez has been covered and is expected to be removed. I believe I saw something similar out here in the valley. At UC Davis, at least one campus event, has already dropped his name as well. We're going to continue to see these things happening. And I personally want to just, again, send my support to the victims, to the family.
Starting point is 01:07:19 and let them guide us. A lot of us can talk amongst each other, do hot takes to get people angry on the internet, but it's nothing compared to what these people have gone through and more importantly what the family has gone through. He still has children that are alive, grandchildren that are alive, and they are in support of what's been going down,
Starting point is 01:07:39 at least from what we heard from Mayor Karen Bass. Yeah, and I think the point is not to tear down somebody's legacy, but just to... Or like the work they put in, the progress from the farm workers. But it's to, you know, to honor the victims as well as not put this man on a pedestal when he was, you know, very much at fault of doing terrible things to people. And so that he's held accountable. Obviously, he's not here anymore. But to hopefully deter future people from doing terrible things like that.
Starting point is 01:08:11 Because. Using their authority or just the way that the dynamics are within an organization to stay quiet. I get you perfect. Because it will ruin your legacy. Because now you can't just say, okay, I did all these great things. Now you have baggage with it. And also it impacts the legacy of like, you know, it's sad that he's now even associated with all the hard work and good job that the farm workers did. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:08:33 You know, it just kind of like leaves a bad taste in people's mouth. And they have to do whatever they can to stay focused on their mission. Exactly, Vic. So there you have at March 31st. Could be Farm Workers Day on a national level in California and out here in Los Angeles as well. And you know what? We talked about it yesterday. We did.
Starting point is 01:08:51 We posted about it on our Instagram and it's surprising to me that a lot of the commentary is like, well, if we're going to do it to him, why are we doing it to the president? We agree. As if we were on one side of another. Both things can be true. We can say, hey, this is not okay. And also what is going down with quote unquote the Epstein files list or what have you and even our president. We've been a very vocal platform for that. We're not going to be biased towards any of them.
Starting point is 01:09:21 If anybody does terrible things, like, is being, you know, alleged and corroborated, you know, that people are coming out and saying about Sessa-C Chavez, all of those people get everything stripped. You know what I'm saying? You should not be in a position of power because you obviously can't handle it. Use it to your advantage and take advantage of people, women, all these things. You know, so it's like, yeah, no, all people, all people, not just Sessafch. Sar Chavez, but let's start there. And because Cesar Chavez is Latino, I think it falls very heavily on us to say something. Because then otherwise, we would be showing bias.
Starting point is 01:09:56 Are we just defending him because he's on our quote-unquote side? No. And I think that would show you your objectivity if you were like, no, we can't have selective morality. Selectively be like, hey, we should be going after that guy, but leave our guy alone. No. We can't do that. Before we start yelling at our neighbor, we got to check our.
Starting point is 01:10:15 our deal. Yeah. Whatever it is. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. All right. That was don't you know I'm local. Brought to you by your Toyota dealers.
Starting point is 01:10:21 I'm Letty for Brown Bank mornings on Power 106. Let's get into some deportes. Shoot the J. Shoot it. Playball. All right. The fanatics flag football classic draft went down yesterday at the Waldorf. Waldorf?
Starting point is 01:10:38 Waldorf. A story. I've never stayed there, obviously. It's very expensive. In Beverly Hills. Oh, very fancy. That's when I knew I couldn't pronounce it. I was like,
Starting point is 01:10:44 ah, yeah. Out of my price range. Yeah, out of my price range. But the game is going down tomorrow at BMO Stadium. It's going down tomorrow? Yeah, it's going down here. This weekend. Yeah, BMO Stadium tomorrow here in L.A.
Starting point is 01:10:55 And the event was founded by Tom Brady, the inaugural one, it's the first one. And billionaire Michael Rubino fanatics. So they were in attendance as well as so many NFL stars that are going to participate. You know, comedians were there, an ex-boxer, Terence Crawford. You know, he's a part of it.
Starting point is 01:11:09 Don't call him an ex-boxer. He retired. He's a great boxer. There you go. Legendary Boxer. But it says ex-boxer. I know. I know.
Starting point is 01:11:19 It feels weird. He shouldn't retire. Weird label. Weird label. Yeah. But it was also streamed live so we could all see all the shenanigans going on behind the scenes and all that. And the event was hosted by Druski and Kevin Hart. And they wasted no time talking ish.
Starting point is 01:11:35 All right. Check this out. Whoever gets picked last, she got to say they self. Let's just talk about that. Getting drafted last in the flag football drafts. We don't even need that. That's that. Okay.
Starting point is 01:11:47 Talk about a self-esteem low. Facts. Oh my gosh. It's flag football. Yeah, you got picked last. So they started instantly cooking the person that would get drafted last. Which ended up being, what's his name? Latterick Pablo Smith, who's an actual flag football player.
Starting point is 01:12:04 That plays for the U.S. you know, national team. He's like a professional. He's a professional. He's a professional and they picked them last. Because they didn't, like us, didn't recognize the name, right? And then so, Todd's. Tom Brady, you know, the co-founder, co-captain, you know, he's actually going to be quarterback on the founders team.
Starting point is 01:12:20 Yes, he's going to participate. You know, he was taking shots at the other team immediately. All right. So he was, he said he was glad that the captain of the other team, Joe Burrow, could make it and he wasn't busy at a fashion show. Hilarious. Joe Burrow is the fool that was with Jessica Alba in Vegas. That's the one that you got to worry about, Rex. Yeah, exactly.
Starting point is 01:12:39 Young guy. He also made fun of I Show Speed. He said that he shows speed, but not talent. that's insane Tom Brady is insane the way that he was going at everybody Tom was going at
Starting point is 01:12:51 I shall speed streamer extraordinary that is very fast he can do a bunch of backflip he has a lot of talent he has incredible talent athletic but nothing was worse
Starting point is 01:13:00 than what he said about Jaden Daniels other co-captain of the team and his mama oh my god I'm just have his mama him way oh
Starting point is 01:13:10 oh oh He said he was just happy that his mom let him play because he is known as a bit of a mama's boy. He's the one that said. Who told Tom all this stuff? No, it's out there. The mom said that she would go on dates with him and his partner. Yeah. We've talked about them previously.
Starting point is 01:13:28 Yeah, he was like linked to Joju Watkins and all this work into his life. Yeah, she's the one that sat between him and another player. Yes. So she's like a helicopter mom. So he's like, yeah, I'm just glad your mom let you play, bro. Oh, dang. Tom is so hip for him to even know. all these things to say.
Starting point is 01:13:43 For real. He is. But before it was over, Logan Paul, all right? The heel of all heels. You know, WWE, he's also boxed and stuff like that. Not high heels, ladies. Not high heels. The bad people.
Starting point is 01:13:54 Exactly. But he felt the need to call everyone out for a fight. Bronk, everybody, including Tom Brady. There is not a single NFL player who could beat me in a boxing room. When it comes to fighting, it is a different discipline. If any of these guys want to want to, one of them. fight me and do my sport on their field this weekend, so be it. I will kick their ass, including his.
Starting point is 01:14:20 You better be in bed early tonight. Bro, he said get out here than left. That was Tom Brady's voice. Yeah, you better get out of here. He said, you better get out of here. He said, you better go to bed early tonight. Logan's sport is WWB. WWE, but he's also boxed.
Starting point is 01:14:33 He doesn't box as much as Jake now. Yeah, so yeah, so he called everyone out for a fight. All the NFL people, he did not call out Terrence Crawford for the record. He's right there. And he's not on his team, right? No, he made sure to say NFL. Yeah, all the NFL players. All the NFL players were boxers.
Starting point is 01:14:48 Yeah. So, yeah, that's what happened yesterday. And, like, again, like I said, it goes down tomorrow. Flag Football, uh, uh, Fanatics Flag Football Classic. I can't wait to watch it. I know it's the first one. It's out here. It wasn't going to be out here.
Starting point is 01:15:02 No, because it was going to be in, yeah, in Dubai. It was all the conflict that's happening. Yes. They moved it out here at BMO. So I'm excited to go to go peep that. A lot of stuff. A lot of stars are going to participate, you know, Rob Gruncowski, Jalen Hurts, Vaughn Miller, Terrence Crawford.
Starting point is 01:15:17 They're all going to be on Tom Brady's team. The other team's going to have I Show Speed, Logan Paul, Jalen Ramsey, OBJ, O'Dell Beckham, Jr. Wow. And, yeah, it's going to be a dope time. Thanks for that, Vic. Look, keep it here. More Brownback Mornings on the way is Friday.

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