Brown Bag Mornings - Best Of Brown Bag Mornings 01/02/24

Episode Date: January 2, 2024

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Starting point is 00:00:00 What's up? This is Be Real from Cyprus Hill. Where are you from, Es? Don't you know I'm local? Guys, be careful what you do in front of an L.A. Metro bus because you could get a ticket. Our metro buses are the new cop cars, it seems. They could soon be using AI cameras to automatically issue tickets to cars parked in bus lanes. Okay? If they see you doing anything foul, bro, they have like this whole little technology that, It's like, do-d-d-d-d-do-d-do.
Starting point is 00:00:31 Oh, that's awesome. Not in the right place. They have the power to give you a ticket? They might, if they start using this AI technology, which they kind of are seeing, like, is it going to work? It's kind of like in beta stages with the actual L.A. metro lines. But yeah, crazy. That makes sense. Because a lot of people do park, like, I mean, they don't park to stay there, but a lot of people, when they want to, like, hop out and do something really quick.
Starting point is 00:00:57 They'll do it. You park in the bus lane, you're like, you look. It's not coming yet, and then you run inside. Wow, Maximo. You just told on yourself. I've never done that. In theory. In theory.
Starting point is 00:01:07 But I think you also think it's not a cop car. It's not like no one's really going to do anything to me. True. Let me just go in and now. And now the buses are like, yeah, right. Why are you okay with it, Greg? Because on the front of a bus stop, on a bus, I can't even thought on a bus. There's bike racks.
Starting point is 00:01:24 And people steal bikes all the time from these buses because all it is is like a little hook. So they just run up to the bus. us unhook it and run with the bike. So you would like this AI, like technology to be able to catch people. How are they going to catch? The person doesn't walk around with like a license plate. But probably the video of their face. The video of the person.
Starting point is 00:01:43 Yeah. A lot of times they don't catch them. So many of my friends have got jacked. Sorry, buddy, but your bike is gone. Yeah. Greg, I'm with you. They're just saying that to put you down because it's put down Greg Day. No.
Starting point is 00:01:55 It's a good idea, but it's just like. It's not going to work. Sorry. I feel like they identify people by the license place. My car got broken into a war. You guys, if I go up to a metro bus and there's a camera on it and I steal the bike, they're catching my face. Yeah, but then it stops right there.
Starting point is 00:02:11 No, now, boom, social media. Hey, does anyone see that? Like, it's literally how they catch every other crime. It's because they're trying to steal the bikes. That's why. That's what they're trying to do. You don't not have a bike stealing ring. But now it's going to be right in front of the bus.
Starting point is 00:02:23 That sounds beautiful. Yeah. I got my car broken into by some of Vicks homies that he hasn't told me it. And then... But did you have a camera that talked them? No, on your hood? No, but there's a camera in where I was parked. And then like the police had access to it.
Starting point is 00:02:39 Now imagine if the camera was on your hood. And you could see their face. You probably only see like half of their face. Was it in my hood? You guys, that's how people get called in time. I don't know what they're thinking that it's not literally. Just like a little bike. Not one.
Starting point is 00:02:52 People are going to see and be like, oh, too bad. The one is it? Yeah. Those are my babies right there. Those are my bikes. When my car got broken into, there's cameras, and the police had access to the cameras, and I lost, it was like $10,000 worth of stuff. And they didn't do anything and they didn't find nobody. They're not going to go over for a bike.
Starting point is 00:03:09 Do you think they didn't find anyone? No. No. It happened to me to my uncle's truck all the time, the tree-trimming truck. They've stole the gas, the ladder, the equipment, all that stuff, all caught in camera. And guess what? They do nothing? But do you have their face.
Starting point is 00:03:21 Yes. Yeah. I don't know about that. They don't know that they're, I think, I get it. I get what they're trying to say that it's like. It's cool. They can't tell who you are. Of course, they can't tell you who you are.
Starting point is 00:03:31 But they do have you caught. I love the high hopes you guys have for our investigators. You're walking up straight up to the bus. The front of the bus where there's a clear camera and your face. What if somebody's wearing a shi-sty? What if they live? Of course that can happen. But what I will say, what I'm assuming is that the people that are stealing the bikes,
Starting point is 00:03:51 they don't know yet that there's AI technology or that there's this type of thing watching them. And so they're going to see people. get caught. Yeah. I don't think no one's going to get ever get caught of stealing a bike. I mean, I hope they get caught, to be honest. Like, I'm rooting for that. I just don't, I guess, I think I just don't have that much faith in, like,
Starting point is 00:04:06 me too. Them actually catching the people. I feel like people get caught all the time for things they do on camera. Yeah. I feel like it's pretty, uh, simple for, I hope so. I don't know. I've seen people steal next to me. But like, my main concern is that, like, the traffic ticket stuff.
Starting point is 00:04:21 Yeah. Maybe not get caught in the moment. Angie, I know you're talking about because of the, like, the smash and grabs and stuff like that. But I've seen people. people get caught for that too like it happened not all the time I know not all the time but that's life yeah but maybe one and but would you rather would you rather none at all or not all ah I think like what happened at the for example I go to the
Starting point is 00:04:43 Americana lot it happened at the Americana there was just a bunch of cell phone footage there was a bunch of security footage they saw the people run and they let them go in the moment but they ended up catching those folks took two weeks three weeks but they ended up catching them you know but that's because that was a lot of merchandise yeah and there's There's cameras. There's cameras that got their faces. And they actually, they saw who they were. Yeah, they saw who the people were, guys.
Starting point is 00:05:03 All right, guys. You guys have good hopes. I like you. Yeah, and you're not going to ruin it either. That's great. You guys have to have it. Yeah. I think we're ahead of our time.
Starting point is 00:05:13 It's okay. You have a cop, homie, and Deirdre's my best friend. That's the LAPD. Yeah, exactly. Brown Bag. It's Brown Bag on Power 106. Number one for hip hop. All right, check this out, homie.
Starting point is 00:05:23 You need a homie or need some help. We need your help. We need a line I mean phone line We got you for The homie help line Listener Steve DMed us And said
Starting point is 00:05:35 Hey what's up brownback I need help My youngest daughter Emma Is starting middle school And my older daughter Angelica Is starting to point things out To her about her looks
Starting point is 00:05:44 For example Talking to her About her whiskers Arm hairs Eyebrows etc To me All she's doing is Creating insecurities
Starting point is 00:05:53 But she says it is To make sure That she doesn't get bullied when she gets to school because She's a good sister. Because Angelica did. It sounds like you. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:06:01 That's what I'm. Your name's Angelica. Yeah. Not sure if I'm wrong or just don't understand a girl's perspective. I just don't want to rush my younger daughter out of her innocence. I feel that. He needs help. I check this guy's profile because I'm like, where's mom at?
Starting point is 00:06:18 He seems to be a single guy. Oh. Yeah, he needs help. Angelica's doing a great job. Just saying. Is she? I don't know. So, yeah, because honestly, you start middle school, and that's when puberty hits,
Starting point is 00:06:31 and that's when you start getting all that stuff, and all these insecurities start, even if Angelica doesn't point it out, they're going to start regardless. Yeah. Is she saying it like, okay, whisker face, like, piss. She probably has a little mustache going on. Yeah. And she's saving her little sister. Even if she said, oh, I like your whiskers, it's still mean.
Starting point is 00:06:47 Yeah. See, for me that I have a 10-year-old going into middle school, I'm like, nah, don't say anything like that. Yeah, I would figure it out. She's not being up her self-esteem. But it's like, are you going to have the sister mess it up and also help her? Or are you going to have the kids? It doesn't seem like she's helping her. It seems like she's just bullying her.
Starting point is 00:07:07 I guess it just depends on how it's being delivered. Because she's going to go into middle school and that's when they start changing into, like, they have to change the gym uniform. It's like, let me bully you at home so you don't get bullied at school. It feels the thought. That's a strategy. But then, I don't know. Because it's like, it's like, A, like, Camere Whisker Face.
Starting point is 00:07:24 It's like we're going to go, we're going to go get you ex. Like, you know what I mean? So it's like helping. Angie, I know you say you do that to your nieces, but also like, I honestly don't see anything wrong with that. Do you think that your niece's self-esteem is great? Okay, it all depends on what. It depends who I talk to. I know like one of them I can just be straight out and telling like your hair you need to get that out.
Starting point is 00:07:44 Like, Shazah. The other one I know she's a lot. No, the 16-year-old. Oh, okay. And then the other one that's 12. I know like that one, I would put her to the size. I'll pull her. side and be like, hey, you know, like, what do you think? Like, what do you think of that little,
Starting point is 00:07:59 that seems like you're being nicer. Yeah. What is seeming at, you're not saying, hey, whiskers, come here. No, that's what, it all depends on who I'm talking to. So I'm sure Angelica, she knows that her little sister is toughiness so she can just bully her, not bully her, but like, just tell her straight out. Let her be a little monster on her own. Yeah. And let's say someone mentions it in a school, she'll bring it up and then be like, okay, cool. Now you're bringing it up. That means you want to change. You're not forcing yourself to change because someone else is pointing things out that to them is regular.
Starting point is 00:08:31 Like, you think you're just regular. Like, now I'm hairy. I didn't know I was hairy. I thought this time I'm just really warm in the winter. All right, we got callers on the line, though. Irene, who we got? Yeah, we have Erica from O. On C.
Starting point is 00:08:44 on line five. Erica. He needs to talk to his oldest daughter and find out where it's coming from. Like, either are you trying to help your sister or you're just being. mean. This little girl is already going to go into a situation where she's going to go through a lot of things. Yeah. And coming home and listening to her sister, you know, say all this stuff, it's going to, it's going to affect her in a certain way. He can also have a conversation with his youngest, his youngest, and say, hey, you know, eventually if you want to do this, this and this, we can,
Starting point is 00:09:11 but don't be in a rush. You're still little. You know, like, give them options. I like Angie's perspective because she's, no, but she's not a parent. So with me, I know I'm tied. emotionally. Yes, and the way I'm seeing it with you guys, it's like you're trying to baby them. And guess what? The real world is not going to be babying them all the time. I know.
Starting point is 00:09:30 I know. Yeah, you're doing something bad for them. How dare we want them to love themselves? Yeah. I care they have. Exactly. You're just going to put them in a little bubble and you guys just need to toughen them up as harsh as that seems.
Starting point is 00:09:42 But guess why you're just doing something bad for them. Irene, who we got? Yeah, we have Liz from Wilmington on my side. Ooh, Liz! I kind of agree with Angie on this because I feel like, Like I was that little girl who got, you know, bullied for being hairy and, you know, all that stuff. And it's like, kids in the playground used to make fun of me. Like, oh my God, like, she has hair.
Starting point is 00:10:04 People used to call me all the types of names. I'm not even going to get into that. Yeah, like Bigfoot. But I also feel like Maximo's point of, like, no one really, you don't know your hair until someone tells you. You know, you don't think it's a problem until somebody says something to you. And if her sister says something and she's kind of quiet about it, it is like, Either one, she's thinking about it or two, she's kind of like, maybe it is a, maybe it is something. Siblings talk, we talk to each other different than when we're in front of our mom and dad.
Starting point is 00:10:33 Right. So it's the same thing with also in school. Like, we talk, they talk, we all talk differently to each other on an at school than we do when we're in front of the teacher. It can be really hard. Kids are going to be really mean to you, but you have to be confident within yourself. My mom actually got me in trouble when I was younger because I should. without her permission. It was all patchy, all twicca.
Starting point is 00:10:57 Aw. She was like, did you shave? And I was like, no. I did not. So now you're hairy and a liar. Oh, Harry liar. I'm so sorry you're hairy, Liz. Poor Chubacket.
Starting point is 00:11:09 Yeah, so Liz. See, it's fine. I have hairy arms too, baby girl. Shout out to the Wolverines of the world. That never stopped me? The Chubbockers. Oh, my God. Yeah, Chubbacos.
Starting point is 00:11:20 All right. I'll talk to you later. I love you guys. Love you back with you. Thank you, Harry. Oh my God. You used to always say I could blow my nose and wipe my butt at the same time. That's pretty impressive.
Starting point is 00:11:34 Why? Why? My butt chin. That's a great job. Oh, I thought you actually could do it. No. Because your butt is on your chin. Yes, yeah.
Starting point is 00:11:44 Lo my nose and wet my butt at the same time. That's incredible. That's hilarious. That's efficient. That's what you. Look at you. Now you cover you. You're watching.
Starting point is 00:11:54 No, I don't mind it. You cover it, bro. You cover it with a little goatee. I just look weird with no hair. No, you look weird, period. But. There you go. No, you're toughing him up.
Starting point is 00:12:05 Yeah, I was bullied at home, so now I don't need people. That phrase exists, you guys. You got to tough it Machimo up for the world outside. Hey, you're too old already. Yeah. Brown bag. It's Brown Bag on Pirre 106. Number one for hip hop.
Starting point is 00:12:20 Skrolling with the homies. Greg C. Yes, sir. I'm going to ask you guys one simple question before we start this viral trend that's going on. No. No. No. No.
Starting point is 00:12:30 No. No. No. No. No. No. When I say we are brown bag, what do you think, Angie? We are brown and proud.
Starting point is 00:12:39 Okay. What about you, Vic? We are brown bag. We are brown bag. Facts. Facts. Okay. What about you, Maximo?
Starting point is 00:12:47 We are brown bag. Bamb, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum. Bung. What about you, Anne? What about you, Irene? I don't know. Nothing really. Nothing really?
Starting point is 00:12:57 We are nothing? I don't know. We are. I'm like, hey, hey, don't piss me all. I'm still foggy from yesterday, okay? Okay. Well, there's this new TikTok train where everybody's saying we are, and they kind of throw shots at each other with who they're with.
Starting point is 00:13:14 I'm going to show you an example right here. Okay. Ready? We're dating. So when she's not hungry and I order food, she's all of a sudden hungry. We're dating. I can be late, but he can. can't. We're dating, so I have to tell her to get ready
Starting point is 00:13:25 an hour before she actually needs to so she'll actually be on time. We're dating. I never bring a jacket because I'll just use his. We're dating, which means I'll buy him one drink after he spent money on me all day. It's valid. I do all of that all at time. I agree. I don't need to bring a sweater. He got me.
Starting point is 00:13:41 It's his job. This trend is looking to break up a lot of relationships and a lot of friendships. Because what she says. Because it's brutally honest. It's brutally honest. But we do it. As girls, I'm letting you know we do that all the time. Yeah, we kind of to turn off our brain so y'all can take care of us so if y'all are naturally supposed to like lead and take care not only that but it's like yeah we buy you a drink because that makes us feel
Starting point is 00:14:03 better oh yeah after spending we contribute it to something after spending like a thousand dollars on you that's on you nobody tell you to spend that's how much you guys do that on purpose to make it like it's like yeah it's like it's being cute like oh i'm gonna buy you that's cute $14 i mean compared to 300 y'all stay with us so i got the parking babe it's fine it's like Yeah. I bought the dinner. I bought your clothes, everything. That's my contribution.
Starting point is 00:14:28 And then they'd be so, like, excited. No, no, no, no, I got it. I got it. I got it. I got it. I got it. You don't have dinner. Let me buy you one drink.
Starting point is 00:14:36 It's crazy. $2.10. And 50 cents? I got the 50 cents, babe. That's on you. Don't know. Look, I got it right here. I got it right here.
Starting point is 00:14:43 I'll leave the tip. Yeah, yeah, exactly. That's crazy. If your segment was just going to be, like, crapping on us. I don't like this. At least we're being honest. Because honestly,
Starting point is 00:14:53 I went out with Priya's Poppy yesterday and I did the same thing. He paid for everything but I'm like I'll leave the tip. How much was the tip? By bucks? And then afterwards I'm like And then afterwards I'm like hey
Starting point is 00:15:10 You want coffee? I got you. I got you. Get a small. How much was the dinner? He did get a small. Don't worry about it. I wouldn't know how much the dinner was.
Starting point is 00:15:18 Don't worry about it. Probably twice as much as that coffee. So what? Jesus. So what? I'm the price, right? Yeah. That's what you guys have to pay.
Starting point is 00:15:28 He said, yeah, sure. Some people took this trend and also want to take shots at their, like, at their culture. Okay. Whoa. Yeah. So like us, like me, I'm Mexican. You are? Are you?
Starting point is 00:15:39 You are? Yes, I'm Mexican. I don't know. All right. I think I'm not once in a Thanksgiving dinner. Yeah, Mr. U. What is it? The casserole.
Starting point is 00:15:47 Cranberry sauce. There's cast. Yes. You guys are, I don't even want to play this anymore. I feel judge. I'm going to play this. And I could have related to this a lot. Of course for Mexican, we use the oven at storage.
Starting point is 00:16:01 You need a pack? Of course for Mexican. We have two fringes. One for the beer and drinks and one for the food. Of course for Mexican, we don't take the plastic off the TV. What if we need to return it? What are they going to say without the plastic? They're going to think it's not no.
Starting point is 00:16:14 You need to leave it out. You never know. That last one got me? The plastic on the TV? The plastic on the TV? Yeah, because my sister. My sister just, or my dad just got my mom a new TV, like maybe two weeks ago, and my mom still has the barcode on the screen. Oh, on the right side?
Starting point is 00:16:31 Yeah, right in the middle. And she's just like, well, just like in case something breaks, you know, and they have to return it. Same excuse. Same excuse. The barcode in the middle of the TV. I got one. I'm Mexican, so of course we leave the dealer plates on our cars for like two years. She can run red lights?
Starting point is 00:16:50 Yeah, exactly. Do you got what, Angie? That I can think of right now. I'm Mexican, so we always maxi-pack it everywhere. Maxi-packed. Mexic-Pack? Yeah, like when you have like a bunch of car. Like too many people in the car?
Starting point is 00:17:02 Yeah, that's Mexie-Pack. You guys have never heard. That sounds like an O-C term. That is an O-C-T term. Yeah. Really? Sounds like someone white made that up. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:17:12 In Orange County. Yeah. Mexie-Pack is water. Yes, mexy-packers. Yeah, let's wrong with that. Okay, cool. That's the orange kind of thing for sure. Just like birdie?
Starting point is 00:17:25 Yes. Whatever. No one ever uses that ever in life. Never do. Brown bag. It's brown bag on Power 106. Number one for hip hop. All right, check this out, homie.
Starting point is 00:17:34 You need a homie or need some help. We need your help. We need a line. I mean, phone line. We've got you for the homie help line. Luis needs our help. Yeah. His brother, his jail bird brother.
Starting point is 00:17:49 All right. It's a cousin. in a ruckus, whether he's in or out. He has a, so Luis has a nephew that he's been essentially caring for while his brother's been locked up. Yeah. His brother just got out of jail. And now his nephew is acting up and he wants to know if he should step away and let his father handle it or if he should just keep trying and trying to be there for his nephew.
Starting point is 00:18:13 Because when his brother came out, he's noticing his nephew. His nephew's acting up. Yeah. Not the same kind of. Yeah. And he doesn't know if it's, if it's the way. that his older brother is now kind of influencing him or is this a reaction to him coming out like uh so let's see what the advice is on these streets are i rene who we're going to we're going to
Starting point is 00:18:33 we're going to stephanna online one i'm in a similar situation i've been taking care of a niece since she was 13 parents one's away and one is here but i've always been that constant stability with her. So, I mean, obviously, I feel like maybe boys are different than girls. Right. But sometimes she goes with one parent and then she comes back. And it's different. And then I, and it's different.
Starting point is 00:19:01 Yeah. Like, it takes me about maybe a week or two to kind of get her back to what I've taught her and her morals. So I would tell him even though, I understand that we're not the parents, but I would tell him not to give up, even though he's actually. seeing up. At the end, they end up seeing who's there and who wasn't. Right. Did you feel like how she would act when she came back is more because of their influence or because she's reacting to how they are?
Starting point is 00:19:31 I think it's a little bit of maybe revetment, a little bit of influence, you know, whatever she sees on the parent side. She has a lot of issues, you know, with her mother. So I've been picking her up every single. a time and I'm not going to lie it's not it's not easy yeah I know it's really hard to even keep your patience because at the same time you're a human right you have boundaries you're not the you're not the one that's doing things or stepped out or things of that nature exactly and it's hard because sometimes you feel like giving up you're like why am I sacrificing all of it you know but at the greater good I'm like because I know she's a good kid I know she her potential and I'm not going to let anything or
Starting point is 00:20:16 anyone bring her down and I don't care who it is and I've told her multiple times like I will go to battle for you against anybody I said and then she and she understands that because then she'll open up to me then she'll be like this happened and then she'll have to like hug her because she goes into like baby mode yeah again because she feels like she she needs love yeah so i've been that constant yeah and then i've been that constant pillar for her I know when she grows up, she's going to know that I was always there for her unconditionally. I feel like
Starting point is 00:20:52 you give great hugs. Like the way they're like I hug her I pick her out. I'm like, I would like one of those hugs. I would like to sign up for the Put Your Heart Back Together hug. We'll talk about it. And then she had me rub her back like when she was a baby.
Starting point is 00:21:08 Oh, thank you. I would like to sign up for the add-on of the other hand. Some of us need that. We don't have. I just have a bunch of dudes around me. I mean, who are we going to? Oh, man, we're going to Evette from Pockema Online, too. All right. Yvette, from the grade 1-8.
Starting point is 00:21:25 Good morning, mamacita. I'm looking at it from a teacher's point of view. I'm a teacher, and I used to actually teach K through 12. Now I teach adult education. But looking at it from a teacher's point of view and looking at the child, I would sit down with the brother. The two brothers need to sit down and talk. and just let the brother know, I mean, if they have a good relationship,
Starting point is 00:21:49 hey, man, I love you, okay? I love my nephew, too. And I'm here for both of you guys. He needs to let him know what the child did while he was incarcerated. He needs to let him know he did a pretty, you know, the nephew was doing pretty good in school. And then they need to look at how is the nephew doing now? How can you make a difference in his life?
Starting point is 00:22:14 you know because he loves his dad yeah you know and um loves his uncle so if we can work as a team right try to see what we can do to make the nephew succeed in school yeah oh wow that's the way i'll handle it yeah i think that's a great piece of advice like not even because i feel like he might even feel alone in this because he doesn't want to seem like hey ever since you got out he's been bad you know but it is like hey i love this kid and i just don't want things to happen to him. And then there might be some sense of like, what do you mean things to happen to him?
Starting point is 00:22:49 Like, what do you mean? Like, kind of, he may think of it as insulting, right? The big brother. But it's all about the kid and it's about like, look, bro, I love you and I know we both love your son. And two of its point, I think it's important to show that like, hey, we're on the same team. Yeah. It's not me versus you, you know, and competing.
Starting point is 00:23:08 It's a team. It's a team. It's a team. It's a team. It's a team and that has the best interests of the child. Oh my gosh. Even, thank you so much
Starting point is 00:23:16 for chiming in. I'm sure you have helped many. I know, I'm sure you've helped many children and adults and get through these types of things because you spoke with such empathy and I just,
Starting point is 00:23:26 shout out to you. Yeah, so much. Yeah. And like I said, just, you know, not judging the brother, you know, that was incarcerated
Starting point is 00:23:33 and that's like you said. And don't make it a judgmental thing. Just make it a, this is about the child. Yeah. Absolutely. Okay. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:23:41 Thank you. You too. You too. You too. My call. I would like a hug from her too. She was my teacher. Yeah, she was a good teacher.
Starting point is 00:23:50 She's a good teacher. She's a good teacher conferences. Just so mature. Like, you know when that teacher just tells you something? Yeah. And you're like, okay, teacher. Yeah, please teacher. That's how felt.
Starting point is 00:23:59 Wow, this was deep. Yeah. All right. I do really like Evette's advice for our guy, Luis. Luis, definitely have that conversation with your brother and try to figure out, like, look, how can we team up to help my nephew, your son, who I dearly love. Like I don't want to mess things up with you guys I'm no I wasn't a placeholder for you But I was there when you were not here
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Starting point is 00:24:44 You can do it I can do it. I'm here. Yeah. So, video's been going around. We're here when we have cramps. True. Yeah, get over it.
Starting point is 00:24:53 No, you love, though. Challenge. Hey. Hey. That would be a problem. All right, well, video's been going around. And it's a pretty funny interaction between a couple where the man supposedly had cheated on this girl. Okay.
Starting point is 00:25:08 So she had him sleep outside. And when she had him sleep outside, she would still bring him dinner. Listen I don't even want this Right for real See this what the I'm afraid for You're about to drop the food
Starting point is 00:25:24 I don't even want That's why you out here I ain't even do nothing You treat me like this bro I can't do this Well you're ready to tell the truth Then I let you back in him How about that?
Starting point is 00:25:35 Tell the truth about what And the funny thing is It looks cold outside Yeah Is he in the backyard? He's like like in like the backyard or like the porch of the house. Uh-huh.
Starting point is 00:25:49 Okay. And like she brings them two plates. And when he starts, he's like, I don't even want this. Yeah, I don't want this. I'm upset. Like, why am I not inside the house? It's not ungrateful. It's literally, I put you, I put you outside.
Starting point is 00:26:02 I made you, I'm like, I'm giving you a really bad situation and I'm helping you a little bit so you should be grateful. Like you're not, no one's going to be grateful. Right. You know what I'm saying? Oh my God. The funniest part when you hear the door slam. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:26:13 It's like, you're like, yeah, this is why you're outside. You're sick. Do you think that she thinks that he did something or? Well, from what the video said is it said that he had, she had caught him cheating. Oh, my gosh. So I am assuming. Because of that, she, you know, because he was being a dog, she started treating him like a dog. Like a dog.
Starting point is 00:26:30 You're going to be outside. I like it. He's going to sleep outside. And a little part of him knows that he did it and that's why he's staying outside. Then you wouldn't stay outside unless you knew like you did it, right? Right. Yeah. I mean, you can easily just leave, too.
Starting point is 00:26:44 Leave, go to hotel. He just sits there. I better be inside the house. Like he's just chilling outside. He's chilling outside. He's chilling outside. He's still getting fed. Damn.
Starting point is 00:26:54 But he didn't take it. He took it, but he was kind of like upset about it. So he almost dropped it. She's like, see, that's why. That's not you out here. You're dropping it like you're dropping your pants. Oh, man. We got to see the video.
Starting point is 00:27:07 It's on Brownback Morning's one. Yes. So I want to ask you if, or ladies in the room, if something in this situation would happen, would you still feed your man? cheating like that no no get the boot no should be glad i'm even speaking to you and looking your way still if if she got him cheating but yet still has him in her porch right that's that's not that means she's not a hundred percent sure i think she still loves them and she's probably going to forgive him that's what that means yeah i have a tia that used to pack my tio lunche
Starting point is 00:27:39 even though he had cheated and then he would sleep in the living room but every morning at five in the morning, he would have his luncheon. Damn. My God, Jose. But they stay together, huh? No, they're separated now. But we also have the Tias that live in the same house of theos and they're separated. They just don't get new houses.
Starting point is 00:28:00 Right. Yeah, I have a couple deals like that. Yeah, but I mean, I don't know. I think her, she's really a sim for this situation. She's the sim? She's the sim. He's the pimp. No.
Starting point is 00:28:12 I mean, not necessarily. He's a cheater. But she's the scent for still making him food. Oh, yeah, for sure. It's like, damn, man, you go to that whole. And she's like, what, if he admits it, is he, okay, here, welcome back. You admitted it. No.
Starting point is 00:28:25 Because I'm wondering, too, how'd you catch him? Right. Because she said that she caught him cheating, right? Usually. I catch you cheating. I'm giving you food. You better be careful what's in that food. You better go get that food tested for.
Starting point is 00:28:39 Damn. There are things you could blend that won't pop up. Irene. Irene. Then that would be Pymn. We do not want to hear about you putting anti-free. No, that's, I didn't say that. Whoa, whoa.
Starting point is 00:28:51 Amateur. Yeah. That could be traced, Maximo, get it together. Yeah. Irene. I love it. I love it. Why do you guys know this information?
Starting point is 00:29:00 We're like that lady Gersel de Blanco? Yeah. Don't mess with us. You don't even know. Okay. Do you want to like wobble simpim since you're so like, like you can't really do it? Oh, yeah. I think we can sip her out.
Starting point is 00:29:12 Yeah. But you started. Go. We need a dentist. We need a dentist. We need a dentist to help maximo. Simp or pimp. Sip, simp, sims, sims, sims, sims, sims, sims, sims, sims.
Starting point is 00:29:30 A user on X, aka Twitter, Holly Biology went viral when she tweeted, sad day, my ex's credit card that was leaked to my Starbucks app, expired. I had a good run nearly nearly a year of free coffee, RIP. Dang. That's crazy. That's such a cool come up. And the tweet was viewed five million times. So after tweeting this, she was like, oh, screw and I'm going to take a chance. And she texted him and was like, hey, bro, your credit card in my Starbucks app expired. Can I get the new expiration date?
Starting point is 00:30:09 And he said, why? She said, so I can order coffee. puppy dog eye emoji. I love that emoji, by the way. Yeah. It works every time. And he sent it like a titari. He sent his new expiration date. No way.
Starting point is 00:30:23 Like that she could keep getting coffee. And then I think she also noted in that thread like before y'all come to me, because people were coming at her for using her ex's money. He's like, he cheated. Yeah. So kind of like. The tweet went viral and she was like, just to clarify before anyone comes at me, he cheated. So it's fair compensation for my troubles.
Starting point is 00:30:42 I guess so. And I would have linked to that to everything. My McDonald's at, my wedding. She's being conservative. DoorDash. Why stop at like $14 a day? Yeah. Do more.
Starting point is 00:30:54 He cheated. You have to pay for my wake up in the morning and then my stress meal in the middle of the day. But throughout all this time, he didn't know. So you had to do those little transactions. Yeah. So little by little, maybe he might not notice Starbucks. Maybe like, right? It's just going to pass him off.
Starting point is 00:31:10 It's not too big of a purchase. If she starts going to go. in a foot locker every day. Getting shoes. He's going to see. She does clarnet payments. Oh, that's smart. So now every time you get coffee, you're going to think about me, and you're still
Starting point is 00:31:22 thinking about me even though we're exes already? Oh, yeah. And you have to pay for it and not get any of this. She just thinks how stupid you are. No, he knows what he's doing. He's leaving the door cracked open a little bit. Exactly. You know.
Starting point is 00:31:35 You guys are stupid. It's going to be a 3 a.m. on Friday. Like, hey. You're being delusional right now. This is a win for the ladies. in the win for like anyone that still has somebody's any information like Netflix passwords Hulu passwords, credit cards. I know you're tripping out. I know you're tripping out, Greg. I know you're tripping now. I'm good. I'm good. I kind of cancel some memberships right now that I had too
Starting point is 00:31:55 that just reminded me. It just reminded me. Hold on one second. She was going good for a month. So he did, yeah. Oh, she was lighting for a month. I was like, whoa, that reminds me. Can we talk about how she didn't follow me a little bit? Oh my God. I blame you for. I blame you. Uh, okay. So this baby girl for a year has been getting free Starbucks, which is a win. That's a win anyway you get. Of course, yeah. Free coffee free.
Starting point is 00:32:19 Knowing that her ex, like, she's getting, like, that feels like ha ha ha, ha, ha. Like every time she like, he like does the scan, right? The fact that he is still like, here, get my new one. Yeah, sure. Get my new experience. That door is open. The door is open. What's your door is open?
Starting point is 00:32:35 He feels bad. He feels bad because he knows that he missed up. Real pimps have a door open without spending any money. Yeah. How about that? I'm just in your thoughts just because I'm in your thoughts because I was dope like that. Not because I'm paying for your Starbucks.
Starting point is 00:32:49 No, but it was pimping him to be like, all right, yeah, here's the color. No, it was simple as hell. No. It was simp, yes. Because if it was really pimped, he wouldn't have cheated and he would have just been taking care of her. Do you think it's been taking care of her?
Starting point is 00:33:02 Greg says, yeah, my ex hit me. We haven't talked. I cheated on her. You didn't cheat, by the one. I did. Okay, so it's totally hypothetical. And she asked me for my friend. credit card information, I gave it to her.
Starting point is 00:33:14 Well, just based like that. Just, if he just... That's not going to pay. I know, but it was just for coffee. Like, it's with the intention of just the coffee. Okay, if he says just for her coffee, I'm paying for her coffee. So she can have a coffee cacito con Daisy. Oh, my.
Starting point is 00:33:26 Without him. Are you going to say that he's simper pimped? That's crazy. But if he's still, like, you know... He does it. But, like, if down the line, he does, you know what I'm saying? It's a payoff. Oh, no, you guys are trying to justify it.
Starting point is 00:33:40 But no, this bull is him. He's sipping. He's sipping. While she's sipping. Exactly. Unoventee. Get the Trenta, baby girl. Get it.
Starting point is 00:33:49 Okay, if she gets Trenta, yeah, he's definitely simping. Oh, but a different size is fine. Yeah. Victor, it makes no sense. It doesn't. It makes sense in my life. He wants to be like, woohoo, guys, yeah, dog brown. Yeah, go park.
Starting point is 00:34:01 It's just cool, like, you know, when you leave the door cracked open a little bit, you know? Oh my God. It's not even a window. I can still climb in there. She's been cracked open for a year and she hasn't gone back with him. No, she's slowly getting back. That's why she keeps buying the coffee. She wants that attention.
Starting point is 00:34:14 She doesn't want to let go either. Yeah, exactly. It was the other way around. And you guys had access to your exes bank account like that, like for coffee. You would think like, oh, yeah, maybe I will get back with her when day. I'm buying drinks at the club. I'm like, oh. After she cheated on you?
Starting point is 00:34:28 I'm buying drinks at the club with that hard. You are. And you're thinking about her. And so, wow, she's a pimp because you're thinking about her while you're drinking. Damn it. Boom. Fail. Take a shot for me.
Starting point is 00:34:38 Take a shot on me. Yeah. All right. Three, two, one. Sips, sip, sip, sip, sip, sip. You get that Trento baby girl on Hien. Brown Bag. It's Brown Bag on Power 106.
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Starting point is 00:35:05 I would love to remain anonymous, but I listen every morning and your girl needs help. Okay. So I've been dating this guy for about. two months and things are starting to get serious. My only problem is that I've been holding on one secret from him and don't know how to tell him. I have an only fans. Whoa.
Starting point is 00:35:21 Don't judge me. I'm not super popping, but I make a decent amount and don't know how he'll take it. How do I tell him? Or would it be bad if I didn't tell him? Could you date a girl and not know she has only fans? Yeah. She would have to put her link in her bio. You're following her on Instagram.
Starting point is 00:35:39 Not if you have a separate account that has a. your only fans. Not necessarily. I have home girls that I've later on discovered that they had only fans. I was like,
Starting point is 00:35:46 whoa. But do you discover because you looked at their profile? Like how do you discover that they have only fans? Because my homie told me because my homie's a creep and he was like,
Starting point is 00:35:54 bro, I've seen her on only and I was like, what? So like, but they never publicly post it because they don't want like their family to know
Starting point is 00:36:00 or whatever. So there's like a whole other way of, I don't know how maybe like Irene said like a whole another like profile. It's all moral. It's all moral.
Starting point is 00:36:07 It's all moral. It's because if he finds out Then it's like, oh, yeah. And even then, it's like, let's say she does make the choice of letting him know. It's like, how is he going to take it? Is he going to be like, oh, I can't do this? Or is it like, oh, it's cool, whatever. Yeah, I think if she's even contemplating, she knows that he probably won't react the greatest.
Starting point is 00:36:26 That's so weird. Yeah. Because it's, I'm assuming, and this is just shout out to all the only fans, girls that I know, they're proud about it. They have it on their bio. They're like, yeah, this is what I do. This is how I get money. You're like, oh, my God, you make so much money. I wish I was you.
Starting point is 00:36:39 Like, legit, right? Yeah. I don't think, how can you have that and keep it secret? She probably isn't maximizing her full potential, you know, in terms of making money. She's definitely losing out on clientele if she doesn't have it in her bio already. The worst thing is like if one of his, like the homies is like, yo, bro, then it's like, oh. That's the possibility. That's what she's risking by not telling them for sure.
Starting point is 00:37:03 All right. I can't do it. Lie. Keep it. Drew 7-2 on Instagram said he's probably holding. something from her too. They should have a conversation like, you tell me a secret. I'll tell you.
Starting point is 00:37:16 What are we in fourth grade? I love it. But that would work. Hey, tell me something I don't know and I'll tell you something you don't know. So it doesn't seem like it's a secret, but it's like also whatever that fool tells you, it's like, hey, you didn't tell me about that. Why are you going to get mad at me now? But if he has a weak secret?
Starting point is 00:37:31 Yeah. And then she comes out with this. Guys don't have weak secrets. Yeah. Yeah. You mean if he picks a week. What if he's just like, I don't know how to change my old. oil, you know, and that's it.
Starting point is 00:37:41 And then she's like, I have OnlyFans. He's like, what? Then, hey, if you don't know how to change his oil, that already lets you know, you could break up with him because that ain't a man. That is red. Not. Mm-hmm. See?
Starting point is 00:37:49 Boom. She's crazy. No, I can't do it. Because what's going to end up happening? You seem like, I have an OnlyFans. Really? Well, I have another family. He's going to want to want a one-up of a secret.
Starting point is 00:38:00 That's fair. Yeah. Because now it allows him that time to be like, if you're telling a secret, I have to tell you what I'm keeping from you. Secret family? see if it's a whole thing. Secret family's fire. Irene, talk to us.
Starting point is 00:38:12 Who's on the line? We have Adrian from Rielto online for her. All right, Adrian, good morning. It's only been two months. She needs to tell him now. Yeah. Because later on, if he were to find out, it's just going to be all bad. Men that say they're okay with it, they're okay with it until family finds out or a
Starting point is 00:38:27 homie find out. And then it's not going to be okay. So facts. And if he likes you too, he's going to weigh out his options. Like, he's even like, damn, do I like her enough to deal. with the only fans thing. Yeah. I mean, that's just not for the week.
Starting point is 00:38:41 He's going to want her to stop. It's not for the week. And that's going to mess up her paper. It's honestly embarrassing. For, you know, the whole social world to be able to see your partner. Hey, if she could keep her a secret from you
Starting point is 00:38:53 and you didn't find out in two months, maybe she's good at keeping her a secret. And you both can keep her secret from your mom and your Tias. And by the way, A Tia, I remember when you got with a neighbor, uh-huh, I'm not judging you there. So why are you judging that my girl is the only fan's girl. Boom.
Starting point is 00:39:05 This is what you do. You just got to get the gossip on your family. Yeah. Like, oh, you're judging me? Yeah. Throw it back. Remember, as Latinos, we judge no matter what. Even though we say no.
Starting point is 00:39:14 That part. They go judge her job regardless. Oh my God, she works at Macy's, ah? That's not even Nordstrom? Like, it didn't be a thing. They're going to judge her anyway. No, thanks. You're loving her, okay?
Starting point is 00:39:25 You and all of her subscribers. Oh. That's a no for me. Yeah. Hey, you said it, Adrian. You said it would be a no for you. And so she's so fine. And Adrian, man, she doesn't.
Starting point is 00:39:37 that thing you like and Adrian she's doing with you for so like. Adrian, I think she could cook too. Ooh, Adri. I'm not mad at you, Adrian. You know what's more embarrassing than dating an only fan's girl? What? A struggling only fans girl.
Starting point is 00:39:50 Oh. She needs to get her money up. Yeah. And really have something to bring to the table. Yeah. Like how can you suck at sucking? Yeah. Wow.
Starting point is 00:39:58 Jose, I get you. I get you. I get you. You suck at that. Imagine us, our relationship. Like, bring something to be proud of. At least I'm going to be. True. True, true. If you're going to do something right, do it right, top way.
Starting point is 00:40:12 Yeah, yeah. Yeah. Okay. So she should come out and be like, look, this is what I'm doing. Can you help me? I'm going to start, I'm going to start being public with this and I need your support. Get with or get lost. I think together we can be a great, get to the next level. Yeah. The butt stuff. Irene, anybody else. Yeah, yeah. We have Andrew from Long Beach online too. Andrew. She just needs to come clean and let him know because he might be a freak like her. He might be willing to make content with her for all we know. I'm telling you, that's the play.
Starting point is 00:40:46 So supportive, yeah. I love it. I have somebody on the line that can tell us a little bit of a different perspective. We have Eddie from Fullerton online. Same. All the dudes. All these teas. I know.
Starting point is 00:40:57 Guys love talking about girls. All right, Eddie. I have a buddy who he's encouraging his girl to actually start an own fan. So it's not that she already has on her anything, but he's kind of like nudging her in that direction. Like, hey, like maybe we should start one together type thing. And I think, you know, he's probably all about seeing how much people actually make on that thing. You guys just see like, oh, there's money to be made. It's worth it.
Starting point is 00:41:22 Let's try it. Baby girl, tell him. Tell him, I say, do like the Drew 7-2 dude said on Instagram. Tell him and say, you tell me a secret. I'll tell you a secret. Even if it's a lame secret, we're like, all right, your secret sucks. Bam. And so do I.
Starting point is 00:41:36 For the world to see. Brown bag It's brown bag on Power 106 Number one for hip hop Scrolling with the homies All right before you go in Greg Let me just tell No no no let me just tell team man out there
Starting point is 00:41:49 This fool has been waiting to do this scrolling Against my better judgment But I gotta let the I gotta let the boys be boys Yeah Greg is so excited about this It's probably like his favorite TikToks He's been sending them and sending them to me
Starting point is 00:42:02 And I'm watch them and I'm like Okay cool And Angie, you too, you looked at her like. I saw them and I'm like. I related to you so much. Yeah, I saw them and you showed them to me and I'm like, oh, okay. Yeah. She really did say that.
Starting point is 00:42:15 But Irene, you, my biggest number one Greg supporter, you were like, yes, this is hilarious, bro. I thought it was funny. But like our TLs are similar. Yeah, your algorithm? Yeah, our algorithms are very similar. Why is your algorithm like Greg's algorithm? I don't know because it's odd. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:42:35 Is it dude? Are you all right there? Flexing his arm. Flexing your arm. You're swinging it around. All right. So now here's your chance to. And at least we know that one person will enjoy this.
Starting point is 00:42:47 Yes. Leti. I was enjoying scrolling on my timeline. I know you were. And I came across this video that I feel like I can relate to a lot. And a lot of guys out there could relate to. Men. Men, exactly.
Starting point is 00:43:00 This is what it sounds like when you have an insecure girlfriend and they tell you everything that goes wrong. And but our homies do it to us, all right? I want you to hear this. Ready? Day one of talking to my boys like an insecure girlfriend. Hey, you want some to go? No, I'm all right.
Starting point is 00:43:17 What do you mean, no? I just don't want some right now. Are you mad at me? Day two of talking to my boy like an insecure girlfriend. Hey, Jekin, we're pretty good friends, right? Yeah, bro. Would you still talk to me if I was a worm? No, bro.
Starting point is 00:43:27 Are you serious right now? I can't believe you. Day three of talking to my boy like an insecure girlfriend. You good? Yeah, I'm good. Why? You just been a little distant lately. I've been working and shit, you know?
Starting point is 00:43:36 Yeah? Yeah. You just forget I exist? I just been like two days ago. Why do you hate me? This is day four of talking to my boys like an insecure girlfriend. What's up? Can you ask you something?
Starting point is 00:43:46 What's up? What was your location off? My bro. I didn't even know it was all, my bad. Who were you with? I was with China. All right, but whatever. She can have you, man.
Starting point is 00:43:54 The reason I love those videos? It's going exactly how I thought it was going. No, the reason I love these videos is because my homies act like this towards me all the time. So this guy's acting like an insecure girlfriend to show like, hey, this is what it sounds like. Exactly. when we hear you. But you actually have friends that talk to you like this.
Starting point is 00:44:10 So you actually have guys that talk to you like this. Yes. I've actually had a guy friends that seen with his girlfriend and seen. Yo. Oh. That's crazy. I legit had a homie stop talking to us because we didn't invite him out.
Starting point is 00:44:25 That's it. That is a reason I've had it. Why didn't you invite him out? Because we just were out. Was it because he's a cop? No, this is another one. We're not talking. He was like, I'm not talking to you.
Starting point is 00:44:36 Like, what the? Okay, okay, so he was acting like an insecure girlfriend. Exactly. So, is it safe to say that it's not just insecure girlfriends that act like this? No, it's mostly insecure girlfriends. Oh, my gosh. That's where they get it from? They probably got an insecure friend.
Starting point is 00:44:48 So then where'd your homie get it from? Probably his insecure girlfriend, so he passes it to us in his gallery. When we go out and his girlfriend went out at the same time. So everyone left him? Yeah, exactly. And he was by himself. So it's not just that people left him? No, is this that he's insecure?
Starting point is 00:45:02 And he got that. So he was expected to just pull up randomly? Yeah. I don't know what? No, I'm kidding. No, I love your scrolling. I love that you did it. I was pretty happy about the scrolling too.
Starting point is 00:45:14 I love that you did it. Day four. Hey, are you mad at me, bro? Yeah, I'm somebody. I've heard every single one of those. You haven't said any of those at all? For sure. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:45:23 All the time. Duff. I heard some of those before. You heard some of those? Yeah. No. You do I ignore them. Ignore them?
Starting point is 00:45:29 Yeah. No, you just go with it. Like, when we ask you, like, if I was the worm, if I was the leave, would you still love me? Yes. Just say yes. No, a bird, come and eat you. That would get us bad.
Starting point is 00:45:39 But I would protect you from that bird. I'd watch you. I'd watch you die. That's crazy. Oh, my gosh. Just kidding. That's why you're not married. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:45:46 I am married. I am married. The common law does not apply in California. Do you guys ever have that friend that shows you videos that are only funny to them? Do you have no, legit? Do you have that friend? Vick does that. Yeah, Victor.
Starting point is 00:46:00 Yeah. Yeah, there is friends. But usually it's not like a... I don't know. Actually, I feel like I do understand. Guys get easy. I think guy humor is easier. It's easier to make a guy laugh than it is to make a girl laugh.
Starting point is 00:46:14 No, it is. Oh, yeah, no, it is. You guys laugh at the, see? See? I didn't even do a fart noise make you laugh. That's true. Look at this. I love it.
Starting point is 00:46:23 I love because the way he laughed. Like, now I'm going to do is laughing. You're laughing right now in the car. Oh, that's funny. Yeah. Sorry, I got the job. All right, you want to do a, act like an insecure girlfriend. What?
Starting point is 00:46:34 Answer your girlfriend, what did I get told yesterday? Oh, wait, but you have a girlfriend? I'm kidding, it was a joke, come on. Why are you talking about your ex? Yeah, basically, yeah. Do you have the point? If your ex loved me more, or did, do you love your ex more than me? Yeah, I just met you.
Starting point is 00:46:51 I've just been with you. The hell would you expect? If your ex was in the fire, would you pick her over me? It's like, what the? Hell no, I'm not running in there. Why would I go in the fire? If they were both in the fire. That's cool.
Starting point is 00:47:03 I'm calling that. I'm calling that. Fire Department. You should be like, why are y'all kicking it? Why all together? Yeah, why are you on the fire? Well, I went over there to get her when I got caught up. Has any girl besides Aniela, because of course,
Starting point is 00:47:15 Daniela is very secure. Has she ever told you some insecure stuff? Yeah. Like, what is it? Talk about it. This is your guys time. It would actually be like, oh, why do you have friends or girls? That's a good one.
Starting point is 00:47:27 And what was your answer? Because I've known them forever. Before you. That's a good answer. That is a good answer. They're here for you. What's the deal? No,
Starting point is 00:47:35 nah, you don't do that. You don't do that. Come on, Bay, I know it forever. I'll be like, why do you have a brother? Oh, wow.
Starting point is 00:47:43 Exactly. I've known him forever. Okay, so we're the same. So these girls are your sisters? Yeah. I'm with you for a reason, right? Exactly. And you hit him with that.
Starting point is 00:47:52 Oh, my God. You don't even talk like that. I talk like that. No, I think that was like always the biggest thing. Like having girls as friends. In high school, I used to have like a lot of home girls.
Starting point is 00:48:02 and then me and my friends used to throw a lot of kickbacks so we would know a lot of girls and we invite them and it wasn't like oh we're hooking up with everybody it was just like it was you know
Starting point is 00:48:13 but you were hugging up with some it was like I said some were getting hurt see that's the thing it's like it's his past I didn't kiss all the girls that are my friends
Starting point is 00:48:21 yeah that's the past though but have you kissed any of the girls that were your friends possibly but that was before I met you yeah that's before and to me to me I think that I would get more upset
Starting point is 00:48:29 not that you have friends that are girls because look, dude, I don't care, I'm toxic. It's not that you have girls that are friends, but it's like if I don't meet them, if I don't know them, like, why do you have friends that I don't know? Right. Which was an issue for me in a past relationship.
Starting point is 00:48:44 Is it an issue? Like, he had friends that were girls, but we never talked, we never met, and all of that. And I'm like, and date home would hang out. It's Fontana. Is it an issue to have a friend that's a girl that you hooked up with in the past? Yes. Yes.
Starting point is 00:48:58 That's your ex. Yes, final answer. Your ex. That is not your ex. Yes, it is. That is not an issue of Daniela was like bent back from her homie, but like they've done that in the past. Would it be an issue?
Starting point is 00:49:10 Yes. Yes. It is. That they did it. They could do it anywhere. They did it in the bathroom, the shower, the car. In the past? I mean, I'm not going to ask.
Starting point is 00:49:23 Shut up. It would not be okay. Like I'm not going to be like asked for those details about, oh, you guys hooked up? Oh, okay. whatever like I was in the past and you would let them continue to hang out nope not to hang out but themselves but like exactly they can like each other's pictures because I'm not the if I said like if I hooked up with a girl she was still like my home girl I'm not gonna hang out with her alone yeah yeah what does still the home girl mean if you don't hang out it's like like maybe we have a party
Starting point is 00:49:52 she can come yeah yeah she's invited her places when I'm at the club she can go to the club do not bring her in my house after you've been inside her yeah I don't want that Well, I guess then you guys wouldn't ever know Because you guys are insecure It's not secure It's just setting boundaries It's like that's common knowledge Don't bring your ex around me
Starting point is 00:50:09 It's not your ex. It's not It's not easy to say It's easy to say you're insecure If you have like certain things that you won't And will like or will accept It won't accept it's like just a cop out Like oh that means you're insecure Or that means that I'm not cool with
Starting point is 00:50:23 True Boundaries All right Keep it here We're gonna fight We're coming up We're more fighting on the way All right
Starting point is 00:50:29 Keep it here It's 5-106 Brown bag It's brown bag on Power 106 Number one for hip hop All right check this out, homie You need a homie or need some help We need your help
Starting point is 00:50:39 We need a line I mean phone line We've got you for The homie help line Jason outgrew his loser homie No, I'm kidding Yeah He is a loser man
Starting point is 00:50:51 He is a loser Jafins Jason's too good Yeah He grew out his friend He grew out his friend I grew his friend and he's trying to figure out what to do, what to say. How to tell me.
Starting point is 00:51:04 How to cut it off with the friend. Exactly. I think it's easier to cut it off with like maybe a girl sometimes. Yeah. But with your friend is hard. It's different. They won. Have you ever had friends that you could up?
Starting point is 00:51:16 Well, I'm sorry. Yeah. Maximum. You had friends forever. Yeah. Definitely. I wouldn't, I guess, cut off. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:51:26 I did cut them off. But it wasn't like intentional. It was just like the things they wanted to do weren't very productive for me. And especially with like kids, I don't have, I'm like already balancing a lot. Yeah. It was just like more like I still answer his phone calls and we talk. We have those conversations and I check in on him. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:51:43 Just caught from jail or were? No. But I don't make the time to go over there and like actually hang out. Yeah. Yeah. Damn. You don't even come around anymore. Damn.
Starting point is 00:51:54 You change, bro. Yeah. DM, Maximil, you change, bro. I change the diapers, bro. I know, to that point, I feel like the first time I started to, like, grow apart from really good friends of mine was when I had Lil Vic. It was just like, bro, we don't have the same responsibilities anymore. I can't go to Rosarita with y'all. I would love to, but it's like, now I have to, you know, obviously provide and stuff like that.
Starting point is 00:52:18 And so it's like, and, you know, it's focused time. My high school homies who are super dope, love them to death, but it's just like we didn't have much to relate to anymore. Yeah, just kind of. distancing yourself, you know, slowly is kind of a thing. Ghosting. You homer it. Yeah. I don't think it's like a very like vocal thing.
Starting point is 00:52:34 Yeah. With like homies. Like where you're looking at. There's no conversation. No. It doesn't usually happen like ATL. Like I don't want to kick it with you. Skate with you.
Starting point is 00:52:42 Like it doesn't happen like that. Usually. You just distance or something. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's kind of like,
Starting point is 00:52:50 um, not taking any kind of ability either. Yeah. Yeah. That's kind of like running from. You don't want, yeah, like avoiding the confrontation. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:52:56 Yeah. It is that. It's a great solution. Let's talk about it. It works. Every time. All right. Irene, who's on the line, baby girl?
Starting point is 00:53:05 We have Joseph from Inglewood, online one. Hey, what up, Joseph? I'm in the exact same position as Jason right now. I'm the word one because I don't want to party no more or go out drinking the clubs with them. I have different priorities. Like how maximum's, the responsibilities are different. You are still in maybe not taking as serious whatever is going around your life. and you don't have that many responsibilities.
Starting point is 00:53:29 That's why you have these abilities to go out and enjoy these clubs and go out to parties. Every weekend. What your time consists. Yeah. So now that you have responsibilities, I've literally tried having the conversation with them. Sometimes it's just an exit. Sometimes people just ghost. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:53:44 I don't want to do that stuff. And I don't want you guys to think that I, for some reason, think I'm better than you guys. I don't want you guys to think that for some reason I think I'm all that and I think I'm cool or I don't want to be in the clubs with you guys. No, that's completely different. All I want to do is hang out with you guys. But can we hang out at the house? Could we chill at the house? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:54:02 Could we barely do a car of a house or something? Yeah. He's tried. And I don't think that I'm doing anything that is more better than what you're doing. We're living our lives. We're still here in South Central. Ain't nobody better than nobody. But I need you to understand that the priorities and responsibilities, they're different.
Starting point is 00:54:16 So it's more like I want to work towards something instead of just living life. I could do that later. That's what I feel like. Wow. You needed this call. Yeah. Yeah. No.
Starting point is 00:54:25 What is your girlfriend? Tell you. Who else we got, baby girl? We have Gabriel from Anaheim on line two. Well, you got to make a decision. And if you got to surround yourself with people that have the same or trajectory of your goals, you know? So if you're surrounded by those type of people and they're motivated to go in that direction, they're always going to be around regardless of the situation.
Starting point is 00:54:55 If you're your real homie, he don't have to talk to you for 10 years, but you can call them. And it sounds like, hey, what's up, man? I talked to you yesterday, you know? Yeah. So I think, you know, he needs to go and, he needs to go and, you know, he needs to go and, you can. laid out with them and kind of depending on how it is because there's homies out there to have drama regardless. You know, they just don't want to be like you get kicked out of a conversation or a group. Yeah, you know, you're going to have to deal with it. But at the end of the day,
Starting point is 00:55:18 trade yourself in with him for a good wife or a good girl. Get your goals set up in the right direction. Get yourself some goals, get some kids, make it happen. And that homie will still be there. Either he'll be there for you to help him out or he'll be there for you to be there right next to you supporting you. There you go. There you go. There we go. Yeah. One good girl's worth a thousand homies. Oh, man. We got a girl on the line, too. We need the ladies take on this.
Starting point is 00:55:45 I mean, because we're not going to do. I know. Menos in Misa. We have Emily from Irvine on line three. I'm a teen mom. I've been there, done that. I've lost a lot of friends down the way. And I've had a friend, well, ex-best friend, since middle school.
Starting point is 00:56:00 And you just have to, like, rip the band-aid off sometimes. Because, well, like, your friends are going to be there regardless of what you're your situation is, they're either going to support you and uplift you or they're going to try to break you down with them. When you have people around that are in the same mentality of like, hey, like, let's get this. Like, Callie ain't deep to live in. So let's get this and let's get our money and like let's get our degrees. Then, okay, let's go. Let's go up there. So, you know, at the end of the day, you got to look out for yourself because your friend is not going to pay your bills. There's no friends. Yeah, yeah. Wow. Thank you for giving us our lesson on friendship.
Starting point is 00:56:37 Thank you, Emily. The thing is also, I feel like, like, us as men and, like, we mature later than, than, like, women. For sure. So it's, like, certain things snap us into it. Yeah. Like, like, it was my kids. So it was like, I didn't have a choice. And then it happens a couple times, at least for me.
Starting point is 00:56:53 It's like, first when I, like, kind of woke up was like, oh, I'm having a kid. No, but I have homies who, even when I had kids, they were there. And instead of, like, making it an awkward situation of, like, oh, you know, I don't want to hang out. They were present. Like, yeah. They would be like, yo, I have kids. I'll go kick it out your crib. We've got to do different things.
Starting point is 00:57:09 We can't light it up anymore, maximum. You have a kid. I will never do that to you. Yeah. I'll think you. I've had a kid in my whole life. I've been a mom forever. And I've been there.
Starting point is 00:57:18 Wow. Without kids, still there. Woo. Crazy you guys. We're so much better than you guys. Just kidding. Don't ask all the other people I've cut off. Hold on.
Starting point is 00:57:25 No, hold on. Hold on. Well. Brown Bag. It's Brown Bag on Power 106. Number one for hip hop.

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