Brown Bag Mornings - Best Of Brown Bag Mornings 12/29/23

Episode Date: December 29, 2023

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All right, check this out. We couldn't find babysitters for the week. They're at home too, so that means we're in bed right now. We hope you enjoy these moments from a while ago. Brownback mornings, I'm Firewood O'S6. What's up? This is Be Real from Cypress Hill. Where are you from, S?S.

Don't you know I'm local? The most fun cities rank in America. Oh, okay. The fun cities. Fun cities. LA's number one. In California, got three out of 20. And I want to ask you guys, where do you think,

L.A. ranked. Number one. I want to say we're at the top. Number four. Four? Number four. Yeah, I would say number one. Number one.

Yeah. It's L.A. It's L.A. California. You're sure, number one. L.A. ranked number 20. What?

Yes. 20. Are they counting like backwards down or like 20? Oh, my God. Okay. This is in America, right? Uh-huh. But California got three cities.

And L.A. ranked 20, but San Diego ranked 16. and San Francisco ranked number five. San Francisco? Yes. First of all, it's $30 to park anywhere in San Francisco. And it's cold up there. So who's number one?

Las Vegas. Oh, yeah. Yeah, but we're talking about California. That makes sense. That makes sense. Out of those three cities, San Francisco, San Diego, L.A., do you guys think that San Diego and San Francisco is way more fun than L.A.? I don't think San Diego is funner than San Diego or L.A.

San Diego is fun, though. San Diego is fun. It got great tacos. I know you guys would hate me or crick. No, no, I like San Diego a lot. In like the Gas Lime District and like all the restaurants and like they're really good food. The vibe is really nice too. Yeah, the beach is.

Go down the street, get some good Chinese. I'll give them that. San Francisco ranked better than both LA and San Diego at number five. Is it because they have more people? Maybe they voted more. Is it only rich people that voted? Yeah. Because I don't know.

San Francisco is pretty fun. When you go over there, the energy. He's cool. Getting your car broken into is fun? Just leave your windows down. That's the thing. You can get hyphy in San Francisco. Doesn't San Francisco?

It's not the same. It hits it, honestly last time, well, it is kind of fun, actually, now that you mentioned it. I went to San Francisco or maybe like four months ago or something, and when I was up there,

I was eating outside, like, on the curb, and, like, cars would just drive right past you like really fast. So that was like really scary. All you heard of fun. Yeah. They had a lot of self-driving cars. Oh, yeah.

They had a lot of self-driving cars. And then like a pastime over there is like you get to watch people break into cars. And then you get back to your car and you get to see like, peekaboo, is it mine or not? Like, you know, it's kind of like. Oh, exciting. Yeah. And then you get so excited when your car isn't broken into. You're like, yes, it wasn't me.

Dinner and a show right there. Yeah. So honestly, it is kind of fun. You know what? I just changed my ranking. It is fun. Number five. That's right. It's so much fun.

Basically, Grand Deptado 6 right there. You don't got to wait until 2025. I also wonder who voted because I do think that L.A., it's like if you come as a tourist to L.A., like you and you Google what to look at as a tourist, they send you to like Hollywood. They send you to like the sign. And I feel like there's so much more like deep cut things in L.A.

You can do it. Like what? That like a tourist is not going to know about. Like what? But Hollywood is like shows. Like views What can I do here? Food A lot of good food

You are You're from Orange County I am That's what I'm saying Okay what would you tell me to do If I don't know like the deep cuts What you're talking about We're going to East L.A

I'm going to see Caesar Travis Boulevard I'll show you all everything around there Some good tacos Not some Hollywood tacos Exactly You go to Echo Park Silver Lake We go to Piccolandia And Pico Rivera

Turn up there exactly See some cabalos I forget. See, like, people don't know that. No. They come and they'll be like, let's go to the Hollywood Walk of Fame, and then you're walking, and then your car can get broken into. Leave it?

Have you guys ever gone to, like, the Hollywood tour thingies? No, never mind. Neither have I. No. Is that crazy? Every time I'm in Hollywood, I look at the buses, and I've always wanted to experience it, and I've never done it. Me too.

And it's like right here. It's literally down the street. I want to pull up to him, be like, you guys know who I am and just see their reaction. No, they don't. Exactly. That's what the reaction I want. wanting to get from them. It's like,

no, who are you? And then just drive off. He's that guy from the Airbnb video. He went skinny dipping. That's a skinny dipper. Oh, man. That's a while, though. L.A. B. number 20?

Okay, so we don't get credit like for Disneyland? A, A, A, A, A, that's all season does not be taking mic. It's close enough. When it's conveniently, we claim Orange County, okay? All of us bloody. Come on. That is true. The happiest place on Earth.

We got Universal Studios. We got Universal Studios. studios we got knott's very far yeah we'll take credit that too Dodger Stadium's fun too Dodger Stadium oh you're right you don't get credit for all that Dodger Stadium is for sure better than the Padres

love spot I don't know about that one reverse it reverse it because I'm going to take that one back right now that Dodger Stadium got a better vibe and that should not make us number 20 that should make us at least number five yeah you're right

yeah as much as I love Dodger Stadium I would also love if they had like a little mini stadium for sometimes when it's like Do we have to go up the hill every single game? Like do we have this one in downtown that we can go to like half the time that we're just like save? It's not even that bad of a hill. Bro, what are you talking about?

It's because he's out of shape. Have you ever hired it? It's called the shortstop, bro. Yeah. Yeah, exactly. Come on, man. Brown Bag. It's Brown Bag on Power 106.

Number one for hip hop. All right, check this on, homie. You need a homie or need some help. We need your head. We need a line? I mean, online. We've got you for the homie help line. Barbara needs our help beating her daughter.

I'm just kidding. No, she's not. She's not. I'm just kidding. No, they handle things with words. Yes, they do. Yes, okay. She should have counted to three.

Yeah. So her daughter, Bethany ruined her stepsisters, Maria's Kinzenera dress. And now Barbara is, you know, making, Bethany pay her back by getting a job. And that caused a wedge with Barbara and Bethany now. They're beefing it. Yeah.

And she wants to know what to do. Barbara needs our help. Bethany's 16. And Bethany told her, Mom, you're taking Maria's side on this. Even though I sharpie markered all over her can't address that cost $3,000 with alterations. You still be on my side. I'm your daughter.

She already has a dad and a mom. Stop it, mom. You're my mom. You're picking sides, Mom. Can the dry cleaners take out a Sharpie? I don't know. It depends on the material. No, probably not.

Dresses like that have to be flawless. They have so many photos. And then even the self-consciousness of like knowing that there's Sharpie somewhere, you know. She ripped it too, didn't she? Maria don't need that. Yeah, she whipped the back. Yeah. So I don't think it to fix that.

She gave her money. She gave her money to Barbara gave her husband and his ex money to help with the dress but she's like no now my daughter has to pay for it and daughter is mad because his mom is just like

yo like he must be annoyed yeah what in Bethany's point of view the 16 year old what was your mom supposed to do yeah that's right back her up

yeah Sharpie all over you should have turned on the TV when she told you to like that's not going to worry there's episode of Jerry Springer yeah come onette Louise and to waste

perfectly good Sharpie it's messed up oh you're so bad I you're so bad okay let's take to phone lines. Irene, who's on the line? We have Andrea from LA on line one. Andrea.

Bethany is a brat. If I was Maria, her mom, or her stepdad, honestly, I would just uninvite Bethany all together because if that's what she did to the dress, imagine what type of other things she's going to do during the party.

What are anything about that? Yeah, the keynes in a couple weeks. She should still make her pay those $3,000 because besides, I believe they mentioned that she had her sweet 16, like a year ago. Yeah. So it's like she had her moment.

She had her little time to shine. She should let her sister, her step sister, have her little moment. The quince dress, when I had my quinceanera, that was one of the first things I chose out. And it was not cheap. No. To ruin it two weeks before, it doesn't matter if, like, the dry cleaners could go and fix it.

It's what you did, your actions. You're just a hater, period. Yeah. Dang. And that's why your dad's not even. a picture just kidding you probably gave her a whole too you know just like bethany did all the bad stuff yeah totally gave her a whole no one's on bethany's side Irene is anybody on the line no because she's a brat yeah I don't think anybody

Irene who also got boy in is old yeah you can't say the other B word she's 16 years old she's going through it she's teenage child with emotions her name starts with a B all right all right who else Irene we have we have Irene from Boyle Heights on line 3 Oh, okayia. Hi, Irene. Hi. How are you, baby girl? So what you do is to have little Miss Bethany,

have Maria sharpie her dress and be like, you wanted to be about you. So it's Sharpie the not-so-expensive dress about you. And have her wear it to the Quintayera and be like, now it's all about you. Okay. Okay. I love it.

Irene, I'm witch Irene, but can we all understand that the punishment has been set already? They've already punished this girl. There's more. That's not what she's hitting us up for. There's room for more punishment. She's hitting us up because her daughter, Beth and me is saying, you're not on my side, mom. You are choosing Maria over me, mom.

That's her issue. She's going to get over it. It's not, hey, let's, what else can we do? Dog pal. Right. Everybody was like, this, good. Because I remember, don't let her go to the party. As a matter of fact, let her go to the party with another sharpie dress.

We already have the punishment underway. Sharpier our eyebrows, too. She wasn't if she could still fix, she could still fix her relationship with her actual daughter. Yeah, she's going to follow through. Yeah. And eventually time's going to let it fade out. After the Kinse, spend time with her and be like, yo, like, do you understand what you

did? Like, it's not cool. And then she's going to be mad for maybe like two more months. I know it's not cool, mom, but wrong or right, you're supposed to be on my side. Nope. You're my mom. You're all I have. We have Lisa from Inglewood online too.

I have a blended family. I've raised other people's kids. But one thing that I did with my kids is I sat down and I took out time whether their parent was in their life or not. Right. So let them know where they are. You have to secure children because if you don't secure them now, then they become adults that are invidioso. In other words, envious, and strife and contention, there may be more underneath that layer.

And so what I do for a living, I'm a fan of college. That's somebody that actually deals with grief and loss. And so when you're dealing with blended situations, a ripped dress with a sharpie is intentional. Right. That's intentional harm. I'm intentionally trying to hurt you. So it's twofold. How do you mirror that to a 14-year-old and a 16-year-old?

You can't say that they're 16 and they're going through it because then there'll be that same 16-year-old that is torched in somebody's house. When they're older. You understand what I'm saying? When they're older, I'm dealing with that with the colleagues that I'm working with now. So what it is is that how do we get to the bottom of what's going on? What's really going on with her? Is it really? Is it that you're missing your dad?

Is it that I have to take the time. And as a parent, I have to be transparent because I've parented out of guilt. And so what I have to learn to do is put it in perspective with my son. with my daughter, with my blended children, because they were not steps, they were mine, they were given to me by God. And it doesn't make a difference with circumstances, what parent was there or not.

When a child knows that they do not feel wanted, they act out. And then we got adults acted out, shoots in the street, and doing all kinds of stuff. But that's Dipi Lisa spin. But if it was 20 years ago, she wouldn't have got the chanclet out.

I love it to Dizza. See, and now give me your fake, real advice, Vic, that you said oh I have an actual mature I'm mature. It was very mature. It was very mature. Go ahead. It was along the line of what Lisa was saying.

Titi. Titi. Okay. So it was that, okay, she has to pay the money back. Yeah, she's going to do that, right? But then tell her, once you pay this back, me and you are going to go on a trip together, just us two. Daughter and mom bonding. Now say what you were actually going to say because I know when you set up.

What? You just said what Maximo said. Yeah. You didn't say that? Yeah, he said, yeah, just spent time on her afterwards. Spent time on after me. On this show, fool. What show?

I know you. No, I swear. Don't tuck your tail. I don't know how to tuck. It was one time. Oh, six. Don't tell on yourself, bro. All right.

She's got to figure out what's behind Bethany's, like, actions. Yeah. Imagine what's like your last show. Do you miss your dad? Because that could be it. Just saying it to her. Do you need to feel secure? Do you need to feel loved?

All right. Well, there's that. Look, keep it here. Brown bag. It's Brown Bag on Power 106. Number one for hip hop. Scrolling with the homies. Greg.

Gregorio. Yeah. Can we just wear name tags? Oh, yeah. Oh, actually, I am. Yeah, good job, Angie. You might start a student. Greg, what were you doing on your phone?

I was looking through my phone. I was scrolling. Okay. And this girl is having a really bad day because she dropped her phone in somewhere you do not ever want to drop it in your life. She's in a porta potty. No way. In a porta potty. I thought we're just going to go toilet with it.

I thought at home toilet, boom. And this is not just like a clean, like this is a public porta potty that has been heavily used. And she drops her phone inside of her. Myximo just went in there before. Probably. It looked like it. Listen to the audio. Listen to how she sounds.

Oh my God. Oh my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. She called her friend to help her because she put her whole arm inside of the porter potty. You know. Yes, it is hearing that? Like I smelled it.

Right? Yeah. I want to know. How to hold my breath. Would you leave it? Yeah. That phone is cooked. Shut up.

I think I would leave it. Like, are you still going to put that up on your face? Like, that's so nasty. And it's, oh, you got to put on your face. You got a text. You got a touch. That's the thing, too. Like, it's sunk only to the bottom.

So your whole arm's going in. Shut up. It's going to come out with like choro. That's a whole. Okay. In the perfect. In a perfect world, that wouldn't happen, but in a perfect world, like, there was, like, a cool piece of toilet paper that was just, like, hovering above everything. Oh, no.

Like, it just landed on toilet paper, so it's kind of, like, hovering a little bit. And then maybe I could just, boop, grab it. Because I would, if that happened to me, I would know instantly, I can't go back and get it. She had to bring her friend so that they could, like, observe and see, can we get this? Is this a recomb mission? It sounds like they were, like, searching through the water for it. Don't do that. Like, you should know.

It's not even water. That's pee. I thought. Like, they thought. I bet you they have Air Force ones as bar shoes. Oh, probably. Yeah. That's what they sounded like.

I do got to give credit to the friend, though. That's a good friend. The best part, the middle of it, the friend's like, I need to go pee. I heard like a little peddle. Oh. Wait, play, play, play. Right there. The horses.

Yeah. Oh, my God, Katie. Oh, my God, Katie. Oh, my God, Katie. Oh, my God, Katie. Yep. My Air Force is going to get even more dirty. Cool public.

No, that phone belongs to the Port-a-Potty. Yeah, that's gross. Have you guys dropped my phone in the toilet? Like at home? That's different. And then you go in and you get it. You have to get it. I know, I know.

I feel like one of my biggest fears is dropping my AirPods in the toilet. Like the headphones? Yeah. That's like one of my kids. I hope it happens because your ex gave it to you. And you don't talk to her. and she deserves it. I've just thrown up on my phone.

It's scarlet. All I've done is thrown up on your phone. I think it's different because it's your own filth. True. Compared to that being like everyone's filthy. Did you get a new phone after? No, I cleaned it. Okay.

I just think of like the little areas that you don't really clean. The one you just had in your hand ordering food? You're so disgusting. That's so sick. And you know that like men don't really know how to clean things? They don't know how to clean it. That little area where your ear goes that has like a little. little scream.

Let me take the case off. Let me see how to have your earwax. Gross. And you ever dropped your phone? Blithi. It's all cracked. But like in something crazy. No,

nothing like that. Thankfully, my mom has like in the toilet, but she scooped the back. Whoa. Oh, I like that. It went through hands. Not that she,

slurped anything. I know, but why did you make that sound? Because she's good at at sounds. Yes, my bad. I was with you till the sound. I was. Never?

No, never. Oh my God. I know. You know why? It's because people put their phones in their pocket in their back pocket. And I usually don't have any. Back pockets. I'm not going to lie.

I've been to the restroom at the club before and I'm like, oh, I've almost dropped it. Because I'm a little tipsy. Oh. Yeah. Greg. A little tipsy. It's cool. We need to just save you.

Why? Why? He doesn't want to be saved. Yeah, he doesn't want to be saved. I'm for the streets. You're not. You're not for the streets. You don't even want you.

It's a big. Oh, it's not a face. What is that? It's a lifestyle. It's not a face, Mom. You live in a cul-de-sac. You are not for the street. Brown bag.

It's brown bag on Parano-6. Number one for hip-hop. All right, check this out, homie. You need a homie or need some help. We need your help. We need a line. I mean, online. We've got you for.

The homie help lines. Nick from Canoga Park got baby mama problems. Oh, baby mama drama. Exactly. He sent us a DM and said, Yo, I need a homie help line. My girl and I recently had a baby girl, Lily Beth, who turns three months old last week.

This is our first baby together, and it's been a blessing, but also brought tension to our relationship. Our current problem is that my girl wants to pierce my baby girl's ears, and I feel it's too soon. She says it's tradition to pierce girls' ears at this age, and that I'm overreacting. Her mom is also a metiche, and chimes in.

taking her side. I just think it's too soon and not worth making her cry because my girl thinks it looks cute. This might sound stupid, but why traumatize her for our personal beliefs? I feel we can wait and maybe even let her decide if she wants earrings when she grows up. How do I stop this? This is similar to like when people shave their baby's heads like the girls. Oh my God, don't even bring back that trauma. I didn't want to shave my baby's head. And they And my ex-baby daddy, his sister, while she was watching, my baby shaved his head. And they were all laughing because they were, you know, babies would wear a beanie. And they were like waiting for my reaction.

And my reaction was just crying. That's all sad. That shouldn't be your decision to prank. And the thing is like ex-baby daddy, like he is very, he was a prankster in their family. And it was a bunch of sisters and then him as like the prancer. So they took it out on me. my baby. That's too funny. Oh my god, I have such trauma. People do that and that's also like a discussion couples have.

Yes, that a couple should decide, not your family. Yeah, sorry. While they're just different. Yeah. That's messed up. And then it's like, oh, watch, watch, what's what's let me do when she sees this? Oh my God. Like, this is not for pain. No. Jesus. Yeah. Well, so let's get back to the earrings. Who do we have no momasita? We have Gio from Long Beach on line nine. All right. Gio.

I had the exact same thing where my soul. My wife was like, you know, Nick said, Matiche and would like to put her words in, you know, every situation that comes about the baby. Well, the wife and I, we talked about the ear pierced before, you know, while the baby was still in the oven. Yes. And we came to an agreement that we were going to do it out of six months. So, you know, one month goes by, two months goes by, and three months come around. And there's my swagger. And she's out here, meja, when are we going to do the ears pierce?

just this and that, you know, and unfortunately, I kind of feel a little betrayal because my wife was supposed to be like, you know what mama me and me. We decided, yeah. Situated, she, what she did was kind of bit her tongue, set the appointment and told me, hey, babe, we're going to do the ear piercing. And then right there, threw me off because, you know, there's a line of communication that we normally have, but that moment there, it threw me off. So I told her, hey, what's going on? You know, and, you know, just to speed it all up, I bit my tongue. Oh. And to satisfy my wife, you know, I did it. Well, no offense to the swagger, but I didn't really care about how she said.

Yeah. And with that being said, I was, because I already had the agreement on the six-month base, it sped up, and for the three-month base, I didn't want to participate. So when it came down to holding a baby down, my wife couldn't hold the baby down because the baby wanted to be with dad so when I grabbed her she was super calm and at that moment I was just like

I told the earpiece her hurry up and get it done with that being said for Nick I understand the Swagra sometimes wants to get a power control over a relationship that's technically not hers but it is what it is I would say do it

do it after three month base yes my baby did cry see my poohs oh you know since I seen her cry. You know what I mean? But she passed so quick. Two minutes. By the time we got back into the car,

by the time I buckled her car seat, she didn't even know what happened. So I would say, do it. Because on top of that, once the ears pierce are in, my brother, you know, who I love so much, my only brother that I have,

he went about my daughter jewelry and it made me feel more special. So I would say, do it, Nick. Do it for your wife. And if I want this, Pouqueton, but for the future other decisions you do have to put your foot down in

and don't be afraid to tell your Swagra'Raeira hey you know what Soregra I respect you you know we're family because you know I'm with your daughter but there's a line

you can not cross so that's what I would put Just just cut to the chase tell her You don't temetas Yeah Mesa Hey Joe

I love that That's great advice though I read you have Elizabeth from Sherman Oaks on line one Elizabeth Good morning

Mamasita I say don't do it. Okay. I actually went to a professional person that pierces ears, and they told me that if you pierce your ears at a very young age and life, then there's a possibility that the piercings won't be parallel. That's why my ears are crooked. Because your ears are, yes.

Real? Yay. Like, once higher? Like, yeah, one's lower, and then this one goes a little bit more towards my, I don't I can tell. If I take pictures, it's not straight on it. It's to the side. So then you don't see how students are like, they're connect the dots.

That's crazy. That's crazy. Use science against them. Science. Science. All right, I didn't. Who else we got, Mamasita? We have Lydia from Monrovia on line eight.

I have two daughters. They both got their ears, peers at two months. It was a really quick pinch. They didn't even cry for like two minutes. They don't remember anything. They both love them. I mean, I have a friend that she waited to get her daughter's ears pierced. And when she got the first earring done, it hurts so bad she didn't end up doing the second one.

Oh, yeah, that's real. That's a real thing. She just got one like Barry Barnes. That's a real thing. That's crazy. Is that where the style started? One? I think the overall problem is the issues with the Swagra being metici.

Yes. Yeah. I think they could figure out the when the piercing and what age, all of that. This is more. Yeah. This is going to be like this is one instance that happens. And then if we do it, then there's going to be a, another time.

And then meanwhile, I'm just helping them. These fools barely had their first baby. I've had seven, so let me just. Right. You know, like, I'm here to help. But, you know. Yeah, next week is going to be something like, she's using the wrong brand of baby oil.

You know, I just stand against it. Bro, I'm going to be checking every person that has their ear piercing. Ask them when they got it, see if it's crooked or not. Like, now your ear piercing's looking like the Tweety Bird ice cream when it melts off off and one's up here, one's down here. Crazy. Perfecticular. Brown bag.

It's Brown Bag on Power 106. Number one for hip hop. S-I-M-P. So many sims, okay? Yes. We have our top three nominees for Simp of the week, okay? The number one man came from Japan. Yes.

And he walked all through to create a GPS. Like, you know, I'm in the Nike apps. It shows you how you run. Your route. Your route. And his route said, marry me with the heart to his girl. And we just thought that was so simple. Because you could have done so.

It took him six months to write that on GPS. Yeah, that's a lot. He had to travel all through Japan. Yeah. Yeah. And to get it. And I hope she said yes. But we just said, you know what?

This is very simple. Because you could have done something for her. You essentially went on a trip for six months. For yourself. Exactly. I don't know. Yeah. Next up, Dennis Rodman.

Our good old Dennis Rodman. Angeli. Angelie. Oh. Angie finally learned about this week. Who Dennis Rodman was. Some NBA player. Some NBA player.

A famer. Legend. Pop culture icon. Well, he currently has the face of his girlfriend tatted on his cheek. And it's like a filtered face too. It looks weird. Terrible tat. Yeah, crazy tat.

But he loves her. And he was like, dude, I wanted to show my love and loyalty. Yeah. And we're like, damn, you just showed your simpiness. Right? That's Simp number three nominee. Yes. But the number one, simp of this week actually came to us through a homie help line.

Like, his name is Samuel. Samuel, we have you on the line, Samuel. You didn't even know what you were calling for, huh? What's up? What's up, Sam? All right, Sam, let's talk about it. We put you on Homey Helpline because you sent us a DM about having fallen in love with the girl you were talking to for two years. And you show up to, like, after helping her out for, like, run an errands, you show up to her family's house.

And there's a dude there that starts calling her babe. and you're tripping out. She tells you, look, I don't want to be committed. I'm kind of hippie. And I don't want like a relationship relationship. She told you you guys were going to have a conversation, but then you guys have never, you haven't had a conversation since, right?

No, no, no conversation. Nothing. Wow. But you love this girl. You would want to be her only one, right? You know, and actually, I mean, she wasn't all that, you know? Okay. Talk to us about being with her for two years, but not, like, locking her down.

You know, it's cool. She, I already said she's a hippie, so I don't even know where to start. How did you guys meet? Yeah. Oh, I met her at school, you know, at a school thing. You met her at a school thing. You guys were, like, in a situation ship, like, she wasn't really, like, you guys never made it official. exactly that's exactly what it is um but she told me she said she said no relationship and then this

dude pop up and he's calling her babe i'm like i'm like what he's calling her babe after you went through like a whole day of running errands with her and you pull up to the crib and you see this dude caught her babe he didn't even flinch at you he didn't even care who you were No. What? I took her to hire to create a concert last year. Wow. That cost me five bills.

Oh, man. That was not a... So you spent money on her. Wow. You spent money on her. And then what happened when you pulled up? Did he meet her at the door? Did he say hi to you?

No. Oh, you know what? He did say hi to me. But he was already there. Yeah. was already there. And you guys pull up and he says, what's up,

hey, what's up, babe's friend? Yeah, he didn't question you. At first, but I see them sitting all close together

and then I hear him say that so I had to get up out of there, you know? Okay, and then she texts you like, we need to talk, right? But then you haven't talked. No.

Are you a little sad? Are you a little sad, hippie? It's okay to be sad. It's okay to be sad. People go through that. You DM does for a reason, bro, you said I don't know what to do.

Oh, yeah, well, you guys think I should do. Yeah. Okay, well, I got some advice. You could totally ruin their relationship, bro. You could totally ruin their relationship with the timeline that you had. Just be like, how long have you known her? This is how long I've known her? This is the last time we hung out.

If you have to embellish a little bit, you know what I'm saying? Like, you can ruin this relationship. You have it in the palm of your hand right now. You need to go full force. You're an atomic bomb. She hurt you. You hurt her and him, all right? Not physically or anything like that.

It seems like you don't want to hurt her, though. And it seems like you're also like she did tell me she didn't want to be serious. No, I want to hurt her, man. Oh, he does. He does. You want to hurt her. Oh, my God. Do you think that?

Okay, what's her name? What's her number? Let's call her. Her name is Rochelle. Can you spell that? Rochelle. What? city is she from?

I think she's from Compton. Reshover, oh, that's why you're quiet. Oh, that's why you're quiet. A hippie from Compton? Okay. Yeah. All right. Is it a black hippie?

It's a team. All right. Look, check this out. You show up that fool. Do you think he knew, he knows how she is? Do you think you could ruin their relationship? You know what? Now I think about it, they're hippies,

so they're probably into like a three, four person. Oh. Maybe they were trying to recruit you that day. Maybe that was the last errand you got to do. Was he cuter than you? Be honest. Oh, he got a neck. He said, hell.

How does he look? He got what? He got, you know, he's probably the same height as me. A little bigger, a little darker. He got glasses, like a really patchy neck beard. He's a hippie, too? I want to say he probably is, yeah. Oh, puppy.

Wow, hippie love She left you for a hippie dog He probably didn't even shower And she left her I know She probably likes that Oh, he's crazy Sam Or maybe Sam

showered so she didn't like him Yeah Sam We did that one thing That he was there again Sorry Sam are you sad for real Are you over it?

I'm way over it You're way over You're way over You're up To soup Sam Sam Brown bag

It's brown bag It's brown bag on Power 101 6 Number one for hip hop. Guess the movie. Home alone. Why were you guys pretending? You know it. I know.

Home alone. Come alone. Right? Did it remind you of anything, Angie? No. No. What are you talking about? You said you were home alone.

No. Vic shut. Big pay attention, bro. That's why you can't leave breaks. Parvone who's things, Brown and why about home alone stories. Irene, you were home alone. What happened?

Yes. One time I was like six, Raymond was like two years old. And by the way, Irene knows this is going to get her in trouble with her mom, but she can't stay here right now. It was so long ago.

Like, if I'm over it, maybe. Then you could get over it. I'm telling you. Oh, right. Sounds like funny way. Shut up, shut up. Shut up, like some of kiss ass. So I was like six because Raymond had just turned like one and a half maybe.

And I woke up and I was in the house. was by myself. And I was like, dude, my mom's not here. I was like, maybe she's in the kitchen. I go into the kitchen, nobody's there. Nobody's in the living room. And then Raymond starts crying. There's no bottle.

He's one. Yeah, he's like one and a half. And usually I just give him a bottle and he shuts up. He's not shutting up. There's no bottle. And I'm like, damn, what am I going to do? And I'm freaking out. And to me, I'm so small.

I'm like five minutes. It's like an hour to me. And I'm like, my mom's not here yet. So I put on Raven's little sweater and we start walking out of the house because I'm just like, I'm going to go to the neighbor and tell them that we're home alone. We're walking up the driveway. Which, by the way, is a very good thought. She's being responsible.

So walking up the driveway, and then my mom turns into the driveway. She's like, what are you doing? And I was like, well, you let me home alone with the baby. She's mad that you went outside. Yeah, and I'm like, why did you leave me alone? And then when my dad got home, I got in trouble because he was like, why were you going to go to the neighbor's house? The neighbor could have done something to you.

And I'm like, you guys love me. With no instructions. That is gaslighting. That is why. Yeah. That's what did I do wrong? I was trying my best. For real.

You guys were in a situation. Yeah, it was crazy. Oh, Irene. Can I hug you, please? I can imagine. Can I hug little Irene? Fine. You guys talk to her.

You know that I think about it. One time my brother told me a story. He was like 7-2 and there was an earthquake. And he had to take me out the crib and run out. Because my parents were at the grocery Oh, and he was four, right? My brother was like six or seven, two and I was like one or two.

Oh, that was the day I was born. Earthquake? Yeah. Yeah, my brother had to get me out to crib and run out. Big earthquake. Yeah. He saved my life, low key.

Dude. Greg, I think you have probably one of the worst home alone stories ever and it just makes all kids look so whack. Kids, these other ones make the parents look whack. Yeah. So it was in a smart choice of my life. And it was me and my cousin.

We were really young. And, you know, when you're really young, you think the little things are big things. So I had an Xbox. I had guitar hero. My mom got me all, like, brand new video games. What a great mother. Great mother. Awesome mother.

Probably worth about over $400 worth of stuff. Yeah, especially if it's around the time where it's popping, popping. Exactly. All brand new. I was that cousin had the fun games and all the nice games. Anyway, me and my cousin decided to walk to a game store and turn everything. in and claim $50 for it. 50 bucks, hell yeah, let's take it.

To you, it's like money, like dollars. Like, you didn't have, you had zero dollars. You know how much Cheetos we had after that? It was crazy. You went and you turned in an Xbox and Guitar Hero. I'm saying everything. All my games, my guitar hero, my Xbox, the remotes, the cable, everything. And you turned it into the store.

Yep. The store takes your valuable good. The store couldn't do that. And gave you $50. $50. The dude, grown adult was like, here's $50. The adult who did that? Dude, he was in a lot.

He must have been laughing a little smokers. I think I'm the reason the rule is you need a guardian for to go do that now. I got whooped by my mom that day. Exactly. The best part about it? Couldn't get anything back. My mom went back. She's like, sorry it's what happened.

Yeah. Sold it. To a kid. Yep. To a kid. That's a kid. Yeah, honestly, my mom would have raised hell in that place. Yeah, bro.

It was a good experience. Yeah, got ripped off at a little. That's really bad out there. And did you feel comfortable enough to tell your story now, but when you were filing your mom, let you alone? Oh, it's because my mom didn't even know. What do you mean? It's because I didn't want to go to my babysitter anymore. I was like five years old.

And so instead of walking home to the babysitter, I went straight to the apartments to where we live. Okay, hold on. And I broke you and walk home, walk to the babysitter after school. Yeah, after school. And instead you walk to your house. And I walked to my house. And so I broke into the house. Like, I had it all planned out.

I left the, I cracked the window open and the, before I left. I love this. And I went inside and I remember I washed dishes. I clean, like, I started cleaning just so my mom can tell, so I can tell my mom, I don't want to go to the babysitter anymore. Yeah, like, see, look what I can do. Yeah, I can take care of myself. I'm like, it's because they don't feed me and they don't pick me up.

I don't have stuff, but she was a mean babysitter or what? It was my Tia. It was my Tia, too. My Tia was so mean. She wouldn't feed you? She wouldn't feed me because she said that I ate too much, but I was hungry. Oh my God. No, that's true.

There's always that one Tia. Did she have kids? She had kids. And she's probably nice to her kids. Of course. I have a Tia that would take care of us. I told you guys. Take care of us and literally would treat the boys and a lot of her kids were boys.

Give them everything they wanted and then look at me and like give me a rotten wayava. And I'm like, oh, thanks. You're giving me. No, letti. And I told my dad, and my dad, like, he's like, no, this can't be happening to my baby. We go, and then she was the nicest person. No, me, huh? I would never do that to you.

And I'm like, and again, that was gaslighting. Gaslighting. Oh, my God. You know what my. Ventries and centuries. And then I felt bad, like, am I, like, should I have told my dad? Because I knew I'm going to come here again. You're selling this.

You're selling this really nicely. And then you're not going to give me wrong why I was again. No. My babysitter would also hide the toilet paper. from us, from me, because she would say that I would, listen, she's your aunt. Because she would say that I would like, I would play with it too much.

And so then she would gaslight me and I would be like, oh, maybe I do it and it is my fault. So I was sometimes, yeah. That's what I'm like, I don't want to make it that. I mean, I'm next, we got a therapy. Any therapists want to call me? Talk about childhood trauma. How do we get here from home alone?

Yeah, I'd rather be left home alone than with the Tia. At this point. Brown bag. It's brown bag on Power 106. Number one for hip hop. All right, check this out, homie. You need a homie or need some help.

We need your help. We need a line. I mean, phone line. We've got your fault. The homie help line. The homie anonymous needs some help, all right? Anonymous. Can we, should we call him something else?

I like Anonymous. I like Anonymous. It sounds like a real name. Okay. We'll call him Anonymous. If you name your kid Anonymous, let me know. Imagine. So he found out his ex did.

something and then he had to DM us. He said, I want to remain anonymous, please. I was in a relationship with a woman for 18 months. We broke up two months ago after I had a stroke and I was focusing on my mental and physical health. Wow. Yeah. We're amicable now and we recently noted, and hold on, and she recently noted she wants to work on getting back together. I recently found her new Twitter and she's been posting about another dude.

his photos and screenshots of combos don't know how I should feel should I move on from this okay it looks like she dumped him already so she's moved on after everything this is not the same story but I've seen I know somebody that had a similar situation

and what happened is that he had a stroke and that stroke brought like his confidence down so he got into a depression and they ended up splitting so it's crazy to see a similar story happening right here often and you know it's crazy you know how you were saying you knew about all these other stories yeah i was reading a a study actually and most women get left when they get sick by their even their

husbands they say if in hospital workers have confirmed that there will be even husbands that serve divorce papers at the hospital if a woman's terminally ill or gets incapacitated in that sense we seem trippy until it's like it's crazy the things that happen when And it actually is in sickness and in health. Wow. Yeah. Crazy. Crazy.

I'm going to look for the stat on that because it's a crazy percentage of women that get left and divorced while they're terminally ill. In the hospital. Yeah. So take that. Wow. Sorry. All right. Sorry, ladies.

I had a bag of stuff. Maria. Good morning. Maria. No, Marie. Marie. Marie. It's Valerie.

Oh, my God. Mary. Valerie, hold on. I'm sorry. Irene. Okay. You know what's funny? Is that Irene corrected us.

Yes. No, actually, guys, it's Marie. Valerie was like, it's actually Valerie. All right, Val. I think he should just let the relationship go for the reason being that he seems a little toxic to me. Like, why would he go lurking after they're already, you know, some sort of agreement that they're going to try again? I feel like this is something.

he's going to be throwing in her face throughout the relationship. Like, oh, you did this, you did that. So I feel like you should just let it go because why is he looking for some type of, you know, ammunition or some type of confirmation. Some type of issue. And even it's just like you're not even focusing on wow, she came back or wow, she really wants to work it out with me throughout this tough time. And like she's allowed me that space to heal.

You just went to, wow, she was not with me. Yeah. She did this, that. What was she up to? Yeah. That has a point. That has a point. Who else we're talking to Irene?

We're talking to Susie, I think. From Santa Ana on Line 3. Susie. Susie from Santa Ana. Hi, Susie. What's up, Susie? Susie. Honestly, Anonimo needs to have dignity for himself because he just, come on.

He went through a stroke. Homegirls will be here while being out for her to come back to him. Like, no, like, no, like, no, it's a bien, you know? Yeah. Let's say Anonimo leaves her. And he starts dating. again, if you were to be someone that meets him and he kind of says, like, yeah, I had a stroke. Like, is that a turnoff or turn on? Because it could also be in his sake. Like, I don't know

if it's going to be something that girls are going to want to get into a relationship knowing, like, this stuff happens already. Well, I mean, in this time, if you come across a girl that's with it and to there to support you, you hold on to her and you keep her, right? Um, you, it might be a hidden miss for him. Some girls are with it. Some girls are not with it. Yeah. But it's just whatever he comes along and he'll know if homegirls down for him or not. And, I mean, in this world and this time, values are there. Values are not there. Right.

And if he's lucky, you know, he'll might meet the girl and say, hey, you know what, I don't anymore. Let's do this together. Yeah. Who am I? You know, I'm here to help you and let's move off from this, you know? But he just needs to take it as a lot, work on himself. See what areas in need he has right now. and, you know, I think sometimes we don't want to take the time to wait and see what comes to us because, you know, we just want it right there and know.

There's a fear of that unknown for sure. Yeah. Tazzi hit us up again. I want to see if he sent us the link of her little Twitter, Twitter. Reese, see you. And, you know, let me move on. And now I got him back to being able to walk and run again. So he's living life. He's traveling around the world on his own.

Wow. That's so awesome. There's light at the end of the time. Does he ever talk to you about, like, his relationship? Does he, like, does he ever tell you that he's sad, that he misses her, that he wishes they were still together? They were married for like two years, but you just felt like it goes better to move on. And now I think he's starting to date again, so he feels better for himself.

Yeah. Maybe that's what I know anyone needs to do. Maybe, like, for him, he hasn't tried. to talk to other people. And so that's why he's like, hey, this is the one that I got. And then you should get back with her. Because you guys were off. You can't put hold that against her.

That's what I'm taking to do. You haven't told us why you guys broke up. You said we broke up. I'm not going to say she left him or she any of that because he didn't tell me. And I also haven't seen the tweets that she posted about the other guy she was with and letting that thing out for. But, you know? Well, he could also just stay with her, but also cheat. You know, that's not funny.

Oh my God, Victor, nicomiences. Don't start. What? It's an option. No. Honestly, I'm going to just sit here and act like it's not an option. I know all the ladies were calling saying that he should leave her, but I feel like it's not a big deal. It's not.

To me, I feel like if she knows what she's getting back into. Yeah. She knows with it, so I think he should give her an answer. I mean, they also worked together 18 months, so it's not like they didn't have history. 18 months is a fairly long time. Yeah. Longer than a big relationships. Oh, for sure.

That's more than a year. Oh, why do I catch us straight. Oh, sorry. Well, you're telling you. That's why. Look, I know you won't. Just sent us an option. I'm going to check the, I'm, he sent us a DM?

I'm going to check the DM for more because I need to know more about the situation Brown Bag It's Brown Bag on Power 106 Number one for hip hop It's time to give a fool They're flowers I love them for

Yeah let's celebrate the Fool For Hispanic Heritage Month On Brown Bag Mornings Wow that's so cool Look you guys It's time to introduce into Brown Bag The Homie Lil'Rub

My On My On My On There I am Yeah Bro, this is incredible to have you in here We're just all staring like, oh my God, he's real Yes Oh, yeah, look to see here. Good, man.

Little Rob, brown ragging it. Brown bagging it. Oh, my God. We just wanted to hear you just say what's up. No, little Robb. We wanted to celebrate you because, like so many of us growing up, you're the music that played throughout everything, throughout the good times

that we had. If we needed someone to help us cry. If we needed someone to help us through the summer nights, there you are. And I feel like less and less we get to celebrate our people and it's so beautiful to just even have you come through this morning and just say what's up and that we love you. Yeah, I hope.

I appreciate it all, you know what I mean? Appreciate it all, for real. I've been doing this for a long time. Yeah, man. I never disrespect it or nothing like that. I appreciate every chance I get to do anything with you guys or with anybody, man. I just like to put my music out and have everybody, you know, enjoy what I do, man.

Being such a big fan base in L.A., but you're from SD. You know the rivalry, Padres and Dodgers. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Where do you stand with that? Like, how do you keep, like, that balance? Well, I did a video with my homoies from the harbor area, Spanish Fly, and we did a video out there,

and I had my present my San Diego jersey and that the Georgia jersey on. But some people didn't like that, man, so I got a couple comments in my, tell me, just stay home with that stuff. I don't pay like that, you know. But people that love the Padres, they love the Padres. We have a homie, he's from Whittier,

and he loves the Padres. And I got to, I threw the first pitch at the San Diego Padre Dodger game down there in San Diego. Yeah. It must be so hard for the Dodgers. I know. Like they want to boo you, but they can't. It's a little rock.

Yeah, but that's a good thing. I like, you know, I've got love for L.A., you know what I mean? Got primos out here and stuff like that too, man. So it's all to the good. It's always been all to the good. Oh, anywhere I go. I love everywhere I go. Yeah.

You know? No, most definitely. I have to ask, summer nights, the inspiration behind it. Like, what was it? Was it, was it, you know, a certain day that you, you got inspired. Like, was it the perfect summer day, summer night? Like, just tell me about the inspiration behind this.

Actually, a big shout out to my homeboy fingers, man. We just started working again. But that was in 2005. We did summer nights. He had a track for me that was just there. And I took it and started writing to it, man. And we just got it done. Like, I think that same day.

Were you feeling good? It's been a minute. So I don't remember. Yeah. I was feeling good. It's all right. Did you really polish up the chrome and call the Ruka on the phone and let her know that you were home alone? Oh, my God.

Oh, I'm serious. Were you really in the Pacific to be specific? Yeah, well, I used to live about a mile from the beach right there by the Pacific, so yeah. Oh, yeah. Yeah, real rats. All right. No cap. And I did polish up the chrome and come out on the phone.

I love it, little Rob, because this is stuff we say to each other, like on the day. Like, on the day, they just randomly, right? And that comes from you. But you're like the forefather of all of that. And it's great. Like, legit, you being in front of us,

when I was talking about, like, the mysteriousness of you, it just is really cool to even just have you and, like, be like, dude, he exists. Oh,

yeah. He's not just a player on DTA or something. Like, he's not just, like, you're real. Yeah, yeah, I'm not for real.

So one thing I wanted to say is, like, I feel like your music has lasted the test of time because you really put thought into your music. Like, you make actual. songs, records, you know? And unfortunately, I can't say that for everybody

that was in that scene because it was very timely. It was of that time. No disrespect to them, obviously. But just talk to me about your process and, like, crafting a record. You just dropped the record too much the other, you know, a couple weeks ago, and it still sounds fresh and new. And it's also just like, this is a record. This is not just a freestyle or whatever.

Just talk to me about your process. Well, honestly, too, man, well, it's always quality over quantity. You know what I mean? I like to have a, you know, quality no matter what, you know what? I don't sell that many. That's all to the good. It still sells bumping.

You know what I mean? And you can't deny that, you know? So I don't really trip on all the likes and all that kind of stuff. That's not really my thing. But the last album I put out was in 2014 RIP, recording in progress. But that was almost 10 years ago. You know what I mean? I haven't done nothing ever since, you know?

Dang. But my life had taken a little turn, you know, and doing some different things and stuff like that. And I kind of quit maybe like for the fifth time, you know? Yeah. It happens, it happened. Yeah, yeah. So then just watching out from. my life a little bit where I was at and uh yeah I met my lady right there so she she's been on me

for the past uh about six years to get my stuff done you know what I mean wow and um and we had this little boy right here and I was rocking the mic with me but uh but yeah it's got to make it clean um I started working with fingers again nice after uh 10 years and I went down there I did uh three sessions with them we did 11 songs wow and they're all bumping you know probably the cleanest stuff I've ever spit in a long time wow um so but yeah man I just make sure everything is right. I'll be at the pad right in my music and make sure that it's all memorized and everything

before I even go to the studio. So that way I'm not wasting anybody's time. I just go in the mic booth and I'll get it done in like 10 minutes or something, you know? I love that. Yeah, so I'm not wasting nobody's time. You know what I mean? Everybody's time is valuable.

All right, to another classic. I was just reminding everybody of this song. I said, get ready for a nasty time. Oh, that's right there. Talk to me about that record, freaking you. Well, I made my son to that record. Is that her favorite song? Yeah, that's her favorite song.

Oh, she looked up like, mama's here. Yeah, but that night she made me wear a bandana. I had to wear my bandana. But did that bandana breaker? What happened? A brown bandana. Brown ragging it. But look at it.

But look what we have right here, man. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But anyway, so that's like my Egyptian lover type music. because I was brought up on Egyptian lover

and all that kind of stuff, you know what I mean? So, you know, I'm just talking like that. You know what I'm going? I figure out of it goes right now, but yeah, it's like, you know, like Egyptian lover. That's my Egyptian lover, interpretation. Yeah. You know what I mean?

I found something. Oh, my God. What is that? I feel good. Is this summer nights? Yeah. Oh, is that too shaman? I'm feeling good now.

Ooh. All right, we have a little Robb's flowers. Thank you so much. Thank you for coming by Brown Bag. We would love to hear you give. us summer nights right here on Power 106. Let me see if I could do it. Come on.

Summer nights. Summer days just sitting around. But when the sun goes down, I'll be ready to party. And why's that? Ain't nothing like them summer nights. Yeah. Keep the top on dry. All the girls looking high.

Hit the vollo when we just don't stop. Party until the morning light. Come on. Yeah. Hey, I just kicked it at home. I polished up the crone. Come. on the phone, let her know I'm home alone is 7.30 and the sun's going down. It's a summer night

and the fun's going down. I picked her up and she looks all dolled up, sitting passenger in my ragging Paula. Yeah, I live her know that she looks beautiful to me. The rose is a nutby's face, but she is such a sight to see. The kind of woman that would put up a fight for me. The kind that wants to spend the summer nights with me. The temple's 80 and I'm cruising with my lady playing some Rafi Paghan, who baby, baby. I see my homeboy. and the cruising in their rides with their ladies sitting by their side. People think we look crazy, but I think we look classy. But then again, that's only if you ask me. Yeah, hey, what?

Yeah, I'll be ready to party. And why is that? Ain't nothing like them summer nights. Keep the top on drop. All the girls are looking hot. Hit the vollo when we just don't stop. Party until the morning light. Come on.

Hey, hey, hey, hey. My homeboys throw in a backyard boogie so everybody gets together to unwind, relax and have a fun time. The DJ's spinning, so I grab the mic and be like, ain't nothing like them summer nights. The party's packed with beautiful women, and the gang of the homies that want to get with them. And go say anything just to hit them.

And it's usually a nice summer night when they did them. I don't know, it must be something in the air can help but have a good time because the feeling is there. There's some people The feeling is rare They're at the past Hey and God damn I wish I was there

To have a drink Have a token hook up With someone fine But the kind that looks up I gotta keep some Pisto In the cup party Until the sun comes up But we give up

Summer days just sitting around But when the sun goes down That's right I'll be ready to party And why's that Because there ain't nothing like them Summer nights That keep the top on

Drop all the girls Looking hot, the photo and we just don't stop party until the morning like come on yeah hey hey let's summer nights and keep a smile on your face gotta try to have a good time with your life but the wide it's just a waste keep the way i'm gonna party just in case i prince party like it was 99 and 8788 i couldn't ask for no better weather i'm right next to the pacific to be specific yeah the candy paint job closing up the moonlight as i close out my summer night and say good night it's time to put the top of

Up and park it drop it, unplug the ground roll up the windows and lock it Rock in the pad and fall into bed as she lays on my chest to rest her sleepy head And we do this all night long from dust till dawn, but it's not quite the same when summer nights are gone But even when they're gone it won't be long hate more months and once again a song come on summer days just sitting around But when the sun goes down I'll be ready to party Yeah Ain't nothing like them summer nights Keep the top on drop

All the girls looking high Hit the vollo when we just don't stop Party until the morning light Come on, ain't nothing like them summer nights Power 106 Los Angeles, California Putting it down for the brown side of the town Little Rob, brown ragging it

Straight up brown bagging it Oralee Poez Come on a mile Make sure you next Check out the next single, too much, too much They'd be talking too much, too much Little Rock, what's the Instagram too? Instagram.

At the real little rob. Come on. Yeah. Oh, yeah. The new album, it's called Alto de Bueno because no matter what, man, it's alter the Bueno.

Come on. Come up. Keep it here. It's Brown Bag morning's Power 106, baby. Yeah. Brown Bag. It's Brown Bag on Power 106.

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So we got a message from a listener, Claudia. She said, so my parents never showed affection growing up. Me or my siblings were never told that our parents love us. And when I was little, it really got to me because I saw other kids get dropped off that school, get hugged on, and that never happened to me. However, I just got used to it. And I see myself being that way, too. Right now, I am pregnant, though.

And one thing that I don't want to do is repeat that to my baby. What do you guys suggest in a story like this? That's crazy. That's crazy, but that's deep and it's real. That end, it feels very common because, I mean, to me, that's how we grew up to. Like, my mom never told me, I love you. She never hugged me. Same thing with my dad.

My mom was never there. But to me, it's like I understood it and I get it. And I feel like I'm going to have that same problem, too. Because you're, I don't like, Claudia. I know. You're talking about that. I'm like, am I her? Is that me?

Is that me? But you show affection in other. ways and see even though like they're like that and you're like that I'm your friend and you're super supportive you're super sweet guy you're mean and you say like mean things to everybody else but like you're super like hey letti you look so pretty like you're on it right yeah but as far as hugging like before I met you I hated hugging I hated hugging I hate it's like I love my my distance like your personal space yeah keep me in my bubble so I get Claudia I get it I think she should just go up to her parents and start hugging them very make it uncomfortable

Yes. Just get it all out the way. Like, you know what? Just try to heal your inner child now before the baby comes. And how are they not going to hug her? She's pregnant with the grandchild. Oh, they got it. Oh, you know what's going to mess her up?

How lovey-dovey they're going to be on the grandchild? And he's like, what? I've been here the whole time. I'm chopped liver or what? Growing up, my dad, I mean, he was like an alcoholic. So he wouldn't really, like, show affection at all. And he never, like, really hugged us like that. So my mom would be the one that shows, like, that affection.

and not till like maybe a few years ago I saw like he wanted to show the affection and like I get sense like when he tried to hug me like that it was awkward I get sense the awkwardness in him And you were you awkward? No I was just like I just like pull a man you know like more like like messing with him

so it didn't feel as awkward but I know for him like little by little it was just like him trying to like should I go for it? Like almost like trying to read the play. Doug, why do I feel like I'm going to cry during this time? Yes, it's sad, but it's very common.

I don't like when my mom hugs me now because I just feel like we've grown. I'm like, good way, go to work. Yeah, I hug you. That time has passed. Yeah. Do it now so that they later on, it's normal. But you know what? It does make a difference because my grandpa, my dad was pretty affectionate,

especially when he was drunk. It was the opposite of Maximo. You're like, come here, I love you. You know how much love you. But my grandpa, to this day, is not. not affectionate, older Mexican man. And I know he loves us and everything, but to this day, the hugs are still awkward. And I just go up to him and I just hug him super tight.

It's like, he's just like, uh, uh, uh. It's crazy too. And even both of you saying that you're the ones that end up, like, hugging him and, like, just bring you. You become the parent that they needed. Because we don't know. I always think of our parents and how they are. A parent made them that way, you know, lack of love or the different types of love,

especially them being on, like, survival mode or, like, fighter, flight mode, they had to bear witness to that. And then we're the children that they didn't know how to, like, I don't know how to raise this kid. I don't know how to love on this kid. I didn't feel that way. So now, we're doing it backwards. We're like healing their inner child. Oh, yeah.

I was loved on a lot. And you know what I think it is? My dad went through so much with my abolito. My oldito, like, and my grandpa, like, once they get older, they get nicer. Because I never saw that the mean side of my grandpa. Like, to me, the stories that, like, it was really sad. Like, my dad would tell me, like, you know how I'm. Normally your parents come home from work and you run to them, we would hide from our dad.

He would tell me these heartbreaking stories. And I look at my dad and then I kind of see him as a child go through that. And it like hurts my soul because my dad is so awesome. But he made a stance to like not be that way towards me and my sister. It's funny that you said that about your grandpa about like how people get nicer, the older they get. Because my dad will tell me things about my grandpa too. And I'm like, don't believe it. Yeah, don't believe it.

That's not the guy I know. Yeah, he treats me great. I don't know what you're talking about. And so, no, he'd be like, no, like, your grandpa was, like, such a, like, mean guy, and he would, you know, do this and do that. And I'm like, ah, nah. Nah. Nah. I'm like, he's cool with me, you know?

Like, he never was, like, he's never been mean to me or anything like that. Like, so it's just funny, though, because everybody has different experiences with the same person. Yep. And different stages of their lives, right? Yeah. All right. We have people that called in. Who are we going to, Irene?

C, C, C, C. We have Isabelle from upland. Isabel. Be my sister just kind of grew up the same way. You know, our dad was an addict. My mom, she came from Bihuana out here, and she never showed his love. She never said, I love you and none of that step. So we grew up the same exact way.

We're the same way with our friends. We're the same way with, you know, our men too, fortunately. We all have kids now, and it's really different, huh? So, like, if I can tell her anything, it's like, once you become a mom, you're like, it's just natural. Like, you're going to love, you know, your kids. And that's how me and my sisters are. We love, we tell our kids, like, 10 times a day. We love them.

Also, you don't want them to grow up wondering how you wonder. You know, do they love me? And how you always wonder if anybody loves to do it. I never want them to feel that way. I want you to go home and hug your man for like three minutes today. Oh, God. And then report back tomorrow. Yeah, exactly.

Three minutes straight. No break. No break. Somehow you figured it out enough to have these kids, Doc. I know. True. Longer than three minutes. That might be relieving to Claudia, too.

Like, you just know, like, even if you're this way to everybody else in your life, this might be something different, right? That mother instant kicks in my parents. Or else you could YouTube how to hook somebody to Claudia because that's what Angie did. the thing because it gets really awkward you guys never think like okay the breakdown of like where do you put your hands where do you put your face I don't even think about it. I talk people like do you have to

like get on your tipy toes but if I get on my tipy toes and I'm going to get the pit and I'm going to be smelling your pit you really thought of all of that NG yes I do and it's like where do I place my hands like on top so what did the hug tutorial on YouTube tell you it said you you lean forward a little bit

wait people need to hear this you put one hand on top and then the and then you give them like a little tap. Yeah. And then the other hand, look, I'm shaking right now. And the other hand, it's like a little bit on the lower side, on the other side. And it's just like.

But not too far down. Yeah. And then you just tap on like. You're shaking on your imaginary hugs. Yeah. It's so awkward. This is so awkward. I think we should all just hug Angie right now.

No. Jose, was it your dad or who's the one? Talk to me. So he was never affectionate. It just comes naturally, I guess, when you're in a big Mexican family. I think maybe you don't get the. attention you probably want. So he doesn't know how to be affectionate with us.

But ever since we got our family dog, he's kind of been like learning how to be affectionate. He's like, like, lacareneos, give him kisses. Yeah. That dog is living the life, huh? Yeah. He never even wanted the dog. Yeah. It's always that way.

They never want the dog. Like, oh, it's sleeping inside, but now he has like a blanket on his bed with her. To wait for it. Yay. But one day my sister was crying. My dad complained and he's like, what's wrong? and pats her head like she's like dog. And then my other sister got jealous.

Because she got a head back? Wow. Hey, he's trying. Small steps, okay? Next thing you know, he's going to leave water bowls out for you guys. Little by little, we're getting there. All right, we have more callers. We have Valerie from Pimona, line three.

Valerie from Peatown. Good morning, Valerie. My mom, her mom abandoned her in when she was for, right? So it was just her and her dad and her dad and her two sisters. So my mom never had that mother figure in her life. And that affected us because she didn't know how to be a mom to me. You know, she never abandoned us.

She did what she knew. You know, that's all she did. So, and coming to showing affection to us, she would be like, well, how do I do that? Well, actually, she became a child psychologist. Wow. So her way of mothering was to be our psychologist, like reading us, our emotions, the way we were. So we're like, we don't want that. We want a mom.

Mom. No one wants to be there. So break that cycle, Claudia. You don't need to be your parent. Whatever you didn't get, there's a way for you to show that to your baby. I'm such a hugger, and it'll be the first thing I go to. But I've learned to ask because I'll just hug someone thinking that we're like on the same thing. And they'll stand awkwardly or they won't know what to do.

Yeah. And maybe they are the type of person that doesn't like physical touch. Like, I don't like you touch you, I don't like you in my space. I'll tell people, tell me when it's okay to hug you. because I'll just go full force, like, hug you in whatever, right? It's always that first introduction. We're like, do we say hi? Do we get a handshake or a hug or like a half handshake hug?

And then let me go, I'm a huger. I'm coming in. Yeah. And they're just like, oh. Yeah, or they're cool with this. I'm just saying because you're cute. No, I'm a T-Rex. Brown bag.

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