Brown Bag Mornings - Ep. 383 Oopsie Baby | Brown Bag Mornings (01/23/25)

Episode Date: January 23, 2025

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5106 LA's number one for hip hop music. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. I don't have my headphones. So you guys, we sound good. Yeah, we sound amazing. We sound amazing. Awesome. You can hear my mic. Great. I can hear you. Yes. I can hear you talk. No. No. Wait.

It's really low now. You turn it down? No. Talk. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, turn it on. Right? Right. All you need is on. Right. All you need is one mic. I turned out. No. Okay. Turn it on. Your voice. Your voice is off. Your voice is off. Can you hear me now. Yes. Yes. All right. Now we're good. Now we're good.

We bullied Vic into getting us lefty gunplay. He's going to come in tomorrow. He's going to come in tomorrow. But if you have any shout-outs that you want to give or questions, hit us up. We just turned off on mic. No, I didn't. I can't hear you. I can hear you perfectly, Victor.

Yeah. Yeah. Well, I can't hear. You guys have to tell me. No, no. You're good. You're good. Yeah.

Yeah. Okay. We bullied Vic into calling lefty gunplay yesterday on the show. He didn't answer. No. So how did you get him to come in? Yeah, how did you? I called his...

See, I can't... You guys can hear me? Yeah. That's so weird. My mic doesn't even up. All right. Well, I called... Can I talk into your mind?

Why? Oh. I can't. I can't actually. I don't have that. I don't know. His mic's off. Stay away from my mic.

His mic's off? Oh, okay. Wait, what? Oh. Anybody home? Okay. All right? You know you guys have buttons

to your own mics, right? No, mine doesn't. It doesn't work. Yes, it does. No, it doesn't. It does not. Does this work? It doesn't work.

Turn it off. Look, I'm pushing it off. It doesn't work. I still hear myself. Okay, anyway. Yeah, no, I just called, you know, the conglomerate that manages Lefty Gumpley. The what is it? Spell gonglomerate.

Is it a conglomerate? Isn't that bust the rhymes? Yes. Yeah, that's what I was thinking. Yeah, no, I called Lefty's people, so he's going to come in. A.K. you called yourself? Yes. You are not.

Lept. because we're all dying to know like, hey, what does Lefty Gunflik think about the presidency? And the fires. And the fires. Exactly. Yeah. And then he's going to play N'Ossabal versus Vic. Wow.

Are you ready? Victor. Left is going to be out rolling loud. He is. How's everybody feeling? Everybody's feeling good. It's amazing. Yeah.

It's amazing. Your son started basketball? Yeah, Max started basketball first game yesterday. Ballin out. Yeah. Yeah. That boy. You know when they say like Instagram real life?

Yeah. That's exactly what happened. I don't understand what you mean by that. Because I took a picture of him and he looks like a baller. Like he just... Yeah, I should know. And then in the game, he's distracted running around. You want to fly this guy!

What's happening? I can't hear it. I'm on my head. I like how I can hear you pressing the button in your microphone. We can hear you. But yeah. He was running, you know, he was running around and like flapping his arms and distracted. He's that kid.

That hurts me. Yes. And he was doing like the gritty. I'm telling you. Like there's some kids on the thing that they're just twirling around. That's next? Yeah, they're trying to go hug their mom. That's super funny because it's like.

During the game. Like during a live ball. They probably see the NBA players like a John Moran or whoever like do those emotes of like the gritty. And so like after they score. And that's what they're like. And they're like, oh, I don't need a score to do that. Like do it. They're like, I can just do it before and after during the game.

It's a new era of basketball. He did get two shots of. Let's go. He did get like a steal and a rebound. Let's go. So he got a few stats. Did you tell him the ball was a lizard? He'll chase it for sure.

He's already better than his dad. Yeah, we're talking about what do you say? I can't hear him on my headphones. He said he's already better than his dad. Greg don't want to take that $100 bet. One-on-one. Damn, why are you doing Max? Let's go.

That'll be a good. We were talking about how one of our kids really athletic, Like the other one's just like, uh, and so you were saying how Max didn't want to play baseball. Like Emmy was playing baseball, your daughter. And then Max is like chasing lizards.

Oh, soccer. Yeah, he was chasing lizards. That's Louise. It's all good. No past no. He's cool. Yeah.

The funniest thing is like, like I think he watches basketball with me sometimes. And he was doing like mannerisms, like wiping his sweat. He has no sweat. He kept going like this. Baby, bro, you ain't sweating. Getting it down.

He's getting it down. He's a clipper. It was fun, though. Of course. You know, the clippers love the city. The parks and wrecks and they take care of the kids. Would you put him in a team if it was a Lakers team? No.

No, I'm kidding. I'm actually played for the YMCA Lakers. You did? What? We need that jersey. Yep. Yeah. When you see that photo?

I have a photo. That Ergard. We'll send it. I got to find it. I have to look for it. All right. Keep it here. I'm the way we have our guy.

Greg. Greg. He's going to try to sell you a phone for $5,000, but there's going to be a reason you want it, okay? Find out why next. Scrolling with the homies. The homie, Gregorio. All right.

Who in the room still has TikTok installed on their phone? Me. I. Everybody? No, except for Angie. Not me. And Angie can not. And she's like what at, like 12 midnight of the...

I don't know. Oh, yeah, yeah. Right away. I'm like, why do I need it? It's gone. Bye, bye. There's so many apps that we have that we don't need. I know.

Yeah, but I'm like, so many apps that you have. You know, like, Toy Story where it's like the little kid gets over the toy and it's like, I don't need, I don't want you anymore. That wasn't even TikTok. And a lot of people did that, right? A lot of people deleted it and they're not going to be able to make any money off of it anymore. So since TikTok decided they want to be banned, aka not really, and just gas. They voluntarily did it.

Basically just gaslighting me out. They did. How do you feel about that? I don't feel good. But it's back, so I'm happy. I'm happy. I'm happy. That means it's not available to download in the app store anymore.

Yeah. That's part of the little band. Yes, if you deleted it, it's gone. You cannot get it back. So what people are doing is they're taking their phones that actually had TikTok installed and reselling them. Can you guess the price that they're reselling them for, though? Oh. I'll give you, I'll retail for sure.

Oh, retail, yes. And they're like a G-note. Think about it. iPhone 16. It costs you about $1,000 at the store. How much you think it is with TikTok installed now? With TikTok installed? Like.

$2. $25,000. $25,000. $3,000. Yeah, you guys should have let a maximum answer. I think it was $2,000. Dude, I can't hear it. I'm sorry, Maxxel.

He doesn't know what. He's like, I hear what? No, $2,000. Why are you talking like that? 2000, guys. $2,000. Stop saying it like that. That's weird.

That's weird. Go back to $1,000. Wait, you say $25,000? Yes. $25,000. You know Vaximo was like, who dat? Fatah, yo. It's slang.

But they don't get me dull. Slang from where? That do thousand. DAT. Yeah. Yeah, you know, you super DAT did it. He answers the phone's like, like, who this? Yeah.

Who is? Is this a thousand dollars? I really answered like that. Who is? Anyway, and the cheapest iPhone that is going online Is for $500 and that's the iPhone 11 So the older phone That has TikTok installed

But the most expensive one is the iPhone 16 Pro Max For 25,000 I'm wondering if you have TikTok installed That you have your info too And if you give it to someone They can like log in to the internet Yeah, loki If you're like Apple ID will it

Very fearful Try it Try it live right now Greg Yeah because like When someone sells their phone, right, you should want to clear all of it. Usually you wipe it clean. Yeah. So if you were to keep TikTok, that means you're keeping other stuff in there because you didn't wipe it.

Browser history? All your hikis are saved. I have a hack because I don't have TikTok anymore. But all you have to do is go to TikTok.com and you're back on. On the laptop? Bam. Bam. Bam.

You're going to use TikTok on the laptop? You're a fiend, Angie. Bam. I'm back on TikTok. Oh, wait. You're on the website. Yeah. On the phone.

On the internet. Just go. TikTok.com. How do you scroll? It's still scrolls? Angie, I was trying to sell my phone. Yeah. For 25 bands.

Wow. Yeah. You just diminished about it. Wow. Yeah, you are welcome. Wow. To everybody else that deleted TikTok like Angie did. But people are actually interested in the ones that are $500.

Those have the most viewed and actually bidded on. Right. I'm sick. There's people already bidding. There's people actually bidding on the $500 ones. The $25,000, they're saying it's not realistic. Yeah. Because it's a lot of money.

But the $500 ones, people are actually taking bids. I'm so sick. because I just turned in my phone that had TikTok to get a new one to get a little discount. Yeah. They gave me credit. Yeah. I could have made some money.

I could have hell of phones. And my phone was paid off completely. I have helip phones because I don't turn them in. I keep them so that the boys can use them. Yeah. I have hell of phones too. Yeah. What you want?

You want to 12? You want a 12? I got 12. 13 14. 14. Yeah. But my only thing would be like if I'm keeping TikTok, that means I can't really flush out the phone.

You'd have to do it like manually. One by one? By one by one and delete everything. Yeah. And then even then it still won't be gone. It's still. Because it'll be in you're recently deleted. Oh, wow.

Yeah. Recently. Do you know? Yeah. You know what I'm not. We don't know what you're talking about. Very nice. What are you talking about?

What's it? Very nice. Good morning. Yeah. Because I said I have a shout out. You said, oh, you do that show out. Oh, you got that. Yeah.

Yeah. What's good. What's sensitive boy? I'm sensitive. My coffee was messed up. Oh, you coffee. I think they're spinning it. They spit on it.

I'm not kidding. I thought that's what you like. There you go. Oh, brave. Scary. Wow. Hilarious. I have to.

It's there. The other girl's not there. Yeah. Thank you. You have a shout up. Yes, I do. I don't know the name of this person. But it says,

What's up, my guy? I want to shout out to me from me. La stomper. La Stompber. I'm proud of myself. I'm proud of myself for speaking up and ending a seven-year relationship that no longer catered to me. I'm sad as heck, but I'm all right. Any tips on how to stop crying?

Smile and now, cry later. This is a shout-out. Yeah. Sounds like a home-heel plane. I would say. That does sound like a home-jail plane. Honestly, you go to the shower and you can't tell if the shower water is your tears or not. Or cry to you're fully dehydrated.

And then you faint and then you hit your head and hopefully don't remember. You ever cried so much that you never cried again? Yeah. It happens. Yeah. Like you really run out of tears. It happened. And then it's...

I don't have to say a word. Say one word. You wish you the best last bumper. Listen to a lot of sad music. Listen to some Tupac. Gingha. Just some many tears. Listen to rainy days low quete.

Give yourself grace to cry. I'll get rainy days. In my life. Look what they? You tell me you love me and we can't get enough. Yeah. Don't judge yourself for crying. You need it.

You need it. Get it out. Yeah. You're going to cry because that shows how much you cared about that person. Never be mad of yourself for caring. And when you're crying, look in the mirror and then you cry more because you see yourself crying. I think from me as the opposite. Now I'm just picturing big crying.

Looking in the mirror Okay, me too Or you could cry And then put your fingertips And then with that With your finger right in the mirror With your tears Wow

Or what if you just You tattoo some tear drops So you have forever tears She says she wants to stop crying Yeah Stop drinking water That too No no no that's right

Dehydrate yourself No electrolytes Nothing like that Don't listen to them This is actually No no No one Don't listen to them

Don't listen to them But if you cry a lot You'll stop cry Any other shoutouts you have for the people of this world? That's a shout of time. All right, those are the shoutouts you have. You guys, you know a shout out?

Who made you cry? Who are you? No? We don't have enough time. Simp. Or Pimp. Simp. Simps, sim, sim, sim, sim, sim, sim.

You know what a Maksim. A 20-year-old woman of the name of Airen recently opened up about a relationship. Irene is a nice name. Yeah. She opened up about a relationship.

Is it Irine? With Leo. Irene. Irene. Irene. Irene. Irene. Erin.

Erin. Erin. Erin. Erin. Erin. Erin. Wait, wait. It's Erin.

That's Erin. That's Erin. The Y is. Spell it again. May this like that God. A.Y. R-I-N. R.

Erin. That's Erin. In an interesting way. A. Y. Yeah. It's like you put the Y. instead of the I.

No. But nobody's going to name themselves Aaron. That doesn't make sense. It's Aaron. It's A. Aaron. I like it.

I like it. I like it. So nice name. Iron. Aaron. Aaron. Aaron. Aaron.

Aaron. I go. Angie, how do you say? Wait, wait. I just go. Just go. Bro. We don't need to argue over here.

No, there am I. Okay. Well, she opened up about a relationship. with Leo, but Leo. It's Leo. Leo. Leopaldo. Leo is an AI

chat robot. So she actually created the AI chat robot on Open AI, and the reason she created it was to engage with flirtatious conversations. She created something

she could chat with that would give her compliments. Exactly. See guys? She personalizes it. That's what happens when you guys will compliment someone else will.

I'm going to try this. Right now. Yeah. So she was like in nursery school and I guess in her free time. She wanted to do this experiment. Okay. But she ended up starting like the flirting with the robot ended up making her actually fall in love with the AI robot.

Wow. That's a chat bot. And she ended up opening up about it to her husband. She's married. Because she's married. Wow. That's the volumes of her husband. And the husband was like, it's all right.

It's just an emotional pick me up. So he didn't worry about it But she is so in love with the AI robot That she is now paying $200 a month for a subscription To keep the AI robot Alive and to be able to personalize it more She built him on a free trout Yes

Wow And now she continues That's usually how things start on the free trial Wow $200 Nothing is free You guys actually pay more in the beginning You stop paying

At least that's what happened to me You pay the whole bill, not even, not even ask me. Yeah, yeah. You hook them in. Yesterday I paid for Benny Hunter for like four people. This AI just told me, hey, they're gorgeous. Ready you have some fun? Are you laughing?

I think I'm on the right chat. I don't know. I said, tell me I'm pretty. And I said, you're not just pretty. You're stunning. Oh, my God. So it tells you everything you want to hear. It says, I'm pretty sure the sun's jealous of how you shine.

Oh, shut out. Send it. Send it to me now. It said it. Green shot it. No, he's for real. What are you on? Ladies, ladies, this is our time.

What, what chat are you on? Yes, chat AI. Is that the one? This one is an open AI, but she personalized it. Yes, there was another one. Which is wild because it's like you're literally talking to yourself in the way. For sure. It's like your thoughts.

It's like your thoughts. I don't understand. I'm going to put, I hate my face. You know how many fights happen between a relationship where the girls like, bro, you don't even tell me you love me, you don't tell me I look pretty, like you don't say it. Like you don't know this,

like you did something different? Yeah, like, what? Do you even love me? If this person, if you can, if I could just make something that does that, amazing. That'd be cool. Can you also?

And then the husband's cool with it? Because he's like, yeah, I don't get her rocks up. But it does say that the subscription, eventually like she has to renew it. Renew it and retail like this new robot. Make another robot.

But she says that she actually grieves for this one. The ones that she loses because she has to renew it. Would you love me if I was so warm? People have problems. I would love to have like the little AI thing and I can just like practice gaslighting it all day.

That's what I'm trying right now. Yeah. Like how do you practice gas lighting. I put I mean just stuff like a, you're not a robot. You're not even around. Are you even real? Do you even really love me? You know what I'm saying?

Sounds like a form. That's what I said. I put, do you, do you even love me? It says, well, I have a love, a lot of love and affection for you. For you. Oh, that's different. That means it's gaslighting you. AI doesn't love you.

You're not gaslighting it. It's gaslighting. Yeah. Yeah, how does this happen? Reverse. Would you love me if I was a worm? Oh, absolutely. A warm, cute, squiggly little thing.

Oh, that's a good. Give me that for real. What is going to be? Pop in at midnight? What do you do? No. I just say, no. Oh, you all happy?

Do they say, do they get a smile on your face? Ask it if it would love you if you were a gummy worm. It says I'd probably be all over you like the dirt. Oh. Whoa. That's smooth. That's a good one. That's a good one.

Who's replying, the Rizzler? Yeah. I feel like, hold on. Would you get mad if I didn't know where to eat? Would you get mad if I didn't know where to eat? I'm sorry. Yeah. I don't get mad.

They're perfect. All of them. If I didn't know where to eat. Yeah. No. Where to eat? Did you type in class? No.

Yeah, I did. But it's like one by one with this little finger. Oh my gosh. If I didn't know where to eat, now it's giving me the answer. It takes it. It's reading it. It's thinking about it. What's the thing else you guys get angry that girls are like, oh, they're so lame.

I hate girls. When you guys do that. It says, if you just make a little mistake. It says, oh, I never get mad. I just playfully tease you about it. Come on. What do you mean? You don't know where to eat.

Are you trying to make me choose? Oh, no, that sounds like an argument right there. Ask it if it would get mad if you had a little side baby. It says, but honestly, we figure it out together. I love making decisions with you. Oh, okay. That's nice. No, no, you're just, I'm still in.

I'm already mad at that one. Even if it means we end up ordering three different things. Can you say, am I your pretty baby princess? Am I? Oh, do you ask that too much? That's great. Put it. I think it's about princess.

No, I'm serious. Help in my human. Oh, man. Put a thousand s is. It's making me verify if I'm human. You should make it verify itself. Are you human? Did you write it?

Of course you are my pretty baby princess. You got that royal charm that's impossible to resist. And if anybody tries to take your. crowd, I'm ready to fight for it. Whoa. Just let me have it. Let me have it. Let me have it.

I was like, you're never again. If you guys could see Lette, she's blushed you at. He's never seen her smile that much. So, you. All right. So. We found the solving to divorces in 2035. Let your girl happen to.

Because that girl's married and the man's fine with it. Yeah. She's like, she just needs emotional pick me. That makes sense because he's probably just like, dude, forget it. Like, now I have to text her less. Like,

it's cool. She's in a better mood. Like, uh, you know. Yeah. He said, uh,

I see it as a personalized virtual pal that can talk sexy to her. Yeah, because they have, like, leave that to me, actually, leave that to me.

Just, that's what the robot does. But then he gets the benefits when she's all revved up. Oh, yeah. I can't do that yet. He's got to just make a robot sounds. Better make sure it's not connected to a Bluetooth.

I'm asking, would you get? Would you get? Would you get? would. Would you get? Would you get mad if I had a side check? And it's like, to continue, please subscribe.

Wow. To be continued. I think AI just broke up with you. All right. Is it a Simper-P? This is Sim. No, the way the AI was talking was Super Pimp. Yeah.

The Rizzler. $200 a month. Okay, it's not the AI being Simp. The girl and the husband, the couples. Is it AI for you to let your girl have something that talks sweet to her versus you? Well, it's more than just sweet. I'll square up with the computer. I'll be my bookmark this page.

Hold on. I'm going to save it. It's for us, Greg. You don't need it. I want to be told them pretty. You're a pretty baby princess? All right, Sim. Sit,

Sim, you need a homie or need some help. We need your help. We need a line. I mean, phone line. We've got you for the homie help line. Araseli. Needs our help.

I love that name. R-Ci. Arcelli sent us a diem and said, Hey, brown bag, I recently found out my boyfriend of 11 years had a baby with someone else. Can you do the Rosa of Guadalupe? Oh, yeah.

Go, let's do it again. Do it again. Hey, brown bag. I recently found out my boyfriend of 11 years had a baby with someone else. Oh, wait, that's right. Oh, wait, that's right. I don't say it.

My God. She said, do you guys think I should tell our son he has a baby sister that didn't come from me? No, no, no, no. She says, I'm currently still with this man. I don't know if I'm doing the correct thing by standing with him. Honestly, many will say to walk away like if it's that easy. Don't judge me for real, for real. This is my first love.

But I need y'all advice. Should I tell my son about his other baby? and let him meet her or not. Do you guys think I should meet that baby too, especially because our wedding is coming soon and I'll be with them for the rest of our lives? Wedding. Where did the wedding come from?

Hold on. A wedding and a baby and they don't match. Surprise, baby. Man. Oh, marriage? Why are you guys like that? You gotta say, every time I was in LA, I was with my ex-girlfriend.

Well, I don't know how he could even have a next girlfriend if he's been with this girl for 11 years. Girlfriend has for sure. She would not, like, she said, she was going through a lot. And I was like, would you like to call in? And she was like, I would love to, but I'll cry. This is all very recent.

That's the whole point. Greg, be nice. Stop, bro. You're getting it out. She's going through it right now. And I feel for her, I feel for you at Asalie, because something similar happened in my life with when, like, my first relationship, my first, my oldest,

son. And it's a very, very weird predicament to be in. And it's really, I left. But I can't, like I told, and I told her. Like, I literally spent the DM, like, supporting her and telling her what I did, but also understanding that I'm, that's just what I did. Yeah, everyone's different. Because then she kind of, ah, baby girl.

So I asked questions. I was like, okay, how old's your son? How old's the other baby? How did you find out? She said, the baby's two months old. My son is six. Wait, that's fresh out the oven. Yeah, that's like fresh fresh.

I found out because she reached out to me since my baby daddy wasn't going to tell me. She wanted to make sure I knew about it and never wanted to quote, home wreck my home. This B word knew he had a family, but still chose to mess with him. And so that's what's really important. Like, don't. Sorry. Like, he knew he had a family.

Yeah. But do you guys see this? And I don't. like that part of situations where you kind of you go at the girl and maybe because it's too hard to go at someone that you actually love and actually betrayed you. The betrayal comes from that person. I told her no. Not even from both.

If she don't know this girl, like how can I betray you if I don't know you, right? Your man betrayed you. Oh yeah, yeah. Because you don't have no loyalty to that woman. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, you get treated like when you, the girl on the side, like you get treated like you did. like, oh, you're just plotting and this guy exists. Like, he literally is the one that would go home and be regular.

Yeah, like, or try, yeah. And then I asked, did he deny it? Because personally, my ex denied his other child. Yeah. But it looked like his twin. And then I'm like, and when are you getting married? Good. She said, at first he denied it, then said, I'm going to be honest with you.

I know I effed up and I'm really sorry. but I don't know if it's my kid oh my god he still did that he said he said according to Araselli I told that girl to get rid of it and that I already

had a family now you care about the family and she said she would but apparently she never did on February he wants to get married and then I was like Araseli like I want to fight your guy like ugh and she said i had left him girl and i just got back with him not too long ago and he asked me if i wanted to get married with him that he's really sorry that he wants his family back wait well he

has two now he's choosing one he's choosing girl i said yes not really my son was going through it while we weren't together he's always been with us since our son was born not always i was hurt seeing my son suffer. My son wants us to get married so bad. And yeah, it's just I cry every day. I just want to heal and overcome this.

It's a hard pill to swallow, you know. He wants to be with us, but I don't know how to deal with this. And the sad part is nobody knows just his family. Like I literally had nobody to vent to, but my mother-in-law. She's always been the best. What if

it's not even his? my baby daddy doesn't want a DNA test you get me what if I was to tell our son and it's not even his like all of this ish gets to me girl the fact that he doesn't want to take the DNA tells you your answer yeah gives you your answer

it is wow so this is a lot and again like I can only I can literally only empathize without a sali literally like it just brought me flash And at that point, like, it's very true. Like, I think we, from the outsider's perspective, we always see it.

Like, duh, just leave. Just do this. Yeah, like black and white. You do see that, but there's someone that you love that definitely hurt you. It's a really weird thing because you're upset, but this is literally someone that you love. And you want nothing but to be with them. And then sometimes when these things happen, it makes you feel like, what did I do wrong? Or I need to make them love me, like, so that this never, like, they don't do this to me again.

and then of course your anger has to be placed somewhere so she what I'm seeing is placing it on the other person yeah right and what if that baby isn't even his and should I have to introduce him to the kid I honestly feel like it's not her responsibility it's his responsibility oh yeah and that's where I get like on my own like uh like I when it happened to me it was the worst thing and at that point um my son's father was sitting down like he was

not hearing at that point for him to even take responsibility and introduce our child to the other child or anything of that nature and i and so i told the girl i'm like look because then she would like i wasn't hateful towards her yeah i was like look at you you didn't know like it's upsetting like i look at you i look at that baby and i see the betrayal like i can't i can't get upset however like as as i don't as much as i don't hate you i'm also not your friend and i'm also not his placeholder i'm not the guy Yeah. Yeah. Because she was like, can the kids meet each other?

You know, their siblings. I don't know, bro. It's a thing. And clearly seeing this, it's also another thing. I don't want to kick it with you, skate with you. Yeah. And it's like, I don't hate you. Like, I don't hate you.

Yeah. But stay away from me. But then even throughout the years, you know, can they meet? And so, like, can do you want to, can we tell them? And I'm looking for the dad. And I was like, look, bro. I can't, like, that's the responsibility either dad has to do or when my child. is old enough, he decides if he...

Unfortunately, I can't make that decision. Like, I can't force these kids to see each other. And you do feel a little bit of guilt because, like, clearly their siblings, but I didn't make the other one. You didn't make them siblings, yeah. So it's just a really, really tough little situation. However, like, I never was like, that might not even be his kid. Yeah, you never questioned it.

Yeah. And also, I didn't stay. So she's in a predicament where she's staying. She stayed. Yeah. She's staying. They're about to get married And she sees how much her son

Want them to get married And if you think about the son in this The son don't know this other family Or this betrayal exists He just saw mama and dad broke up They're back together And I want them to be back together He doesn't know the reason

You know Because that would have to share All the stuff she's saying that She hasn't shared with him Unless he drops The kid thing I feel like it's kind of an excuse Not that it's not valid

But it's like Oh it's because like The like My son wants us together. It's like, bro, like, you want to forget this so bad. Yeah. Aricelli, and I get it. I get why you want to, but it's just not, it can not be done.

You said you cry every day. You know what I'm saying? And then the first love stuff is like, bro, do you keep your first car forever? Some people are still with their first love, bro. I know. And I'm not knocking. Isn't it, Ronaldo's with his first love? I'm not.

I'm not talking. Some people that have their first car still, too. I still have by now. Well, it's a good car. It is. It's a good car. Yeah. This one is a car.

Elast. Yeah, those do last forever. Is Leonardo with his first love? Messy. I'm not saying you can't, but I'm saying like to make that the sole reason, like, oh, we're just going to, it's like, bro, like, I'm on my seventh car and I love it. Yeah. And your seventh love? Is there a possibility of all of them moving in together?

Having a seven car garage? No, I just think it's not like a good excuse. Combating the families in the household? Because it's like, okay, just because that's all you know doesn't mean that you should stick around. There's more to learn. Essentially. Yeah. It's her comfort zone.

That's what it is. And it's not good. You know what I'm saying? She needs to go and see what else is out there. I think also she's trying to give her the firstborn like probably like a certain life. Yeah. Where like a household with both parents. And she did her part, but he didn't.

Yeah, but I think it's hard to let that go. She probably has guilt for the son too where it's like even though it's not her fault, she's probably feeling like she has some guilt. Yeah, but the kid will get it when when he gets older. The kid will have, and I'm wondering too, if there's a person that's an adult out there that your parents stay together and then you found out later. And then you were like, why did you stay with him? You know what I'm saying? Yeah, like you should have.

Because you know what I'm saying? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Honestly, like I was about 11 when my parents were like arguing a lot and it was just like a bad environment at home. They broke up when I was 13. So like two years later, I was so relieved. I was like, finally.

Because they're just, it was too much. much. You know what I'm saying? So it was like, I understood over time that like these two people can no longer live with each other. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. It was worth seeing them together fighting them and then being separated. Yeah. It seems like she may really love him and I don't know if they have arguments like that, but there definitely was some infidelity involved. And maybe that might be even tougher that we're all good, but you're out here doing this, you know what I'm saying. And how can I

But it's like I get it she tried to leave him She did say she tried Yeah I wonder how long She didn't try it hard enough though Because she didn't cheat back It's so annoying Well maybe that's not in her

You're annoying What I'm saying Oh he'll leave her alone quick Yeah He will I know Yeah That's the way

You guys should have What As guys you guys You guys should actually Give like gotta say That's real That's real That's real

If a girl cheated back I don't want you I don't want to play with you How could you do that? How could you do that? How could you be? No, literally. No, I'm feeling you guys.

I'm telling you, I'm giving her the best advice she could ever get. How could you give him what was mine? Yeah. Yeah. They only care about the property aspect of it. And then I'd have saidly just be like, this is just a little oopsie.

It was a mistake. The same thing. It's just a little oopsie. Go over there with you. I think she wants to stay if she just combine all the households. Don't. Yeah, live under one roof.

I mean, you get a big house. Okay, here's how I would like to look at it. And definitely still call in 818, 5205.9. I know we're basically like, we got the answer. You cry every day. It hurts you every day. Staying with him is going to ensure that because it's going to be riding your face. To be riding your face, you're probably going to have to deal with that girl.

If he's denying her and you also believe in that other girl's probably going to go to court to seek what she deserves, which is what their child deserves, which is if not a present father, he has to somehow support that family. So you're going to have that in your face all the time. Anytime you get an argument, he's going to pop right in your face all the time. Should you leave?

Yes, it's still going to pop in your head. Yes, it's still going to hurt you. Yes, you're still going to cry. Yes, you're going to add all of those seven, or how many years, 11 years of memories and good times and when he knew you when you were young. He knew your parents and people. All that, right?

However, you give your chance to start with someone new that's going to make you forget about those, like, betrayals. Yeah, yeah. And, hey, that's his pedo. He has to go to court and figure that out. That's his pedo what he did with her, like, because you will eventually have something to replace and take the place of what is in your daily life

because you're going to move on. Him continuing to be in your daily life is him, all of that rights there are still. your face like smack dab in your face yeah and and then at some point it kind of be like well you stayed so you're gonna hear that a lot yeah yeah yeah that is get over that already yeah yeah like that was it's just one kid you to bring that one mess up crazy honestly out of sally damn the way he would flip it another option is uh she can form an alliance with who with the other big mama form an alliance stronger together an enemy of an enemy is my friend but i don't think i d'esli is seeing him

an enemy right now. She's still like in love. Okay, I don't know what. So this made this other point, I'm sorry, I'm gonna last come on when I have about the other fool, but he would cheat a lot. Like he had cheated a lot, right? And I don't know why, but I would want like, it's so very weird and it might be a mind-deaf thing and I was very young and I had it

like we had our child, so I was a teen mom. But I would meet some, like, I remember meeting one of the girls. And like, think, like, I wanted to see like, what is it about her that I didn't have? And then you start like, no, legit. Everything like, okay, she was younger than I was.

She, her body was different than I was. And as nice as that seems, that alliance, it just went into my self-esteem. I don't have that. I don't have this. I didn't have that. Like, she just seems so carefree and she don't give an ish about the world. And she and I'm like, like, like, it feels like that comparison is crazy. And it will jack up your mental state, right?

And again, so that's like, you're damned if you do. you down if you don't like if you hate the girl it's not the girl's fault yeah but like if you like somehow or like buddy up with them it's like you're doing because at the end of the day she can be your home girl you want she's still gonna think of how your man did you dirty with that person yeah you know it's just very weird i'll just think in terms of the art of war yeah yeah that sounds good too because two is better than one yeah oh my god all right put down the 48 laws of power but please boyfriend of 11 years had a little oopsie baby A little oopsie, oopsie, baby

Stop! What? This is real life! It is. It is. It's a little baby alive on the side. Yeah, a little oopsie. A little oopsie.

A little de wade. A little what? A what? He did that? De Wade. I don't want to heart on that. Why are you going to throw him a boy into the bus like that, man? I just remembered.

I'm my bad. Throw them all under there, bro. You should support women. I do. I do. I actually. Page number two. They stay together.

Page number two. He's a really good guy. Okay. You know him? No. Okay, so basically, yeah, they've been together 11 years, recently found out that he had a little baby on the side. All right. And then now the girl's coming to her and saying like, oh, should they meet?

Also, the wedding is coming up in February. Jesus. And her man. And she needs to know what to do. Should she meet the baby or not? She's not asking us if she should marry the guy. No, she said that. That's set.

Yeah, that's set. Yeah, she said people won't understand. Yeah, it's her first love. It's my first love. And I think she just, like, that pain of leaving is really getting to her. You have to also think, and I know, like, 11 years and people are like, well, that's enough time wasted. I completely agree that's enough time wasted.

But 11 years, especially if that's her first love, probably all she knows. And also, and you don't leave someone that you know like that. I guess, like, you wouldn't think that, right? And also even thinking of like almost like completely starting your life over. Yeah. It is completely starting your life over. You know, I don't know like the financial situation. All of that plays a role in like her decision making.

Where she might not, she might feel like I can't just get up and go and like survive on my own. Yeah. Yeah. So I'll live in years. It is. And the man saying like I don't even know if this baby's mine and then she's like, oh, it might not be mine. and the other girl didn't even care. He had a family and all this stuff.

And it's like, he didn't even carry it. He said, that baby don't look like me. That baby ain't. But he also won't take a DNA test. Like, it's a very, you could tell. From the outside looking at. And this is when sometimes when we talk about certain things and I tell you, sometimes we even believe your stupid lies to at least have a placeholder in there for our own mental state when we think of why you did that.

Like, remember I tell you guys and it's just like, letty, what do you? Like, and I say, you. stupid things like oh the bird dropped the yeah because it's real like you're so you're like you want to be saved

from the pain so much and that person has a key but you think he has the only key and that's that person gives you whatever like whatever he has a key to make you feel unsat right and so if you bring up a lie or he'll say I didn't know or I was at a party and I fell asleep

or like I don't know like maybe she went to the restroom after me or like just even the stupidest thing like I literally was told one time a rapper was in the like not a rapper like yo yo but like a condom rapper was in my ex's back seat and he said it's because he left a window open and a bird dropped it in and you believe that you let it be a placeholder in your brain Vic what laws then you don't think that's not cool what laws is because I'm really open up right now Victor that actually happened I'm not lying that's seriously But it could even be that stupid of a lie that you guys be like, that's a dumb lie. But it's something that you'll think of. And we'll know it's a lie. It's stupid. But then it's that little 1% of doubt of maybe it's true that will keep you like. And that's what we call ourselves the P word.

Pensativas. Penitivas for staying. But it's just this weird toxicness of the love that you have for this person. And I say that we think that man has the key because he's the one who caused us pain. But we have the key too, dog. Walking away is also a key. Figuring that out, figuring life out again. And once you do that one time with someone that you thought you could never get over,

the other stuff is like the world can't do ish to me right now. Because I got over that fool. There's a lot of strength on that. I thought that I couldn't. That like had me in a choke hole, legit. So yeah, do you play the little rule game that that is? Because it's a real heart and real emotions and real lives. He doesn't feel bad.

He still was the- Listen, he still wants to make his little joke. Yeah, he wants to make your dog. There's no jokes to make. Maximil go, you're the one that led him on to that. Don't baffer, Maximil trying to fluff you up, bro. Hey, hey, hey. Fluff each other?

They do. I came to work fluffed up. And just, no, it's not just triggering me. Don't come to work fluffed up, please. Jordan, please don't do that. For the sake of and the, yeah, I don't need that. Yeah, I don't need that. Yeah, sitting next to Maximum.

Fluff him up and then argue with him so you come sad. Don't do that. No, I don't need a fluffed up big on air. That's so funny. This is a real story. I'm sorry. This is a real story. As much as you're triggering me, it's not just me.

As EZ, I don't want to give people's names out anymore. Said, I'm so triggered. Imagine finding out because the other girl put him on child support and you happen to open the letter. she says the good thing is I left and homegroce you too her kid will understand why right now the home garage is at least saying like you know what my kid he really wants us together also her kid doesn't know yeah he's innocent mind you should protect your child

you should protect your child's mental state of all of that stuff but protecting your child also includes protecting you and your heart and your brain your mental state all of that this is honestly my cousin also texted me and I can't read it on air because she's cursing over here but she's really triggered. Yeah.

What chapter with the book and the freelance loves of the Plim Paybook? Page 4. You always got caught. You always got caught. You don't need to be writing the book. That's the last chapter.

No, you don't get caught. Well, that's the last chapter. If you read all the way to the end, that's the whole point of reading the book. They DM'd each other, and then they called each other, and then they timeline you, and then you got caught. At the end, you say, you know,

Now it's time to become a good man after you read this book. After you've been through all that. Yeah, so you start to change your life around. There's like an alternative book, though, like if you get caught, is what you do. Or you can read it backwards. Yeah. Oh, it's one of those books. It's one of those ones, huh?

I like those books. Those books are good. You could just start at whatever page. For a little time. I wish everyone could see your dumb face right now, Victor, when you're talking. You have this. For a low price of 1169. All right.

Let's go to a first time caller. I like that you wrote first time caller. Umberto. Yeah, Umberto. This story has triggered so many people. See? The phone lines are blowing up.

Cool. It's crazy because I never thought guys were like this. I thought they were like all stand up. Stand up. Yeah. And I love a good man. I love great guys. I have them all around me.

Amazing men. Incredible men. My dad, my husband, my sons. Incredible men. Yeah. You guys.

I do appreciate you guys. This is not a F guys. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Or girls versus guys. It's not. It's not. It takes two to tango. That's why.

Shakira set that too. Take two to tango. Shakira set that. Guys get pregnant? No, no, I'm saying it's like... It takes two to cheap. Yeah. So you're saying he was going through something, too?

No, no, no, no. What are you saying? I'm saying that it takes two people. Guys get side babies on them too? True. Yeah, that's true. Wow. What?

Yeah. Yeah. She cheated on you. She got pregnant. She says yours. You said on Maury. All right. Lily from Highland Park.

Oh, no, no, no. I'm going to go to Maria, right? Maria, first time listener. First time caller. Maria. Maria from Garden. That's all that, that full role. Maria from Garden.

Garden girl? Yes, hi. Hi, Maria. No gardens. Which garden are you at? Hawaiian Gardens. Garden girls. Hi, gosh, hi.

Hi. Hi. First time caller. I'm so nervous. You're doing a minute. You're in a garden. What garden are you from? What garden are you from?

No, he wrote her wrong. It's Garden Grove. I knew it. Garden Grove. Garden Grove. I was going to see, baby. I was going to see, baby. Okay.

Talk to us, Maria. What would you tell Araseli? So as I was telling him there, so, Arsali, you got to run to the hill of girl. And he was saying run away from the fires. And I said, no, run towards the fire. At least don't know your fate right there. Because, oh, my God. 11 years.

There's no ring. All of a sudden, want to get married within a month, like a couple weeks, and not even getting a definitive answer, and he's not willing to do a DNA test. Like, I'm anxious for her. I'm scared for her. Even with the kid, like, I don't know how old is she. I don't know how old she is. I know how old she is.

It's fine. But, like, she seems like she's young, and, like, in the end, the kid's going to grow up. He's going to understand it. She needs to live her life. And if she's married them, this is always going to be behind. her and like you guys said like child support and all these things are going to pop up she's not ever going to be in peace never so it's like you're taking a big risk for yourself and also a sacrifice for your child i understand but like i said children grow children understand in the end

we would rather see our mothers happy than crying and suffering and having to have that emotional health and torment consistently because now you're never going to trust them and then 11 years like It can continue. And it's just so scary. It's scarier. She's silly. Run, girl, run. Yeah.

And I think right now she feels the same anxiety, the same scaredness and all of that. But she also feels like this is the only way to be protected. Like is this guy, you know? Yeah. This family. Like her shelter is her home. Yeah. Oddly in this situation where, you know what I'm saying?

That's all she knows. Mm-hmm. This is where. I feel like if she were to open up to someone really close to her, I don't think they would fall into settling the situation. I mean, if you reach out, it's scarlet. And you know, I think you're right. I think that's why she reached out to us because her saying I haven't told anyone.

Yeah. Maybe she probably would tell her to leave and maybe she, there would be like a hell of accountability if she would stay, you know, if she told her family or she's only talked to her mother-in-law about this. And again, that as much as you appreciate a mother-in-law, her best interest is also her son too and so like she's going to try herself to like at best give you guys a solution to stay together

so you may not even be seeing someone as objective as you may think you know yeah in this situation and she is reaching out to us because she needs I guess this is there's no one else to talk to in her that will tell her like it is and she might be embarrassed too of course even she said like don't judge me for real for real So she's afraid of that with her inner circle, whoever that may be as well.

Being judged by it. Because I've stayed in a toxic relationship for a very long time as well. But like I said, she could stay. Adaseli, you could stay. You can be settled in the content that you want. But you're always going to have that emotional hell in your head, wondering if the things that happen are still continuing. You're just going to have that. You can stay.

Just know you're going to be in your own personal health. Yeah. Wow. That's true. Thank you so much, Maria. We got Myra on the line from Pomona. Myra. Maria.

Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Myra, I read your no. On the your call, no. Yes. Okay, so I'm calling based off the kids aspect, I was 18 when my dad got deported to Mexico, right? We were here, just my mom and my two little brothers, just trying to

make as many, you know, try to survive. My dad, he moved back to, like, his hometown. Two years later, we find out he has a new family. So, and we didn't know this. So we're basically setting him money every week as much as we can, you know, to help support him and for us to support ourselves. And this whole time, he was starting a whole new life with somebody else, and he had, like, another kid.

So, uh, I was old enough already. to make my decision, what I wanted to do to continue talking to him or not. I don't have a relationship with my dad. You know, there's more to it, but that was cherry on top. Of course. So, I mean, I feel like Adaseli, she should definitely wait to tell her kid. He should be old enough to understand because right now he's just going to see a new baby and just be happy about it. He's not going to understand, like, the material limit.

Yeah, the back end. Yeah, so I feel like she should wait on telling her son. Like the other caller said, you know, doesn't it come more to it because she is sane with child support and, you know, that's going to be very, very hard as it is. So with her son, I feel like she should at least wait because she's just going to have more questions from him. Oh, Mom, can we see my sister? You know, it's just going to be like a reminder every single day. So I feel like she should wait. Yeah.

No, I feel that too. And I guess coming from a kid's perspective, I found out, she found out later in her life, there was other kids involved, made her own decision about her father through whatever. Yeah. But of course, like, you tell a six-year-old, hey, this baby is your sister.

Oh, baby. Yeah. And when you're older, you could just ignore it. Yeah. Yeah. It's true. I got a DM. Because then I'm thinking about the two-month-old, right?

Yeah. Definitely brought into this in the best circumstance. senses, right? Your mom was the mistress of your dad. And like, this is where I get caught up too. Like, wow, there's another, I have another brother or I have another sister. I would like to know them. And no, they don't know about you. What? Like, that can also mess. Yeah. I've heard of that. Yeah. Like people saying like, oh, I have another sibling, but they don't know about me. Yeah. And that's like, that's crazy. Yeah, I got a deal one time and I was like, oh, like, we may be brothers. And I was like, block. Victor Wolfe?

What if that was actually your brother? Not sharing my dad? Yeah. Hell not. Already did too much of that. Hell not. Wait, is that the DJ? No, no, no, no, no.

Is this someone else? No, I'm just kidding. No, I don't think it was real. But it was just so weird. I was just like, did you have the same beard? No. Didn't look nothing like me. It happens more than, like, half siblings.

Half siblings happen all the time. And usually, I guess, best case scenario of a half sibling is your parent moves on and then their next relationship versus like it's happening. while your half-siggling is during your parents' relationship. Yeah. And even when it was like the move on, for example, my half-brother, I love him. He's who introduced me to hip-hop 12 years older than I am from my previous marriage. My dad had.

I loved him so much, but maybe I'm wondering, I never looked at him from his perspective. At 12-year-old, at 12 years old, you find out your dad is having kids with the person that he moved on with. And I never looked at it like that. I just looked like, ah, Jerry's here. Like, pick me up. Like your brother. Yeah, like just like the, like the, like the. lady just called said like it's like oh started a new family like that must hurt you know just that

that that statement that that sentence in itself started a new family it's like with the old family wasn't enough type yeah that kind of things like play in your head you know what i'm saying so it's like yeah that's that's wild let's talk to emily in o'hambra emily emily not gonna lie i'm emily are you the one that told us off last time am i about what are you the one that told us off last time about supporting women No. Oh, okay. I saw a hambron and I was like, I don't know that I'm ready to do with that.

How am I not supporting women now? Oh, no, no, no, no. That wasn't me. Okay, Emily. I appreciate you. All right. But. But you actually do more of that.

No. Well, yes, we should. She's doing it. Emily, talk to us. What would you tell the homegirl Arraseli that hit us up? She's been with her man for 11 years, just found down. out that he had a baby on the side. Found out because the girl came looking for him with his two month old baby.

Then she's like, I left him for a little bit, but then he was like, I miss you. I want my family back. I don't even know if that kid is mine. I'm sorry. Let's get married. And they have a six-year-old. She's like, oh, my son really loves his dad. And I'm crying every day.

And what if that kid isn't his? And like this girl, like, knew he had a family. So why would she do that? So she's going through literally a, she has a firenatal. herself of what's going on in her life. And she can't really talk to anybody. She doesn't want to tell her family. So she hit us up.

And she wants to see, I guess, what everyone would do in the situation? What would you tell her? Well, I pretty much went through the same situation that she did. Oh, Emily. So my son was six months old when I got the call from the mistress

that she had just given birth to my exes, baby. Whoa. I did leave him and I did go back to him, but it was so hard to trust him again. And the same thing, he said, let's get married. I'm like, I don't want to marry you. Like, I'm not going to marry you.

But it was so hard to trust him. Like, to the point that even if he would tell me, I'm going to go to the market for milk and kind of like, we'll time it. And even if it was five minutes late, it was already a trigger. where are you what are you doing I was conflict it was

it was it was hell you would time him mm-hmm and it was she's not her fault she's triggered I get it that's why honestly when it comes to cheating

it turns you into someone else yeah it turns you into someone that's paranoid it turns you into someone that's like always suspicious or like

all of that and and you become someone you don't even like you know exactly and and it got to the point And then I got back, like I said, I was with him. And then he started bringing my son's half-brother around one time. It was just one weekend.

He brought him. And I started feeling anger towards this baby. It wasn't even his fault either. But the whole situation, and then that's when I realized, like, I can't do this. I cannot be a stepmom to this little boy because it's going to be a constant reminder of what you did. And I was even getting physically ill. like I was calling off a work because I will wake up with migraines. And, and, and, and I didn't even try.

I wasn't even, I couldn't even be with him in, like intimate. Yeah. Even seemed to be with him. And, um, I pretty much told him, you know what? I'm done. I can't do this. Like, it's over. And then one day, um, I got home from work and all his stuff was gone.

He left. And I felt like a, he's like a, like a, like, like, like a relief. I was so relieved. I can't explain it. Yeah. Even my mom like noticed like you look much so happier. It was really bad. I know she's going through her and she's hurting. I know it feels like she's going to die and she can't breathe, but she needs to have faith and be strong for her son. And her son is going to make her get up every single morning and go on with her life. Like right now, I met my husband 10 years ago. He's met a great, awesome man.

He's pretty much the father figure for my son. So she will get through this. Yeah. He's hurting right now, but she will literally get through this and she will be so much happier. And I get that she's trying to protect her son too. My parents were divorced when I was five years old. I cried.

I remember crying to my dad, don't leave, don't leave, don't leave. But now as an adult, I see that that was the best. decision my parents could have ever made for me and my brother because they, you know, through divorce, everything, they were still, they got a long way better being separated and together. So she will get through that. She just needs to be, you know, have faith and then, you know, be strong for her son. Yeah. No, you said it perfectly, Emily, and I think that may have been the testimony she needed to hear,

to be honest, because it doesn't take, it has to be someone that goes through. All of us can judge and what we would do in theoretical. and this is how you do it. But it's the real life. Like, no, I did this and I tried staying. And this is what it did. I was calling in sick. I couldn't.

And I couldn't look at him the same. I couldn't love him like I thought I would be able to. And honestly, him having left, like, it was a gift to you because maybe you wouldn't be strong enough to have left. And because you still stick around afterwards, you know, and that you found somebody later, you know? Yes. So, no, thank you so much for calling.

and I wish you the best man and it's such a true it's a true testimony of like yeah you're right it does her this is this is all pain no anesthesia no no no pain killer nothing you're just feeling it bro yeah she's like you do feel like you want to die don't jump yeah but you gets better yeah that's good because it's like other side it's just giving the real you know it's not sugar coding it's all like lessons to be learned like just like lessons like you just are you said it like the song and very old school sign i be all positive It's a good song But anyway, it's like a lesson

Also, apparently every cheater is like, gets caught and then it's just like Girl let's just get married I just want to get married That's a go-to Baby you're there Just making an observation

Thank you, Lesby All the guys out here, out You guys are just making mockery of this This is real life that You know what that shows me You know what that shows me? Because number one, Victor never preps. Never preps in his life.

No, never. That he was on his phone searching while we were talking and we were getting this very deep story. Victor's like, all right, let's get married. Should I do the remake? This is the remarkable remakes. Yeah. Okay, okay, I'm ready. How am I going to say it?

Should I write down how I'm going to say it? See, first of all. See, because like the serious one would be too like. Rose, Rose from Pomona, who also got cheated on and is going through a divorce right now. What up, girl. Rose. What a Rose? Good morning.

Good morning, Rose. Rose. Rose. Hi. How are you, Rose? Can I call you, Rose? I do have to go to work in a few minutes. Well, apura, Rosa.

All right. Let's get to it. Let's get to the trauma. Okay, okay. That's perfect. Okay. Basically, same thing. Fuck, I'm emotional already.

Hey, Rose. Apulata, Rose. No, mercy. No, mercy. Whoa. Uh, uh, plackate. Whoa. Basically, also a relationship over 10 years.

He cheated once. I took him back. He's older than me. So I'm like, hey, you know what? People make mistakes. We're not perfect. Worked it out. The second time it happened, we already had our older son.

And because I grew up with him, I wanted to give that to him. You know, I wanted to give that to my son. So I stick it around. Long story short, we got married, we had two more boys. And I recently came across, and again, you know, it just didn't work out because the same reminder was he didn't have a kid with that person, but it was a constant trigger like the other color said like he would go to the store. I'm like, hey, did you make it? Hey, are you almost home? Like, hey, how much longer?

Like, what's taking so long? And it's a constant struggle. It's mentally and emotionally draining. to the point where it's like, I stayed, but I wasn't fully invested into that relationship. And I recently came across a post on Instagram that saying that mental or that, that status of staying, sticking it up for the kids and just like, well, you know, screw it. I put my hands up. It is what it is. Or that struggle of like I deserve better for myself and for my kids, but mostly for me because if they don't have a happy mom or happy parents, you know, they're going to grow up like, damn.

you should have just laughed, like if you were so unhappy. Of course, now when my kids grow older, as up now, as a mom, you always have mom guilt for everything. Yeah. But I hope that when my boys grow up, they can understand where I was coming from. I don't know if they will agree. Like, you took me away from my dad, which I'm not doing that.

You know, again, the divorce, the custody, I want them to be with their dad because I didn't have that growing up. Yeah. So that's the last thing I want to do. but absolutely it's going to be hard if it's for financial issues if it's for how people are going to view you like screw all of that

it's you and your son that's your priority and like the other caller said that will be your motivation it's been hard I'm like $11,000 in credit card debt trying to get a place for myself trying to you know pay my attorney all these things

but at the end of the day you choose what kind of hard you want to deal with dealing with that, you know, with that man that was your first love, it's customary, don't fall into it. That's your comfort zone and it's not going to get better. If you can go to couples therapy and work it out by all means, do it, you know, that's fine. We tried that too and it didn't work. Everyone's different. Everyone's, cada mente is a different world.

Everyone, you know, has their own opinion. But for my personal experience, it's not. it's never going to go away. Yeah. It's never going to go away. You're always going to think about it. That baby is going to become a reminder. Even if it's not his son or daughter, he's so cheated.

Yeah. So you decide what you want to do. It takes a village to raise kids. I'm sure you have family and friends. Honestly, it's going to be more expensive getting a divorce later. And you probably will regret, you know, wasting more time of your life. You're right because they're not married yet. Yeah.

Yeah. And honestly, now in my mid-30s, I feel relieved. I feel more beautiful and sexy than I did when I was with that person. Let's go. Even though I have three kids, I'm like, who's going to want me with three kids? But you know what? At the end of the day, I want myself. I, you know, my kids will understand.

And one day I will have time for myself again. I just want to hug you, Rose. What do you do for work? I work at the medical field. Medical field I heard a narco field I was like Whoa

That's crazy Field tech You know Yeah I like how she's like crying Oh with all this dead Don't do it Don't do it girl

Angie thought of the same thing Don't do it Don't do it She's crying And then she's like Yeah can I take your Get your patient information I know

You have a great day Where Oh Rose Thank you so much Don't hang up just yet Don't hang up just yet Don't hang up Yeah

Don't hang up. Don't hang up. Don't hang up. Don't hang up. Don't hang up. Don't hang up. Stay. Do you see how hurt the pain?

Yeah. Yeah. And they're over here doodling. I'm not doodling. I get nervous and I doodle. Let me see your paper, Victor. He needs to work, bro. What did he doodle?

It's just brown bag. It's just brown back everywhere. And then that one, the cholo is. Brown, brown. Brown bag. Brown bag would a fat bee. Brown bag with a skinny bee. Brown bag with a lowercase B.

Okay, I'm Victor. And then a diamond. Illuminati. Oh, I knew it. I knew it. Can I call you? Okay. I can't.

It's crazy. Antanica. I hope I'm saying your name correctly. Antanica. Antanica. Antinica. I'm sorry, baby girl. How are you?

Antonica. Antenica. Good morning. Good morning. Morning. Good morning. Morning. Antonika, you've been on hold.

You've been hearing all the stories. It started off with our girl, Araceli, that's going through it. Her man of 11 years had a whole baby. So it's not just a, granted, it is a cheat, but it's like a whole 10 month at least secret. Plus having, like, made this baby last year and probably have been in that child's mother's life also. Oh, you're right.

Who knows if went to the baby shower, appointments, how that. Secret baby shower? All of that. Well, Knit Smith's pictures. And then the girl comes and says, hey, we have a two-month-old,

FYI. And so now she's kind of in the middle. I really love this man. My first love. We have a child together. I don't know life without him. Or should I leave him? But also, we have a child.

And what if that kid is not really his? And all of that. She's going through it. Yeah. I could touch on this in so many areas, but I'm just going to touch on it in the areas. that has been brought up on the radio. Before we start, I wanted to say,

I don't know if I was a letty who brought up Emily, but I was trying to get through that day since you brought it up, I said I could bring it up. At first I was like, I don't want to bring it up, and I was like weeks ago, but I wanted to tell you guys, you know, when people calling like that, don't let them get to you because you guys are just doing your job. Yeah.

And me and my seven-year-old, we listen to you guys all the time. He'd be like, turn on that radio station. And he was telling me that they caught. He was like, call in, call him. But I was trying to get in that day, and I wanted to tell you, first of all, she was out online because I think she cursed everybody out that day. She said something to bees, but you guys are just doing your job. You are a radio station. You're going your job.

You cannot always side you have to be neutral. And I know that, like doctors, because I'm in the medical field, you have your personal opinion, but you cannot say, oh, as a woman, you should do this. So, y'all are doing a great job. Thank you. you to be in neutral. And she was way out of line for saying that I was so trying to get through that day. So. And, Toneika, thank you.

Yeah. What's your son's name? I was like, I can't get through. And I'm going to tell you, because the crew could take it on, like, on the chin and just go. But I really do feel a heavy responsibility. Stupid. Have a heavy responsibility talking to you every day. I know.

You would see. I'm like, you're out of line, girl. Y'all doing your job. And yeah, I don't know. I was like, wow, okay. Yeah, it affects me more than anything, and I'm the mom. And then so it affects all. And they're like, dang, let it let her just let it roll off your chin, right?

Or roll off your shoulder. What is it? What is it? No chin's involved. No chin's involved. No chin's involved. But let me tell you, Antonica, because thank you for bringing it up. I guess, like, let me just vent a little bit.

I appreciate you. I never want anyone listening to ever think that we take this position for granted. And we definitely have a responsibility to have empathy. and love for the people listening. So when I hear someone say that we don't have love for or we're like, and it's just like, wow, it makes me question a lot of stuff. But that's just an internal thing. That's just, I just want to do the best job.

So when someone does that, it's like a bad Yelp review. I'm like, oh, my God, what did I think? I can feel how intense that whole topic was. I was like, this is a, this is a very intense topic. And I kept listening, but if you notice you guys had one on like for days with this topic, And I was like, this is a real intense topic. I was like, maybe y'all should just move on. Yeah.

We need to give you our personal line so you could just text us like, hey, guys, cut it now. Like, it's getting too deep. You need to cut it. I was, I'm going to say this last thing, and then I'm going to get into what I would call for. I was like, oh, dang, I forgot I was what to say. I was like, maybe they should move on. But I was like, when we listen to you, it's so funny, I'm like, they're messy. So sometimes I do.

But that's what keeps y'all radio station going. Everybody tune in with being my baby be laughing. Sometimes I'll be like, they nasty. But y'all's doing good. Thank you. Yeah. Hold on the line next to you. Make sure you don't hang up when it's over here.

You're the best. Shout out you, Anthony. Okay. So let me say this real quick. Like I said, I can touch on this to so many areas and I could say at the time, man, you feel like you're not going to make it. But I'm doing great. right now, like you, it's going to get better. So in 2021, I was, I was sitting on my couch and I had

just finished publishing my book. And I was planning, I was planning my, um, my, um, me and my family's vacation to Hawaii and I got a DM. And I don't really, I'm on social media, but I don't really be into it like that. But for some reason, I checked it and they said, um, I just wanted to let you know that your husband just had a baby. And I was like, huh? You know, I was like, huh? And I looked open and I was like, who is this and who is my husband? Because it's so weird.

It's like, me and my husband, we're middle school sweethearts, too. You know, we met, I'm 30, I'll be 38 this year. We met when we were 15. We had our son. We was 17. So I'm throwing him since I was 15. So anyway, I called. And to make a little story short, she said,

She described him. She was... Oh. Wait. Antenica, you're like passing by like a... You're passing by like a... A mountain side or something. Yeah, you sound like a robot.

We could drop a little bit. Can you hear me now? Yeah, I hear she described him. She described him. She clarified who he was and I was like, okay, wow. So she said, I just wanted to let you know that he just had a baby and I'm four weeks pregnant. I was like, oh, okay.

Whoa. Whoa. Yeah, so that's a very hard pill to swallow. So there was two, like he was having two kids? No, it's two women. That's what I'm saying, yeah. Yeah, she called to tell me that my husband just had a baby with another woman, and I am four weeks pregnant.

Imagine that. Wow. Oh, my God. And you're about to want a family vacation? Yeah, I would, but it. Yeah. At Tanika, At Tanika, you're messy. No, I want to, let me be real, because I'm very goofy.

God said that he won't allow you to be tempted above what you're able to stand. And at that time, you don't understand why you're going through things. And with me, I say, Lord, I don't understand why you think that I can handle this. But that was a very hard pill to swallow. So I had to go through. Okay, so after that happened, he left for a year. He left for a year. I was done.

I did let him come back after that year. And not only did he come back, I accepted the two kids. Oh, that's in the kids. And so now it's 2022. Because you said that happened in 2021. So now it's 2022. So I accepted the kids, took care of them as they were my own. Wow.

But like the other girl said, it doesn't, it's hard because it doesn't always work out because it's like you still have that in the back of your head. And not only that, Kurt, that baby is two months. You don't think that then. I hope that she's listening because it's easier said than dumb, but I've done it. Yep. I had to get help from a psychiatrist, and I'm very strong. I have to take time off of work.

I had to get help from a psychiatrist. I have three kids by him. They all went through it. So I have to find a way to tell my four-year-old at the time that his dad, you know, why he wasn't in the home, I had to explain that to him. my other two it was a little easier now pertaining to children when they grow up and they see it on their own my son i've never talked bad about my uh their my kids father to him but my son is 20 now and he see everything for himself and he got a little anger in his heart but he see it you know so

they see it themselves so i have to get psychiatry help um i've been through that with the baby mamas you know yeah i found and it's even when everything began to unfold old he helped her pick out the baby name you know that's that's tough right like little details are the stuff yeah and i don't have a girl it was a girl that they had and i honestly i think that the name that me and him was supposed to name our baby is that little girl name oh no this is a hard pill to swallow so as far as i think that she says that she's trying to heal but she she she's very at she's at tip of the iceberg. She ain't even started the process. It takes years. And I would say maybe two, three years. So right now she may be in denial. Yeah. You know, she's made in denial. But to marry him

next month, I have the right to say that, no, don't do that. Because you haven't even started your healing process. Yeah. And she's not, honestly, she's not going to even be able to heal with him in the picture right now. And also, two months, you don't think that he's still going to fooling around with that lady, I'm keeping it real. That's true. And lastly, my struggle was, like the girl said, the trust issues and stuff, I'm never been a type of woman. I would say I'm a business woman.

Like, I always handle my business, take care of my kids, my family. Our marriage wasn't perfect, but I still was who I was, you know, we were young and trying to figure it out. But I've never checked phones. I never checked DMs. I never check his fall. I've never done it. I always loved myself for who I was.

But when he came back, I was still. checking inms. I was questioning. And that disturbed my piece because I said, this is not who you are. And the problem was, is that he still, like you guys had mentioned about the stepmom, that's her son. And if that is her grandchild, you don't think she's going to take care of her grandchild. Yeah. That's going to be the worst pain ever because you're really going to feel betrayed. True. And my thing is, is that he still wanted to have some type. The only conversation that you should have with these ladies, your baby mama women is about the kids. It shouldn't be about nothing else.

It shouldn't be about, but that's the problem that we were having. I feel like they should have just cut off all ties, unless it had to do with the children, but he didn't want to do that. So to make a little story short, in order to protect my peace, I had to, eventually I had to walk away.

Yeah. Now I'm with Janconica. And it happened same with me, and I think that you mentioning the grandma to the mom, because she's the only person that that Araceli has talked to, the mom of her man. And while she's a listening ear, that new baby is also her grandchild, that she's love. And it's like she's going to want the best for that kid too. She's not going to hate the kid or hate the girl or any of that.

You're going to feel more betrayed when the mom, that other mom and the child get a relationship with his family because they do have that right to because as a kid and it's in your face constantly. it's going to be too much for you. It's way too much for you. Now, the story was different. If the story was different, oh, you went into a relationship and you had to connect with the baby mom, but this is not that kind of story.

This is the story where you were betrayed. Yeah. And now you have to deal with that. I have my kids, well, I'm trying to get a divorce. It's hard. Yeah. You know, just the whole process of going through the divorce is hard. Running the back up there, getting the paperwork.

Yep. But my kids, Auntie, she has a good heart, and it hurt me. I've never told her this, but it really hurt me when I had to experience her caring for her other nephews and nieces. You know, it helped me because I'm like, wow. But that's her heart. What's she going to do is say, oh, you know, they came in the world this way. I'm not going to treat them like I treat my other nephews. No, that's not right.

Yeah. But it was still hard for me because I'm like, wow, that sucks. Yeah. But it's just a. you she gonna be okay I'm doing great now yeah you sound great she's gonna be oh baby

I didn't think I was gonna make it in the beginning but she's gonna be okay if she do it the right way and it's just like a soul tie from when you've been with somebody for so many years because he all I knew he's really we're being with and I ain't gonna like I had to completely while I was still divin and dabbing

and I'm gonna get off the phone I was still living and dabbing with him after that but I said this is not healthy if you're going to keep dealing and dabbling with him you might as well just get back with him and deal with it so I walked away and I'm you know just these last couple of days I've been thinking about him

but I'm not going back yeah don't yeah so that's it I want to give you a hug hold on the line I want her to talk to like Araselli yeah and Antonica you are and again when you told God hey God I don't know why you think I can handle this right

yeah not for nothing I know I know we're just power when oh six in LA but I think even you sharing that story is part of why you went through that, which sucks but it doesn't because it's helpful to someone. Yeah, I know. By the way, y'all owe me some tickets

because I caught in July. Antenica, you have so many orders of business with us. Hold on my throat. Umberto's going to talk to you, Antenica. We just debriefed. Yeah. Umberto,

umberto help Antinica out. Okay. Bro, that stuff has stressed me out. So you know, like, you go to sleep when you wake up and your shoulders hurt? Yes. Or like, right here hurts. It happened during this whole homey help line. Yeah.

I got the stress pain. Like tensing up. Yay. Yeah. Wow. A lot of girls called. It was all girls, no guys called. See them?

Where's David and Joker are now? Worked? You don't want David. I don't think you want David. There's the dude's calling up. And. These girls have been on, on home. I know.

Yeah. The guys are picking out engagement rings. Yeah. All right. Lily and Emily, don't hang up. I'm going to you. Lily, Lily. Lily.

Lily. Lily. Hello? She's like, I'm on hold so much. I'm going to put you on hold. What's up? Lily. Hey, Lily.

Hey, what's up? Lily, thank you for holding. Talk to us. What would you tell Araseli and the world? Man, this is turning into like I got cheated on hotline. It is. We all been through it. But honestly, I think the biggest thing is,

like going to therapy like the previous caller had mentioned like we're all hurting there's all this stuff going on especially in LA like the fires and you know it's hard to make a real clear decision when you have that on top of like your personal chaos so I think she just really needs to heal from my personal experience like I had a similar situation happen to me my son was really young and I decided to be the bigger picture be the bigger person and walk away and like now you know the his father you know went back to that girl and they had a big of the relationship and we my son has no idea that this actually happened he kind of just grew up with this half-sibbling and i kind of just took it on the chin and you know took the pain for what

it was and you know we are like all get along she's an amazing person yeah and um we're able to raise both kids without any conflict, which is a beautiful thing. I think normally there's like, you know, I think the primary concern here is for the kids and you don't want children to suffer, you know, and you want them to have like a clear definition of love. And so she needs to go to therapy. She needs to take some time. She needs to really, you know, have somebody who's non-biased that's going to give her some insight on how she should be feeling because, you know, again, like you can't always open them to the people that love you because they are going to hurt. So you also feel like, damn, I'm going to expose them to something and it's going to be even harder.

So it's like she really needs to take the time. Like I've seen both the coin. Like I decided to walk away and work things out and be the bigger person. And, you know, we're happy. Everyone's happy. You know, the grandparents didn't suffer. None of the family got to like, you know, see any fuel or like be, you know, victims, innocent victims in that scenario. Yeah.

But I've also seen friends who decided to take the other path. and, you know, one of them has an older daughter, and she's really bitter. She knows that there's another kid out there. Yeah. And but their parents are still together. And she's getting a bunch of, like, no, scumbags and stuff. Because although her dad's great and she's, her dad is so loving on her mom, she saw something and knows that something happened.

And now she just is, like, living her life thinking that that type of action is, like, okay, you know? So it's like, in the day, she's accepted it. It's about the kids. Yeah. Yeah, it's about the kids and making sure that they're okay. And, you know, it sucks. She's going to go through it. Like, we all, you know, had previously discussed, like, it's painful and, you know, it hurts.

But it's like you got out of, the number one thing is she's going to have to heal. And, you know, we don't know the circumstances. You don't know, you know, how tumultuous the relationship has been previously. Not that that's an excuse for anybody, but not everybody's built for, like, that mental, that strength to like push through scenarios you know so yeah yeah it's both sides like she she definitely needs to go to therapy she needs to heal and before she ever makes any type of decision but like everybody has said previously you try and it doesn't seem to work out you know maybe there's that one in a million that people can move on from a situation but it that type of thing destroys you

like you become a completely different person the most confident person becomes the most insecure and like it's heavy you know so For sure. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. I'm trying to put out of that. What's that word you're saying? Thank you so much.

Therapy. Yes. Therapy exists, bro. What is? Is it free? We should do like a post of like recommended therapist because everyone's always like. Be a man. That's you.

Is it free? That's different. That's different. That's your. And therapists are like, therapy is not free. Oh, that'll be $600. Oh, no, I'm good. They ain't free.

It ain't me. Sometimes also when you look at a therapist, you're like, oh, that don't look like me. They might judge. me they met all of this yeah they want to understand you know what's messed up what I've heard is like I have like a cousin that she's like oh I've been going to therapy and then and then um talk to her like a couple weeks after and I'm like oh how to go she's like dude I quit every time I would go it would be a new person and I had to retell the story and there was no consistency so she's like what's the point as much as therapy is the answer I do agree it's finding the right person and and it also is a

lot I have to be vulnerable to someone and maybe that's not the one that is for me you have to be vulnerable to somebody else it's a whole thing it's a whole thing process. But we should probably do like a brown bag like therapy list and I know that's not like us because we're just cholos and stuff. A venting session? I'm down. No, no. Not us be therapist fools. People that are our audience that can recommend a good therapist. Yeah. I want to cholo therapist. I cholo. A fool. My sister is a therapist. Her name is Yule. Do you recommend her? Does she get free lessons? She won't. She won't give me any lessons because she's like no. Well she. Okay. We have one more caller. Let's go to the other color. Emily from Southgate. Emily, I'm sorry. I've kept you. on hold for so long and then just start talking about therapy but Emily

talk to us you you ended a 20 year relationship yes let's go what um because she has a lot of power and strength I'm proud of her I'm proud of her

talk to us Emily I'm proud of her so first of all kids are resilient children will always be resilient take your time tell her not to tell him yet until she gets the final I guess verification from

her guy that's the first part I have a 10 year old and a 16 year old and it was tough on them the pain never goes away you just learn to live with it just like death it's grief

you're grieving yeah yep that person that was there for you for X amount of years is no longer that person you know and before she loses herself trying to stay there and maintain a happiness. It's not even real. She needs to walk away from it.

I also wanted to let you guys know, please give her my number. Like, she needs a community. Yeah. Yeah, she does. I will. I will because I look, this is someone that I, I've had interactions with previously. And, you know, I know that it takes a lot to, to reach out to people that, like, maybe strangers, but also you don't want them to judge you.

And she understands the show. so she knows Louis Hella clowns But she's really going through it And she wanted to see our thoughts And that's why I could do nothing but support her Also having been someone that has a similar story Like I know how that feels And I come to think about it

I don't think I ever told my family I never told like I don't think We ever had a conversation of what happened But I do know that they can see it Even if you haven't told your family Even if you haven't They've seen there's something going on And guess what? They just want to

to be there for you. Sometimes we protect the person that does us wrong from the people that actually love us. That's something I learned. Like, I was the number one defensor of that dude that would do constant stuff to me to my family so much so that they knew they couldn't tell me anything. Like, because I was choosing it or you don't even know. But when I came to them and I was broken and I went through all of that, they didn't have to say a word. Like, they didn't even have to know what. They just took me in, you know, like, so understand that there are people waiting to support you in that. You're not as alone as you think you are.

Yep. Just let her know that I was blessed with a wonderful family and a great community. I dished everything. I took everything. And the one thing that I would just change was not go digging for anything else because I did go to therapy and come to find out you do get

PTSD from this sort of trauma. It took me maybe about a year because I went in deep diving and did all the therapy that I could have done to deal with it. Um, but I say just walk away. Get into with your committee.

This is why I say please, please, please. It's very important for me, uh, for you that go out to give her my information. Um, there is a couple of women that I've talked to and, you know, I was able to them healthy, um, directions, we could say. Um, some of them walked away from it and some of them are still dealing with, you know, the whole cheating scenario. Um, the, the one. thing that I took from it was I have daughters so if my child my daughter came to me with that

same scenario what would I tell them and if I decided to stay how could I advise them to leave if I decided to stay in a situation like that so I I I did it was it was very horrible I didn't want to die but I just needed the world to stop I wanted to stop because I just I couldn't do it I'm happy for you and I'm happy that you're able to get through this. So, yeah, he's strong. She's strong. Jose wanted to hang up. Why would you do that?

No, no, no, no. He just saw the clock. Oh, dang. We got out of commercials. Like, we'll be back. I appreciate every person that opened up. That call. And the guys appreciated to as much as they joke, they don't want to see this far women that they love truly, right?

No, not a goal. Because we're trying to keep it like you. Make us feel awkward. Well, we just try to keep it light, you know what I'm saying? Yeah. Because it can get very heavy. But, you know what I'm saying? There is a lot of strong, powerful women

and just called, and I'm proud of them. Bro, I literally need them. The stress right here is crazy. I feel it. I swear, like, I feel tense. And I feel bad, but I appreciate everyone that called and opened up. They feel comfortable enough to call in with your story. Yes. I need those I met girls here now.

Oh, yeah. Can you guys pull up right now? Let these stress. This has never happened in my life where, and I've been on air for at least a decade and some change. I feel tense too. Where the, stop making about yourself. Yeah.

I know about myself. Like, let her have a moment. Let her have the moment right in house. Support women. Yeah. You ever have been just stressed out and then you go to sleep and you wake up and your back hurts, your shoulder area. Oh, yeah. That happened to me live on air as I'm getting triggered and anxious over this homie health line,

which, by the way, everyone that's been DM you, I'm getting a lot of stories of stuff that has happened to you. One girl told me, Bro, my sister has three beautiful kids with this dirt bag, 15 years they were together. They want to go to their taxes. And then she was trying to figure out why she kept getting chunks of her taxes garnished. Finds out it's because of child support because he has two other baby mamas. He didn't tell her about all of this stuff is happening in real time. And I just want to send my love to you.

That is crazy. It's crazy and it's spooky and it's not hilarious. Not hilarious. Not hilarious. But it literally gave me shoulder. pain. Wow. Oh, I hate that pain.

And I need our home girls from... Yeah. I meant here's that. Umberto. Just kidding. No. The girl, call the girl from my mid. Yeah.

All right. Let's get into Word on Rosecrans. We have our only loud tickets on the way, man. Woo. Word on Rosecrans. What's the word? Connected like I'm Rosecrans. Roze Krans.

The word is, Pokemon, happy meals are back. Cool. All of our answers. I love it. Our prayers have been answered. Angie gets a happy meal. I do. That's amazing.

Like regular food? Yeah, she ordered his happy meals. It doesn't matter what the toy is? No. Well, yesterday we went to McDonald's. Luis always gets a happy meal. Jorge is seven. He's a big kid.

He doesn't get a team. He's not going to get the Pokemon box? No, but Angie got a happy meal. I did. So Jorge got all of Angie's happy meal. Like the toy and everything. And he loves Pokemon. Yes.

And this is their first time seeing Pokemon cards in a happy meal. Them. For us? Nistalgia. Yeah. Well, they're calling it nostalgia. It's a concept.

New-hastal. Yeah, because it's like cross-generational. Like the fact that you get geeked about it, so does your kid. It's like, it's like a bonding experience. It really is, honestly, because I went yesterday and Max had told me the day before he's like, Dad, he's going to McDonald's, it's going to McDonald's. I'm like, no, no. But then when I saw why, I was like, we're going.

I was excited. We're going right now. The boxes are different. The boxes. It's like dragon-type themed Pokemon. So there's a Charzar, Dragon Knight, and this green one that I've never seen. It's the new one. After my time.

Yeah, after my time. It's, I don't know. Max loves that guy. Blaziken, maybe? Blaziken? I don't know. But yeah, so there are new Pokemon cards, part of Pokemon Go. And, yeah, they're now available at McDonald's.

And I heard the drive-through lines are super long now. Yeah, the drive-through lines are long. The demand is super high. But it comes with like a four-pack of cards. And inside. Good cards too. Really good. Some holographics.

That's what's in right now. It was like a holographic Pikachu and then a Charzard was in there. And then there was like other two, but the boys knew exactly who they were. Wow. Can I see their holographic Charzor? Can I borrow? I just got to see something real quick. All my friends are like into trading cards right now, Pokemon, but they're doing it digitally.

It's kind of weird. What do you mean? Like there's, I guess there's an app that they use where they could buy cards and then open packs and then. Oh. Yeah, it's not even like a physical card anymore. So what people do? is that you go into like this online thing

where someone's opening the cards for you and you bid on them. So you're bidding on somebody opening the cards. Did you do this? No. But I think they ship them to you after. I don't know. It's like a yes. They send me screenshots all the time of it's like a digital card and I'm like why do you have

actual digital like this is not an actual physical card, the digital card and they turned it in for money. Like they're buying the pack like NFTs. Yeah, maybe. Yeah. That's how to I like it. Yeah, it's a big thing right now. I don't know what it is.

Welcome to Bitcoin, brother. Yeah. A Pokemon. That's our new reality. The UGWorld. I just bought some Melania coin. Digimon. Digital monsters. Cgimon are champions.

This is no. It's Pokemon. I know. I know it is Pokemon. Game, homie. Do you have the song? What? Oh, yes, I do.

Yes, I do. Do you guys remember this? I do. Yes. Yes. Come on. How's it goes. I want to be the very best that no one ever won.

Sing along, I know you know it. To catch them is my real test. To train them is my car. That's what I think about you guys. That's going to be far and wide. Eat Pokemon to understand the power is inside. Comeymon, got to catch a fun. Regular haters.

Br. Who I wrote that and performed that? Banger, she still does. That needs a great Grammy. Who? Yeah, every year. I don't know the guy's name. Who's that Pokemon?

Who's that singer? Who's that writer? Thank you for that. Yeah, thank you. The other Pokemon is Roaring Moon and Rayquaza. You're a roaring moon. Raycozy. All right.

All right, look. Bad Bunny revealed the reason why he decided to release his new album on a Sunday. Okay, so he said this is a very special album and part of its purposes to bring together generations in a different way, kind of like Pokemon. And they, you know, it has grandchildren. Yes, sharing the music with the parents and grandparents and they celebrate the culture in a special way.

So January 5th was a Sunday, which is the perfect day. And actually like as far as industry, music industry terms, it's not the perfect day. It's not, you cut yours, I guess they go by weeks and the week starts, if that was Sunday might be Thursday? Because he said that cut me off of three days from being counted on the charts. He's like, but this to me is more important than being counted on the charts.

And we love a people's man, right? Exactly. He also mentioned it was the eve of Three Kings Day before. Because they usually submit for Fridays and they release Thursdays 9 p.m. Yeah. You call it Three Kings Day?

That's what it says. What do you call it? De Los Reyes. Good job. That's right. Yeah, he did. And in Puerto Rico, too, they celebrate the El Los Reyes.

That's how I know you're not. because you said that you didn't know about this until you worked here at Brownback. I'm a Christian Puerto Rican. You're Christian. Oh my God. Christians believe in Jesus too, Stoge. Catholics believe in Jesus. Yeah, but yeah, that was the reason.

He wanted to do it, knowing Latino families, Puerto Rican families, they all get together. They get together and celebrate the a de los Rieges. They cut the bread. They look for the baby or they don't want the baby. And he's like, I knew families were going to be together and I thought that would be really clean. Yeah, it's cool. I just like any time artists do something intentionally. You know what I'm saying?

Like when Tyler the crater dropped on a Monday morning, it was like, oh, so you can listen to this on your way to work. Nice. You know what I'm saying? So I just like when artists are intentional. I don't like that he did that because that means they're not listening to us. So shout out of Tyler, but. Yeah. Yeah.

After 11 a. Yeah. Exactly. Yeah. All right. Well, that was your word on Rose Cranz brought to by a local Southern California, two of the dealers. I'm Rose Cranz, Victor Brownback Mornings on Power 106. All right.