Brown Bag Mornings - Ep. 597 You'll Get Over Losing Grandpa (But We Still Need the Car) 😬 | Brown Bag Mornings (11/20/25)

Episode Date: November 10, 2025

The "Homie Helpline" takes on heart-wrenching (and infuriating) family drama as Miriam seeks advice on how to retrieve her grandpa's promised car and sentimental items from his controlling new wife, who cruelly told her she'll "get over losing a grandpa". Plus, the crew debates why Target is implementing a creepy new initiative that requires staff to look you dead in the eye and smile from 10 feet away, potentially ruining everyone's human-interaction-free shopping experience. [Edited by @iamdyre 🛻]See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Before the podcast starts, make sure you like, subscribe to the channel, leave a review, and send the link to a friend while you're at it. The more brownback, the better. Come on. Sparrowaner 6. Buenos Aires. Good morning. Groundback mornings. November 10.

It is November 10. Tomorrow is 1111. 11. A lot of our kids have off tomorrow. Make a wish. Do we? Our kids. Angie, our kids.

I have children. No. What's the holiday tomorrow? Vett that on those day home. You're right, you're right, you're right. It's 6.36 a.m. Buenos days. Good morning to you. I'm Huleti. Greg is here.

Yes. And Angie's here. But Angie did not come alone. She got bees in her trap. And you got a beach problem or was it? We have a bee problem. And I mean like honey bees and wasp. So the other day I woke up and inside my room, there was a wasp in my window.

and I sleep right next to the window And then over the weekend On Saturday there was a honeybee Like it was just in the living room flying around I know I know Where they at? Can't tell me nothing

They're be in the track They're doing that TikTok challenge I know And apparently my dad told us that There is like a bee-ness somewhere That they've heard it Oh yeah yeah But I don't know where it's at

You gotta find it one time When I was growing up There was at my crib, there was a speaker and they were inside the speaker. It was so crazy. Yeah, I've seen crazy things. It was so crazy. It was so crazy. It was so crazy.

And, like, have made their own little honey making stuff. It's wild. So maybe it's somewhere in there. Look in the speaker. And the speaker. In the speaker? In the garage? Just be really quiet.

And I know it's hard in a house with 10. Yeah. But be very quiet and look forward like the humming noise is. There's like 10 people, 20 cats, now a whole bunch of things. And a dog. It should be like the Fernandez Reserve at this point. I know. It's a compound.

Fill out the center. All right. I'm going to tell you why you're going to be real uncomfortable with shopping inside target really soon. Why? But first, please stop fighting over these dang bears at the Starbucks. See more more videos of those Starbucks barista little cups. They're cute. People fighting over them.

They're so cool. And then the resell value on them is going away. It's crazy. I also saw a video of a girl being like, why do I need to make it if we have it at home? And they got the honey, the bear that's in the honey jar. Yeah. That is the honey jar.

And then re-did, yeah, bro, it was a trip. Wow. It was like, there is a dupe in your house. Don't be fighting for them. That's something like your dad would do, Lo-key. Yeah, it is. Like, hey, why do you need that bear at the Starbucks? Yeah, actually.

You can buy it at home for $2. Walmart did it too. Yeah, Walmart did their own version. Hold on what? Walmart did it. the same thing too. With the honey bear. With the honey bear. They're like, here's ours. It's not the same. It's not the same. It doesn't have the be neat.

Year 2000, my dad was going to buy me a razor scooter and he bought me a rage scooter. And I'm thankful. Probably. And I'm thankful for it, but it wasn't a razor. No, it was good. It was better. It was good. It was light blue. It wouldn't be as great of a stuff if you said, hey, in 2000 something, my dad bought me a razor scooter. No. You see? I want to know what that rage scooter who felt like. Okay, bro?

I was raging after I didn't get a razor. I just had rage in my teen years. I believe it. Okay, no. Let's talk about Target. So Target is going to require its staff to look at you dead in the eye. Make eye contact and smile at you while greeting you if you are within 10 feet from them. This isn't just when you go into the store and then like the security guard either is nice or not.

Yeah. Get your car right here. No, if they see you in the aisle. No way. They look at you, make eye contact, smile. They're going to start doing that? Yeah. They've been doing that to me recently when I forget to scan stuff.

Well, yeah. They're not smiling. And just so you know, there's a folder on you. Yeah. Thank God, though, because I'm tired of all these damn like Gen Z kids. They just look at you and don't even say anything and walk away. They're not like helpful. Oh, my God.

And I look at them and I smile and I'm like, oh, what's up? And they're just like, so. Well, yeah, it's because you're Greg. Like, he'll. He's looking at weight. It costs zero dollars to be nice and smile. Okay, so this initiative aims to boost sales. and improve consumer metrics

following similar structured greeting guidelines used by companies like Walmart and Disney. Wow. You know Walmart does have the greeters. Yeah, they're really nice. But now this is like wherever you are in the store. Like what's up? I'm somebody that like, like, I don't know when I'm shopping.

I like to, I hate how can I help you? I hate that when I'm shopping. Or like, are you shopping for anything in particular? Like, no. You hate it? Yeah, I do. I love going inside the store, but I like doing my own thing. Yeah.

Yeah. Because then it's weird. Now I'm like got to tell you about myself and what I'm just. doing. Oh. No, I'm just here because I don't want to be home with my

six and seven year old and you know, I'm just buying time. Are you looking for anything? No, just contemplate in life. No, it's like, that's why I go to Target.

I go to target for no human interaction. That's why the self-checkout exists. Andrew, you don't even go inside. I don't even go inside. I don't, I just do curbside pickup. Oh, my God, I love it. I love it.

I don't have to get out of my car. So weird. Now I can add a little coffee to it and they bring it to me. Get out the car, be a human being. So get ready for some human interaction, y'all, when you go inside Target. I like it. More stores need to do this.

Well, yeah, more stores are doing it. I hate when people don't say, all right, have a good day. I'm like, because I will do it on purpose and tell them. Okay. Yeah, I get mad about it. I'm like letty. Don't look at me. Don't look at me.

I'm here for no reason. You know what? Don't remind me. Don't remind me. You know what you can just tell them when they ask you like, oh, what are you here for? Do you just tell them like, oh, I'm just browsing. I know. And then I don't like that.

I don't like even needing to say that. All right. Moving up. Moving on. If you've ever had YouTube TV, has anyone ever, like, subscribe? Yes. Just canceled. They owe you money.

Really? Well, you just canceled because of how much they said that they were going to charge now? I bought it for the Dodgers, and the Dodgers are over. Oh, okay. It's expensive. It's like $85 a month. What? In this economy, it's crazy.

You bought it to watch on your phone? Yes. Okay, I got you, got you. Well, YouTube TV, they're quietly offering a hidden $10 per month credit for six months because they lost Disney channels like ESPN and ABC in a contract dispute. So they owe you bread if you're a subscriber. They just are not going to tell you about it. Subscribers must manually claim the discount in your account settings.

Oh, what? They hit it. They cleverly hit it there. I'm like, yeah, we'll pay them if they find it. You can have it if you find it. Good luck. Yeah. All right.

I wish more places did this. Yeah. Because you don't know, I guess, what you're really paying for in these subscription services anymore. And behind the scenes, they do have contracts that may be up or why you signed up isn't there for them anymore, you know? Yeah, in particular YouTube TV, they advertise it's like, this has everything you'll ever need, except Disney and ESPN. And so like now it's like, bro, I thought it was everything. Well, they were the only place that I could find my family, not my actual family.

Wait, what? No, the movie. Oh, okay. My family. Every time I ask me, like, have you seen my family? They're like, Latte, are you okay? No. Have you seen my family?

My family. Me familia. Have you seen me? Me familia. Whatever. Whatever y'all. Never mind. Never mind.

Never mind. And Greg, it's Masha Monday. It is MASH up Monday. What we doing, bro? And I have a mashup for all the parents that are tired of hearing demon hunters over and over and over again. So I made like a little mashup that's going to, you know, maybe unfit up a little bit for you guys. Oh, okay? All right.

I can't wait to hear it. And by the way, coming up at 7.20 a.m. Your tickets to go to Disneyland. We got a four pack of tickets for you to enjoy the holidays over at the Disneyland Resort. Okay? You're listening for a Disney chime. I played it earlier at 6.40 a.m. So you could know what it is.

And if you didn't catch it, maybe tune in earlier. Yeah, do it. Maybe make a zero alarm for when you wake up. That's a smart idea, too. Mm-hmm. Come on. All right, we're going to play that coming up at 7.20. When you hear it, that's when you call up and be caller 10 to win the tickets.

All right. But let's get into Greg's Mashup Monday. It is Demon Hunters. Golden, is it Golden? Yes, it's golden. And what did you defy it with? Snoop Dog. What?

She might be with him, but she's thinking about me. With Snoop Dog Central Seduction? Yes, it's good. Oh my, I mixed this together. I was like, yo, this is time. Who's the demographic for this? I know, true. Well, it's like, you know, parents want to turn up too to the kid's songs.

Totally turned up to Central Seduction. You know how we do that. Yeah, what? You don't turn up to Central Selection. It's a great song. I'm going to just play. Match up Monday. Power 106.

Buenos Aires. DJ, Greg. See. I was the goals. I was alone. Oh. To watch it. It's okay.

Giving the throne. I didn't know. To believe. Everybody just look at Greg. Why are you so bad? Even if you're in the car. Even if just look at Greg. Shaking my head right now.

Anyone feel uncomfortable listening? Very. Very. Very. Very. Oh, yeah. Wasn't it a little bit? So much.

It's because we know. know the song. We know the original. It goes so well together. No it does it. No at all. See the video already. What? Yeah, like a Snoop Dog video and like,

What part of your brain is this floating around it and like where the matchup even like gets? Yeah, yeah, yeah. But one meets the other. You know what? It's because like people were asking for the demon hunter song in the club and I was like, I'm not going to play demon hunters in the club. So I was like, I'm going to make it a club anthem by playing Snoop Dog behind it. You play Central Seduction in the club?

Who doesn't? That's a bad, what? You don't fucking it up. You're telling me you don't like that song. I do like that song. Yeah. There's no time in place. Exactly.

And it's 1.30 a.m. So I don't want to hear the song that my kids are jammed to with that song. That should have mixed. I don't think he gets it, bro. No. It's a good thing. No, no, dog. You can get out for the rest of the movie.

Demon Hunters is for like the car ride and like time with the kids. Central seduction is from. like after midnight. Yeah. Honey, did the kids are going to listen to the song now? It's because of essential seduction. No.

Some of those kids were made to central seduction, bro, and it shouldn't be their favorite song mixed with it. It just says more about you. What is it? It says more about you. You're weird. Then it does about the song. So we're just going to leave it there.

And now, the weather. Oh, hell the dog. With concrete storm. Peritos, we are back for the weather Monday, November 10th. Summer is back. It busted a U-turn once again. First, we are off to the city of Valley Glen where you can see the great wall of murals

at the valley's end. Your high will be 87 degrees, peritos. Next, we stumped a yard all the way to the city of Linwood, where fools put one in the air to feel good. Sheesh, your high will be 87 degrees, and now we move like a manatee to menifee because you go be hotter than the roofer

in the summer, G, because your house will be 89 degrees. degrees out there, Perritos. Stay cool. Grab some water. It's it. Lastly, we throw over to the city of Pico Rivera and take your lady a Cerenata with the Conjunto Primavera. Your house will be 87 degrees out there, Peritos. Quick little fun fact about the city of Manifee. It sits right along the sunbelt of Southern California, which it means it averages 275 sunny days a year more than San Diego and Los Angeles. Hey, I'm jealous now, dog. I need to move to Manifee. Hey, who can rent me a Casa for 1500. Let's go. Hey, going back to your weatherbed, check it out. Monday, November 10th. Valley Glenn, you're going to be 87. Linwood, you'll be 86.

Manifee, 89. Pico Rivera, you'll be 87 degrees. Your boy Concrete for Power 106 on Brown Map mornings. Catch me tomorrow at 715. We'll see you guys later. Peace. Eso merino. All right, check this out, homie. You need a homie or need some help.

We need your help. We need a line. I mean, phone line. We got you for. The homie helpline. Miriam needs our help, Miriam. Miriam hit us up and said, okay, so I need some advice on something I've been dealing with

regarding my grandpa's wife. Sadly, my grandpa passed away in 2023, and ever since then, things have been hard, not just because I miss him so much, but because of how his wife treated us. My grandpa was my whole world, for as long as I can remember, it was always him, my dad, and us three granddaughters.

We spent every holiday, every birthday and every weekend together, he was the best Papa ever. She said, in 2018, he started dating this woman, and I never got a good feeling about her. I never seen him in love, so I just told myself, if he's happy, let him be. So I tried to accept her. After they married in 2020, everything changed. She was controlling and always around, always around, and our one-on-one time with Grandpa slowly disappeared. Fast forward to September 23, my grandpa was sick,

in and out of the hospital and sadly passed away. And since then, she's made everything about herself, the funeral, the reception, even moments that she should have been celebrating his life. She was so dramatic for everyone to feel bad for her. She even fainted at the viewing and made some drama at the reception after the funeral. Okay. All right. My sister was living with her after his passing and my dad was over all the time to help

her out since she was so depressed. And a week after his passing, she went and changed the title of my grandpa's car, a car that's been in our family for generations and that he had promised to us. And she changed the title into her name. I let it be for a whole year. And when I reached out to remind her of what my grandpa had said, she completely denied it, acted like I was lying, and told me, I get over losing a grandpa, but she'll never get over losing her husband. Jesus. My dad tried calming her down, but it seemed like it just turned into a big argument. What hurts most is she still has every single one of my grandpa's belongings,

all the things that meant so much to him and to us. We've tried to move on and let it go, but it's hard. She said, I guess I'm reaching out to see if I can get any advice on how others would handle this situation. I have a lot of regret taking a hands-off approach while my papa was still alive, And I know the car is probably a lost cause, but I just want a few of my grandpa's personal things back, something to hold on to that reminds me of him. I just want to know,

has anyone been in the situation, and how did they get their loved ones' belongings back? Help me out, Brownback. So it's the new wife that's causing the problems. Yeah, it looks like that's not her original grandma. Yeah, no, it's not the grandma. It's not the only grandma, but it's his wife. Yeah, new wife.

I don't know how new, They're old. Yeah. I know what you mean. Like, most recent grandma. Yeah. Yeah.

My grandma had a boyfriend, right? And I had never met my original grandfather. But this man was her boyfriend, all of my existence. Like, since I was born. So if I would be like, you're not the original. Yeah. Yeah. That was her person.

Yeah. That's your new grandpa. No. I would never call him grandpa. He don't deserve that. Not even does a fire? That's her man. Like, that's her man.

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Like, that's her person. Like, it's not what he is to me. It's what he is, he was to her. I had, like, a step grandma. She was in my life, like, I mean, whenever I'd go visit my grandpa, but I never looked to her like grandma.

It was just like, that's the child. Yeah, it's just, you can't fake a connection. You can't fake a relationship, you know, but like they have a real one. Yeah. And sometimes our feelings about that relationship, we press on to like, oh, it must not be real to them either because it's not real to me. Yeah. But it was real.

Like, it's like, what the head? What the heck? And they married too. So technically that is your new grandma. Nah. You can't force it on her though. It's technically your new grandma. They were old.

Okay, 2018. Yeah. Forcing it on them too is like, it's weird. Don't do that. And see, this is unfortunate not to, we'll go right back to the topic. But like, so I got with Jorge, clearly we're older. We were in like late 20s when we first got together. And he already had nieces and nephews, like that existed prior to me knowing him.

right? So when they met me, they met me as Leti. So then it's weird to be go from like Leti, my Tio's girlfriend, to Tia Leti. Like it just is a, no, it's just weird because I don't. Yeah, no. And then eventually they were like, like, but at first is like, say hi, it's Tia Letti. Like it just also feels weird. Not me telling them, but like their mom, like my sister-in-law or my husband would be like, it's Tia Letti. And I'm like, they just, they know me as Leti. That's how they met me, bro. They met me as hi, this is Letty. Like, this is Tio Jorge's girlfriend. So like it's just I get it like pressing it onto a kid

That's not gonna work either Doesn't be weird Like for the whole of his existence He was just Ricardo the grandpa that I The boyfriend of my grandma You guys had kids and got married though Yeah I know so they call it dioletti now But I understand like just initially it being weird

It can get weird on kids Five years usually isn't enough time To be honest Five years? No No it's just it goes by quick. Oh my God. Yeah, I have some, like Lettie said, I have some like Tia's and a Tio that

started off as like my Tia's boyfriend or my Tio's girlfriend, but now they're Tio's. They made it through the test. It's been like 10 years. I love them. And we have Tios like you bring every girl around and I'm not going to call each him Tia. Greg? You're right. I know you just talked first and no one was like, hey, let's eat you.

I was talking to Greg. I was like, wait, wait, hold out of you. I know. It's leftover resentment from the kids bob thing. Let's forget about that. Miriam. Miriam is on the line. Yeah.

Miriam. Yeah. Hi, good morning. Miriam. I want to get a couple things, Miriam, with you. First of all, I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing an abolito, a grandpa. That's like a pain nothing can take away.

Like, literally, that's your, that's the person that understood you when your parents didn't. That gave, like, that was, if you had, like, a really good connection with him, you know, like, that was the sweetest person in your life. and I'm assuming from your story that it was. Yes, of course, he, like, me especially, like, he even told me, like, I was his favorite, like, in front of my sisters, but there was never any resentment. Like, it's, like, I was so close to him, especially growing up. He would pick me up, me and my sisters up every weekend. It was just, I, like, miss him, like, so much.

He would go to all my sports stuff. He would be my number one cheerleader. Wow. And so talk to me about your grandma. That was... That's not my grandma. No, I'm not even talking about her. I'm not even talking about her.

I'm talking to you about your actual grandma. Like your grandma. Talk to me about her. Just make you sure because I heard you guys saying, oh, technique. Nope, technically. No, I was with you. That was great.

I was literally with you, girl. Miriam, chill out. Miriam, talk to me about your grandma. Is she still in the picture? Did they divorce a long time ago? I guess what's that? Yeah, she's, I'm really close to my grandma too.

My grandma had remarried before I was even born. So, like, maybe when my dad was, like, in his teenage years, and then she had two more kids with my grandpa, who is my grandpa. Like, I consider him my grandpa because I've known him since I was born. Yeah. And he's just a really big part of my life and stuff. But so my grandpa, my papa who died, he's been single ever since I can remember. So my grandma's amazing.

She's great. And she also, like, knew this lady like they knew her growing up and she was just kind of like yeah the rumors about this lady were insane so I think maybe that's kind of what kicked me off and I was like yeah I don't I am not getting good feeling I hear that a lot of stuff happened in the past and I'm just yeah not like your grandma get what your how did your grandma get with her second husband um I don't know Honestly. Miriam, what were the rumors about the lady?

That she did her own siblings dirty. She was never like big on found. Like, yeah. So she like didn't talk. Miriam. Miriam. I thought that she was with the whole Pueblo or something. When I hear you on the phone, I hear myself.

And something that I've come to learn about myself is that maybe I don't give people chances when they, just because of what I heard, okay? I'm also very like. Yeah, you think for a reason. Like, obviously, these. rumors are... I'm also possessive of my people and it seems like you are too.

And like, of course you have no beef with the the grandpa, the second grandpa that your abuelita married because you were born into it. But now you're an adult. It was 2018 when you started dating this woman. It's like, qualkiera, that seora del barrio. No, I was... Yeah, I had already had my first daughter.

Yeah, you were already an adult. So you can like... And to you, it's like, that's my grandpa. And I don't care if you're single first daughter. and I don't care if he's single for the rest of his life. No, woman deserves him. I don't know. I could tell, like, by people, when you meet someone off the bat,

I could either like you or not, and I'm usually never wrong. I'm never wrong. Okay. I'm never wrong. Honestly, it seems like you never gave her a chance. No, I did, honestly, like, to be real after, I went to their, like, court wedding thing, but I didn't go to the party because I wasn't, I wasn't supportive,

and I made that clear. So you didn't support the whole thing. So when did you get her a chance? Yeah. No, I did. Okay, so anyways, I realized. I'm with you because I'm like you. I'm with you.

Yeah. My dad will day and I'll be like, ew, who grows. Yes, he could find love later, but why does he need it? He has us. That's it. No, I didn't want him to be single and, like, lonely, you know? Like, he was, he never, like, expressed that he was lonely or looking at all until, like, a few years. He was active.

I'm not going to tell you. He was active. No, you don't get how close we were. Like, he even went as far as, like, sending us pictures. Like, hey, one of these could be possibly your new grandma. Like, you know. He was holding a bachelor? He was a legend.

Yeah, he was asking for insight. Wow. Was there anybody that you wish he would be with, like that he dated in the past, or they all were just not worthy? No, honestly, I, he, maybe he didn't bring them around or not. Like, I don't know. maybe we're too younger or something, but I don't recall anyone that he's dated before.

I just know that it's hard. Like it's tough to, and then I guess you already don't have too much of a connection with her. Clearly people and your family were also gossiping about her. So that kind of could have persuaded your, whether they were right or they were wrong. They gossiped about her.

Like, I don't know if they were trying to. Yeah, go. Like now we gossip about her because it's like, yeah, all these things added up. But I feel like we're very naive, especially like my dad. he was their number one supporter, you know? Like, he was all open.

He, like, even, he didn't call her mom, but she would call him son and he would let her. And, like, it was kind of like that. Like, and my sister would call her grandma, our mom, too. And it was just threw me off. So, like, no, we were accepting, like, maybe I wasn't. But other people were. I'm you. I'm you.

My mom moved on. I'm like, ew. I'm never going to call. What? So everybody accepted her but you? Me and my other sister. I mean, my other sister would accept stuff from her. And she's younger.

She was like a teenager. So she would like accept like she would try to like buy or like to get her to take her nails done, hair done, stuff like that. So she was trying. My sister would accept it. Yes, but it was not like heartfelt, you know? Oh, it wasn't genuine. Like she just did.

She used it against my other sister. Like now she's just or even in the moment she'd be like, oh, she's so ungrateful. She's so just to talk, you know, and make herself look like she was good like for taking her out. but then she would say my sister has an attitude or like this stuff like randomly like that. So it's just I didn't want to get like close to her like that. But you did confirm that your sister didn't like her but would take the thing she got off. Miriam. Miriam.

Miriam. You know where we're at? Who cares about the relationship you had with her? Who cares? Like it was not, you didn't like her. And guess what? You have the right not to like her. You have the right to love your people, love your family.

No one's going to force that relationship on you, okay? Your abolito got with her. Your grandpa got with her. And it's just kind of like you never had that connection with her. You never did. And it's okay. So, I wasn't ever rude or anything, though.

I was just, I was cordial. I was cordial. I get it. I get it, Miriam. But like, you know,

people can sense it. Just like you sensed about her. She probably sensed about you too. And you know what? Whatever. Look, lo, what happened,

Paso, and your grandpa, as long as you still maintain that relationship with him, and like you said, during the past couple years, when he got, really sick. You know, you felt like, you know, maybe you gave a hands-off approach that you didn't really feel like, dang, like, maybe should I have been more hands-on? Can you tell me about that?

Like, your grandpa in the last kind of couple years of his life and maybe your effort or your involvement? Okay. Yeah. So he actually, like, he wasn't sick for a long time. I want to say it was like maybe a month. Oh, that he was like a week, like a few days in the hospital, then the next week he was out and then he would go back in. It was like really weird. It was. Yeah, we actually still don't know what like what it was. Yeah.

Same. So that like that was going on the last month. But before that I just kind of mean like I took a hands off approach because he told me like, you know, he hopes that we can get like along and get close me and the lady. But I just said, you know, I like I respect that and I love you so much. It's just I feel like honestly you change. Like he used to be such a bubbly person, like the life of the party, the loudest guy in the room. But when, like, I have birthday parties every year, obviously, for my kids. So when they would come, she would keep them, like, secluded.

And then, like, everyone else, like, even my mom, who's no longer with my dad, would come and be like, what's from the other? Like, he's never like this. So it was kind of always like that. And I didn't like that that was going on. But I just kind of stood back while it happened because I'm like, hey, if you, you, you. You know, he's a grown man. Yeah. He, if he's that way, that's on him.

But I love himself. I also talk to him, but it's just with her. I feel like she's the main reason he's like that. Yeah. So then, no, he passed away. And now comes a moment where you've got to deal with her because she's his wife. And now there's funeral stuff and there's memorial stuff. And you guys feel like she was putting on an act, making it about herself.

You mentioned in the message that she had. fainted or like she fake fainted? Like, what happened? So we're at the viewing because he ended up being cremated, but before we had the viewing and it was really intimate, maybe like 15 people talked. But we were there all day and she didn't let anyone see him for like a good hour. And usually it's like the most like immediate family can see him. Yeah, she didn't let anyone see him for an hour and then she was like, okay, like my dad

had to like drag her out of there being dramatic. like everyone else finally got to see. The thing was only like two hours, I want to say. And we went and we said her goodbyes and stuff. It was time to leave. We had like plans afterwards to go back to the house and just kind of recoup and stuff. Yeah. But she wouldn't want to leave.

And we're like, okay, we have to go with someone else's viewing. It's like really busy. And then she was just like, I'm not going to leave him. I'm not going to leave my husband. My husband. And she just like started walking backwards. And at that point, I just walked out. I'm like, this is kind of like...

She's moping. She's moping. Morning. Morning. Yeah, whatever that is. Yeah. She's sad. She lost her husband.

Goodbye, though. Of what? Four years? Yes. Oh, my gosh. Media. Media. I can't say goodbye.

I can't say goodbye to my grandpa because she's standing right there being loud and being all over. Like, I can't, like, have an intimate moment with him alone because you want to take the whole time. No, not with her standing there. I respected that. I respected that. I wasn't while she was in there. And then she would come in while people were saying goodbyes and then like be loud and be him.

And it's like, okay, like you have the whole hour. There's other people who want to say goodbye without you being right there. Yeah. There's other people that have been in his life for a very long time and then they do deserve that. I do understand that type of maybe she could have been more considerate about your guys' time. Yeah. And allowed that for you. But I think you can't you can't call how people grieve.

And like, like on her end, like, how allowed she was, Romantic la Senora, but, like, also, like, you guys should have definitely had your moment. Like, I agree with you there. There was no comment for that. I'm wondering if you feel she may be acting out in a way that maybe you guys, she feels you guys weren't cool to her. So now it's her turn not to be cool to you.

Now that your grandpa's not in the middle. I'm wondering. I don't feel like that. Because what if we were to talk to her at Miriam? What would, how would she talk about? the situation what would she say you know she would say that she lost her husband that nobody understands how it feels to lose your husband she doesn't care she even said my dad will get over losing his father like

yeah that's horrible was 45 at the time he knew him his entire life you knew him for like a part of that like not even a big like chunk compared to 45 years like that's crazy yeah that's crazy that's crazy things to say how old is she the lady a seora 65 66 maybe imagine losing your husband

she's not she's not 67 oh my god 6 7 sorry I was sorry I'm sorry I don't even say that

in my house I don't have echoes all over what we didn't get to is there's a car I saw a photo of the car it's in El Camino it's an old

classic car but your grandpa promised it to you guys yeah so he just kind of said whoever out of like us girls would get their license first has the car and he said it all the time mind you he said it the week before his passing while we're on the phone and she was

right next to him chiming in on our conversation so i know that she's heard it multiple times but also she heard it that week prior to his passing so who would have gotten the car like off of his thing um me okay you so the car belongs to you should belong to you but a week or so after she changes the title on the car to her name. Yeah, yeah. She didn't tell me of us, of course. We heard it through the grapevine. I didn't confront her at all.

I kind of just let it because at that time I was still lagging on getting my license and stuff. But the following year, like a whole year, maybe three months later, I had said, hey, you know, I just want to remind you what my grandpa had said, and I want to let you know I'm looking into getting my license soon. So it wasn't even like I want the car right now. Wait, how old are you? I'm 26. I started driving really late. It's okay.

It's a new thing. Y'all don't want to drive. It's kind of weird. Okay. Okay. Yeah. All right. But you hit her up for it and she was like, oh, no, it's mine? Or what was her response?

Her response was, no, my husband wanted me to have it because it's safe for me to drive because it's all metal. This is and not mind if she doesn't drive it. You barely learned how to drive. And, oh, my husband. Okay. Okay, I barely learned how to drive, but my grandpa's thing was he hated how his dad had it in the car, in the garage, just taking up space used as storage, kind of. Yeah. And that's exactly how it is now.

So if she's not going to drive it and it is supposed to go to me or one of my sisters, I'm fine. I haven't told her. If you don't want him to go to me, give it to my other sister or my older one. Like, I'm fine with that as long as it stays in the family. And her response is, oh, it's going to be in the family. But she has children of her own. So she considers, like, you know, the. Okay, yeah.

And often too. Is there any other things that she's withholding besides the car? Or anything of your grandpa's? We don't have anything of his because my dad kind of just trusted her to, you know, he didn't have like storage and stuff for all my grandpa's stuff because he had a lot of like he was a big Dodger fan, big Lakers fan, big Raiders fan. He has all kinds of like memorabilia and stuff that meant a lot to him, especially like his Lakers stuff.

But that's all there. And we never asked for it because it's like, it's safe there. Yeah. But once all this drama started happening, you know, that was kind of an afterthought until like now. And it's kind of like we're on not on good terms, but I don't want it to be lost forever. Like, I feel like the car is. Got you. So how does she get her stuff back without robbing the place?

No, yeah. Without listening to under. Like, how can she get her hands on these things that had sent them in a value to the family? They cared about their abuelo and they want it. And this lady that got with them only for. four years before he passed away is withholding it. This

Miriam's grandpa if he was only with her for four years he for sure had underwear older than that relationship and it just puts things in perspective. Thanks, Vic. Let's go to cause. I don't know what that man being here.

Let's go down. If we keep our underwear a long time as men. Yeah, yeah. Too long. Okay. I just know. Go buy some new ones. Go buy some new ones.

Please. Go buy some other ones. Amelia, Amelia, Amelia. Hello. Hi, Amelia. Amelia, do you have any insight that you can help out Miriam with? I'm actually going through the same thing. I lost my dad, like a couple months ago.

I'm still warning understandable. No, you're fine. But with my stepmother about it, well, supposedly, I don't know. They recently got married like two years ago. So How long were they together before? Three. Five years and total.

Five years. Yeah. So she's new in your life and she's his wife and there are things tough right now? They are because, what is it? Like, I asked for, what is it? I have like a picture.

My dad, my dad was never threw anything out. Never. So he has this old shirt that he like I don't know, no matter how many times you wash it, like, smell like him. So I was like, oh, can I get at least just a shirt? Because my daughter, she's like, one, so she knew him.

And it was a sudden passing, too. Put it like on a teddy bear or a quilt or something. Beautiful. And she said, no, because she wants everything for herself. And I was like, but it is my dad. And she's like, but that's my husband. You'll get over it. And I was like, but it's my dad.

you're barely in the picture. They really say these things. They really come out their mouth and say these things, Amelia. That's insane. Because right now when Miriam said it. I have a text message proof and then I have a video proof of her saying it to me. Can you send that to her? Because when Miriam said it, I'm like, damn, this lady is crazy for you.

But she's not the only one that's said that. It's insane. I think it just comes with like the stepmom, step grandma, like label. It's like, you'll get over it. I just stepped in here. Okay, so have you, I guess it's been a couple months, and I know this is all very new, and I'm sure, like, hearing this, you're like, oh, damn, someone's going through what I went through. But, like, are you contemplating anything else? Or, like, are you trying to get, I don't know, I'm wondering what your solution has been, or are you just waiting it out?

So I talked to my dad's lawyer. He had a will. She's withholding the papers or something, because we can't get it read to see what goes. to what because I do need the death certificate to get him off of my car. Oh, because you had him on your insurance? On my car because younger, I messed up my credit and he had better credit. Oh, that's what you're for. Yeah.

Grab friends. Thank you, mom. Thank you, dad. But you need his death certificate and that's being withheld too? Yes. That's not illegal in some sort of way? I don't know. Well, it just passed.

It's like it's a couple months. She probably has to, she has to, like, renew and stuff like that. And Dang is going to go so high. Sheesh. No, she has it. Like, she has all the papers and everything and, like, how he died. Like, she's not willing to tell us it. And she's like, you'll be fine.

Get over it. But I won't get over it. He was my husband. I was like, you barely knew him. Wait, you don't know how he passed away, your own father? Well, we know it was very, very sudden, but we don't know exactly. what happened. Investigate.

This is the funny, it was on 9-11. That's when it happened. So it was just like, oh. Saw us on Dateline. I know. She's withholding stuff. I guess how was the funeral? How were those services?

Was it a little better with you guys? So how do I explain it? We just got done with like a memorial. Like I did a personal memorial for my family. And we did it nicely. And it was beautiful. but then the funeral when it happened, she was hysterical during the entire service

when like, why, for like two seconds? She did lose her husband. It sounds the same story. Is it the same lady? Is there a blueprint? I understand, but the way they met was just crazy. I was like she just was like randomly following him in a dang parking lot. That's how they met in the parking lot?

Yes. At a winco parking lot. She was just talking to him. And she said, oh, I like your car. And then that's just how they ended up dating. That's all school, Amelia. That we all used to park in La Pimp. I like your car.

That's old school, Amelia. Why don't you give me a ride? Gas stations used to be the spot. You guys never liked her? I don't want to. Yeah. Except for that and over there. All right.

But I guess you're going through it too and you just want to let her know, I guess, support her. Like, hey, you're not crazy. Whatever Brown Bag is telling you is not right. They're telling you that maybe you should have given this lady a chance. They're all like that. Yeah, maybe? No, not the lady a chance. I'm sorry, yeah.

No, not that part. Okay. So you never liked her? I tried. I really honestly tried. Me too. I'm with you. You know when you get a feeling that it's just a feeling you're like, nope, nope, I'm good.

And I try to push past it. Nope. A good feeling. I guess what would have been the good feeling? Like, I guess that's what I'm. thing like what woman would have been one that you would have accepted uh so i don't know it's just she wasn't like warm or kind you just had like an i don't i don't know how to explain it i'm with you i feel the same but that was the love of his life that was the love of his life he loved that no

that was the love of his two years the previous two years amelia we're with you and again that that loss is sudden and that happened this year so i don't want to play with that that's something big that you're going through. So I love to you. Thank you so much for calling them, mamacita. Thank you. Have a good night, morning. You too.

You have a good night too, okay? It's Power 106, Brownback mornings. We're talking to Miriam. Yes. Midiam is going through it. Her grandpa's lady that he married four years ago. Why? Barely met her.

Why? She was making, grieving him so hard because she is withholding the things that he promised the family. she's made the funeral about herself. When she first got with them, they didn't even like, she just never meshed well with the family, okay? And you know what?

That happens. You're gonna knock it along with some people, but I guess with her, it's like now that things are in her control because their grandpa passed away, she's taking it like 1,100. She's like, oh, y'all treated me like this? Yeah.

Well, guess what? But I guess using her grandpa's stuff against them now. Yeah. Like whether they got along or not, that's up in the air. But now it's like, well, because I'm married, his stuff is mine. So I'm not going to give it to you. She's not wrong.

Yeah, but there's some respect there, I guess, like, to give to that family. Because if you, maybe this could lead them to have a relationship. She tried. No, maybe, okay, he passed. We both loved him. I want to share this with you guys. And then they would feel like, oh, she's not so selfish. I guess, Miriam, if she reached out and, like, let you guys take this stuff,

would you take it and run or would you maybe give her a shot too miriam okay so i tried giving her a shot like it was like um i personally stopped talking to her last year after like i talked to her and i was on the phone crying with her telling her how much this would mean to me to have that like my grandpa wanted me to and she you know brushed me off and just said i would get over it so that's the last time i personally spoke to her but my sister was still living with her and my sister and one of my sisters and my dad were really accepting of her. They would do everything for her, especially after my grandpa past, they felt like it was their job to take care of her. And she even pushed them away by acting crazy. Like the way to them. Yeah, like that's where we're at now. But I just want to clarify that,

like, it wasn't always like, oh, we don't have a good feeling about her. I personally didn't. I can't speak for anyone else. I know like my sister, she's a really loving person. So she accepted her off the bat. And my dad, too, he was just like, if this is what my dad wants, I'm, you know, his number one supporter like he's been my whole life. Yeah. I'm watching. I'm watching me and wait. And guess what?

You don't have to over explain. It's super clear. Like you tried your best. It didn't work out. Now he passed away and the things that he promised you, she's withholding. So you really want to get it. And I guess what the... I would be cordial and I would be, you know, like after everything she said, it's crazy.

I'm always going to hold that there. And I don't want a personal relationship with her because I've learned from what that... You know, she's not going to call you because you don't want that person's. It's not about her. It's about their grandpa. It's not about this lady. This lady can't force a relationship in order to keep things. She's holding these things hostage. I got it. Hold on, Miriam. I, too, think like you. All right. Daniel. Daniel, Daniel, in Paris. What dole, Daniel? Hey, good morning, brown bag. Hi, Daniel. Daniel, talk to us, bro. You kind of understand where Miriam's coming from as well. I do. I've been trying to keep my voice calm and steady to talk about. because it's one thing to talk to your family about to put it on the air.

My father passed away 2009 from cancer, and it was my stepmother who created problems in between my siblings and my mother and I, where when my father was going through his treatment and passed away, they made it hard for us to see him. Okay. Now, after his passing, going to the funeral, they didn't allow my mother to go in to see my father or to even be in there at the time. Wow. After cremation, it was very hard for my sisters and I to get any type of ashes, any clothing, or any material from my stepmother or even my aunt. because they said no we didn't deserve it and it belongs with his sisters you know my theos it belongs with them more than it belongs with us we don't we don't deserve it oh my gosh i'm so sorry for my sister's wedding it was like a two-day bickerman to even allow us to have my dad's ashes for present for feet forwards you know just to walk down

Iowa and whatnot and they came and take them up, but it was like a hassle just for that one day. And it's the struggle. We are now like the black sheep of our family. For our dad's celebration of his passing or even

his birthday, they do their own thing. And they have their own age t-shirts and everything and we have nothing. You know, I mean, we had to come up with their own little your own way to celebrate him. Yeah. It's not together. And I guess that's what happens sometimes when people pass. It's not. One would hope that unites the family, but often we see that it doesn't.

And I guess I'm wondering, did you ever get to have any of the stuff? Did it ever get better? You know, his pin passing in the 2000s. Now it's been a few years. I'm wondering if that, like, if there was ever some kind of compromise? Kind of. From my, my sister's, my mother, they don't talk to my dad's out of the family. They won't interact at all.

Yeah. For me, it took my wife to get me back into religion and to forgive them. But it's still kind of like a line there. You know what I mean? I could still be cordial with them. Yeah. I did get some ashes, but here's the funny thing. They have little urns that they sell. And they're like, I kid you not, they're like the travel size shampoo bottles. Yeah. Okay. That is how small ounces of my dad I got. And then when they moved around my father before they actually put them into the cemetery in the memorial, they told us, oh, hey, we're going to put them in here without even consulting any of us or anything at all. So, yeah. And then I recently kind of.

I guess you did compromise, but it wasn't enough. It doesn't feel like enough. You still feel like left out in some way, shape, or form. Correct. Because these are like, oh, hey, we have a little leftover. Yeah. Do you want this? Like, what?

Why could we not have it all? Yeah. Why are you guys giving us this? You have to share with the rest of the family. You know? Because they're supposed to love us. But that's his dad. We guys are denying us and not giving us what we need of our father.

You know what? Like, thank you, bro. Thank you. And I, that's tough. And I'm sure that little piece you guys hold that sacred. I'm sure you got you take care of that. And even the little that you have, you definitely hold on. to it.

Oh, I do. I use that little piece for my wedding. Aw, that's awesome. Thank you so much, bro. Thank you for calling in. And this is just a reminder to everybody. Do your wills and give copies. Yep.

Give copies, give copies. Because it could probably be something where it's like, well, I'm withhold. You don't know what you got. I'm not going to show you. Yeah. And also never remarry, Jorge. See what happens? See what happens if you remarry somebody else?

They're not going to give our kids anything. Wow. You get a shampoo travel-sized bottle. Yeah. Our grandchildren are going to call her the lady. La Senora. And I'm going to do rumors about her. You know, she's going to her sister.

What is the most coolest guy around him? He's like, letty chill out. All right. Sorry. Julie. What is my husband, by the way? Julie. Julie.

Hi, good morning. Hi, Julie. Julie. Good morning. We're blowing up a call, so we got to keep this going. talked to us. We're talking to Miriam. Miriam had her grandfather passed away. And you know what? She never really had that close over relationship with the lady that he ended up marrying about four years ago. She's been really off put with the family. Even the family that's tried to get close to her.

She seems to be like, eh, about it. You know, now he passed away and she's taking out her personal vendettas on them, not allowing them to really be at the memorial, which is crazy. She held it up an hour just for her by herself. then they came in and she was being extra loud she had to be carried out she fainted all of this stuff you know and uh his belongings especially things that he promised the family she's not and she's telling the family straight up you lost your grandpa you lost your dad you'll get over it i lost the love of my life i cannot get over it uh that's where it's at right now what would you tell her julie um this is very hard. It is very upsetting because you know it's very upsetting because you it's only a third amount of time for the service and there's someone else being greedy with the time and you don't have

much time to say goodbyes to your loved one. But as for like property, you know, I would, you know, it is just always important to always have a will because we went through the same situation as a family where my mom divorced my dad. Well, it's my stepdad, but he raised me since I was four years old. Yeah, that's your dad. So when he passed away, it was already a fight from like the very beginning because obviously, you know, you have to pay for the hole and the holes are a lot of money. My mom and my dad had already paid for a hole, but when they were together, they came to an

agreement that it was going to be my grandmas because, you know, she's always. you know, we were expecting for her to pass away first. So then little than my dad, you know, we knew my dad passed away sooner. So first, you know, his part of the family, you know, like my step deals, that side, they were all mad that we were going to use the hole for my dad. When my mom and my dad were the ones who paid for it in the first place, they never fixed not one cent into it. So you're kind of like on the other side of this, huh?

Like where it's like your mom's. like your mom's person passed away and it seems like his family is now asking for things or trying to get things and how does how do you guys feel about that we felt so sad about it and even talk about now it's very sad just because you know we thought like you know we're family like even if you guys separate we separated um you know cousins we were all close like you know cousins growing up um later on you know there was just you know those creepy um creepy feels, you know, what happened. And tell me a burroso, Julie.

Sorry, Julie, I'm sorry. You're just like, um. Where do you have, Esposso del funeral, Julie? Let me have to call. All right. But Julie, so I guess they're trying to come up on your, on your stepdad stuff, but like,

I guess you guys not being his, and I don't say this mean, but like, if in their eyes, the original family, it's like, why is it yours they're saying? Yeah. I mean, even if we weren't the original family,

you know, my mom and my dad still had kids of their own so my younger brothers, they weren't over age at the time so they weren't able to go to court and, you know, fight for my dad's vehicles, you know, any, you know,

my dad, she loved shoes. He had so many shoes. It wasn't really like, you know, much of, like, is your mom with holding from the deals. Is your mom withholding all this stuff from your family? Okay. No. It was my uncles that were never around. They started taking all of the property away from my stepfather. They took everything. And especially because they knew that he had sued his employer. So he had already had like some money was going to expect some money coming in. They even took all that money away. My little brothers were so sad. Now, luckily that they're over age, they are finally getting, you know, money from my dad's, like, survival benefits. Yeah.

Yeah. And also, like, I guess for whatever he had sued his employer for. Yeah. But it is, I'm just going to say, like, in general, like, when there is a family loss and there is, like, you know, you're no longer as union, like in one family, it's always best to always, you know, make sure that the person, you know, when they're older to have a will or to have something in writing. in front of a lawyer in a notary. You know what's crazy, Julie? I guess people never think it's that time to do that. You know, and especially like talking to Miriam's – excuse me, Julie.

It's talking to Miriam's – she's like her dad died suddenly. And maybe you just got to start doing your will as soon as you turn 18 and just change it every year. Because you never know, you know what I'm saying? Yeah. You never know. As soon as you have an asset, make a will for that asset. I'm going to go home and do it. Yeah, like you just don't know.

Because then there's going to be – there's going to be – fights that maybe you don't, you don't wish for your family. Yeah. Julie, thank you so much for calling and we appreciate you so much. Thank you guys. I love you guys. I listen to guys every morning on my way to work. Let me get some of those Jordans your dad. Thank you, Julie. What size? Yeah, what size of Jordan? Hey, Julie. Ten bien, Jesus Christ. Ten bien die, Julie. Man them a photo.

Thanks. Hey, Julie. Yeah. It's funny when I do it because I'm an actual guy. But you're doing naked. It's really creepy. All right. All right. Homie hell playing. Miriam.

Her grandma, her step grandma is withholding everything after her grandpa passed away. A car that he promised. It's an old school. It's a classic car. Elco. Really nice.

But like I guess he just meant for it for them. Like even if it is like not like El Dallano or whatever, it's like he promised this to his granddaughter. And he deserves to be hers. But the grandma was like, switch the title on him. And then, was like, oh, no, no, no, no. Hey, you guys will get over it. Try losing love of your life.

Oh my God. It's just been so much. Brianna and Carson, Brianna. What's up, Brianna? Hi. Good morning, I'm back. Bree, thank you for holding on the line. I appreciate your call. What would you tell Miriam about this? Like, I guess it's advice for Miriam. Yeah. But I, someone I'm going through something, or not am going through it. I went through something. Yesterday was the 20-year anniversary of my grandfather's passing. And he didn't remarry, but he did have like a second person. That was there since I was born, so at the time I was seven. And so she moved him out of like the city.

She moved him a little further away from the family. And when he passed, it's kind of unexpected. We didn't, it still doesn't make sense to this day. But we're pretty sure that there was like a will or some form of document that we've never seen. And so since then, it's just like her and her. her, like, she bought her and her sister knew Mercedes Ben. Oh, no. Yeah.

And then on top of that, it's like, at the funeral, my dad, all of us, we were barely in there. And even, like, people spoke out at the funeral saying, oh, we didn't even know that, you know, he had a son. And so it's, like, for a long time, we've just been kind of living with that. And this is, again, somebody, he didn't even remarry. This is just, like, a lady. This person that he was. And she was my dad's age, so. What?

Wait, she was your girl? the dad's age. So she was way younger than him. Yeah. Yeah. And so, I mean, we kind of just move past it because we kind of like, we're just like, we have something she does and we have the memories. We have his actual blood.

Like, you know, we know at the end of the day that we're his family. But it's still, you know, it's still hard to think about. Yeah. It's a crazy situation. Like to the day, we still don't know where the wheel is or those documents. We're like, and we're just like, you know what? We can just move past it. Okay.

Check the Mercedes deal. The Mercedes It's at Fletcher Jones Okay, not to like condone Like breaking and entering But you guys never thought like Hey let's just go in the house and like search for it Or like while we're

While we're visiting her Like I'll distract her You go dig around the Like maybe I mean my parents I thought about I was only seven My parents probably think about it They probably did think about it

But I mean My dad's a more classy man than that. Aw. I'm so unclassed. Hey, I was imagining Debo and Smokey and Friday like going in the back. Yeah. Hey, Brianna, thank you so much for your call.

And I guess just letting her know, like it's, it's happened and this feeling, I guess, doesn't, like, it's been so many years and you still understand, like, the loss, you know, or not being able to get these things. Yeah. And just like, just knowing that, you know, at the end of the day, you have those memories. You're like with the real family. Blood is, like, you know, stronger than whatever. take what she has.

Oh, yeah. Thank you so much, Brianna. Love is stronger. Thank you so much for client. Love is stronger than those Mercedes. I don't think. Love is stronger than 600 horsepower? Yes.

Those interior lights, I don't know. Power windows. Intake manifold. Yeah, I can turn them blood red right there. Inside. The ambient lights. Yeah. Oh, yeah, yeah.

You're not, not, you're just going to have to hold onto the memories, right? That's crazy. That's crazy. While she grips on to the steamwheel. Miriam literally. Literally all of the callers that have hit us of Miriam are going through the same thing and have had to deal with it, Miriam. Have had to just be like, look, we just moved.

We've had people who passed away in 2009 and all of that. And Miriam, it's just, it seems like it's going to be, it's going to be that. Sorry. Yeah. Yeah, I don't know. I hope things can get better and we can be cordial, but. I guess not even cordial. Like, you got a buddy, buddy up with her.

Like, that's, like, I, I, I, I don't know. I've told this story before on here and not to like, but like, again, the man that was with my grandma, I won't even call grandpa, they didn't get married nothing. But like she had to give up her assets later on in her life when she was going through all her medical stuff in order to get a care. She had to give a lot of her assets, right, for the insurance stuff. And she gave it up to him, including Landon Lancaster, that she had bought for myself, my sister and my cousin, Patty. They even took us out. They drove us out there when we're little.

I thought they were going to murder us because I was watching a lot of the. the Americas Most Wanted. But they took us out to this dead land and they were like, this is yours when I died. Like I remember to this day. And she signed that over to him and he hasn't even did a second thought of telling like, oh, yeah, this is yours. None of that.

He never signed it back over. So low key, we kind of got to be like his homies hoping that he, like when he goes, he's going to remember to give it to us or if not it goes to the governor. Play the long game. I'm playing the long game. It's really tough, bro. Be nice. That's a fool's a few more.

Anyone wants to run? I'm kidding. Like, it's a tough thing. And a lot of us just have to live with that. And it's unfortunate. It's not the way to go. But, you know, like, with legalities and the fact that he, this is his wife. Yeah.

She did the paperwork for the car. Oh, oh. What if you say, hey, I got this check in the mail. They said it was for his widow, but it came to our address. It's like 50K, you know, what should we do about it? Tell her, now you have a bargaining chip. Fake of fake check? Yeah.

Now you're getting in the. That's probably buying it. Now, now you're going to go to jail. How many more years? Fraud. Don't do that, medium. Just a little lie. How many more years until she dies?

I was going to say, do you guys think that I can outlive her? Median. Or just like be her home girl enough. You got to be her home girl. You got to be like, hey, your hair. Let me go get you. I know. You know how you would take us to get our nails done?

Let me take you to get your nails done. Let me do that for you. Oh, that's so smart. And then while you're at the nail shop, your sister is, what is it? At the house? At the house, how do you, like, when you turn on a car, but you don't have the keys? Hot water. Yeah, hot water and the car, girl.

These are all great ideas. If you have any creepy deals laying around, have a merry hand. Ew, no, Victor. Well, actually. Yeah. Get it back. They're definitely not going to be their creepy deals type, but, yeah. I think they try to see compensation after that.

Okay, all right. Well, we tried, Mary Ann. We tried. And happy belated to La Chris Jenner. I'm sure she meant to invite you, Vic. I'm sure. I was thinking the same thing. I'm like, right under my nose.

I was like checking and see if I had like any like miss calls or messages. And I didn't see any. So they must have an old number. Yeah, they must have had your invite with the Ray J. invite. Yeah. Yes. Yes. But you did get the Diddy invite and you went, right?

Oh, true. You did. One time. One time. All right. This was pre-Fort Nix. No, it wasn't. There was those at that time, too, bro.

There was those at that time too. There was a vibe there, huh? All right. Angelica. Angelica, Chris Jenner, 70th birthday party. Yes, you guys. So she celebrated her 70th birthday party, James Bond theme. Oh, I like it. Oh, cool.

It was double O70. You know, like double O 70. Old is that? Yeah, she's 70. She looks good. Yeah, that's how old you turn on your 70th birthday, which is what we've been saying for 70th birthday

turned 70 there same she's as old as Disney yeah isn't her 70's celebration what year was she what

70 years ago I don't know too much math too much mathful but you know what she actually had the party not at her house but at Jeff Basil's house

like his mansion out in Beverly Hills wow one day I know one day Yo, Jeff, let me borrow the crib. But I thought that was really nice of him. That is.

I don't know if I wouldn't, yeah. But they had a lot of, a lot of celebrities, you guys. Like Oprah was there. Mariah Carey. Wow. Mark Zuckerberg. Zucker. Zucker.

Zucker. The Prince Harry and Megan Markle, Adelaekees, Ben Diesel was there. Ben Diesel. Which I thought I'm like, dude, that's a little bit familiar. That's how you came in. I thought that was so random. Really?

Vin Diesel is there? He's a super duper movie star. I know, but I would never think like he. They're all homies. But who doesn't want Vin Diesel at their party or if their carnassalla or anything? So you can be saying this. Salute me familiar. With the Corona in hand.

Snook Dog was there too. Yeah. Jayze and Beyonce. This is like an A-list celebrity party. And it's crazy because they were actually able to keep it like a secret because we don't see any pictures out there. Besides the ones that actually Chris Jenner posted. So what happened? Actually, the cops got, like the party got raided because the cops were called in because of a noise complaint.

I guess they were really loud or something. They didn't invite the neighbors. It was just a hater. You think so? It was just I would have done it. I would have this party and I'm your neighbor and you didn't invite me? What does I say about that, Beverly Hills neighbor? Is that person not good enough?

Yeah. I'm calling the cops. Be for real. It was the tags that they were complaining about. Is it what? Three for five. That's not that kind of party, Greg. No, it's not Gregorio.

Hey, pass the MD. It's a, it was in. Beverly Hills not Whittier or Pico. Bruno Mars actually performed. Oh, so it was there. It was there. There's a picture of Justin Beaver. And he's coming out of the car really happy.

And there's like some white powder on his pants. I don't know what that is. I don't see that. Powdered donuts? Oh, maybe. Yeah. Powder donuts. Yeah.

I heard him and Bruno. Or maybe his girlfriend was her makeup and powder. Yeah. Oh, true. She is white. Yeah. Yeah, she is. She is.

Okay. Well, just say it's that, but he was, yeah. She's probably doing something strange for a little bit of changed back there. His girlfriend went or his wife, Haley Bieber, with. Yeah, yeah, of course. Taylor didn't go. Taylor Swift. What?

No. She wasn't there. But it's like, why would a Taylor be there? Kim called her a snake before. Oh, you're right. They had the beach. Kanye for sure wasn't there. But that's why it's a little bit trippy because the drama is, like, clearly, like, the enemy of my enemy is my friend, Loki type is, like, reportedly,

allegedly. Like, I bet you. who Kanye brought Beyonce and Jay-Z even into the Kardashian sphere, like for them to be homies. And like for the length of his relationship with Kim, Kanye was like, you guys didn't even check on Kim when she got robbed. Our kids haven't even played together, right?

And now he's out the picture and now they're hanging out. It makes me sick in Japan over there. Yeah. Kanyez was in Tokyo like, me familiar. Yeah. Like being, but yo. me all right but yeah they didn't she didn't yeah she wasn't there drama what a 70 year old party you know all the drama there yeah yeah it just shows you like and i was thinking about it right

with chris jenner she may be a very likable person as long as people are always counting her like the momager like saying certain things about her but it seems like she does a really good job at maintaining relationships you know true i'll give her that and a lot of people showed up like to see opra there to see bionse and j z and then someone like vintech Diesel there. It's like different even worlds, but she's kind of bringing them together. Then, of course, it's at Jeff Bezos' house

and all of that. She seems to be someone with a lot of connections that wish her well enough to pull up to her party. That's very true. 100%. Mariah. Mariah, yeah. She looked good. She looked really good. But you know who's actually getting canceled right now? Kayla Nicole.

Travis Kelle Kelsey's X, you guys. Travis. Yeah. So you know how like a couple of weeks ago for Halloween, she actually dressed up as Tony Braxton. Yeah, this makes me hate that we were bigging her up. Because we were bigging her up for her costume.

Yeah. And she was playing, like, she dressed up as Tony Braxton, played the song that was like, oh, did you know that I made him leave? Do you know he begged to stay with me? That's a Tony Braxton song,

incredible song. But it was kind of like a diss to Taylor who was marrying Kayla's ex now and essentially her saying like, girl, please, like you're going to marry him. I didn't even want him. Yeah, he was mad enough for me.

But I think that like activated the swifties. It did. For sure. They found some tweets about her and she was in. It was all the ists. It was racist. Yes. It was.

Homophobic, sexist. What? Yeah, dude. She even talked about us, Mexicans. What? She did. Yeah, she did.

Hardcore. So a big fat Mexican H word. Yeah. I don't know why she went hardest at us. Yeah. I don't know either. Out of all the things I saw, I was like, oh, damn. I guess you just like, you turn to lie like, what we do?

No, I was just because my girls tell me about this. And I was just like, damn, that's crazy. I'm like, man, I kind of hate when they dig up people's old tweets. And then she goes like, oh, you should see what they said about Mexicans. I'm like, all right. That's enough. Enough. We're done, Kayla.

We're done. She went in on everybody and it was like, all right. She deactivated her Twitter. Yeah. So it's kind of like the. Surrender. Yeah. Or like the admitted.

Like, yeah, I know. Yeah, I did that. The white flag. That's crazy. That's crazy. So, yeah, let's see. Let's see if we'll see pop her up again. I think the thing about her is she was popping up so much.

Yeah. And we're like, girl, take a seat. Take a seat because everyone's just going to relate you with Taylor and Travis, but it seemed that she liked that until now it's like, all right, let's do a deep dive on you, girl. Don't piss off the Swifties. No, don't. Dude, she even deactivated all the comments on her Instagram, so if you're trying to talk smack about her, you can't. Yeah.

That's crazy. Wow. And then Summer Walker. Yeah, Summer Walker, you guys. Actually, she is for you trashing your ex. What? So over the weekend, she hosted a finally over a dump truck service, right, to promo her album. And to it, she was doing this promo with the garbage truck.

Welcome to my finally over a dump truck service. We'll be riding all around Atlanta coming to pick up your ex and stuff. You don't have to hold on to anything any longer because we are coming to pick that shit up. Wow. Usually people do this around Valentine's Day, but she's like, no, right before cold season, if you want to get rid of anything that your ex had or you have of your ex, throw it in there. And it's really easy that we could choose what we'd want to throw away of our exes. but what would your ex throw away of yours if this dump trunk made its way to wait to your, Greg, pulled up in front of your mom's house. Yeah.

What? Or in front of her house? In front of her house. All right, so Garden Grove? Right off of my mind. Oh, you missed ex and all of that. What would your ex throw in there? All my camera stuff and I need it. And she had pictures too because I do a lot of disposable pictures.

Oh, okay. Scores and like polaroids and stuff. Had a lot and it's expensive. Get it back. Well, how long has been? A couple months. Oh, it's still fresh. It's still fresh.

So it's like, damn. She still has it. She still always has. Literally, the last time I talked to her, she sent me a picture of, like, the stack of disposable cameras. Not she's saying you a picture of the things you used to take pictures of her on. Yeah. I just want to take a photo.

And she's like, every time I see these, it reminds me of you. I was like, well, kill them to me. And I'm like, those are mine. Okay. And then I never heard. Are they expensive cameras? They're like $30 each now. Oh, those are trashed, right?

No, they're not trash. It's $30 each. And all. the memories that I have of those. Imagine what pictures I have on those of us. Okay. All right. Throw it away.

Yeah. Throw it. No. Don't do that. Ruth. You don't need it. You don't need it. Move on.

Move on. Scrose. Craig was dropping it like it's hot right now. Yeah, it was actually. This Miss Universe. I've never seen so much publication about Miss Universe going down. First, we had what happened when Miss Mexico.

Yeah. And then that pool over there in Thailand. The mean guy. Yeah. Kick her Dumbhead. And then it was the whole drama show. It was. That was crying and all that.

But. But. the competition went on. Yes. And Miss Chile. Miss Chile is going viral. It's going viral for making my Chile go crazy too. Yay.

Great. Creepy Theo Klox. That's the thing ever. She's hot. She's gorgeous. They're in the beauty pageant. But it has nothing to do with your Chile. Nothing.

Nothing. Nothing. Tingled a little bit. What? It's a little bit. Get that checked out. She, you know how beauty pageants they tell their talent and what they do and stuff like that.

She hit the stage and she shocked everybody on what talent she had and it sounded like this. Her name is Agnacia. Ignacia Fernandez. Ignacio Fernandez. She representing Chile. Usually you don't see the demon in us till after we're mad. I know. She showed it up front of world.

Sounding like nine inch nails. Yeah. She's a gorgeous girl and I guess that's what's tripping everybody out. It's like stainty beauty pageant, all of that. And that's a way to flip it on everybody. Yes. You know what I'm saying? Locked everyone.

And they just announced it that she ended up winning the pageants. Let's go. Wow. She's Miss Chile. Now she's Miss Chile. Now she's Miss Chile. What? She wasn't Miss Chile already?

No, it's a pageant to like represent the country. So this is not the Miss Universe. No. This is another one. This is a Miss. Yes, all right, well she won. She still has some work on the vocals. What?

What do you mean? She's really hot. She's really hot. She's really hot. What do you mean? Work on the vocals. She killed that. The way that she does is like there's more of, she needs more of like a grungy sound.

You do it, Greg, you do it. How is she supposed sound? Away from the microphone, please. Like a more like. She had that. She sounded way better than you, Greg. Like very like. Not her being gorgeous and also having an insane talent and you somehow.

Rad pin looking over here. I'm having to do her. The metal head in me, like, when I hear it, I'm like, you could do a little bit of work. Like, I'll show you an example. This is what I expect. I know. Angie, what do you think of these things?

My mom would never let me listen to this. Yes, it is the limonio. Exactly what you say. It's the diablo. She won Miss World Chile, fools. Miss World Chile. She won. Miss World Chile.

Not Miss Gregg's Chile. No. She don't care about the Chile. But it would be cool to, like, find out like, where she heard. Pretty or like I'm sure like like like look if I'm a metal band I'm inviting her she has her own band Oh that's awesome yeah she has her own band that she sings that she's a lead singer of and that's why she took her talent to the stage She was like I'm not sure what I got and I was like oh that's cool She does demonios

She's a spicy Chile okay She's more creepy. It's getting more creepy just let it go Be a club, pre Greg Okay, thank you thank you thank you guys All right moving on Rock and Roll Hall of Fame the they honored a bunch of amazing people yesterday or a couple days ago. And you could watch it on Disney Plus, by the way.

Big up to the White Stripes that got inducted. Also, saw in Peppa. Big up Spinderella. Yeah. For DJ to be inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. But a lot of people, including myself, were there for Outcast. All right. Big up to Outcast for getting there just due when it comes to the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame.

Legend. You know, they got honored by Childish Gambino. he was the one that presented with them, told them how much it meant for someone, especially having that love and adoration for Atlanta, how Atlanta stood out, especially at a time when it was the East Coast, West Coast beef. He was talking about how that was happening in the 90s,

and then Alcast went on stage and says, hey, the South got something to say while they were getting food, you know, helped, at least what Childish Gambino was saying, help him deal with criticism because they did it when no one was looking. And, you know, and they created the South, or helped create and found a lot of the sound, and the, I guess, outside the box thinking that comes from music from the South.

So that was incredible in and of itself. However, it's getting a lot of backlash. It's getting a lot of backlash. And it's not even 100,000's fault. Some may say that it is, or Big Boy's fault, who are part of the outcast group, okay? They're saying it is because of Doja Cat. So they had a whole medley, tribute medley.

You know, big up to J.I.D., Tyler the Creator. Doja Cat was on there, performing with Big Boy, as well as Janal Monet. But people are upset at them fumbling their words. First up, I'm going to play you the greatness that came out of it. First, big up to Doja Cat because I think she did her best. Check this out. That was really nice.

Yeah. And then it got a little bit, listen. King me queens and a popular thing together. I'm just not. What? Yeah. She got mixed up with words. And so they were trying to help her out by like sounding it out with her.

Oh, is that what they were trying to do? I thought they were interrupting her. No, you get ad libs. You get like a hype man. Sometimes a DJ helps fill out words and stuff like that. Maybe the adlips threw her off. I think the adlibs definitely threw her off. It seemed like she was going great until that verse started.

Then it seemed like she almost like ran over her time because she kept clashing with the DJ's voice. I'm glad you mentioned that because if you do listen to it, I think he even comes in and says the words wrong and it tripped her up. Hold on. I think even he was not, I guess he was trying to be like a gibberish versus an actually because it goes on. It's not be fun King meet queens And I'm probably Love thing together

It's It's realist wing It's not It's not It's not help her Yeah She's probably like Why are you so

Trying to take over the show too Like he's probably Like I'm trying to help you girl I'm trying to get you on the beat Or I'm get you on It was tough It was rough And it didn't stop there

Okay People are also upset at Janel Monnet's performance And I think it's partly Because she chose this time And sometimes there's like flips on how you sing a song. I don't think that maybe it was necessary to flip a song right here. She gave it like a, what's, what's Gwen Stefani's, what was her? Hala back girl.

No, no, no, no, no, what was her band? No doubt. It feels like maybe a no doubt type of vibe. Oh, okay. To, yeah. I get rid of three. Oh, yeah. You hear me?

I get here. Yeah. Yeah. She keeps doing it. Look, look. She really want to. Okay. Stand to see.

woke out the door. Dude. What's up to do it? That's the time traveler right there. Reminder. Cover band at the sign of face. Yeah, no, I guess like, do you feel how it's like no doubt vibeish?

Yeah, yeah, yeah. And some people do. Some people mix with songs and like, well, watch it on YouTube, the acoustic version. Yeah. But I don't think that it should have been at the time that you're honoring them.

The problem is it's a lot of artists and they're like, oh, I'm going to make my own unique flip on this and like stuff like that and it's like bro just do the song we want to hear it we already it's already not going to be the artist so we're already not going to like love it like to the level that we would

if it was but like just do it as close to the artist as you can please yeah okay so big boy of outcast was on stage but I think more than anything because Andre 3000 wasn't on stage performing however was in the venue people are upset more than anything I guess they expect

like oh my god we're going to get a concert out of We haven't had a concert in so long. It's good to see Andre 3,000, go up there. He didn't. He respectfully declined. And so these other artists came in to kind of fill in that space. And you just can't ever do it like Andre. So people are just like, he's sitting right there.

Why is he not performing? Do the thing. Go up with the flute, that's why. No, actually, he's talked about it previously. He has social anxiety, you know, and hypersensitivity. It's something that he was diagnosed with. And he attributes it actually to being an only child. check this out.

And so that's when I said, like, if I had brothers and sisters, I wouldn't have to worry about certain things. Yes. With a social anxiety disorder, like, I was diagnosed years ago in hypersensitivity. Like, with that kind of thing, isolation is not good. But I feel most comfortable being isolated. So I spend 95% of my time by myself. Yes.

So probably him even being there affected him a lot. Yeah. You know, during his speech, he got sentimental. And it was a long. They let him that full talk for 20 minutes. He had a podcast up there. And probably because they were like, we know he might not perform.

So we're going to take any time we can get. And he got emotional when talking about the beginnings of him and Big Boy and the dungeon family and Cilo and creating what that sound was. We started in a little rooms. Great things start in little rooms. That's it. And I feel like that was really it. After that, he was like, yeah, I don't think I'm coming.

out to perform. It would be nice, but it's a lot on me right now. You got to, I guess, you got to, but respect it. Yeah. I think us from the outsiders looking in, it's like, no, but you gave us his music. Yeah, it's great music, too. Yeah. But yeah, looking into, like, his stuff, it's like, he used to go home after performing

hundreds of thousands of people and then just going in his hotel room by himself. Yeah. Yeah. He even prayed for it to go away. There have been times where I would, like, I've prayed, like, I would rather you take this away from me. Yes. All of this.

And just if I could just feel. normal like that. If I could just feel normal, like take voice, career, all that. You can have it. Yes. If I could feel normal. Yes. But it don't work like that. No. My God. Oh, Andre. I don't know. I put my sentiments because initially I was mad. I was like, bro, Andre, get your butt in there. Go perform. No, but it's like, no, man. Understandable. Yeah. You know, you don't want to hear me. You just want to see me dance. Yeah. You don't want to see me. You just like my mixes. Yeah. You don't want to see my matches. You don't know what that I'm making my matchup because I'm alone in my room.

There's a person behind the mashup. Yeah. So that's why we got this. One, two, three. My baby, don't mess you out. But she loved to slow. Because I love the show. Why did she do that?

That's why we got this in Doja. And that would be fun. She was fit. She was walked off stage. She was like, get out of here. Yeah. Tyler did incredible, though. Big Uptime creator.

I feel like he embodies what Outcast is for the T. But you make sure to check that out. It's available on your Disney Plus. If you still have it. I have it. I'm going to go watch it when I go home. 81852059. Call us up to say Greg sucks.

And keep in here. Because his mashup will. I'm telling you the future. Today will.