Brown Bag Mornings - Ep. 605 Take Him to Vegas, Get Tipsy, and Try Again 🍸 | Brown Bag Mornings (11/20/25)
Episode Date: November 20, 2025This episode gets heavy on the "Homie Helpline" as Paulina grapples with the devastating choice between staying with her boyfriend, Raul, who no longer wants children, and sacrificing her dream of bei...ng a mother after suffering a loss. The crew attempts to balance the seriousness with chaotic antics, including a stomach-churning "Thumpkin Thursday" pumpkin shake challenge that tasted "exactly like throw up" and a heated debate over celebrity relationships with fans, especially Doja Cat calling her supporters "little ants". [Edited by @iamdyre 🍾 ]See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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The more Brownback, the better.
Come on.
This is November 20.
Oh, yeah.
Friendsgiving week here on Paro 106 in Brownback morning.
Buenos Aires.
Good.
Good.
Good.
We're over here making a mess.
Okay.
Nish.
Angie, how are you?
Crudda?
De swineo.
Crudda?
Like hungover of sleep.
You slept too much?
You slept too much?
The dinole?
I don't know.
Because hangover is when you drink too much.
Yeah, and in Spanish is the thing.
So you slept too much?
Oh, more.
No, in Spanish, it's just like you didn't get enough.
Don't in Spanish.
I was like, we're not also Spanish, Angie.
Yeah, so that's what it means.
Crudad de Svano, like you didn't get enough sleep.
What time is for sleep?
I know.
What time is fall asleep?
Oh, early.
Wouldn't you be cruda de, desquerta?
No, that's not a thing.
It's crudad de swine.
Okay, Angie's just making up stuff.
Google it.
Golebe.
Concree, how are you this morning?
I'm good.
T'a up prendido right now.
Wow.
I was fighting for my life this morning.
But we're here.
Yeah, we are.
And you know what?
More importantly, you're here too.
Thank you so much for locking in with us.
We got a lot in store for you today.
And keep it here because we're going to get into.
Actually, let's get into Money Moos right now.
Oh.
That make money move.
That make money move.
All right.
This is going to require everybody to be honest.
Okay.
Okay.
Are you guys going to be honest?
All the time.
I'm always honest.
All the time.
That sounds like a lie.
No.
It was not a lie.
All right.
Does anyone in this room have stickers on their phone of anybody else in this room?
And when I mean stickers, it's like you've cut out a little picture of them and you like send it in meme.
Like a cutout.
Yeah.
Oh, yeah, yeah.
You caught stickers on your iPhones.
I don't know.
100%.
Someone in this.
room does.
Yeah.
Oh, in this room.
Yeah.
Like, we have stickers of people in this room.
Yes.
Oh, no, no.
No?
Who do you have stickers of, Angie?
Yeah.
My boyfriend.
Yeah.
And my nieces and my sisters.
They're all stickers.
Wow.
Exclusive clever or what?
My ex.
My situation ships cat, a cheeseburger, and a friend.
Oh, gosh.
Yeah.
So stickers is like you go on your photo app and then on your iPhone, you kind of like do an
outline of it and then you can use it in text form.
Yeah.
Don't even look at me.
Oh.
Did you know that you could make them gifts?
What?
Are you looking to the stickers that you have?
I am.
Do you have any of us in this room?
No, I don't.
No, I don't.
Who has stickers of us in this room?
Who?
You?
What?
Not a UFO's.
You're not too ugly.
That's the way.
For the record, my husband has made stickers of Vic.
Of Vegas.
Yes.
You know how they say like, I don't know.
You know how they say like, yeah, but easy face to draw?
Vic has an easy face to sticker.
What?
The outline.
As soon as I saw this, I was like, oh, man.
I'm like, let these cook.
I'm so cooked.
But it's not my fault.
Literally, Jorge will do.
There's this one sticker I can show you right now.
This is Vic looking to the side.
Right?
But apparently this could go bad for you.
It's an invasion of privacy in some places and could cost you your job.
That's how I feel.
I feel invaded.
Oh, my God.
All invaded.
Oh.
That's horrible.
Thank God that's not a law in California.
No, it's in another country.
So, I'm lucky for right now.
Yeah, so you get away with it.
But do you think people should have your consent to make little stickers of you?
I even had little stickers of DJ E Man.
Not because I want them.
What?
Yes.
But my husband thinks DJ E Man is funny to be a sticker.
It's him when he was on the beach of vacation.
Y'all post.
What's this?
That's what I'm going to say.
If it's a public picture, it should be like fine.
You get me?
Like if it's like, yeah.
If it's out there, then all right, it's perfect to be a sticker.
But if it's like just.
It's like public domain.
Yeah.
But if it's in the chat, then it stays in the chat.
Oh, yeah.
So an app that does this a lot is WhatsApp, right?
Where you can also create stickers.
We have it on our iPhone, but WhatsApp lets you create stickers.
And apparently, Mexico has launched a platform where you can virtually report the creation of WhatsApp stickers
in a work.
group chats.
Oh God.
Oh, God.
Yeah.
Oh, it worked like reporting to HR on the group chat.
He's not a loser.
It must have gotten so out of hand.
Yes.
And it must have been the one that didn't want to be taking a photo of.
The full sleeping in the corner while you're eating in the lunchroom.
Like, there's all of those stickers, you know?
I would make a report if they made a sticker of me and Khan having a wishbone.
Okay, well, now they will.
I wasn't even wrong with that.
I'm doing it right now.
It's going to cost a lot of money one day.
Okay.
It's called digital harassment at work.
Oh.
And we'll fall on those workers who used a colleague's photo without their permission to mock and laugh at them in group chats.
That's all our Instagram is about.
I know.
What do you mean?
Yeah.
That's like Caria, I feel.
Don't do not do the speaker.
Hey.
Let me see.
That ain't going to survive.
That ain't going to survive.
Do you really biting that thing, bro?
I wish for those of you that do stickers of your homies or your co-workers
be very, very careful.
For what country?
It's in Mexico.
Oh,
Damn.
Yeah.
Because I'm done in the WhatsApp.
Yeah.
Making fun of their coworkers.
It makes sense with the coworkers.
With friends, like, that's how you clown.
You get it.
Yeah.
I'm going to make stickers of all you in the room.
All right?
Let's get back.
Or it has a sticker of me, dog?
Yeah.
It's the best one.
No, which one are you thinking?
It's the only walking away?
Oh, no, no, I'm walking my luggage.
No, he has a new one.
What?
And it's me knocked out in the passenger seat.
And I look horrible, bro.
Let's see it. Let's see it.
Post it.
I really want to see, like, when it's all stickers.
Like, he probably has a fun.
No, he has a lot of the boys, too.
Like, they have do, like, smiley faces.
Luis with money, Jorge laying down, like, hey, what's up over there.
Jorge has fun with the stickers on you.
I need to find it.
But, yes, I saw it the other day, and I'm like, I'm not even going to
going to tell him I hate it because he's going to know, oh, I'm going to use it more.
Oh, it's going to hate it.
Be careful. Be careful. Be careful. Be careful. Be careful.
Scrolling with all me.
Aye, aye, aye.
Letty.
Letty.
Have any of you guys actually in the room updated your Instagram?
No.
It updated for me.
Yeah.
Oh, you have the automatic update.
Ew.
Yeah.
I personally don't like it.
I don't like it either.
Okay, what's the new update?
They moved the DM.
Yeah, they moved everything around the DMs.
You know how to post.
How to post too?
What?
The middle.
a button used to be to post something
and now it's to go to your DMs.
So the posting is on the top left
instead where the little plus sign is at?
No, me gustav. Oh, okay, no, I haven't updated.
Oh, you haven't updated yet?
No, good, good, good.
Get with the times, Angie.
Anyways, the biggest update that everybody
keeps talking about, though, is translation
with meta-a-i.
You could translate anything
on Instagram.
Oh, I saw that. I have a hairdresser
that I watch in Columbia, and she
speak Spanish incredible.
Oh, I think we follow the same one.
And I saw a video and it's all in English.
I'm like, oh my God, her English is incredible.
Then I looked and it's like, no, it's been translated with.
Oh, I hate it.
Meta AI on Instagram.
You can translate any language.
So if you want from English to Spanish, Spanish to English, it doesn't really matter.
Oh, my goodness.
Yep, live right then.
So the whole world can see Brown Bag if we just translated it.
What?
What?
The whole world could see Brown Bag.
And what I did?
What?
I translated it for us.
You translated what?
Yes.
I translated a video of ours on.
What?
What?
This is the original.
I'm gonna play a couple of pieces from the original.
Have you felt any hair loss in your life?
Yes.
Guys or girls?
Apparently there's two culprits and it's like one of your favorite things to each of you.
What?
For girls, it's supposedly one thing you drink and for guys, it's supposedly one thing you wear.
Yeah.
You two both wear a lot of hats.
Uh-huh.
Yep.
Do you wash them?
Yeah.
Seam them.
That's not washing.
I don't throw them in the washer.
So that's like a clip of ours on Instagram.
Okay.
About match and hats, right?
That's translated?
No, that's the original.
Okay, the voice sounded perfect.
Now, this is translated to Spanish.
Has experimented peridder of your life?
What are I sound like a commercial?
You do!
Chikos or chicas,
all the part of those culpables,
and it's like one of your things
favorite for each one.
For the kids,
supposedly is something that they're
and for the kids,
something that use,
yes,
you two use much sombreros.
Uh,
yes,
those lavas.
Yes, vaporizers.
That's not lavar.
It's solo.
No, I'm not in the lavator.
That's barbaro.
Hold on.
Is that big and sannie?
What does it sound like that?
What do you?
What do you?
Chico,
did you're a major option
that the coffee?
Picture,
why do you sound like
Goku and spread it right now, right?
That sounds so animated.
What can cause,
peridda of cabello.
Chico,
Dijerun?
Because March is supposedly
If you drink a lot of it.
So that was a Spanish.
Now we're going to do French.
Oh, my gosh.
Us in French.
Have you resented a pair of hair in your life?
Oh, my gosh, yes.
It's supposed to be a thing that you buve.
And for the guys, it's supposed to be a thing that you pour.
Is that you do they lave?
Burke.
I don't let them make not in the machine to lave it.
It's my mom.
And, apparently, use these chapo sal.
Meck, they've said that the matcha
It's a good alternative
To have a coffee
What?
I think of the coffee
I call the coffee
I'm a bell
Latif.
Wow,
Al-a-Div.
You're pretty
Have you
Have you
resented a pair of
of hair
For the fact,
it's supposed
to be a
Yes,
it's supposed to
make,
Oh,
that's bad.
Why am I like that?
Vick sounds like Hitler too a little bit.
The last one.
I've always said.
That was crazy.
People just don't notice it.
Dude, Vic, put your hands down.
Mex, they said that the matcha was a better alternative.
No, we are...
It's too early?
It's too early?
No.
We have Chinese.
Victor Mad.
That sounds really cool.
It's good.
That's not a good.
Yeah,
You know,
Goudry Marcia
is more than
day and said,
how do I sound like
a cartoon character
Every language.
You do.
You're very animated.
That's so tight.
I love it.
That makes me feel like I can do it now.
Right?
He's out of control.
Right.
In Chinese,
Oh,
matcha, why?
Yeah,
Guddery might be.
Yeah, good.
Yeah,
Tia'anira Wesso.
That's crazy.
I heard Wessel.
Okay.
Thank you.
Go have some fun.
Translate videos on the news Instagram.
What you have to do is you have to actually go to the settings where it says it'll pop up.
It'll say if you want to translate the video, you switch it on and then it'll automatically do it for you.
Oh, my gosh.
Oh, okay.
I love it.
We need to do that.
So we could get the worldwide audience.
We're going to have a huge.
We already have them.
A huge, no, Asian audience.
It'll be great.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah,
They love us.
They love us over there.
All right.
Are you ready for weather, my friend?
Let's go.
Let's get into the weather with concrete.
And now the weather.
With concrete storm.
Perrito's dinner's going down for the weather.
Thursday, November 20th.
The check is almost clearing at midnight tonight
and I can feel it.
I can feel the money coming in my count.
Okay.
First, we're up to the city of Canoga Park where I know all the Perritos like I'm nose arc.
54 degrees out there in Canoga Park with a 55% chance of rain by 1 p.m. Perrito, so get your hoodies on.
Sheesh.
Next week, come pow all the way to the city of Chinatown, where orange chicken were turned that frown upside down.
And I heard it's going to rain cats and dogs.
So do what you will with that information, Chinatown.
Your house will be 57 degrees with a 95%.
chance of rain going down.
Now we camouflage our way
to the city of Lake Forest where
fools cruise around and a non-stolen
four tourists. Your high will be
58 degrees. You say non-stolen?
Yeah.
Your house will be 58 degrees
with rain and lightning.
I know.
Day, Lake Forest.
Lastly, we see pretty views to the city of
Crest Line where A. Baby, are you hungry?
Is the best line?
Your high would be 40 degrees with a 50% chance of
by 4 p.m.
Perritos, did you guys know that there was two Chinatowns at one point?
No.
The original town was in the 1800s, and it was demolished in the 1930s to build Union Station,
dog.
Wow.
Instead of disappearing, the Chinese American community pooled sources and built today's
new Chinatown nearby, making it one of the first U.S. Chinatowns owned and planned
by Chinese Americans themselves.
Let's go.
So shout out to them.
It's a beautiful town.
If you guys have been there, bomb food, dope culture.
And, you know, we all just joke around, but I love you guys.
I love you guys.
It's beautiful.
It's beautiful.
So if you haven't taken your kids there or whatever, man, go over there.
It's going to rain cats and dogs over there today.
I love it.
Yep.
All right.
So, hey, going back real quick.
Conoco Park, 54 degrees.
Chinatown, 57.
Lake Forest, 58.
And Crestland, you'll be 40 degrees.
Nice and chilly.
That's really cold.
So cover the willy.
Let's go, ferritos.
Do that too.
Do that.
Do that every day.
I'll be back to.
Cover the willy every day.
Never.
that don't wear nothing.
No.
No.
No. Cover the Willie.
Have some fun.
No.
Free Willie once in a while.
Medication for that now.
It's your boy, Koggi,
for my back mornings or Pau 106.
Let's get it.
Okay.
All right, check this out, homie.
You need a homie or need some help.
We need your help.
We need a line.
I mean, phone line.
We've got you for.
The homie help line.
Paulina needs our help.
Paulina hit us up and said Brownback.
I need a homie help line.
I'm Paulina, I'm 28, my boyfriend Raoul is 36, we've been together almost four years,
and we talked about kids when we first started a date, we always wanted one to two,
and I got pregnant in May 2024, and four months into the pregnancy, I started to feel terrible pain and began to bleed.
Oh, Paulina.
I called Raoul to get off work immediately.
He rushed me to the hospital where I stayed for four miserable days.
I went home without our little angel in my stomach.
I had a miscarriage.
We were so devastated.
Since then, things haven't gotten better.
Somehow they've gotten worse.
I've been in a dark place after the loss,
and it's taking me nearly a year to get my mojo back.
I'm just now getting back into the gym and school to finish my BA.
Raoul took it differently.
I know he struggled with the loss,
but won't show it or talk to me about it.
I see him a lot less.
I feel like he intentionally overloaded himself with work to stay busy
and not think too much.
Now, I feel like my relationship is falling apart.
After the miscarriage, I got an IUD to prevent me from getting pregnant again,
but I've had complications the entire time.
I have an appointment to get removed soon,
and that means I could get pregnant again,
and when I mentioned it to Raoul, he said,
do whatever you want.
That led to an intense argument,
and at the end, he screamed,
I don't want to have kids at all anymore.
hearing those words cut me so deeply brown bag my heart sank to the floor i was expecting a child
with this man and had the illusion of trying again since he had talked about trying again for a
baby earlier this year but i don't know what's changed or why i'm crushed it's always been my
dream to be a mother but if i stay with him now it'll never happen now i'm trying to figure out
should i stay with him because i love him and accept i won't have kids ever or should i
I break up with him in hopes of finding someone to have kids with and risk losing the love of
my life.
What do I do brown back?
That's really heavy.
Damn.
That's really heavy.
I probably know who's been through a lot and this kind of goes without saying that
that type of thing is something you don't get over.
That's still a loss of a life.
Yeah.
You know, and a loss of a child.
So it's often where both sides, mom and dad go through it.
When I'm reading this, I'm seeing she's definitely grieving and trying to get back to
it but I also see some kind of silent grieving in dad too.
Oh, for sure.
Because often, like, what you are seeing as like, oh, let's just try again.
They're like, dude, I lost the kid I was about to have.
Like, how can I even try again?
It's what I'm seeing at least from reading the message.
Yeah, he probably doesn't want to go through that again.
Like, it was probably traumatic.
For sure.
And for you guys that can't talk about it.
We've had these combos before on here, too.
There's a lot of certain standards of what makes a man and
one of them is,
you don't talk about what hurts you,
you don't cry,
you know any of this,
but there's things like this
that are life-altering
and what do you do when you can't grieve about it?
You internalize it
and I feel like that may be some type of disconnect
that Paulina's going through.
Be a man.
That's what it is.
Yeah, that mentality.
Go to work.
Yeah.
You know?
Suck it up.
Yeah, it's all that.
Yeah.
So Paulina is kind of figuring it as,
look, I want to try again
and he doesn't.
Matter of fact, he's told me
he doesn't ever want to try again.
He doesn't want kids, period.
This is someone that I've invested time into.
There's somebody that I love.
And now I'm wondering, should I leave and maybe get pregnant with somebody else or find that?
Maybe I won't find that.
But I know that for sure if I stay with him, I'm not going to have the kids that I want.
But she says this is the love of her life.
Yeah.
Like she's thinking about getting pregnant by somebody else when you're like, oh.
She's not thinking about getting pregnant by somebody else.
She's thinking if I want kids, clearly our ideals don't.
match.
Yeah.
So that would have to be that had to go outside, find somebody else.
Leave somebody.
Yeah.
And when they got together, that was the plan.
Like, they talked about it.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So they went into it like, oh, okay, we're going to have kids one day.
Yeah.
And now it's like, it's changed.
All right.
Let's talk to Paulina.
Polina.
Oneos Zaz.
Morning, Brown Bag.
Good morning, Paulina.
Paulina, there's a lot to talk to us about.
Thank you so much for being open.
I'm going to try not to, like, trigger you at all.
But definitely this is very, very, very, very, very deep.
and I thank you for sharing your story.
I guess ultimately you were caught between staying with your boyfriend, Raul.
Who's older than you?
And you guys have decided that, hey, we want to start a family.
However, there was some trouble there and you lost a child.
And now it seems like he's pulled back on it.
Like, no, I don't ever want to have kids.
So now it's kind of flipped your plan for your life too.
You want to be a mom.
You want to have kids.
But does that mean that you're not with him anymore?
Yeah, that's what it looks like now.
I got a pick between do I stay and sacrifice myself, my dreams,
or live what he wants, which means never trying again.
Yeah.
As you guys are going through this, I'm sure you were there for each other.
Did you see how he, I guess, handled the loss?
Do you think he just went straight back to life as usual?
Or did he take that time to kind of acknowledge what happened?
He took just a couple of days off from work and asked me to leave for a couple of days.
And he just buried himself in work.
And I actually took off like two months off from work.
Okay.
Yeah.
Also, do you feel like you know, like you guys had like a whole bunch of other things planned, like marriage and stuff?
stuff like is all is all that still like is he willing to still get married as well or is it's like
that off the table too like do you think it's just the only the kid stuff i think it's only just
the kids part i mean we've always thought about never having a big wedding but just going and
get eloped yeah stuff like that but that talk has never been brought up again yeah okay so earlier
this year he had the com you guys had the convo and this is after what happened and it seemed like
things were going good that you guys were going to try again?
Yes.
What changed?
After experience of complications, I started mentioning it about getting removed.
And I think that's where everything just started spiraling down.
Yeah.
And he's like, no, I don't even want to try.
Let's not even have kids.
Is there any, like, history of like your family, like any, like, issues, like giving birth or having kids or anything?
Like, any family history of that?
No, not that I know of, not either on both sides.
Yeah, thanks for mentioning about both sides, because it's definitely not just a you thing.
Yeah.
It's a two-person situation.
Yeah.
Now, I want to talk to you, Paulina.
Are you thinking, like, have you thought, like, hey, I could live the rest of my life and not being a mom?
What does that thought do to you?
That kind of puts me back because, I mean, I first never thought I could have kids.
And then we were starting to settle the image about.
just getting two more dogs.
And I know, we got blessed.
And it kind of puts me in the limbo where I'm like, I do want to try again.
Now that I know that I can.
Yeah.
Right.
But if you were told you cannot have kids.
Like, could you picture your life without children?
Yeah, I can.
I mean, there are other options like adopting, fostering.
It seems like he doesn't want kids.
At all.
Yeah, like, period.
Out of the picture.
So can you see your life without.
Kids.
I mean.
If he's saying I don't want kids, can you see your life without them?
Honestly, I don't.
I can't see my life without that.
So here's my second question.
Can you see your life without him?
Yeah.
Yeah.
You hold and you look.
Can you see yourself without him?
Honestly, no.
I've been crying about that where I don't see that.
Oh.
Man.
I mean, I mean, I just feel that, you know, I mean, I just feel that, you know, I mean, from a guy's
perspective, I mean, we all, like, I think man grieve different.
Oh, for sure, yeah. So I, I wouldn't, you know, I wouldn't count them out just yet as far as, like, not wanting to try ever again.
Sometimes, you know, I could say, you know, I mean, I'll say from, you know, from my perspective, I've said things that I've regretted three, four months later.
And I'm like, okay, you know what, forget about that. Like, I was in a bad space or I was grieved.
Well, yeah, yeah, whatever the case may be, I was tripping. And I changed my mind. So I, you know, you know,
Pauline, I mean, I don't think it's, I don't think it's the end yet.
I don't think you should give up on the possibility of maybe having that conversation again with him.
Just wait for a later.
Yeah.
Yeah, I mean, it's only been what, maybe like what a year, like you're in some change, you know?
And if you guys love each other and you guys can pray about this, then I can see, you know, I can definitely see it happening for you guys.
I guess what do you do when your partner tells you they don't want something that you really want in your.
relationship. What should
Paulina do? Let's go to James.
James and Simi Valley. What's up
James? Hey, hey, hey.
What's up, Brown Bag?
James, talk to us. What would you tell
Paulina?
For Paulina, I would
say while you're still young,
maybe it might be time to
maybe consider that
checking out. It might be time to go.
Why do you say that?
Because
if your dream is to have that kid,
I'm in that similar situation where I would like to have a kid,
but my partner, she doesn't want to because she's older as well.
Oh.
And so I am in that kind of stuck situation where the past two years for me,
where I'm thinking, is my love really that strong or do I really want to have a kid?
Wait, are you with her?
I'm with my partner.
Yeah, in the last two years.
But you're telling baby girl to leave her?
Yeah.
What are you doing?
No, no, no.
Yeah, I'm thinking maybe Homegirl should leave her boyfriend and be considered, hey, she has her own dreams that she wants to fulfill of having a child or a family.
Yeah.
And if that's not something that's going to happen with him, maybe it might be time to check out since you're still young, too.
Right.
Wait, so you want to go to Paulina or what?
Yeah.
Like, take your own advice, brother?
No, it's hard to really take my own advice, too.
That's where I'm stuck.
I've been thinking about calling y'all about it.
Well, you did.
All right, we're here.
Your girl's older than you, don't want kids.
Yeah, she has kids already.
Oh, so you have no kids at all.
I don't have kids, no.
You want a little you running around.
Kind of.
How much older is she than you?
She is eight years older than myself.
I'm 39.
Oh, wow.
Wait, how old are kids?
Oh, man, so her biological clock is, is, uh,
would you consider, is that, uh,
winding down.
To get grandfathered like,
do.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Like pregnant.
Dumb.
Eelding's at the top of that way.
No.
Oh,
like a kambana.
Yeah.
Like a church one.
All right.
No.
But James.
Sorry.
Yeah.
You're saying leave.
Even though you have not left yourself.
You're saying if I was a younger me and I had your situation, I would use this to
leave.
I think I would if I was younger myself
Okay
Oh James
James all power to you man
And you never thought of like I don't know
Like being like hey
You either have my baby
Or I'm out of this house
Or a little affair
What?
What?
That was actually
That was not a side chick
I'm an aside baby
He wants to be a dad
He's not
We can't put that on the radio
Oh
I mean you can't about it
Yeah we had people have
Be careful Marky
No, James.
No.
James.
So have you accepted the fact you're not going to have a kid?
I'm trying to.
It's still tough.
And those are still discussions that I try to have with her, but it's like a shutdown.
So I'm just trying to, as you guys were saying earlier, as a guy, hey, just internalize it and move on.
Be a man.
James, no.
We're going to give you, hold on the line.
We're going to give you our comments.
contact and you can hit us up for brown bag mornings homie helpline services.
Okay?
What?
I'm okay.
Yeah.
I don't need to cry.
That's always you guys.
I'm due for a good cry, guys.
I'm honestly.
Same.
Yeah.
Yeah, same.
I just feel like I need to get it out.
Yeah, I'm due for a good cry.
Honestly.
If there's any foods right now in the car right now, let it go, perito.
Let it go.
They just farted.
Yora.
Yeah.
Let it all out.
Yora.
Both sides.
Yeah.
Okay, we're talking to Paulina.
Paulina hit us up because she, unfortunately, with her partner, had a miscarriage and they lost a child.
They initially got together and knew they were going to start a family together.
This is her boyfriend of four years.
He's a little bit older, but they found each other, and they had the same ideals initially.
Now she's wanting to try again for another kid, and he said, look, I don't want any more kids.
I don't want kids, period.
So you're just going to have to get used to that, being with me.
and she's really stuck about it.
She feels like if I stay here,
I have to accept the fact that I'm not going to have kids.
If I leave,
I have to accept the fact I'm not going to be with the love of my life.
And I might not have,
it's a risk.
Like you don't know if you're going to find someone else.
You don't know if it's going to happen for you,
but at least it gives you the chance.
So we're asking what should she do?
It's real for her.
You could see how dooming it feels when we spoke to,
her of can you see your life without our child?
Can you see your life without your man?
And both is like, no.
So then what is the decision?
Samantha and Compton.
What's up?
Good morning.
Samantha.
Good morning.
Hi, Samantha.
How are you guys?
Samantha, we're fine.
We're getting it together.
You know, it's the holidays.
We're in our feelings.
Samantha, what would you tell Paulina?
I would tell her to leave.
It's not going to be worth it mentally.
I know by experience, I also lost the baby, but she was a week born.
Oh, so mental.
Yeah, she will be turning four years old this month, actually.
Four years old.
It's not good for her mental health eventually.
If he doesn't want one, then she should just go ahead, focus on herself,
you know, have her do something that would distract her whatsoever.
I went to work right after her loss,
because that's the way I grieve.
His way of grieving was obviously hitting up with the girls and whatsoever.
What?
So, yeah, I found out maybe a year later that he was asking another girl to come to our daughter's funeral and burial.
What?
But she didn't come.
Hey, Samantha!
Wait, wait, wait, we got to rewind that.
Wait, what?
He asked another girl to come to the funeral of your child that you lost.
a week after you gave birth?
Were you guys together?
Yeah.
Yes, we were together.
Oh, my God.
Yeah.
A couple months after, I eventually ended up getting pregnant again, so I had a
brainball baby.
She's two now.
And it was just not good.
Our relationship was not good at all.
He just continued cheating and do whatever he wanted to do.
I tried my best.
We were together for about 10 years.
10 years?
Yeah.
I'm 25 and I have three, and I had three babies.
My oldest is six.
She's autistic.
My second child will be four this month.
And, yeah, for this month.
And then my rainbow baby, she turned two in January.
So I left.
I've been two years since I left and I've been happier than ever.
I finally met somebody, you know, that makes me happy.
I went back to school.
Like, I'm doing good.
Eventually, she will find what she's, you know,
she'll find someone that wants to have kids with her
and will treat her the way she needs to be treated
the way she deserves
and like what's a lot.
You said your second baby
so that's the one that's not here with us anymore
but you still commemorating where she's there.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
My name is Rinesmi.
Oh, Rennesmi.
Oh, like in Twilight.
Yes, I love Twilight.
Oh, he's a lot of my name.
Oh, Samantha.
Samantha.
Well, I will say that you do sound like you're doing good
and that makes me happy.
Yeah, I am doing good
I eventually had my downfall when I moved out
I just took a little bit
But you know
I learned from the best
My mom was a single mom
A four girls as well
And she never needed help of anybody
You know she was my motive
I eventually ended up dinner myself
I own an apartment for my girls
You know
I'm car de laño
Um
There we go
That's all
Yeah
Flexing on them now
Yeah
Question the girl that your ex
asked to go to the
funeral, did they end them together?
Oh, true.
No, funny thing is that that girl was his cousin's ex.
Oh, what a dog.
What is that?
It's a good.
Cheez-Man right now.
Well, maximum cheese man.
He's always tried getting our girls that I know or just people that just, just like in the same circle.
Yeah, he's never been able to get our girls.
Yeah, he's never been able to get our girls.
his age, he's three years older than me.
He's never been able to get out of his age or anything.
He's always been in the, you know, or on my age.
He was around the middle.
That's the same age.
That's the same age.
We're still thinking in, like, a high school term.
Like, three years from a ninth grade or senior is different age.
Yeah.
He was getting with a senior and I was just in 10th grade.
That's only two years.
So, Menta, hold on the line, mamacita.
Hold on the line, my girl.
She came through with all kinds of recipes.
Yeah.
Girl.
That's a lot for her.
her to go through.
Her manager cheated with the cousin's ex.
No,
wanted to.
Invited the cousin's ex
to the funeral of his baby with Samantha.
A week after they lost the child.
I'm not blaming him.
Don't say that's grieving.
No,
I don't know.
Who knows?
No, it's not.
That's just horrible.
That's freaking.
Yeah.
I don't know.
Don't do that.
That's a crazy excuse.
Is that how people,
some people grieve?
No, I'm just saying.
That's, in wedding crashes, they say that people are most, most horny at funerals.
That's what I'm saying.
That's just what they said.
It was a movie.
Maybe that's the way.
Is it the right way?
Is it the right way?
Is it the right way?
Maybe not.
No, absolutely not.
Absolutely not.
Absolutely not.
That is insane.
I've never heard of that.
Me neither.
Let's not normalize that.
Let's not normalize that.
Let's not normalize that losing a child with your girl and cheating on her at the funeral.
Let's not, yeah.
That's not normalize.
Do not go to holidays or nothing or don't go to Sam's or nothing.
That's crazy work.
Concretto, what are you talking about?
After the funeral?
There's nothing wrong with that, but that's not the way to grieve.
It's a great way to grieve.
Oh, no.
No.
Do you either?
You, you just gave Greg hell idea.
What concrete said?
Some of my hamster dies.
That's right.
We're talking about children that I have children.
I understand, but he doesn't have children.
He has a hamster.
He doesn't have anything.
He buys gerbils, then we don't know what happens.
Oh, I know.
They go on.
They die somewhere.
KPWRFMHD1, Los Angeles,
Paro-106, L.A.'s number one for hip-hop.
I'm not going to say anything.
I'm just going to say all the ER nurses know about Greg.
For another reason.
He loves them in Scrubs.
This is all very serious.
It is.
And you guys are making a very reverence.
I know.
Let's give it its reverence.
Okay.
It is. It is.
Paulina, Heresop.
Paolina her set because she's in between staying with her man and that meaning no child again ever.
They did try. Unfortunately, they lost the child.
That's come between both of them.
And he's told her, I don't want kids.
So she has to deal with the fact, do I stay with this guy?
Who's my boyfriend?
You know, there is that little leeway.
Yeah.
Like, there's no marriage.
There's no other children.
And, you know, often we ask, like, what's kind of?
of keeping you there.
What's keeping her through that she genuinely loves him.
This is the love of her life and she can't even fathom not being with him either.
So she's trying to figure out what to do.
Let's go to Linda, Linda in Santa Ana.
What's up, Linda?
Linda.
Linda.
Linda from my hood.
Linda.
Linda.
Linda.
No.
From Santa Ana.
Linda.
Linda.
Linda, are you there?
Linda.
No, guess.
Hello?
Hey.
There she is.
Linda, talk to us.
Hi, good morning.
Good morning, Linda.
Hi, so I'm kind of going through the same thing, but I'm on the opposite side, to be honest.
Oh, she doesn't want.
So I had a miscarriage about six months ago.
Oh, I'm sorry.
It was, thank you.
Honestly, it was very hard for me, and we decided to try again after three months, but I felt
like I wasn't really ready for it.
So I told him, I was like, hey, like, maybe I don't want kids after all.
Like, I don't want to, like, kind of, like, be in a business where I'm kind of, like, replacing the baby that we lost.
Yeah.
And how does he feel about it?
And then, he was kind of really upset.
He was just like, oh, like, what do you mean?
Like, we always have conversations about having kids, having a big family, but now your team's kind of changed your mind.
And we've been together for six years, so it's kind of, like, been a long time.
Yeah.
And even though, like, I try to understand, you know, where he's coming from, I feel like I should put my body first.
Yeah.
It's tough.
Yeah.
Take care of yourself.
But at the same time, like, it's tough for you and it's tough for him.
You know, neither of you, both of you are going through it.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I kind of noticed that, like, he kind of shut himself off.
Like, he turns out in a shell, which I felt really bad for, you know, because he's always dreamed of, you know, being a dad.
And we actually went to therapy.
and I would say that that actually really helped.
Like we kind of had stopped having a conversation of, you know, of kids, anything like that.
Because I just felt like it was kind of like messing up our relationship.
Yeah.
It's like, well, you know.
She said the magic word.
Yeah, but you replace cars.
You don't replace the baby.
When you put it in that perspective, come on, girl.
It's tough to, it's tough to hear like that.
But many people do.
You, you'd be surprised.
Because it's like, okay, there was this one, I don't know, went viral.
A couple was talking about.
if you're in the middle of the ocean,
would you save your child or your significant other?
Oh, yeah.
And someone said,
I'd save my significant other,
we can have another child.
But it's like that is,
remember that way?
Yeah, that's crazy.
But it's like,
that child is its own being.
Like,
there's no replacing that.
You know what I'm saying?
Both of them and I would jump in the wall.
Take me.
Yeah.
This is not a real question, Jack.
Okay.
I'm telling me that's what I would do.
That's what I would do.
Oh, for sure.
Yeah.
But there's different ways.
to look at it and I guess that can get in your head like this this is like if I'm replacing
so and so and you think of the moments that you had that you could have had with that child it gets
really it gets really like mentally yeah uh messed up oh yeah it's like guilt like you know that you
start to like feel like oh okay well you know every time you kind of psych yourself out and thinking
every time I see my baby if I have a new one I'm going to think of the one that didn't make it
and yeah and people are going to think I can't get over that you know yeah so everyone's saying leave
It seems like it leave.
I would, you know.
What?
Stick it out, man.
Stick it out.
I know.
Okay.
And this is totally not, this is totally not what these amazing people calling in are going through.
Yeah.
But I really want a daughter.
Mm-hmm.
And Jore is like, you're not having a daughter.
We're not.
That's it.
The shop is closed.
And I've had this combo with Andrew.
Like, I literally have to live my whole life not having a daughter.
But this is my marriage.
She won't even try to have a daughter?
No.
Well, we do.
practice, but I have something that
keeps me from having a child.
And so I've literally, Angie, I have this mom
was like, dang, I'm never going to have
a daughter. And you want one so bad.
But, but you got to stay.
You got to stick it out.
Give a shot.
The finality.
Jorge.
No, he wants to.
Why not?
I get you, though.
It's like the finality of like having to
accept it.
Like, no, there's no making up.
We get one life.
And it's like, this one is not going to have
to have a daughter.
And I have beautiful nieces that.
And one of them.
really looks like me.
Yeah.
You haven't accepted it though.
Yeah.
It's hard.
That's what I'm telling you.
It's tough to hear these conversations, but I'm sticking it out.
I think, like, it's tough to accept, but it's like, okay, I have beautiful children.
You do.
You do.
But how would life be if you had a beautiful baby girl?
Don't do that.
Don't do that.
You're going to put his like, no.
It's beautiful.
I know.
No, you guys are jerks.
Well, because we tried.
Well, no, because we weren't going to try.
Oh, okay.
And then the Lord was like, check this out, buddy.
have other plans for you, you know?
So you never know.
George, come on.
He gives me all these reasons.
He gives me, you know, like, you're not there.
Where?
What?
Because I'm not there in the morning.
Like, it's going to be tough, your job.
And I was like, bro, I will, yeah.
I will, I will.
It all happened.
This will turn into daycare real quick.
Yeah, yeah.
He's going to have a best in it real quick.
Wait.
Hold on.
We got to go on break.
It's like, it's a lot with the boys.
And I was like, babe, people with less have 17 kids.
Yeah, don't do that.
How about when our grandparents, my great.
My great grandma had 12 kids, bro.
Yeah, where we want to be.
And I'm like, whatever.
No job.
Yeah, but on the rancho.
That's what you want.
Yeah.
But it's not about, but I'm saying these are even thoughts that I have.
But on a lesser scale, because I have.
because I have my children and, you know, like we ungrateful, we haven't gone through a loss like that.
Yeah.
But I can only imagine if that were to happen.
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah.
How shut off it would be.
And you kind of have to deal with that.
You have to deal with, no.
They said no.
And if I love them, I got to stay.
Yeah.
I got to stick it out.
So maybe that note to turn to a yes.
Maybe my prayers will be answered one day.
Maybe.
What she needs is to take them in Vegas, have one of those nights.
Just get a little tipsy and just.
Paulina?
Paulina.
Yeah.
Polina needs to take Raola to Vegas?
Yeah.
Yeah.
I just have one of those little ones.
No, I wonder if they've actually gone to therapy though.
Like maybe talk it out or things like that.
Just got in help or something.
All right.
Let's go to Destiny in Santa Ana.
Destiny.
Destiny.
We're talking to our homegirl, Paolina, Destiny.
And Paulina hit us up about her situation a few years back.
Unfortunately, her and her partner had a miscarriage.
Before that, they were really happy to have kids,
wanted to build their family, and all of that.
This is her boyfriend of four years.
And after that, it was tough.
on her mentally, physically, emotionally.
She's getting her mojo back, like she said,
going to the gym, feeling better.
Earlier this year, they discussed having a kid
or trying again, and it was a yes.
But it seems that now dude is closed off,
telling her, look, Paolina, I don't want any of this.
I don't want children.
And if you want to be with me, you got to accept that.
Now she feels like, dang,
should I just live my life knowing I'm not going to have this child
or step away and put it?
possibly have a child, maybe not, because I don't know if I'm going to find the person, you know.
Destiny, Destiny and Santa Ana.
What's up?
Yeah, go away.
Good morning, Brownback.
Good morning.
Good morning.
Shout out to my husband, Eduardo Pintore.
I wanted to nominate him for the Salarosa, but I called him for the homie help line.
Okay.
But to go straight to the point, I would tell her to stay.
I have a very similar situation.
Mm-hmm.
Me and my husband recently had a miscarriage this year in April.
I'm sorry.
And, you know, my husband had told me the same thing, like, oh, I don't want to be with you no more.
I feel like maybe we should just shouldn't try anymore.
You know, we have a beautiful son, and he also is a stepfather to my two daughters, which I'm very grateful for.
But, you know, eventually we did sit down and talk, and, you know, he told me that he loved me.
and, you know, what we went through was for both of us.
And we sat and talked and said, you know,
at the time, if it happens, it happens.
If it doesn't, then we'll try again later on.
And right now, I'm currently almost five months pregnant with our rainbow baby.
Oh, I'm just a happy baby boy.
So I would tell her to stay because, you know, that is a love of your life.
And I know it's hard to lose a baby, but you never know.
He's going to come around.
me and my husband have been together for three years just like them you know so it's very similar
i would say don't give up on him and you know maybe try to sit down and have that conversation
with him in the future thank you so much thank you you you're the example of sticking it out
i have a quick question i hope it's not a dumb question but what's the rainbow baby i haven't heard
that term before all that is the dumb question that's the baby you have after a rainbow baby is you have
after you lose a baby.
So I have my healthy baby boy
in my tummy.
I'm sorry.
Am I the only person in the world
didn't know that?
No, it's okay.
It's okay.
Probably.
We appreciate you calling in.
And all I love to you and the little one
in your tummy.
You said you're five months?
Yeah, I'm about to be five months.
Let's go.
I also have three kids at home.
Okay.
Wow.
Damn big brothers and sisters.
Name him brown bag.
Yes.
Bortico.
Should we getting busy.
Thank you.
Thank you so much for calling it.
Little baby girl.
Little mamacita.
No does not mean yes.
Okay?
Just don't get that twisted, Greg.
That doesn't mean that no equals yes.
That just means that even if they decided one thing, they could change their mind later.
Give them some time.
Yeah.
He sent me this note.
So no means yes.
No.
That's all I heard.
That's all he took from that.
Not mean yes.
Now Angie, what's happening with Leo DeKap?
You're not a de Cap here, you guys.
Okay.
So there's this one movie called One Battle After Another, and there's this scene that was going viral because him speaking Spanish and doing the Mexican Whistle.
The Mexican.
The Mexican whistle.
The Mexican whistle.
I can't do it.
Yeah.
Let's play it.
Let's play the scene.
Where is a troca negro?
A more pekinio signerita.
A mano, mano, mano, man o' man o' man.
No, mano.
From there.
To be there.
Yeah.
No, for her.
Thank you.
And I think all of him.
And I think all of us thought like that was great acting.
Like he got the whistle down.
But apparently not.
Like this is part of his lifestyle.
He was actually asked about it.
And this is what he had to say.
We had a lot of Hispanic Mexican friends growing up.
And in telling the truth, during COVID,
I worked with my partners a lot,
planting cactus on the hillside.
And that's how we talked.
I think that's what I did for a year
I love that I love that
Let's go Echo Park
He's from Ego Park
Is he?
Yeah
You said that every time I bring that up
Really?
Yeah
Tio Leo
I knew I love that guy for a reason
I know imagine
During COVID times
You were seeing him
Palanting the Pales
Yeah
Let's go
And doing the
Shshsh
I can he did
Yeah he did the one
That means something though
Oh yeah
Yeah
He did.
He had a lot of Hispanic Mexican friends growing up.
And to tell the truth, during COVID, I worked with my gardeners a lot, planting cactus on my hillside.
And that's how we talk to each other.
They were telling you something, Leo?
Yeah, I know.
I don't know if they called them the meaning of the whistle.
Who's a, Jack, went to Bacawe.
Who's going to tell them?
I like how he said I had a lot of Hispanic friends growing up.
Bro, you can have Hispanic friends right now.
Yeah.
I know.
We are home.
What happened?
We're right here.
Yeah, we didn't go nowhere.
Come on a morning show.
Kailet.
Yeah.
Kail Leo.
Do the Leonardo call.
All right.
Angie, I also have a guest to celebrity up here.
Oh, yeah.
We haven't done one in a while.
We haven't.
This is where Angie plays an audio clip and we all try to figure out which celebrity said this.
Usually it's a white actress.
Yeah.
Is it a white actress?
It's not.
It's not.
It's not an actress.
It's not an actress. It's an actor.
Oh.
A white one.
A white one?
No.
Oh.
Okay.
No.
You know what?
Actually, we all love him.
This actor.
Okay.
All right.
His voice.
So I think once you hear, you're going to be like, oh, I get it.
I know.
Is it Morgan Freeman?
I'm not about say that.
Just play and let's hear.
Okay.
Okay, brothers and sisters and Mrs.
And misses.
Here's your daddy yo with a sound to go.
No shuck and no jive.
And I'm telling you, your music.
arriving.
He's Asian.
No.
It's Theo.
Play it again.
Play it again.
Play it again.
Okay, brothers and sisters and sisters.
Here's your daddy yo with a sounds to go.
No shuck and no jive.
And I'm telling you your music's arriving.
Is a movie scene?
No, actually, it's from a TV show called Electric Company from 1971.
Oh, I was going to say, this sounds really old.
Just cry.
Okay.
Is Eddie Murphy?
No, but you're so.
good letty though you guessed it before
we even played it.
Morgan Friedman.
Yeah.
The voice of God.
Close my laptop.
Okay, brothers and sisters and Mrs. and
misses.
Here's your daddy yo with a
sound to go.
No shuck and no jive
and I'm telling you your music's arriving.
Yeah.
I'll say we all love him for his voice,
Angie.
He's all juggin and jiving.
I guess I gave it away.
Now this is a story all about.
That's what I think about now.
Well, it was 1971.
Yeah.
Say here, brother.
Yeah.
Broke now, brother.
Broken glass.
Everywhere.
Grab a cap up on the toe.
It's Thumkin Thursday.
Yeah.
But it depends on which one of us wins this Thumpkin Thursday challenge.
All right.
So the Thumpkin Thursday challenge is three of us are going to have a shake in front of our faces.
Three.
Three.
Three.
Three of us.
Okay.
Yes.
Three of us.
And, Muberto, you answer the phones?
Yes.
Yes.
Umberto
These are the people
The caller's big
You say yes
Yes
Oh no
He's being coarsed
He's being coarsed
And this is wrong
No
No
No
I saw him answer the phones
I wasn't suspicious
He made himself
He's like the person
He's from Watts
And he don't know
How to answer questions
No
He's like the person
That runs from the cops
When he's doing nothing wrong
Yeah
Now I'm suspicious of you buddy
Now you're going now
Being twice
is she's making you do something
you're not supposed to be doing.
What is he doing?
Blink twice.
Oh, he blink twice.
There did it.
Four times.
Stop blinking.
Stop blinking.
No, no, no.
Because you guys will put this on me all day.
I had nothing to do with the preparation of that shake.
I had nothing to do with who got chosen.
You were on air when I included my name and Angie's name.
Yep.
It was you foo's.
So all of a sudden you're making it seem like you girls are not getting picked.
What do you mean?
They're not.
Morena was out there too.
Not when I came, please.
Oh, my God.
They're not.
Oh, man, it's not what?
No.
They're not getting picked.
The callers are not picking me or letty.
Oh, my God.
They have, they, they know these challenges are a little sussy.
These girls can eat.
More funny than watching you fools do sassy stuff.
These girls can eat too.
There could be like a wet t-shirt contest and they'll still choose us.
Yeah.
At this point.
Yeah, it's like, impados.
So anyways, our listeners are,
Salvador in Westminster chose Vic.
Wow.
Oh, that's your minute.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That's my to-cayo.
Wild Salvador.
Michael in commerce, concrete.
Que bueno.
Carla, in Hemet, Greg.
Oh, at least a girl chose me.
In Hemet.
In Hemet.
Wow.
You better stop.
You better stop.
She's been up all night, huh?
Why?
She lives in Hemetth.
Hey, stop.
Carla, for the record, you've had good sleep, right?
You slept really well last night?
Yes, I did.
There you go.
There you go. See? There you go.
I don't know.
Depending on who wins this challenge,
is going to win tickets to Cam Flogna.
In front of you, you have a pumpkin pie shake.
That is so disgusting.
It's not even the color.
It's not even orange.
It's red.
Why is it red?
Can you explain that, Umberto?
I don't even want to know what's in it.
Jose decided to buy some cranberry sauce.
Oh, okay.
Oh, that's not bad.
Honestly, it looks like a strawberry milkshake or something.
I don't even like cranberries.
All right.
But it is thumbkin Thursday.
It's so big.
All right.
Whoever finishes this shake first wins.
That's it?
You got to use your thumbs to scoop up.
Oh.
It's not impossible.
What?
Yeah.
That is your thumb.
Whoever finish?
No, it's actually really easy.
It's not even filled halfway.
How do we know?
It's a small coffee cup.
Two hands or one?
Thumbs.
Whatever.
You can use two thumbs.
I can't.
Pretty weird to use two thumbs in there.
Can we tilt?
Oh, you tried?
Aw.
It smells so bad.
It's pumpkin pie.
It's not bad.
That smells like...
Pumpkin pie and cranberries?
I don't think I can smell right now.
One of you can choose Umberto to do it for you.
True.
That's like...
True.
Do you like...
Umberto, who are you going to do it for?
Do you like pumpkin pies?
Which one?
Are you going to do it for Greg?
Are you going to do it for concrete or for Vig?
Vick's had a hard week.
Yeah, Vick has.
He is the man.
He owns all of us.
And Greg...
Everyone hates him.
Yeah, everybody hates me.
You're going to do it for Greg?
Yeah.
Why?
Just so you know, it's over between us.
I'm going to go on Instagram live on Brownback Mornings 106.
Dude, this smells this.
It looks like a strawberry banana milkshake or a smoothie.
All right.
Brownback Mornings 106 on Instagram.
No, I like mine dirty.
Brownback Mornings 106 on Instagram.
It is time for you, fools.
You're going to, wait.
Wait.
Why is he all close to cars?
Because he's ready.
Oh, it's like this?
Umberto's, no.
What are you doing?
Scoop as a scoop.
You already disqualified, dog.
Three.
Oh, scoop it with your thumb.
Wait, wait, wait, you're supposed to scoop it with your thumbs.
Yes.
Pumpkin pie shake.
Friends giving.
Do this for friends giving too.
These are great ideas.
Yeah, I'm letty and this is a pumpkin pie shake thumb off.
Okay, the guys got to eat their pumpkin pie shake with their thumbs.
Whoever finishes first, your caller wins camp log not tickets.
Yeah.
All right.
I hit you, Salvador.
Two, one.
Go.
All right.
All right.
Only look your little baby.
Wait.
They're tilting.
Yeah,
concrete.
Concrete.
Concrete.
You got to explain why you're not.
Oh.
Oh.
Who won?
Inberta won.
Carla,
Congra.
Carla, congratulations.
Carla,
you're going to caps.
Bro, that tasted like through us.
It tastes exactly like throw up.
I almost threw up.
Hold on.
It's just pumpkin pie.
No, it tastes exactly.
Wait, Con,
Umberto.
Umberto.
Umberto.
You named the shakes.
I know.
It's horrible because I know what's in it.
What's in it?
Cranberry.
Ham.
Ham.
Turkey ham.
Turkey ham.
There's turkey ham.
Pumpkin pie.
I watered.
That's gross.
That's disgusting.
Somebody help concrete.
We need them.
All right.
Hey, concrete.
Call the lady to come click.
We want you to celebrate the holidays with your bestie.
Thanks to our friends over at Stella Rosa, they have given us an experience for you and your bestie, okay?
We asked for it for you to call us up.
dominate your bestie and tell us why they deserve to win a pair of tickets to see LA's favorite football team at the big stadium in Ingo Wood on Sunday, November 23rd.
And you called.
So now it's up to two bestie stories.
We're going to have to pick which of the besties deserve these tickets, all right?
Is that my bestie and a testie?
Okay.
Let's go to Jamie and Anaheim.
Jamie.
Jamie.
What's up, bro?
What's up, Jamie?
Jamie, why does your bestie deserve to sell them?
celebrate over there in inglewood with LA's favorite football team.
Oh man, I mean, me and the guy go way back to elementary, but to cut it short for you,
he was the only one that was there for me when my father passed away.
Aw.
Tell come on, man.
Wow.
Yeah, I mean, how do we even...
He was there for you?
Yeah, he was the only one.
I mean, I always kept my group, you know, short.
I had five people with me, just, you know, that we called each other friends, but I
reality he was the only one that was there when I called he actually was the one that told me not to drive
to my uh to the hospital he drove me oh wow you know he did pretty much everything he could to
show him that he was there um for my 25th birthday he actually since he a marine he used to live in
georgia for a while so he actually paid for me to fly out to Georgia took me out to dinner and and
and, you know, his wife treated me to a cigar and whiskey.
I mean, we did a lot.
Wow.
This guy, he might ride or die.
What's his name, Jamie?
What's his name?
He goes, well, I call him Willie, but his name is William.
Willie.
Willie, all right, Jamie and Willie, that's an incredible story.
Call him Willie, yeah.
Very, very deserving.
Let's go to Juana.
Juanah and Anna.
Anna.
Hanna, how, Juanah, Juan.
What do you, Juanah?
What do you, Juanah?
It's not Juanah.
It's Donna.
Bana.
Donna.
Dana.
Dana.
Dana.
Dana, thank you.
Donna.
Donna, like O'Dana?
Like, Richie?
Yeah.
Oh, got it.
Got it.
Oh, Donna.
Donna.
Talk to us.
We're nominating besties.
Tell us why your best he deserves.
My best friend, my bestie.
She's my best one.
You know, she's helped me through thick and thin.
You know, we started off at a Rocky Reliancey.
relationship, but we grew into each other. She's helped me out through thick and thin, not only me,
but anybody in need, you know, she, uh, one time I had a hard time my car got broken into and my
rent money was stolen. She literally, you know, just out of her pocket, just, you know, without a
second or a doubt, just put that money in my pocket and said, here, handle yours, you're good.
I got you covered, you know, um, when my grandparents passed away too, she was there for me
always. There's nobody that she says no to. She's always stepped up to help everybody in need.
What's her name? He holds it down for everybody. What's her name? Her name is Sammy. Sammy.
Sammy and Donna. She's like the best. She's the best. She will help you out no matter where you're at.
All right. Let's call it. I need a thousand dollars. No stopping. Not a thousand. Let's go. She's down for it.
You're in need. She don't even think about herself. She always think about others. Others people for
herself and I really think she deserves this because she's gone through so much so much that she
really deserves a break in her life oh my goodness okay thank you Donna all right it's up there
are we giving the tickets to jamie and his friend willie or to donna and her friend sammy
yes this is what happens when you nominate your bestie yeah we can't give it to both no we can't
give us why come on date I mean Sammy you
LA's favorite football team at the big state of Minningwood on Sunday.
If you and your best, you deserve a good time, deserve a break, it's the holidays,
deserve some time for yourself, especially if you're always giving to others.
Who wins?
Stella, break.
I like, I mean, Sammy, she sounds really nice.
She sounds like if I told her I need pancakes right now, she would give them to me.
Yeah.
Yeah, she sounds really sweet.
Yeah.
What about you, Concrete?
Who do you think?
Oh.
Is it Donna and Sammy or Jamie and Willie?
Personally, my vote?
Donna.
Donna and Sammy.
Donna has two right now.
I think Jamie and Willie, because they probably watch football.
Together?
Oh, so you don't think girls can watch football?
Oh, wow.
I don't think so.
Donna, do you and Sammy?
What?
I'm so hurt by that.
I'm so hurt by that.
Wait, do you watch football?
I do watch football.
Okay, then it's two.
I'm fine.
I know you guys crown a lot on the Cowboys, but you know, I'm a lot of the Cowboys fan.
Oh, you're a favorite.
Oh, brother.
You know, but I love the Rams.
The Rams are the number one team in L.A.
They are.
Wow.
And in the league right now.
Did you know that Dax Pressile's real name is?
Dakota.
Dakota.
Wow.
Vick's son, the new Cowboys fan.
Oh, true.
All right.
So now that we did that, who wins the ticket?
You're going Donna and Sammy Greg.
Con, you're going Jamie and Willie.
Angie?
I'm going with Jaime.
Jamie and Willie.
Mm-hmm.
Donna and Sammy
Donna and Sammy
Oh really
That's really nice
That's really nice
Deadlocket
So then it's
Yeah it's two and two
So now it's up to me
It's up to you
It's up to you
What are you gonna do
What are you gonna go
What are you gonna do
Don't be influenced by anybody in here
Mona
Our producer did vote
And she wrote in for
Oh
What about you?
I'm everybody's friend
I'm everybody's friend
I can't do that
Oh this is a gross thing
Oh.
Oh, it's a gross thing.
Okay, got it.
Look how happy she is.
Yeah, Donuts really happy.
Yeah, and what about Willie?
It's going to be raining.
Now he's going to be wet Willie outside all sad.
He's going to be a sad wet Willie out there today.
When's your next show out here?
When's your next show out here?
December 11th.
December 11th.
Jamie, you and Willie are going to see concrete VIP at their next show here in L.A.
Congratulations, bro.
That's so cool.
Hell yeah.
Dad.
He'd say, yeah, that's cool, man.
What about those football tickets?
Yes.
Nobody understands me, man.
Where are you?
Take a picture of this, please.
And I'm so sorry.
I'm so sorry.
Concrete Tuaina, Beanie, and he had his hair or his beanie.
No, that's not with arms out open.
That's for sure.
Because tonight will be in a night.
Nobody understands me, man.
Your parents?
That's a.
Somebody never heard.
of closing the damn door.
That's right there.
Okay.
Yeah.
All right.
All right.
Good morning.
Good morning to you and you and you.
It's Brown Bag mornings.
And we asked the question earlier.
Who do you think has a worst relationship with their fans?
Not the worst fans.
That's different.
Drake High beats, when's that?
I'm saying the worst relationship.
Okay.
With their fans.
Okay.
Who do you think it is?
You could pick anything.
You could pick a celebrity.
You could pick artists.
You could pick, I don't know, sports teams, any of that.
Greg.
Can I pick myself?
Yourself?
Yeah.
You have fans?
The brown bag fans?
The food's want to fight me all the time.
I want to fight them too.
Oh, no, no, no.
Don't put it on them.
Don't put it on them.
No, you create the torment, and then they just want to stand up.
You antagonize them constantly.
They call me bonds.
And I'm like, yeah, I'm not a good bond.
I'm not the bad bond.
But I want to fight them all the time.
They're always in my comments.
What?
Oh, pobrecito.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I'm such a bad relationship with our fans.
Dude, what?
Our fans are great, by the way.
They are.
They're listening right now.
Yeah, when they meet me, they're like, oh, you're actually pretty cool, homie.
And I'm like, yeah, fool, why are you net banging online on me right now?
Freaking awesome, dude.
It's because you yell at them on the phone and tell them to hurry up.
You run around the board and let they hang up.
Yes.
You tell them to shut up.
They're telling us their deepest, darkest secrets.
They're telling us the most boring secret that they have.
And that's why.
All right.
That's a great contender.
Anybody else, Vic?
Frank Ocean.
He hates his fans.
Why do you say that?
He hates his fans.
Well, tell me why.
Okay, Coachella, he just left him standing in the rain or whatever.
He did.
He doesn't perform.
I guess like he never, he's like a deadbeat artist.
Yes, he's literally a deadbeat artist.
He never shows up for that.
He went for a pack of cigarettes, never came back.
Never came back.
Show up.
Every once in a while, just to mess with your head,
and then he goes back into the shadows.
And they always take him.
back too. Every single time.
They're like, I think Frank's dropping.
He changes his profile. No.
Or he wiped it. He doesn't. Yeah. He doesn't
care about you guys. He's living
it up. Millions of dollars
enjoying you, you know,
enjoying all your purchases. Yeah, all your
support. It's a clip her friend.
What's your answer, bro?
Freaking Cowboys did.
The Cowboys?
The Cowboys did.
They have the worst relationship with their band.
They're always crying on the internet.
No.
And they always say, it's our year.
But I think they have a great relationship.
Yeah, I think so, too.
They don't beef it with their own fans.
Yeah, they do.
They hate Jerry Jones.
Every cowboy fan always says they hate Jerry Jones.
Their Cowboys fans are in an abusive relationship with the Cowboys.
Oh, gosh.
No, they are.
They stay.
They stay.
They stay because, like, Jerry Jones knows he needs to get the team good enough to support
to just get them to around 500.
He doesn't care if they go to the Super Bowl.
It doesn't care for any of that.
It's literally the America's team, and it's the true meaning of domestic violence right there.
Oh, my God.
I didn't say that.
It's the true meaning.
All right, well, let's switch gears because there's none of those.
Apparently, according to their own fans, it's Doja Cat.
Doja Cat.
And her relationship with her fandom is low-key off the charts.
Because they go back and forth.
They're yelling at each other.
You know, she does have her new tour.
And the fans have spoken out about.
how she doesn't do any outfit changes.
You know, they're like, hey, she doesn't do outfit changes.
And she responded like, look, I don't need you.
I won't and I don't need you.
Wow.
Yes.
What's the problem with not doing outfit changes?
I guess they're used to it.
They're used to it for an act, especially like I would a pop leaning or pop urban act
to go and do some sort of outfit changes.
I have never been to a Doja Cat show.
Maybe that's something that she probably conditioned them to do previously.
I do see her outfits go viral.
Like I've seen things that she's worn go viral
So I'm assuming it might be that
But people are upset at her
Every tour it's its own like different thing though
It's its own creative like expression and stuff like that
Like Kanye when he did like the glow in the dark tour
Like he had everything glow in the dark
And he'd wear a certain outfit with his geeseys and stuff like that
It's like you know the weekend he had like his broken nose persona
Yeah
When he was on tour
It's just like how she's expressing herself
The kind of character she's playing
Yeah
Tyler the creator was Igor he wore a blonde wig
and a suit.
You know what I'm saying?
Like,
and you don't need to change your outfit
if you're playing the same character.
So a fan hat tweeted,
how's your tour literally called my life
and end up having no storyline,
no visuals,
no outfit changes.
And she said,
because I make music for people
who enjoy music,
I'm not a Broadway act.
Oh, shit.
That's,
hey,
that's dope.
She said,
and I'm not your effing costume monkey.
I move at my own pace
and break my effing back out
there every night
so you can keep your BS opinion
to yourself.
You are not the artist,
you are the watcher.
She is a dope artist and she's mad creative, dog.
She's super creative.
Honestly, probably I would put her as like top, maybe top two, top one right now in the last five, ten years.
Wow.
Oh, for sure.
I love those.
She's incredible.
And she's also really, really going at it with her fans.
And I'm wondering, too, this kind of, it's a balance, right?
It's a balance of it being open access to get to the celebrities with your words.
and also you have to deal with their response in that same open access like an ex, you know, like a Twitter.
Someone said, I hate that Doja is comfortable where she's at currently in her career.
We're really not getting any more smash hits.
And she said, you are such a little aunt.
Go F yourself.
Yeah.
Wow.
And I guess it's that relationship.
It's a very toxic relationship.
I do believe these people are still buying tickets.
Oh, yeah.
purchasing but and she and them are not she was just in Auckland and she killed it I was watching
videos yeah it's because she wants she wants her music to do the talking she wants her music to be the
performance she doesn't want to get any distractions with the outfit changes or anything she wants
everybody or influence to it like I don't want you what your opinion is to influence my creativity
and I guess it's just that open door though that open door where you guys you can hear what
they're saying and then you can lash back out at them because that's not going to go in her favor
either.
That's like me going to a Laker game and being upset that they came out in every quarter with the same uniform.
Like, dude, just play ball, dog.
No, but you guys do talk ish about your fans.
You do.
You do?
You guys talk ish about the Lakers?
What are you doing LeBron?
What if LeBron was like, shut up and buy some tickets?
What if LeBron was like, I'm never playing basketball again?
We all do it to something.
Whatever.
That's true.
Those Doja Cat fans need to become Chris Brown fans.
He has 10 outfit changes and he flies across the stadium.
Is that enough for you?
Is that enough?
There's only one Chris Brown.
All right, Doja Cat fans?
Geez.
Okay.
He's real brave.
He told you.
I think she's incredible.
She is.
She is.
That is a very, I think it's up there in the list of crazy relationships with their fans, the artist and the fan.
All right.
Keep it here.
