Can't Keep My Mouth Shut - Here's What Happens When You're "Dickmatized"

Episode Date: February 10, 2025

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This podcast contains strong language and discussions about relationships, sex, and love. It may not be suitable for younger listeners. This is the Can't Keep My Mouth Shut podcast, and I am Nick Salina. Hello, it's Nick Salina. Welcome back to another Monday evening of me. and today we're covering a topic I've never discussed before and I say that with every topic that I've never discussed before because we're season nine now and it's very rare it's very very rare there is shit left I've not covered you know I feel like I've said and done it all but nay nay this topic in particular we've never touched upon and it is called

here's what happens when you're digmatized digmatized so let's start off with the word digmatized and we're going to go to urban dictionary for its definition it's very easy really it's a very simple easy definition Basically, digmatized means when the dick is so good that you become utterly hypnotized by the guy that gave it to you. I'm laughing because I know what I'm going to start talking about. Right, listen, how you become digmatized, I can't. I can't even take myself seriously what happens when you become dimitized right

it's all it basically it becomes your all-consuming thought process it was when your neck's gonna get laid by that dick right it takes over you'll be standing in in the queue of the supermarket you'll be at your office desk trying to focus on work you'll be playing sports Maybe you'll be in a chilled bath before bed, watching a movie at home. But nothing can distract your brain from when you are next getting tapped by that penis. It's gloriously all-consuming. And it's not, weirdly, about the man that the dick is attached to. Oh, God.

But, oh, I'm sorry, boys, if you think I've turned you into, like, a sex toy on legs. But, yeah, digmatized is a thing. It's not just me that's, you know, it's happened to you before. And it really does happen. And I feel like it's one of those things where it's only understandable once you've actually been digmatized. So my digmatized, I can't. I can I can it's good knowledge my demonized moment was um I can I can yes yes Nick Selena I can you got this I matched with a guy on an app and oh my god this is such tea spilling

I matched with a guy on an app before we'd even gone on a date he's around my house all right and I never do this to be clear I know everyone who does this says oh I never do this but I generally don't the whole of 2024 I was basically a fucking nun as y'all know my regular listeners will know and I just didn't have sex um because for many reasons I didn't I um I had my man who was my uh my little game changer who changed everything brought me back to life I had him But other than that, I was a very legs-closed kind of woman. Didn't really want to date, didn't really, like, wasn't obsessed about, didn't even miss sex, just focused on me.

And that all fucking changed when I matched with this guy on an app and within a day, within a day, he was at mine. And it's the best sex I've had in years. like fucking hell four five years oh my god the best sex and I I was so dickmatized that that's why I let him like swerve all the proper dating etiquette but when when it started when we matched and with the conversation started I wasn't in the mood for dick right I've been the whole of the year. I'm not, I'm not like, but something about this boy transformed that. And he has this perfect dom energy, which brings out my submissive energy

and my submissive energy then taps deeper and deeper into his dom energy. And then it just escalates into this insane insatiable sexual connection where it's like we just want to have sex all the fucking time um and i can't i can't you know what it'll be very proud he's um he's he's well endowed my man is well endowed and fucking amazing in bed can go for ages like I'm tired I'm like it's been an hour we've been at this all for an hour babe and he's like it's not done he's not done with me fucking amazing the connection for us and the dignitized aspect is definitely the BDSM fetish. Not many men are good at it. Not many men get it. And he was just, he got, not only did he get it, he kind of led the way in this one. And yeah,

his dick took over my thought process. Did I consider him a potential option for marriage? nope no did i consider him a potential option for a long-term partner no nope did i want to have sex with him all day every day um and cancel work to continue having sex yes and that my friend is what happens when you've been digmatized you know you know logically that man ain't your man you know logically you're not compatible in certain areas and I'm not like the boy is lovely like this ain't me shitting on him as a person um like you know if he called me up tomorrow I'd be like hey baby like not a problem is not an issue there but I just knew what I'm looking for now in a partner um especially at my age especially after everything I've been through I've definitely let

too many uh boundaries slide should we say in terms of the kind of lifestyle that I want and deserve so I knew he wasn't and he wasn't fit for me he's never been like oh nicks like I'm gonna fall in love with you no we laid it very clear from the start what we were after what we were what we were all about and then and then I got dickmatized because a dick was so fucking good and you're probably thinking well okay well what does that mean why does dickmatize even exist then because isn't it just someone like your vibe and you're like maybe your fuck buddies or maybe your friends with benefits or maybe you're dating no this is a different thing only certain dicks can get you this way

only certain types of man and their turgid penis can have this kind of effect of you and also i'm not it's a debatable aspect of being dignitized as to whether the person is worthy of it oh god that sounds so bad like like the man attached to the cock that you're now obsessing over because the sex is that good maybe isn't worthy of your new infatuation but you can't see past the fog of the immense amazing incredible sex that you have with that particular knob and I don't mean knob as in him I mean knob as an actual the knob I'm trying to find all the different words for the penis okay the male genitalia so how do you know if you've been it's very simple i think one can you focus on anything else now but having sex with that person

two is having sex that person every day your your be one end all goal in life now is one session an evening enough or do you want three or four do you want to stay up all night fucking with no regard that you're gonna have to get up for work three hours later are you unsure if you're actually even attracted to that person but you can't let go of the dick do you logically think this is probably not gonna end well i don't think this is gonna end well well maybe he's a player maybe he's an obvious fuck boy maybe you're not even in the mode where you want anything more but all you can think about is getting more of that dick that's what happens when you're stigmatized. I believe it becomes a little bit too intense in my personal experience. It's almost

unmanageable. And I mean unmanageable, unsustainable, unmanageable obsession with that massive fucking amazing cock that I was enjoying. I knew it wasn't. It was too big, too much, it's too big it was very big actually uh it was too intense that's the word i'm looking for but it was it was very big thank you well done well played my man um but it was too intense i know it wasn't gonna last you know what's the saying the candle that burns twice as bright lasts half as long that was the case here and that's usually what happens when you're because it's just like an intense rush and it's fun and then and then kind of reality starts to said in right like we're exhausted we can't fuck all the time we're tired I was getting sick as

per because I'm not sleeping correctly I wasn't posting on social media and I'm too busy sexting him about all the things I want him to do to me oh my god if you guys read this whatsapp chat with him you would be like you pair of sick fucks i love it oh i love it anyway this one is a short and sweet episode which is the opposite to what his dick was short and sweet but uh definitely something i needed to cover because i've never experienced it before up until up until now and it's glorious and I don't regret it and honestly like I think that dick will digmatize me until the uh till the end of time and that's annoying thing like he could slide into my whatsapp tomorrow and be like wanna fuck I'm like yes any yes now when now yeah good um

and it gives him a little bit too much control but I can't help it I'll never say no he's my one guy with, well, obviously I say no if I'm fucking in a relationship, but I mean like if I'm single or whatever, yeah, he's getting it. Great. Thanks for listening. Another overshare episode. I'd love to hear your thoughts. Have you ever been digmatized? And is there another way of saying that with a pussy? Is it pussymatized? Is there another word for that let me know as always uh hit me up sign into my dms i'm available on instagram and tiktok i am shit on tiktok though so better hit me on instagram at n-i-x-a-l-i-n-a and with that i look forward to seeing you all next week

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