It's Time to Say Goodbye. With All My Love, Nixalina.

Dating Narcissists vs Sociopaths: Know the Difference

Narcissists and sociopaths both wear charm like cologne — but the motivation underneath is the difference between emotional damage and full-blown psyc...

What Life is Like in the 'No Sex Club' - Spoiler, It's By Choice

Farewell sex, farewell men and farewell all my stress and misery! With love, Nixalina. For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or d...

Single in Singapore City Launches with an Anti-Valentine's Fiesta

Forget roses, reservations and red flags — Valentine's Day in Singapore is getting deliciously derailed with a bold new singles event series: Single i...

What to Expect in 2026: The Rebuild After the Breakdown

If you listened to the last episode about why 2025 was so brutal, this one is the exhale. Because today we're talking about 2026 — what it brings, why...

Why Was 2025 So FUCKED UP for Everyone?

No, you're not crazy, dramatic, or bad at coping. We've been so poorly served the year of the snake, the 9 year cycle and a whole load of messed up 'e...

Dating After 30: What Changes, What Improves

Today, we're talking about dating after 30. And let me tell you… it hits different. In your 20s, dating feels like an endless buffet — a lot of option...

Men Who Self-Sabotage: A Field Guide

If you've ever thought, 'Why does he keep ruining this?' — grab a notebook, ladies. You're about to get a field guide." With love, Nixalina. For more...

The Madonna-Whore Dichotomy: Polarized Perception of Women

The concept originated in Freudian psychoanalytic theory, where Sigmund Freud coined the term "Madonna-Whore complex" (or "psychic impotence") to desc...

Meaningless Sex??? Could Think of Nothing Worse Bro

Nahhhhh mate, move along.  For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital pla...

Can't do it, Won't do it: Men vs Eating Pussy

I just...I cannot deal with this attitude towards oral sex on women. Sigh. JUST SIGH. For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or da...

10 Signs You've Met Your Soulmate

We throw the word soulmate around a lot — in movies, in songs, and in the quiet corners of late-night conversations. But when it really happens, when...

5 Things That ALWAYS Happen After a Man Fucks Me Over

Spoiler alert - here are the 5 things I explain in this episode about what happens to me after I leave a toxic mofo: Denial & Derail Rumination &...

Should You Ever Get Back with Your Ex? Let's Discuss

Is it a good idea...ever? Can it ever work out again, long term? Let's discuss, shall we! With love, Nixalina. For more awesome content to read includ...

I was Beaten by my Boyfriend for 2 Years, at just 16. Here's My Story

To anyone living through this as we speak - I hear you, I see you, I understand you and I am here for you. With love, Nixalina.  

10 Signs That You're a RARE Sigma Female

In modern slang, a "sigma female" refers to an independent, self-sufficient woman who operates outside of traditional social hierarchies, values her a...

He Programmed his Chat GPT Voice to SOUND LIKE ME!!!

I have no words. But apparently I don't even need words anymore - because his Chat GPT is now my voice anway. WTAF THOUGH!? With love, Nixalina. For m...

The Mental Fuckery that is Post-Breakup 'Euphoric Recall'

This mofo has a lot to answer for, let me tell you that. Let's discuss, shall we? With love, Nixalina. For more awesome content to read including beau...

Don't Blame a Clown for Acting Like a Clown...

...instead ask yourself why you keep going to the f**king CIRCUS?!   With love, Nixalina. For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion o...

My Dearest Trolls - Does the Internet want 'Nixalina' to Resign?

Listen up mofos, it's a rant, is what it is. With love, Nixalina. For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features...