Can't Keep My Mouth Shut - Nix's 6-T Tips on Giving a Mindblowing Blowjob

Episode Date: February 20, 2023

​​ We have 6 'T' tips here that I believe, if used correctly, can lead to a fantastic blowie. Don't take my word for it, ask my exes.   Time - Tongue - Temperature - Talk - Two Balls - Tightness   Let's get down, shall we? Pun intended. ​​​​ For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com.   Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok to slide into my DMs.

This podcast contains strong language and discussions about relationships, sex, and love. It may not be suitable for younger listeners. This is the Can't Keep My Mouth Shut podcast, and I am Nixalina. Hello, it's Nixalina. Welcome back to an episode. I'm laughing because I know you've already seen the title, so I know why you're listening. Both of you, males and females, I can tell.

The title is Nix's 6T Tips on Giving a Mind-Blowing Blowjob. This comes off the back of my episode I put out not so long ago about blowjobs. And I was just talking about the fact that I feel like we should do more of them and giving some respect to the blowy and that for me, it's part and parcel of a normal sex life and it shouldn't be something that happens like once a year and then I got a fair few DMs saying okay Nix can you do an episode on how to give a great blowjob and I thought yep here for it I will help you all out what makes me qualified I don't have some sort of blowjob medal hanging on my fucking wall FYI I wasn't certified A plus for great head

And that's why I'm allowed to do this episode. No, but I do know I'm really fucking good. I had lots of experience. Yeah. You know, I am 35, by the way. When I say stuff like that, don't be like, oh, my God, she sleeps around. No. I've had long-term relationships.

I've also been single in my 20s. I'm in my mid-30s. And I like, I mean, I love blowjobs, but I like them. I, you know, I'm pretty good. And I know I'm pretty good because I can tell. Even if the guy doesn't say anything, you can just fucking tell. So here are my personal six T's. Yeah, I come up with that myself.

Is this like a brand new, like, mathematical equation to blowjobs? follow these six T's and he will come within minutes. Yeah, it's my own formula, actually. I'm basically like modern day Pythagoras, aren't I? I'm the modern day Pythagoras for giving good head. Yes. One at life. Okay. The six T's. I'll overbrief them quickly, then we'll dive in. So time, tongue, talk, two balls, temperature, tightness. Okay, let's start with time. For a good head, you need a fast and slow pace. And you need to focus on the speed of going up and down the shaft, right?

So this is why time is important. Because if it's too slow, it doesn't do anything. It's the same as if a guy is licking my clit and doing it really slow. yes it's lovely and it's sensual but you're never gonna make me come never too slow it's the same with giving head there has to be an element of speed and if you're doing it fast enough where he's like about to come don't stop and then go slow again you just bring the orgasm right back down just drop right fucked so it has to be it has to be fast enough that and let him but you can't i mean obviously mouse gonna hurt so you can go slow here or there but when you get into the

build up you know you can start off if with a bit of fast bit so but the builder has to remain at the same speed or if not faster for that ultimate come if you drop out it will be like back to square one and then you're gonna have to start basically the blowy all over again also time um it was relevant to how long you give the blowjob for i fucking hate it when guys go down on me for like a few minutes and then come up like done my wife fucking no you're not no you're not my ex was a perfect example just was like a couple of minutes all right done and then i'll come up and fuck you put my dick in so you're all about putting your dick in basically you give no fucked about how long it takes for me. You're not done. I want you down there for as long as

possible. Thank you. And it's the same with blowjobs. Don't think for like, oh, I'll just suck his dick for a few minutes and then I'll be all right. Sure, he might be the kind of guy that can't come through blowjobs. I've heard that often, which is fine. I can't come through penetrative sex. So, you know, everyone's wired differently. But if you can, it might just take a while. It might just take a while. So you've got to be prepared to actually take your time and spend your time there. Don't make it some part and parcel, quick in and out, pre-sexing. Actually, you know, give the blowjob some time and love and attention to the needs. But yeah, time, the fastness, the speed, you've got to keep it up. Don't drop out.

It will come much quicker if you keep the fast speed up, I promise. number two your tongue never forget to include your tongue when you're sucking so this is a little trick of mine and they can't get enough is when I'm going up and down I move the tongue around the shaft at the same time um it's you know it's a bit mental work because you're going up and down but the tongue has to be in circular motions at the same time um there's like a jaw thing going on it's like trying to move your left and right hand or right at the same time anyway you know you get where I'm going but that extra tongue movement on the inside combined with the up and down speed of

your head just sets them on fire actually does so I would do circular motions or just at least flicking it so if you even if you get to the end of the um you get to the bell end and you can just rung your tongue around it like on repeat if you need a break pull pull up to the end hold the shaft really tight rung your tongue around it really fast around the end and then put your head back on that just helps just tongue don't think for one moment oh I just open my mouth and it goes in and out and then we're done no that extra layer inside with the tongue movement honestly it's a winning it's a winning combo girls and if you aren't a big fan of giving heads so your aim of the game is probably to get him come faster because you don't like doing it

you get slip the tongue slip that tongue right in um it will take practice but you'll see the difference i promise you um get it involved up and down and tongue at the same time moving on also to three, which is the two balls. Also use your tongue on the balls. Don't forget there's two balls, okay? There's two balls and they feel great being licked. They do. So let's not focus all on the dick. You've got to include the balls. Usually I like to give head and then like even just fondle the balls at the same time. That helps. It's a nice sensory motion for them, an extra double feeling. But I often, especially if I need a break, I will move on to running my tongue in a circle of eight around both balls. So just trace an eight with your tongue, one ball to

the other, trace the eight, keep it going. Can be slow, can be fast, but I love it. If you can trace the eight on the balls and give a hand job at the same time, then that keeps the momentum going with the dick as well. That's even better. That's advanced blow jobs over here, if you can do that. But yeah, I don't usually like to leave a dick and just move straight onto the balls. I think it should always be a combo. So I just give a tight hand job, move the hand up and down the shaft as you circle your tongue in an H shape around both balls. It's going to be quite a short episode, I've just realized. That's because it's just so good and easy to give great head. Moving on to point four, temperature. Yes, temperature. So I like to do hot and cold,

hot and cold, and sometimes ice cubes in my mouth as well. Or I will pull out and blow cold air onto the bell end and the shaft and then i will immediately put it straight back into my mouth for the heat so it's a complete change of temperature um they love it they love it um ice cube might be a bit too intense for some but definitely try the blowing air technique just literally and also gives you a break what pull up blow some air onto the end of the shaft he'd be like in the bell end he's like what's you doing feels nice okay and just blow it for a little bit and then shove it straight back in I'm not a guy with a dick so I can't really judge but apparently it feels fucking great and I think it's going from that cold sensation to the deep

warm throat vibe which of course is emulating a warm pussy isn't it that's why the guys like our mouths as well let's call a spade a spade temperature I would always include that as well ice for extra fun but ice is quite advanced because you then got to suck the dick and keep the ice in your mouth and then of course move the tongue um at the same time as well so that or if you can't do that you can always just rub the ice cube with your hands onto the shaft and then put it the whole thing in your mouth this is so too much information isn't it but fuck it point five tightness my 50s tightness keep tight lips around the dick the tighter the better i mean as long as you're not like cutting off fucking blood circulation but like i said we are trying

to replicate a tight pussy right the goal for all men is oh it's a really tight pussy okay so mouths can be like tight pussies keep your mouth and your lips tight when you go up and down if it's all loose it's hard to feel anything but what i also like to do for that tightness is i also like to keep my hand at the base um and just like for added pressure so i hold the base um and hold it quite tight as my head goes up and down and keep your mouth tight this will help him come faster i always just apply this rule to like you know way guys lick me out like i don't want a guy who constantly moves his head away like when they move the head away or like kiss your thigh for a bit i'm just like no you've like you've built me up and now you fuck me off like stay there keep the

speed keep the intensity i want it to get harder and harder not softer and softer you know and so I figured the same would work the other way around. And it does. It really does. My sixth T is talk. So, of course, communication as always is key when it comes to sex, but find out what hits the spot. So you can talk beforehand or you can talk throughout. I always get unnerved when a guy's like very silent when I'm sucking him off because I'm like, is this really bad or like am I wasting my time or what's going on um sometimes or often they are silent because they're just so enthralled in enjoying it but I'd rather fucking know so if I'm hitting the spot tell me um or I'll ask you know just like just talk to each other

like is that okay is that nice if he's like fuck that ice I hated it okay good then you know the temperatures not for him if he's like oh my god love that balls move back down on my balls at least you know you can move back down the figure of eight round the balls again and you know he's having a really good time so talk talk is it should be of being number one but i put it last because all the other stuff is so much more fun and juicy so there there you have it done my six teas. My six tea tips on giving mind-blowing blowjobs. I know for a fact my DMs are going to be riddled with you lot after this episode. Come forth, men. Tell me whether I'm right or wrong. Because honestly, this is my own personal formula. I'm not too proud to say I could be wrong.

This is what I've discovered works with my past lovers. But if you're like, God, no. Fuck no. I hate it never go towards the balls or like I actually get put off when I find it's too fast it hurts it feels like friction or I don't know whatever it is come at me let me know but yes this is my my foolproof tips on how I give my blowing blowjobs and so far I've had nothing but compliments yes and with that i shall end this blowy episode looking forward to hearing from you all because i fucking will i know what you like you lot love you don't stop and uh yes if you want any more deep dives into sexual stuff like this because this is probably one of the first real deep dives i've done in techniques as well

do let me know and we can venture down that path together and with that that is the end of this episode thank you for tuning in and i can't wait to see you all next week thanks for listening to the can't keep my mouth shut podcast produced and hosted by me nick selena i'm recorded in the splice car studios in singapore i'm available to listen to on spotify apple podcasts google and all major podcast listening apps do subscribe to enjoy a new episode every monday evening please do give me a five-star review it helps other people also find my podcast for more content and features to read you can check out my website nixalina.com that's nixalina.com i'm also on social media simply search at nixalina n-i-x-a-l-i-m-a

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