Can't Keep My Mouth Shut - Single in Singapore City Launches with an Anti-Valentine's Fiesta
Episode Date: January 19, 2026Forget roses, reservations and red flags — Valentine's Day in Singapore is getting deliciously derailed with a bold new singles event series: Single in Singapore City. On Saturday, 14 February, fro...m 9pm to 2am, Lucha Loco in Duxton Hill will transform into the city's most audacious playground for the single, the curious, and the creatively chaotic. Let's discuss in full deets, shall we? With love, Nixalina. For more awesome content to read including beauty, fashion or dating & love features, please do head over to my digital platform www.nixalina.com. Don't be shy, come say hai! Head over to my Instagram or Tiktok @nixalina to slide into my DMs.
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This is the Can't Keep My Mouth Shut podcast, and I am Nick Salina.
Hello, it's Nick Salina, and I'm so, so, so, so, so, so excited for this episode.
because I am bringing a brand new dating series to Singapore and thus this episode is called
Introducing Single in Singapore City, the movement for modern singles.
Dun dun dun, dun dun dun dun dun dun, introduce really sexy, hyped up theme music.
hi everyone and welcome back to me and can't get my mouth shut and i am going to talk today
in detail about the first ever single in singapore city dating event and of course the perfect date
to kick this bad boy off it's valentine's day which in case you haven't looked yet
falls this year on a Saturday. Hello. Perfect. You can all be slightly hungover, slightly tired
Sunday morning, and you don't really need to worry about work. Well, hopefully you don't have to.
So the crux of it is why have I created a single in Singapore City? Well, firstly,
it matches all my brands, doesn't it? I had sex in London City, then I had sex in Singapore City,
and I had the website then I had sex in Singapore city podcast then I changed to can't keep my mouth
shut same shit different name same person me and so single in Singapore city just matched the style
but also the ethos of myself what I do for a living and of course the aim of the game
of dating events fuck the apps if you've been on the apps if you've been ghosted breadcrumbed
bench situation shipped or you're just straight up fucking bored hello me too right oh small talk
fucking small talk on an app I can't I can't do it if I've matched with you right and you know
you sure you're a decent man and I've met I've got a lot of matches I'm so sorry sitting there
and I don't respond it's not personal I know you think it is it ain't I just don't have it in me
anymore can't be fucking bothered and so I figured I won't be the only one who feels this way
So I wanted to bring back in real life dating events.
Well, we can meet people.
We can actually go out and meet new people.
Because that's the other thing with Singapore.
Every time you go out, you go to the same place, you see the same faces.
It's like, what?
Ugh.
You know?
So I figured, fuck it.
If no one else is creating single events on this fucking island for us single people,
then I'm going to step up and do it.
And that I have.
So, let's talk about the event itself.
I'm so excited.
My tagline, no pink hearts, no forced romance, just red, hot, black tequila, music and connection.
Yes!
the party itself you're like this sounds lovely give me the fucking details i hear ya without
further ado i'm gonna let you know saturday the 14th of february the anti-valentine's fiesta
is being held at the luca loco in duxton hill where i'm turning it into a playground
for the single the curious and the creatively chaotic
mm-hmm hell fucking yes what do we have in store for you guys firstly two headline djs
they are both incredible we have el misterio and then we have ultra vibrance they'll be playing
together from nine until doors are closing bringing the energy bringing the atmosphere
bringing the magic and then i also have hedonist girls there so we have a pleasure den a hedonist
pleasure them for you so the hedonist girls if you haven't heard about them yet they're a modern
pleasure focused brand that champions shame free exploration of sexuality so their store offers a
curated range of high quality body safe products from vibrators and intimate accessories to lingerie
and bondage can you see why i like them these girls have a whole section of the outdoor terrace
which, by the way, we're going to decorate with panties everywhere.
Listen, this event is basically Nixleena's imagination in one venue, right?
So the event space itself, I did not choose Luka Loko randomly, nay nay.
It's because I love how loud, how colourful, how unapologetic it is.
That Mexican energy, the mezcal, the tequila, the dancing, the chaos, the laughter.
You don't go to Luca Loco and sit quietly, okay?
You got to feel alive, right?
So for me, this is a perfect space for singles to come who are tired of the swipe culture
and get down amongst it, get the chemistry, get the beats going, and have some fucking fun.
So whilst we have the terrace outside decorated with heartstrings and crimson panties,
we also have a piñata a condom filled piñata of course we do it's anti-valentine's and it's a
beautiful mexican venue we have a piñata for you to all get involved with and smack and out comes
gifts including condoms sponsored by phil so phil condoms are committed to making intimacy safer
more confident and more pleasurable. Made with premium latex, the brand designs products
that enhance sensation whilst supporting holistic sexual wellness, championing the belief that
pleasure, safety and connection can go hand in hand. Well, thank you, Phil Condoms, for coming
on board. Of course, I had to have a condom brand because nothing in the world is better than
practicing safe sex. Okay, there probably are a few things better in the world. It's probably
like not having sex. Dying a virgin, gotta be honest. But where's the fun in that? Not on my
watch, people. So we also have a drink sponsor. Of course, it's going to be a tequila brand.
Of course it is. That is Vulcan Tequila. These guys have come aboard to help stack the bar,
create really awesome cocktails for you guys to enjoy um i will definitely be doing shots of their
tequila i'm gonna be honest i will be there drinking with you head into the pleasure den
with you having a go at the piñata with you and and and and there is even a kissing booth
ladies and gentlemen we have roving dancers as well like it is going to go off okay
Why do I want to do this?
As I said at the beginning, because we all fucking deserve it.
There is nothing more depressing than being single and staying in on Valentine's night.
Nothing.
It just makes you feel even worse as if being single is a problem.
Nay, nay, single is not a problem.
However, if you are in the mood, in the mode to meet someone,
you better get your ass to Luka Loko in Duxton on the 14th of February
and come hang with me. And I promise my aim in the game is to make sure you leave matched with
someone. But it's not going to be this stuffy, pushy event. I'm not going to, you know, no,
you come in, you enjoy yourself, you have fun, you dance, you mingle, you know, you can explore
the hedonist toys. They will all be there available for you to as well purchase on the night. And if
I'm not wrong, the girls are going to give a special discount to those who purchase anything
on the 14th. Yeah, just hopefully find someone that, you know, you sparkle with. As for the
tickets, they are in two tiers. Early bird is $25 and general admission $35. They both include
entry and a welcome beverage of choice yes the welcome beverage will be alcoholic of course it
wouldn't be a nixalina event if it wasn't so yeah for 25 dollars get in now get your entry get your
free reception drink as soon as you walk in and get the party started i'm so fucking excited can
you tell can you tell how excited i am and this hopefully is the start of a series of monthly
singles events because I feel like the island needs it and I want to bring back
I want to bring back that kind of like yeah meeting people in real life we've all just got
so bogged down on our phone and I'm not even just talking about the apps I mean like
meeting people on Instagram you know what I mean everything becomes 3D and nah fuck that no I love
the idea of meeting people organically and I gotta be honest from my point of view every boyfriend
I've ever had is someone I've met organically I've never ever ever ended up with someone I met on the
apps ever never so for me it's all about uh yeah meet and greet and real life chemistry and the
only way you're gonna find that out is if you meet in real life and the only way you're gonna meet in
real life is if you come to my singles events. So without further ado, thank you all for listening.
I cannot wait to see you all at the first ever single in Singapore city dating event. I think
it's going to be fucking awesome. And you know what? If you don't meet anyone, you are at least
going to have a fucking memorable night. Because nobody that parties with me ever goes home and
says I had a bad time. That I can promise you. If you need any more information, you got any
more questions, my darlings, please do Instagram me at Nixalina, N-I-X-A-L-I-N-A. You can purchase
your tickets on Eventbrite. I have the link already there in my Instagram bio. You can of
course go and check out all the sponsored brands they will be posting content too you've got the
luca loco instagram hedonist instagram go and check them out um yeah and get your tickets i
cannot wait cannot wait i cannot wait to see you guys in god less than a month obviously if you're
gonna ask me about dress code wear what you fucking want but yeah yeah you're showing up as
you, right? First impressions. However, however, if you want to wear red, red or black, I won't
say no. Do you know what I mean? I think I'm definitely going to be in red and black. I'm
here for pink-ish if you want. I'm not a pink woman, but I won't say no. But yeah, turn
up in an ensemble that makes you feel good. Bring the vibes, bring the energy, and you'll
meet me there and with that i look forward to seeing you next week thanks for listening to the
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