Can't Keep My Mouth Shut - Storytime - Dick Pics sliding into my Insta DMs

Episode Date: March 9, 2020

You'd think unsoliticted dick pics from strangers in my direct messages are just a LOL myth - but nah. They're a real thing. And they happen ALOT. Let's discuss shall we....

This podcast contains strong language and discussions about relationships and sex. It may not be suitable for younger listeners. Hey, it's Nixalina and I'm back again for another story time. And this one I'm talking about dick pics in my DMs, specifically Instagram. So, I mean, it's years. it's been years now since I can remember I get guys sending their dicks in photos to me in my Instagram inbox. These are guys that I don't know. They're complete strangers. Some of them they don't follow me. Some of them they do follow me. Most of them follow me and what they do is they

will say something like hey love or how are you or can I send a nude photo. I never respond because why would I? And then the next thing you know, I've got his massive turgid penis sent in my DMs. It ain't fun, let me tell you. For a girl that was in a relationship, even a girl in a single life, this kind of shit in Instagram, it just winds me right up. And what I started doing was screenshotting said dick pics and posting it to my Instagram stories in the hopes that it would deter the person who sent them plus future dick pic senders to stop sending them and that didn't fucking work and what's more annoying is I tried to post one of the large not wasn't that large I'm not going to give you that benefit mediocre sized dick pic to my Instagram story and Instagram

reported it themselves. They'd sent me a message, we cannot post this because of nudity. I violated their terms of service and they removed my Instagram story, which made me think, hang on a minute, how comes I can't repost something because I am violating the terms of the app, but these men in their numbers, it's not one, can send me unsolicited, uninvited, massive, not massive, I keep saying very, very small, very small, massive, these pictures of their turgid dick to my Instagram inbox. And I'm, yeah, I'm not happy about it. So it's a story time, but it's a gentle story time, you know, it's not quite like the cut off toe or the missing dress at the sex party. It's more of an ongoing story time because it doesn't stop. And I recently had

a chat with a journalist for a story in a local Singapore newspaper about this. And it just got me thinking like, one, why is it okay? Two, how many other girls get dick pics? I can't believe I'm the only one that receives unsolicited dick pics. And three, what if I was single? Does it matter if you're in a relationship or if you're single? Is that a thing? Like, do they even vet the people they send them to? Four, what if you're in a relationship and you're partner catches the dick pics on your phone then you have to try and explain that and five what if you are underage and you receive a dick pic and maybe I mean god these 13 14 year olds nowadays they are absolutely stunning they don't look their age I would have a hard time struggling to work

out how old they are and what if they receive this and they've never seen one before so it's kind of come up with a bit of a problem for me. So basically, tackling each bit at a time. So the age thing, I think it's absolutely disgusting that guys can just freeload their dick off to anyone on the internet. And it's the dark side of the web. And unfortunately, the way Instagram direct messages work, you can receive anything at any time and it's not covered up. You know, on Facebook these days, if it's a sensitive image, if Facebook deem this image as violent or sexual connotations, they cover it up and you have to click to unmask it. That doesn't happen on Instagram. It's there. Over my morning coffee, here's large balls. And I don't even know if it's

the person's dick that I'm looking at. It could be anyone off the internet. And why? Why? God, why send that to me? So firstly, don't, if you're a guy listening, if you're a guy listening and you send your dicks to people on the internet you need help if you're a guy listen you feel oh yeah I might pop back no stop if you're a girl that receives them please let me know I want to hear from you it can't just be me but this underage dick pic sending thing I'm sure it's happening and I just don't I'm just not okay about it basically because it can't only be me and if I got this when I was 13 years old 14 years old into my social media I don't know how I'd react it's I'm not okay with it and I'm 32 so imagine how you feel when you haven't even seen one in

real life uh secondly what everyone why why let's think about this for a moment so this guy has snapped a photo of his knob and he thinks I know I'm gonna send it to someone that I don't know You know what? Just for argument's sake, I'm going to show my producer. I want to show, I am showing him a photo of the guy's dick and the one above it is his bum hole. Yeah, I got two. I got a bent over one. And then the one with his dick, he actually has a fag in his mouth. So he's, yeah, yeah, he's, that's multitasking. So at least there's some plus point. Yeah. His bum hole. I got his bum hole. This is what I can't understand, right? Why would anyone send their dick? Why would someone bend over and take a photo of his bum hole and send

it to a girl? And why would you send it to someone that you don't know? For me, there has to be some sort of screening process when it comes to private messages on Instagram. Because I am experiencing the worst of DMs. Honestly, the stuff I get sent is absolutely disgusting. And people may say that I ask for it because of my photos, because I'm a sex blogger. But that's not for me what being a sex blogger is about. It's about being empowered, you know, making females feel confident, people feeling body confident. I don't want anyone to feel insecure or worried about sex or feel ashamed or anything like that. I'm much more of a positive aspect here than apparently what I'm being perceived on the internet. And there's another one that I got and I'm just going to show my

producer. So this was sent to me. This was sent to me after, in retaliation to a photo I put up with my partner. So I put a selfie up and I put, here's my main man. And the guy liked it, whoever he was. And in retaliation to liking that, I got a large, massive penis as a reciprocation. There's so many things wrong with that on so many levels. Because also, what if my partner was insecure or was jealous or had a temper or was paranoid? How would I explain this if he picked up my phone and perhaps I hadn't seen it or perhaps I'd seen it and quickly moved on to something else. And then in my private messages, I have a foray of massive large dicks. I keep saying massive. I got it. They're not that big. I'm saying massive because the photo is very large

on the phone, right? I don't want any of these guys to get a really engorged ego about this podcast. They're not that big. They look gross. Okay. But yeah, it's so many complications here. Not just the age, but the fact that if you're in a relationship, I think it's very unsavory. And also my other problem, my other main problem is that I don't know what guys are trying to get out of this because dicks aren't that nice to look at. Let's be honest. I understand guys love the naked female form. Don't get me wrong. And I'm speaking on behalf of me and other women. when I see a big large member I'm not like oh that's so beautiful marry me I just not I'm not it could be it could be a lovely penis everybody go but we don't have that same urge I can't lie

what are you trying to get out of this because I feel like you're sending me your dick so that I go what oh that's amazing that's beautiful I can't wait to meet you or marry me on the spot or what What's the end game? Because at first I thought it was maybe a troll. Maybe it's a one-off. Maybe it's someone trying to poke me, excuse the pun, in responding to him. But it's multiple different accounts. And I'm telling you, it's at least once a month. And I actually messaged one of my girlfriends on, it's Luxitgirl on Instagram. So that's, I'm going to give her a shout out because she's awesome. Luxit girl is at L-U-X-I-T girl. Luxit girl. And I messaged her after my account got hacked. And I said, well, now I've got to start all over again. At least I won't

have the dick pit. And then within 24 hours of the new account, there's a dick in my DMs. So I had to message her again. I'm like, yeah, nope, that didn't even work. Spoke too soon. And I can't imagine it's only me. I think I'm going to be one of many, many, many that get this kind of treatment. And believe it or not, it's not even dicks that I get. It's vaginas as well. So my producer looks like he's about to vomit. So I had one girl which I had to block and please, I block most of these. Like there's nothing that I, it's a read screenshot to have a laugh and I block. But there was one girl that was trying to get my nude photos and off my photographer and he obviously wouldn't give them to him and my nude photos aren't nude I mean

they're very tastely it's very artistic and she messaged me and she said oh your photographer won't give me your photos um so apparently I have to get them off you and then she sent me a chart of all the different vagina shapes I'm gonna show I'm gonna show you all the different vagina shapes and she asked me what number I am and told me she was number 16 which I'm gonna do a blog post right so you can all see number 16. I'm just gonna show you that one. Number 16 is the worst one, by the way. Yeah. So not only am I getting trolled by guys, I'm also getting trolled by women. It wasn't, I don't think it was a guy pretending to be a girl because she was on my profile for months and months and months. And I had to block her after this. And then she messaged

me on my sex in Singapore city account. So, um, yeah, I, I don't know what's going on here. And like, it's just terrible for me. Uh, it's something that I deal with pretty much every month. And the only way that I can see through this is comedy value. So basically I screenshot all your dick pics, all of you that send them to me and I show them to my partner and I show him to my boss and I show him, I mean, I put them on Instagram stories for everyone to see, but I have to scribble out the person and the dick otherwise Instagram won't let me post it. I mean I was trying to do everything I can to deter getting them and yeah it's just not cool. I don't understand how this became a thing and I'm really concerned that maybe no one else actually gets them and it's just me

because that would worry me more. But there's so many levels of wrong to this. Since when was it okay to send your genitals to a complete stranger online? What are you doing it for? What's the outcome what are you trying to get here and what is wrong with you that you will send your dick to someone who's clearly in a relationship to the point you'd like her photo of her and her partner hey it's so fucking disrespectful and it's just it's just disgusting and receiving a photo of some stranger's bumhole it's got to be a low point for me in my life I just I don't want to see why are you laughing i don't want to see anyone's bumhole like not anyone's it's not it's like i'm sure all your bumholes are lovely i'm not saying that it's no offense but i don't want to see

anyone's bumhole let no complete stranger who's bent over pulled it apart to show me this and show me i can't even rest assured i'm gonna do a blog follow-up on this so i'm and i'm actually i am gonna add the screenshots of yeah i am i'm gonna delete who the person is i'm gonna take away the picture and I'm gonna take away the name but I'm gonna expose literally what I've received because it can't just be me I guarantee there's other girls out there and if you have received unsolicited dick pics to your dms please let me know and I just want to kind of stop it really like it's fun I make a joke of it because what else can you do I look at this but at the end of the day if you're sending these unknowingly to people don't know you send them to underage girls

he's sending them to girls in a relationship what if she's really shy or insecure what I mean this it's got to be a form of sexual harassment right it has to be it's online sexual harassment and then some of them would just send me the dick and then be on their way and then some of them will send me the photo and then they'll message me and they'll message me and they'll message me and I'm like in the end to just block them because I just don't really understand what the game is but I've got, honestly, I've got all shapes, all sizes. I've got a ridiculous portfolio of dicks saved on my phone. And now they're saved in a folder on my phone, which I really don't want to be there. So as soon as I get this blog up and running, I can delete them. But it's absolutely

fucking disgusting. And nothing I do or say is stopping them happening, even exposing them on my stories. And I have so, to all of you normal people out there, I use inverted commas, and you messaged me straight away and say like, I'm so sorry for the male population. I can't believe you get this. I love you all. And thank you so much for always giving me positive feedback. But yeah, it keeps happening. And so this is like a, it's a story time, but it's like a real life story time. And there's no end to the story because I don't think it's ever going to stop. So I just basically wanted to put it out there that I'm not okay with it. It's fucking disgusting. your penis does not do anything for me except make me vom in my mouth a little and then your

penis will be get set well I mean I send it around I put it on my Instagram it's 21,000 followers on there they're gonna all look at it I send it to anyone I know for laughs and now it's going to be exposed on the blog so future penis senders please take heed and not just me don't send this to any woman she don't need it unless she asks for it then of course by all means that's called sexton which i've previously discussed about is fine this is unsolicited genital photos and uh yeah it's online harassment so please stop and that's the end of this story time thank you thanks for listening to the sex in singapore city podcast this episode was produced and hosted by me nixelina watson and recorded at the splice car studio in singapore we're available on apple

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