Culture Apothecary with Alex Clark - "I Might Be Pregnant...& I'm Moving!" - Major Life Updates With HRH Collection

Episode Date: February 1, 2023

One of our most talked about guests ever @therealhrhcollection joins us again for a special bonus episode of The Spillover. Alex HRH drops some major unexpected bombs about her life. Then The Alexes get into a discussion about college being a scam, whether kids should attend sleepovers & how long is too long to date someone without getting engaged. Brace yourself for a completely different side of Alex HRH...she's in love, revealing life updates and is arguably the happiest she's ever bee...

What's new? I'm probably going to get a bunch of hate mail again for having you on, Alex. The first time I had you on, which was season one of this billover. Now we're in season four. You were at the end of season one, which was a year ago, almost a year ago. And it set the freaking internet on fire because half of conservatives were so excited I had you on. Half were like, how dare you? She swears my perfect, precious, pure ears. Exactly. Exactly. That is the one thing that I always say. Like I, as I'm obviously conservative, but it's like these dorky little whiny, conservatives are like, oh my God, she swears. I could never listen to her. Meanwhile, I am out here in the front lines doing the most for the conservative movement. You should be thankful instead of doing that and trying to get me canceled. A conservative trying to get me canceled, you just sit the fuck down. It's literally people like Alex that are on the front lines of culture that are actually.

pulling people into hear more conservative leaning ideas that would never give us the time of day before. Exactly. It's like the way I present it and like in the realness of it, the anti-wokeness of it and trying to wake people up in like a real way. You guys don't see that instead you come for me. Like sit the down 10 times really. I had to have you back on and this was so last minute but I watched your vlog a couple days ago and you were talking about how you don't. well, you do regret going to college. You feel like it was a waste of your time and a myriad of other things. But I was like, okay, all of this is perfect. I just felt it in my bones.

Like, I need to just have her on. And I also wanted updates on your life because the last time that we spoke, you were very done with dating. You were like, F all of this. It's not working out. I'm not focused on this right now. A couple months later, fast forward, you're freaking married now.

You're starting to try to have a family with IVF. What the heck happened between then? And now. So much has happened. And it's all the rules that I stick by. I don't know which one you want to go into first. Well, let's just go into life update. Like, how did we go from?

I'm not dating anyone I'm over it to I'm married. Okay. So I did actually, you probably saw it on my blog. I have this rule in my life where I'm not talking if you're like early 20s or teens or something like that. I'm saying if you're like late 20s, 30s, if you're dating someone and you are not engaged by a year, there's something wrong. Like he doesn't want you.

Okay. guys know for sure, like when they meet you that they want to marry you. That's the truth. So if you're the one of those people who are just sitting around waiting for a ring years and years in, they are stringing your ass along. Okay. So with my situation, I wasn't sure. I was like, didn't really, we weren't talk.

I didn't want to bring up like, you know, rings and things like that. Even though he and I kind of talked about that the year thing was important to me. And because I wasn't getting the vibe, I kind of started getting nervous. And I don't know, things got rocky, but then things picked up again. So how did they pick up? Like, was it you going to him being like, hey, I kind of miss you? Or did you come to you? I kind of, to be honest, I kind of said, hey, I don't think that this is going to go

in the direction I want. So I need to focus on myself. Like, I need to find someone who wants to. I want to have kids. I'm 38 years old. Like, this is what I want to do. And it kind of woke him up. Not the ultimatum.

I would say just like that if you want, if you, let's, move forward or let's not. Yeah, just making sure you're on the same page of like, hey, I'm not dating to, like, date to, like, I'm 38. Exactly. Like, and then we both agreed. I think that he just wasn't, he'd never been married before, too. And I think, like, the shock of him being like, okay, she wants to get married. How do I do this? Like, I got to get a ring. I don't know. And then he did the whole thing himself. And it was really easy. And it was great. And it was, I mean, we love each other. It's amazing. I love him. I like him too. The story between him and I is really cool. Like, I don't know. It's really legit. And it's really actually like we love each other. then we got married for love, which I love because my previous relationship, you guys know, who followed me forever, was not that. Did you know him while you were married before something? Was it like you had mutual friends or something? Yeah, I kind of knew him, like, because when I was married, I got, we kind of separated

because we were going to get a divorce. And during the separation is when I met Jason, my current husband. And then, yeah, that's, I met him during the separation. So your whole thing about guys, you need to know, by a year. a guy should know if they want to marry you or not. No, you should be engaged. So they should already know. Right.

Okay. So let me tell you in depth the story about what happened with my ex because this is something I have not really gone into depth with my listeners because it falls into that exactly. So we dated for a year and a half and he had not said I love you. Yeah. Oh, my God. And I finally. You're done for waiting that long.

No, literally because he lived in Orange County. So we had a one year anniversary trip planning, all these romantic things. we had the best weekend and I kept waiting for a romantic moment. Oh, he's going to say it. And he didn't. Oh, weird. So when it was time for him to take me to John Wayne, for me to fly home, I burst into tears. Finally, after waiting that long and I thought it was going to happen that weekend and didn't, I burst into tears.

And I was like, so what's the deal here? Because I don't understand why you still haven't said I love you. Like, what's going on? He burst into tears and he's like, I don't know why either. Like, I love you as a person. You're my best friend. I have so much fun with you. I have no complaints about a relationship, but I can't get to the next step.

That's so weird. I can't really live that long though. Why didn't that's because I have because it's like when girls do freaking say it first, then we're clinging and annoying and we're pushing them. So I'm waiting trying to like. Waiting, waiting, waiting. I'm waiting, waiting, waiting, trying to do what I thought he wanted, which was for him to be the one to say.

And then he freaking wasn't. So that I felt the pressure of like, I have to confront him about I can't keep wasting my time. I'm 29 years old, dude. Like he knows I want to get married and have a family. So I'm like, you know, I'm just like what's going on here. So it was the exact thing as you, as I said, I said, we have been dating this long. You should have known like six months ago. Is this a girl I could see myself marrying or not?

And at that point, he should have made the move to do it and to move forward or not. Or break up with me. Right. And he couldn't do it? And that's the thing is I kept saying, so do you want to, are we breaking up? And he's like, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.

And I said, your indecision is a decision. Yeah. So we're breaking up. And we were very, it was very sad. He was crying. I was crying. But it was like, I had to be the one to finally pull the trigger and be like, you should know.

I'm shocked. I am shocked that he didn't come crawling back. Because you've met him, right? Yeah, I met him. Yeah. Yeah, I know. I know him. Yeah.

I'm shocked. He didn't come. Okay. Nothing. We haven't. Everybody wants to know that. We've never spoken once since that day. Never.

He is a, I'm shocked because, like, I, that is making sense. Every man I've ever been with, they come crawling back. I think I'm, I might be more polarizing than you. That might be. I'm shocked because I, I even told you. I was like, he's going to come back no matter what. No. I don't know.

He hasn't. It's been like six months, so that's that story. But I think what your advice is right. It's right, you guys. It's right for our age group. If you would have put one drink in me after a month, I'd have been like, what the fuck is your problem? I know.

It took everything you need not to do. I mean, that's what I was texting my friends. Oh, no, you're too nice. Don't be that nice next time. You're too, be like, hey, what's going on? Who said I love you first with you and Jason? Him. I could tell him.

Oh, my gosh. How did he say it? He wanted to say it. He's like, I want to say something. And then I was like, what, what, what? And he's like, no, no, no, I can't. I can't. I knew what it was. I knew what it was. He said it, like, probably a month in. Were you somewhere romantic? Or was it just like at home? We had made dinner. It was really nice. I love that. We have a lot in common. It's great. I love him.

So then when did you decide that you guys wanted to start having a family and going down this IVF journey? So I'm 38 years old and I'm not pregnant. So I just figured we might as well just do this in case I didn't know, like, you know, the people start losing like egg count gets really. low, you know, the older you get. So just to, you know, secure a family, I guess. And they call it banking your eggs where you go and you save your eggs. You get, you know, whatever, take your eggs on. You save them so that you can get as many good eggs as you can to start a family. So there wasn't like a doctor's appointment you had or something. They were like, hey, you have this. You really need to try the IVF route. Like, you technically could get pregnant naturally. I could, but I'm not. So I don't want to waste more time. You know what I mean? Because I heard that, like,

you have a 5% chance on one day when you're this age. So have you done an egg retrieval yet? I have. I've done one egg retrieval and we're doing it another one because it's called banking a family, they call it. Okay. So you store eggs and then after you store enough eggs and they can try and get you pregnant with them.

I don't know. But yeah. So do you know when you are going to do what is it like you're called a transfer or anything? Yeah. So we're going to create embryos now on this next one that we're starting soon. What are you going to be like when you're pregnant? Are you going to be like crazy hormonal just even more? If I gain a pound, I will be suicidal.

Okay, that's the truth because I was fat and I'm not going to be fat again. Well, what are you going to do? I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I actually don't know. Do you think Jason will think you're even cute or pregnant, though? No one fat is cute.

Sorry, bitch. Like, no, I don't know. He's not a judgmental person, but like I won't feel good about myself. Do you think that the first transfer could happen, like within 2023? Like, are we talking this soon? Yeah, no, I want to get pregnant now. Like, my pop-up pregnant. I'm late right now.

So maybe I'm pregnant. I don't know. I'm late. Like, really late. Okay, so, wait, that's a huge bond. I don't know. But I don't know. Maybe I don't know.

All right. So speaking of, okay, so this is shocking because I wasn't expecting this to go down in this conversation at all. So you could be pregnant. But besides that, there's another huge announcement. There's a huge announcement that you have not addressed with your followers. People on your Reddit page have been freaking out. They've already figured this out.

I had people setting me links to this about you on my DMs asking me if I knew. I'm like, I don't know. So I had to text you and ask you like, please don't say anything, but I haven't announced it. And I was like, well, if we're doing a last minute podcast together, like, eff it, like you need to spill the beans. Are you moving out of your Newport Beach House? I am.

I am. It's funny. I didn't even know my house was listed until the trolls showed me that my house was listed. They always do that. And then there's all these videos on TikTok they made of like the rich and the famous. kind of guy who did it so funny. Yeah, it's hilarious. Actually, I love the trolls so much. There are the ones who always, they always say they do my PR for free. They're constantly, like, making these amazing videos. They did the most amazing video of the house for me. I swear to

I think that's the reason it's selling so fast is because people are making these amazing videos about the house. Do you think buyers know it's your house? They do. They do. So, or has your realtor told you like they're asking about you? Like anything weird? Well, we're really cautious about who we let in. Yeah. But yeah, I am moving. It's a beautiful house. It is a beautiful house. I'm sure you've seen. Yeah.

I mean, I did a lot to it. You know, I just. Yeah. So this is what, so this is, catch me up on this. Because you do all these renovations. Tons, the whole house. You had to have spent an exorbitant amount of rent, renno to now say now we're moving. Yeah.

Why are you moving? Because I talk about this all the time too. When I, when something, when I want to change something, I change it. I had like fake tithin for one year. I didn't like them. I had them taken out the next year. I'm done. This house, it's as beautiful as it as it is.

It's like a museum. It's like an art studio. It's beautiful. It's sleek. It's clean. It's like amazing. Huge ceilings. Monster windows everywhere.

And you bought this before Jason, right? Yes, I did. So were you thinking, okay, this is beautiful for me as a single woman, but now you're married and trying to have a family. You're like, this doesn't fit the vibe? Do you see that? I was like all like, oh, 70s glam, like spiral staircase, leopard stairs, like marble everywhere, which was so me and it is so me.

but I don't see my family in there. Does Jason like your house or does he kind of hate it? He calls it like the Persian Palace. He's like the most guy guy ever. He doesn't get any of it. I can't imagine you compromising, though, for a guy's design style, like in this new place. No, I have something on that too. If a man has any sense of design, why do they have an opinion?

Men should just shut up and let the women do the designing. Like, what do they care? It's weird. Is he going to let you in this next house? Absolutely. What does he care? Yes. So where are you moving?

I'm not moving far You're moving to Florida No Texas I'm not moving far I'm literally staying around the area Okay so in Orange County Yes are you going to be more inland I'm not going to say so this time around

I'm one of the reasons I'm selling this house Is because even though this house is literally Gate guarded and I have a private gate The amount of crazy Who literally stalk the fuck out of me Like lovers haters whatever It's insane it's too much They, like, are literally crazy.

Wait, people come to your house? They come to my house. They're constantly putting my address everywhere. It's insane. They try to, like, jump walls, literally. It's craziness to see the things my camera catches. I'm sick of it. So if I'm going to be having a family, the next house I buy, the amount of hate I get is insane.

It's so weird. I don't know if you see on Reddit and, like, I don't read any of it. I don't care. Give a shit, but people tell me. I don't, if I'm going to have a fan. I want just, like, more sense of home security, just like, calmness. This house for me is. huge, it's loud. They know where I live and I'm just sick of them. So I've made the decision

to just move on. So you won't even be sharing what town you're living in? I'm not going to. No way. Why would I anymore? They can't be trusted. Even like the good ones who like me, they literally infringe on my privacy so much. It's embarrassing. Well, you brought up on your vlog, which I had no idea. Sometimes it's funny because you bring up stuff that I'm like, okay, Alex HRH with the news. Yeah, what? Like you know things that are. going on that I don't even know. So you talked about how L.A. County has put on higher taxes on people with what, $4 to $5 million homes. Isn't that insane? That try to move out of the county. So if you sell your house for a dollar over $5 million, they're going to charge you an extra 4%. It's like,

how much that is. What is it? Like $200,000? I don't know. So whatever. I think it is. I'm horrible at Matt. So why? It's like they are forcing people to stay in L.A. They're holding them hostage. Why would you? So it's like, I'm going to sell my house. I want to, but $200,000 just to Maybe I'll just stick it out, you know? That's how they're thinking. So there's thinking, like, let's hold everybody hostage in L.A., but like, let's not change our policies. Let's not change the, you know, fix the reason why people want to leave. I moved out.

Like, I moved. I'm out. I sold my place. So speaking of moving, starting a family, you know, with your IVF journey, I'm sure you and Jason are having lots of conversations about, okay, what kind of parents do we want to be? Like, have you talked about, like, homeschooling versus public school, things like that? We have. I know. Yeah.

I mean, it's going to be definitely going into some religious. based, even if it's a Jewish-based, Catholic-based, any religious-based school. If not, I'll be homeschool. There's no way I'm going to let some, like, they, them, piece of shit is what I say. School my child and talk about gender pronouns. Get the f*** out of my face. I will be arrested. I will be arrested if I see that.

Same. I'll go crazy. Absolutely f*** not. Children are so impressionable. That is BS. No way. I brought this stuff up. And Jason's equally as nuts as I am.

Like, we are tyrants with that shit. See, that's what you need. Yes. When you're talking about marrying somebody becoming, having a thing. family. So I brought this up with my ex-boyfriend. I was like, let's just say, you know, this kind of stuff starts happening. Woke stuff starts happening at our kid's school. I said, I would be the activist mom who is going to the school board meetings and raising hell. And he was like, oh, I don't want to like get involved in that kind of stuff. Oh, no, no,

it's two weeks. So that's how my ex-husband was too. He's not like a fighter. He was like, oh, I don't know. It's a good school. It's okay. Like he wouldn't fight. No. I wouldn't do that. I wouldn't be going to, I don't, I hate PTA. I'm not like the PTA mom. I would just yank the kid out and we would do that something different. I'm not going to even bother with that crap and fight for other people. You know what I mean? I just won't. I'm going to deal with my own kid.

Something like very controversial that I ended up saying a couple days ago, which I didn't expect to be controversial. With moms, everything is controversial. With moms, everything is controversial. I'm learning this because I am very weird. And one weird thing about me is I love reading parenting books. I know you do. I know you do.

You're obsessed. I'm obsessed. And it's so fun and fascinating to me to like hear about how. other cultures, parent. You know what I'm obsessed with you would love is Chinese parenting, Tiger Mom. I know. I love learning about how different people parent. I'm very into Dutch parenting, learning about that now. There's all these things. So I see this article that Fox News puts out, this mom writes this column about how she has two daughters and she will never, ever let her kids spend the night anywhere or do sleepovers. I immediately was like, oh, hell no. Like, I'm doing

sleepovers with my kids. And I have a myriad of reasons why I want to do that and why I disagree. But then when I posted on my story, like, I was thinking, oh, it'll be 50, 50. Yeah. No. It was like 95% of my followers that are parents said, absolutely not. My kids will never spend the night anywhere. And I was like, oh, these are the types of topics I want to bring up with you because I've never heard you address this kind of stuff on your vlogs. And I was like, what would Alex H.R.H. say about something like having sleepovers, because you're about to be a mom. Yeah. Hopefully. So then what is your, what are your thoughts on? things like this. I mean, this is a new one for me, obviously. It's a new topic. But if I was put in

situation, if I had a child, I would, I don't want the child to, if you hold on to the kid too much, it's going to want to break away more. And I think things like letting them go to, you know, parties and sleepovers. If you are in a close-knit, you know, with like other families and things, I think that's totally fine. If the kid doesn't want to, he doesn't have to. But if you want to, you should be able to. The number one reason they were giving pushback. Yeah, they They're all like, I don't want my kids to get sexually abused. Losted. Yeah, exactly.

And I understand that. No one wants that. But my thing is, is like... So you're not going to let to do anything? You're going to hold it back from every... I mean, it can be... It can get into trouble anywhere. That's the thing.

Team sports. You know, anything. Anything and anywhere. And also, it was interesting because a lot of them said, well, nothing good happens at night. And I'm like, okay. Well, here's the thing, though. A few weeks prior, I had posted...

The kid is going to become the, like, the little, like, the loser of the group. Okay? Yeah. Can you imagine, oh, my mommy has to pick me up? Like, why do you want to do that to your kid? If he wants to spend the night, let him spend the night. Like, you can't make it the dork, single that dork. Well, so when I, they had said, well, nothing good happens at night.

Well, a couple weeks ago, I said, would you ever let your kid, if you had a playground in your neighborhood? Yeah. Would you let your kid in the middle of the day walk by themselves to play and then come back home? And they all said absolutely not because I'm worried about them being sexually abused. I'm like, so you can't do anything alone in the day. You can't do anything alone at night.

That's a point. There's never, like, when are we building independence with these kids? And so I know that's controversial. And also, everybody hates when non-parents talk on parenting. Oh, I, they hate it. Oh, my gosh. You don't even know. When I hate it.

They get it. It's like these mothers are psycho. Well, I remember whenever you said, like, kids should be seen and not heard. That is true. It's like an old adage. It is 100% true. Kids should be seen and not heard. You may love your child, but I don't love your child's screaming a voice.

Like, I don't. It's rude. Well, I cannot, I can't wait to. And my sister-in-law hates my child. talk about this, two weekend fights all the time. Like, she has three kids. And like, if I say anything, then it's like world worth three between us. Do you think that you guys have a lot in common with parenting styles or you'll have nothing in common? I think she's a good mother. She's a great mother. So I think, yeah, I think we'll be pretty similar. Are you going to vlog even if you

have a baby at home? Of course. Or maybe like the kind of mother who like exes out the kid's face. What is that? Yeah. Are you going to show your kids face? Of course. I don't get that. I don't either. Like, what? Because of sex trafficking. You're going to come and find my kid? No way. Like, I will literally shoot you. Well, I think people are now worried about, you know, predators, like, take their images and even things that we think are very innocent, predators will use to get off on, like, sick stuff. I don't really care. That's just how they are. They do it to me, too.

Who cares? You can get any picture of a baby and do that. What do I care? It's gross. But they could take a picture out of the mall of a child. Right. It doesn't matter. If it's in public.

Yeah. What are you going to do? Put, like, a burqa of your kids face the mall. That's how I feel like some of these parents act. I know. But I, yeah, I'm just very curious and excited for how your life will change as a parent. I mean, I don't know. We'll see.

I know. I definitely will be a tiger mom for sure. Like I know I will. Like what? Tons of lessons, good grades. Yeah, it's going to be expected to achieve a lot of things and do do well because I love to do well. Who will be the disciplinarian, you or Jason? I think I will.

I think you will. I think you will too. They're probably going to like literally call CPS. on me and have the child checked out. You know, they do that. They docks you with kids. Well, I had Jesse James Decker, you know who that is. I've heard of it. He's heard of her and she's a country singer. She's married to Eric Decker. That's right. Okay. Yeah. Her brother and sister-in-law came on this podcast last year also. And they talked about that, how they have had CPS called them multiple times because of their haters online. Yeah. And it's all bull-h-h-h-hs. That should be

illegal. Those people should be arrested for doing that. I'm sure it's going to happen to me. I just know it will. I just know it will. They're so insane that they will. Yeah. They're climbing walls to try to get to my house, like I'm sure they will. You also brought up in your vlog last Wednesday how you went to college. Do you have your master's? I do have my master's. Yeah. It's pointless. I was in a different time, but anyway, gone. Well, so. I'm a different. I'm millennial. Jariatic millennial. People think like she's just famous from YouTube and she just has money from YouTube. Like, yeah, you do make a lot of money from YouTube. I make nothing from YouTube. You don't? What? You're not monetized? I'm monetized, but they demonetize it so much. Like, they

constantly flagged my account. So each, like, everything is limited. Oh, I didn't know that. Even if it was, I don't make anything. I don't understand how people make a lot of money for YouTube. So the bulk of your income is coming from your jewelry business, which is HRH collection. Right. And so people, I don't think a lot of your new followers that just discover you from TikTok and stuff know that, but you did go to college. I did. And so talk about how you went through all the school and you just feel like it was all for nothing. It was definitely all for nothing. It's so sad. But now, like, so I'm a geriatric millennial. Everyone who's my age went to college. And we all thought we needed a degree. And then we thought, okay, if you can get a master is even better. I have a degree in political science and international business, both totally useless degrees. Like I didn't do anything with them. The only thing I can say is that because I did live in China for two years, almost two years, I feel like I learned a lot there on my own, like as far as business relations. And you know what I mean? Factories. Oh, I'm sure. So I learned about that kind of stuff, but nothing having to do with the courses I took.

So it was a complete waste of money. I talked about this in my blog now, too. So I said, to be honest, you guys, anyone nowadays, if you're not going to college for STEM, you know what I mean? Like math, sciences, things like that, to become a lawyer, a doctor, something like that. I'm not even kidding. You're going to think I'm joking if you're a woman. I said this. Every woman is ugly.

Okay, we're all ugly. We're not, not of all of us are perfect. We're all ugly. Everyone can admit it. No one's perfect. Take the money and fix your face. get a little bit of plastic surgery, invest in yourself, f*** college, find a man, get married, move out of the city, and create a family and have a life.

I agree. I agree with lots of what she's saying, although instead of plastic surgery, I would say, ask for your parents, whoever's funding you to go to college, if they're saying, hey, we're going to give you, we're going to give you $60,000 short school tuition, whatever. Put that money towards land. Put the money towards land. Ask for land when you graduate from high school is what I think, for either a business or a home. in the future for your family.

Amazing. Yes, put it towards that. And by the way, I'm going to go back. She has so much plastic surgery. No, I have no plastic surgery done. None. I have fillers and I have Botoxes. I do.

But no, my face doesn't have plastic surgery. That's the other most controversial thing I think about me that pisses conservatives off. Oh, with the fillers and stuff. Whatever, they're so ugly. Oh, my God. Yeah, you need Botox. Okay. Any woman who has wrinkles on their face, you need Botox and filler.

You're ugly. The school of HR age. Class is in session, though. I mean, you guys, like, you're going to be in debt for a pointless college degree. You're going to become ending up a woke piece of shit, okay? You're going to do nothing with your life. No man wants you like that. Just go fix yourself.

You will be so much happier. How long did it take you to pay off your student loan debt? Because so right when I graduated my master's degree, I was horrible. I paid it all off myself probably two years. But because HRH, it just happened. I think people think that you grew up super wealthy. No, middle class. Totally just middle class normal.

Yeah, no. my parents didn't pay for my undergrad. They did. But I also had like, I had a scholarship. And then my, for my, um, master's degree. Sorry, I paid for that myself. So this was, this is like a totally unplanned surprise episode. It was just kind of on the, on the fly of our seat. No, no, no, I'm saying this because we usually don't release on this day. We usually only release on technically Fridays. It's 9 p.m. Pacific and midnight Eastern on Thursday nights. Okay. So this was like a bonus episode. It's because they loved me so much.

You had to have me back. There were so many things that I had to cover with her. I was just like, I was just like, F it. Let's just do something special. Let's just do something different. And here's the thing. So speaking of the college stuff, I'm saying this because I, my guest, which will be coming out this Friday, she is somebody who went to an Ivy League school.

She's the same age as me. She's 29. And she went to it. It was an all girls college. She got so unbelievably indoctrinated. She ended up depressed on medication. It was just like super feminist. It was far left as you can go.

Socialism, the whole thing. Climate change fanatic, you know, because that's like a religion to people. So she gets so indoctrinated. She even goes to work on Hillary Clinton's campaign. And she is there in 2016 when Trump won. And so I found this girl. She, her mom had to help get her fully unindictrinated. Now she is a full-blown right-wing conservative working for Prager, you.

So, dead serious. It's the craziest story I've ever heard. She's been on Tucker Carlson, all this stuff. So she is my guest on Friday. I'm also revealing very, very early. I normally don't do this, who the guest is. But so I just thought, oh, my gosh. So Alex H.R.H.

releases this vlog talking about how college is a scam, which Charlie Kirk, his new book, College Scam, everyone needs to read it. She releases this vlog. I'm like, this all ties in perfect with my upcoming guest. So I'm so excited to talk to her about her college experience. But what's interesting is that she kind of goes into in her interview. but she says you as a parent need to do everything in your power to convince her kids not to go to not to go to college. It's that bad.

She said it's almost a, it's not an if they're going to turn out leftist, they will. It's when because it is so severe now about hating yourself if you're white and all these different things. She's like, do not send them, whatever you do. I mean, I go on a college campus and I, you know what the first thing I noticed that like everyone looks androgynous. Did you notice? That's what I've noticed. I couldn't tell who are boys and girls anymore. Everyone looks the exact same with their clothes, their hair, their faces.

It's so weird. It's like cult looking nowadays. No, it is a cult. And that's what's ironic about it is they think, like, I want to be nothing, but then they end up all looking the same anyway. They look like they're all their own gender. And the women in the end, like, are going to be so depressed because men really don't want that.

You know what I mean? Like, they don't want the woke woman who thinks they can do everything themselves. This is what's interesting about you is that you have the fame, you have the money. You live in one of the most beautiful cities on earth. And yet at almost 40 years old, you still say, I want a family. And even though I have everything else that everybody wants, it's still the most important thing for me to be a mom. Absolutely.

Absolutely. It's the most important thing, too, I think me personally, to have found Jason, who we love each other so much and want to start this family together. Like, I cannot believe that God gave this to me. He gave me everything. And then he gave me this too. It's amazing. And it's so important because, yeah, the fame.

the money, the house, it doesn't matter. It's so lonely. It's so lonely if you don't have that person who you want to build a life with, which is the most important part. We love Jason. We do love Jason. Okay, so wrapping up, I'm assuming you're going to be talking on your vlog this week now more in depth about the move. I don't know. No, I'm going to let you just, I'm going to leave it here. I'm not going to know. They didn't know so much anyway. Now let them hear it here. Well, when is the time? What's the timeline for this move? I mean, I haven't even I found a new place. Okay, that's what I was wondering.

Do you have the house? No. I don't. I just put that house up and it's in the process of being sold really quickly. Do you want to, would you build? No. I just don't want to go through that again. I don't really even want to do too much construction.

I went through so much with this house. So do you have a, is your house sold? Do you have a buyer? Yeah, basically. It's an escrow. So then where are you going to live? Well, we're allowed to, they're letting us stay a couple months. Oh, really?

Yeah. So I have to find something. How did you pick who you wanted to buy? Did they have to write a letter? They did. They like begged for it right off the bat. Like they worked the letter and of intent and all that. They wanted it that badly. The house is gorgeous. I mean, yeah, hopefully it doesn't fall through. I mean, everything looks fine. But I have time. I don't know where I don't know where I'm going. Would you ever do like a fat penthouse condo? No, I want to, I want an American house. White picket fence. Yes. This house is a beautiful, statuesque house like, you know, but I want an American. house, a cozy house to raise a family in.

There's so many layers. You're like an onion. Right? It's so important, you guys. I told you. And then when I feel like something is off, I change it. I don't sit around in metal and think and waste years. I do it.

Okay, so you have also very important to do. You have vlogs that come out on YouTube every single Wednesday, right? Pretty much Wednesday, yeah. Is there a certain time or it's just like whenever you want? It's whenever I want. I usually just sit there and yell at everyone about topics that piss me the fuck off. And they listen and they love it. What's the deal with going forward and filming in the Bentley?

Because some people were mad that you were filming in the Bentley all the time. How dare they? I know. So I got a – we used to film in the G-Wagon, and then I got a Bentley. And I guess I'm filming too much in the Bentley. And they're like, oh, I feel like you guys – I feel like we're here just secluded and isolated and being like kidnapped. And all we're doing is sitting in the Bentley. Like, oh, you want you to take them to the Korean market.

It's done. There are homeless people in that Korean market now. Get over the Korean market. It's over. They love it. They love Asian Alex. You too. You too. I do. I know. You guys, you're like, OG. I know. It's over. It's done. You need to go. I'm going to take you to that place one day and you're going to see how disgusting it is now. It probably is. Is it in Orange County? No, it's L.A.

Oh, everything there is sad. It's in Korea town. It's absolutely disgusting. Okay. So your vlog this week, is there anything that we can expect of things you want to rant about or not yet? You don't know. Oh, class. No, this week I'm going to film in the house. You guys are bothering me to film in the fucking house. Fine. Like, I'll film in the house. God forbid we're in the Bentley. You know what I mean? God forbid, I film in the Bentley. Geez. It's the closest these a-h-hers who ever get to a Bentley and they're complaining about being in the Bentley. I know. Shut up. Shut up. Sit down. Are you going to decorate completely different in this new house? Oh, different. I have changed. You have no idea.

What do you mean you've changed? I am going back to my damn roots. What does that mean? You're going to be French. French cottage, French country? No way. Yes. Like Love Shack Fancy? No. Like Pataga Louis. Okay, okay. Like that. Like marble with like, yes. That's how I've always been. This house changed me. I'm going to, when this house sells, I'm going to go more in depth about it. But yeah, my style, I'm like nut. But I'm, I need to go back to more traditional.

Is the area that you're going to move the house to you're going to be the same area that the shop is going to be? It's going to be near. But not the same area. Yes. The attelier. I'll tell yay. Is that how it's... I don't know. I'm probably wrong. You're probably right. Yeah. No, I know. We're doing that too. We're moving the office because we've got to get out of downtown. I'm sick of people on the sidewalks in front of us. Disgusting. Okay. Well, what is happening to Judy? Because that was my number one main concern. I know. The moment you... That was the first thing you said is what about Judy.

I was so upset. Like, they're splitting up. Like, this is the end of an era. I can't have it. She thought that, like, Judy left me or something. Yeah. So, but Judy lives downtown L.A. Yes. No, Judy is like my ride or die. And Judy's down for like... So is she going to move? She's down for the struggle? Yeah. Yeah. So is her place up for sale? She loves Orange County, though. Like, she's originally OC. So she loves that. Yeah. So she's moving too. Not right now. She'll move in a little while.

But yeah, she's making the move too. How did you guys meet? Her best friend used to be my assistant. Okay. That's right. A long time ago. That's right. Yeah. We're like, we're like bread and butter. We're amazing. She's like kindred spirit. I just want to advocate for more Judy on the vlogs, but I don't think she likes to. Yeah, no, she will never. Okay, well, I'm a Judy Stan, so I'm saying that on the record. I'm just saying that on the record. Alex, what is your YouTube channel called?

Where should they follow you on Instagram also because your handle changes every other day? Oh, yeah, because they constantly shut me down. It's the real H.R.H. Collection on Instagram, and then YouTube is H.R.H. collection. And my shop is shop hr.h.com for jewelry, all my jewelry designs. Why is your jewelry better than everybody else is? Because I've had the line for 10 years. We make it all in downtown LA, just me basically, Judy and one other guy. And yeah, I'm the OG.

I'm the OG. Okay, so you may or may not know this, but I end every episode by saying, love you, mean it, bye. Oh, yeah, I've heard that. That's new, though, right? Yes. That was not when I was on. No, no, this is. Yeah, yeah, I do.

I end every episode like that. Even with me before? I'm pretty sure, yes. I don't remember. First time we ever did an episode. So I was going to say, do you want to say love you, mean it by in your own way to end this? Yeah. Love you, mean it.

Bye!