Deep Questions with Cal Newport - Ep. 202: TikTok Dismisses Facebook
Episode Date: June 27, 2022Below are the questions covered in today's episode (with their timestamps). For instructions on submitting your own questions, go to calnewport.com/podcastVideo from today’s episode: youtube.com/c...alnewportmediaCal Reacts to the News: TikTok Dismisses Facebook [10:40]- Should I get a PhD in my 50’s? [32:29]- Do I need two shutdowns if I work on my side hustle in the evening? [40:21]- Good life vs. Deep life [44:39]Habit Tune-up: Process-Centric Email [49:49]- How can I succeed in an academic profession after a lackluster start? [1:07:16]- Helping young men live deeply [1:15:07]Thanks to our Sponsors:Blinkist.com/deepEightsleep.com/deepMybodytutor.comWren.com/deepThanks to Jesse Miller for production, Jay Kerstens for the intro music, and Mark Miles for mastering. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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I'm Cal Newport, and this is Deep Questions.
Episode 202.
I'm here in my Deep Work H.Q.
I'm joined by my producer, Jesse.
Jesse, before I forget, I have an unsolicited plug I want to do.
A friend of mine and a friend of the show, Steve Magnus, has a new bookout.
The name might sound familiar.
He was on the show in an episode we did a while ago.
So him and Brad Stolberg, they do a podcast together called The Growth Equation.
They came on my show and we talked about Matt Crawford's book.
So if that name sounds familiar, that's probably where you've heard it from.
Anyways, he has a new book out with a title that I think everyone will quickly see why I like this book.
It's a very Cal Newport approved title.
It is called Do Hard Things.
So it's sort of a cool title.
Anyways, good book. Steve is a world-class runner and a running coach, and so he brings an expertise from actually helping people do demonstrably hard things to this question of how do you actually tackle big challenges. And he pushes back on a lot of the sort of conventional wisdom of just be tough and show no weakness and just get after it. And he has a much more sort of nuanced, sophisticated view of how people get through hard things and accomplish hard things. So check out.
Steve's newest book.
Have you worked out with him before?
No.
So I'm in a writers,
I have a couple writers groups of him,
but I'm in a writer's group with Steve.
And there's five of us in the group.
Three of them are serious runners.
And they're always talking about their serious running.
All three of them have run
on a semi-regular basis with Gladwell,
who's also a very serious runner.
And having talked to them about what they do
and about their runs with Gladwell,
I'm convinced if I was ever invited
to go on a run with Gladwell,
I would be dead.
You could take them down on the rover, though.
Take them down the row.
Yeah, I have more body mass.
I can really get that wheel moving.
So anyways, yeah,
it's like a bunch of really serious
like ex-college runners
and then me and Brad Stolberg,
the meatheads,
who huff and puff if we try to run.
Row and clean cross-fit style?
Exactly.
I'm going to row clean, lift heavy weights.
Oh, well.
Here's the other.
other milestone, Jesse, this is the last time I will be recording this podcast in my 30s.
Yeah.
Tomorrow is the day when I joined Jesse as an old man in our 40s.
Jesse crossed a milestone a month or two ago.
And so there we are.
So I talk about this on the show sometimes.
I always have a set of goals for each birthday that I work on throughout the year.
You should about halfway through the year I start working towards.
And it's project whatever year it is, Project 38, Project 38.
39, Project 40.
So I'm coming up to that deadline.
It's tomorrow the day after I'm recording this.
I think it's gone pretty well.
The big issue with my birthday project this year is the advantage of my actual birth date,
which is June 23rd, is that as a professor on the semester system, I'm usually done with my
semester by early May.
And there's this nice long six-week period where my kids are largely still in.
school and I have more free time. And it's really a period where I, I finalize the, the things on my
goal list for my birthday. That all got disrupted this year. A, I had some travel in that period.
So that disrupted it to some degree. And then we had COVID go through the family. That disrupted it as
well. So I might actually extend, maybe I'll try to extend the deadline a little bit past my,
a little bit past my birthday
because that's my
beautiful period
that actually good things are
but I think it's gone pretty well
I won't go through all of my
birthday project
goals but
I'm looking at my list here
there are some fitness goals I had
including the rower goal we talked about
and there were some weightlifting goals I hit them
I had a big list of sort of boring goals
these were just if you're going to be a grown-up
and middle age there's things
I just wanted to get worked out.
This is boring stuff, but getting our estate and wills figured out,
moving over to a financial planner that's going to automate a lot of the finances,
hiring someone to just go through and throw out all my old clothes
and just buy reasonable adult clothes for me, so I don't have to worry about it.
There's a whole long list of things like that that I got through.
There's some, I can't get into specifics,
but some professional disruptions and goals that emerge during this last,
year that you can't force it, but there are things lurking.
There might be some interesting configuration shifts in my professional life that I'm looking
forward to.
I couldn't get them done by 40.
Wheels are in motion.
Things are complicated.
Can't force it.
But I'm pretty happy, I would say, Jesse.
I'm pretty happy with hitting my goals or getting close to the goals I had for turning
40.
Made some big changes.
Some big changes are coming.
I don't want to give away my professional goals.
I'll just say it has something to do with professional HVAC installation.
What's the matter with your current wardrobe?
I just had random clothes that didn't fit well.
And I can't deal with that, right?
Like I don't have any skill or interest, but I'm more and more.
I'm on camera and I'm on stages and cameras and TV and video.
video podcast and, you know, I have to do publicity tours and stuff like this. And I realized
like I should probably wear clothes that fit or this or that. And so I just hired a guy.
How's that gone? I didn't mind. Yeah. It's, you know, he flew out and, uh, he goes out and
sets up the dressing rooms ahead of time the day before. And then you just show up and it's just like
all of these clothes. I just go through it. Doesn't do this, not this, not this, do this. A whole day.
It was like an eight hour day. Eight hour day. Oh, yeah.
Yeah. I'm talking, we're going from scratch here.
Shorts, jeans, t-shirts, formal shirts, a new suit.
Flip-flops. Basically. Before new pairs of shoes, I was like, whatever you need to do, just, I don't want to, I don't want to think about it. Just make it happen.
Did you talk to this guy about any of his other clients?
I did. Yeah. He must have some interesting ones. He does. Well, so he specializes in men, which is,
which is more rare.
Most of the,
if you look at stylist, quote unquote,
who like work with men,
98% of that is corporate stuff, right?
98% of it if you find,
like,
I am a stylist that works with men,
it is,
okay,
you just got promoted to CTO
of your large Beltway band,
bandit, whatever company,
and you have to wear the right suits
and the right shirts.
And they're busy.
Like,
I don't want to think about it.
I got to look,
you know,
I'm going to these clients.
So we're trying to sign these big deals.
And I'm going overseas to sign a deal with a German, whatever manufacturer.
And that's what most male stylists are is we will get you the right haircut and suit and tie.
So you don't have to worry about that.
This guy is one of the few that deals with not just that.
I talked to honestly, like a lot of his clients are tech pros.
Yeah.
Who like emerge from, I don't know what that says about me.
but they emerge from
the basement
the you know
they've been just coding their whole life
and they've they exited their company
and their deck of millionaires
and they're like I should probably dress like a grownup
and like I want to talk to girls
basically or some of that
and then also he said some of their clients are just
again people
they've worked hard careers
maybe they're going through a transition later in life
they're they're downgrading their careers
or whatever and they're like
you know what I never really thought about
my clothes. I've just worn the same
business casual.
There's probably like a lot of midlife crisis-y stuff
in there too. Yeah. Yeah, I guess I fit right in.
I was honestly like I don't care much.
I just need to like if I go on camera
I want to look reasonable. If I go on
stage or I'm in a documentary
or you know around
like more I don't know, well-known people
I do a little more TV now, this type of stuff.
I was like I don't know how to do this but I should have
like a blazer that fits that's interesting
with a shirt that I'm you know, whatever.
Whatever folks.
You got it done. Check it off. Check it off. Checklist. Checklist. All right. Well, we got a good show. We got a 20-minute fashion segment where I'm just going to come through the HQ and show off like different t-shirts I bought. By the way, hey, the one thing we did not replace, and I did not need anyone to help me with this is the podcast shirt. This shirt is only used for the podcast because it's just the color is just right for the backdrop and you don't notice the shadow of the microphone on it.
shirt is only used for that purpose
is my podcast shirt
that I needed no help with.
Did you show him that shirt? I showed him the podcast
he approved.
Yeah, he approved.
I wore the podcast shirt on
I did a Netflix show on the podcast shirt as well.
So the podcast shirt has been on Netflix
and on here. I may have wore it to do
Charlemagne the God show on Comedy Central.
So it's been on Comedy Central.
I'm getting my money's worth.
Yeah, I'm getting my money's worth.
It's funny when I do the thumbnails for your YouTube channel,
I'm always taking screenshots and you always have the same shirt on.
I'm telling you, man, you think it would be easy,
but when you have a black backdrop and the type of lighting we have,
I don't know.
We've tried different shirts.
It doesn't work.
I don't know.
Secrets.
Like Lex.
Same suit.
Yeah.
It's the Lex move.
All right, well, we have a good show.
Enough of that nonsense.
We got written questions. We got calls. I have a habit tune up. I want to do a little later.
But first, I want to do a quick news reaction because it's a, I find this article to be a
confirmation of something I've been talking about on this show, something that I have been
predicting. And now we see experts who are confirming what I've been talking about.
So here's the article. This came to me in my interesting account atnewport.com email address.
It's from June 16th, so it's a week or two ago.
And it's TikTok, an executive from TikTok that is, to some degree, dunking on Facebook.
And I want to get into details of what they're saying here.
And if you're watching this on YouTube, you'll be able to see the article.
If you're listening, I'll tell you what's on the screen.
All right.
So they are quoting in this article, a executive from TikTok, they're president of global business solutions.
and he's making a clear distinction between TikTok and Facebook that I have made before.
So this executive name Blake Chanley says Facebook is a social platform.
They've built all their algorithms based on the social graph.
That is their core competency.
Ours is not.
All right.
He goes on to clarify what is TikTok.
We are an entertainment platform.
The difference is significant.
It's a massive difference.
difference. Now, this is something I've talked about multiple times before on the show, this idea
that TikTok and its popularity actually represents an important transition in the landscape of these
attention economy apps. And I actually think it is a positive transition. So it's easy instinctually,
if you're a social media skeptic, to look at TikTok and everyone looking at this and the 600 million
users and be like, oh, man, we're going down the same road. But I actually think it's positive.
And this is why. What's this executive is saying? TikTok is not playing the same.
same game as Facebook. It is not a social company. Their revenue stream is not based off of monetizing
a social graph. It provides entertainment straight to the brainstem entertainment. If you are bored,
if you are trying to escape a moment of existential despair, whatever the circumstance that wants
you to get out of your current moment, you pull up TikTok's app. It's these short videos,
algorithmically optimized and selected. Boom, boom, boom, one after another. They hit these buttons.
in your brainstem, slack jaw, drool coming out of the side of your mouth, just locked in
distracted. They are just optimizing, distracting entertainment. No attempt to say, here's what your
friend is up to. Here's an article that was shared by your cousin. Forget all that, just straight
to the brainstem entertainment. What the executive is saying is that Facebook, that's not what they were,
but they're trying to do this. This is the premise of this article is that Facebook is trying to
as I previewed they were,
increasingly shift over towards this TikTok model.
Let me just put a quote here from the article.
Facebook plans to modify its primary feed
to look more like TikTok
by recommending more content regardless of whether it's shared by friends.
And of course, why are they doing this?
It's because they are struggling.
Here's the numbers from the article.
The parent company of Facebook meta stock price
is down 52% this year,
underperforming the NASDAQ,
which only dropped 32%.
in April they said revenue in the second quarter could drop from a year earlier.
That'd be the first time that's ever happened.
So Facebook is struggling.
They see TikTok being successful.
Like, let's be more like TikTok.
I think, as I've said before, that is the beginning of the end for the social media platform monopolies.
The one thing, 2010 Facebook, when it was really starting to get humming, the one thing it had going for it was network effects.
The people you know are on.
here. If the primary use of this network is to connect with and see what people you know are up to,
you have to come to our network and no one can compete with us because no one is going to be able
to get everyone you know onto their network. That is very hard. Once we've locked in with our first
mover advantage, your cousin, your roommate, your brother, your sister, they're all on here.
We have this first mover advantage. You have to use our network because that's where the people you know are.
As soon as you move out of the game of connecting the people you know, help facilitating the share
of information between people who already know each other. Once you move out of that game and move to
the alternative game of brain stem manipulation, pure distraction, maximizing time on screen,
we are the thing you want to look at when you're trying to escape the current moment. You lose that
advantage. It no longer matters that my cousin, my roommates, my brother, my sister are on your
platform. If all I'm doing on that, as it says right here in this article, is seeing content
recommended by an algorithm that has nothing to do with what's going on with my friends.
So yes, maybe in the short term it'll help Facebook stave off some of its numbers drops
because they'll get more time on screen.
But as I've said before, and I want to emphasize again,
the biggest conclusion of this shift among these players is that you are now in a competitive
pool where you don't have the powerful network effects of people I specifically know
need to be on there and you are competing with anyone else who's trying to provide
entertainment and distraction.
That is a very competitive pool.
and it is a pool in which I think it is going to be impossible for any one company to dominate
in the way that, let's say, a Facebook or an Instagram or a Twitter dominated our attention
five, six years ago.
If you are just an app on my phone that can distract me, that app is next to my podcast player.
That app is next to YouTube videos.
That app is next to video streamers investing billions of dollars in high-in entertainment
that can come at me and be like any, unlike anything.
else that we have, you know, seen before.
$200 million episodic series is competing with that.
It's competing with video games.
It's competing with books and audio books.
It's competing with other activities you might do in the analog world.
That is a much more competitive space.
And I think once you're in that pool where all we're offering is distraction, entertainment,
all we're trying to do is to get eyes on screen.
Necessarily people's digital interactions are going to.
to fragment and go more niche. There is no reason for there to be a dominant player. TikTok is having a
moment, but there's no reason for it to have to be something that everyone uses. Most people don't.
It's popular, but there's no big issue if you don't. In a world of just distraction, people are going to
fragment or segment towards distractions that they like in particular. You're really into a certain
type of sports. Well, you're listening to that type of sports radio and podcasts by athletes in that
sports. Maybe you're a political conservative and you're over in like the Ben Shapiro ecosystem,
which has its own videos and its own shows all about stuff that you're interested in. Maybe you're
a board game enthusiast. There's a place for that. Maybe you're a Cal Newport type. You're interested
in deep life and getting away from the more distracted living. So we have my videos, my podcast, my books.
It necessarily fragments once you no longer have the binding glue of the activity you're doing
requires people you know to be here. So I've been saying this, this article confirms it. Here it is.
The head of TikTok saying, not the head, but an executive at TikTok saying Facebook is trying to become
more like us because they want their views to go up. But good luck. And I think he's right. You know,
good luck. If you try to become an entertainment company, you compete with everyone else. So I see that as
positive. I like TikTok, not actually using it, but I like what it's doing. TikTok is causing these
other platforms that so had us
captured and had such a capture on our culture
is causing them to accidentally
knock the legs out of their own proverbial table
to get a short-term gain at the
in exchange for their long-term downfall,
which I think is good.
Social media universalism,
when there was three platforms everyone had to use.
I think we've seen for now it was bad for our civic culture.
It was bad for our mental health.
It was bad for our ability to do anything else.
I don't like that moment where we all had to use three platforms.
too much control, too much power, too much negative externalities.
So this is good.
Beginning of the end for that era of monopolies.
So we shall see.
You know what they said in this article, Jesse?
I thought it was a good analogy.
They said Facebook, TikTok was saying Facebook will never succeed at being TikTok
because you can't shift core competencies.
And the analogy they gave is when Google tried to compete with Facebook.
So remember Google Plus?
vaguely now that you say that.
Yeah, they put,
Google spent millions and millions.
This was during Facebook's rise.
Like, we want to do that.
They spent all this money.
And they had a huge advantage too.
Google had a huge advantage.
If we can just make Google plus native to all of these Google apps
that everyone's already using,
Gmail, the calendars, and they did.
And it still failed.
And the reason why it failed is because Facebook had been built
from the ground up to be a social graph company.
They just did it really well.
Google had not.
And they could never get over there.
And so in this article,
the TikTok executive is saying, good luck,
you're going to be the Google Plus of these short videos.
We know how to do it.
Our whole company's built around it.
You don't.
It'll never be as good.
You're not going to peel people off.
But I like the fact that they're going to batter up their ship against the shore here trying to do it.
Because, man, we need to get past this moment of two platforms.
Did you listen to Zuckerberg's interviews with your buddy Lex and Tim?
Yes.
I listen to the Lex one.
He's on with Tim, too.
Yeah.
I think whichever one came out first, I listened to the Lex one.
Lex came out first.
It's the problem with doing a tour like this or someone like that.
And then I was thinking, I don't know if I need to listen to.
Like a book tour.
Yeah, I don't need to listen to him again on another show.
I'm sure Tim's interview was good as well.
Yeah.
Yeah, it's interesting.
It won't be on your show soon.
See, I'm not of this school of thought, this like Zuckerberg.
I think I'm with Lex on this.
Zuckerberg is not the devil.
you know
and I don't like the narratives
though I've been a big opponent
of some of these services
it's not because I think
they're nefarious
right I don't think Zuckerberg is the devil
I think it's too simplistic
when we have to try to contrive these plot lines
of like they're purposefully ignoring
all this harm they're doing because they're so evil
or this or that I don't think
that's the case I just think
social media universalism
much I can't blame them.
I mean, hey, if everyone's using this, we want to grow as big as possible.
I just think it was bad for our culture, this moment of universalism,
where everyone felt like they had to use the platforms.
I think that is a problem.
I think if you have a platform everyone is using,
there's nothing you can do that's going to prevent that from probably having lots of negative externalities.
I don't think a lot of those are planned.
I mean, I think Facebook, they try to solve these problems.
They spend a lot of money on it.
They're like, we'll do anything you say we should do.
It's a losing battle because if you have 600 million daily active users,
from all sorts of walks of life all over the world.
It's like an impossible challenge
to make that into some sort of interesting.
The only solution in that is segmentation.
No problem having small groups of people
figuring out how they want to interact,
what their standards are, what their norms.
That works out fine.
600 million people, it's not natural.
Do you think he wants to work for the rest of his life?
I don't know.
I mean, don't bet against them long term.
All I say is he's one of the only CEOs
from that boom, that second internet boom period, who's still CEO.
But he's young.
Yeah.
I mean, you got to be a bit of a killer.
Yeah.
Right.
To be running that company at 22, how do you survive that?
With the investor pressure to stay in charge, I mean, he's got to be a ruthless guy.
That is a hard Game of Thrones style challenge.
The Google guys didn't last.
The Instagram guys didn't last.
the Twitter founders didn't last.
Dorsey was out of there.
It's very difficult to run a company,
start a company in your young 20s,
have it become a $500 billion company
and still be the CEO.
That means you're cracking skulls
and stabbing people in the ribs
as they're like in the back room
or the castle thrown room.
Like that's not just you're a nice guy working hard.
I think you have a business.
There's some sort of business instinct there.
That's very difficult to do.
Steve Jobs got kicked out.
No one makes it.
Gates is the only the person I can think of.
Bill Gates is the only person I can think of.
think, well, maybe Larry Ellison.
There's other examples, but Gates is who comes to mind.
Gates started Microsoft as a kid.
Almost identical situation as Zuckerberg,
dropping out of Harvard after his sophomore year,
exactly the same as Zuckerberg.
And he held on to that company
until he was ready to leave, you know, 30 years later.
So like Gates and Zuckerberg, Zuckerberg is Gatesian.
Amazon.
Yeah, Bezos was older when you, you know,
he was youngish, but he was at,
D.E. Shaw sort of analyzing the industry and was trying to figure out, how do we make a play
for e-commerce and the internet? And he had no connection to books other than he just, so D.E. Shaw is
this kind of weird, cool, quantitative investment fund. They give people free reign and they hire
only the smartest people. But he was like very systematically, how do we make e-commerce a thing?
And he worked all the numbers. It was like books. The way it works and the, the, the,
the warehouses and the shipping, like we can make books work.
But you're right.
Bezos was another example of he held on.
It kind of goes along with Mark and him working all the time.
It's kind of like what you're talking about when you answered that question in an earlier episode about just people always wanting to work and be doing stuff.
Kind of like that.
Yeah.
Yeah, they're driven guys.
I mean, Zuckerberg does all these challenges.
Yeah.
You know, the personal challenges.
like I'm going to learn a language or master this skill or only, you know, naughty meat for a year.
It's like on top of his work, he's constantly giving himself other types of personal challenges.
I mean, don't, that's, that's rare.
Again, to stay in charge of a company like that, to have the extra energy to do, do what you do.
Though I don't think Facebook is long for this world.
But what can you do?
I mean, they rode that moment as well.
well as you could.
And they did not successfully evolve beyond it.
I think Google was better at that.
Amazon was better at that.
They evolved very aggressively.
I think Facebook kind of doubled down on just being a social media platform monopoly.
And we want to do that well.
I don't know how long that'll last.
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I always have four or longs.
I was doing a podcast once with a sports, a sports announcer, I guess would be the right word.
Yeah.
And I was telling her about like, yeah, I overheat.
And she's like, you know what they do for college football?
Because, you know, a lot of these college football games, they broadcast outside.
And the games, if you're in Ohio in September, it can be, you know, really hot.
She said some of these guys, because they have to wear the suits to look nice on camera, but it's hot outside.
Like, how do you do that?
Because I overheat, I can imagine it being this real issue.
said they have these air conditioner vents that blast up their suit.
And that's what allows them when it's, you know, 96 degrees and they're, you know,
trying to cover the Gators game down in Miami or something like that.
They have air conditioners like coming out up their suit so they can be doing the outside broadcast.
So all I'm saying is you need an eight sleep for the HQ.
I could just like wrap one around my shoulder.
That'd be great.
Not to go on a divergence here, but I like, I like,
collecting other stories of people who overheat so I don't feel alone.
I heard Rob Blow talking about this.
As he got more clout in his career,
he's learned a lot of times you're filming shows.
They're filming them outdoors in L.A. in the Valley and it's super hot
and like you're dressed for winter because they're doing, you know,
La Brea as stand in for some Christmas time in Vermont or something like that.
He now demands, and I appreciate this.
It's basically an air-conditioned phone booth.
It's right there.
So in between takes, he goes and stands.
He can stand in like an air-conditioned box and just come out to do his take so that he's not overheating just standing out there in the sun all day.
I love that.
I want one of those from my classroom at Georgetown.
Some of the rooms don't have good air conditioning.
And in like September, man, it's brutal in there.
I want an air-conditioned booth.
I can just go and stand in and just sort of shine through onto the, onto my slides with a laser pointer.
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All right, Jess, let's do some questions.
We're kind of a long one here.
This one comes from Steve.
Steve says in the 90s, I had a plan to get my PhD in exercise physiology to teach and dive deep
into human performance testing research.
Unfortunately, I allowed my significant other at the time to convince me otherwise,
which led me down a path of ever-changing careers.
always taking different jobs to maintain some sort of financial security.
At the age of 53, and after listening to most of your Deep Questions episodes,
I now have the confidence and motivation to go back to school to achieve my previously stated goals.
However, after doing the math, I would be 60 by the time I graduate with a PhD,
which would leave me maybe 10 to 15 years to work before retiring.
one alternative is to start a small human performance testing lab as a side gig,
slowly building up a strong client base while maintaining my day job as an office manager
for a major Southern California university.
All right, so that's the question.
At the age of 53, you go get your PhD because you have this idea for some sort of performance testing lab.
vision that you could run. Well, Steve, regardless of your age, my graduate school advice applies here.
My graduate school advice says never start a graduate program unless you have clear evidence that the
specific degree you're going to get at the specific school that you're going to get it is needed to
unlock a specific step in your career that is appealing to you. That you've gotten to a point where you say,
I see this thing I want to do. This is why I want to do that. But I know. I need.
if I can get this degree here, I can do it. Otherwise, I can't. I am not a big believer in get the
degree to see what options it opens up. Now, you have a bit of an idea about what you want to do with
this PhD, but I think it is too vague to qualify. I mean, just based off of your question wording,
so I'm extrapoling here, but just based off your question wording, you have this idea that
there's some startup with a human performance testing lab that could be interesting. That is super
vague. I would not spend six or seven years getting a PhD with the idea that like maybe that will
help me do this thing that's kind of vague. I think your side hustle exploration approach is probably
the right one here. So keeping your good job, starting to explore what would this mean,
what you even mean by human performance testing lab? What are the real opportunities here? What are
the real demands here? And there's two things you'd want to capture from this experimentation on your
side. One, using money as a neutral indicator of value. Can you actually,
actually get clients? Can you actually get people to give you money for something along these lines?
That's a great indicator about whether or not the idea has value or not. Everyone will tell your
idea is good, but they will only give you money if it actually is. Two, it allows you to actually
explore the contours of this new territory. What exactly do you mean by human performance testing
lab? You probably aren't quite sure. What is the market opportunity here? Is it consulting? Is it
content? Is it working with other companies? Do you need to figure that all out before you go get a
degree for seven years. I want you to be at the point where you say we're rocking and rolling and
I'm being held back, just being held back by not having this degree. I could just see if I had it.
I could do this. I'm so close, but I can't do this because I don't know how to do this.
I want you to be at that point before you pull the trigger on any sort of higher education.
So start exploring, Steve, and don't get that PhD until you have to have it.
What would be outside of your own, what would be a good example of that, getting
a PhD, like clearly
elevating your credit. I mean, it's a good question because PhDs are very specific. So,
so obviously academic, you want to be a professor, then you're going to need a PhD. We have a
question about this coming up. And so if you're going to be a professor, you do need a PhD,
but that's where the second part of this is this degree from this program is what I need
becomes important. If you say, you know, I would love to be an MIT professor, so I'm just
going to go get a PhD. It's like, well, wait a second, you better be getting a PhD from a top
to program or it's not going to be the right thing. I have this issue also with a lot of military
and recent vets that I talk to are using their GI bill. And I think there's a lot of predatory
online degrees where they come in like, hey, get your online MBA and we'll suck out your GI
bill benefits for it. And it's convenient. You kind of do it on the side. And it turns out that
the employers down the road say, I don't know what this online MBA is. And you just wasted your
money. So the specific degree matters.
There's other fields that have specific PhD requirements.
So in biomed,
biomed research,
working for a drug company,
you want to be on,
you know,
I have a colleague whose wife works on respiratory virus vaccines at Moderna.
So we always tell him,
your job for the rest of our culture is to make sure your wife is completely unburdened
because we need her working on that,
right?
you can help the culture.
But if you want a job like that,
that it's not an academic job,
but you need a PhD for that.
Be very careful about PhDs
is sort of the way I think about it.
Like in computer science,
this used to,
maybe this has shifted,
but the traditional thinking
in computer science,
for example,
is if you're just looking at going to industry
and making salary,
getting a master's degree,
especially if you do a five-year program
where you just start your master's classes
as an undergrad and just add an extra year.
So you do five years and you get an undergrad
and a master's degree.
From a pure economic perspective
is probably worth it because
with the master's degree,
your starting salary is up here.
With the undergrad, it's down here.
And in the time it takes you to get that master's degree,
you couldn't catch up.
So you do start out ahead.
The math often, or at least it didn't back in my day,
work out for getting a PhD and going to industry.
So if you spend five years to get a PhD,
And then you go to work at Google.
You're going to get paid more.
Your starting salary will be more than someone coming in with a master's degree.
But it took you five more years.
And in those five more years, the person who started with the master's degree has been promoted
enough that they're making a lot more than you are coming in.
So you actually have to account for the time it takes to get the degree.
So that was always the conventional wisdom.
There is one exception right now that's AI and machine learning.
If you are able to get a PhD from a real star,
in the field in a relevant artificial intelligence topic where you are doing moving the avant
guard of the field forward type research. Like I'm moving forward what's possible with deep learning.
I'm working with Greg Hinton and Toronto and we're sort of innovating the field.
Some of those PhD students are getting close to or exceeding seven figure salary offers.
So in some fields like AI where actually,
being able to produce original research is
going to be a huge competitive advantage, then a PhD might be
different. But if you're going to go into a development job or an executive
job, then in computer science, it's not really worth getting a PhD.
So just be wary about it, you know, just go in with your eyes open.
You have to just, you need evidence.
This is the type of thing I want to do.
I know for a fact it requires a PhD to do it.
I know for a fact the quality and competitiveness of the program
going to go to will satisfy what's necessary there.
You just want clarity.
never used graduate degrees as a delaying function, as a generic option opening function.
No, no, it should be very specific.
It should be solving a very specific goal.
All right, I got another question here.
This one comes from Chad.
We've talked about this one a lot, so I can go fast here.
Chad says, do you have two shutdowns if you split your day job and your side hustle with family time in the middle?
No, you have a real shutdown after the first block of work.
you close all the open loops and you set up the work you're going to do during your second shift,
your side hustle work you're going to do in the evening. You get that all ready. And then you do a full
shutdown, schedule shutdown complete, do the checkbox, then time block planner. Then when you get to
your second shift, you know what you're doing. You turn on, you do it. You finish. You turn off.
The only nuance I want to add to this, Chad. The reason why I'm going back to this question is I was
talking about this issue. I was on someone else's podcast yesterday. I recorded an interview.
We were talking about this. And there's a wrinkle that,
came up that I want to add here, which is if you're doing this two-shift style work,
if you create new open loops in the second shift, it's a problem and you're going to need
another full shutdown. So, for example, if you're working on your side hustle in the evening
and you're doing emails and looking at an inbox and making plans, you could create a lot more
open loops that are going to require a new shutdown. So what I recommend for people who are
mainly working on their day job during the day and doing work on a side hustle in the evening.
So, you know, like the Steve's performance testing lab or you're writing a novel or something
like that is any open loop generating activities. So email, scheduling, etc. Do that during the daytime.
Purify what you do during the evening second shift just to be the pure putting the mental
metal to the grindstone. I'm writing. I'm coding. I'm coding.
producing, make that more focused. So any type of open loop generating interaction, do during your
day job so that when you do your shutdown at the end of the day, it also is closing down
your second side hustle job. You're looking at your plan for the rest of the week. What am I doing
tonight? That's okay. Don't have any emails. I need the answer. So that when you do evening work,
if you can keep the evening work, just pure work without the interaction open loops, it's going to be
a lot better. So you only need one shutdown, but that's the caveat I'll give you, Chad.
don't create new open loops in the second shift.
And for new listeners, you don't do shutdowns on the weekends, right?
No.
Now you shut down hard at the end of the week.
Here's where I'm going to pick up again on Monday,
and you don't have to worry about that type of thing during the weekend.
And if you do weekend work, like I often write on Sunday mornings,
it's purified.
I'm not looking at email.
I'm not on my calendar.
I'm not generating new open loops.
It's, you know, I'm at Bevco.
Here's my calendar.
I'm a calendar.
Here's my Scrivener.
Here's my writing.
And you just purify it.
Speaking of Bevko, by the way, the coffee shop down the road.
Because we have workmen in our house this whole week
because they're working on the study,
which is looking awesome, by the way.
I'm at Bevco every day.
It's too much.
I think they're worried about me.
I'm eating breakfast and riding at Bevco
every single day this week so far.
Oh, that's good.
I guess it's good.
I worry I'm there too much.
There's a lot of different places that sit in there.
You probably sit inside, outside.
I sit inside.
All the time?
Yeah.
I sit in because the inside's not as, I mean, it gets kind of crowded.
I don't know, people are pretty COVID-y around here.
So like the outside's all crammed, you know.
So it's a little bit quieter in the inside.
But every day, it feels like a lot.
But, you know, it's just our house is full of people.
We have three unrelated teams that be just, just so many people in our house.
Some of these coffee shops have monthly memberships you can buy.
Yeah.
If DeFCO had one of those, you could get in on that.
I would say, and I would conservatively estimate my monthly spending at Bevco,
and this is just ballpark, is $17,000 a month.
It's conservatively, if I had the guess.
I think in the business plan, there's like a pie chart,
and like two-thirds of the pie chart is just labeled with a picture of me.
Like, it's at the core of their business plan.
I need a place to go.
bye and I know everyone there and you can refill your coffee and it's good. All right, let's do a call.
I think we think we have a good call here. All right. Sounds good. This is about the good life versus the deep life.
Could you elaborate more on the differences between the good life versus the deep life? In episode 200,
you touched on it saying that the good life is virtuous, ethical, and meaningful while the deep life is notable and remarkable.
I'm particularly interested in the notion that the latter is a.
subset of the former. Thanks so much.
Yeah, it's a good question. The distinction is
not absolute.
So I often get
letters about this, but
the last thing you said
is a useful way, I think, of
comparing and contrasting the good life versus the deep life
is this idea that
the deep life is a subset
of the possibilities for a good life.
And so just to take another swing at defining these distinctions, when I'm thinking about the good life, I'm thinking Aristotle. I'm thinking eudamonia. I'm thinking the attempts and antiquity to try to understand human flourishing. And usually these concepts had something to do. Obviously, virtue was a big part of it. Living life. Virtuously, Aristotle cared a lot about, I guess you could call it,
temperance or moderation. So in the Nicomachean ethics, he often talks about on many of these
character traits. There's extremes. And where you want to be is in the middle. So you don't want to be
incredibly stingy, but you also don't want to be debt piling, spending freely. You want to be
somewhere in the middle. So there's some notion of temperance or moderation that came up in these notions.
And then some notion of flourishing, eudamonic flourishing, which is taking the talents or
abilities you have and pushing them to actually see them their potential expressed in the world.
Your athletic, you want to harness that skill and push your athletic abilities to a limit.
You have a sharp mind.
You want to actually take ideas and produce things of value.
So those are the elements of the good life and the sort of the ancient Greek definition of it.
the deep life is a good life, but it has other components to it.
So there's good lives that don't have these components to it.
So it's a good life where you also have this other component of remarkability.
So like we can think about the deep life when we want to use this framework as a good life that is augmented with some notion of remarkability.
It's notable.
People look at it and say that's really interesting.
that is not someone who is going to go to their deathbed and say, man, I wasted this time.
It is a remarkable life in the literal sense of that people remark, like that's very interesting.
And the core of doing that, at least provisionally I argue that the core of doing that is radical shifts to align to your value.
So a deep life is a good life where you also make some sort of radical shift to the way your life actually unfolds, where you live, what type of work you do, your commitment to community, your commitment.
commitment to theology or philosophy. There's some aspects of your life that you have pushed
radically towards fulfilling something that you really values. There's something in that
radicality in pursuit of your values that makes a good life not just good, but also deep.
It's why we're attracted to not just presence, but the monks. And we read the seven-story mountain
and going to the monastery. It's radical alignment in pursuit of this thing that really matters.
It's why we get attracted to the person who leaves the stressful soul-deadening job,
and they have the craftsman workshop that they're in.
It's a radical move to align their values,
moving to the small town and amushing yourself with the community
and living a simpler life.
Barbara Kingsolver and Animal Vegetable Miracle saying we're going to move to a farm for a year
and only eat what we can grow ourselves or buy from near,
nearby. That type of thing resonates because it's a radical shift in pursuit of what you value.
So a deep life is not necessary to have a good life. It's just a particular approach, but it's an
approach that right now in our current moment, I think, has a lot of momentum behind it.
This was one of the impacts of the pandemic was people being very reflective of their lives,
realizing they have a lot more agency than they before realized, realizing that you can make
major shifts and life still goes on, that it's possible. And starting to care about, what do I really
care about? And so I think the post-pandemic moment is one in which this particular configuration of the
good life, one that's built around radical shifts is one that is catching more and more attention as
having this moment. So that's why I'm thinking about it. And that's why in theory I'll be writing a book
about it at some point in the next couple of years. So there we go. That's my second attempt to differentiate
the good life from the deep life.
All right, well, why don't we get technical?
We haven't done a good old-fashioned habit tune-up in a while.
For those who don't remember, the habit tune-up segment is one where I take a piece of
advice that I have given before, and we just get into the weeds a little bit.
So let's get into the weeds, get a little bit technical about some specific productivity
advice.
I have an email-related habit to talk about in today's segment.
it's an idea that I first introduced in my book Deep Work,
where I gave it the incredibly compelling and sexy name of process-centric email.
So what is process-centric email?
Let me step back first.
My preamble to getting to the tactic here is pushing for a little bit more clarity on the question of what is it about email that we dislike.
This is something I think a lot of people get wrong.
I get a lot of messages from people to say,
yeah, I love this idea of like digital minimalism
because I hate how when I go into my email inbox,
there's all of these newsletters.
And I'm going to simplify and unsubscribe from a lot of newsletters.
All right, that's fine if you want to do it.
Too many newsletters is not your problem with email.
Other people say, yeah, I have all of these announcements
and notices and promotional emails from every company
that I've ever bought something for.
My employer sends out 17, you know, announcements a day, new parking things, new programs.
There's all these, all these announcement emails, they clutter up my inbox.
Yeah, it's annoying.
It's not the problem with email.
Some people say, yeah, everyone is always shooting me these questions.
Hey, what time is that meeting tomorrow?
What about this?
And that's annoying.
Like, can't we just talk next time we see each other?
But short questions that can be answered, you know,
2 o'clock. The client's name is this. Here's the link. That's also not the problem with email.
If all of email was a combination of newsletters, announcements and promotions and short questions that could be answered, we would have no problem with our inboxes.
It really doesn't stress us out that much to see too many newsletters. You can just archive them.
It doesn't stress us out that much to see too many promotional announcements. Just boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, right?
Just delete an archive. It's actually kind of a filling. It's easy to do.
feels like you're making progress.
We don't get stressed out by questions we can answer immediately with a short response.
It's very productive.
Let me give you the answer to this.
Let me give the answer to this.
If that's all the email was, 20 minutes twice a day, it would be on top of it.
It would be a little burst of productivity.
It would be something to be positive.
The real productivity poison that's frothing around in that email inbox is messages that
initiate back and forth interaction.
That is above all else the source of almost every piece of cognitive distress that we feel
from email.
Not a newsletter, not an announcement, not what time is to meeting tomorrow.
It's the email that says, we should probably make a plan for the client coming tomorrow.
Or what are we going to do to get this thing ready?
for next Monday. The message that is going to begin back and forth, back and forth, like,
well, when should we do that? And what about next week? Oh, next week doesn't work.
Let me CCN, Jesse, and ask him if he remembers when this has back and forth, back and forth,
unscheduled ad hoc, back and forth, interactive conversation, delivered through emails,
working towards trying to figure out something or achieve some goal. That is the main productivity
poison in our inboxes. Why? It brings with it to demands.
one, that's more than anything else what keeps you coming back to your inbox again and
again and again because you have to service these back and forth conversations.
If five messages have to get back and forth before we can get a resolution and we need that
resolution by the end of the day, I can't wait three hours for message number two.
Because we have to fit in all five messages.
So back and forth conversations require much more frequent inbox checking.
Because I got to see when the latest message comes in so I can bounce it back.
And you've got to see when that comes in so you can bounce it back to me.
have to see that pretty soon after and bounce it back. We check our inboxes all the time,
not because we know there's new newsletters in there, not because there's promotions from Levi's
we want to see. It's because we have back and forth conversations we have the service.
The second reason why these are productivity poison is that these are the conversations that
bring with it the dreaded ambiguity. I don't know how to answer this. It's where you get the,
can you figure out how to fix this issue we have with the budget? And you're like, I don't know
how to do that. And now I guess I can afford this as someone else, or I'll do obligation
hot potato and shoot off a question of someone else just to get it off my plate and wait for it to come
back. I have to talk to different people and see what they tell me. You've created a,
they create these major open loops in terms of our obligation storage systems and it's a real
source of stress and distress. If you feel anxious checking your inbox, going through your inbox,
these are the type of messages that create that anxiety. They're like, oh my God, I don't know.
I don't know how to fix the budget. I don't really know how this works.
I don't even really know who I should talk to about this.
I guess I'm going to start sending messages and like kind of letting this thing unfold
and keep checking this throughout the day.
Those are the productivity poison.
So if you want to make your experience with your inbox better, it is these back and forth
interactive ambiguous conversations that you have to tame.
That is what process-centric emailing is all about.
And the idea is simple.
When you see a message arrive that is initiating one of these long back and forths,
your first entrance into this conversation, your first message into this conversation should
include in it a proposal for the process by which this whole collaboration ending in the goal
being achieved of this conversation is going to happen. You say how it's going to happen so it doesn't
just default to like let's just keep going back and forth. You declared this is how I think this should
happen. Oh, we have to figure out what to do about this client. Okay, well, here's what I suggest.
We have this meeting coming up on Wednesday.
Let's add time to talk to that.
I'm going to, before we get to that meeting,
talk to Susan to make sure that we understand the full, whatever,
the full process for what we need to do to onboard a client.
We'll talk about this in the last five minutes of the meeting
and make a plan going forward.
Or you say, okay, here's what we need to do.
You're right.
We do have to figure out when we're going to meet.
Here's what we'll do.
I have listed here, whatever.
15 times. Jesse, you then highlight the times that work for you and then you forward it on to
the third person and you select one of those that works and put that just into an invite and
send it to all of us and we don't even have to discuss it anymore. What I'm talking about here is
processes that gets the thing done. The thing that this conversation is going to lead towards
gets you to done without ambiguity and without having to just wait for messages to arrive
and respond to them and go back and forth.
Process-centric emailing is a little bit stilted.
It's not very casual.
So typically the people who use this will have a casual message with emoticons and all the other stuff.
But then have the pretty detailed thing below.
You can blame it on me.
Sorry for the formality.
I've been listening to too much Cal Newport.
But it works.
And it takes a little bit more time up front because you have to figure out what,
what's the right way to get to done?
What's the right way to get to done here?
and you've got to think it through
and you've got to explain it to people
and you might have some extra work to do to set it up
here's a Google Doc, here's the doodle,
here's how it's going to unfold,
you know, I've set up an office hours,
it takes more work,
but it is almost always worth spending 10 or 15 more minutes
at the beginning of an exchange
than it is to have 10 or 15 messages you have to respond to.
10 or 15 minutes right now
takes away 10 or 15 minutes from your day.
But 10 to 15 messages,
each of which is requiring five inbox checks
while you wait for it, that's going to be 50 to 75 inbox checks over the next few days,
which is way more damaging than you adding 10 minutes right now to what you're doing.
So a big believer in process-centric emailing.
And of course, if you find yourself, the bonus, proposing the same process again and again
because the same type of work happens again and again, then you can just codify that.
You know what?
We do this client onboarding all the time.
Why don't we all just agree this is how we do it?
And so you don't even have to write out the whole process every time.
So it's also a good way to unearth or make legible, repeated work and get good processes in place.
So just remember that.
Ongoing interactive conversations.
That is the thing that kills us in our inbox.
That's the thing you should care about.
That is the thing you should be willing to do almost anything to vanquish.
It really is productivity poison.
All right.
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Really?
Yeah.
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Let's do a couple more questions here.
I got one from Lucy,
who writes in to say,
Hi, Cal.
I'm about to finish my PhD and decided to try
to build a career in academia.
Now, you've emphasized a couple times
that choosing a great lab and famous
slash knowledgeable slash connective supervisor
was an important step.
Unfortunately, it was not the case for me.
even though I had high grades in a good profile, my choice of graduate programs were limited by my unstable temporary residency situation. I ended up doing a PhD with a professor who barely helped me. He is a nice guy, but not very knowledgeable and did not improve or increase my publications or contributed to my growth as a researcher. Regardless of this situation, I managed to publish a few papers of uncertain quality and learnt quite a deal through my own efforts. My question is, do you think I still can succeed in an academic work?
even if my start was not the best, where would you recommend to focus my efforts?
Well, Lucy, academic world can mean a lot of things.
So if what we're talking about is a tenure track position at a well-known university,
sort of the classic image we have of a professor, you have some graduate students,
you have the patches on your Tweed jacket, you lecture to the big lecture halls,
at a selective university.
The issue is you're starting from a very hard position.
The reason why I push get the most famous professor
at the best school possible
is that these are incredibly competitive jobs to get.
And the thing that matters more than anything else
is your research.
Are you producing great work in great places
that's generating attention and citations?
That's what they're hiring you to do at your school.
The reason why a famous advisor is useful
It's not because the advisor is famous, but because they're famous because they know how to publish really impactful papers, and they will teach you how to do that.
Learn from the people who are already doing what it is you want to do.
This competitiveness is so much that I got a private message recently from a student who said, look, I want to go to grad school and CS.
I want to be a professor.
I have a grad school offer from Princeton.
I have a grad school offer from MIT.
and he's like, I'm kind of lean towards Princeton.
He was given his reasons.
And I could empathize.
When I applied to grad school, I also got in the Princeton and MIT.
Those were both on my choices.
And, you know, he was trying to nudge me towards, like, saying, go to Princeton.
And honestly, I came back to him.
I was like, look, man, this is not your coming of age.
I'm 18 going off to undergrad year experience.
For what you want to study, MIT is tops.
Go to the best school.
And he was going on about, you know, I like the atmosphere, the more intellectual literary atmosphere.
I was like, live in Harvard Square. That's what I did. Go to MIT, live in Harvard Square, buy books, but just go to the best possible school and get the best possible advisor.
Because it is so competitive out there. You've got to study at the best place you can. You've got to study with the very best people you can. You've got to produce the best papers you can.
It's like training for a professional athletic job. I don't care what town you like better or what campus fits your mood better.
you go to the best trainer you possibly can because it's so competitive.
Hundreds of people applying for every one of these positions.
So I don't know if this is like a downer or a tough love type response,
but those type of jobs are very difficult if you're not already coming out of a top place.
Something that might help here is a postdoc.
If you could get a postdoc at a good place and kill it on the research in that first year's a postdoc,
that could open up opportunities.
There's two things here, though, I want to warn you against.
One is the idea of I will go to a school that I don't want to go to, right?
So it's non-tenure track or it's tenure track, but they don't care at all about research,
a super heavy load, and I will earn my way into a better position.
That is very, very difficult.
It is hard to make that type of jump.
If you go to a heavy teaching load school where they don't really care much,
about research, it's going to be very hard to distinguish yourself there and jump up into
a better school. Because remember, the better schools have their pick of the very best people
coming out of programs. Often when better schools are hiring stars, they're hiring away from
other good schools and leveraging things like that person wants to come to your location.
It is just real, it happens, but it's really rare. I mean, the one exception is the very top
schools in some fields basically use an all-star member.
methods like MIT will do this in computer science or mathematics. They will, they won't hire from
within their students have to go off. And they'll watch really good schools that are right below
them and just wait to see who pops off as a star. And they'll say, all right, come back.
So MIT will do that. They'll send you, you'll be at a really good school and that MIT will call
you essentially and be like, oh, you got a MacArthur. You got a whatever. Great. Now you can come
back to MIT. We'll give you a professorship. But what you don't see is someone going to a non-research
focused heavy teaching load school and have a Princeton or an MIT say you've been doing
great work because there's no time to do it. It's crushing. And also be wary about letting your
desire for academia pull you into an exploitative adjunct type situation. Again, it's also very rare
that you're going to jump from one of those situations into a classic 10-year track type academic
position. So I want to warn you from traps and give you the reality check that for this very
narrow definition of academia, and it might not be what you're talking about, but for this very
very narrow definition of the TV movie portrayal of academia, 10-year track at a well-known
university doing research. They're hard jobs to get. And you need to have produced really good
research. So if you have a way to do that in a postdoc, if you're right on the precipice
of doing something really important, writing the killer book, getting out those killer
articles, that's what you should do. That's what they're going to care about. Articles,
articles, articles. So if you can do that, do that. If that doesn't seem like it's in the cards,
then I'm just saying be wary because there's a lot of traps out here
where someone will tell you a story
will come do this
and then you can jump to what you want to do a little bit later
and that jump can be pretty hard to make.
I hope that wasn't too much of a downer, Jesse, but...
That was a good answer.
With your break now, are you still writing papers?
Yeah.
So you still have a big year.
I'm still writing some papers.
Yeah, my doctoral students presenting a paper next week.
No, no, in mixing up trips.
A little later in July.
at a conference.
And, yeah, so I'm still writing some papers.
So that's different writing time than your morning book writing,
New Yorker writing time, right?
That's different, yeah.
Like, I'm not actively writing any research papers right now.
Got it.
But, like, my doctoral students working on his dissertation.
So we're doing, you know, I'm looking at drafts.
In fact, I'm talking to them right after this.
So some of that's going on.
Yeah, so like this summer, I'm really kind of locked into non-academic writing.
but I still do some of that.
I used to do a lot of it.
Like that's how you get.
When I was coming into Georgetown,
I had a lot of papers.
I don't know what my count is now,
but I think I have something,
academic peer-reviewed computer science papers
probably 75.
Wow.
Yeah.
And then if you add up citations,
four or five thousand citations,
I mean, it's just,
it's a hard work.
They're like, get the job and get tenure.
And I did early tenure is,
you know,
a fortify paper year pace in computer science.
Like it was just, that's what I was doing.
Yeah, that takes time.
All right, let's do, where are we at?
We have time.
Let's do a call.
Let's do one more call.
And then we can call it quits for today.
Sounds good.
We got a call from a monk.
Cal, I'm inspired by your work.
Thank you.
My name is A.T.N.
And I'm a Benedictine monk in the United States.
The idea of deep work and the deep life.
is really resonant with me.
Part of my work is educating and forming young men
to become leaders in the Catholic Church.
I wish to model and teach them deep work,
slow productivity, the deep life,
digital minimalism, et cetera.
Do you have thoughts on how I might be a good mentor
and teacher for these principles to these young men?
again, thank you very much.
Well, it's a good question.
I mean, certainly young men as a demographic are often in this day and age hungry for guidance.
So it is a demographic group that is open to being inspired, open to being guided.
And when they're not, when they're left adrift, negative things happen as a consequence.
So I'm glad you're involved in being a guiding light to this particular group.
I think one thing that's helpful, so I'm thinking about, I mean, I advise when I get messages from a lot of people.
But what I'm thinking about the advice I give to young men in particular,
I think having the frame of the deep life is a helpful starting place.
So saying, okay, you're committing to this goal that you want to live a deep life.
You don't want to live a life that is haphazard.
You don't want to live a life that is arbitrary or at the whims of distraction or the noise of our culture,
that you instead want to live a life that is intentional and considered and remarkable in the sense that it makes people turn their head and catch their attention.
Oh, that's something.
That's something.
That is highly appealing to a lot of young men.
And I think laying out that framework, okay, how do we do this?
And making it clear that this is going to require discipline and hard work, that is all fantastic.
That is a charge we want.
give me a challenge. I want to have to rise to a challenge. So that is all good. The other part of the
D-Play framework I think is for good men, good for young men is that it has these multiple elements to it.
We often get stuck on just one aspect of good living. We neglect the others. We get obsessed about career,
but we fall behind on our philosophical or theological growth. We fall behind on leadership or community.
get really obsessed about theology. We're going through the process of becoming a monk and forget
the importance of community or the importance of craft. So this notion that we have various areas
of life that all require service, I think that is very useful. We know the areas I often talk about
is craft. So what you actually do and create is community, being a leader in sacrificing non-trivial
time and energy on behalf of other people, constitution, that is your health, that is your fitness.
contemplation, that's going to be philosophy, that's going to be theology, really making that
important, making that important part of your life. And then I often do throw in celebration,
the ability to build up taste and kind of stewardship and just gratitude for things that are good
in the world and in your life and things you can go and just get pure enjoyment out of.
Breaking that down, here are five things. Each of these requires attention. Each of these requires
cultivation is a message that young people and young men in particular really resonate with.
you work through. Let's do Keystone Habits in each, and let's go through each of these one by one,
and we can spend six weeks in each and do a preliminary overhaul of that part of your life.
Let's overhaul your eating and get some real serious fitness going here, have some discipline there.
How about your theological mind? How about your philosophical mind? You need to start reading books.
You can get off that phone. You need to read. You need a half hour a day. Here's what you're going
to read. We're going to talk about it. You have to expand your mind. You have to open. Okay, there we go.
We're working on that as well. Leadership and community. What are you doing to make?
make the life of people around you better?
Are you spending time thinking about it every day?
Do you lead anything?
Where are you leading other people towards somewhere better where you're sacrificing your
own time and energy?
These things are important.
And it's all different areas you're focusing on.
When you focus on the craft piece, that's where deep work and concentration and focus
and diligence and all of that comes into place, slow productivity.
So as you move through these different buckets, these different areas, all sorts of different
learning can happen.
but is that overall pursuit
I want with
discipline and intention to make my life
into something deep and remarkable.
That pursuit
is like water
to the explorer lost in the desert
when we're talking about
young men in today's culture.
So I think that's the way I would go about it
and I would really challenge them
in each of these areas.
Don't just do the easy, do the heart.
And I'll tell you there are so many
positive side effects
of systematically trying to cultivate this life,
especially if you're young and especially if you're adrift,
the excessive video game playing,
the excessive phone scrolling,
the pornography, the excessive drinking,
all of these things that can afflict the 23 and adrift,
they naturally just start to dissipate
when you have these more important things
that you're starting to work on,
you're getting that feeling of success on them,
you're getting that feeling of efficacy.
You're getting that feeling of autonomy and meaning, and it transforms the whole way you think about the life.
It transforms the troll on the Twitter who's just angry and looking for attention into a leader in their town,
into a real deep thinker who ends up contributing something really interesting to the world of ideas.
As someone who is in good shape so they can be there for their family, for their community,
through thick and thin, into older age.
There are so many things good to come out of it.
So I'm glad you're thinking about this.
That's how I would do it.
Challenge, discipline, intention, all aim towards the deep life.
Break into the categories.
Do my whole framework there.
I think young men are hungry for it.
And I think they will be quite receptive.
All right, Jesse, I think that's a good variety of questions here.
We're coming up on the 120 marks.
That's as good a time of any of the wrap things up.
So thank you, everyone who submitted questions.
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And until then, as always, stay deep.
