Dr. Mario Alonso Puig - Cómo encontrar tu propósito cuando te sientes perdido
Episode Date: May 26, 2026Muchas personas viven con una sensación difícil de explicar: sienten que algo falta, que han perdido el rumbo o que ya no encuentran sentido a lo que hacen.En esta conversación junto a Pablo Gómez..., reflexionamos sobre el propósito de vida, el entrenamiento de la mente, la meditación, el mindfulness y la importancia de vivir plenamente presentes.Hablamos también de cómo el exceso de egocentrismo puede alejarnos de nuestro verdadero propósito y de por qué el sentido de la vida no se encuentra en lo que conseguimos.Ojalá estas palabras puedan acompañarte y ayudarte a encontrar más claridad, calma y dirección en tu vida.Conversación completa en @PabloGomezPsiquiatra —🌿 MEDITACIÓN DE LA MENTE EN CALMAHe creado una meditación gratuita que espero te sea de gran utilidad. La encuentras aquí.—¡Suscríbete!MÁS INFORMACIÓN Y RECURSOS ÚTILES: 📖 Libros🎧 Accede a mi audionewsletter gratis🎟️ Entradas a la nueva conferencia 2026PÁGINA WEB Y REDES SOCIALES OFICIALES:🌐Página Web📷Instagram▶️Youtube📲Facebook💼LinkedIn𝕏 Twitter
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The sense of the life, never we can't
find if the only
that we need is what we can
we need. The
sense of the life, I think
that's what you can't find out. When a person
really entient that we're
that we're here to illuminate
and not to bring, then
it's very difficult not have
connected with your purpose. How is
it's train the mind, how is it trained
the tension, what is what happens with the
flow continue of
the
thought of
the
network of
the network of
defect, what is
what is the
really, like you
know the
university of
Harvard, that
red that
all the
time is generating
and generating
and generate
and when
is the
causeant of the
infelisidad.
Well, it's
a number
very interesting
of questions
connected
and a lot of
first, I
know, I
agree much,
to have
been able
contribute
even
that's a way,
a way that's a
you've written
that's
that's great
that's
in this
life,
all we
know,
and we
and you
and I'm
the next
I think
we're
three levels.
First,
the
the
material,
the form,
of the
time,
we and we're
we're
a different
time,
we're
in the year,
2026 we're in we're in
we're in marzo and we occupa
we're in this precious city of medellin this is a dimension
the other dimension that is the mind the
mind no can't medire no
so can't passar
it doesn't occupy a dimension
no has a form and no
have material the mind is an instrument
and then the third dimension that is the
spirit the spirit is a dimension that
transcends all the known.
For that the Spirit can actuar in the world of the
material, the form, the time, the space,
needs a instrument a altisimely sophisticated.
An instrument that, for one part,
has a dimension spiritual,
and, for another part,
it can't connect with the material.
That's the mind.
When the mind
not is
conducted directly by the Spirit,
but the instrument,
is the instrument,
is the guide,
we have problems.
For that the mind
can cause much
can't form,
can generate
confrontments
between the
people.
When the Spirit is
the orienta
the instrument,
that is the
mind,
there are persons
that are
in the
people who
have been
their vitality,
there's much
more connection
and much
less
for so the
MENTT Necesses to be entraned. The instrument
Necesses are entraned.
Pongamous a example of the
The surgery of the
The ligad of is a surgery
complex because the ligad is an organo
macizo, is difficult to manage
It has a normal vascularization and,
for that the surgery is a very
defiant. There is an instrument that
is an instrument that is a instrument
determined to,
to be able to generate
determinations in the ligado
with much minor sangrado
and much major precision.
But who has to governar
this instrument is the
surgeon. The instrument
not can't operate
for your country. The instrument
would be the mind.
So when we're
we'll make that the mind
to his
liber albedriot
comete all type of errors.
When we know
oriental the mind then the
mind,
simply,
it's a
convictal,
and the dimension
spiritual and the
dimension of the
matter, the
form of the
time, the
space.
How is
entraned
the mind?
And what has
to be the
reneuronal
for defect?
The renal
for effect,
it's a
serendipity
in Washington
in Washington
a
years.
It's
very that
when the
Harvard
has been
much of
this,
and
other
universities
in
different
in different
different
of
the
world, the
the
red of
tendency of the
mind to do
what he
to get to
to get us to
let us
or project us
to the future
to make us
we'll see a
series of
and we
angusteem
before that
that's
when one
train a
attention
when one
really
is a
present
then the
spirit
the emission
spiritual
can connect
with the
dimension of
the
matter the
form
the
time and the
space
What is the result? The result, first is that when the spirit, we could we call it, the
conscience is capable of penetra in that space, the conscience is capable of sanar what
the enderm. For that has been able to be able to be able to be that person, that's
train in meditation, that in reality is an
training of the attention,
they're in factologies
autoimmunes,
of processes of anxiety
of depression, of pathologies
cardiovascular,
of quadros endocrinous.
Also, it's
that when one is capable
to put your attention
in the here and in the
hour,
also can't
sanar heriders
that were
when when was
when it was little
and no even
even has a conscience
of that.
Or no, no, there's doubt, that the
training of the
mind is something absolutely
essential. It's more, in Orient,
persons very
expert as in the camp
of the meditation,
they're getting discolocated,
decontas, decontas,
when they're in the
occident, at the training of the
mind, not so they do
a special importance, you know?
Okay.
The form of
to trainer the more
more documented, would
then, the meditation.
The form more documented
to train the
mind is the attention.
It's the capacity
of maintaining
your focus
in the here and the
hour.
Because then
you enter in
two dimensions.
When we
about we're
in the present
we're talking
of two
things with the
same
power.
There's a
present
that is what
you're
what you're
the
interview and you.
But there's
a present
more
profound.
There's
a reality
more
Sonda, in the transfondo, is
in what is the more than the forms.
That is the present with the
you can connectar.
For that when you
get to that level of
profundity, you connectas
with a dimension that is eternal.
For that's out of the time,
the line of the time,
the past, the present, the future.
So that connection
is a experience
that we can't say
of characteristics
mystic.
For that the
great mystic
constant, both
the Orient and Occident
about the
meditation,
Not only for what is happening now,
to be able to take decisions in basis of what
what's going to be,
but I'm a experience of what's
called the mystery, the universe,
or God, as one wants to
come to a question here,
that experience mystic
that is,
I'm, I'm saying,
what is that,
can't get with techniques
like the mindfulness.
You have
done some
the consequences
negative that have
to not be
not being present
in those moments
those that are really important?
No, is that no
you want,
is that a few
those pensions
they're
from you're
and they're
where you
want to
you're going to
want to
be a meditation
gratuit,
the meditation
of the
mind in
calm
to help
to be
to be a
here and
the hour.
If
you want
to receive
it,
for
favor,
acced
to the
end of
the
there.
There
much confusion between the mindfulness is the
same than the meditation, how many types of meditation
and etc.
Mindfulness is a terminology
English.
For, I mean, I mean it's a language
Anglo-Sajon.
To describe what
the next.
Maintainer the
mind
enfocated in the
here and the hour.
Is that in this conversation
that we're having, if I'm
I'm fully in the here and in the hour,
I'm practicing mindfulness.
If I'm listening music and I'm
fully listening that music,
I'm practicing mindfulness.
If you're seeing a
patient and you're playing a
patient and you're playing
mindfulness. And, of actually,
it's a circuit that's active
is the red executive central
and it's activate the reneuronal
for defect, which is the distraction.
Now,
all practice meditative, contemplative,
all practice that includes movements
and that has a transfondo spiritual,
like the yoga, the chikung,
also is to be in the hour.
So the mindfulness would be like the column
of everything.
And then within every discipline,
within
of every
tradition
there's
different
forms
of practice
that meditation
but if
in a
meditation
the
not you
not is
present
no
there's
meditation
that
should be
the
like the
column
vertebral
of all
those
people
are
different
but
we
don't
we're
a column
vertebral
a
person
in a
particular
not
not
not
a
practice
meditative
without
in the
in this,
being,
to be present,
is a person
that's a practice
yoga,
that's a
practice meditative,
and not is
a person,
but he's
thinking,
really,
really,
it really can
connect with the
profundity of
yoga,
a person
that's doing,
passana,
and not is
not a
plenament in the
and the hour,
too,
what's occur is
that,
as the
mindfulness
is something
that's
something
that's
the study
the
thing,
the end,
the
of what is all.
And as a dimension, that's the same,
the NBSR, mindfulness-based, stress-adaction,
production of stress-adaxion,
production of stress-ad-es,
because it's the sensation
that the mindfulness is the only
that there.
The mindfulness is the essence
of a lot of things
that there.
Perfect.
I want to do you
know what the next,
is a motive of consult a
quite,
a constant,
the patient that
is that he says
that's a person
that's feeling
in the world,
that's
that I'm making,
and I make
the question
that I know
that I say
that I'm,
and is how
I'm going to
the
idea.
It's a
thing that
you're
also
the
idea.
The
idea
never
we can
find
if the
only
that we
know
is what
we
we're
we
do
the
life
I think
you
can't
you
can't
you
think
you
you
can't
do
because
we
we're
in the
life
is the
response
to
a
question
not
because
I'm
here,
but
I'm
why
Not we're here only for
To alimentar our gocentrism.
Not we're only here
To see what I can
We're here, so I'm here,
so I see what we can
Give, how we can
help us to help us to others, how we can
Influing positively. So when a person
is what I can't, what is
what I can do?
Then, then it's
to find out his sense
Because the
sense, never we're going to
find in the world
of the egocentrism.
never we'll
we're going to
in the world
of I'm
I'm going
I'm trying
my sense
no
is there's
there's much
people
that's
much people
that's
that's
suffer because
no
has a
capacity
or his
necessities
or
their necessities
of their
relationships
or anything
what you
what you
can't
do you
what you
do you do
look
you know
to tell
one
a story
that
I think
is a
really
precious. A young
periodist
go to Bombay
see what there
and he
create
an organization
that's
called Sonrisas of Bombay
to get
children of the prostitution
and give us
a, one
a
life honorable
to
people
that extraordinary
submitted to
those abuses.
And one
one of
I asked
Jauma, he's called Jauma Sanjornetta.
He said, Jauma,
for these
these little
sonn't, they're trying?
You know what I'm
asked? He said,
because is the only
that they're not
to offer you?
You think a person
that is capable,
that no has
nothing, and
still you don't
he's the only
that has the only
that has?
You think
he's not
has been
his purpose?
So, I
think
that many of our
aches, sufferments,
and dolences
disappearers if
we'd have less
egocentrism
and us
focusar us a
little in what we can't
we can't
do that.
We'll imagine
that the
purpose is
more connected
then with what
they're in
great traditions
that's the
service.
Absolutely.
Of course
the
the form
more beautiful
of the
leadership is
what's the
servant leadership
leadership,
how what I do
do you do,
I mean,
I'm also
comment that
you know,
you know the
purpose,
you know,
when you import
more illuminar
to bring.
A to all
us doesn't
do you
even the
does,
even the
doesn't,
but it's,
if you
do,
it's in
what
the
matter
you know,
and
what is what
you
do you
know,
or
bright,
when
when there
a patient
to your
consult,
Pablo,
I'm
convinced
that
to you
what
more you important is
to help her
superar
his situation
in that moment
of suffering,
or what
that's
what most
you know,
is that
is that
is a matter
that's a
difference.
So when
a person
really
really,
we're really,
that we're
that we're
we're
here to
be able,
then it's
very difficult,
for me
is inconceivable,
not
have connected
yeah
with your
The purpose.
The people say, but how do I do, but how I do?
I, I, I, I, I, I, I've resolved the problem with the Ikigai.
I think you, you can be a tool for that people to find your purpose?
Well, the Ikai, like, many elements of the tradition of Japanese is
is full of, it's a, the, ishavenu, the kinsui, the wabi, the wavisabi,
There are montones of traditions
orientals of
a suburbality
yeah,
we're about
we need to
understand
one of
a thing,
we're
we're
we're
solutions rapid
and contundents
to great
desafios.
Digame
how I'm
so I'm
how I
think I'm
my
purpose.
So when
a person
you say
that the
things
little,
echats
of form
grand,
they're
to get a
place
to get a
more
more complicated,
it has to be
something more
sophisticated,
it has
something more
more
a lot of
it's
not so
not
so.
Because when
you do
you do
things
little
but
you put
the
carzone
in what
you
do,
you're
you
you're
going
going
to
the
game
Something,
something very sophisticated,
very complicated,
for,
you know,
that's a
do you know.
I'll put
an example.
This is a
story,
for the
question,
I don't
me last in
those stories that
are very,
are very
coloried,
me of
those are
real,
and if a
story not
real,
I'm going to
a,
I'm going to
a fulahua.
This is
a woman
in the
state,
this is what
did
in the
States,
was a
woman
diabetic
a,
and a
with a over-pessor
very important
mother solterra
with a little bit of a
eight years
and the endocrinologist
he was being
loco
intentating
controlling the diabetes
of this woman
but no
there was a
because he had a
certain
so every
that was
every that
he was
she said
she's
she know
not I'm
putting
controlling
your diabetes
you have
you have you
a sedentarism
tremendous
you don't
you know
you don't
No, there's a way to control a diabetes, for more medication that you use,
if you don't have one hour of exercise at day.
All the other times, I say to the woman, doctor, no time, I'm a mother solterer,
I have to work, to work, I, to care.
No, I can't, no put.
A good day, with the endocrinologist, there was a psychologist.
And then, he went the lady, for the control for part of endocrino.
And the endocrinologist,
he's,
he said,
the
She said
She's been
being very difficult,
you can
have got to
an oputation of
a miener
with a
with a
pampo,
it has to
do a
hour of
the
She said the
no
I can
and then
the psychologist
and then
he said,
oh yeah,
how?
Yes, see,
a minute?
You could do exercise physical a minute?
And I said, but a minute, you know, no.
No, you'd say, but no.
You'd have a minute?
You'd have a little bit?
You'd say, if you'd have a bicycle static?
You'd say, during a single minute,
every day to do exercise physical?
Yeah, well, a minute, so.
What is the story?
The story is that this woman
started, a minute.
One minute of time.
That minute is it became in two minutes.
Three minutes.
Four minutes.
This woman
started to
go to
control the diabetes.
A little
a little.
Passito
a passito
is very
very long.
But no
we're
in it.
