Dr. Mario Alonso Puig - El Arte de Conectar

Episode Date: March 26, 2024

Cuando dos seres humanos conectan y cuando yo me siento visto de una manera en la que veo que confían en mi, percibo que me ven como alguien valioso y que me llegan a apreciar a pesar de lo poco que me conocen, en ese momento la magia de la comunicación florece y despega. La verdadera comunicación no es el arte de hablar, es el Arte de escuchar, el arte de conectar. Es el arte de descubrir qué hay mas allá. Ojalá este podcast te haya gustado y pueda convertirse en una inspiración a la hora de despertar y florecer tu verdadero potencial. Página Web: https://marioalonsopuig.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marioalonsopuig/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarioAlonsoPuigOficial Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MarioAlonsoPuigOficial

Today, we know, without that when you connect with a human, when you help you to bea valioso, care, apreciated, capable,

intelligent, they are mobilizing a lot of hormones in the two persons even in the that he observes with an effect very

very beneficial in the health. Tremendamently beneficial in the This is a podcast for all those people that want to think in grand, and live in great.

I'm the doctor, Mario Alonso Puch, I'm going to be with me this adventure of this adventure of discovery and the development. Solo,

maybe I get before, but we're we're going to get us much more less. Welcome. What is important is the level of

compromise that you have in the A bit, damas that are here, how have you been embarrassed once? I'll have been able to have the man always. There you'll be able to be. There's a little. Let's see. The embarazzo is digital or analogical?

It's complicated. It's a bit complicated to say, well, no, I see. Digital is, black, and negro, analogic, is... Medi to. Conceivis a woman that you're a person that's, you're going to be? This is it. This is analogic, is digital?

Is this or not you're? Comprehendido? Well, the compromise is equal. Estas or not you're? The compromise is like the water. Let's see. Questions fastly. That are the only things that are

that are. Let's see. Let's see. No, in mountain. A level of the water. The water herbe at 80

degrees? No. And at 85? I'm going to the web. in the CENTENI-D-5 Tampo

And I'm 95 T'n't T'n't And yeah 99 Case But

Tampo If you observe the water 99 You see that the water

When when starts to produce vapor At the Fian The

Vapor can move Even the matter Most Mucin' Mucin' M'A'

in a grader. It's a injustice. It's what is. It's what there. It's what there. If you're going to get the water yearba less grads, you're going to a mountain. But at the level of the mar, yerb is the temperate. It's to say, that if you don't are really, compromatida, if you don't take the resolution, I go to 100 grados in the communication, Every time that you caigas,

the tendency to to move to your zone comfort is being a much intense. But if you're really compromissed, every that you get you,

what you do? It's all the and the end. And this has a application neurocientifica not beautiful, precious.

It's another level. It's another level. Look, what you're in rojo, in seida,

appears the system limbic or Cerebro Emotional. The Cereve Emotional is who manned, who manned our life. For example, you're going to a car, that no you need, by the way. You get to a scaparate, and it's a little bit, and the thing also you've seen it, you see it, and you see, and you know,

notice something. And you, you say, you're, that's, you're so, you're a little bit more. what beautiful but no no I need to but not it's

much car then you you're just you're very car I'm no no no

I need so you start and you and say and if he's he'll have

notar this so you and you're that you're you're

that you're you you're you you're you I'm

I'm you I need I was I So I was, who's the Cerebr Emotional.

And we know that is so. But the Cereve Emotional Manda, first, because it's very anterior to the Cerebrocognitiv, to the Cerebraceous. When you're passionate, appassionate, appassionate for better your communication,

because you say, this is crucial, not only in my life, but in the life of other beings that I, who are a gift, could transmit that and that this and that this is to be able to other

beings to live with more a lot of that's a life that does sense. Salgas in the

the periodics, in the television, no, it's no more than that

so. Well, beautiful, and this is one of my master is Antonio Damasio

of the most he has worked, when the system limbick

is active from the enthusiasm, the Confianza, the illusion, the

the ganas to discover activate the part anterior of the Cerebrum the the case and

the help you help you find the those comos. And then it's like if you've

made a transplant of the because you've things that you you've

a new you're where you say how's how it's to be

improvising this to me this improvising not because you have resources that only

are you coming when you can't do you can't be when you anticipas the better only if

you move you attract resources the resources they're to get to when you you're paris and you

have to prepare me to keep to keep to be to be ready to prepare to

until that is sufficiently prepared. And then, need to be a little more of preparation. Preparete. And one of course, put it in march. Becerrault, they'll have to be resources. But, of course, you have to be it's to be a front-frontal. It's that's active a little more. Why is it?

Why is it that when a person's a lot of the morning with good an and that's one to say that the things are to say that

the things they're I'm a ronco-celebrar, one of my great passions. And there are two columns that contain the system reticular, activator, ascendent, that what does is to look at least that you are considering relevant in your life. Who is a lot of the morning,

thinking that the world is a murder, Necessita to find justifications. What is if they're if they're seeing, He does he's found. But that he's up until the world has his desacios, but there are many

things more more than things fias. Vaya that's encountered. At final, we've been in universes parallel.

Each one elige the universe in the which is that the person that look with the things

no has no t' difficulty. The difference is that the first, when when it's when it's

when when it's when it's the horizon how difficult is when you

get a looking when you know the communications and sentiments the famous

florero where you can see the cup or two rosters

tend to not to not see the world

the woman this not for that so when

you pass to you is for that's for a time.

No there I think they can craspar more, irritate more to

a person that's that's that's you're like you look at this

not that's not the this is this for favor that

one so you say you there a moment of

suffering of the there is there there there

there there also to that they they're that they're

that they're so So the world of the sentiments and the communication has an enormous importance. And I'll tell you a story that is real, like the one of the two protagonists. This, this, it's true. Bank of Privada.

You know, you know, that's the part of a bank that normally has accounts with people from a million of euros, or something. And and, and, one thing, a thing that I I learned, all what

what occur in unesper to convert in a resource,

not in a source of irritation. Imagine us that this moment sonar

the mobile. The sound of the mobile, no, Pum, and you start you

start, and you start, this call of the mobile not that

our person does that being sending not sending us

not we know to a resource. All because

will be inesperated and if you confronts and is inesperated, you're going to put tense, if you're going to to lose your naturality. Well, then let's talk to what he passed to this person. Travajabba in a bank, is a young,

who enters in a department of bank private, of a hospital, I'm a hospital, of a bank, private, department of bank private, and then he,

he, in a rato of a coffee, He, he, he, he says a conversation between two persons with a lot of seniority and the bank, the bank private, about the experience

that they had been with the millionaire Borodde. This is this this chico, prested attention, he came to get a story

is the next. The story is the people who have much money, but the people who have much money, normally, you know, normally,

you know, they're in someone is a little-conocid, that seems to have much money of a

form legal tend to go to go to look at and they're the story of one of

these possible clients that's they're that they're much money and

they're they're the department of the private the commercial

to be they they're so so he the secretary of this

senior of this millionaire that if we're we're the

representatives of the bank private we we're not to

know to offer to our services, there would possibility to visit him. A moment it, I'll be to consult get to the secretary, and he says, yes, he's that he's very much,

he's saying, well, this, for the minute, there's been that there's to be that there, because if no, me, that no, you know, yeah no, it's not interested. Then, van, these two to be, they receive, and he's treated, the millionario to these two, so bad,

that these are completely disconcerted. They're at these concerted. They say, well, what's happened? So, they're going, and in the way, they're going to, what, what, has passed? We know, we're saying that. And it's, and it's

so, there's no, there's been to have been, between medias, some type of problem, to this man, he's got by surprise, just we've got to us and it's it's a paged with us.

We'll have to pass a mese-cito, we'll never to try to try and the explanation. Total, they'll, they'll just go, they'll call the same secretary,

look at the same, we're saying, we're saying, we're doing with Mr. Tal, well, that you know didn't get to

any other little bit more to be a moment, that would be a moment, that will be that's very

to receive them, encantado, total, they're, they're, they're, so,

so, then they're completely discologated, saying, this is a normal, is a

disequilibrated is a board that's a border with a board but this no he does it

to convert in a board so they they're they're they're they're

talking about the this this child he came to get and they asked

and they they're the story the story that I've got to the

so the little in the so I'm because there's a bit

a bit of a bit of a pina no I'm I'm

a every border. I mean, to know him. To make the ball crevca, he said, what interesting. I'd like to visit him. They said, you? You're a recent-y-law. You don't have, no, any flowers,

that's a level more low, any flowers. You said, you, why do you want to you? He's, no, because it's that me result curious, curious. Here, no, there's a thing of experience. You don't see any of any this is a word, it's a thing possible.

Total. No, he facilitated at the telephone, but the man, he was a man, he was committed. He found the telephone. And he he calls to the secretary. Yes, look,

I'm saying the bank of yes, see, came other people before before and the

sir, and the sir, and the sir, yes, so, I,

could I mean, I'm going to let me I'm going to ask, yeah, yeah,

he's, he, he's he's very, so I'm so, then the

child and the The millionaire, Fa, f, fa, fa, fah,

paw, paw, po, po. When taramina, the child he

has a question, no he's the time, is the easy,

is the easy, it's the immediate, a border. When no

you know you know the it's a question. So, the

child after the He said, you would me permit to do a question? He said, the millionaire, he said, a question? If he said, he's curious.

His anteriors came to tell me the bond-dardes of your bank. Nobody quissue to ask me a question. Me sorrented that you want to do a question, but well, yeah that me quen a question, do, make me ask me a. The question that he did was the What's the next,

what's has been this bank in the past? This

not is any question. It's direct to the heart.

Tush. Then the millionaire that's put un- miscal

and said, curious the question that you do you

I'm to ask I was a I was a

you you said since many many years of

I was an agricultur that arabe the earth with wetties you're I'm yeah

I'm I'm going but to be able to work to be a base of a

amount of money sufficient to buy me a tracito of

the that was there I'm contiguous to me but

it was it was to allow with buees and

then I'm in I'm I'm a tractor I went to his bank

and I I said Beer a young No is that no me They're not that they're How much they're The humiliation That I've experimented

And now, Now, that I'm Multimillionary Me heard of you, Multimillionary Now, they're going to present me

your attention. The young could have done something that's very natural in the human

to be I'm like I'm like I'm like said, like you say water

no he's recit all the recital the the recital

the he said, he complained he I'm I'm I'm

I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm I don't say

one thing. In the name of the bank, I'll I'm that I'm not much words, not much complagity but just what I had to

say. The young he went to and the millionaire he was a young sientee, we're going to

talk. The millionaire is he's made client of the bank with the only condition

of that that any type of operation financier, any type of contact, had to be a time of this child. There are times that we think that because we have much years or much experience, we're the best communicators. But the veradder communication,

at least, as I know the art of talking, is the art of listening, is the art of connectar, is the art of discovering that there is more all the two beings connect them

and when I I'm seen I'm seen by you I'm in a way in the way I feel you

see you perceive that me be you see you see you get to appreciate even

I can't me know in that the magic of the communication florece

the magic is just just to say you I'm here because, now I've got 61 years, being a young-cito, I read a book that if I was about the history of the medicine

from the point of the view of the science medical, the evolution of the science, the evolution of the technology to help to be humans and sorens to make. But I'm here because I've the suer in that book, a a hoja

where I said that the medicos grigues ago they've been discovered

that the more that the other other thing the art medical

the art to curate to the words today we're without that when

you connectas with a human when you you do you

do you do you appreciate and that they're they're

mobilized a lot of hormones in the two persons, even in the the case, with an effect very beneficial in the health, tremendously beneficial in the health. For you to see an idea, a person

that's an infarct, a infarting, a heart heart cerebral, when she feels accompanied, the possibility of the damage is a position of the infection a little. It's I mean, and with this I'm going to

believe in you're in your potential, be you as as people that are that you are a

thing you need to go and focus us in how to share that you're so we're

we're we're just we're the life, like my dear dear Maria of Billiota

is a I'm a good. Oh,ha, this podcast you have liked and could convert in an inspiration at the hour of to display and make flower your

your real potential.