Dr. Mario Alonso Puig - ¿Se puede cambiar de verdad? La respuesta te sorprenderá

Episode Date: October 28, 2025

¿Alguna vez has sentido que cambiar es imposible o que ya eres “así” para siempre? En esta conversación con Ana Romero, exploramos juntos cómo el verdadero cambio comienza cuando dejamos de juzgarnos y aprendemos a mirar con comprensión lo que somos. Reflexionamos sobre cómo al aceptar lo que consideramos “malo” puede convertirse en una puerta hacia la transformación y la serenidad.Hablamos también del don, el propósito y el sentido, y de cómo descubrir aquello que nos da plenitud al ayudar a los demás. Creo profundamente que cada persona tiene dentro un talento que, al ponerse al servicio de otros, se convierte en fuente de propósito.Deseo que esta conversación te inspire a mirar dentro de ti.¿Estás realizando algún cambio importante en tu vida?🌐⁠⁠Página Web⁠⁠📷⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠▶️⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠📲⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🎟️⁠Entradas a la nueva conferencia 2025

We have to have, from the point of view, a point of view, a bit of precaution with the word mal. Because the word malo, you have to, in our mind, that there is something that's where it would be something that's a dainous in their own own own

naturalness. It's because, many times the proper language now we have to reject to say the

bad or automatically we're not quite that's that's strange discordant dysfunctional

we can explore with a more curiosity and we we can find

we're more efficient to not to not to not to do

not to destroy so but to to try under I'm

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well, count us a little that that experience to that's

that's can be can be well. Well, for me I was a person

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and the good, and the way, and to try to trycender.

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thing to to be the first to try to do you and accept the malo because of

that way I see I can change. Me past with me and me pass with the other

is there there are people that for what it we are not we're in the

same we're maybe in the to alas or think in

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don't like that I'm not is accept them and

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change fundamental not is apart there's there's just there are people that are people and I'm

to find out of the part good that they're that's that's me has really,

to live to live I think with more calm the acceptation we

get us we're we're a reality because affect the perception and then

it affects the relationship that it from the point of view a bit of a precaution

with the word malo. Because the the word malo yeah is in a

way registering in our mind that there is a that is something that is a

danyino in their own own and the important is the relation. So I I'd

I'd I'd that when you when you see a something that you

do you do you explore is that from a perspective different,

this is this not is contributing to my felicity, not is contributing to the

other people not contribute to my health, is doing a conduct that I

don't do you and then I prefer I like other things.

Mintas that is strange discordante dysfunctional we can

we can explore with more curiosity and we can

find can find more efficient to to super

not to be to be to destroy, but to be to doxend, and to say, superar. Very well. So, you get a moment in the way

that you get a possible, you're going to change the perspective from the way you're going to the person, and as a

consequence, that change a perspective, it's a lot of many times we know, we're not we're not we

know we're seeing that we're fission to look at a, to look at the same place, and

Very well. So, you're in that that Joseph Campbell called the name of the heroe, Homres,

women, disposed to connect to their greater grandness and to recorrent that way

that's the know to the uncoco and that always does a certain fear. Well,

and what question you want that we explore we? My question, Mario,

to continue advancing and evolution in that the question, is to

what is my a very grand don, to so can help me and

help tommas. What is, what is my purpose in the life? We're not we need to between

don, proposito and because we get us all in the same packet and it's the

same. They're very connected to even there's a distinction fundamental.

A don is a talent that you receive not, it's a talent

that you canas. It's a talent that you receive. For example, there are cantants of opera that is indudable that they had a don. For more that he said that Mozart, he had a father that was a music, nace in a time in the, in that the music was important, to me that no me don't me

they'd say that no I don't someone who with six years to talk about perfectly the violin.

So the don't exist and exists in all the human. It's a talent that you can

make the things of a way that you never consider you a don

because for you is the normal. So that is the don. The

purpose is the the discovery of for what I

do I in this world? for what Anna has been to this world?

Anna not is the result of a process of a arsaroso that of that would

be a no. Anna has had been a mission for with a

for the world not is the not is the not or

without Anna or not no know no that's the

that the sense is the the lecture the

that you do the things for example I can

imagineate that is a good and apparently he's just I'm an impresentable but in however a

person is my my better opportunity to develop the empathy and the compassion

that is the sense so it's so we makelamos as it is the not

so what is what is your question for the Don, for the

purpose, or for the sense, is to say, what is my talent natural?

That would be the don? Second, for what I'm in this life?

Serial the how I'm a mind a mind a profound

to not to not , I'm, I, I'm, I, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, and, and, I'm, and, and, and, when it does

you do a sensation special of plenitude when

I do when I do when I know

that I know that I've been with people

of my people or with my family I

know or so they they have that they have brought

calm Anna, how How much about to have calm, serenity, a path

interior in moments of difficulties how? How do? It's important. Much. Much.

How do important that a patient that is going to enter in a operation

very complex can find to someone that he can do have

so, it has has a moment, a person is passing for a moment economic, difficult,

a moment family, difficult, encounter a person, to really to have a little

more peace, interior, a major sanity. It's important. It's a important. Much. Well,

then, then, then, you notice that when you know, tranquillizes to the

people in certain things, your heart's your heart. Well,

what, you, you, you're a purpose. Your don. What is your talent? I think it

doesn't no, it doesn't nothing to hear. I think I'm I'm

because I listen I like that me say I think I think I think

I'm with a great interest. I think that I don't see

that would be the category of the well for me

is evident when when we have You've been before talking a

Rathito and apart that I've done the fact that we've coincided you're

in other this is a real name. This is a don't important or not it?

It's a don't important. You it's a important, right? Because it's

natural for you. Michael Phelps had a defect in the person that has

the person that has a lot of their don't to know to know.

who would have said when it was a for that's one of the reasons for those that's

that's that's never we're never the don. So, to have

the capacity the talent to be a sure of serenity

to me to me personally me personally I do but deprimed

an evil so if your don If your don is that capacity natural to serenize to serenar to others,

to serenar to other people at the time. And you're sceptively full and plen when you see that that generates an impact in the life of the other now is very easy

to answer to the third question. What is the And is that the And is that you have described Andes

there was There was a point in the I etiquette to the people

and like as well and now what I do is to look

what that is this is the sense you you're you

you're you're you because because you know because you know

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you're saying you're you're in a profession where you're asesoring to the

people in things delicados you you know the capacity to when

today no he doesn't he and you know because it's a don

you know you Number two, result that when that when that's in the you know, you know

not only the impact on the other person but your heart and so experimented plenitude

and on since you've started the journey of the you

you're you're you're you're that that that to not

to get with the appearance not to get with the conduct, no to get to

the form but not to enter in the fond. You are conscious of the good you

do you do you don't know I'm a totally conscientient but I think it's

important to be and if you were more conscientious you

see your work actual from your perspective? Yes.

Look you know, you know I've been six years

as a surgeon. The surgery is a profession with an enormous base scientific and an extraordinary base technique. Sin embargo,

that is sufficient to reduce the anxiety of a patient that will enter in a gyrofano. The capacity to get to empathize, to transmitir the serenity, is not in the process

of the surgery and in the post-operatorio. If a surgeon not cre that his only mission is to take a cabo an actuation technical, is a part

more beautiful. To you say to ask you a question, if you now observe your profession actual and

you addes to what you do you do you do you do you what we're doing together

and you're that I this is that I'm this is that I'm adding my don,

that is the capacity to hear the and the serenity that I transmit I'm on the I'm

doing my purpose my for what I'm I'm here I'm here to reduce the

anxiety of the world whose levels of rosas the

indescriptive and on and even looking from this perspective

profound I can be being the better what there are in the other.

You what you're doing not simply, between commas, because what you do do you're not simple. Not you're doing only an

asseromient. You're still doing a case also a soundion. That's a job a level

radically different. Radical different? Because when you're going with one of your clients, not only

you're doing professionally you're you're you're because a person that

is an person that's a person that a person that's a person that's the person

the people the people the people the world they're like they like they're like a

presentable what's what can't do you have a thing for you this? Much.

What do you know? What do you know you know that something? Notas that I'm

doing other other thing Dearys, I think this is a thing is a reflection for all,

for me. The reflection of that you do you do you not you think the grand

transformation is that in that you can be not but you know, that you

addas that you do you do you what you humaniza that is

what you do