Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee - #109 Discover the Joy of Movement with Dr Kelly McGonigal
Episode Date: April 21, 2020One of the positives I’m seeing during the current lockdown is many people’s renewed appreciation for getting out, active and connected. Having to stay home is making us really value that small wi...ndow in our days when we can step outside to exercise, interact with nature and say a (distanced) hello to people we pass on the street or in the park. For that reason, I think you’re going to love listening to my guest on this week’s podcast. Kelly McGonigal is a US research psychologist, a lecturer at Stanford University and an author. Kelly and I talk about the importance of music for movement, and how moving with others can improve social connections and foster a sense of support and community. We discuss how going beyond what you think you’re capable of – whether that’s an endurance event, lifting heavy weights or taking on an epic hike in nature – can provide a spiritual experience that changes the brain in positive ways. If doesn’t have to be hard, though. Kelly explains how even the simplest of movements provide an immediate reset for your mood and brain chemistry. And she shares ground-breaking new research that shows how repeatedly contracting any muscles, through continuous exercise, releases antidepressant substances called myokines that scientists have dubbed ‘hope molecules’. Whether you’re someone who wants to move more but isn’t sure where to start – or you’re already a confirmed fitness fanatic – I think you’ll find this conversation uplifting. Show notes available at https://drchatterjee.com/109 Follow me on instagram.com/drchatterjee/ Follow me on facebook.com/DrChatterjee/ Follow me on twitter.com/drchatterjeeuk DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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So when you listen to music that you enjoy, it activates the motor system of the brain
and it gives you this rush of dopamine and adrenaline and activates the whole motor
circuit. It's basically an invitation to move and it's one of the reasons why people love
listening to music because it's as energizing as if you were actually to get up and start moving
around. Hi, my name is Rangan Chatterjee. Welcome to Feel Better, Live More.
Hey guys, how are you all doing? Here we are at episode 109 of the podcast. And today's
conversation is a really good one and it's all about movement and why movement is essential
for our brains, our bodies and our
relationships. Now, it's actually quite fitting that I'm recording this intro right now as I
have literally just come back from a 30-minute gentle jog in the sun. Now, before I left,
I was feeling a little bit sluggish, a little cluttered in my mind and lacking a bit of motivation. And since I've returned,
I feel completely different. I feel energised, my mood has improved and I feel fired up and ready
to crack on with the day. And I guess in many ways, that is what many of us experience when we move.
And we've heard over and over again how important movement is for our physical health,
but actually in so many ways, I think we have undersold movement. In today's conversation,
you are going to hear some things about movement which you quite possibly have never heard before.
I think it's going to completely reframe movement in your mind and help you realize
why moving your body each day is essential.
You see, movement is fundamental to who we are as human beings. And one of the positives I'm
seeing during the current lockdown is that many people, myself included, have a renewed appreciation
for getting outside and moving their bodies. Having to stay home is making many of us really
value that small window in our days
when we can step outside to exercise, interact with nature,
and say a distant hello to people we pass on the street or in the park.
And for that reason, I think you're going to love listening to my guest on the podcast today.
It is none other than Kelly McGonigal.
Kelly is a Stanford psychologist, has one of the
most viewed TED Talks of all time, and is the author of multiple international bestsellers,
including her new book, The Joy of Movement. Now, today's conversation was recorded before
the pandemic started, but I really feel that the content was relevant then, it's relevant now,
and it's always going to be relevant in the future. Kelly and I talk about the importance
of music for movement and how moving with others can improve social connections and foster a sense
of support and community. We discuss how going beyond what you think you're capable of, whether
that's an endurance event, lifting heavy
weights, or taking on an epic hike in nature, can provide a spiritual experience that changes the
brain in positive ways. But we also emphasize that movement does not have to be hard. Kelly
explains how even the simplest of movements provide an immediate reset for your mood and your brain chemistry. And she shares
groundbreaking new research that shows how repeatedly contracting any muscle through
continuous exercise releases antidepressant substances called myokines that scientists
have dubbed hope molecules. Whether you're someone who wants to move more but isn't sure where to start or
you're already a confirmed fitness fanatic, I think you'll find this conversation really
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Now, on to today's conversation.
So Kelly, welcome to the podcast.
Thank you so much.
I have been so excited to get you on the show.
I think I first came across your work with your TED Talk.
When was that now?
2013. 2013, yeah. So I think that's when I first came across your work with your TED Talk. When was that now? 2013.
2013, yeah. So I think that's when I first came across you. So what, almost seven years ago now.
And then when I heard you had a new book out, I was super excited. Now,
it wasn't the book I expected that I was going to get from you.
What did you expect?
I don't think I expected anything really, but I guess I'm used to your work on stress
and willpower. But I've heard you say that this is the book that you've always wanted to write.
Yeah. It's so funny because I had written a bunch of other books and my editor said this
was the first book that I was really in because movement is so important to me. I feel like it's
almost a love letter and it's the
first book I've written where I even like I'm willing to tell stories about myself and I hope
that my love and my passion comes through. I feel like, you know, I've always written books that
aim to help some sort of suffering in the world through the lens of psychological science. But
this is the book that really, when I think about the one thing
that has supported me throughout my life, it's been exercise and movement and the community I
found through it and the way that it supports my psychological wellbeing. So in a way, this is the
book I've always wanted to write because I feel like it's sort of the story of how I found a way
to support my own mental health. Yeah. I think you can tell that when you read it.
I'm not finished it completely yet,
but I love what I've read so far.
Before we sort of tap into it,
because I think there are so many angles we could take.
It's such a comprehensive book.
Just a bit of context.
You've come down here to LA,
where we're currently recording this
but you're heading back to Stanford aren't you you're teaching this afternoon yes so for people
who are not familiar with your work um you know you lecture at Stanford so maybe could you expand
a little bit on that yeah I have a weird position so I'm a lecturer at Stanford I teach in the
business school I also teach um through continuing studies I'm a psychologist by training a researcher.
And so I have this academic side, people who know my own scientific research.
I've looked at how people can strengthen compassion and empathy and what the benefits of that are.
And then I have this whole other side career where I teach movement and dance.
So the class that I'm flying back to teach is actually a dance fitness class.
And I've been teaching group exercise since I was a graduate student at Stanford.
And so I basically never gave up either side of my work, the academic and the movement.
Yeah, it's pretty cool how you managed to combine all of it together. It does sound like a dream
career for many people. Talking about movement, obviously you're away from home at the moment.
I think you stayed
in LA last night. So given the movement is such a big part of your life, what sort of movement
have you done since you came to LA? Oh my gosh, this is great. The last 24 hours, first of all,
my hotel has a Peloton bike and I never did Peloton until I started going on book tour.
And so many of the people who interviewed me when we were talking about what's a form of movement that you love or what's a form of movement that makes you feel amazing,
so many people were talking about Peloton. So I got to do a ride last night in my hotel,
and it was amazing. And I get it. It's like the music completely drives the experience.
I also got to take a ballet class this morning right before our interview,
and we did a little bit of swan-like choreography. I was so in over my head, but you know, I thought I'm here in LA. Why not do a movement form that's
out of my comfort zone and get a little bit of that feeling of the grace and the beauty.
Yeah. Wow. That's inspiring to see what you've done since you got here.
What about you? You've been here a little bit longer, right?
Well, what about me? So I arrived, I flew on Saturday. So I got to LA on Saturday night.
I didn't sleep very well first night. I think I woke up at about 2am.
But I am actually, well, how do I phrase this? I've come off the back of one of my book tours
in the UK. And the first interview I gave, no, the second interview I gave was on something
called the Chris Evans Breakfast Show. It was a very big and influential show. And we were
chatting about the podcast, we were chatting about the book. And then right at the end of
this half hour segment, Chris and his team challenged me to do the London Marathon.
And at that time, I think it was 12 or 14 weeks away. Right. So I accepted that challenge
on air. You know, there's nothing like being asked in front of two and a half, three million people,
if you're going to do something. But then I sort of went into a month or two of just craziness
where I was on the road. I had a few family issues to take care of and I couldn't train.
And I, whenever I tried to
run, I couldn't get must 1k without my hamstring going. And so I've been seeing people, I've been
seeing two amazing people, Gary Ward and Helen Hall, who are helping me with my biomechanics
and something is unlocked in the last seven or 10 days. So I got it yesterday and I walked for 15k
on the beach. So I didn't I didn't um you know I just thought
look help me with jet lag or get me out and so just between Santa Monica and Venice I was just
did you get to see all the LA marathon runners I saw I saw a bit of them I saw a lot of them when
they finished actually yeah my hotel was right across from the finish line so part of my joy
of movement on this trip was I got to stand outside and cheer on because I got in late all
the people who were
finishing at like six hours, seven hours. And those are like the hardcore people because they're the
ones out there the longest, like not the professional athletes. So that was really fun.
Did they look exhausted?
Yes. And what was so great. Okay. So in the book, one of the stories that I tell is about how
music can help you power through when things are difficult, both in movement and
in life. And one of the stories that I loved was a story about a runner. He's like 76. He runs every
New York City Marathon. And one of his most memorable moments was he had hit a wall and
someone had leaned out of their apartment window with a boombox playing the theme from Rocky.
And literally I was standing there cheering people on and you see these people, they're actually being supported by the race staff.
So there are people who like maybe have gotten injured or sick and they're already wearing
their little thing to keep them warm.
And they're being sort of walked through the finish line by support staff.
And somebody leans out their apartment window with their phone and they're playing the Rocky
theme song to cheer people on.
And I was like, I'm so glad I was here for this.
Yeah, I mean, that's incredible.
And I'll tell you what that reminds me of.
So on the plane over on Saturday, so London to LA flights.
And like towards the end of the flight, I was like, okay,
like I just want to watch something mindless now.
So I put on the, you know, the screen I was flicking through
and there was a film I was in, it was Creed II.
I thought, you know what?
I don't want anything intense.
I just want a bit of switch off.
So I put it on.
So I used to love the Rocky films as a kid.
And it's really interesting about halfway through
or maybe two thirds in,
you know, before the final fight,
the Rocky theme tune comes on.
You know, and it's- Oh yeah, I'm from Philly, I know it.
Hey, and I'm listening and I'm sitting there just watching it, feeling tired.
And I want to get up and move.
Like, and it does, it's something evocative that it sort of reminds you of,
for me, it reminds me of being a kid or a teenager watching Rocky films.
And then you'd see
Rocky go and train before the big fight. And so what is going on there? I mean, you mentioned
music and the concepts of that chap trying to finish the marathon. You've done a bit of movement
around music this morning in ballet, and I'm sitting on a train feeling, a plane feeling tired,
and I hear the Rocky theme tune, and I want to get up and move. So what's going on there? I know. I'm so glad we're starting with music. So when you
listen to music that you enjoy, it activates the motor system of the brain and it gives you this
rush of dopamine and adrenaline and activates the whole motor circuit. It's basically an invitation
to move. And it's one of the reasons why people love listening to music because it's as energizing
as if you were actually to get up and start moving around. And also we have all of these
emotional associations with music. So music activates the motor system and movement and
also our emotional memory system. So any song you listen to that you have these positive
associations with is starting to pull those memories out and helping
you relive them. And I feel like one of the greatest gifts we can give to ourselves is to
actually move in pleasurable or meaningful ways to songs that we love so that when we need that
extra boost that you can actually put it on your phone, listen to it, make it like a walk-on song
so you can walk into a meeting and you have that embodied memory of, you know, I danced to that song at my wedding,
or I trained to that song. Like we all deserve a walk-on song.
Yeah. And I guess-
Or a wake-up song if you're on an airplane.
So should we all move to music? I mean, is that, if music,
I think the way you put it is beautiful,
that music is an invitation to move.
I think what a lovely take on music.
It's an invitation to move.
I've heard you say that before,
and I really sat with that to think,
yeah, it really is, isn't it?
Because no matter what that music is,
it can be fast, it can be slow,
but it does something to you. You move in a slightly
different way when you hear it. Well, so Oliver Sacks says, when we listen to music, we listen
with our muscles. And Aristotle said that when you listen to music, the quality of the music
enters your soul. And I feel like both of those are evident when you look at what happens in the
brain when we listen to music, that it is activating our emotional systems and our movement systems. And like the question, so should we all move to music?
One of the things, one of my favorite stories in the music chapter in the book was
a man who has a young daughter and he talked about how his daughter loves dance parties.
And she's always asking him to dance with her and she'll pull out her little play phone and be like, more, more.
And he talks about how he'll dance with her in the aisle at Target and play Shake It Off
by Taylor Swift.
And they'll be dancing in the aisles.
And he talks about how the joy that he feels in that moment and the memories that he knows
he's going to cherish.
And I feel like that's true.
There's a reason that around the world,
every culture puts music and movement at the heart of its most meaningful traditions
and celebrations. I mean, we dance to come together, we make music in order to empower
ourselves. And I feel like the entire book, each chapter is focused on a sort of a core human capacity to experience joy and how movement helps us access it and even amplify it.
So I think like, you know, it's in human nature to enjoy making music and to enjoy listening to music.
And movement amplifies the joy that we get, whether we are making music or participating in music or, you know, lip syncing to music. And I think it's
just one example of how movement often, like it taps into something that's a key part of what it
means to be human and allows us to experience and express that particular joy. Yeah, for sure.
Hearing that story reminds me of a patient I had. It was, well, it was two patients. It was a 16-year-old girl and a 42-year-old
mother who were struggling to lose weight. And they, you know, they'd come in a few times and
it was really interesting. They seemed to have, but if there was a bit of disharmony in their
relationship, you could tell she'd reported it to me privately as well. They tried all kinds of things to lose weight and they weren't really getting anywhere. They're very frustrated.
And I noticed that the daughter always had earbuds hanging out when she came in. I think
like it's mom dragging her in. And I can't remember what t-shirt she had, but it was always
of a band. And I thought, okay, this is interesting. What if we try and prescribe something? And I hate
the word prescribe in that context, if I'm honest, around movement and music. So I prescribed for
them five minutes of dancing. I said, hey, like maybe when you come back from school, before you
do anything, as soon as you guys come home, you dance for five minutes together on whatever tunes
you want. And it was incredible because there was a sort of ripple effect from that.
They weren't engaged, had relationship problems.
Just those five minutes of dancing together every day
very quickly transformed their relationship.
They're then dancing for 10 or 15 minutes.
It's something they really look forward to.
They're bonding.
Then they start cooking healthy meals together.
And it leads to
this ripple effect, this cascade effect. Upward spiral.
Upward spiral, yeah. And that all started with music.
Can we break this down? So I love this story because there's so much science behind the
brilliance of that prescription. So first of all, we know that when you move to music,
it changes how you interpret the physical sensations of movement. So one reason that people think they don't like to exercise,
I mean, they don't like it, they don't enjoy it, is they don't like the sensations of their heart
rate increasing or sweating, breathing, maybe struggling to breathe a little bit. And we know
that if you interpret those physical sensations as I'm out of shape, I'm too old, this isn't for me, it creates this actual negative cascade where then you think I don't want to do this and you have a negative memory of the exercise experience.
maybe the lyrics motivate you. Or it's someone like Lizzo, who is just like the embodiment of female power and joy, that it changes how you interpret those sensations. So suddenly you might
be thinking, my heart is pounding. And you start to think, that's what happens when I'm having fun.
Or this is a sign that I'm getting stronger. And that feeling of sweat starts to feel like
evidence of expressing your power and using your
energy. And that actually changes the way people remember the exercise experience too. So if you
move to music that you like, you're more likely to remember the experience as being empowering
and enjoyable, and you're more likely to do it again. So that's sort of one thing that's great
about your prescription. But also we know that when you move with other people, the endorphins and the endocannabinoids that get released,
they're actually bonding hormones. So people who move with other people tend to like them more
and trust them more. And it creates this kind of social connection. It makes it easier to
connect with people. It makes it easier to resolve conflict. So if you want to strengthen a relationship with someone, moving with them is one of the
best ways to do that.
It just primes your neurochemistry to be able to have an easier rapport and connection.
And again, like you said, so much of this is an upward spiral.
I mean, there's research showing that if you exercise, you have better interactions with
other people for the whole next 24 hours.
And part of it is brain chemistry. And part of it is how it changes your mindset and how it makes
you feel about yourself. But, you know, I love this idea that you could take a small dose of
movement, something that feels accessible and fun and meaningful, and that it could have all
of these ripple effects that you described. Yeah. And I think making it small and accessible is really key, right? Because, you know, I've been a medical doctor for almost
20 years now. And so, and this fundamentally is something I really wanted to talk to you about
today is the way we talk about movement in society has conventionally been around, you know, burning off energy,
burning off calories. It's good for your physical health. I mean, it's very one-dimensional narrative.
Yeah. It's punishment for enjoying life. That's how a lot of people think about it. Like, oh,
I indulged, so now I have to repent. Yeah. You mentioned punishment, but even the vernacular
around movement, I'm going to kill myself in the gym. You know,, but even the vernacular around movement,
I'm going to kill myself in the gym. You know, what does that mean? You know, we've sort of,
I don't think we have realized the implications of talking about movement in this way has had,
because some people will say, you know, it's just not for me exercise. It's just not for me movement.
I mean, what would you say to people who say that? And mindset, you know, influences so much of how we experience
something. So I describe movement as using your body to engage with life. And I think of whether
you are, you call it movement or you call it exercise, it's really about finding an activity
that allows you to engage with life the way that you want to. So maybe you love how it feels when
you go for a walk in nature, or you love how it feels when you run and you feel fast and free,
and you can sense your own persistence. Or you love how it feels to move and flow in tai chi or
yoga, or have dance parties in your living room with your kid. And that you use your body to
engage with life, to express different aspects of your human nature, to connect with other people.
And if you're experiencing movement instead as a punishment for something you ate or an investment in your future well-being that is not connected to something you actually enjoy, it just sets people up to, first of all, find an activity that they hate. I mean, if people are obsessed with looking at their watch and seeing like these calorie counters or, you know, counting how many steps they've taken,
it's very easy to miss how powerful you feel when you lift something heavy or how much fun it is to
high five someone after you do an exercise or, you know, go for a run. So I think we need a total
mindset reset about what movement is and why we do it so that people first of all are more likely to
choose something that actually connects them to joy and meaning and also so that we we can sort
of escape the voices in the head that often come up when you come to exercise from a place of shame
or fear that's so common yeah it's really common um i thought a lot about fitness trackers over the
past few years and my view on them has sort of
changed and it does from day to day because I kind of see them a little bit like blood pressure
monitors in the sense that some patients say, hey, doctor, shall I buy a blood pressure monitor?
And for some of them, it's the best thing in the world because they check it once a week.
They use it as a way to, you know, nudge them in the right direction. If the blood pressure is going up, they'll say,
oh, you know what? I need to get back on track with my lifestyle. Whereas other people will buy
it and check it two, three times a day, stress out every time it's a little change and it almost
becomes paralyzing. And I'm interested in your view. I guess for me, fitness trackers can
potentially be a very similar thing. I do feel more and more that we have become so obsessed with what's on our wrist
or what's on our phone that we've lost connection with what the movement is. Now, I totally accept
for some people it can be motivating. They're like, ah, you know what? I've only got 6,000
steps today. I want to hit 10,000 a day. That's going to motivate me to go out. So I think it's
about finding the balance somewhere. And I guess for different people, the balance is somewhere
different, but what's your view on these trackers? Yeah. So I'm a big fan of, you need to conduct an
experiment on yourself. So I'm always encouraging people to think about what their goal is and what
their values are. And like, is this something that supports you in doing what is important to you? I think
fitness trackers are often a first start for people. You know, I have a friend recently,
they're trying to motivate someone in the family to move more. So they all got one together so that
they could support this one person. I like that idea of it. There's a story in my book about a
woman who wanted to become active after experiencing a devastating
loss. And so her husband gave her a Fitbit for Christmas and she said, okay, I'm going to do
this. I'm going to embrace life and start moving forward. And that helped her feel like she was
making some progress. And then she found a running group and it was actually the community support of
the running group that helped her get to the next stage of moving through her grief. But the Fitbit was the first start. So I
feel like, you know, for a lot of people it's worth experimenting with, but I really agree with this
idea that if you get obsessed with metrics, you might not be paying attention to your direct
experience. And I think paying attention to your direct experience gives you so much
feedback about, for example, when you move, do you feel better afterwards? That is a really great
metric that your counter is not going to be able to tell you. But when you found the ideal form
of movement for you, you shouldn't have to recover psychologically from it. You should feel set up to
walk into your home or your next meeting with a sense of,
I feel more energized. I feel more optimistic. I'm like a best version of myself. And, you know,
there's no fitness tracker that's going to tell you that, but you can check in with how you feel.
Yeah. It's almost as if at the end of the run or the race or whatever, like there's such an
obsession with, okay, you know, what, what happened? What was my heart rate? What was this?
We're actually in that moment where we could be tapping into our hearts and how we're feeling. We can be distracted by these other
metrics that frankly, we can check later as well. And maybe, maybe the take home might be for some
of us is when we finish that particular movement, maybe sit with it for a minute or two. Just,
just, just how do you feel? You can check the metrics later if that's something that
means a lot to you, but maybe
don't do it straight away, potentially.
You know, I never liked telling people what they should be doing.
It's about just having, hopefully, you know, sharing ideas that may or may not resonate.
Is it, is it helping you experience movement in a way that you enjoy?
And is it helping you stay active?
And, you know, people, everything,
I feel like everything about the science
is an experiment that you conduct on yourself.
I mean, actually the research suggests
that probably trackers aren't that effective
at motivating people,
but it does for some people.
It does for some.
It really does.
But that's inherently the problem.
I wouldn't say the problem,
but that is what we see with research all the time,
right, isn't it?
We look at these gross conclusions,
these simplifications.
And it's always an average
and there's always a distribution.
And who knows, you might be the outlier.
Yeah, and if you're someone listening to this right now,
you might go, hold on a minute.
I get what you're saying, Kelly,
or what you're saying wrong.
But ultimately, this fitness tracker on my wrist
is the only thing that has got me off the sofa.
And now I run it every other day and I love it.
And the tracker made me do that and helps me do it.
Fine.
Yeah.
You mentioned a running group.
Have you heard of something called Park Run?
Yes, of course.
Is it big here in the States?
You know, I don't know because so many of the people,
so I write about Good Gym in the book.
And a lot of people who are participants in Good Gym
also are big fans of Park Run.
So that's how I've heard it come up quite a bit from people who are running. Parkrun is, it's almost like an epidemic in the
UK at the moment. It's a good epidemic. It's growing rapidly. And I actually interviewed
the CEO of Parkrun on this podcast maybe a year ago. And what was really interesting is that he said, he said, Ranga, the thing about Parkrun is that Parkrun is a social intervention masquerading as a running event.
I know. I love it. I feel the same way about the classes that I teach.
That people show up thinking they're showing up for a workout and then they have a positive experience of belonging and connection.
And as I've heard from people who are part of these
running groups too, that they can become a real source of social support. I mean,
you know, there's so many important dimensions of social community. They're your close relationships,
you know, your partnerships in life, your family. But it's so important to have social relationships
that are a little bit casual, but where you know you can show up and belong, where people are happy to see you. And when you're having a bad day, they give
you just that level of support where it's okay to be who you are and there are people who care.
And it's amazing how much movement facilitates that level of connection where you're sort of
allowed to be who you are. When things are difficult,
people support you in this kind of easy way
that we sometimes don't find in our close relationships
where, you know, things get very complicated.
And so, you know, I think that Parkrun is a great example of that.
Good Gym is a great example of that.
And, you know, here in the US,
you see that a lot with CrossFit gyms and group exercise classes. Yeah. Parkrun has transformed
my weekends and my family's weekends. You know, my son first noticed some runners in the local park,
maybe three, four years back, said, Daddy, what are they doing? You know, why they've all got
these things on and stuff. And, you know, that's how we got into parkrun. And we started as in the UK on
Saturdays is the adult parkrun, which is a 5k run. And on the Sundays in some areas, they have
a kid's parkrun, which is a 2k run. So I think since my son was five, we've been doing the 2k
run, which, you know, they would walk at first and they run, but now he does the adult one every
Saturday. Even on Saturday, I think he did it while I was flying. He actually does run which you know they would walk at first and they run but now he does the adult one every saturday even on saturday i think he did it while i was flying he actually does it
you know with with someone else because under the age of 11 you can't do it without a responsible
adult with you but what it's done is not only that fitness it's it helps us feel part of the
local community right and i know i've heard you on a previous podcast, you mentioned values. You mentioned one of your values has been recently, I think, to engage with your local
community. Now, there's many ways you can engage with a local community, but movement is such a
beautiful way to do it because I've noticed with my kids, because they see the same people every
week, they bump into the same people in the supermarkets. That's just,
it helps you feel that, you know, in this increasingly disconnected and isolated world,
it brings people together. And, you know, one of the thesis, one of the ideas,
one of the central ideas in your book that I'm getting as I read it is this idea that moving together with other people helps us to
cooperate and feel part of that. And that's incredible. That's a different narrative or
movement than what we're conventionally being told. I know. And it's such a needed medicine
in our world right now, that kind of belonging and community. I think one of the reasons why
movement and things like Park Run or things like my dance classes help people experience that is movement often asks us
to be the best version of ourselves and also good friends to other human beings. So you go for a run
and it's just so natural to cheer other people on. Like if you finish first to
support other people in finishing, it's so natural to receive that support. It's like an easier place
to allow yourself to be congratulated and supported. We get to practice these kinds of
rituals of just like easy human interdependence, which just can be sometimes a little bit different
than sometimes team sports. I know there's in the US, there's a lot of concern about people getting so competitive with it and it bringing out maybe the
worst side of parents or kids. But in things like runs and ninja warrior training and all these
other places where people are experiencing connection, it's because you're asked to do
things that are a little bit hard. And then when you do it, people, people congratulate you and see your strength and you get to do that for others. And there's
this kind of bigger than self effort and bigger than self joy that people experience. That is,
some psychologists call it a sense of we agency. Like you get together and you're doing something
and you experience a sense of self that literally transcends
the borders of your skin and your body, you feel connected to almost like a community is like an
organism in itself. I mean, we could get into the neuroscience of this, but literally if you're
running in a pack or you're in a dance class and you're moving in sync with other people,
you're in a dance class and you're moving in sync with other people, your brain starts to expand its sense of awareness so that you literally can, like the people you see running in stride with
you or the people you see moving in a dance class with you, your brain is like, that's happening at
the same time that my brain is saying run or stretch your arm. And it just starts to assume
I'm part of something bigger, an organism that's all moving as one. And it just starts to assume I'm part of something bigger,
an organism that's all moving as one. And it creates this amazing sense of self-transcendence.
It's incredible that you're a trained scientist and we can, and we will go into the neuroscience
of what's going on when we move. But there's another
narrative at play here, isn't there? There's an almost non-scientific, almost spiritual narrative.
And I find that incredibly fascinating, the science and the spirituality together,
because I think we all know that for people who do move, you know, before we started,
you were saying that this is a love letter, isn't it? This is your
book and it's going to help people who have experienced joy and improvements of their mental
health when they move. It's going to help them go, yeah, this is why it happens. And you know,
I feel that as well. But there's, you know, I spoke to someone called Sanjay Rawal on this
podcast. In fact, last time I was in LA, I interviewed him here.
I think you'd love that podcast, actually. He was the director on a film called 3100s,
where it's this race in New York, right? Central New York, where they run.
Oh, yes. I think the New Yorker wrote an article about this. Okay, yes. I'm familiar with this.
Yeah. And it was just incredible. And these guys move around like a one mile block in New York city and they do it for about 50, 60 days. They're running like over
a marathon a day. And it's just incredible because it's about, it is about self-transcendence. It's
about, it's about movement, I think, as a way of bringing people together. Movement as a way of,
you know, becoming greater than your individuality and I sort of feel
I don't know is this why movements and running and endurance events why they're
they're growing and they're becoming more and more popular all around the world are have we become
a disconnected isolated society where actually we are discovering more and more now that when we push ourselves
outside our comfort zone and we do, let's say an endurance event, or we go out and challenge our
bodies, it's actually having benefits for us far beyond the physical benefits, but there's mental
and emotional benefits as well. Absolutely. You know, so, oh gosh, there's so much I want to say
about this. Let me just backtrack for a second. So you mentioned I'm a scientist.
And one of the things that I want to communicate is that for me, science and spirituality are
not in opposition.
So if you were to look at my early work, I did a lot of work looking at yoga and my research
on meditation and sort of what's happening in your body and brain and what the benefits
of that are.
And I feel like it's not that we need science to prove things that we can directly experience,
but sometimes the science can also help us feel that sense of awe and wonder.
Like when I understand that my muscles are sending proteins into my bloodstream that act
to give my brain hope when they cross the blood-brain barrier, I experience a sense of
awe and wonder that
actually feels almost spiritual.
So I feel like one of my goals is actually to help people to have almost like a religious
experience around the neuroscience too.
It's phenomenal what humans are capable of.
But so this idea that maybe people are experiencing in their current state of isolation or alienation and despair, the need to come together to move or to do these ultra endurance events, I think that's definitely true.
And one of the things that I didn't realize until I started talking to so many people is that intensity actually matters.
So one of the things that you will hear when people are being encouraged to exercise initially is you only have to do a minute.
And it's true.
There's like no dose that's too small to get physical mental health benefits.
You could do as close to nothing.
As soon as you take a breath, as soon as you take a single squat, everything is good for you.
But there does seem to be like a dose response.
Everything is good for you.
But there does seem to be like a dose response. And for people who are dealing with mental health challenges, people who are dealing with a sense of isolation, sometimes doing things that are really hard seems to kick into gear what's happening in your brain and what happens in your sense of self and your ability to experience transcendence that you can experience
while doing a marathon or an ultra marathon that maybe you're not going to experience when you
first take that walk around the block. And I think that was a theme that really was revealed to me in
so many stories of people who have these amazing spiritual experiences, whether they're running an
ultra marathon or hiking in nature or the
first time they, you know, power lift. You know, there was one woman in the book who had a personal
best in a power lift. And he's like, that's hard. And she sensed her strength in such an amazing way.
This was someone who was dealing with severe depression and she decided not to take her own
life. She had a plan to take her own life. And she decided she wanted to live because of that kind of
spiritual and emotional experience of literally sensing a strength in herself she didn't know
she had. And so one of the things that I'm also, one of the messages I'm trying to give people is
don't be afraid of going beyond what you think you're capable of if there's any part of you.
So so many people I talk to for this book, they're like, oh, so the good news is we don't have to run a marathon.
Like you say, three minutes of exercise can boost your mood.
Yes, that is definitely true.
And also, you might want to run a marathon.
You might even want to run an ultra marathon to have these transcendent experiences.
And that's also an option.
Yeah, it's, there's so much about movement and how we talk about it because some people
will be listening and they'll be thinking, some people will be running while they're
listening to this, right?
And we go, yeah, this is why I run.
This is incredible.
You know, this is what I feel like after my run.
But there'll also be someone who might be listening to this while slumped on their sofa in the evening. And they
hear the words ultramarathon and they're thinking that that just doesn't connect with me in my life.
Like I am busy. I work two jobs. I'm exhausted. I come home and I just want to sit in front of the TV and unwind because life is tough.
So to that person who struggles to even go for a 20 minute walk every day,
what would you say to that person? Well, so first of all, I often will tell people,
pick a song you love because of the power of music and then do any sort of movement that
works for your body in this moment to the duration of a song you love, or a song that reminds you of someone that you love. And you do whatever movement feels accessible
and positive in this moment. And you know, people be like, well, what do you mean? Like,
do I have to do like exercises? You know what? Most people can figure out how to move their
bodies in ways that work for them in that moment. So it could be you stand up and stretch.
It could be that you just play. Maybe you shadow box. I mean, you know, the body has an intelligence.
Maybe, so somebody who didn't actually make it into the book, but someone who, someone's story
that I was really moved by was someone who literally had trouble standing because of his
health challenges. And he worked up to being able to walk the hallway of his apartment. And that was a big milestone. And then he worked his
way up to being able to leave his apartment and walk around the block. The thing is, there's
always a milestone that's within reach. And you can move with whatever parts of your body still
move. So in the book, I visited dance classes for people with Parkinson's disease, a gym for people with severe disabilities
and neurological disorders. No matter what is present in your body right now, I'm also someone
who deals with chronic pain. So I understand that there's a lot of, there can be a lot of things
going on inside of you, whether it's depression or grief or anxiety or pain,
that makes movement feel intimidating. And a lot of this is about self-trust,
that you don't need to listen to somebody else say you have to do a minimum of 20 minutes
or a minimum of an hour, or it has to be this hard. That if you set the intention to move your
body with gratitude for having connection to life, that often people can innovate their own early workouts,
and then you can go find a community that supports you if that's of interest to you.
Yeah, yeah, Kelly, I love that. I mean, there's so much of what you say, so much of what you write
about that deeply, deeply connects with me, and which I'm so excited to be talking to you,
deeply connects with me and which i'm so excited to be talking to you um that we've become you know i mentioned i didn't like the word prescription before in this context and i don't
and you know even the way we set up public health guidelines i get it right i understand we have to
give um broad recommendations to the population you must do 30 minutes of minimum you know moderate
though even isn't it
funny like everyone they keep changing the recommend i've been a fitness professional
for 20 years the recommendations are always changing and it seems like the recommendations
in part it's based on research and part it's like oh my gosh what can we get people to actually do
let's like change the recommendations maybe they'll do it if they know they only have to do
it in five to ten minute increments and it doesn't have to be all at once, maybe then they'll do it. And it's like, you know, I don't know.
Yeah, maybe fundamentally the guy, maybe.
Guidelines move. That's it. Whatever you can do, whatever you're willing to do.
Yeah. And as controversial as this potentially is, maybe guidelines
maybe might be part of the problem because we are making it too prescriptive, too didactic that
this is what we, the body, the public health body or the government say you should be doing each day,
right? Fundamentally, A, I don't think anyone likes to be told what to do long term, you know,
but B, I really love what you said. Like when I asked you, what will you say to that person who
doesn't
want to move or thinks it's not for them? Everyone likes me. There's always a song that somebody
likes on some level, right? It may not be your taste. It may not be my taste.
It might be nature, right? So there's so many movement. So the other thing I usually start
with a song, but there's some people who don't love to move to music. So think about something that you already love and then think of an
activity that allows you to do that. So if you love animals and maybe you don't have a pet,
you can't have a pet because of where you live or your circumstances, do you know how many animal
shelters will let you volunteer to take a dog for a walk or a run? Maybe there's a person you
want to spend time with. Maybe they love an activity
and you could choose to do it with them. Do you know how much that strengthens a relationship
when you endorse an activity that someone else loves and they feel like it's their best self
and you're like, okay, I'll go to that yoga class with you? There's a lot of ways to think about
who and what you already enjoy. And I think that rather than thinking of durations
and intensities, 30 minutes must be moderate. People don't even know what that means.
I think that we should view movement as being as essential to human survival as eating and sleeping.
You don't say, I'll do it like once on the weekend. It's part of how you live your life.
I'll do it like once on the weekend. It's part of how you live your life. And if you can find ways to make it part of your life so that it's not a chore, it's an activity you love. So maybe it's
part of your recreation or it's part of how you get about your life. You run errands by cycling
or walking, or it's how you connect with people in your life. If you're going to spend 20 minutes
with your partner or with your kid, why not make that a movement? Since we know that the neurochemistry of movement helps us bond
and connect with others. And I really think this idea that it's something that you're like shoving
into your life that's divorced from your life is one of the reasons people don't actually do it.
Yeah. Doing it with other people, I think is, is really fascinating because, you know, I hear that and I reflect on my own circumstances and what I have chosen to do with my family.
So if I take my kids, for example, I do park running with my son.
And it's one of the favorite things I do every week because we go out together and like, you know,
you know, we share that experience together.
And then, you know, we walk back afterwards
and we're chatting and it's, you know,
I know 10, 15 years down the line,
I look back on these things with real fond memories.
You know, it's a fun thing that we do together.
I have a fond memory of doing sweating to the oldies
in my living room with my mom.
Yeah.
And it was so funny because that was the only workout video she would do with me because it was songs from her youth.
Yeah.
But I cherish that memory.
Yeah.
And it's, you know, what's for me and my son, it started with that.
And then, you know, you mentioned endurance and, you know, conquering something you didn't think you could do. I did something called a swim run event last year for the first time. And I had never done
an endurance event prior to that. But, you know, I've been through this story before, so I don't
necessarily need to go through it all again. But it was a phenomenal experience for me, not least
because I had a panic attack in the water because I'd never swum in the ocean before in my life.
And I went into an event and did it for the first time, but I conquered it.
I finished it. And I'm not sure I've ever felt that good in my entire life to know that I was
scared. I was out in nature. I was in the ocean. I conquered it. I got through it and I finished.
It felt incredible. And then just a few months ago, my son and I, we flew to somewhere called
Malta and we did a swimrun event together. So we're now
experiencing that together. So we bond over that. Now, then I reflect and see, well, my daughter's
very different. She doesn't really, so far, she's not got into that stuff. And so what I do with her
often is I dance with her. So last weekend, my wife was away and I was cooking dinner. The kids
were out somewhere playing. And I, one of my favorite things to do now,
maybe it's a reflection of my age,
but I love when I'm in the kitchen by myself and I'm cooking dinner and I put music on.
I've got a CD player.
I'm very old school.
I've got a CD player in the kitchen.
And last weekend, I rediscovered a CD
that I hadn't heard in years.
So Red Hot Chili Peppers, Blood Sugar Sets Magic.
I'd not heard it in years.
I just thought, yeah, I'm going to listen to it. I put it on. I thought, this is great. I pumped the volume
up. And then my daughter comes in to like track four. And then we start rocking out and dancing
together. And we were bonding and connecting. And then we were, there was such fun and laughter
over the dinner table afterwards. And I think that is because of the movement prior to that.
Yeah. It's a form of social grooming. And one of the things I also want to recommend to anyone
listening who's thinking about this is how much we can connect over shared music. And so like
letting, if you're doing that with someone else saying like, what song should we put on next and
letting your kid choose it.
That's so empowering to them.
I mean, I mentioned like go to a class with, so if someone in your life, you know, loves yoga and they're always talking about it, go to it with them.
Not just to have a shared experience, but you are honoring something about them.
When you move with other people and you let them pick the playlist or the activity, you're like saying, I see you, I value you, I see this part of you.
And that's a really meaningful thing. But of course, there's all this research too, that moving together is like, you
know, when primates groom one another and we get that shared endorphin rush. And eating together
does the same thing too. So it's a great thing to put together. Yeah, for sure. And I really,
I can't stop thinking about that whole societal narrative piece, that whole
idea of prescribing movement, telling people what movement counts as part of their movements. And,
and, you know, as if it doesn't count as less, it's got a particular name, right? What do you
do? What, what, what, oh, oh, I do yoga or I do Pilates. Hold on a minute. Why do we have to
name it? Or it's, oh, I do spinning. It's like, well, there's nothing wrong with that, right? All three of those things are fantastic if that's what makes
you tick. But it's something I can't shake off at the moment. It's this thought that we've got
movement all wrong. We talk about it all wrong. We put people off. We make them think they have
to go to a gym at a particular time with a particular outfit on. When basically what you're
saying is it's a fundamental part to
be a human is to move. I think about it. I mean, even if you're thinking of movement as medicine,
so your quadriceps don't really care if you are squatting and lifting things because you're
gardening or you're squatting and lifting things in a gym because a coach is telling you do this
now. Your quadriceps just know, I need to exert strength.
I need to use energy. And any good that comes from that squat, whether it's changing your mood or
releasing these myokines that protect your health, it's going to happen because you're moving your
body. And your quadriceps aren't tracking, did you do it exactly 20 times for exactly this many
repetitions? Your body and your brain just know I'm engaging with life.
And like all the benefits that come from movement, it's about, it's about using energy,
using your muscles, using as much of your body as you can. And that's when your brain and body
reward you. And it is, we don't need some of this other stuff unless it lights you up.
Movement is life, isn't it? It's life because everything is movement. Breathing is
your diaphragm and your lungs moving. Talking, communicating is movement. Facial expressions
are movement. So actually every single person listening to this podcast right now practices
movement on a daily basis, whether they think they do or not, because talking, even pressing play on the
podcast app or on YouTube, you are moving to do that. So I guess. So think about expanding your
repertoire. So if you're someone who thinks you don't like exercise, well, you already know how
to move your arm, right? Just scroll through your phone. So, you know, exercise or movement is just,
okay, well, what's the full range of motion? And that's sort of what
we're meant to do. And again, that you can do it with whatever body you have. And one of the
experiences I had in researching the book that was really moving for me was going to this class
for people with Parkinson's disease, where every level of movement is impaired. And so we're used
to thinking of Parkinson's disease as it's harder to walk, or maybe there's
a tremor in my gestures.
But as it advances, one of the things you see is that it becomes harder to connect with
your face, that it becomes harder to make facial expressions that lets you know.
For example, it's harder for me to smile and connect so that you know I'm happy to see
you.
And one of the things I witnessed in this class is that in part it was the music
and then using your body in whatever degree you can, getting the motor system of the brain fired
up, getting that extra bit of dopamine was allowing people to also socially connect more powerfully.
So by the end of class, people who came in, it's sometimes called the mask of Parkinson's disease.
it's sometimes called the mask of Parkinson's disease.
They come in and people look like they're not there,
but they're there, but it's just they can't show it.
And by the end of the class,
people were able to shake hands and hug and express joy.
And that's actually how we ended the class.
Everyone, one at a time, was asked to express joy and give it to the group.
And then we all got to receive it.
We went around in a circle. And then we all got to receive it.
We went around in a circle.
And I think people sometimes underestimate how much when you move your body, you don't have to have Parkinson's disease for this to be true.
You are enhancing your capacity to engage with life in the ways that humans need to,
to connect and to have positive action in the world. And like,
like movement is that catalyst that whatever needs to happen in you, whether you need to find your
courage, movement can activate that. Whether you need to find hope, movement can activate that.
And it allows us to, to be present in every role and relationship that matters to us.
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Movement helps us engage with life. I love that because as a doctor, I see a lot of people who
are starting to disengage with life. People with mental health problems, people who really struggle with day-to-day things,
day-to-day activities. And in the book, you beautifully go through a lot of the research
around this, about how being sedentary in itself will make you low and depressed. And I think
there's a statistic, if I remember it right, that the amount of steps you
need to take on a daily basis in order to not get anxious or depressed or something like this is 5,649.
Yeah. So let me explain what the study is. So this was a study that took people who were a little bit
more active than your average American, not like super exercisers. I think they were averaging something like 9,000 steps a day when they started the study. And then they asked them
to reduce their daily step count to what is typical for the average American, so around 5,000,
and to not exercise. So if you have the chance to exercise on purpose, don't. And in this study,
after about a week of reducing your activity count to the average American, they actually only got to about whatever that number was you said.
It was just over 5,000.
88% of people were reporting symptoms of depression.
Nearly everyone had less energy, more anxiety, more stress.
They reported a 31% decrease in meaning in life.
And so the way that I take that study,
and there are other studies showing this too.
Can I just clarify?
So you're saying these are active people.
Relatively active people, yeah.
Okay, so they're roughly getting 9,000 steps a day.
When they go down to around 5,500.
Which actually is not just the American average,
that's pretty much the worldwide average.
So they go down and you're saying there was a stat,
I think you just mentioned 88% of them are feeling depressed.
Yes.
And then reporting a decrease in meaning in life and satisfaction with life.
And so this is fundamentally exactly what you're talking about.
Movement is engaging with life.
Stop moving and you start to disengage with life.
So I do think that that study suggests it's possible that the lifestyle
that is becoming more prevalent around the world is actually inducing depression and a decrease in satisfaction in life. I mean, we know we can
talk about why, but there are many reasons that when you become less active, you're changing your
metabolism, you're changing your brain chemistry, and you're changing your mood in such profound
ways that some people think there's a very large incidence
of depression that is caused simply from being sedentary.
That's not always gonna be the cause
and movement won't always be the cure.
But a certain amount of suffering in society
may actually be directly caused by the fact
that people are living such sedentary lives.
Yeah, I spoke to the researcher, Brendan Stubbs.
Yes, I love his work.
Yeah, I think it came out a few weeks ago.
People loved it because he spoke about a lot of the research
on movement and depression.
And a lack of movement can actually start to make some people,
and again, none of us are trying to say it covers everything,
but for some people, it's going to certainly make a difference.
And I think we kind of intuitively know that. If anyone's got kids, you will know this feeling.
In the UK, certainly if it's raining all weekend and the kids are inside and they start to play up
and their mood goes off, simply 10 minutes outside in the garden in the rain, and they're like
different people. But it's also how it changes your brain. So one of the things I write about in the book, I actually did some like self-diagnosis. So I found a lot of
research suggesting that there are genetic variants that predispose you both to depression and anxiety
as well as predispose you to experiencing the antidepressant effects of movement. So
you could basically have genetic risk factors for mental health challenges that make you especially susceptible to the mental health
benefits of exercise. So one study was looking at this particular SNP, this particular genetic
variant, that if you have it, you're something like three times more likely to experience
depression and suicidal thinking. But if you exercise for 30 minutes a day, it almost completely erases that
risk. And so I found a whole bunch of these genetic variants and I did my 23andMe test,
hacked my raw data because my husband is a medical scientist and he helped me out with this.
And I have every single genetic variant that is associated with both the increased risk and the
increased mental health benefit. And so I feel like sometimes when we talk about how exercise can be an antidepressant,
yeah, of course it's true that most people feel better when they exercise,
but also it's the case that you can be like me and be born with a temperament and this
vulnerability to experience mental health challenges, and exercise can change the
function of your brain, can change even the structure of your brain in ways that make you
more resilient. And if you are going through an episode of depression, that can help you recover
more quickly, and that even enhances your brain's ability to respond positively to things like
antidepressant medication or psychotherapy. We know that exercise,
it actually, it's like an additive, it's like a catalyst that increases your brain plasticity for anything that's good for you, whether it's a drug that you're taking for your mental health or
a therapist that you're seeing. And so I feel like there's, that's at a very deep level,
exercise is good for mental health. And I, one of the reasons I like to talk about this is because,
you know, for people who have that have that vulnerability or have that experience, when you're in it,
you don't want to move. When you're in it, your brain, it's such like almost a betrayal. If you're in the middle of a depressive episode or grief, your brain will not give you the immediate reward.
And so here we can be talking about an endorphin rush or the feel better effect. But if you're actually in a depressive episode or you're
grieving, it is very possible that your brain has forgotten how to give you an endorphin rush
from movement. And what I want so much for people to know is that that is true. And also movement
is one of the only things you can do that helps your brain remember how to experience reward and hope.
And sometimes you have to get through that part of the process where you are moving,
even though you don't want to. And even though you're like, brain, you were supposed to give
me an endorphin rush and I barely got through it. And to know that exercise has such a profound
impact on your brain in the longterm, that if you can get through that, your experience changes. You mentioned that genetic susceptibility and that you had all
of them when you looked at the data. Which didn't surprise me. I told my parents that,
and my mom was like, not surprised. Yeah, but what's interesting for me is that you are someone
who has had this very passionate relationship with movement, it sounds like your entire life.
Now I'm interested when that started,
but also I'm interested as to now knowing that genetic data,
do you think back on reflection
that you figured out at a young age,
when I move, I feel better.
And when I don't, I don't feel good.
And therefore that has shaped your behaviors
for the rest of your life, basically. Yes. So I'm sure now, if I were growing up now
and I was the child I was then, somebody would have thought to like send me to therapy.
But growing up, you know, I was born in the seventies, growing up late seventies, eighties,
kids weren't going to therapy, at least not where I lived. Nobody was being prescribed
mental health drugs. So it was sort of left to me to figure out what to do with a temperament.
I mean, from the time I was out of the womb, I was basically scared, anxious, fearful.
There was nothing to explain it except this is how my brain worked from the time I was born.
And also, I was not an athlete.
So one thing I've been saying lately, which is surprising people who know me now,
I actually was put in remedial gym class because I was so uncoordinated and slow. There were like
two of us who were pulled out of our normal class because we just couldn't keep up. I can't catch a
ball. It was humiliating actually at the time. And when I was seven or eight, you know, there was this wave of aerobics and calisthenics
and I discovered moving at home because my mom would go to these garage sales and buy workout
tapes and never do them. She was like, oh, I'm going to become an exerciser. And she never did,
but we would have these VHS tapes at home. And so I started doing calisthenics and aerobics at home and it was a totally different form of movement. So nobody
was throwing things at me. Nobody was timing how fast I could go. It was me keeping beat with music
and other people's bodies. And like, I fell in love with jazzercise and it was the first time
I didn't feel like my body was this like embarrassing burden that I was
dragging around unable to do the things that other kids could do and then over like years you know
started when I was seven or eight realizing how much it helped me deal with stress and anxiety
but I needed to find the movement that I could do too and like we're not all natural born runners
we're not all natural born athletes but We're not all natural born athletes,
but I do believe that there's something in everyone that can be captured, tapped into
by some form of movement. There's quite a few things, Kelly, I want to pick up on there.
You mentioned something that was quite humiliating. So at a young age, you know,
I'm just trying to imagine, you know, you're the kid who, let's say you're not getting put, you're not getting picked for the team because you're always the last one to get picked.
Or you're saying that you and somebody else got pulled out of class because you're not coordinating enough to continue with the rest of your peers.
That is, that is torture at that age, you know, to feel.
And I guess what I'm getting at is, is there a difference between men and women
in this? We've already mentioned the societal narrative around movement and how, you know,
if you can't do what your peers can do and you feel humiliated and you're not part of that group,
you might change your relationship with movement for the rest of your life.
There is research on this. Now, so the research now is looking at, you know, people like our age
and older, many of whom had traumatic experiences in gym class or PE. I don't know what it's like
in the UK now, but in the US actually it's not even required. There are schools now where you
don't necessarily have to even take gym or PE. So that you're not humiliated?
No, just because there's not funding funding it's like we don't have art
and music class everywhere also now um but i think there's also there's a big shift right now in
trying to create less humiliating and traumatizing experiences because this research shows that if
you were picked last if you have a memory of being shamed because of your body or any other reason
that you didn't fit in there's lots of reasons that kids have been humiliated in sports or gym classes, that it makes you want to avoid movement
and exercise for the rest of your life. So based on that, if you were to give advice to schools,
there's a lot of schools, had teachers and teachers who listen to this podcast.
schools there's a lot of schools had teachers and and teachers who listen to this podcast based upon that research then have you got any advice for them in terms of how they should frame
movement and talk about it and manage it at schools because you don't want to you don't
want to shape these kids the rest of their life you don't want to alter their relationship with
movement negatively if you can help it i mean and there are a lot of people doing this work by the
way i should say a lot of people trying to improve that gym class experience.
One thing is autonomy, that people should have choices to identify movements that help
them reduce stress and feel better and connect with others.
The most positive experiences I ever had in a gym class was when we were given permission
to just walk around and talk to our friends.
I got more activity doing that than when I was hiding on a field being like, cover me. I hope
the ball doesn't come to me because I don't know how to play the sport and I don't want to get
hurt. A weightlifting circuit, to be able to do it on your own and choose what you do and how you do it.
So to give people a sense of autonomy and to allow people to connect. And the other positive
experience I had, for whatever reason, one year, my last year in high school, the gym class
instructors decided to allow you to choose into what they called competitive or non-competitive.
And we were literally put in different rooms.
They like put the binders up like to close the rooms.
And if you opted into non-competitive,
everyone was agreeing,
we all aren't any good at this and we don't care
and we're going to find a way to make it fun.
And I realized that I could hit a volleyball
for the first time in my life
because I wasn't like hiding in the back
with the competitive players being like, don't let her touch the ball. She's going to drop it.
And it was such an amazing experience because none of us cared. And so we were able to play
in a different way. So I just think giving people choice, letting people opt into, are you the
athlete who wants to use this time to compete and get better and train? Or do you want to just have
fun with your friends? Or do you want to just like have fun with your friends?
Or do you want to be by yourself?
Could you let kids listen to music on their headphones and strength train and have that time for themselves?
Have it look more like what adults get to do
when they choose their own movement.
The reason I'm asking about men and women
is because there is, I can't remember the exact name.
I think the BBC in the UK have a movement like
This Girl Can. Oh yes, I've seen that. Yeah, there's some videos. I think Australia has that
too. Yeah, it's an awareness. And again, I don't know the exact roots of this. So my interpretation
of this is that there is a lot of people saying that women, that girls as they get older don't particularly,
you know, and this is a gross generalization,
are maybe too self-conscious to move.
They're not moving enough.
And it's a movement to try and encourage more girls,
more women to get moving.
Now, I think they're targeting this at women because it seems to be more of an issue with women
than guys.
Has any of your research come across
anything like that? And do you have any views on why that might be?
So you especially see this during adolescence and young adulthood when women experience their
bodies being objectified so much for the first time. I think of one of my friend's daughters
who stopped going for a run. She loved running and all of a sudden she hit adolescence
and she started getting catcalls and she didn't feel safe and she stopped running. So I think that
part of it is suddenly you realize that everyone has an opinion about your body. You go to the gym
and people will, you know, even praise can feel quite threatening and unwanted, or you'll get
negative comments from people.
And that sense of suddenly your body is an object that everyone is evaluating is, I think,
one of the things that keeps women from participating in all sorts of activities.
There definitely is a cultural movement, though, for women to embrace their strength, embrace their power, embrace their inner athlete or dancer, and to move in any way that feels
good.
embrace their inner athlete or dancer and to move in any way that feels good.
And I think that one of the things I often will talk to fitness professionals about is how important it is to design environments and communities so that if you're walking in for the
first time, you understand that you are welcomed and celebrated and not immediately objectified by
like, you know, let's take your before picture or, you know, let's take your measurements or the kind of things that can put people in that mindset of,
all right, my body is an object that's being evaluated as opposed to this is an opportunity
to experience my own strength. Yeah. I guess the more we talk and the more I think about what you're saying,
it's very hard not to shake off this idea that ultimately movement is very personal
and we cannot be, and it's not ideal to be prescribing the same form of movement to everyone
that ultimately we've all got to figure out that yes, it is what it means to be human is to move,
right? And therefore, if we haven't found
that type of movement yet that we love,
maybe we need to go on that search
for that type of movement that we love.
And trust that it could actually be meaningful.
I feel like so often people look
for the most convenient form of exercise.
Like I think there's a treadmill somewhere
in my office building and I'll go and put in my time.
But I sometimes ask people, if someone were to send you a video on YouTube,
what's the video of movement that you would actually watch and be inspired by? Do you want
to see people run an obstacle course? Do you want to see people cross a finish line? Do you want to
watch that choreography video? What is it that lights you up when you see
other people do it? And maybe even there's a voice in your head that says, I could never do that.
Like that's the activity to move toward because it can change how you feel about yourself and what
you believe is possible for your future. And again, to experiment and to listen to your direct
feedback and to follow any thread of joy.
I often will tell people who come to my classes for the first time,
like if you have a moment in this class where you were like, oh, I see what this could be,
like then this class is for you and come back because any movement form, this was so great.
Movement is like a, it's a mastery
and growth experience. We will pretty much always get better at it and we will always enjoy it more
the more we do it. You mentioned that people often do the kind of movements that they just
have access to. So there's a treadmill in the block and it's going, put in my time. Now,
isn't that an interesting phrase, put in my time? Because when I'm traveling, I don't really go to gyms much. It's just, A, I don't really have time,
and I found ways to move my body that doesn't require me to go to a gym.
But sometimes I'm in hotels and I will, you know, if I'm up early, I'll go to the hotel gym just to
see what's going on and maybe lift some weights, do something. And it's really interesting. You often see people in there who they look as though they're trying
to block out the fact that they're moving. It looks as though this is a tortuous process for me.
Someone's told me, or I feel I have to be on this treadmill for an hour. So I'm going to do
everything I can to numb that experience, whether it's read the newspaper,
watch the news, watch Netflix. Now, look, I am not being critical here. I'm just saying what I observe. And I guess sometimes we feel we need to block out the movements that like we feel we have
to move, but we hate it. So we block it out. Now I'm wondering, is there any research to show that
there's a difference?
Let's say you're on the treadmill and you're engaged with that and you are feeling, you know,
how you feel, you know, your limbs are moving and you know, how, you know, what's going on in your
brain and you're sort of processing your emotions versus blocking it off completely. So you're
numbing that experience. Does that movement do something different from the body
in those two different examples? Yeah. So there's such a thing as positive
dissociation during exercise. And for some people, it's actually really important. So one of the
things we know is that your brain changes when you go from being inactive to active,
that it changes in ways that makes movement not only easier, but more pleasurable. So when people first start to exercise, it often is an aversive experience. It doesn't stay that
way for most people, but maybe you have to go six weeks of doing regular activity for your brain to
start to really reward you for it. So in that time, positive dissociation can be really helpful.
That's different than watching the news and getting angry or scrolling
through and answering emails. That's where something like music can come into play or
watching something really exciting on Netflix. And there's research suggesting that if you can
combine movement with something you love that is engaging, that it can actually help you stick to
movement, have a more positive memory of it. But ultimately,
if you can experience a state of flow in movement, that's more rewarding for most people. And it can
take some time to find that, but that requires paying some attention to what you're feeling in
your body, using it as information to guide your effort, enjoying sensations of feedback from your
muscles and your joints and your heart that
tell you, you know, I'm alive and I'm doing this. And this is how it feels to lift something heavy
or to exert myself in this way. And often like that's how you know you found the right workout
for you where you can find a flow in it where you don't feel like you need to distract yourself from it.
Yeah. And you can find a flow in anything. It can be, there's no, it's not like you can only find it in some traditionally meditative experience like yoga or Tai Chi. People find their flow in
all sorts of movement forms. There's so much of it that's personality and so much about what your
body kind of was built for.
I talked to a lot of people who told me they thought they hated exercise until they found and then fill in the blank.
And maybe it was rowing or swimming.
Some people need to get in the water and they have a totally different experience of movement in their bodies.
Some people needed to get outdoors.
outdoors. And because of the way that nature changes your brain activity and your mood,
suddenly they can find a flow walking or jogging outdoors that they could never find on a treadmill.
And again, for me, it's music. Anything can become enjoyable if I have the right playlist.
We've used the terms movement and exercise a lot during this conversation so far.
Can we use those terms interchangeably or are they actually different things?
They do mean different things technically. I love the word exercise. I'm not scared of it. So movement is using your body to engage with life. It's almost everything, right? We talked about it.
Me talking right now is technically movement. Exercise is often defined as moving your body for the purpose
of the activity that you're doing. I am running because I want to run, not because someone is
chasing me. I am dancing because I want to dance, not because someone is paying me to perform on a
stage. I'm lifting heavy things because I want to lift heavy things, not because I'm moving
from one apartment to another and I have to lift heavy things. That's what exercise is. It's
movement that you are choosing to do for its own sake because of its meaning, its pleasure, or its
benefits to you. So I think too many people define exercise as forcing yourself to do movement you
don't want to do.
Yeah.
And like, that's not what it is.
Yeah, by that definition, exercise is not a helpful term.
But by your definition, it can be a very helpful term.
Yeah.
Do different forms of movement do different things?
And what I mean by that is,
we've got in the common vernacular a term, the runner's high, right?
So I know you've written about this.
I'd love to expand a bit on what that runner's
high is and why everyone might not feel it. But also, you know, I do like to run, but I also
sometimes like to lift heavy weights. And I know if I had done a heavy deadlift and as I'm walking
out of the gym, like, I don't know, you feel strong, you feel powerful. You feel like a different person walking out
than the person you felt like walking in.
So what is going on there?
What is changing in your body?
What is the runner's high?
What are these endorphins that everyone talks about?
Because as I read your book, Kelly,
I more and more feel that reducing movement down
to simply being about an endorphin high
is far too simplistic.
So one thing, so different forms of movement can affect your mood in two different ways.
You will get different changes in your brain chemistry based on what you're doing.
And also every movement form has its own qualities. So you talked about feeling strong
or powerful or confident,
and every movement form will bring something else out in you. And so part of how movement
makes you feel is what it is that it asks you to express. Are you expressing your determination,
your playfulness and creativity, your ability to cooperate with others? But the other part is
actually different movement forms
will lead to different changes in what's happening in your brain. So you mentioned the runner's high.
I call it a persistence high because it's a common effect in your brain when you get your
heart rate up a little bit and you're using your muscles to use energy for about 20 minutes at a
moderate intensity. And it really is about continuous
movement rather than about running specifically. It's just that running, because it's so continuous,
jogging actually is even a better way to get a runner's high than running.
It basically tells your brain, we're doing this. And so I need a payoff to help me continue doing
it. And you can get this basic high from anything that
puts your body in motion and you're willing to commit to it for about 20 minutes. And it's driven,
it seems to be driven not mostly by endorphins. To get a true endorphin rush from movement,
you typically need to add one of three things, more intensity, other people, or music. And if you add those,
you can get an endorphin rush from pretty much any type of movement. But the classic runner's
high is fueled by endocannabinoids, which as a brain chemical is different than endorphins in
a way that I think is really interesting. So we know that endorphins tend to basically block pain
and create euphoria, which is why,
by the way, with the right playlist or when you're moving with other people, that that
can really make you feel euphoric because that will really give you an endorphin rush
or pushing yourself to fatigue.
But endocannabinoids, what they do is whatever's going on in your brain that we would think
of as unpleasant, it starts to dampen it down.
So endocannabinoids are basically, they modulate other systems of the brain.
So if you've got pain, physical pain, if you've got stress, anxiety, anger, higher levels
of endocannabinoids are basically going to calm those things down in your brain.
And endocannabinoids also facilitate anything that is pleasurable.
So anything good that's happening, it's going to amp up.
And one of the things that it particularly seems to amp up is the pleasures of social
connection.
So when endocannabinoid levels are higher, everything that's pleasurable is more pleasurable,
but your story is more interesting.
Your jokes are funnier. If you give
me a high five, it's going to feel more satisfying. Or if you give me a hug, it's going to feel
better. Or if I'm able to help you, I'm going to get more of that helper's high, that warm glow.
And I think that's really interesting because, right, so endorphins make you feel really good.
It's like a high, but the runner's high is more about
sort of putting you into a brain state that allows you to be a good version of yourself
in community. And there's a lot of like anthropological speculation about why that
would be, but the idea is basically human beings, we are adapted to be physically active and cooperate in communities.
And as soon as you are moving your body and getting your heart rate up, your brain is like,
oh, right, we're hunting, we're foraging, we're gathering. And then we need to bring it back to
our tribe and we need to share with one another. And we need to feel good about the fact that I
just spent two hours out in the field gathering food and now I'm giving it away to other people so that they can eat. And that's what the runner's high is. It's a brain
state that allows you to sustain optimism and effort. And that makes you enjoy connecting with
other people even more. And this is why exercise is like the best reset you can do for yourself.
Because just imagine like every time you exercise, best reset you can do for yourself. Because just imagine like
every time you exercise, you're becoming that version of yourself. I mean, I'm blown away
listening to this, Kelly. It's putting a lot of the pieces together that people kind of
intuitively feel, but you're giving some of those mechanisms and some of the science behind why they
feel the way that they feel. You know, I love looking at things through an evolutionary lens and it makes sense when you
look at why would it cause these things in the body? Yeah, it would bring us together. It would
help us with our tribe, with our community. But one of my favorite bits in the book is when you
talk about the Hatsa tribe and what goes on and then how much they move per day and also how their elderly
tend to move. They tend to move more as they get older, I think I read.
Yeah. You continue to be an active part of your community. This is one of the last hunter-gatherer
societies. And I think the research is that they are moderately to vigorously active for a couple
hours a day. That's like that higher intensity activity.
And then another couple of hours of sort of lighter to moderate activity,
like walking around.
And, you know, the evolutionary idea is that this is how humans survived.
We were willing to exert ourselves because the climate changed
and humans had to do that in order to feed themselves. And we were willing to cooperate ourselves because the climate changed and humans had to do that in order to
feed themselves. And we were willing to cooperate and share. And one of the themes of the research
as I experienced it and in talking to people is that you really, they are so connected.
The rewards that we get from playing an active role in our lives, literally active, being engaged, exerting ourselves, pursuing meaningful goals, and the rewards that we get from connecting
with other people and being part of a community, they are so connected that it's one of the
reasons why people who are physically active are less lonely.
They have better relationships with other people.
There's something about being sedentary that makes it more difficult to be that version of ourselves
that thrives in community. And I don't mean, that sounds, I don't want to shame anyone who
doesn't exercise or feels like they can't for physical or mental health reasons. And yet at
the same time, I feel like it's really important to express this message that to whatever degree you can move your body, it makes you a different version of yourself
that it's not even just better for other people. It allows you to experience that core human joy
of interdependence. Yeah. I mean, Kelly, we've both written books on stress and we know very well
that exercise helps make us more resilient to stress. And you know, one of the things I loved
reading about in the book was how those areas of the brain that help us manage stress, the
prefrontal cortex, the amygdala, have got relatively high concentrations for endocannabinoids.
Yes. And oxytocin, which is something else that can get released from exercise.
Yeah. So, okay. So how exercise helps us with stress, it is both on that short term.
So if you're feeling stressed out, you're feeling anxious or angry, it's going to change your brain
chemistry in a way that gives you more hope and more energy. That's the common denominator. That's the feel better effect.
But also we know that people who are regularly active, it actually changes the structure and
the function of their brains in ways that basically teaches the brain how to be resilient
to stress and also more sensitive to joy. So you're going to have an
increased availability of dopamine and endocannabinoid and endorphin receptors. Your
brain is basically going to say, oh, I guess we can experience joy and meaning in life and hope
and optimism. So let's just be ready for it in a way that increases people's mood and joy in a much
more generalized way. But the one thing I wanted to
make sure we talk about, I mentioned it once, myokines, which I think is the most exciting
area of research in terms of how exercise affects stress resilience and mental health,
is this new observation. And forgive me, I don't know if you've talked about this on your podcast
yet, have you? No, I haven't. Okay, great. Let me be the one who gives the good news. So just in the last decade or so, biologists have realized
that our muscles are basically an endocrine organ. And just like your pituitary gland,
your adrenal glands, they can synthesize and pump out proteins and peptides into your bloodstream
that affect every system of your body. So your muscles will manufacture these proteins and peptides into your bloodstream that affect every system of your body.
So your muscles will manufacture these proteins and peptides, and they basically release them
into your bloodstream when you contract your muscles in a regular and continuous way. So
any form of exercise, any form of movement. And some of these proteins and these chemicals,
so they're called myokines, which just
means set into motion by your muscles. Some of them kill cancer cells. Some of them reduce
inflammation. Some of them are good for your immune function. They're good for your cardiovascular
health. Some of them help you regulate blood sugar. So a lot of scientists now think myokines
are the reason that exercise is good for your health and prevents
every kind of disease. It reduces your risk. I mean, we're all going to get something, but it
reduces your risk. But what I'm so fascinated by as a psychologist is some of these myokines
have their strongest effects on your brain. So let's say you go for a walk or you're lifting
weights and your muscles are pumping these chemicals out into your bloodstream that can cross your blood brain barrier.
And in your brain, their primary effect is to act as an antidepressant and to change the structure of your brain in ways that make you more resilient to stress.
Whether, you know, that's changes to your hippocampus or your prefrontal cortex.
And some of the first researchers who wrote about this called them hope molecules.
Because they're like, huh. But well,
in part it's for these horrible studies that I don't particularly endorse where you traumatize
rodents and then you either have them exercise or you literally inject them with some of these
myokines. And what you find is they don't become traumatized and depressed psychologically in the
way that they normally would if you traumatize them. And so they're like, huh, it's like your muscles are manufacturing hope molecules when you exercise.
And this to me is like the miracle of the human form. The idea that your muscles
can manufacture antidepressants and they will deliver them to your
brain when you exercise. And it's all of your muscles. So if you can't use your legs, you can
use your arms. If you can't use your arms, maybe you can brace your core. If you can move any
muscles, your muscles will release these chemicals that support your health and support your brain resilience. And it's something that you can
choose, even if you don't have access to other forms of mental health care. It's miraculous,
and that your muscles know how to do it. Yeah. I mean, it's incredible. I tell you what
pops into my head. I was thinking about elderly people who maybe are immobile and have sat down for a lot of the day
and maybe have lost their balance. I'm thinking, well, maybe they can have a couple of light
dumbbells next to their chair. And yeah, maybe their legs aren't working, but maybe if every day
they at some point, you know, for five, 10 minutes, just rock out a few bicep curls,
you're going to be releasing those myocardial, you're going to be getting those hope molecules,
you're going to be having all these changes to your mood, your physiology,
your inflammation. And the literal structure of your brain. I mean, you literally are building
a different brain. Yeah. So to really try and think about making this accessible to everyone,
even people who maybe are sedentary, might be able to do something like that to get some of
these benefits. And I think that's incredibly empowering for people. Yeah. And that, so, people who maybe are sedentary might be able to do something like that to get some of these
benefits. And I think that's incredibly empowering for people. Yeah. And that, so, you know, I've
been really curious about this because a lot of the early research was looking at higher intensity
exercise and athletes. And there does seem to be a bit of a dose response relationship where
anything you do is going to release these positive myokines, any form of
movement. When you go from zero to anything, this is why I think we know that people who move for
10 minutes a day have reduced risk of mortality. It's everything counts. And also the more you do,
the longer you do it and the harder it is, the more your muscles release myokines.
And I think this explains why a lot of people who are recovering from addiction, recovering from
depression, recovering from grief, recovering from stroke, because of how it enhances your
brain's ability to recover, many people find that actually intensity is like upping your dose of a
medicine that's really good for you.
And I feel like it's important to point both of those out because I can't tell you how many people
I spoke to who needed to find for themselves a certain level of intensity that was almost like
a switch was flipped in their psychological wellbeing. And so this is that, you know, in the great tradition of improv, it's yes, and.
Yes, do anything and it will help you.
And also, to the degree that you are choosing
to push to the level of intensity that challenges you,
you can really have dramatic changes
in your mental health and your brain health.
Yeah, incredible.
Really, really incredible. Kelly, I know you do have to get a flight shortly.
We have a bit of time and there's no way I could have a conversation with you and not talk about compassion. Oh, yes. So I know you've done a lot of research in this area. You studied it for a
while and compassion and kindness in general is something I think a lot about. I think about what is needed more today
than ever in the world is kindness. I feel we're missing it, we're lacking it. Social media seems
to allow people, seems to give people free reign to sort of be slightly anonymous and behave in a
way that we would never behave with people face to face. And as, you know,
I try and promote compassion and think that it's one of the most important things that we can,
if we want to be the change that is out there in the world, we need to start being compassionate
in all of our interactions. And I'm wondering how exercise plays into compassion because
we're a sedentary world now. We sit down all day.
We sit down on transport.
We don't need to move to get our food.
We can order food on our phones now.
You know, the way we're living as human beings
has changed fundamentally.
And if being sedentary can make us depressed and anxious,
well, can being sedentary also make us lacking in compassion and make us angry and make us want to attack people? And maybe movement, increasing our movement is going. So there are a lot of barriers to
compassion. First of all, is being the recipient of compassion and social safety. So when we talk
about the world becoming less compassionate, it's not because there's something like deeply broken
about individuals. We know that human beings have competing instincts. We have tremendous courage
and willingness to be kind and to help others. And also we have very strong instincts to protect
ourselves, to be wary of strangers, to avoid suffering and conflict. And so what compassion
often requires of us is to feel safe, to feel cared for, and to feel brave. And so one of the
ways that exercise can help us access our compassion and kindness is to give us experiences
of our own strength and courage. So for example, one of my longtime meditation teachers focuses on
compassion meditation, and I was so surprised
to find out that she does kickboxing.
You would think that's really strange.
She's a Zen meditation teacher, and she does kickboxing.
But she often talks about compassion is about active engagement with things that are difficult.
So what better way to tap into your own compassion instinct than to feel fierce and brave and strong and powerful and know how to use energy?
So sometimes exercise allows us to deepen our compassion just by allowing ourselves to trust ourselves, to be able to channel and harness energy, and also to feel more connected to others to the degree that movement gives you a community of belonging.
That movement changes your brain chemistry in ways that literally makes eye contact feel safer. Exercise can make it feel
easier to receive the help and kindness of others. I talked to a lot of people in this book who found
through movement the first place where it felt safe to acknowledge your own vulnerabilities and receive the help of others.
And when you can experience what it's like to receive the kindness of others, it also makes
you more willing to extend that to others. So it's very complicated in ways that I think are
almost always, and we started this conversation talking about an upward spiral. I think that
if you set the intention, if you say that my movement practice is part of how I want to cultivate deeper self-compassion and compassion, I'm not sure it will always do it. But if you have that as one of your intentions, there are so many ways that movement can support your desire to be a more compassionate force in the world.
to be a more compassionate force in the world. Yeah, Kelly, I love it. I wish we had another two hours to keep talking because, you know, there is just so much to tap into here. I think
you've written a wonderful book. I really do. I think, you know, I hope everyone listening to
this goes out and buys the book. I think it's brilliant. I think if you are someone who loves
to move, I think it's going to show you why. It's going to make you want to wax lyrical about it and tell more people. But I actually also believe that if you are someone who struggles
with movements, I actually do believe that by reading this book, it's going to help,
I think, inspire someone to go, hey, you know what? Maybe I've been looking at this all wrong.
Maybe actually I'm just going to start by putting on one of my favorite tunes and seeing how I want to move in the comfort of my own room with nobody watching. I'm just going
to get moving and see what kind of ripple effect, what kind of upward spiral might be able to start
in that individual's life. So I want to thank you for that, Kelly. I want to thank you for making
time to come see me today. Kelly, this podcast is called Feel Better, Live More, right? So when we feel better in
ourselves, we get more out of our lives. And you've very beautifully made the case that when we
move more, we're going to get more out of our lives. We've covered lots of different things
today, but I always love to lead, I always love to lead the listener with some really practical
tips, things that they can think about applying in their own life immediately, not next week, not next month, but immediately to start
transforming the way that they feel. So there are a lot of different kinds of people listening to
this podcast, but I wonder, have you got some pearls of wisdom to finish off this conversation?
Yeah. So if you are thinking about adding movement into your life, one thing I like people to think
about is that it is a reset. It's an immediate reset for your mood and your brain chemistry.
And so to think about when in your life you want to flip that switch and get a reset and set an
appointment for yourself to move. For me, because of my temperament, I wake up anxious. I don't
wake up like birds singing. I wake up,
I'm like, oh bleep, I have to get up and do this again. So for me, I exercise first thing in the
morning, even though I don't want to, because I know that that's a reset for me. And I really
encourage people to think, if you know that exercise is a reset, it's going to make you the
best version of yourself. Just start to think about putting any dose of movement
into that. Maybe it's the transition from work to home. So I spoke with a police officer who
trains other officers, and they actually do their most important exercise in the transition between
serving and going home because they want to leave behind some of the vigilance and intensity that
they need on the job to go home
to be with their family in a different way. So it's most important for them to exercise in that
transition so that they can go home and be more open in a way that they want to be with their
family. And for me, it's in the morning. So that's one thing I would think about.
Absolutely create a playlist to move to, unless you are like one of the 10% of people who just
aren't that moved by music, but most people are, and to put together a playlist that inspires you
to move. And the other thing I would say is so many people get an immediate benefit from moving
outdoors. If you are somebody who thinks you don't like to exercise, if there's any natural
environment where you feel safe in, and it doesn't have to be to exercise, if there's any natural environment where you feel
safe in, and it doesn't have to be the wilderness, it could be any green space. For me, my favorite
places outdoors are actually waterfronts in urban areas where I can see a skyline and the blue sky
and some ducks in the river or something. To spend time outdoors will often be the most powerful way
for people to immediately connect
to the psychological benefits of movement. Yeah. I love it, Kelly. Thank you so, so much.
Your favorite tracts of move to? Oh my gosh. There are too many.
If you have to choose one? Right now, I am loving Move Your Body by
Sea is one of my theme songs and Higher Love, the Whitney Houston remake.
Love it.
That's very popular right now.
Love it.
Well, what a great place to finish.
Kelly, if people want to stay in touch with you on social media, do you do social media?
And if so, where should they find you?
I'm on Instagram and Spotify.
I put all my playlists for my classes.
And there are some playlists inspired by the book.
So I'm Kelly Marie McGonigal on both Instagram and Spotify
and on Twitter and Facebook, Kelly McGonigal.
Fantastic.
And for people listening, for people watching on YouTube,
we will link to all of those links,
the Spotify playlist, which I can't wait to find myself.
I actually asked on social media,
the song you most want to move to.
And I have an amazing playlist
from people all over the world, all ages,
the songs they most want to move to. So if you're looking for inspiration, that's a great, great want to move to. And I have an amazing playlist from people all over the world, all ages, the songs they most want to move to. So if you're looking for inspiration,
that's a great, great playlist to go to. Oh, fantastic. I'm going to do that. And actually,
when this podcast comes out, maybe that's something we'll do on social media for that week
is actually ask people what is their song to move to. So that's a nice idea to bring people
together and start sharing their experiences. Kelly, safe journey back.
Thank you so much.
It's a brilliant book.
And I really hope we have the opportunity to have another conversation on this podcast
at some point in the future.
I want to come to the UK.
Do it.
That concludes today's episode of the podcast.
What an inspiring conversation.
Do we need any more reasons to move our bodies
each day? Well, Kelly and I would absolutely love to hear from you on social media. So do head over
to my channels on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter, and let us know what you thought,
what are your favorite kinds of movement, and what music you like working out to.
Now, I presume that the Rocky soundtrack is going to feature quite
heavily, although maybe I will be proved wrong. Anyway, do head over to the social channels and
let us know. Now of course, many different people listen to this podcast. Some of you are fitness
fanatics and no doubt would have heard this conversation while out on a run or bike ride.
And I think the content today will probably help you understand why you feel so
good after you have moved. Others, however, will have tried their best to bring in daily movement
into their lives and for whatever reason, may have struggled. So whichever category you fit into,
I really hope that today's conversation has shown you that it really does not matter what kind of movement
you do and even small amounts of movement can make a huge difference. Now I'm a huge fan of doing
movement in quick five-minute bursts. That is what I've been recommending to my patients for years
and I've been talking about in public for about five years or so. In my first book, Before Pillar Plan,
I outlined something that I call the five-minute kitchen workout that many of my patients love.
And I know since it came out in the book, many of you have found it to be really, really effective
at doing a strength workout every single day in your kitchen. You can see a video on how to do
that on YouTube if you just type in my name and 5-Minute Kitchen Workouts.
And in my most recent book, Feel Better in 5,
I've created a series of 5-Minute Workouts,
whether it be strength, interval training, yoga flows, dancing or skipping,
basically whatever kind of movement you like.
And all those workouts are easy to do.
They don't require any equipment and don't require you to get changed
because I, like Kelly, am passionate
that movement can be medicine for all of us.
Now, if you are interested,
both of those books are available in paperback,
ebook, but also as audio books,
which are proving very, very popular at the moment.
Now, if you want to learn more about Kelly,
and I would highly recommend that you do,
please have a look at the show notes page
for this episode of the podcast,
which is drchastity.com forward slash 109.
There's going to be links there
to her brilliant new book, The Joy of Movement,
as well as her previous books.
You're going to also see links to her amazing TED Talk and other interesting articles about her and her work. I'm also going to link to Kelly's
playlist that she has on Spotify, where she shares some of her favorite songs to move to.
So do check out the show notes page if you're interested in learning more. Now, if you did
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