Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee - #243 BITESIZE | Why Consistency is Key for Success, Health and Happiness | Rich Roll
Episode Date: March 4, 2022CAUTION: This podcast contains mild swearing. We can often find it hard to do small things on a regular basis that will slowly move the needle for our health and our happiness. But could consistency ...be the key to success? Feel Better Live More Bitesize is my weekly podcast for your mind, body, and heart. Each week I’ll be featuring inspirational stories and practical tips from some of my former guests. Today’s clip is from episode 153 of the podcast with my good friend and fellow podcast host, Rich Roll. Rich believes every success in his own life has been hard fought. In this clip, he explains why the journey is often more important than the destination, and why consistency is key. Thanks to our sponsor http://www.athleticgreens.com/livemore Order Dr Chatterjee's new book Happy Mind, Happy Life: UK version: https://amzn.to/304opgJ, US & Canada version: https://amzn.to/3DRxjgp Support the podcast and enjoy Ad-Free episodes. Try FREE for 7 days on Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/3oAKmxi. For other podcast platforms go to https://fblm.supercast.com. Show notes and the full podcast are available at drchatterjee.com/153 Follow me on instagram.com/drchatterjee Follow me on facebook.com/DrChatterjee Follow me on twitter.com/drchatterjeeuk DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.
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Welcome to Feel Better Live More Bite Size, your weekly dose of positivity and optimism
to get you ready for the weekend. Today's clip is from episode 153 of the podcast with my good friends and fellow podcast host, Rich Roll.
Now, Rich believes every success in his own life has been hard fought.
And in this clip, he explains why the journey is often more important than the destination
and why consistency is always key.
The quick fix kind of hack your life mentality is a close cousin to the clickbait soundbite media culture. We all want it now. We want it immediately. We want to be the best version of
ourselves tomorrow. We want to read this book or do this one thing and fix everything overnight.
And it just doesn't work that way.
I don't believe in any of that.
And I think even if you were given the opportunity to snap your fingers and, you know, become the person you always wanted to become, you're still robbing yourself of what's most valuable about that
transformation, which is the journey to get there. Every success that I've had in my life has been
very hard fought and has been a process of, you know, a lot of behind the scenes work undertaken
consistently, aggressively, and anonymously. You move these mountains over a very slow period
of time. You know, my podcast began, it took eight years to get it from where it was to where it is
today. My swimming career, my writing career, my athletic journey as an ultra endurance athlete,
all of these things didn't happen overnight. They were
the result of a dedication to a process that involves strategies and tactics that are not sexy,
that are difficult, and that are mostly about tiny little things that you do every single day
to move that ball forward imperceptibly and incrementally. And that's not sexy. That's
difficult. And that doesn't lend itself to a clickbait narrative. It's just hard. That's the
truth. And deadlines play a big part in that. So when I started the podcast, I made a commitment
to myself that I was going to publish a new episode every single week,
no matter what. And I'm very proud of the fact that I've adhered to that. Like I haven't missed
a single week, but simply by making that rule that I'm going to put one up every week, no matter what
forced me to basically get my shit together and find a guest and produce it and post-produce it and get it up.
I mean, in the early days, I was editing the show myself on GarageBand. I was the only person doing
it. So I had to learn every component of what's entailed in creating a podcast from how you get
it on iTunes to what mic should I be using and how am I recording this? Now I have a team, but that
didn't happen overnight. It took many, many years. So I think what happens is people want the
success. They want the result. They don't appreciate the hard work that goes into it.
And they're not patient enough to undertake the long journey required and the learning that gets packed into all of that
to mature and grow over time. Most people overestimate what they can do in a short
period of time, whether it's a month or six months or a year, and wildly underestimate
what they're capable of accomplishing over a decade or a number of years. And I think
that's a part of why people peter out on New Year's resolutions, like they're not seeing the
results that they want right away. They haven't created a structure with interim goals and
deadlines, you know, built into that where they can measure their progress incrementally,
and they lose enthusiasm for it. So if I do have any kind of
special skill, it isn't that I'm an innately talented athlete or a naturally gifted podcaster.
It's that I appreciate the journey itself and I'm willing to put in the work when no one's looking.
And I've learned over time in every facet of my life
that that work pays off over time, but you have to be unbelievably patient and resist that sense
of entitlement that you get that when you undertake something difficult, that you need
to be reaping the rewards. Like I'm just about the work and the process itself. And I've been lucky enough to engage in processes that I
love so that I enjoy the journey itself. But by simply being about that journey and that process,
that's why I've been able to move my life into the place that it is today.
I mean, thanks for sharing that, Rich. It's very, very powerful.
I mean, thanks for sharing that, Rich. It's very, very powerful. What you have just been summarizing there is actually something that I feel Eastern and Western philosophies, although can seem quite different at times, where they really do converge is on the idea of process over outcome, journey over destination. You know, whether it's the Stoics talking about it, or whether it's Lord Krishna and the Bhagavad Gita talking about not enjoying
the fruits of your labor, you know, you do the labor for the sake of the labor. You really,
I think you beautifully demonstrate in that, that you didn't have a goal to be the number
whatever podcast in the world, or it to
be this big juggernaut of a show, which is listened to all around the globe. It was a commitment you
made to yourself. I'm releasing once a week, every week without fail. And that word to yourself,
I think is very powerful. A lot of us break the words that we make to ourselves. And I think that's
potentially the start of when friction
starts to arrive in our life, which can lead us down a slippery slope. But I want to know, Rich,
that vow you made to yourself, was it always a good thing? Or did at times it become a noose
around your neck? Yeah, I would say it's a little bit of both. I mean, I think there's a,
around your neck? Yeah, I would say it's a little bit of both. I mean, I think there's a,
this is particular to me in a little bit of self-understanding. Like I'm somebody who is a bit of an extreme personality and I need these rules to like stay on track, right? Because Because I know for myself, if I missed a week, nothing changes.
Like the earth still spins on its axis and I can still release an episode later than that.
But personally, if I break that rule, then it just becomes easier to break it again.
And I know myself well enough to know that if I break it once, maybe I won't break it again in the next month. But six months later, I'll be like, well, you know, I didn't put up an episode that week. So I can do another week. Like, what's the big deal? And then it'll be a month before I do it again. And then I'll just break it all the time. Like, I just know that about myself, which is why I create these rules for myself.
And I do it across the board in various aspects of my life.
Like, I don't eat meat or dairy.
I have that rule for myself.
I don't drink or take drugs.
Like, that's a hard rule for myself.
And I need those in order to kind of stay on track.
Now, those rules can also work at cross purposes with your goal.
If you are too rigid about them, this works for me. And I try to create rules that are still
very doable in the construct of my life. I think the problem occurs when you establish a rule that
isn't sustainable, right? So putting one podcast up a week, it's not that hard. Like it's pretty sustainable.
But if I was to say, I'm going to put a podcast up every single day, I wouldn't have lasted very
long before I broke that rule. And perhaps I would have flamed out on podcasting altogether
and just quit. So the trick is creating guidelines, you know, sort of signposts along the way that you,
you know, privately adhere to that are
sustainable and workable within the construct of your life that are still healthy and manageable,
but also difficult enough that they keep you honest. I mean, I think the macro rule,
if you're to telescope up to 30,000 feet is really, are you living your life intentionally or are you living
your life reactively? And I think a lot of people are living vast aspects of their life in reaction
to the world around them rather than intentionally in accordance with, you know, a plan or a rubric or, you know, a set of personal guideposts to help them make
the proper decisions to lead them in the direction they want to go. And it's never been more easy to
live your life reactively. Like we're constantly stimulated. We've deprived ourselves of the
ability to be bored, to engage in our creative minds.
We don't have the downtime that we used to have.
We're too busy, too stressed, under rested, overly stimulated.
And I think when you're in that state, it's very easy to live your life on autopilot and
just proceed.
This is my life.
This is what I do.
And never step outside of it to question or to analyze why is it that you're doing things
this way?
Is there a better way?
Is this leading me where I need or want to go?
And then years go by until you reach some inflection point or, you know, endure some kind of crisis that forces you to stop and take inventory of how you're living and make appropriate changes. or I'm going to wake up at this time of day, or I'm going to exercise three times a week,
or I'm going to eat these foods and not these foods, or I'm going to go to bed at this particular
time, or no screens within an hour of sleep, or whatever it is. I think being proactive about
those things, making a commitment to yourself is an act of self-love, and then recruiting community for purposes of accountability to
keep you on track. These are tools that I've deployed and employed in various aspects of my
life, both in the podcast and outside of the podcast, to simply be a better human and to
live more consciously, mindfully, and intentionally. And I think that's applicable
to everybody, no matter who you are or where you find yourself on this carousel of life.
Hope you enjoyed that bite-sized clip. Have a wonderful weekend,
and I'll be back next week with my long form conversation on Wednesday
and the latest episode of Bite Science next Friday.