Financial Audit - I Kicked Off Her Abusive Husband | Financial Audit

Episode Date: September 11, 2026

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To watch episodes of Financial Audit a week earlier, check us out on YouTube. He's been cheating since like six months into our marriage. You guys been married. We've been 17 years. Brother, what are you, what the fuck are you doing? You call her fat all the time. You were calling her fat in the pre-interview, like 50 times. That's probably the reason why he decided that other girls are more important than me.

It's fucked up what you've done. He doesn't care. Has CPS ever been called in this house? Yep. She raised her hand at me while getting angry at you too, and I slapped her across the face. I have to ask, because he ever hit you? Yes. Once I got knocked out. Like I said, I don't remember what happened.

You had a panic attack, a severe one. I got arrested. Stop. Why? I'm explaining what happened that night. I want you to get the f***ed out of my studio. I never want to see you again. Securities here. I don't want you here.

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Download Dollar Wise using the link below and create your account now, because when the Dollar Wise Update drops, the games begin. I want you to be on the next episode of Financial Audit right here in Austin, Texas. If you think you have interesting finances with an interesting personality or a story or a life or relationship, I will personally pay you to take time off of work, fly you down to Austin, get you personal transportation, a hotel, food, and we'll have a great time hanging out. Go to Calebhammer.com slash apply or click that link in the description below. Hi, I'm Joy, and I'm 39 years old. I'm Peter. I'm 37 years old from Arlington.

And this is financial audit. It sure is. Thanks for coming down, guys. I really do appreciate it. Joy, let's start with you. You're right in front of me. What do you do for living in Arlington? I do work from home. You do work from home. That's not a job. What do people, everyone, everyone that works from home on the show clarifies. Immediately when I ask what they do. I'm customer service from pro. They immediately clarify that they work from home. No one says I work from office.

They for some reason when I ask what their job, like I don't even get, it doesn't matter. It's just so weird. It's a trend I'm noticing. Why did you feel the need to clarify that? Because I'm a work from home homeschooling mom. So it's all, I'm at home 24-7. What's your job? I'm customer support.

Okay, that's your job. That's what I want to know. Her job is a mom and customer support. That's her job. Mom life isn't an injury. My kids are home all day. How many kids are there? We have five.

Okay. Very good. Ages almost four to 12. Well, let's just give me each age. All right. So we've got 12. 10. 10.

8. 6. About to be four. Okay. Very good. That would be three, by the way. I know. Okay.

He's only a few days from. Very good. How many? hours a week do you do customer service? So I had been 24. At September 1st, I moved up to 32 hours. Oh, big jump. Not really, but that's amazing.

More money. How much money you make an hour? $12 an hour. Okay. Have you ever considered that working from home might not be working for you, super, the day's care cost would be worse. Well, that's not even about the day care cost.

I'm talking about, you know, the whole fact that you clearly don't move. Oh, I do. Don't worry. Oh, damn it! Because in the last nine months, I've lost 35 pounds. After I had massive surgery and discovered I'd been misdiagnosed for 11 years, so I'm good. Okay, 35 pounds in nine months, Dr. Nott would be very displeased. He would call that a one-month loss.

A doctor would be really happy because I had to have a hysterectomy, and most people gain weight after a hysterectomy, and I've lost weight. Oh, that's good, but still 35 pounds in nine months. Hey, for her, for what she does, that's actually an accomplishing. What does she do? So I do stair climbs, even being overweight. So I've climbed 45-story buildings. Now? I've still done them up until I...

She used to be a former firefighter. Why are you just... She was a firefighter? Before I had kids, I was a fire. Your oldest kid is 12. So what the fuck are... I mean, that was a long time ago. Yeah.

Okay, and I don't think you're doing it now. Yeah, no. I used to, until I started getting sick to the point where I was. Now question. Yeah. I mean, you know. I'm cool. We're on the second floor.

Yep. There's also an elevator. Did you take the elevator or walk up the stairs? I was not there. We took the elevator because of the kids to keep them all together. You know, it's just like up and you're there. Right. But one of my kids doesn't do too well with stairs, my four-year-old.

So he had to hold in my hand the whole time. He's not fined of elevators. You scared? Yes. Of stairs? Yes. But not elevators? No, he did pretty good.

He was home on my hand. He's done the elevator at the hotel and here. What's scary about stairs? I think it's because those stairs are a lot wider because he didn't like, he's used to the stairs. Our stairs and our house are really close together. But yeah, he's not fond of building in stairs. Hold on. Yeah.

If I'm not mistaken, did you say you homeschool them? Yes. Have we ever considered that might not be going well for a four-year-old that clearly needs to go the fuck outside. Oh, he goes outside. We have a backyard. And other environments besides the park?

Yeah. Yeah. Is he afraid of stairs then? I think if he was at school, a lot of them have stairs. He wouldn't be as afraid of stairs. I know a four-year-old doesn't really be in school. Well, he's three at this one. In daycare and they don't necessarily have. Not always, but there's clearly

something a little weird. Yeah, well. Well, we don't trust the school systems at all. We don't. Okay. Why? Because during COVID, they had all those Zoom calls and stuff where people would hack into the Zoom calls and start posting. What are you talking about? You live in Texas.

How long were they not in school in Texas? So the 12-year-old missed three months of her kindergarten. In Texas? Yes. And then first grade. Okay, well, later or not, we're not like, and they're not schooling from home. Not at this point. Right now.

But for first grade, the problem was it is she would have actually missed most of the year, would have been on different classes in virtual. I understand that year specifically, but that was also, if I'm not mistaken, oops, six years ago. Yeah. So, what the fuck are we talking about? He's cool with it because he was homeschooled. So he's cool with it.

Uh-huh. You're wearing a Looney Tune shirt at 37. Because my mother's former. Are we sure this has worked out? Are we sure we want to replicate this? That's why mom does the schooling and not dad. Yeah. Because he doesn't want to help.

Do kids eat with mommy on a daily basis? Do the kids eat what I eat? No. Or do they eat different? Well, they mostly eat what we eat. It's just the younger two that don't. Okay. The one that's afraid of stairs?

Yeah, he has food diversions. He's going, we're getting new doctor to get him re-evaluated to see if it's possibly he previously had tongue. What about the six-year-old? He used. a lot of the foods. He's gotten better. I've gotten him to... Okay. Very good. So I'm sorry. How much do you make for a paycheck?

Let's see. It's been about $5.50, I think, lately, because I had to take off quite a bit for blood transfusion and a major surgery. So $5.50 a what? Every other week? It's twice a month. $5.50 every other week. Okay. Very good.

So $1,100, old buddy, Peter. I hope you make more money than that. for this many kids. What the f-f? But we'll get in that in a second. So what was your big disorder that caused you to be morbidly obese? So I had come to find out I didn't have fibroids. I had polyps and my uterus was five times its normal size. A woman had polyps on her uterus. As someone without a uterus, you know, I'm just looking it up. The uterus was five times her size, would this cause her to be five times the normal body weight of a human? Right? Because you said that's the disorder that...

They told me that that was what was causing so many issues that... Well, so many issues that it caused the... Because I was under 300 pounds and as things were getting worse and they told me that was what was causing me to continue to gain weight. Your issues or... the polyps on the uter. They said the polyps. Now that I found a new doctor

and we discover they were actually polyps, he originally, I was told they were originally fibroids and was told they were no big deal. But the doctor who removed them and found they were polyps that he said that actually impacts everything. Via Cleveland Clinic and NIH and the NIH

says that no in the most extreme documented case in a large uterus or polyps more commonly fibroids, right? does not make a woman five times normal body weight. I was just going by what's at your tell me. Hmm. Let's just say for clarity. Okay.

Does it cause rapid weight gain? Because this is kind of what happens on the show, right? Like we're going to go into the budget. We're going to go into the money. We're going to go into all that. The thing is, I mean, you spent approximately $700, $500, $750, just about on going out to eat. would maybe that have something slightly to do with?

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Being large, because they always blame it on something, uh, diagnosed and not any personal behavior. Oh, I'm not the one who normally goes out to eat, though. It's me. She doesn't go out to eat. What do you eat? I normally eat at home. No, the usual sense of rapid fat or fluid weight gain is not, so I'm a little confused.

Because you got big quick, right? Well, big gur. Yeah. Quick. I mean, the reason I'm interested in the subject specifically is there's just such misinformation around obesity as a fat fuck. Where people, mostly women, take no accountability for their decisions around their morbid obesity, where men are just like, yeah, I eat too much.

And like, fat positivity took you don't really even eat. No, yesterday. She might eat maybe twice today. Okay, well, that was yesterday. Let's talk about the average. That's a normal thing. It's lately in the last, probably two years. That is the thing I don't normally eat.

Do you have a normal average day? Yep. Okay, very good. What do you eat the first thing you wake up in the morning? I either have a protein shake or I have some scrambled eggs. Okay, how much scrambled eggs? How many eggs in the scrambled eggs? Probably three.

Okay, or a protein shake. How big of a protein shake? The little box carton ones are like, I think. So one little thing that's big? Eight to six ounces or something like that? 11 ounces, I think or 12 ounces. Okay, 12 ounces. They're not very big.

And sometimes with those scrambled eggs, we'd have, bacon and sauce is mixed in with it. No, most of the time it's evolving. Well, we also put vegetables into it too. I like buffalo first. With the, with the bacon and. Yes. Okay, very good.

It's evolving. Three scrambled eggs with sausage and bacon. I clearly care about this subject. There's so much fat positivity and just insane things that are going to literally kill generations of people. Bacon and veggies mix. into it. Very good. What do you snack in between breakfast and lunch?

Be honest. I'm a snacker. I can actually show you my regular meals if you want to see what I've been what I normally eat. Potentially. I'm just asking the question first. What do you snack? So I have a little individual peanut butter with a small thing,

individual thing of caramel and green apples. My nutrition has approved it as a little treat. I'm not saying that. I'm just collecting information. Oh, yeah. She also does eat chick flay for once in a while as well with that. With that.

But what is my chick flay order? Most of the time. What is my chick filet order? A sandwich. Wow. No, what is my chick flay order? A sandwich. And the last six months is not.

It has been a sandwich. Okay, you tell me your chick-fil-a order. In the last six months, my normal chick-fil-a-order is a side salad. Mm-hmm. With salad. With a sandwich. Side salad.

So the side salad with the bell peppers. But your sandwich has bacon on it. It has that grilled chicken on it, the cheese. Okay. Well, normal today, though. My normal lately has been the side salad with the bell peppers and an eight-pound grilled nugget. How many?

No, no, no, no, no, no. No, no. Just earlier this week, you had the sandwich. Hold on. No, no, no, no. Hold on. You want to talk about it. You're the one who went and ordered me that chicken sandwich.

Did you not? But before even I ordered that one, before that one, you had the chicken sandwich. Because you told me I didn't need a salad. You ordered the salad with it anyways. You told me I needed more than the salad. Is exactly what you told me. So I ordered. You always complain that you're hungry.

But I was going to do the grilled nuggets. And you said that left in a good at that. But you always complained that. Yes, you do. That's only if I haven't eaten all that I'm busy. Doesn't matter. You still complain that you're hungry. So if I choose to get what I want, you gripe at me because I'm eating.

You gripe at me all the time for my choice of food. Okay, but your normal chick full of life. is the side salad with the bell peppers and eight grilled nuggets. The a grilled nugget. No dipping sauce with a grilled nuggets? I don't do the dipping sauce, but I do the zesty apple solder vinegarette. Zesty apple cider vinegar. Very good.

Okay. So that's our snack. What's lunch? Oh, that wasn't a snack. That was lunch. That was lunch, you goofball. I was talking about my snack still and you brought in the Czech filet. That is not a snack.

Okay. So your snack is the. The caramel pack with the peanut butter pack and an apple. It's normally two, because we get the little bitty-tiny, yeah. We normally eat the little, like, lunchbox-sized Granny Smith apples. Very good. Okay. And nothing else in that snack?

No. Then the lunch is that side salad. With the nuggets. With the nuggets and the zesty apples. Okay, very good. Okay. Snack between lunch and dinner. So that is normally a vegetable.

It's either like celery or carrots. How many carrots? Uh, it's a cup. A cup of carrots. What are you dipping them in? Um, Greek yogurt with ranch popper mixed in. You said this is for dinner? No, we're on snack before dinner.

He just said dinner. No, he said before dinner between lunch and dinner is what he just asked me. That's what homeschooling does. You don't know how listening. No, I pulled, no, my mother pulled me out of public school because of stupidity of teachers. You barely made it through that sentence. Okay, very good. And dinner.

Your normal dinner, average dinner. Lately, average dinner is... What's lately? Since I got us a ninja foodies because we don't have a... When's that? Last two months. Yeah, two months. Okay, what's your normal average dinner?

Come on. Yeah, it's grilled chicken and... How much do you consume? It's normally one chicken breast for me. One big chicken breast. One large chicken breast. Grilled in what? Just grilled.

Just grilled. What seasoning's it? No, oil? No. It's an air-gun. What's your side? Most of the time it's a vegetable for me. What vegetable?

So like broccoli or... How do you prepare it? It's one of those steamer bags from H.E.B. Good. So it's either like broccoli or broccoli cauliflower. What else? That's typically it for mine. Do you verify?

Mm-hmm. Okay, very good. Snack before bed? No, because I don't get to eat. No dessert. Very rarely do I eat dessert? On dessert-wise, she gets one of those little moose pie things. How common?

Not very. It's maybe once. every three days. If that. Not, not once every three days. Maybe once a week, maybe. If that. No.

Okay. What are you drinking throughout the day? Water? No coffee? No, no. No energy drink. No soda.

No tea. No nothing. If I do tea, it's, uh... You only drink water from sunrise to sundown. I have been, yes. No, she's drinking. Have been since when? You drink every once in a probiotic or...

Yeah, like I'll do a probiotic drink. What probiotic? What probiotic? It's the cherry lemonade. It's a sparkling probiotic drink. Oh, and also with some of our dinners, we do eat sausage and mac and cheese and some of our dinners as well. How frequently? Do you normally do that like once every two weeks?

Once every two weeks or once a week, some are right in there. Okay, so I don't know, average days a bit confusing. What else? What else do you drink? Come on. I mostly just drink water as well, but I still have like a Coke zero. She does not just soda. Very good. Okay. Anything else?

I mean, like, if I drink a tea, we're talking, it's... Anything else in the average day? No, that's... Water's her thing. She eats, she eats. I have a 40 ounce cup that I keep on my desk of water. I have a 24 ounce of ice that I keep on my desk. How tall are you? Five ten.

Okay, cool. Well, that does its little calculation. It's just important because, I mean, your medical thing, it sounds like it doesn't really actually contribute to this. And it's just like, if you're the one taking care of your kids, then they eat, what you eat. I am concerned for the kids going forward because they are forced to be homeschooled because you are choosing that and they're not choosing it. You're literally forcing them to be homeschooled. Maybe they want to be a school. Maybe they want to do sports. They don't no, don't answer for them. You're forcing them to do this. You're forcing them to eat what you want to eat.

Come on. So I just want to see kind of what's going on here. Okay, very good. Peter, what do you do for a living? I work as a line took for sure. That makes money. I like that, Peter. Well done. What do you make? 35 an hour. Sure. How many hours? week? 80 or 40, sometimes more. What's your average paycheck? And what is that frequency of paycheck? Average paycheck is every two weeks,

and it after it's about 1,800. Bring home. Bring home. That's his paycheck. Yeah. I just want to make sure he forgets that that's what he brings home because he has a bunch of stuff that comes out of his checks because, like, our insurance stuff comes out of his.

Very good. Okay, cool. So guys, how are we doing in Arlington on that? 4,700 and at a month? Struggling. Struggling. Why? Why are we having a little struggle?

Well, why are we having a little struggle? What's going on? He has addiction to eating out instead of taking lunch. Yeah. I bought him a... Hey, I bought him a... He asked me, I want to take my lunch. I said, okay, I'll buy you a lunch box and ice packs, and that lasted a week.

He has a problem with food? I said eating out. I don't have a problem with food. I just eat out. She's right. Okay, so what? You're just eating out your lunch and stuff? That wouldn't drive us into the struggle whole.

That can't be what's... It's not always for lunch. I sometimes eat out for breakfast as well. One of them is a healthy root beer saw in BTS. You were having a healthy root beer, I guess, earlier. So I don't know. You have three drinks on the floor? Yep.

Okay. So I don't know if it's just water, but maybe you're just in a special day being here on front of him to water. One's ice. One is water with a nello super calm in it. And one of them is a reed beer probiotic sparkling drink. On your average day, You consume 2,600 calories.

That's your average day. That's not when you throw in the extra things. The extra things being that Mac that pops up or your little sandwich that pops up or that extra little drink like you're doing today or these other days. You have or her little dessert that she does a couple times a week. Those add up, by the way, especially with low activity. In reality, you and your lifestyle, it's your height and your age, you should be at about 1,700 calories.

So you consume an extra 33% just about. So, okay, come on. Was it a disorder or is your behavior? Just because nuggets are grilled doesn't mean your portions and caloric amount for your age and height are good. Let's be real here. I'm basing my, like, meal off of what my nutritionist has approved for me to eat. Does she approve this multiple desserts and this mac and cheese thing that you're doing? The protein shake instead of the protein shake all of a sudden where we start putting in bacon and sausage into our eggs.

Like, I check it off. Are they approving that? So we meet once a week, and she sees exactly, because I track exactly what I put in, by pitchers. Now, for what it's worth, how much do you weigh? Right now, I'm at 362. I was at 398, was my highest, nine months ago. Don't approve it? What, on a scale?

Yeah. Yeah. Okay. It takes away five pounds. We love the Springer scale. Bring it out. She consented. Because, I mean, yes, your 2,600 calories so that you consume at a daily basis.

that is likely for your height and weight a decrease from your maintenance because you're just so large. So that probably actually does make you lose weight, but it's still not. So that's why your nutritionist is happening. It's right there if you want it. Okay. Mark put an Oreo on it to get you to go. That was rude. That was very rude.

Don't say that, Cass. That was very rude. So naughty. It says 342.2. Add 5 pounds to it because the scale is broken in 5. That's 3.47, that's still less than what I told you. Well done. I like that. And it is because, again, your 2,600 calories is likely less than your maintenance.

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DollarWise.com. Link in the description below. So good. I know we've been working on me making more better choices and what was it? 2.30 what? It said 242 plus the 5. And my nutrition is helping me with like. I love it. No, I love the losing weight. That's an exciting thing. She's, created, you know, workouts that I can work with recovering from a serious back injury. Okay. Which is great. So, yeah. Yep, your class two obese is interesting because she's just like, she looks bigger than

like the class three obese and four obeses that we've had on the show. But listen, I am glad that you are going down. Okay. Also, why are you calling me rude? You were calling her fat all the time. You were calling her fat in the pre-interview, like 50 times. You're like, she's such a fatty. What a fat.

She's so fat. Yeah. Oh, yeah. I mean, I'll admit, I'm not skinny. I've never been skinny my whole life. I've been fat and overweight my entire life. I'll admit it. Okay, I'm not picking on you anymore.

It's him who's like insulted that I called you fat when he calls you fat like every five seconds. So what the fuck? I mean, there's probably, that's probably the reason why he decided that other girls are more important than me. Oh, it isn't financial audit without that. What happens? And do you blame him? But what happened? He's been cheating since like six months into our marriage.

Why have you guys been married? We've been 17 years. 17 and a half. Brother, what are you, what the fuck are you doing? I have no excuse on it. No, how much you just actually answer the question? What the fuck are you doing? I don't know you.

We're not friends. Tell me what you're doing. I don't know what the fuck I'm doing. I have no idea. You don't know what you've done? I know what I've done. That tell me! I don't know.

I don't know you. I know you don't know me. I'm just saying I don't know what I was doing, to be honest. Making stupid poor decisions. Oh my gosh. Do they not understand the question? Do they actually... What has he done?

What is he done? We weren't even... We didn't even make it to our first wedding anniversary the first time he cheated. He walked out, moved in with another girl. So on that note, on that... It's extreme. Let's see. I was lied to when I got to Arlington in the first place.

Because I was told that I had a job lined up. And then he said he had a good job. working with his cousin doing holes and stuff. No, it was, no, that was, that was, that was way after that. That was way after that. You, the first time we moved to Arlington, we were there a whopping. And before we even moved to Arlington. I'm so confused.

You were lied about your job working with her cousin, so you moved through the husband? No, so her mom got a job. Okay. When we moved up to Arlington, I was told there was a job lined up. And I was lied to about it. And we didn't know until we got there. It's not like I put that on you.

And, and, and, and, and I already had a good, I had a good paying job. Already already, already doing it. How does all this make you move in with another woman and start for six months after married her? Because I was pissed off. That's why. What? How'd you meet this other woman?

Through my cousin, to a different cousin. Was the woman a cousin? No. It's not, I don't do that Alabama. Sorry. No. She's just a psycho bitch. literal psycho bitch.

Which one, the cousin? No, the girl that he moved in with. Psycho bitch. Okay, why did you move in, though? Were you in love with this woman? No. Okay, did you even know what was happening? Oh, I found out quick, fast, in a hurry.

How did you find out? What happened? Because I found out when he got a ticket for no insurance because he was still on my insurance and didn't have a copy of it, and he needed me to send it. And I was like, why am I sending this, why do you need it for a court in humble?

Because I was like, send me the ticket information so I can see exactly what you need. Where did you think he was? I had no idea. He told me he was moving back to his parents' house. No, actually, I moved in with my grandparents at the time. He told me his parents, but I guess it was his grandparents. Did you think you were still together?

He pretty much quit contact. So. So it sounds like he left you more than cheating. Well, so no, he had cheated before this chick. Oh, yeah. What was that? So we rang in the New Year together. You got married one month?

We got married in May of 2009. Okay. And ringing in 2010, I went to sleep and he left to go cheat on me with a chick. And the only reason I found out was because I woke up and he wasn't in bed anymore. And how would you meet her? Online. Yeah. What were you doing, Anne?

No, never heard of that. What were you doing? Online. Chat rooms, stuff like that. Okay, what'd you do? Just chat, I guess. I don't know. I just chatted them with people.

No. Oh, when you met her. First time he met her and they went screwed around. Okay, you're f***ed her. Mm-hmm. Okay, no remorse? Look at you. My goodness.

He doesn't give a fuck. Hell no. What the fuck is this relationship? You guys are crazy. This is insane. So then he gets in two accidents. No, he got one accident. Before the new year?

Right after the new year, before he leaves. Okay, well, he already cheated at that point. He's cheated. He gets in an accident. And while I'm dealing with. that whole mess because he didn't deal with it. He decides that he's going to move out and basically goes non-conduct.

Okay, so that accident that happened in Plano was not my fault. Thank you very much. Okay, I don't really even care about the accident. I'm just like, you're... Well, she's blaming me for it, so I'm going to defend myself on that one. He gets the ticket. Okay. And he's like, hey, do we still have insurance?

And I was like, because of Texas law, yeah, you still have insurance. And he's like, can you send me a copy of it? And that's how I found out he had moved in with a because the ticket was out of emble. And I said, what are you doing? The first one was obviously inexcusable cheating. It sounds like he broke up with you and moved out. But I didn't know that.

He didn't tell me that. He told me we were just, right. He said, we're going to take it sometimes so I can get a good job back home. That's definitely cheating. Why did you lie about it? Oh, you're incredible.

Okay, so he moved out. How did you guys get back together? What happened? So the Mother's Day, he shows up to his parents' house with a girlfriend at his parents' on Mother's Day and brings divorce papers. And he's like, here, I want to divorce.

I regret the day I married you. In front of his parents. I get it. How big was she? Who? Her? Light than that she is now. Oh, a hell of a lot lighter back then.

That's what I just said. A lot lighter now. I was like 260 maybe. Wait. Wait, how much she weigh? Actually, I don't even think I was at 260 at that point. Wait, wait, wait. Are you 347?

3.42? Oh, I put in two. Or seven, because we have to add. Oh, I was going to see. This makes no sense that you look like that, but you're only class two. Oh, no shit. Okay, 347.

Okay, so she was class two obese. So, I mean, that's fine. Yeah, you regretted marrying her. I think we all would. That makes sense. So while he's with her, she steals my phone that apparently he had taken

and I didn't know it. That was my phone. The Blackberry was mine. No, the Blackberry was mine. Then how did it have all my stuff in it? I don't know. Because it was my Blackberry. You had the black one.

I had the maroon one. Yes. You had a black one, I had a maroon one. She took the maroon one. Okay. Anyways. So because she had my phone with all my stuff in it, she started trying to steal my identity.

And the only reason I ended up finding that out was because her address was showing up on my credit report. Okay, but how did you guys get back together? So after that, I was like, hey, I can't sign these divorce papers because my name's not correct on him. Okay. And he's like, what do you mean? I was like, I never changed my name. You knew that. I knew that.

This paper's not legal. Did you not read it? He's like, I'll get it fixed and get you to sign it. Well, anyways, we met back up at my parents' church. In November at Thanksgiving. And he's like, I made a mistake. Oh, yeah. You owned up.

Yep. What made you regret it? Man, I don't even know anymore, to be honest. Incredible. Okay. And you're like, sure. So we spent some time talking and took a while, and then we ended up getting back together.

and things were good for a while until they weren't. And he has continued, we got back together, and I thought he had quit talking to her. And I realized that wasn't the case, because he was in the Army, and she started calling from my phone. She had my family's phone numbers, his family's phone numbers,

his command staff's phone numbers, and was calling our families in the middle of the night, called his command staff and said, you have to convince him to come back to me. She's wrong for me. It's official. We have our first class four obese person. This is incredible. At least I'm starting to start getting better and helping.

And I compliment you for that. I absolutely do. I wish you took more accountability that you got there because of your eating and not because of a disorder. Stop pulling that shit. I think stress is probably also a big thing. Okay. Maybe eating from your stress, but it was still being.

because of what you ate. Yeah, I used to eat horribly. I did for a long time. Okay. And I... Until two months ago. Yes. No, the nine months.

Nine months. Nine months. But two months ago, you changed your dinner. Like, I get it. Oh. But it's like... I was going to say two months was my surgery. One of the best things that will help you continue that trend is actually recognized that it was you in your behavior that got you there in the first place.

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Good. And again, I'm complimenting for that, but I do not. want you at the beginning you were blaming it on any other thing except for you, which again, only fat women do. Fat men do not do this. I don't know what it is. I'm a girl's girl. I'm on the woman's side, usually on the show.

Fuck you. No, I admit. You're being a stupid bitch. Okay, but I'm glad you're losing away. Yeah. I do, that is behavior. That is good. You are still class four, which is very impressive.

Maybe you were class five before. Okay, so you brought him back in. This was years ago. You guys have been good sense. Oh, no. He's cheated. It's been multiple times. I'll own up to that.

I know if at least- Oh, will you? Yes. Will you own up to something you factually did? What a hero. I know there's at least 10 women. One reach out on Facebook.

Why are you with him? Why were you continuing to reproduce with him? 10. Because sadly, I listen to everybody else about myself. I listen to the church. I listen to my family. Your church said be with the cheater? Yep, sure did.

What church are you going to? A church I no longer go to. I'll be flat out honest. And who else that's things? With their tree? His parents, his parents told us to stay together. Well, his parents aren't a reliable source of... My family told us to stay together.

My own attorney told me to stay with him when I filed for divorce. Well, maybe... Oh, you filed for divorce. I later then filed for divorce, yes. Oh, well, okay. After he moved back in, when did you figure he cheated with woman number three? Um, I don't remember how I found out, like, three and four and five. Six messaged me on Facebook and said,

Oh, are you married to? There's four more after that. Where were you meeting these women? Online. Yeah, but like what? What platform? Or, zz, platform. I don't think the platform's even around anymore.

It was only one single platform? Yeah. So that one reached out on Facebook and then tried to backtrack and say, oh, she was reaching out to the wrong woman. And then I was asking her questions and she described my car in the car seat. And he ended up admitting it. And so I was like, I was like, honey, you, You can't lie now.

I know it was you. He admitted to it. What was causing you up to the six times? Like, what was just going through your head? As best you can, I know it was a bit ago. As best you can, what was like, what was pushing you? I can tell you what caused supposedly his excuse for one of the others, which was his ex-fiance and her husband.

Three-way? Yep. Yeah. Ran a train on your ex-fiance? I wouldn't say a train, but okay. Choo-choo. Anyways, that was an ex-fiance, that he, before. before we got ever met, he said he dumped her because she cheated on him.

And so I found out about that. And then he told me that they were done. Oh, it gets better with her. Oh, does it? Oh, yes. Because after she got divorced, he decided to have a relationship with her. And after I found out I was pregnant with number five because he promised me he wasn't going to do anything again. Oh, it gets worse.

He promised right the 50th time. Okay, go on. Yeah, I was at work before I injured my back. And he brought her to the park with my kids there and then brought her to my house. Why was at work? And told my kids not to tell me. She calling me crazy. I feel like the prince ain't back in an age.

I'm talking my like some shady. You working at a job. And, uh. Woman. Why are you still around? This is insane. This is insane. So after that, that was like the. end of us being in a relationship together.

So we live in the same house. We are still legally married. We are no longer in relationship, though. Oh, today? The last four years since that one, we are not in a relationship together. We live in the same house. We are still legally married,

but we do not have a relationship. We co-hamper. Yes, as of today. Oh, yeah, we are not. Oh, shit. She has her room. I have my room. We're blessed.

Whoa. I've never experienced this before. Yes. Whoa. Because of his work schedule, I compromised for us to currently stay together in a house. So I have my room. also where I work from.

You're out there for bitches without cheating. No. What? I haven't touched anybody since that incident. Why? You can.

Now you're actually not together. Because we agreed. We agreed. The agreement was, in order for us to stay in this position, nobody has a boyfriend or girlfriend, nobody brings another person to the house. Because...

That part's fine. I got pissed off. Because here's the other thing. In order for him to go see somebody, he's either going to have to do it in his work chart or he's going to have to take my car. And it's her car, bro? No.

I can't afford Uber. Hold on. Ask him how much money. he gets per paycheck right now because of the finances. No, no, that he gets, as he is spending money, that is his play money with. Okay, you guys are literally not together. Nope.

But she's getting your money and then she hands you apart. Because I agreed to pay all the bills. This is, hold up, hold on. This was the agreement so that he did not have to pay because of how long we've been married and everything. You went from extreme cheater to extreme. Let's put it this way. The reason we agreed to this,

because we also agreed a few years ago that we would never do child support. So he decided... Because the court makes more money off of you than you make your own child support. All right. Bro's thought about this for a while, almost like he's been sticking it in 50 women a day.

Yeah, no shit. So the agreement was that in order to avoid social support and child support, we would live in one house. When you were getting into these chat rooms after every time you promised not to, I just want to know what was going through your head. Try your best.

Absolutely nothing. That's the problem. What was... What are you feeling unsatisfied? He told me I was boring in bed, but he wouldn't try anything new. Probably. Shut the fuck up.

You can't move. So. She pretty much said it. I was just bored. Okay, okay, that's something. That's something. So you just wanted more, a little more freaky, a little more, you know.

Well, back then I was. No, he wouldn't freak with other people. Hmm? Freaky with other people. Yeah. He wouldn't, if I asked to do something, he wouldn't do it. What the fuck could you do? Oh, a lot, apparently,

because then he'd come back and complain about how poor it was with him is what he would do. Okay. Well, it's not just because he regretted cheating, but really all he can do with you is sticking in the blowhole. I guess so I don't know I don't know

okay so you guys don't no no good on you so good on me good on her because that boy

and the whole time we've been together yeah he probably got the AIDS yes yeah you probably got the AIDS so okay you weren't exciting so you I mean you were just

like when you guys were married how frequently are you guys well you are married but you mean together in the beginning it was quite quite frequently.

Of course in the first year. But let's talk about the majority of the... No, I'd say about half of it. It was still quite... It was several times a week. And then the second half? It pretty much almost died off. What changed there?

The more frequently cheating. And you found out every time? How? I don't know if I found out about all of them. Did she find out about all of them? Yeah. Oh, okay. Okay.

Did you ever go, like... Get with anyone else? No. So why can't he be with anyone now? Like, that actually doesn't make sense. That was his. That was his saying. That's my doing.

I think honestly, bro just gets off on there being a rule to not be with people and then he's with people. But I'm not with anybody. That's the problem. Uh-huh. Yeah. Uh-huh. Mm-hmm. Sure.

So. I can't say if he is or not because, like, he knows the pass code to my phone. I don't hide anything from him. So then, like, what am I doing? What are we looking for? Because this is, I've never had a relationship like this in four years of this show, four and a half, almost. What we're doing is trying to figure out why we're struggling so much with our finance. That's what we're doing.

Guys, your marriage is a joke. If your marriage is a joke, finances is one of the first things to go. It's so complicated. There's no trust in this household. It's impossible. And finances are built on trust. Yeah.

They are. Okay, but if she's controlling the finances, right? But let's also just... And clearly we're in this situation. Why are you allowing her to control the finances then? Hold on. Answer this. Because how many times I've asked you to sit down

so you can see what's going on? several times. Many times. He won't. Why? He goes, you just deal with it. I don't care. As long as he goes,

just let me make sure I get some money when I get paid. That's exactly what he'll tell me. I feel as long as the bills are paid, I'm fine. Why'd you get with her, dude? She could have, and I know I've been meaming on you a lot on this episode and you consent to do it, right?

Oh, I'm good. Yeah. There you go. Am I talking about the thing you said not to talk about? I'm good. Exactly. Chat, we do this in a consensual happy way. That's why I was allowed to bully her

because she's I, she also asked for permission to bully me back and I said yes. So before all the TikTokers freak out the Instagram comments are like protect the fatty which I am too so protect me The thing is

even with all the memeing on her she could have been building a life with someone who loves her with someone who respects her Matter of fact I told her told her to do that when we've finally separated Yes. Think about the decade before then that you f***ed up.

Now she's locked into the situation with like two handfuls of kids. So it's not as simple as at that point she produced five kids with you. Yeah, five. Five kids with you. Go be on your own. No. You locked her into that situation. And that is so pathetically unfair because you decided to prioritize your nut.

But you want to see, this is the worst part of that. When I got pregnant the first time, he swore up and down I was cheating because he swore up and down that his doctor's word was goal. That you were cheating? That I was cheating. That his doctor's goal that he couldn't have kids. That's what the doctor told me. And yet, and yet we have five together. Did you ever do a paternity test?

No. And why? Because he swears there ain't no question about that those kids are his because they look so much like him. And I said, I'll do one. There ain't no question about it. I don't have anything to hide. And he's like, I don't need to. They look just like me.

The thing is, is she never brought it up. She never brought, they got the package or anything to do it. And she says she volunteers to do it. Oh, so now you think, now you have questions about it? No, that's, no, I never said I had questions. I said, you never brought it back up. Yeah, I mean, because there was. And you never volunteered to go get the damn things to get it done.

Because why should I pay for it? I know that I didn't do anything wrong. But who'd be paying for it? It'd be me because it's off of my finances. That's it is. Okay, but that's what my thing is, is if you're saying we need to have it done, then why don't you make the effort if there's any potential question in your mind? All right.

If you want it done, I'll get it done. Did I say I wanted it done? Why do I need to have it done? I have no question about it. Yeah, that's fair. It's your question, right? So just do it if you want to or let it go. I'll have let it go a long time ago.

You have objectively locked her when she could be with someone who's loving her for the past 15 years and have those five kids with someone who loves her, pleases her, respects her, doesn't cheat on her? Isn't a complete fuck off? What you've done is disgusting in this relationship.

And now she's stuck. Like she gets stuck in the doorway, am I right? Still had to come back and get you. Sorry. No, you're good. It's fucked up what you've done. It is. And he doesn't care.

I can tell. He has no remorse. Sometimes I wonder if he is actually happy being a parent. Doubted. You're probably a psychopath, right? Like in the non-insulting but clinical way. You don't care for her. though. Like I feel like and you face no remorse. There you, you have no remorse. I mean in the more

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Okay, well, there's nothing wrong with playing video games. But here's the difference. When we lived before we moved into the house, we were in now, his room became the living room. When we walked our separate ways and he was no longer in the same room with me because the kids needed space, he took the living room and he couldn't hide from the kids because he was in the living room. Everything circled around the living room. Now that we're in a house and he's upstairs and he has his own route, that's where he stays. But here's saying, but ask her how long she always stays in her room. But the kids come in my room.

But you locked the door. I lock the door when I need, when I need, like, time when I'm working. How am I supposed to have my kids in my room when I'm working? I didn't say against when you were working. I said, you're talking about that my doors locked. Okay, how about after you get done with work? Your door still stays locked. And who brings you your, who brings you your dinner?

How often do you actually go in the kitchen and grab your own dinner for yourself? Okay. if I come in and they continue to get my plate, you're like... How often I said. Hold on, let me finish. If I go in there to get my plate, you tell me I'll take care of it and bring it to you.

Not always. But 90% of time I bring you your food to you or one of the kids bring it to you. Because normally I'm just getting off from work. And then you ask them to close the door and lock it. So nobody else goes in there. Just so that I can breathe for a few minutes after work. Because I literally, I get up in the morning

and I have the kids. If I am on a break from work, I'm taking care of the kids. I get off from work and I'm still taking care of the kids. On your days when you're off, you stay in your room. Do you not? Do you ever get a chance? No, no, no, no, no, no.

I do not always stay in my room. I didn't say all the time. I said a lot of the time you spend it in your room. Do you not? I spend a lot of time in my room. But also, I do deal with the kids. I didn't say you don't do it all the time. But it's like when I went to, when I went to D.C.

But when I went to D.C. and I came back from D.C., the kids told me that you made them eat nothing but sandwiches while I was gone. When I left meals prepared for you and they. No, no, no, no, no, no. I did not make them just eat sandwiches. You even said that's all they ate. Maybe like two days. I'm just going based off of what you and the kids told me when I got back from DC.

But I did cook them meals. Okay, all I can do, though, is go based off of what y'all told me, right? I guess so. But I did cook the meals. And I'm not the one who always says you're the bad dad. The kids say that you don't seem to think that you don't love them. What your kids say that? Yeah.

Why? What's the reason they bring up? Well, yeah, I mean, again, like I think you are some kind of like psychopathic a little, right? Because you don't show remorse in this conversation of what you've done to her. If you've done anything bad around your kids, you probably don't show remorse either. You're very flat. They probably don't feel love from you, right?

That's that you've done something bad. I don't know. Has CPS ever been called in this house? Yep. Fuck me. Twice. And who was the reason why? Can you tell them what the first time was?

They was the same reason both times. Okay. Okay. And who is the main one? No, we're not going to go on that topic, though. We already said we were going to just get that topic. That's right. That's right. Okay.

We'll get into that. We'll get into that. That's the post show. We already agreed to that. Okay. I guess something's coming for the post. Well, okay. Stick around for that.

Well, now I'm excited. But does he at least help clean and do dishes and stuff like that? Who's doing that? Who's doing the work around the house? The 12-year-old is one who has agreed to do the dishes. What? What does the parents? Well, I can, yeah, do some chores, but you guys don't do anything?

I just said the dishes. That's what she has agreed to take on. Who cleans and stuff? I do. I do. If you're locked in, okay, so. We both help clean the house. I'm the one who knows most of the laundry.

If he truly just locked in his room all the time? If he's cooking for you and if he's cleaning, I don't clean all the time. And he doesn't clean all the time. Not all the time, but you're making, I can't tell how egregious it is, him hiding away. On his days off, that's where he spends the majority of his time. time off on his days off. Not like, so you only take the kids to the park when you have another woman with you? We don't have a park.

There's a park somewhere. You live in DFW. There's parks. Just don't go to him. Yeah, unless you have another woman with him. No, I don't have another woman with me at all, period. That's because that's when the last time he took him to the park was. He doesn't get the reference.

He was homeschooled. Can we get these kids out of the house and now homeschooled? I think they need human interaction, man. But the babysitter out there is probably the first human interaction. they're getting in years. Oh, no. This is not the house. This is not space.

I mean, like. No, I want them in a classroom with kids and going to the playground and lunch, building those social skills, getting away from their toxic parents. Good, f*** this household. I'm sorry, I know you don't trust the school system or whatever, but even just like throw that all away, there is a benefit of human interaction. Oh, yeah, there is.

in sports and all the shit that comes to schools learning musical instruments are okay and we talk about like you know how great he is and how you know everything who is

this one he thinks he is but we talk about the gaming why don't we talk about how he was so engrossed in a game that he didn't realize our now six year old completely stopped breathing in his arms oh Yeah, I was in another room.

He had him in his arms playing a game, was so engrossed in the game. And if it wasn't for the outlet, my son probably wouldn't have made it. He wasn't for the what? The outlet. He had an outlet on. It's an oxidation monitor that goes on their foot. So it started beeping. The alarm went off on it.

So he has breathing issues. No. No. Why was he wearing that then? Well, because he had some complications. He had gotten, he was breached born, and his foot. was stuck in my ribs when he was born. And so they had to physically force him out.

Why he stopped breathing? So he was holding him in the way he was holding him like this while he's playing his game, got him chin to chest, which cut off his airflow. Oh, okay. I'm sorry. And nothing makes me more angry than when it's like kids and pets. So thankfully, thankfully because of my training, I was able to get him to start breathing.

But he literally had no clue. Like he was actually, lips were blue by the time it registered enough for the alarm to go off. You're a piece of shit. I want to hear about the CBS thing, but I have to start getting in these finances. Oh, let's go. So we'll get into that in a moment.

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Okay, dokies. I have Office of the Attorney General. Yeah. That goes to the Post Show. This is for the Post Show. Oh, yeah. Okay. That's for... I'm even more excited.

Attorney General's getting involved. What the fuck is happening here? Okay. Ken Paxson, do you need to call him for the Post Show? What's going on here? Loan to the family. What family? Whose family?

His parents. Okay. $4,000. 1,350. What the fuck? The 4,000 was so that we could move. From and two? We moved out of Batown.

What? What? Yeah, out of Baytown. Oh, Baytown, Texas. Yeah, up to Arlington. Okay. Okay, very good. We were in a place that was mold.

We found out had mold, and that was why it was super sick for a long time. That's why we have fully funded emergency phones. What the fuck are we doing? We don't have an emergency fund. That's why I said you need to. Have one. and he quit but when we separated everything

and he told me he was going to take care of his bills I didn't know that my car was financed to an account attached to his car loan and a credit card that he quit paying and so the cars got repased us twice that I used the emergency fund to Bell him out the third time I no longer had an emergency fund

so you guys separated your ship before you moved to Arlington we once had our stuff separated and after that all happened that's why he had me taken over and then you guys got your stuff together again and then separated again So we didn't, we had separate finances at that time.

Because that was after the girlfriend. I need you to get away from this man. That's why I'm here. To get away? So I can get my stuff in order since most of this has fallen on me so that we can go over some reason. Don't you want to be free in a way? You hate being around your kids.

You hate being around your bitch wife. Don't you want to be gone? So you can just... If she wants me gone, I'll step out the door this day. No, I'm asking what you want. I don't give to be honest. Really? Yes.

You don't want to just be blown. blowing loads in women? No. I do. It's fun. What's wrong with it? I have no need for it. Need? No, I have no need for it. But it's fun. Okay. He doesn't give a...

No. So it's the income, side? Because he brings in the income for the household. Right. Such a weird dynamic. What do you do with someone who doesn't care? Doesn't even care about the kid? Do you care about your kids? Yes, I do. Well, then how are you telling me you don't care?

Because that is a part, isn't it? It is, yes. But I do care about my kids. Then why don't you care if you're there or not? Because we always fight. So what's the point of being there? If we always fight... Are you guys fighting all the time?

Not all the time. We do have our arguments at times. Yeah. Now, your guys just rules. You can't see other people or whatever. Do you feel like he's living up to that? Do you suspect anything? Yeah.

Why? Do you want to know why? Oh, I guess sure. So, Mr. I sent a text message to the wrong person. I'm sorry, I can't get you a birthday gift. It's not in the finances right now and then started to break down our finances to somebody.

But hold up, it gets better. In 17 years we've been married. I've never gotten a birthday gift. That's insane, by the way. He got me a Christmas gift one time that he told me he got out of the trash. He's never gotten me anything for our anniversary. What the hell did I get out of the trash for you?

That was the very first Christmas we were together. What was it, I asked? Not when. candle birdhouse thingy. It was like green. I don't even know what it was. If you don't know what it was, why are you trying to describe it?

I don't know exactly what it was. It looked like a little birdhouse, and it was made, it was like a blue, green, teal color, and you could put like a candle, I think, inside of it. I don't know what it was actually supposed to be because you're the one who got it, not me. And, but his birthday falls right before Christmas, and I've always made sure that his,

birthday and Christmas presents are separated. Oh, no, that's good. Yeah, you do seem like the better partner. Don't get me wrong. By far. But he sent that to somebody. I even once, you know, he won't be doing. But he sent it to you on accident?

Yeah, he sent it and deleted it thinking I didn't see it. And he's like, oh, I didn't mean to send that to you. And then I was like, oh, you mean, you didn't mean to send me that you couldn't afford to buy somebody a birthday gift? Who did you send it to? A friend. Which is a friend. That's it.

That you stick it in? No. Have you ever loved her? Yes, I did. Would you let her go through your Snapchat? Probably not. Why? Because I believe that our phones are our last safe space for anything.

It says the 10 times cheater! Get the fuck away. He's never going to follow that rule. Dude gets off on the kink of cheating. But I haven't cheated in the last four years. I haven't done shit. That's the problem. Except for text, I'm going to not let her go through Snapchat.

You won't? Why? Let her prove it. I don't even go through her phone because I don't want to go through her phone. Why that she's never cheated on you? It doesn't matter. I don't want to go through her phone. I have nothing to do about her phone.

I'm gonna, I'll be honest, you wanna hear one thing? I was with somebody one time, but let's say when when this happened. Did he know? Oh yes, he knows. When did it happen? I don't know. It happened after he handed me the divorce papers when I thought we were completely done with. So I didn't cheat because he had already handed me the divorce papers and he was still living with the girl at the time.

That's the only time I've ever been with anybody else in the 17th. years we've been together. And you went and got that South Dallas black dick. Not South Dallas. Well done. Good for her. She's getting blown out by that BBC. But that's the only time I've been with anybody else.

I don't even care what you don't. Yeah, but I'm just saying if he wants to try to say I cheated, there is no cheating because he had already handed me the divorce papers by the time that happened. And then he turned around. And then he finally got his catch, huh? And then apparently it wasn't grass, wasn't greener on the other side. Because there must have been something good if he kept coming back. What's your relationship with his friend?

Platonic. Would you let me go through the Snapchat? Probably not. Okay, he's cheating. Okay, yeah. A thousand to his family, what's that for? That was supposed to be for our... That was for us to go to a family member's funeral, for my family.

Yeah. 350? What's that for? The alternator on the suburban. So you guys never have money, to be clear. Okay. Well, that 350 wouldn't have happened. Had he actually taken here in the car, like he said. he had and it strained me coming home bro he's never done anything right in his life so i don't

i don't know why you would trust he would do that um okay uh some amazon on a firm mm-hmm what's the total load on oh 2,723 what the fuck are you getting um that has been a whole bunch of stuff for the house there's like three things that are for me on there listen you need to take care of shit and that means the similar similar with your weight the reason I spend so much time on that is it does come down to accountability. Even if it's stuff for the house that isn't stuff for you, is this stuff that you 100% need? It is still choices in the end that you are choosing to purchase

that might not be 100% necessary for the survival of household that is putting you further into debt to where you can't afford a $350 repair on an alternator. So what is it? The H.E.B. one was literally right after we moved in and he had to have extra money because he was staying at somebody else's house because he couldn't transfer for work. and that one's still getting paid off because I had no money for food.

There are two... One... No, there's three on there that are strictly just for me. And I'll admit it. And you'll admit it. And I did pay off one this past week made the last payment on it. Okay, I'm sorry.

Hey, listen, this is more of a concern. I don't want to insult you. If you notice I've been doing this a lot this episode, when's the last time you've been to the dentist? Um, it's been years. Years? Mm-hmm. I'm sorry, that's the nastiest shit I've smelled in my life.

I brushed my teeth this morning again. It doesn't matter. Go to the f***t dentist. It's blasting me with like, it's bad. And I sit across from a lot of stinky people. I'm just telling you. No, I understand. I'm just telling you.

Your minimum is like $78 a month. I don't know. This is crazy. There's more firms. Yeah, yeah. It's crazy. They're all in my name. Wait, they're all.

Is that $2,723? No, that's the total of everything. Oh, I understand. That's your minimum payment. Okay, so it's time. Yeah, that total is everything. I assume your minimum's about $350 then. Across the whole month.

That's crazy. Yeah, pull up your Amazon. Let me see. If this is totally due for the house. Most of the average one. Your affirms are insane. You're just affirming for forever. 19 different ones.

Yeah. Show me. Yeah. I'll tell you which three are mine, actually. Let's see if you can win me back. What do you play? What video games? Mostly survival and resource management.

Like what? Like Dyson's Fair Project or program and Seven Days to Die. That game. Seven Days to Die is great. I used to play Arc, but I got bored with it. Seven Days to Die is fantastic. You've won me back slightly. Not enough for me to think you're not a complete piece of shit,

psychopathic maniac. but, you know, this is insane. This is Amazon, Amazon, H-E-B, Target, Amazon. It's like, you do, you affirm everything. What about Rust? Try to get into it. Pussy. Let me see.

And everything on Amazon isn't just for me. I'm sure. Yeah, you're affirmed. It's all the Amazon Target, brute me, all this shit. Helio, what's Helio? It's just like, it's every other thing. Rootmate. This is it crazy.

Well, I'm just saying the left-hand side. This is all the firm that I'm going through. All the firm purchases, guys. This is crazy. I'm not going to spend the time going through every single little thing here. But the whole balance goes up to that nearly 13-thous. What's a Brut-made cup? 50.

You have 50 of them being told. What the fuck is a Brut-made cup? Brut-man. Huh? Brum-mate. I'm sorry. It's war. Hold on.

He can't be completely out of it. He has two and the kids have some two. You have 50, though. That's the whole entire house collection. And they have a couple and he has a couple? The only reason I had a couple of mine in order to help pay some of our debt. Sell them all. You fucking freak.

Okay, you're getting some workout bans as long as you use it, it's fine. We really need all these oral swabs. Oh, who's sick? The oral swab was because it was recommended to be able to clean my ice machine that I have at home. To get in all the little crevices. You know the little sonic ice that you get from Sonic? Great, that was a critical purchase. I've had it for a long time.

and the one that I had now was... More brute mate, endless brute mate. So you're affirming brute mate. Stuff for the house, go fuck yourself. Just like the morbid, morbid, morbid, morbid. So those brumates I paid by cash. Obesity. Still, that is money.

The cash that could have been spent on the other things instead of having to affirm them. It's still offsets. Just like your morbid, morbid, morbid, morbid, morbid, morbid obesity, it is choices and personal behavior from the ice machine to the ice popsicle makers to the collapsible stool and the meat, right.

because he broke one and had to replace it. I don't care. It still purchases you don't 100% need to do the glucose monitor. Yes, you actually do. That's his. Because you definitely both have diabetes, right? No. No. I don't.

And I just had a full look. I just had a complete workup done. And I'm not, I'm not even pre-diabetic. What's your blood pressure? Was 76 over, I mean, at 121? Over 121? No, flip the numbers, 121 over 76. Sorry.

All right. All right. Let's check it. Come on. It's probably going to be high now. I'll admit it. It's going to be high. It's going to be high.

because she's in pain. I'm not just in pain. I'm pissed. Well, fair enough. Well, we'll see. But you're pissed all the time. Yeah, dude, you're just getting so much bullshit. So relief cap?

Like, come on. The pads, that's fine, obviously, but good grips, containers, go fuck yourself. Glass bottles, go fuck yourself. What are we doing? So the glass bottles is what I have to use to put my iron in because it can't be exposed to, it has to stay in amber ball.

Fuck your iron. I don't give a shit about you. What iron? I'm anemic. That's why I have a blood transmission. Okay, that's fine. I was anemic. it had a blood trade.

90% of it was bullshit that you don't need, that you need to take accountability for or else there will never be anything. Never be anything. Getting done in this house. The pouches, the food pouches that you saw, like the plastic, they're reusable though. Some of it was okay.

Right. And I'm just saying, some of it was okay, the majority of it wasn't. So shut the fuck up, take accountability instead of making excuses. Or else you're going to be fat forever or else you're going to be in debt forever.

You're managing the house with finances and you're affirming and everything. Come on over. You don't be scared. She's not that big. Wow. That'll probably have to go down here. Does that work like that?

Down here? That's where the doctor always does him. Oh, Mark's doing it his own way, baby. He's Dr. Mark's here. And Dr. Mark's doing, you know, his own... And you know how the drill works. Yeah, keep your feet flat. It's going to be really high.

101 over 109. Yeah, I knew it was going to be high right now. 181 over 109 right now. It's because she's in pain and she's pissed off. No, I'm pissed. That's a hypertensive crisis. Yeah. That's our first hypertensive crisis.

Tell me how. You call 911 hypertensive crisis. I'm good. Well, objectively not. No, it's been worse. No. It's been worse. My doctor says as long as I don't stay there, I'm fine.

I get this. When we've had a fight, it gets this high. Oh, yeah. No, I'm... It's been a lot worse than that. What? Her blood pressure. It's been a hell a lot worse than that.

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My doctor actually had me drive to the hospital because there wasn't even an ambulance within 45 minutes of us. To clarify absolutely everything and blah, blah, blah, blah. I'm not a doctor and not a medical expert. Okay. All that being said, I'm glad you're starting to lose weight because right now you're technically, at least according to this chart, okay? Oh, yeah.

And a hypertensive crisis. And that is, I'm scared for you. You're a mother of children. Right. That's why I'm working on myself. That's a... That's why I've gotten serious about working on myself. They advise 911.

Yeah. I know. Which, am I f***ed up by not calling 911 right now? No, we're good. I know my body. I will tell you if I get concerned. No. No, she will.

I will agree with her with on that. She will. Yeah. She will let you know. She knows her body more than you think she does. I call 911 if someone's BP is... What was it? 181?

109. 109? 109. Okay. I'm going to follow its advice. You can take that off. because I do not want to fuck something up

no, I understand and I'm just, I'm not willing to allow a guest I understand, I'm not so I'm going to follow the vice of what is given here you can call the Iowa one if you think you're concerned enough and if they show. I don't know, I'm just not willing to lose someone on the show.

No, I understand. If there is, do you have chest pain or shortness of breath? No headache. No. No. No. changes, no. Okay.

Okay. That's what it says, call 911. We don't need to. Like I said, I will let you know if I get concerned. I appreciate that, but I don't really give a shit about your concern. Because I am in the position where this is my office and I do not.

Right, no. I'm going to fucking die in front of me. No. Okay, that's capital one, $4,490. $65 with $156. Are you sure we should continue if this is pushing you into that limit? Oh, I'm good.

Okay. You're purchasing, who is this? The card's in my name. That is a... Who's purchasing? Both of us? Well, it's maxed out. You're purchasing on a card

that you're only putting minimum through payments to. It's going to take 20 years to pay off. You will not be alive on this current trend, to be clear. And you will be out there from, like, children or something. I don't know what you do, but you look like it.

Apple, Apple, real short. That was when I was recovering from surgery and I was on a binge of watching shorts. Buddy, it's... Yeah, I know. I shouldn't have done it. Well, that was two months ago. Chick-fil-A.

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Oh, I don't do that. That's, I don't do that. Masturbate? I don't. It's okay to masturbate. I'm going to let you know. I know you're approaching 40. You're still allowed to.

I think, right? Is that, is it? Devin, is it legal for 40-year-olds to masturbate? Yeah. I'm just concerned. Okay. You're good. Lightning's not going to get you.

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Hers. The cards in my name, yes. Not all the charges are mine. No. $805.73 with the minimum of the payment of $33, but we're purchasing only making the minimum. towards the wall inches is a crewing. Car scores on our low 600s.

Like, what the fuck are we doing? What did we purchase on? Some gas, but also probably getting into bullshit in Deerun. Trump, true med deer run? So that was part of the cost to cover my treadmill. It was the only small part that our FSA didn't cover. Okay, well, that part's fine. Because FSA covered the majority of the cost for my truck run.

We don't know who said it, but Mika is actually saying that you deserve some good dick after this, after being with this man for so long. So I don't know if he's vizal. volunteering. But you go out there and DFW. Oh, speaking of that, why was CPS called? Because he hit one of the kids? This episode, Giddy. I've never heard that in the show. I don't even know what the do. Just tell me the story. Just tell me the story. I don't know exactly what happened. I wasn't there what happened. And I got conflicting. And I got conflicting. And I got conflicting stories about

what happened. Okay, well, tell me both stories. I don't want to hear from him. So I got told at one point that. She wasn't doing what she was told to do, and she was talking back. What age? Eight. Okay. Go on. And so the first time he supposedly, yeah, there were two different ones.

The first time he supposedly just laid into her spanking. You just wouldn't stop. From what I understand, yes. And the second time he said he hit her in the face. You were prison for the second time. No, I was. You were, was in her bedroom. I was not in the room when it happened.

It was in your bedroom. You were sitting there looking at your damn phone. You weren't paying attention. She raised my hand. She raised her hand at me while getting angry at you too. And I slapped her across the face. But like I said, I did not actually see what happened. But you were there in the room.

Not paying attention. You were there. So I'm supposed to pay attention to you every second. Oh, I didn't say that. Okay, that's what you said. It was at night in your bedroom. No, that was our bedroom back then. Don't try to say that was my room.

Anyways, the bedroom, you were there when it happened. Okay, if I was, then I guess I wasn't. But I did not what happened. Because you literally inspected her face and there was not a mark on her face, but you get a phone call from the school saying there was a handprint across her face. The picture that they took was a bright red print like it had just happened. And the picture didn't, when they, CPS showed up to him. Oh, no, it was a lot smaller.

So it was probably from school. School. Yes. Okay, but the first one, you just wouldn't stop wailing? No. It was her, yes, I whacked it across the butt, and I missed, and got across her waist and said. Exactly. But they did, because CPS had him show up to the mark that was on her face at that time, and his print did not match it.

And that's why I said, I cannot say exactly what happened because they were like, this just happened. And I was like, according to what she told me, and he told me it was the day before. So I didn't know. and the attorney that I had that was when I actually, right after that was when I actually filed for a divorce. And everybody convinced me to stay. And it stayed on a bottle until what?

I don't know. A few years ago? I don't know. But everybody convinced me, my own, even my own personal attorney convinced me to stay with him. And I did, I did have the papers drawn up. I have to ask, does he ever hit you? Yes.

Do you promise to beat your wife and abuse her in sickness and in health? I do. Tell me. Once I got knocked out. I did not knock you out. I don't know what happened. I don't know what happened.

I don't remember what happened. I woke up to an ambulance there and a police office. All right. So what happened that night? You and I got into a full, long, blown argument. You tried to stop me from going out the door. I pushed you aside. I did not hit you.

Okay. Like I said, I don't remember what happened. You had a panic attack, a severe one. Okay. I called 911 to have him check you out. Okay. Like I said, I don't know. I don't remember that.

So they called the sheriffs after I explained what was going on. I got arrested. Stop. Why? I'm explaining what happened that night. I want you to get the fuck out of my studio. I never want to see you again. Security's here.

I don't want you here. You're a piece of shit, evil, disgusting creature. Please make sure he doesn't talk to anyone. I'm concerned for your safety after this start to be completely. I'm concerned for your kid's safety. I had to message him and tell him to come. I was concerned of kicking him off if he would lose a fit. If he'd go crazy.

This man is the most evil motherfucker that has ever been on the show beating kids. How many times does he hit you? I am so sorry. And sadly, I tried to leave. And everybody told me I was better off with him than without him. I even got divorce papers drawn up. And they told me I would regret doing it.

And sadly, I stayed. They are, everybody was wrong. Everybody was wrong and everyone, every, I don't even know. And sadly, once I lost all my family through everything, it was like, I couldn't. What's your family? So my mom passed away and after that I went no contact with her parents because I found out they'd been lied to me my whole life. Jeez for sake, what is happening?

I found out that they were protecting a registered sex offender and exposing me to him and I didn't know God, I can't the s' episode, man. What is this? So I'm working on bettering myself because I've been through hell and back and I didn't give up. Let's start with the first thing to better yourself.

That's why I came to you because I need to get this done too. Get this man away from your kids yesterday. Get yourself away from him. I'm a, dude. Listen, this show, that's crazy, it gets wild. I don't want him to be triggered and lose his shit after this, okay?

I get you. I understand. I appreciate. Somebody's finally taking my side and not telling me to just deal with it. I appreciate it. Deal with it.

People are saying that? Yeah. They told me that he was a good guy. He didn't mean what he's done. He would get better. They said he took anger management and everything would get better. I'm sorry.

Someone who cheats 10 times. Someone who won't let you go through his phone right now, even though you've made that deal. Someone who literally has knocked you out and was gas-lating. I'm sorry, no one knocks someone out from the story he told. He is gaslighting the fuck out of us right now. There is no, right? He knocked you out?

Okay, you tell me what really happened because he's not. So I don't know what led up to it. I don't remember a lot of that day. I know we've gotten into an art. They don't know exactly what I hit on the porch. but I was out when EMS arrived. You're out. And that's why you can't remember anything?

They said that's possibly why. They don't know if it was because of the trauma of what happened and my body was just trying to protect me from it or if it was that I like hit something that hard. Okay. Sorry, you tell me exactly what you think and remember then. I know we got into an argument and I was outside. We were talking and I thought everything was better.

I don't know if he hit me. He pushed me what? But I was knocked out. EMS arrived. I woke up to a medic attending to me. and he got arrested for a warrant outstanding for a ticket he didn't take care of that I didn't know about and I ended up getting checked out and they told me everything was okay there was no they couldn't find any injuries in the ER or anything like that poor woman I'm so sorry and the second time he had hit me

in the face she's for what happened that you remember that time right yeah what were you fighting about um I don't remember the exact argument it's been a while but I remember that he got mad and I to walk away and he shut the door and we kept arguing and then he smacked me and I had a handprint across my face. Okay. Well, just first things first. Listen, I've worked with my therapist for a while and he's helped me a lot. I'm going to get you to sit down with my personal therapist. He's not an employee in mine so he doesn't report to me or anything. You would be a client. I'm just paying for it. Okay. So you need to work through some deep shit that has happened and I am so sorry.

for everything that has happened. And I know this doesn't, I mean, I'm just, all the resources I can give you, right? Obviously, budging nap, course career certification to get a better job. I got to get you everything. But we're going to send you as many resources as we can to like, like resources to get the out. Al personally is, I want to verify some extra things that has happened here to make sure nothing is lying.

I will get you 5,000 hours. from myself to make sure you're able to, like, get a place and get away from him. Whatever it is, I'll give you $5,000. We have to verify a few things before that happens, but I'll do that. No, you're fine. But I'm literally being told he, like, ran out of the building. My security guard is standing outside of the building right now, and we can't. We've lost them.

Hopefully doesn't go too far because he's got the key to the rental car. Oh, do not drive with this man. No, but he has. But I mean, all work stuff is in the rental car. No, no, no, no. I need you. I'm scared. So I need to get our stuff at least.

But he has the key to that rental car. Security said, he said, quote, I don't give a fuck. I'll just walk home. Dude, this is, did the police believe you in all this? No. Cool. Well, I deny it, but the officer told me, flat out told me that if he didn't care and he didn't regret what he did, he wouldn't have come back and called them for me.

because I was still out when the officer arrived as well. What else is he done? Biggest thing has just been the cheating. No, I think the biggest thing is hitting the kids and hitting you, I would say. And the constant cheating, this is his phone over there. We wouldn't be able to get in anyway. Because I don't know his code. Of course not.

Okay. Listen, in this situation, this household, this is the actual reality of what is happening. Oh, I know. Income that came in, the payroll hit of $5,500. And then paid a advance hit of flex. You flexed $1,700. That's our rent payment. So I have it.

So you split it into two? I split it into two to make sure. Crazy. The spending here was $7,065 on a household that brings in $5,560, which was less than the $4,200 I'm calculating from what you guys gave me. Unless I'm missing something, $4,700, maybe he worked more hours. Maybe you did. So the last paycheck he got in August, he had their quarterly bonus.

Yeah. And then he worked over time. Right. Listen, you will never be able to get away from him or get him away from you and rescue the kids and be able to take care of the kids. If you spend that much more money than you bring in, nothing will ever be fixed. That's why you will always be dependent on him. You'll never be able to get away from him. This man has trapped you into what, you're the one that's 39.

into your four decades now, four decades of not having freedom, been with a terrible family, terrible man. The only way out is to get your finances under control, and I'll help with that a little, yes, and we'll get the resources and we'll try to get you a place. You take control of your health, you take control of your finances. You cannot spend more than you bring in or you will never get away. You'll always need someone to come in and take care of the bills.

I appreciate that. Listen, at the lower income level, when it's just you and not him, you will, which by the way, I know what you guys agreed, report all this to the court and drain his ass to child support. I don't give a f*** about that agreement you guys did. Dude, it's hit the kids and he said you.

We'll verify I have some police reports before we, you know, go further and help me to make sure you're not lying. But either way, yeah, drain his ass to child support. Get them in daycare that is subsidized and funded. I know we do that here because you'll be on a lower income. Get all the help.

You're the kind of person where I don't complete about the government benefits of thinking people like you that fall back on it. You're the ones that it's there for. You can't be getting your chick-fil-A nuggets for lunch every day. You can't afford that.

You can't be getting your little refresher. You can't afford that. You are on a strict meal plan and following a hardcore budget ain't going crazy. Okay? The fact is, listen, in here, we have one, two, three, three,

4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 17, 18, 19, 20. 20 individual different loans, not including the individual firms. That is just one. We have a 401K loan. That's his 1st. You have student loans. Okay, his 401k loan, he can go fuck himself. From medical loans to upstart, repossessed cars.

On his, yep. Auto loan, open sky, double open sky. You have a self loan. You have a credit builder loan. a mission loan, Navy Federal Credit Union, and all those of firms. Yep. Rooms to go. All of this stuff, you will be forever. In debt.

Trapped. No, no, no, no. Trapped of, he's only there because of the money, right? If he wasn't making money, would you still be with him? No. Exactly. So the further you take care of this and get rid of the risk over your head, then he's done. Can I tell you something?

Okay. Do you want to hear what his solution to the debt was? Sure. when I mentioned that I had applied for this, he told me, well, we're going to pay off the 401k loan, and then we'll take out a new one to pay off all this debt, and then the loan can come strictly out of my paycheck. That was his solution. It doesn't fix behavior. And I told him, that's why I said, well, I want to come on here because at first he didn't really want to come.

I said, because I need another perspective, because apparently I can't get any help from you on trying to get all of this cleared, and I want to get rid of this because I know this is not beneficial for us to have. Why did he come here today? I don't know Probably because I asked him to But I knew he wasn't really Didn't seem like he really cared Because he didn't see

Why is he still with you? I don't know Wait actually I do know Because he can't do it on his own I don't care Fri-com I'm being told from Devin right now That he was lying

The entire pre-interview About things he was telling our story producer And all this stuff It's just a liar He's a gas lighter, he's a cheater, he's a beater he's a bad person, he's a toxic individual. And he's someone that there's only a few people we've had to put into a system. I'm going to put him into a system.

And my people are keeping an eye out for him everywhere. Because I'm scared. I'm scared about him. He's going to get his fucking head blown off if he gets anywhere like 50 feet of me. But I'm concerned about it. I saw the truth now. That's important. Because I was stupid enough to continue to believe his lies.

Yeah, his ex-military. Jeez. Yeah, I'm even more scared. Luckily, my security. The ones that we keep around my house are also ex-military, and they'll blast them. I bet they're a better shoot. A shot. Man.

So, like, what is he doing right now? You've been around him. What is he feeling? He's probably upset that he got caught. He didn't think you'd get caught on here? I don't think he thought it would all come out. What the fuck? Is he?

Okay. So he had only seen the little bitty TikTok clips of your show. He's never actually watched a whole show to really know. Yeah, but he saw the onboarding videos. I don't. I think he ever paid out until the one today. I don't think, I don't know if he actually watched the other ones. Yeah.

Why? You didn't watch it with you? Mm-mm. What the fuck? Well, I guess that's not my fault. Oh, great. Well, okay, that's on him. I don't give a shit then.

He can go fuck himself. I'm concerned for you after this. I am. Are you afraid of what happened after this after you leave today? Oh, well. Because I don't know how can we do then? He's hit you before. you out.

I was stupid enough to listen to everybody to just keep going that he didn't mean it. It was just a mistake. That's like when everybody's drilled into my head. And it's hard when everybody, including your own personal attorney that's supposed to be there to protect you, convinces you to stay. Okay. I think we're going to have my security help deal with that then. Because I don't know what the fuck he's going to do.

Listen, the reality is this conversation took a... that I don't know that any of us are expecting that I wasn't expecting. And there's a lot here. Right? Yeah. I'm just, I'm going to pay for my financial advisor to sit through with you and go through all this in detail, okay? And make a budget with you and give you a lot more in-depth shit than, you know, we'd even do on the show. So that's going to be more beneficial to you, okay? I appreciate it. So that's what's going to happen. The therapy and everything, course careers and chime, all the good stuff. You will get you all of it. Okay. Yeah. Okay. I, whatever the if that wasn't crazy enough, I, I get.

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Three shows a day, every single day, six days a week. Oh, it's this. It's the Attorney General. Yep. Have another child you're not telling me about? Fuck. All right.

We'll get into that in the Post. But fuck me. I can't even imagine what's possibly coming in this post show if that wasn't crazy enough but she wasn't willing to talk about whatever this is. I also think that he was trying to kill the kid that stopped breathing in his lap. What is how? Why is life like this to you? I don't know.

Why is life like this? Well, I would say that's the reason for cutting them off, isn't it? He was supposed to get four years in military prison. He only served two. They gave him good behavior. I think he might be the most evil husband we've had on this show, which is saying a lot. He tells people that he had to this daughter, even if that was, he was supposed to If that was consensual, why the fuck is he telling people?

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