Finding Mastery with Dr. Michael Gervais - The Psychology of Motivation | Dr. Masud Husain
Episode Date: September 16, 2026A letter landed on Masud Husain’s desk about a man in his thirties who had stopped doing anything at all.David had been highly productive, worked in finance, and was charming company. Then ...he lost his job, stopped showering, and could not be bothered to claim the benefits that would have covered his rent. Asked why he no longer listened to music, he said it would take five minutes to connect the cables.Dr. Masud Husain is a clinical neurologist, neuroscientist, and Professor of Neurology and Cognitive Neuroscience at the University of Oxford. He is Editor-in-Chief of the journal Brain and author of Our Brains, Our Selves, winner of the 2025 Royal Society Trivedi Science Book Prize.David was not depressed. He had suffered two tiny strokes in the basal ganglia, the structures deep in the brain that connect what we want to what we do. Nothing was worth the effort to him anymore.Masud's team started him on a drug that acts on the dopamine system. Three months later David came back with a haircut, a suit, a new job, and a new girlfriend.Addiction researchers had arrived at that same circuit from the other direction, as the one nearly every addictive drug hijacks. Masud and Mike get into what that overlap means about the science of motivation, why apathy and depression are different conditions, what over two hundred causes of dementia means for prevention, and whether there is a self to be found in the brain at all.This is a conversation for anyone who has decided to do something and then not done it. Masud frames motivation as a calculation of whether the reward is worth the effort, so the way through is to make the effort smaller and leave the cue somewhere you will trip over it.After thirty years of seeing patients, the thing Masud says he has learned is that the self is not set in stone. You can change.Enjoy the conversation.______________________________________________________Links & Resources:Dr. Masud Husain’s Website: masudhusain.orgDr. Masud Husain’s Books: Our Brains, Our Selves: What a Neurologist’s Patients Taught Him About the Brain, Oxford Textbook of Cognitive Neurology and Dementia (co-editor)Dr. Masud Husain’s Journal: Brain, where he is Editor-in-ChiefSubscribe to our Youtube Channel for more conversations at the intersection of high performance, leadership, and wellbeing: https://www.youtube.com/c/FindingMasteryGet exclusive discounts and support our amazing sponsors!Go to: https://findingmastery.com/sponsors/Subscribe to the Finding Mastery newsletter for weekly high performance insights: https://www.findingmastery.com/newsletterDownload Dr. Mike’s Morning Mindset Routine: findingmastery.com/morningmindsetFollow on YouTube, Instagram, LinkedIn, and X#FindingMastery #MasudHusain #DrMichaelGervais #OurBrainsOurSelves #Neuroscience #Neurology #Motivation #Apathy #Dopamine #Attention #Dementia #BrainHealth #Consciousness #Identity #HighPerformance #PsychologySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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I'm a clinical neurologist about 15 years ago.
I get this letter which says,
I've got this young man in his 30s.
He's been a highly productive person.
But all of that has gone.
He hasn't been looking after himself.
He hasn't been taking a shower.
Turns out he got fired from his job because he lost motivation.
This is terrifying.
It is terrifying.
And he wasn't depressed.
He had this condition we call pathological apathy.
And the reason he had it is that he suffered two tiny little strokes.
in the basal ganglia.
Oxford neuroscientist.
Neurologist, Professor Masoud Hussain.
Author of Our Brains, Ourselves.
The winner of the 2025 Royal Society Trevedi Science Book Prize.
Editor-in-Chief of Brain, one of the most respected journals in neurology.
Why ought the person right now pay attention to your finding?
That circuit we found in David that links the basal ganglia to the frontal lobes,
which, when damaged, leads to loss of motivation, apathy, that's a sense.
The same very circuit is the one that's been identified as the circuit that's hijacked by almost every drug of addiction.
Whether it's nicotine, alcohol, cocaine, heroin, amphetamines.
They work through this system.
So we thought, why don't we try a drug that affects the dopamine system?
Started him on that and slowly increased it.
David came back to see us three months later and I didn't recognize him.
This is incredible.
Exactly.
But the really interesting thing in the results we got was that...
This is why I love science.
I'm so excited to sit with you, and I'll tell you why.
Neuroscience, consciousness, performance, a better way of living by being more connected,
you've studied this deeply, and you've got some real research in science and lived experience
on how the intersection of those variables work.
So first and foremost, thank you for being here.
Thank you for inviting me.
Secondly, how do you describe your work?
Well, I do several kinds of work.
Probably first and foremost, I'm a neuroscience researcher,
and I work in humans,
and I work on how humans think, cognitive processes,
and how those thinking processes might go awry
because of brain diseases.
I'm a neurologist, that's what I study.
Secondly, I'm also a clinical neurologist
So, you know, I look after patients.
So I have to interact with people in a way which I think requires certain skills to, first
all, extract information that you need that might be helpful in understanding, what's
going wrong with somebody, and also thinking about treatments.
But in my other life, I'm also the editor-in-chief of a big journal called Brain.
We get about 100 new submissions, new papers every week that we have to look through.
and of those perhaps, you know, eight of them will make it into the journal.
And finally, I also have personal responsibilities.
I'm a father, husband, and a son.
So those things are really all important in terms of how they color your work.
You've got a full plate from what I can understand.
And one of the reasons I wanted to be able to sit with you is that you take those facets of your life seriously.
you are leading from the front and supporting from the back, if you will, in a world-class way.
And I fully thought that you would explain all of those variables that you just did.
And then you've done it rather humbly as well, meaning that you're doing it on the world stage.
You're doing it at a significant university as well.
And so let's start with the brain.
Let's start with consciousness, which is a hard problem in science.
considered one of the three hard problems in science. Why did you want to tackle consciousness?
Well, I wanted to see if we could tackle one part of consciousness. And we were particularly
interested in attention. And the relationship between attention and conscious awareness is
something that's quite controversial. But attention is something that we can measure.
Whereas consciousness is sometimes very difficult to measure. Of course, someone can be conscious
or they can be in a coma, unconscious.
But between those levels, between the highly conscious
and someone who is comatose,
it's much more difficult to measure states of consciousness.
So we were very keen to measure attention
and how that can go wrong in people with brain disorders.
And in particular, we started off looking at patients
who had suffered a stroke,
particularly of the right hemisphere,
that tends to give more problems,
with attention than strokes of the left hemisphere, which is usually a language-dominant hemisphere,
and looking at how we might be able to understand better the components of attention and conscious
awareness, because some people who have these strokes fail to be consciously aware of information
on the other side of space. So if you have a right parietal stroke, you may fail to be
aware of something on your left. And that could be in vision, in touch, but also in hearing. You may not
be consciously aware of someone speaking to you from the left. That could be as extreme as that.
But much of this, until the last 30 or 40 years, has been very descriptive, rather than analytical,
in terms of trying to deconstruct what is going wrong. And it turns out that loss of conscious
awareness on one side of space can be due to several different factors. It could be due to a process
we call loss of selective attention. It could be due to a process which we call a bias in where you start
orienting attention. Strangely enough, problems in attention can be very, very closely linked to
problems in what we call working memory, short-term memory. Because if you've forgotten where you've
looked, you may go back to a place you've been before. On the right,
side and not explore information on the left side. So to answer your question, the reason we got
into attention was that there are ways in which we can measure it in humans, and also we can correlate
that with what's happening in the brain, either through where the damage is in the brain, let's say after a stroke,
or if you have a healthy brain, we can put you into the MRI scanner and look at brain activity
when we're asking you to attend, let's say, to one or other side of space.
Why would somebody who is operating at a really high level in life?
They've got a sense of buoyancy about themselves.
They're leading and living in an aspirational way.
They're doing really well.
Why would that person benefit from understanding what you've come to understand
about attention and consciousness?
Yeah.
So although the work I've been describing is in people with brain damage,
actually has really important implications for healthy people.
We don't have this kind of problem because it's giving us insights into how attention works in you and me.
The brain has limited capacity.
It can't store everything that's coming at it, you know.
On a millisecond basis, our eyes are being stormed by visual information.
I'm wearing this shirt.
Every millisecond I'm getting a feeling from different parts of my body about this shirt,
Right? Most of this is not very useful or interesting. We need to have some mechanism by which we select which information is important to us and which isn't. So the brain has limited capacity, therefore we need a selection mechanism. Otherwise, you know, our storage systems would be overrun. So how do we do that? Well, it turns out that the brain has developed systems, including in the right parietal lobe, to do some of this selection.
How does a selection work?
It can be bottom up.
So if something is coming straight at you, let's say a football or something like that, you need to take action.
And that salient image of a football coming at you means that you need to take some action immediately.
On the other hand, you might have goal-directed attention.
You might have certain goals.
You're in a crowded railway station and you try to find your friend.
she's told you that she's going to be wearing a red coat.
So you can selectively filter out other people who are not wearing anything red
and just attend selectively to find which people are wearing a red coat.
So there's bottom up attention, football.
There's top down or goal-directed attention when you are selecting goals.
And then there's the issue about distractibility.
Right.
So it's perfect if the system is working.
okay, but sometimes we'll be distracted by other things.
It doesn't have to be as salient as a football.
Something else can distract us.
And it could be externally in the world, or it could be internally, a thought that comes
in your mind that's distracting you.
So that's why this work on selective attention turns out to be very interesting in telling
us how our brains normally operate.
And I've just mentioned selective attention, but there's also a system dedicated to
sustaining attention over time. If you look at a young child, they find it very hard to sustain
attention on a problem for more than a few seconds. They'll be off, they've drifted off somewhere else.
A brain system develops throughout childhood, young adulthood, which allows us to sustain attention.
It could be a problem that we're trying to solve. It could be something like, you know,
watching a TV program for an hour. That's quite a...
quite a thing for a brain to do, to just sustain attention over that period of time and extract
the information that's useful to it.
For folks that are wanting to be great in their life, selective attention is really
important. Where do I put my attention? And for how long do I attend in that direction?
And can I shift my attention to something new once I identify something maybe more salient
or important for that moment? So there's the shifting of attention.
there is the external internal distractibility and signal.
And one of the things that we would find very commonplace in the field of high-performance psychology
is understanding what hijacks attention.
And certainly the moment that we interpret threat or danger, there's another system in the brain
that is saying, hey, we should probably figure out how to survive this rather than thrive in it.
And so early kind of studies of sport psychology and performance psychology was, well, how do we work with those two systems?
Because to catch a football in a high-speed environment where you need to be accurate with catching it,
you need to put your attention completely focused on the tip of the ball and track that in all the way into your nose is what we would teach somebody that is in the NFL per se, in any league.
Developmental League or in the Elite League.
And at the same time, there's a 250-pound human that is running full speed at you
that is working to disrupt that and or tackle you or hit you.
And sometimes if you're unfit or are surprised by it, that can actually lead to an injury.
So it is very difficult to be able to know how to distract out physical real threat
and attuned to the one thing that you have decided matters more.
It's a very difficult process.
The same is true.
Let's go into the boardroom or an executive room,
is that there's a psychological position that you walk into a room with.
This is a really important meeting.
Let's say that's the orientation you have.
And now the body is readying for that level of importance.
So you've got this internal narrative,
you've got an internal physiological experience that is loud.
Both of those tend to be pretty loud.
And you've got one thing you need to attend to,
which is either your next eloquent stitching of a thought or the response from the person
you're speaking to.
So in both of those scenarios, pick whichever one is more interesting for you.
How would you help us, based on all of your research, operate better towards our honest
potential to be just a little bit more eloquent, a little bit better in what we're doing?
And you could pick either those examples and or the developmental path to get better
or in the actual moment, how do you navigate better?
And what you put your finger on here is a key part of attention that I haven't mentioned,
which is that things compete for your attention.
Because it's limited capacity, things compete.
So in a way, the best way to frame this perhaps is how do you suppress one thing
in terms of the value it has for your attention
and elevate something else that's your particular goal?
So if we're going to the NFL football player, how does he or she suppress the oncoming
200-pound jugger and heighten the attention given to this ball?
And I think it has to be practice, right?
There is no other way you're going to do this unless you train yourself that I'm not going
to attend to the distraction of this jaggernaut coming at me.
at the speed who is going to hit me,
I have got to deploy all my selective attention to that ball.
Otherwise, I'm going to miss it.
You know what's interesting is that, as you're saying this,
two things pop up for me.
One is there's an actual, let's call it brain profile for just a moment,
where if I peek out of my left peripheral vision
to see where that 200 and whatever pound juggernaut is,
and I peek and I look, and then I quickly come back to the ball.
that some brains can track.
And I know you're familiar with what I'm speaking about,
and I'd like for you to put it in your language,
but I can track how that,
based on that quick frame of reference,
how it's likely to progress.
Other brain profiles, they peak, they look,
and then they come back to the ball,
and it's as if they have completely lost the orientation of that object.
So when they catch the ball, Happy Days, this second profile, when they look back to where the defender is, it's like they're taking a new picture.
They don't know.
They haven't been able to run this parallel process of a prediction model of where that person might be.
Okay, pause here for a moment.
That person with that type of brain profile, once we understand it, we don't put them in a situation to have to fully flip their head.
to just focus on one thing and try to hold in their minds what might be happening,
meaning that the juggernaut coming after them.
We keep them looking at both at the same time.
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I think one of the important things here is the difference between what we call covert attention and overt attention.
And the terminology here in psychology, experimental psychology, has been that overt attention is what you normally
think of about paying attention. You move your eyes to the location that you're paying attention to.
But it turns out that you can unyoke where attention goes from where your gaze is.
I mean, we've all done this, right? We've gone to a party. We're talking to someone who is
boring the pants off you, and then somebody really interesting comes in through the door.
But because I'm British and I'm very polite, I'm going to keep looking at you, Mike,
boring as you are and keep talking to you. But actually I have unyoked my attention and I am
selectively paying attention without moving my eyes. Now it turns out there's a whole bunch of work
which shows that it can be done. It can be done really well and with training you can do that
even better. And that has really real implications for the problem on the field because every time you
move your eyes, your brain has to keep track of how much you move your eyes, right? If you don't move
your eyes from this location, it's much simpler to do the kind of calculations about what's
going on. So the takeaway there is you can decouple the two. You can. But for the executive or the
leader, it is much more preferable to stay tuned to where your eyes are because that is less expensive
to run that process.
Well, I mean, there may be analogous things
that we could talk about in the boardroom,
but it may not necessarily be an issue
about covert and overt attention.
There might be another problem here.
Boardrooms are highly covert.
I think some of the most honest rooms
that I've been a part of are locker rooms.
I think they're very honest.
Okay.
And then boardrooms, I think, are some of the most dishonest.
Why so?
I don't have that experience.
What's happened?
In locker rooms, if you drop the ball, if you show up late, if you are sloppy with your preparation, if you're underweight, overweight, or whatever, you get called out.
They walk around fully exposed to the force ranking stats of their position, both in the locker room and globally.
So it's like there's very little places to hide.
And when you get a group of alpha competitive humans that want to do something special, they know they can't do it alone.
So they need each other to be great.
and when somebody is not pulling their weight by choice, by choice, they get called out.
In boardrooms, there's all of these political covert, you know, side angles.
There's all this other stuff that is very sophisticated.
You have to be very sophisticated to be able to make it into a boardroom and sort out how to lead
and or sometimes survive in those boardrooms.
And there's some of the least honest environments that I've been part of.
Right.
It's interesting, but of course, some people read the room.
That's right.
We actually mean read the faces, right?
And sometimes, I mean, obviously people are good at some disguising their true emotions,
but where you look is one of the interesting aspects of where you're attending to and why are you looking there.
So describe an elite operator, somebody who is exceptional at what they do.
You might even call them masterful at any craft,
whether that is the craft of conversation or the craft of anything else.
How do they use their attention?
And if you haven't done original research or know the research,
I would love to get your very informed opinion about it.
Well, the bit I do know is about the fact that if you really want to engage somebody,
if you want to persuade somebody, you have to look them in the eye, right?
You don't try and do this in some sort of looking aside and all the rest of it.
So you have to really engage people by looking them in the eye.
That's a very important part of getting them on board.
And what are we doing here?
Saying, I value you so much.
I'm going to put all my attention, where my eyes are looking, on you, Michael.
That's why I'm going to try and persuade you that what I'm going to say is something really, really genuine and important.
And both of those things, I think, are really key here, genuine, because I'm looking you in the eye.
I can do that.
There's no other distraction.
I value you.
and this is really important.
I think there's two parts of that that are important to note.
One is the holding of the attention.
Why is that important?
Because I am now signaling to you that if there's a potential other threat,
that is less important than my connection with you.
We know that, that there's other threats in the world,
but I'm going to give you my attention.
Okay.
The second is that it has to have a alignment and intentionality behind it.
So when you take the gaze with the,
genuine intention. Now you got something because you've met people that they're looking at you,
but their intention is to intimidate or their intention is to get out of the conversation,
or they've got the thousand-yard stair where they're just not here because they're overwhelmed.
And to give your listeners and viewers some idea of this, it can be something as simple as having
a squint. Someone you might meet who has a squint, it's not their fault. Their eye is deviating.
The axes of the eyes are not aligned.
You find it difficult to read because one eye is looking one way and the other is slightly deviated.
It could be just five degrees away.
It's slightly difficult because you're not sure whether they're really paying attention to you and engaging with you.
Of course, people who have Strobismos deviation of the eyes, it's not therefore they have it.
They can be born with it or they can develop for other reasons.
I'm just saying it's an example of how difficult it can be.
to read people with that.
Why do some people look at the mouth when they're speaking versus eyes?
And why do some people not look at either of those things?
What did they look at?
Yeah.
Well, they may look at your forehead or, you know, the...
I've heard if, I don't know the research, you look at somebody's forehead,
it actually stresses the other person out.
I think that's, it doesn't feel natural, right?
Yeah, that's right.
And so humans are interested in communication,
and the most communicative parts of our faces are where we're looking, eyes,
we've just been talking about that and what are we doing with our lips and that could be even
when you're not talking that's right i'm interested to know what are you doing with your lips how's
that what are you signaling to me and the frontalis muscles yes which is the the the brow and the
space between the two eyes because if there's so much information that you know it's happening
there exactly am i safer is this a threat and we're effectively talking about where do i
selectively attend right on a face and if you're not trained in condition you will
go to a survival bias as opposed to an exceptional connection bias. In environments of consequence,
the brain is designed to sort out survival, move away from that threat more often, or go to it
aggressively to try to mitigate it. And so left untrained, our brains will do its job, which is to
figure out survival in a high stress environment. Sometimes connection to survival, but oftentimes
connection is a luxury that happens before and or after moments of high stress. I think our people,
our community at Finding Mastery are actively choosing high stress environments. They like it. They know
that stress is something that helps make, create, develop something special, including themselves.
And so they're operating in a high stress environments, but don't have the full set of skills to manage
that high stress. So acute stressors are amazing. If you know how to
to manage that acute stress. If not over time, it moves to chronic stress. So now you've got a
selective attention issue during a high stress brain versus a, let's call it moderate stress brain.
So can you talk a little bit about attention and stress? Right. So individuals vary enormously
how they respond to that situation. And you might say, well, what makes a difference between
someone who has to go and present to a CEO in a boardroom. It's a very stressful situation.
What makes the difference between someone who does that without being flustered, without getting
anxious versus someone who crumbles under those circumstances? And I think, of course, a lot of it
is about your previous experiences in stressful situations. Can you generalize from
other stressful situations. If you've been a footballer, can you do the same thing when you get into
a boardroom? So are there ways in which you can generalise? And are there the ways you've learnt
how to cope under those high levels of stress? Part of it is physiological, right? When you go into
a highly stressful environment, I can remember that as a child, your heart beat is racing. You feel
a little bit clammy, right?
You've got all these
autonomic physiological cues
telling you this is a highly stressful environment
because you've got
your adrenaline system
is high.
And that can have this impact
in terms of either choke or
winds in this sort of environment.
So I think one thing that makes a difference
is how you respond to those physiological cues.
Okay, let's call that part two.
Part one is
what determines a high stress environment.
Right, okay.
And I think we make it.
There are certainly some environments that it is biologically grooved
that for most people, when you're next to a cliff
and your toes are over the edge of the cliff,
you're supposed to be activated.
That's a survival mechanism.
But when you walk into a boardroom,
you have to make it stressful.
How about that as a provocative statement?
Meaning that there's some meaning making
that you carry into that environment
that turns on the adrenal adrenal system.
Yeah, I think there are two ways of looking at it.
So there are people who you have to engage here
because this is highly important.
You have to make that so, though.
That's right.
Meaning that you have to determine that this is important.
Yeah.
But there are other people who I think
can become very calm under those situations.
If they are able to say to themselves,
right, you've practiced presenting here
you know what you're going to do, you're going to give your best, that's all you can do, right?
I would call that a first principle of mastery, is to master the things that are 100% under our control
and speak to ourselves in alignment with that first principle.
It's really important.
And I think even when you speak to a nervous child, if you're a parent, right, one of the things you can say to them,
look, you've done your best, you've prepared for this.
It doesn't matter.
Go in there and do your stuff.
That's so important.
And if you can take that with you when you are older, you've done your stuff.
What if you have another competing idea, which is it does matter?
If I miss this moment, I will not get into the college I wanted to.
If I miss this moment, I won't get funded the way I hope.
Yeah, and this is back to our idea about this competition between what we're going to attend to, in this case, the thought.
Are we going to attend to the thought that we can do this?
Or are we going to tend to the thought, we're going to crumble here.
we're going to, and I think you have to learn how to do this.
It's not going to be something you're going to master once.
You have to do this.
And of course, one way to do that is practice.
Put yourself in that situation.
Yeah, I'm so aligned with the practicing because what you and I are talking about is
attending internally to your feelings, emotions, or thoughts.
Yeah.
And or externally, which is the unfolding environment around you.
and if you can shift between those two and choose the highest value and the shaping of that
attentional cue, meaning if I'm going to think a certain way, my highest value is thinking this way
versus that way.
And then you can train just that.
And you can also train like, ooh, I feel a little too activated.
My heart's beating.
I'm a little clammy that you mentioned.
Yeah.
Probably breathing might help here.
But you know what?
Hold on.
I'm actually in control of how I present myself.
So let me just give it my best.
Good.
Go in the blank.
So, okay, it's fun that we got onto this path.
This is actually probably slightly adjacent to what you study most.
Is that correct?
It is, yeah.
Okay, bring us home.
Bring us back home right into the center of your petri dish.
Right, yeah.
So my research team, we investigate attention, which we just discussed.
We investigate aspects of memory,
but perhaps the most exciting thing we're doing at the moment is looking at motivation, human motivation,
and how it can go wrong and lead to apathy, loss of motivation.
And the way we really got into this was about 15 years ago.
I'm a clinical neurologist.
At that time I was working at the National Hospital for Neurology in London,
and I get this letter which says,
I've got this young man in his 30s.
He's been a highly productive person.
He works in finance.
He is socially, absolutely charming, has lots of friends, but all of that has gone.
He no longer seems interested in his work.
He's lost all motivation, and he's no longer interested in connecting up with his friends who are worried about him.
I thought he was depressed.
I tried him on an antidepressant.
Nothing happened.
Can you help?
So this guy is called David, and he was incredibly difficult to get to see us, to get him to see us,
because he wasn't motivated to come.
So I had to phone him up and say, look, I'm intrigued by what's going on here.
Will you come tomorrow?
Because I will be here waiting for you.
So grudgingly, he turns up, and he's in a terrible state.
He is disheveled.
He hasn't been looking after himself.
He hasn't been taking a shower.
Turns out he got fired from his job because he'd lost motivation.
And he couldn't even be bothered to get Social Security benefits.
so you couldn't pay the rent.
This is terrifying, by the way.
It is terrifying.
And it was very, very instructive for us about how a person who was highly motivated could,
within days, suddenly become so apathetic.
So his friend said, OK, come and stay with us.
If you can't stay in the apartment because you can't pay the rent, come and stay with us.
And within a few days, they regretted it.
Because all David did all day was sit in a chair, do it.
nothing. So when I asked him, what would you normally do? Oh, I'd listen to some music. So why
aren't you doing that now? It would take me some time to put my music system together. How long would
it take? Five minutes. So for him, the effort, five minutes worth of effort, putting the cables
together for his music system, was not worth the reward of pleasure he might get from listening
to music. And he wasn't depressed. He had this condition we call pathological apathy. And the reason
he had it is that he suffered two tiny little strokes in the basal ganglia. These are really
important structures deep in the brain, which are evolutionally very, very well conserved.
If you look at the oldest vertebrate, it's a lamprey, it's an e-like creature. It's 360 million
years old. It's highly successful. It has basal ganglia, which link primary motivation cues like
hunger to action. So it turns out that system, the basal ganglia to the frontal lobe system,
has been preserved through evolution. It's in you and me. And the frontal lobe being responsible
for judgment and actions and decisions. Yeah. And of course, you know, in a couple of hours time,
you and I are also going to get an urge to find some food.
It's a motivational urge to act.
And we now realize that many of these motivational cues go through the basal ganglia to the frontal loat.
They're really important in the system for motivating us to act.
And there are not only primary motivators.
There are also, obviously, psychological motivators in you and me in terms of long-term goals.
What are we doing?
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was not motivating enough to make him act. Turned out to be really, really insightful because
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For somebody who has not had a stroke or has not lost all motivation, but does notice that
they are struggling from time to time, motivated, if you will, to do the thing that they know is
of highest value for the person they want to be or the project they're working on.
Yeah.
Why ought the person right now pay attention to your finding?
So a key part of what we learned here was that one really important component of motivation
is a calculation, if you will, of whether some particular action, the reward that would come
from that action is worth the effort.
And the effort could be physical effort, putting the cables together for the music system.
It could be cognitive effort, putting in hours of effort to analyze, read, extract information from a document.
It could be social effort, getting off your ass and getting to a party or whatever it is to meet people.
Going to the gym.
Going to the gym.
Investing in some AI new capabilities that are complicated and out of the rhythm of business.
Exactly.
And we all differ in how we evaluate, how we value certain things that we could do.
So, you know, it's a beautiful day out there.
There are 20 different things we could do.
But we can't do all of them.
We can only do one of them at a time.
So which one do we do?
Which one do you prioritize as your current goal?
Scroll on my phone.
Right.
Lowest possible choice of all the choices.
But in that case, what we're doing is saying,
scrolling my phone is more valuable and least effortful.
I'll do that because that's the one that seems to be easiest to prioritize.
Awful life choice.
Right, of course.
Yeah.
But, you know, we all differ in how we would put a value on all the potential things we could do against the effort required to do that.
And in David, that calculus was nothing is worth the effort.
Nothing pulled him to put in the effort.
He needed to be prompted to do things.
He needed to be prompted to have a shower, to eat, to help with the household.
Otherwise, he would just sit doing nothing.
So it turned out that for David, nothing was rewarding enough to incentivize him to act.
And because we know a lot about the basal ganglia, one thing that stood out for us was that
dopamine is the neurotransmitter, which is critical in motivating animals to act,
animals as well as humans.
So we thought, why don't we try a drug that affects the dopamine system?
and we used a drug that acts on dopamine receptors that is already out there that's used in
Parkinson's disease patients to treat them.
We started with L-dopa, L-dopa, lever doper, which is the drug you see in the film Awakening's,
that's what happened, and it did nothing.
So we were really despondent.
We thought, maybe this was not going to work.
So we thought before we completely lose hope with this, we'll try one other thing.
There's another drug which directly latches on to do.
dopamine, a specific type of dopamine receptor. And that's called repinerol. And we started him on that
and slowly increased it. And he came back to see us. David came back to see us three months later.
And I didn't recognize him. Because in the waiting room, there was a man who had had a haircut.
He had a suit on, told me that he got a new job. And most surprising of all, he had a new girlfriend.
he would never have seen anyone in the condition he was. So that was an extremely important lesson for
us that you could extinguish motivation in somebody who is highly productive, highly sociable,
but you could also restore it by using a drug that affects the dopamine system. And, you know,
there's a mythology that dopamine is really all about pleasure, the chemical pleasure.
Actually, most of the evidence suggests that it's about motivating people to act.
making them seek something that they would find rewarding.
But it doesn't necessarily give you that hedonic, pleasurable response.
I want to go two places.
One is the hedonic treadmill that people are concerned about and we talk about.
And related to that is what can we learn from your insight
on how we can live a little bit better in our own lives?
Okay, that's kind of one A, one B.
And two is, this is for the scientists amongst us,
is that how do we know that this process was better than placebo,
was better than some other intervention that was subtext that was unobserved?
Right.
You mean in David?
In David.
Okay, so let me take the second question first.
You like that one, huh?
Yeah, right.
Yeah, I can tell you about placebo.
Yeah, we ruled that thing out this way.
Okay, good.
Well, it's interesting because, as I said, he tried Leverdopa and it did nothing, right?
So it wasn't just some sort of drug that he thought this is going to do me some good.
That's why I'm better.
And it's also the case that we tried reducing the dose of the repinerol we used.
And his motivation began to lessen again.
So I think we have enough information there.
Those are good trials.
Yeah, that's good experimentation.
Yeah, you didn't give him a sugar pill to see what happened, though.
No, we did.
No, we did not.
Yeah.
I mean, we were just amazed.
It worked.
Yeah.
This is incredible.
This is incredible.
So that you can turn around someone's life by understanding the neuroscience.
You know what's cool about what I love about your process with David is that just like all of us, we would have said, oh, this looks like depression.
Right.
A severe case of a psychological disorder.
And it's been this way for, to meet major depressive disorder, it's a 15-day experience where somebody feels A, B, and C, you know, in symptomology, meaning that there's a lethargy, there's an overwhelmed feeling, there's a sadness that's filling the blanks.
And it's got to last for 15 days.
Usually it's somewhere around 30 before it starts to get like, okay.
And that was obviously the case.
But you found a biological solution for what looked like a psychological issue, but it was not
psychological.
It was a biological issue.
In this case, it was a biological cause, which created a psychological disruption.
But I think you've touched on a really important part here because what we've got into
is thinking what's a difference between apathy, which is what David had.
and depression, which many people are very familiar with,
and something else, which we call anhydonia, lack of pleasure.
Lack of pleasure.
Yeah.
So actually, this is a very rich area of research at the moment,
but one key difference between apathy and depression and anahdonia
is that patients who have pure apathy don't feel sad.
David wasn't sad.
He wasn't hopeless about the future,
which is something that people with depression,
may have. He just could not be bothered to do anything. You know, Aaron Beck, the psychologist, back
to his kind of early insights about depression, and I'm going to make it super simple, is that,
I think I suck. I think you kind of suck. I think the world kind of sucks. I think the future
sucks. It's like that idea that I, the future, and you and everything else involved in it are
lame. And he didn't have that. He didn't have that. Yeah. And also, if you get
him something like a meal, he could still have pleasure from eating that meal. So it wasn't
like he was an hedonic either. There was a dopamine expression during moments of temporary pleasure
like eating. Well, as I was saying before, the evidence doesn't suggest that dopamine gives you
that pleasurable experience. Actually, the evidence suggests these are opioid receptors in your brain
that give you the hedonic response of, let's say, enjoying this meal.
So I can hold both things together here, that dopamine, typically, that we first, when we first
learned about dopamine, I think you probably did in your early studies as well, is like, oh,
the pleasure chemical.
And then we started finding more motivation, more aligned with motivation.
Are you suggesting that it is actually not part of the pleasant tree or the pleasant circuitry,
but it is primarily or only for motivation?
Yeah, and it's a little bit more nuanced than that,
because some people like to separate what they call wanting
the motivation to seek something versus liking the enjoyment you have in the moment.
Okay.
So, you know, let's say you can be motivated to go to a restaurant, to have a great meal.
But when you go there, the experience of having a great meal is different from the motivation to go and have that meal.
So there's a difference between wanting, which is,
mediated by dopamine and liking, which seems to be mediated more by opioid neurotransmitters in the brain.
When a 20-year-old says, I no longer feel alive, and they rule out depression, and they just say,
I think I've had so much dopamine hits in my life. This is an unsophisticated way of saying it based on our conversation.
But I just have had so much stuff. I just feel a hedonic. I feel like I don't have.
pleasure anymore.
So I completely believe the 20-year-old in that they may not find pleasure in life.
What I don't think we can do is to say it's due to dopamine hits.
And what we can't also say, a lot of people say this, you need a dopamine detox, right?
The evidence for this stuff is really, really flaky.
And there's a whole industry out there telling you you're having dopamine hits and you need
to dopamine detox.
You know, it's not like dopamine is building up in your brain and somehow you need to
open the tap or something and let it out.
Yeah, I want to know what your recommendation would be for somebody who's doing this,
but I can see the crosswalk where maybe you can draw a clear line, dopamine and cocaine,
and then too much cocaine.
When people come off of cocaine, there is a deficit in their ability to feel pleasure again.
Yeah.
Right?
So that's a clear crosswalk, but can you walk me through how you think about it?
So it turns out, and this is really fascinating for us,
that circuit I was mentioning we found in David that links the basal ganglia to the frontal lobes,
which when damaged, in this case by strokes, leads to loss of motivation, apathy.
That same very circuit is the one that's been identified as the circuit that's hijacked by almost every drug of addiction.
So almost every drug of addiction, whether it's nicotine, alcohol, cocaine, heroin,
amphetamines, they work through this system. And if you will, the way to think about that
is they are overstimulating that dopamine production. What is the name of that highway?
It's called a frontostriatal circuitry. It goes from the ventral tegmental area to
ventral tegmental area to the ventral striatum and then loops into parts of the frontal
cortex, which loop back towards the ventral striatum.
Okay, and the ventral striatum is where the basal ganglia.
That's exactly the area that was taken out in David.
But it cannot be a coincidence that this circuitry, which we've identified as being so important in apathy,
is also the same circuitry that's been identified by addiction researchers.
I don't do any addiction research.
They have come to the same conclusion that this is the circuit that's hijacked by drugs of addiction.
How do you make sense of this?
I think it's fundamental neuroscience here.
We've got a primeval system which is important in motivating us to act.
If you take some of that out in the sense that by natural causes like a stroke, you may lose motivation to act.
We can restore it by giving you a drug that stimulates the dopamine system.
On the other hand, if your brain is intact and you take a drug of addiction, that may over-stimulate the dopamine system,
which hypermotivates you to action, to seek, to want that rewarding outcome.
Complex.
How do the healthy folks that are earnestly wanting to be better in their life find value from your insights?
So one of the things we did after studying David was to think, what about healthy individuals,
healthy young people?
And we picked students at the university, I work at Oxford.
And believe it or not, there are students there are students there.
there, many of whom are very apathetic.
Come on.
Yeah, true.
And people who are highly motivated.
It's the same in any major university.
You can be bright.
You can be cognitively a superstar, but you can still also be apathetic.
There's also, like, as you would recognize, there's a radical mental health crisis
taking place on university campuses right now across definitely the U.S.
where addiction, depression, anxiety, suicidality are on a rapid, scary rise.
And so I'm interested in what you're suggesting here because
we can separate maybe a lack of apathy or an increase in apathy from some of the mental disorders,
which is going to be an interesting nuance.
It's important, I think, yeah.
But so we took this range of students and we put them into the MRI scanner to look at brain activity,
and we ask them to make decisions.
We ask them to say whether this particular option is worth it for them.
We might give them an option of a certain amount of reward for a certain amount of physical effort required to achieve.
that reward. And we could look at this space of increasing rewards, increasing effort,
and see which of these options they were willing to work for. But all we were doing in the scanner
was asking them to make a decision. Do you think this option is worth it or not?
For example, make it concrete? Would you be willing to physically exert this much force in order to
get this much money? That would be the simplest way to put it. And what we found was that across all
these students, the brain areas which were active included the basal ganglia, the ventral striatum,
and parts of the frontal lobe when they're making the decision.
When they're actually making the decision.
Exactly.
But the really interesting thing in the results we got was that the students who were most apathetic
were the ones who showed the greatest activity in these regions.
Now, that was a real paradox for us, because we were expecting them to.
show less activation. They're the apathetic ones. You'd expect them to show less.
This is why I love science. Yeah. I mean, it's a completely surprising. Were you excited in that
moment or were you terrified that you were completely wrong in every assumption you've ever had?
We had to think long and hard and the way we've explained it. No, but I want to know your first
reaction. Oh yeah. No, I didn't know what to make of it. And then so in that moment where you had an
idea, you're fully expected that you're going to likely get something close to your original idea,
your hypothesis in this case. And it was completely different.
I want to know how you manage that.
Yeah, it was disappointing because scientists have these hypotheses,
and when they don't come true, you think, oh, did I get that completely wrong?
On the other hand, I could say to myself, hang on, you're being hard on yourself here.
Look, you have found the brain regions which are active when people are making the decisions.
And they align with what we know from patients like David.
It's the basal ganglia and the frontal lobes which are important when the brain.
people are making this decision about whether a particular behavior is worth the effort.
When I go to the gym or when I lace up my running shoes to go for a run, is it worth some sort of
later potential benefit?
Exactly.
And I put a lot of little asterisk in there.
And it's a very important psychological, neurological process to understand because
rewards that are not immediate when they're down the road are really important to figure out
how to invest in.
And so, or invest in the behaviors for the later reward.
Yeah.
That's what I want to get to with you is like, how do we, if somebody has an idea of who
they want to become or what they want to be able to do or, let's just say a weight loss
or weight gain or something as simple as that, and they feel apathetic, how do we help
that person?
Okay.
And maybe I could just finish this story off of the activity in the brain because it turns out
this is important for your question.
So how did we explain the fact that apathetic students should?
greater activity in these brain areas than the motivated ones.
And one way to think about it is actually for them, it's a bigger deal in terms of making this
decision. It's a bigger energetic cost for the brain to think, is this worth it or not?
So there's a bigger activation, if you want to call it that, that a bigger activation hill
that you have to get over in order to make that decision.
So they had to work harder?
They worked harder.
To make the decision.
To make the decision.
Yeah.
To do a thing.
Right.
But to potentially do a thing.
Yeah.
And of course, they might make this decision for us in the scanner.
We've bought them in specially.
We're asking for do this.
But at home, you might just think, oh, it's too hard to make this decision.
I just won't do anything.
I'll just be inert.
It's too hard to go to the gym because I don't know if it's worth the effort in the long term.
Who says it's going to be worth the effort?
Yeah.
And then you add some other type of belief systems in there.
which make it complicated.
Like people like me don't end up looking like people like that.
Exactly.
You know, like there's other belief systems that.
Which would bias how much you value this particular behavior, right?
Which behavior?
To go to the gym.
Yeah, okay.
Not even, but you're talking about the decision before the behavior.
That's right.
The decision to do this behavior, you know, we would suppose that you'd make that decision
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This is a source of frustration for me.
Highly motivated, highly successful person says, hey, I'd like to get some help.
I've got this idea of who I want to become and how I want to be able to operate in
environments of stress.
Great.
So we sit down.
We have a conversation.
So tell me what you're doing to invest in your psychology, you know, to be a little bit
better.
And I go, oh, you know, I do this, that, or the other.
And I say, oh, okay, well, what about this or that, a new set of processes?
Like, let's say meditation as a simple one.
And the research is astounding.
It's been around 2,600 years.
My internal experience with it is phenomenal.
and it's quite boring.
Okay.
And it actually can be quite overwhelming because you go explore places within yourself that are
the dark recesses in the corners of your own psychology and the things that, you know,
like are left unexamined for a reason.
Okay.
So it can be hard in that case.
And it's also sustained attention over time is a difficult thing to manage,
as we've already spoken about.
And they go, ah, yeah.
Well, what else do you have?
And I say, well, I actually think this is the unlock for you.
I think that this is worth an experiment to run.
Let's do it for, what do you say, seven days and just kind of see if there's anything there.
Full knowing that seven days, you're not going to have this new way of operating in life.
Okay.
And then the person comes back, let's say seven days later and how to go.
And they say, ah, I didn't do it.
Now, you came in motivated to want to change.
You're very clear.
You're a highly successful person.
and then somebody that has traveled this path ahead of you has come back with a lantern
and handed you the lantern to say if you want to see the path a little bit more clearly,
here's how you hold the lantern.
So you need more than the lantern.
You need some other tools for this person.
Keep going.
Yeah.
So one of those is people find it very difficult unless they've actually got a plan for this week.
You said you do it seven times during the week.
Oh, I'll get right down to let's schedule it.
Right. Let's putting your calendar.
When are you going to do it?
Yeah.
And we are going to say that actually, even if you don't feel like doing it, start,
you will find that if you start, you might get the motivation to continue, right?
And perhaps the other thing to think about it.
Wait a minute.
Wait a minute.
This is an old adage in locker rooms, you know, like I don't always feel like lifting.
Yeah.
But you know what?
Once I go to the gym afterwards, I feel better.
Okay.
So you're saying the real work, the heaviest bar, or the heaviest lift is lifting the door.
What does that say?
Getting over the activation barrier.
Yeah.
Okay.
So what you're saying is that you have to make a fundamental commitment to do the thing.
Initiate.
To initiate anything.
Yeah.
And then once you're in the slipstream of doing that activity, the dopamine system.
It could have been important in getting you to initiate.
But let's say, no, let's say it's not.
Let's say that system is not part of the initiation piece.
you are actually making a decision.
Then when you're engaged in the gym or the yoga or the meditation or whatever, it might be the run,
then the dopamine system kicks on or no?
We're also getting evidence that it's really important for persevering
in sustaining your motivation in a task.
But it's important initiating.
Okay.
Motivated to initiate the action.
It's important for persevering.
What happens when I initiate?
You have gotten over the problem we were talking about, the activation hill in terms of how much energy you're going to put into this.
And how do I override that calculation?
Right.
So we could make that activation hills smaller.
That's another thing we could do, right?
So I don't know how long you're asking them to meditate.
But maybe we could say...
Let's say six breaths.
Right.
Well, that's doable.
That's doable, right?
Okay. But we want to get then to somewhere between 8 to 20 minutes.
Right. But then we could break it down into, it's not going to be the same every day.
Do the six breaths.
So I'm super clear on the small chunks to initiate.
What is happening neurologically that you're resting on to say that that is a best practice?
Oh, because we are getting that information from the idea that I mentioned at the beginning is that people make a calculation about whether this behavior is rewarding enough.
is rewarding enough to make it put in the effort for this, right?
And so if you make the effort smaller,
maybe this behavior is worth it.
That's what I'm saying.
That's it.
Super crisp, very clear.
And so the job to start anything is to start small,
to lower the height of the perceived mountain.
Exactly.
Okay, so take one step as opposed to, you know,
try to climb the whole thing.
Now, stay here for a minute.
I'm going to share a bias I have,
which is, wait, you said you want this.
Okay, now do you mean it?
You want to be artistic in high stress environments.
You want to be eloquent in the way, how agile you are and how clear you are.
You say you want that, yeah.
And now I've got to say, listen, all I want you to do is three breaths because I'm going to start you off crawling.
Why not just say, look, the answer is quite simple.
I think it's 20 minutes a day for the rest of your life.
say just one meditation.
So here's my bias.
Wait a minute.
We're talking to an adult.
And this adult says,
and they're already high performing.
And this is a total bias I have.
I maybe have like 10 clients a year now.
Okay,
so I don't have that many clients anymore.
But when they come,
I say, you better come.
Strong.
Like, let's go.
So it's a little bit overwhelming at some points.
And maybe I'm blowing past
all of these really important small steps
that I need to go back to.
Right.
I mean, of course,
there are some people in whom you just say, this is what you need to do, they'll go away and do it.
But most people don't do that. And they have to, in a way, learn a new habit, right?
This is what you're almost teaching them to do. You're getting them to do something which is
unfamiliar to them, meditation, and maybe aversive, as you say, because it's something
you think you might then have these thoughts that take you to dark places that you don't want to go.
So there is a cost for meditation as well as a potential reward.
So it depends on your assessment of that person, right,
and how they're going to evaluate the costs and the benefits.
That's what we're talking about.
How do people in my position work with people that are aimotivational,
unlowly motivated?
Right.
So another thing we haven't talked about is what's the meaningful reward.
There you go.
Keep going.
I mean, because that is psychological purely.
That is really psychological.
Yeah.
So what is it that you're trying to get out of this?
And could we?
I want to be happy.
Right.
Okay, let's say.
Yeah.
Of course.
I want to be happy.
Of course you do, Mike.
Yeah.
And then you say, so you take my position, right?
So I say, I say, I just want to be happy in life.
I'm kind of struggling.
And you say, well, we all want to be happy.
But there are different routes to happiness, right?
So let's think about the route that would suit you.
Which way would you like to go?
What could we do?
that you would think you would enjoy and gets the most out of.
You put it back to the person to be able to figure out the first small step that they can take,
that they think will have the highest value.
So it is not quite what motivational interviewers do.
That's right.
But it's clear.
It's clear.
Yeah, right.
Yeah.
That you tell me what you think is a sensible thing to do here.
And for folks that are not familiar with motivational interviewing and or Rosarian therapy.
So you would.
just took a hybrid between Carl Rogers and motivational interviewing. Do you want to open up one of those
two or both? No, no, no, please. Yeah, motivational interviewing is basically, and Carl Rogers both assume
that you have the answers. And my job in this process is to help illuminate, unlock, explore what's
already inside of you by asking a set of questions and having an orientation that there's already the
answers inside of you. They don't come from me, from the high tower, whatever, they're already inside of you.
Yeah. And I think this thing.
about the roots to a solution.
The roots to a solution.
Because there are multiple roots.
And it's good to get somebody who you're looking, you know, trying to help to find
which are the roots they are most likely to actually engage with.
Because from a neuroscience standpoint, what you're doing is decreasing the perception
of the mountaintop.
Yeah.
So that they'll actually take the first initiative to take a step.
And of course, there are other things you could do.
You know, there could be prompts, external cues.
to get you to do this?
What are some of your favorites?
It depends on the problem.
What about what?
Things you use.
Right.
Going to the gym, leave your trainers by the door.
That's a continuous signal to you.
For non-Britz, that means shoes.
Yeah, right?
Exactly.
Leave your gym bag or whatever by the door.
I mean, you know, I wrote a book and I had to motivate myself to get to the screen every day.
So I'd say, yeah, you got to get to the screen.
It's going to be at six o'clock.
But when I get to that screen, the documents open.
So that's my cue.
And what am I going to do?
It makes it easier for me.
I've got the chapter that I'm working on.
It's open on that chapter, the place I want to go.
It's not like I have to find it, all those kind of things.
So you would end your last session on the place that you want to be.
Yeah.
Yeah.
The book that I just wrote, I'll use my dissertation as a more simple example,
is that I made a commitment to write one page at least per day.
Same here.
Exactly what I did. You did one page per day.
One page per day. Sometimes six would come out. Yeah, exactly. And this is this thing. Start. Start.
One page. I could do one page.
I could do one page. I had the external prompts that the page is ready for you to get it.
So I was terrified that I would be an ABD, all but dissertation. I take all the coursework.
And that left of my devices. I've never heard of that too. A.B. Yeah. It's like 50% of
psychologists. Did you just call that failure?
Yes. Okay, good. So I was terrified of that. And so ABD, all but dissertation. You did your coursework. You did a nice job.
now you're left to your own devices to write your research, and now I'm in a cave by myself.
And so I was like, I could see me not finishing.
So I had to create out of fear, I had to create, not out of inspiration, but out of fear,
a mechanism to do at least one thing.
And I figured most dissertations are roughly 250, 350 pages, something like that.
Okay, so that would take me a year.
And if I could do one a day, I'm on my way.
Yeah.
And how long did it take you?
It was about 11 months.
to get there. Yeah, so it was a bit of a process. I wish I could have said to you six, but it wasn't that.
You know, yeah, I wish I could have said that. But yeah, so I deploy the same tactics that you're
you're suggesting now as well. So what else do you use in your life that you found to be useful?
Well, I mean, we just talked about this example of meditation, but often the kind of thing that people
want to solve have many components to them. And it can seem completely overwhelming, right?
in terms of how do I, how do I land this whole project?
It could be a year-long project and seems very, very overwhelming.
So one of those things is actually not necessarily say,
I'm just going to do a page a day,
but think of the components of this process and think,
I just let's do, my goal is to get this one thing done in two months.
Here's something that comes up a bunch in, in my profession right now,
is that a CEO or senior leader,
in an organization will say, I want to get this culture switched on.
I want to have something that is really special.
It's got, we're working from these values.
And if we could just kind of get our noses pointed in the same direction with this type of
spirit, we could really do something special.
Okay.
And then use your imagination.
Let's say there's 400 to 40,000 people in an organization.
Some of the organizations we work with have like 400,000.
It's huge.
How would you suggest that they go about?
chunking daily activities to be able to move closer towards that aspiration.
Yeah, and that's where management comes in, because that's what you can guide people with
and also reward them if they meet that target, right?
That's right.
That small chunk, not the whole thing, but you will get some positive response for doing this.
I'm not necessarily talking about financial incentive, because a lot of the work suggests
that it's not always financial incentives that are really most meaningful for employees.
They need to feel, to buy in to this culture.
And to do that, you have to make them feel like they're part of building that culture.
If they're just running the system for you, getting you from A to B,
you don't really feel as an employee that you are involved.
And that's one of the most important, powerful things you can have.
have in a team is that these people actually feel invested and involved in what's going on here.
At the beginning, a manager could give the goals, but they could be involved in also saying,
okay, the next goal should be this. Let's discuss it. What's our next goal? What can we achieve here?
Yeah, very cool. But I think they have to be involved. Okay. We haven't even talked about dementia.
We haven't talked about, you know, there's some real things that I still want to get to. Can we slide over to
dementia for just a moment? Of course, yeah. Yeah.
57 million people globally, you know, are potentially, this is, I think, research back in 2021.
It's larger now than at that point.
But there's a significant number of people that are struggling from dementia.
And this also terrifies me is to have a loved one, more so than for myself, but to have a loved one,
let's say be unable to access themselves, personality, memory,
general faculty. And it's like, you know, you get a glimpse of them if they're in the full
throes of dementia. And it's a very complex, difficult, relational bit to manage. It's overwhelming
for most folks. So can you just talk a little bit about your understanding of dementia and maybe
some best practices for folks that are with it and maybe provide if there is some hope of research?
Right. So it's important to understand that dementia doesn't equal.
Alzheimer's disease because many people think Alzheimer's disease is dementia. There are actually over
200 causes of dementia. The big ones are Alzheimer's disease, vascular dementia or mixed
dementia, which involves both of those, louis body dementia, frontotemporal dementia. But there's a
whole list of causes, pathologies, which affect the brain circuits that might be devoted to memory,
motivation, attention, the things we've talked about. But this pathology varies according to what the
pathology is and it leads to cognitive decline. If that cognitive decline is severe enough that it's
affecting someone's everyday function, we call that dementia. So dementia is the behavior that one sees
from the pathologies in the brain which can range all the way from Alzheimer's disease to
vascular dementia to the rest of them. And obviously many people think also dementia is
something that just affects memory.
As I said, it can affect attention, it can affect motivation,
it can affect language, and importantly, it can also affect behavior.
People can change in their behavior.
And that's sometimes ignored at the beginning,
people just think they're changing a little bit,
that may be an early sign of dementia.
What types of behaviors?
It can be more irritable, aggressive, less interested,
apathetic.
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And patients are different. Each patient is different. Our treatments are relatively limited. There is really no cure in the way we'd like to think of it for dementia. But this is why neurology is such an amazing subject because we've worked out many things about the rest of the body, the heart, the lungs, the kidneys. But the brain is really the last frontier. And it's so difficult to get to because it's encased in a skull. We can't do the things that we can more easily do in other organs.
And in terms of best practice, I think the key thing, not only for people who suffer from dementia,
but also the families and the friends around them, is education, actually understanding what's going wrong here.
And that's an important part because, you know, someone might be willing to think,
okay, my grandfather or my husband has problems with their memory.
But why isn't he helping me take out the trash or help around the house?
well it may be because he has developed apathy
because the processes which is leading to his dementia
is affecting those circuits we were talking about before
from the basal ganglia to the frontal lobes
there are behavioral things that can ward off dementia
maybe even prevent it in some cases if I'm provocative
and there are maybe behavioral things
that once somebody has dementia that you would recommend
and there maybe are therapeutic things
It's important to understand that because the other thing that many people do not appreciate is that you can have Alzheimer's disease but not have dementia.
There are many studies now which have looked at brains post-mortem and shown that perhaps 20 to 30% of people who have Alzheimer's pathology never got to a point where they had dementia.
So this speaks to your question about how can you stave off dementia.
These people were getting Alzheimer's disease, but they never got dementia.
List off a handful of things that if you want to prevent cognitive decline.
Yeah.
So there are physical things, exercise.
That's really key in all of this.
To oxygenate your system.
Well, it has many effects, maybe including oxygenation, but also blood pressure.
It sneaks up on you.
Hypertension sneaks up on you.
You need to keep that under control.
Blood sugar.
So people who are diabetic have a higher risk.
Yeah, or pre-diabetic, raise cholesterol, other vascular risk factors.
If you smoke, if you drink too much alcohol, that can make a difference.
For somebody that has early onset dementia, how would you think about slowing the progression?
Well, we don't have the evidence that the factors we've just discussed would slow down progression of dementia.
We just don't have that evidence.
It doesn't mean that it may not work, but we just don't have that evidence.
And of course, there may be other factors that we just haven't discovered yet.
But at the moment, there aren't many studies which really point to a lifestyle change that you could make once you've already developed dementia.
So take your research hat off for a minute.
If there was one to three things that you would say, oh, I would absolutely make sure I'm doing this.
What would those things be?
I think one would be physical exercise.
And that becomes more difficult because if you're withdrawn, the second is keeping up relations, having a social network, getting out of.
the house, that's the kind of thing you need to do.
So those two.
And so if you are a loved one of somebody that is on the slide of cognitive decline, that
you would say take a position to really coach them to be physically active, right?
And then take the initiative and the coaching to make sure that they stay socially engaged.
Yeah, those are the two really important things.
And if we can add in curiosity and sense of purpose, why not?
Why not?
And then what about sleep?
Of course, that can make a huge difference to cognitive function, even in health.
people who don't have dementia, but sleep is disrupted in many types of dementia.
So if there are ways in which this can be done, it's called improving your sleep hygiene,
and that might be behavioral changes you can make, or it may be related to drugs,
but in the first instance, thinking about other things you can do that might change the sleep hygiene.
For example, there's no point in going to bed early, but waking up several times during the night,
and having disrupted sleep.
In some ways, you'd be better off going to bed late
and having a good period of sleep for five hours
than 10 hours in bed, waking up five times overnight.
If a leader, somebody who is operating at a high level
in their profession, is turning to you for guidance
on how to be better, and they ask you about sleep.
What do you say to them about sleep?
You need to really give me the information
about your sleep pattern.
because that will help decide how we need to go in terms of what intervention needs to happen.
And it could just be behavioral.
There's a wonderful app called Sleepio,
and Sleepio has now gone through clinical trials in the UK,
and I think outside the UK,
it's now used by the national health system in the UK to try and improve sleep.
But in many ways, Sleepio is simple.
It extracts information from you about,
your sleep pattern. Subjective data. Subjective data, yeah. It doesn't have to be from where...
Self-report. Yeah, self-report. Then, if you like, prescribes you the intervention in terms of
what would be best for you, given what you've told sleepio. But other things are important,
like losing hearing that can make you socially isolated. And coming on to non-physical things,
loneliness, two other psychological factors are really important. Having a sense of
purpose in life as you age is really turns out to be a critical factor. A lot of the studies
suggest that. And purpose is also related. People that have a clear purpose, this is a bit of
interesting research. They even make more money. That's a wild finding. I mean, it's a wild
finding. And so purpose not only can help with connection. It can help with performance. You feel like
your identity is less on the line when you're in service of something greater than you. I think deeply
investing in purpose is one of those kind of outsized levers that create a whole cascade of
benefits. Yeah. And to put flesh on the bone, purpose means having goals that you are committed to,
that you are motivated to act on, right? A sense of curiosity turns out from the studies to be
really important that you don't shut down, you are open to new ideas, you're willing to think about
other. You might join a group, whatever it is, that takes you somewhere else that you've never been
in your thinking. It allows for not.
novel stimulation. Novel stimulation. And of course, it also means that your network of social
relationships might increase, which turns out to be a really important factor, because people
in whom social networks shrink, and that happens as we get older. We've retired, so we don't
see our colleagues so much. Our children are now far away. It's harder to see people. Our
friends may be reducing a number. So to keep that network of social relationships is very
important. So sense of purpose, curiosity, keeping up a social network. These three things are
really important as well as the physical things we talked about. I didn't know you're going to
talk about these, but we went out, this was maybe 18 months ago and identified what we thought
were the most important mindsets to be able to have and or develop to live well in the modern
world. We came up with five. Okay. You ready? And then we built a whole cascade. I don't think I've
ever even talked about this on the podcast. Then we built an entire set of training mechanisms,
courseware, if you will. We do that typically behind the paywall of enterprise companies,
but I think maybe we're going to launch it to, you know, individuals. But so we went after,
what does it take to develop a purpose mindset? What is your purpose and how do you activate that
on a daily basis? A curious mindset. Okay. Now, you didn't say this one, but I'm going to put the
word we did, relational mindset. So curious people actually have.
have more, they're more likable.
And so, you know, but how do you engage in relationships from a first principle standpoint?
The fourth mindset is optimistic.
And then the fifth mindset is agile.
So an agile mindset, so you can adjust to the shifting trade winds, relational, you're
more connected, optimistic.
You can see a bright future, purpose, that you're here for a reason.
And then, of course, being curious as a, as a mechanism for learning in this modern world.
So I think you would probably nod your head to say, yeah, those are good.
Yeah, they converge, don't they?
Yeah.
With what I was telling you about, the research in dementia and preventionary dementia.
And so let's go one more turn of the screw.
Okay, so we're talking about the brain.
We've hit dementia.
We've hit tension.
We've hit motivation a la apathy.
We've also talked about the building of habits and the importance of like chunking small
to get the initiation of action towards something greater.
When you think about consciousness, it's curious to me that,
The prevailing position is that from non-conscious matter emerges consciousness.
And I don't have a solution.
Okay, so you've spent way more time here than I have on it.
But it is curious to me that consciousness is an emergent property.
So you do take that position theoretically.
I think so.
And I think most neuroscientists would take that position too,
that it's an emergent feature of the activity,
of the brain. I find that to be so jarring to me. I know that that is the prevailing thought.
And I know that it's a hard problem in science. And I know that my knowledge, maybe you can offer
more light, is that nobody's actually solved that and can prove that it is an emergent
property. No. And you're right. It's actually called the hard problem of consciousness. And the really
hard problem of consciousness is explaining the experience we have of being conscious. So it's all
very well for neuroscientists to say, of course it's a brain. That's what's creating your conscious state.
But to explain the experience of consciousness is something that no one has really been able to do
with the tools we have. With the tools we have. Let's start with maybe just
in a pedestrian way describing consciousness.
It is this kind of invisible slippery thing that's hard to even describe.
Do you have a way that you like to describe consciousness?
Okay.
So I guess, you know, it means that you have to be awake, aware, and attentive.
These are things that I think are common to the conscious state.
But there are different levels of consciousness.
You know, you could be at different levels of awareness and paying attention
and being awake.
And being aware that you exist is a level of, the metacognitive, you know, consciousness,
if you will.
And so now we're into the problem of the self.
Yeah.
And that's where from non-conscious tissue, brain tissue, emerges consciousness.
And an idea of the self seems, you know what it seems like to me?
Okay.
I'm not asking to defend your position or whatever.
It's just, I'm just sharing my perspective.
Yeah.
working with an elite athletics for, you know, 25 so years, early on, and there's still a bias this way that drives me a bit nutty, okay?
Early on, the goal is to create high performance on a field or wherever the performance happens.
And so I think most people feel a little bit safer with the concrete world.
So they say, things you can touch, feel, see, right?
And so they say, let's help, where's the first bias?
Let's help our athletes be bigger, faster, stronger.
It's physical.
And then there's a big investment in that field and that discipline.
And now athletes are bigger, faster, stronger, great.
But when you create a bigger, faster, stronger athlete,
and you haven't upgraded their psychology or opened up the aperture for them to feel more free
in a high stress environment, they're bigger, faster, stronger in practice.
but then the psychology is not upgraded, which is the invisible world.
And we all recognize and not our head that that invisible world either chokes off the physical capabilities or opens up access to those physical capabilities.
But we're just now getting to the invisible world.
And so that's where I go with a hard problem of consciousness.
I think it makes perfect sense that we would start with the tangible and not start with the thing we can't see yet.
Right. I mean, it's also the case that we can't necessarily solve this problem with the
mechanisms, the tools we have at the moment to try and solve it.
Where does your imagination go to what those tools could be?
We would need to be looking at neurons at an individual level and looking at the activity
of those neurons, and we're talking about billions of them in the human brain and trying to
decode what the pattern of activity would be. Charles Sherrington, who's a famous physiologist
from Oxford from 100 years ago, called it the enchanted loom, this pattern of activity in the brain,
right? To try and to decode that pattern of activity and understand what it means in an individual,
let alone across individuals, is a task that we can't even comprehend doing at the moment.
We can do it in little organisms like worms. We can do it in fruit flies. Non-conscious.
Well, that's another question, because,
Some people would say that there is something called the minimally conscious self.
The minimally conscious self is something that experiences the world.
You know, I get pain if I put my hand into the fire.
Or has agency, I move my hand to pick up this glass.
And a worm would retract from heat.
It could do, right.
But it isn't what we would call a person.
And philosophers make sense of self.
Exactly.
Make this distinction that a person is a self-referral.
reflective, rational, and also therefore can be held responsible for their actions.
It is funny. You're citing the definition. And I always chuckle at the idea that we are rational
beings. And the reason I chuckle at that is because it's so irrational. 100%. Emotions run the show.
Reason does not run the show. Well, you know, philosophers come up with these definitions.
100%. So I respect the hard problem. I was just wondering if, you know, what part of your theoretical orientation as a position,
that the mind emerges from the brain.
What causes you pause there to say we might not have it right?
It's not just me.
There are lots of people.
So, you know, some people have said it's an illusion.
The idea that you have a self is a bit of an illusion.
Other people like Dan Dennett, famous American philosopher,
said that you're never going to find the self in the brain.
It doesn't exist in one place.
It's like the center of gravity.
You're never going to spot it.
Are you familiar with Donald Hoffman?
No, no.
Donald Hoffman has an interesting perspective that we are actually kind of our mind is basically
like a headset, a virtual reality headset, that there is a consciousness beyond what we can
understand and that virtual reality headset is creating, and he's using virtual reality loosely,
is creating the sense of self. And then in return creates a physical form to try to have
something tangible. But like it's a wild proposition as well.
Well, it's not that far from Dennis' view that we like stories.
We have a narrative of ourselves.
We have, he says, we're virtuoso novelists.
We write this story about ourselves.
So when someone says to me, tell me about yourself,
we tell them that story, which we think is a coherent body of facts that define ourselves.
But I don't think it's just a complete illusion.
And I don't think it's just the narrative that we say.
Because, you know, for me, the self is,
personal identity and it's social identity. The personal identity is the embodied self. I occupy a different
physical space to you. I occupy this body and I can have confidence that this physical body is occupied
by me over time because I've grown up with it. I've grown up with it getting bigger. I've grown up
aging. I have confidence that I occupy this body and that's part of myself and not yourself because to have a self,
there has to be others, right? How else are you going to define this? So there has to be this physical
embodied self, but that's not enough. We also need some kind of psychological continuity, this
experiential self, that I'm the person who experiences a pain if I put my hand in the fire.
I also have agency because when I move my hand, I can pick up this cup, right? So you have free will?
We'll come back to one minute because I think that physical embodiment,
and that psychological continuity over time
is what defines your personal identity of self.
But the other feature of this is social identity,
and that's how you link up to other people,
your affiliations with groups,
the connections you have with other people,
because that also defines who you are.
That's what's important.
And in terms of free will, your big question there,
is the controversy there is,
okay, we may think we have freedom
to make our decisions.
We made this choice.
But actually, we've grown up with experiences in the past
that bias are actions.
Wait a minute, you're a determinist.
Are you a determinist?
Of course I'm a determinist.
Oh, my God.
Yeah, of course you are,
because you believe,
or your logic has led you to understand
that if we could understand
all of the influences
that we've had in totality,
of course it would lead me to ask this question.
Yes. And I am determined.
But probabilistically, I mean, I wouldn't be able to say definitively that you're going to do this,
but the likelihood that Mike was going to do this is very high given what he's done before.
I'm a free will proponent and you are determinist.
You are a physicalist and I would be more of a spiritualist, I think, in our approaches.
But we're having a great conversation.
There's room for everyone.
Yeah, this is why it's the hard problem.
And I wish that in the U.S. Republicans and Democrats could have this type of conversation.
And I don't see it your way.
You don't see it my way.
Well, no, I do see it your way.
I just don't agree with you.
Yeah.
That's even better.
That is even better.
Yeah.
And so I think the interesting thing to try to unlock for humans is like independent of whether the mind emerges from the brain or we are determined or we have free will.
or there is another level of consciousness that we can't begin to understand
that has informed the shaping of our physical being or psychological and or our social essence.
What are you going to do about it?
While we're here, how do you make the most of this experience?
Right.
And I would love for you to take us home, based on your unique life experiences,
okay, based on your research in laboratories,
what do you hope we could understand about how to live a better life?
For me, the critical thing is that the self is not set in stone.
Your personal identity is not set in stone.
You can change.
That's the most important thing I think I've learned.
So you do have some will to change?
No.
Well, let's not get there.
I promise I won't interrupt.
Keep going, because I want to get to the insight.
Yeah.
So, I mean, my own story is I grew up in what is now called Bangladesh.
I moved to the United Kingdom at the age of five.
This is in the late 60s.
And then it was incredibly difficult for an immigrant to do anything,
to have any kind of ambition to achieve anything.
I remember that I decided I want to be a novelist.
And at the age of 10, I started to write this novel.
And I thought, actually, it's better to dictate novels than write them.
So I'll just use my dad's reel-to-reel tape recorder, and I'll dictate this novel, right?
So I started dictating this novel and played it back.
This voice comes out of this thing, and it sounds completely different from what I expected to be,
from the self I was expecting, because this guy has an accent from the Indian subcontinent that I'm listening to.
I'm going, wow, no wonder I don't fit in.
First of all, I'm brown, and secondly, I speak completely like.
like an alien. I've got to change. So the thing that I did is I started listening to the BBC
World Service. The voice you hear here is a product from the age of around 10 of listening
to the radio and getting a British accent. Can you slip back to that 10-year-old narrative?
I mean, it just felt very disorienting, growing up in a culture that you weren't familiar with,
and we were moving, you know, every few months from place to place.
Scary?
Not to scared, but you'd be, you know, you'd be called names on the street,
the things you wouldn't happen here.
Racism was rife.
In those days, for example, if you wanted to rent an apartment or something,
sometimes there'd be signs outside saying, you know,
no blacks, no browns, no Irish,
because it was just as bad to be Irish in the UK then.
But things changed, you know.
Although I felt alien at that time, by the age of 18,
Did you feel like an outsider?
Completely.
In fact, the book, Our Brains Ourselves, which I wrote,
originally had a title called Outsiders
because that's exactly what happens to people
who don't fit in, right?
And that's what I felt.
I felt I didn't fit in.
But by the age of 18, things had changed.
I even managed to become an undergraduate
at the University of Oxford.
I mean, come on.
How did you get to that?
I feel like we could have spent the last two hours
on just understanding your micro decisions to lead you to, from an outsider, from a underdog,
to somebody that went to one of the greatest institutions on the planet.
And you had to navigate so many microchoices to be able to do that.
Yeah, and it's difficult to remember all of those micro choices.
But one thing was clear in my mind is you have to have a goal to be excellent at what you do.
What does excellence mean to you?
Well, in those days it meant being top of the class.
Being the best?
Yeah.
Not your best?
Yeah.
As a child, I think you just think being the best, right?
But now I understand what you mean, which is, can I give my personal best and what I do?
And that's what I think I do now.
And I'm trying to do that in different domains of my work.
In my research, as a clinician, as the editor-in-chief of brain, and also as the author of a book.
I think I've got to give the best that I can.
Yeah, I think you're doing a pretty damn good job.
Very damn good job. Where do you feel like you don't belong still?
I am as establishment as they come in many ways in the UK.
And the thing that still surprises me is I can walk into a room and I'm still the only brown person in a room which is at the height of the decision-making tree.
And still think, yeah, okay, things have changed. They have changed enormously.
but it still feels like you're the only one.
How do you manage that privately?
Like what is that Tumblr that that observation goes through for you to...
I don't let that get to me.
I don't worry about it.
How do you do that?
Thought comes up, wow, no one looks quite like me or probably had the same spices in their food
growing up that I did.
And like, so then what do you do with it?
I've accommodated to it.
You know, I've had 60 years of doing this.
So I'm used to it.
So there's no...
wow, well, I offer something unique and I can't wait to share that uniqueness.
Or, you know what, boy, they're going to really look because there's probably a bias in here.
And you don't get involved.
I don't get involved in that.
I think I have great relationships with my colleagues.
And I don't think they are judging me on my skin color.
They're valuing me for what I have to offer them.
I've never felt since about the age of 18 that the doors have been shut to me because of that.
I think there is much more of a meritocracy in what I'm doing.
If you would have two dials on this dashboard of success,
and we're using that word loosely or excellence,
we're using those lords loosely right now.
And just let's keep it kind of geared towards academia for a minute.
Raw intelligence is one, and then effort is the other.
Okay, there's more dials.
Yeah.
Okay.
Where do you think you sit?
Obviously, you are above average in both.
Where do you think you sit in both of those?
10 out of 10 on both?
No, I think I have put more effort in.
I knew you were going to say that.
Why?
Because, like, why would you say my intelligence outstrips my effort?
You know, so, right?
You were determined to say that, weren't you?
All right, so, like.
So you knew what I was going to do.
Why did I ask?
Why did I even bother?
Yeah.
But, but, okay, so maybe ignore the bad question and get to, like, how do you flex high effort
consistently. I actually think it's developed into a habit with me. You know, people will say to me,
why on earth are you doing that now? Right? Because surely you've achieved all this thing.
What are you doing that for? It's because it's almost programmed into me because I've developed
this habit. If I'm going to do something, I will try and do it to the very best of what I can do.
This is what you meant about your excellence. But I also am very good at saying, no, I'm not going to do that.
because I have this thing, which I call the deathbed scenario.
When I'm on my deathbeds, I want to be able to look back on that thing and say,
that was worth it.
And if I don't think it's going to be worth it, and there's a choice about whether I do it or not,
I'll usually decline.
So that is a decision tree, if you will.
That's a fundamental primary decision tree.
And walk me through it one more time.
An invitation comes up to do something.
Could be exciting, could be amazing,
and you are holding what in mind to make that decision?
I'm thinking, if I was to reflect back when I'm dying on this invitation,
would I think that was really worth your time and effort?
Is that something that you could value?
You would think.
On your death, it's valuable enough to do.
And believe me, when you put it like this,
you really cut out the stuff that you don't need to do.
What haunts you?
in that decision-making process?
Oh, it doesn't haunt me, no.
I mean, I don't regret the things I say no to.
If anything, I might regret the things I say yes to.
Yeah, for me on the deathbed is that, you know,
I have struggled to find the right balance
between the people I love and the passion of my craft.
And that is the part that haunts me,
is that have I honored the promise to be a,
great spouse and a great father. And I try, listen, I try really hard to do both of those.
I know the amount of time that I put in on running a business, being an applied scientist,
like time under tension across both of those is unequal. And so that's the part that haunts
me. Like, how do I get this thing right? Do you have it right? Can you teach?
Getting, getting it right for people who want to do their best, they'll never get it right.
It's hard. It's not going to be hard. Yeah, it's really hard. You say it with a smile. Are you getting it right more often than not? I hope so. Yeah, me too. I do hope so. I hope that the eulogy moment that somebody gives, you know, for either of us, that they're actually, if they could be radically honest, most eulogies are so favorable. It's called the halo effect. It's kind of nauseating. Because when you really know somebody and you see somebody just say the positive things, it's like, come on.
So you want to say, he did try. He tried. He tried. He tried. He tried. He tried.
You know, morally sound, you know, boy, I'll tell you what, let me tell you the other side of him that you didn't get to see.
No, that comes at the wake afterwards.
Are you linear or curved?
Curved.
You didn't expect that, did you?
No, I did not, because your thinking is pretty linear.
You're a systems thinker that likes to drill down and you can go horizontal.
People are always full of surprises, Mike.
Yeah, are you a systems think so?
Yeah.
your systems thinker. Yeah, you are pretty well structured. But you also have that rare ability to be a
systems thinker and at the same time be intimate with the information or the person that you're with,
which makes for a relatively rare combination of the two. Well done on that. Thank you. Yeah. Could I share
a few insights that I've come to observe in the last two hours? Yeah. Is it two hours? Yeah. Are you sure?
you are open to ideas you are an explorer of understanding so there's a cognitive agility that you hold
and at the same time you do not abandon those ideas to be approved of or liked by another person
which there's a strength in that agility that is noticeable i do not sense an overwhelming
neuroticism about yourself right like there is not a neurotic
sense. Yeah, I hope not. Yeah. Well, somehow I think it's underneath most high achievers,
and I don't sense it from you. And so either you've addressed it or maybe it was never there,
but I think that you would be the outlier in that case. Are you the outlier? No, I think it was
there. Yeah, and you addressed it. Yeah, and it was probably anxiety more than anything.
Yeah, and I think that happened early because of this outsider feeling. That's right. Yeah,
and an uncertainty about who I am. And you address that anxiety,
and you addressed all of that in many ways probably.
But you went to the physical form for comfort.
You went to the things that you could tangible measure beating the appetite of,
I want to understand more.
You had a natural proclivity to understand complexity.
And so you felt at home when you could understand the physical world just a little bit better.
So you made up this idea that the consciousness comes from it.
I'm joking.
You also are naturally motivated.
Take out your neurochemistry for just a minute.
I don't think I need to shoulder tap you to do it.
work. I think you are internally and intrinsically motivated. You'll take the external. You'll take the
money, fame, attention, whatever. But that's not your primary driver, as I can tell. You likely enjoy the
kind of schedule that you have in your days, but you appreciate the looseness of a schedule.
And so I think you'd be hard to pin down. You would be hard to manage. You would be difficult to lead
in those respects.
And people love being around you because of your curiosity,
your nature to make somebody feel seen and understood
because it is what you deeply wanted your whole life.
So you're better practiced at seeing another person
than other people might appreciate.
And so people like working with you.
And again,
probably difficult to manage,
difficult to lead.
And I should probably call some of your closest colleagues
to confirm that because would they agree to that?
Or would they say no?
Oh, yeah, no.
I've caused trouble.
Yeah, yeah, right.
That's cool.
and how do you get in trouble?
Well, I've written these editorials,
which are really targeting the fact that our universities
are now becoming bureaucratic machines
instead of what they're supposed to be there for.
Yeah, so you push against the edges.
Definitely.
Yeah, that's very cool.
Look, I think that people would appreciate being part of your team
because you see a potential of what could be
and you hold a pretty clear standard of what it would take.
How do I know that about you?
is that your systems are quite clear in the way that you think.
And you've given lots of space and time for me to say some things that you're like,
I don't know about that.
Or like, hold on, can I finish the story?
Because we're going to get to it.
You know, I think that there's some general psychological observations
that would make for a really interesting understanding of why you are world-class of what you do.
Thank you very much.
I've never had anyone give me these.
In 30 seconds or less.
Yeah, I know, but that's pretty much on the ball for my part of thinking.
I appreciate you're in the world.
I think you make it better.
Oh, thank you.
Yeah, your writing and your exploratory nature of the self and coming from a physicalist
or a kind of embodied position here is refreshing for me.
So thank you.
And what do you hope that the listener will walk away with?
Well, I hope that will have been stimulated by this wide-ranging conversation where we've covered
how brains create selves, including how they attend, how they motivate us.
to act, how things can go wrong, such as in dementia, understanding that those brain systems
we're beginning to get a handle on in terms of the circuits involved in memory, attention,
motivation, and even potentially having treatments that can restore motivation to people who lose it,
I think it's a really fantastic time to be in neuroscience and neurology,
because discovering new ways to understand the brain,
but also to treat brain disorders.
What do most people get wrong about the brain?
I don't think they've got a really good idea of how the brain operates.
I'm not talking about neurons and synapses and neurotransmits,
but the fact that the brain leads to behavior and personality,
people just say he's just that way,
but it was for a reason he's just that way.
it was the brain he was born with, the genetics that he was born with, but also the experiences
that brain had as it grew up, the actions it took, the choices it made, the decisions it undertook
and all these things.
Do you separate the brain from the mind?
I don't.
Yeah.
This is where we depart.
It's okay.
I can accommodate you, Mike.
You know, it's going to be too simple, but the brain is like the hardware and the mind
as a software, it's way too simple. But I can accommodate you. Well done, mate. Thank you for a radical
commitment in application of solid science and being able to translate it so we can understand
it well. So thank you for that. Thanks. Thanks. I really enjoyed it. Thanks.
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